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I think your comment got deleted
/r/seduction02/10/22 03:51 AM
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That’s what I really want to do honestly. Me constantly trying to strive in this seduction shit really isn’t good for my mental and I’ve been trying to think of better route. A away to just let go of outcomes with women but still connecting with the one I find attractive and not stress about it
/r/seduction02/10/22 03:35 AM
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I hear ya man, I’ll try to not dwell so much in the meantime
/r/seduction02/10/22 03:27 AM
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😂 Ya but the feeling of constant regret and missed opportunities hurts like a bitch
/r/seduction02/10/22 03:12 AM
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Hell I’ve just now touched my 20s as of last Saturday
/r/seduction02/10/22 03:08 AM
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I hope so, this shit is getting annoying. I’ve done missed out on so many opportunities due to my ignorance.
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:51 AM
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Hmmm. Maybe I just got to learn to trust myself more than. Because I have no problem somewhat reading women. When I’m not involved in the equation. Like when a girl is talking to one of my friends. I can almost tell instantly if she if flirting or interested in my friend. Just by the way a girl purposely prolongs conversation with them, and etc. But whenever a girl talking to me I just assume she is being friendly that’s all.
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:47 AM
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😂😂😂 that could also by the issue because that sounds about right. I really am oblivious to women signs of interest. It’s probably just steams from low confidence or something idk honestly. I always tried to improve on reading women intention but never got better, and I miss out on a lot of opportunities cause of it and still do.
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:37 AM
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Why is that why is dating is so ass backwards man. I use to experimented with my own actions, and reaction with it comes to women. I saw it as a game of chess. Like how would this chick react if become cold towards her, or how would she acted if I texted her all day every. Or how would most girls react to a guy this is reactive, compare to a guy is more calm and collect. I ended up noticing girls seem to be more receptive when you really kinda of don’t pay them any attention or limited attention…
/r/seduction02/10/22 01:51 AM
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Preciate it most of the time when I do make a post or comment is this subreddit. It just me bantering about my experience, or to share my advice from similar experience’s other have had. I really don’t put much thought into it, or really care if most agree or disagree.
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:42 PM
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I know this post is going to be overlooked. Like most post similar to this subject. That why I didn’t really try to persuade, but rather just vent I guess. Because at the end of the day you can’t really persuade someone grow a pair. You can tell a guy with approach anxiety that he could potentially die tomorrow. But he is still going to most likely got go back into that loop of just searching for the magic pill to get rid of anxiety, and constantly consuming information from this subreddit that …
/r/seduction01/10/22 05:27 PM
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This guy 😂😂
/r/seduction30/09/22 07:25 PM
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That’s what a high value man is? I guess people just label pretty much anything nowadays. Because in my eyes I was already doing this freshman year of high school. Not even knowing it had a name. I read philosophy like stoicism(currently reading the discourses of epictetus) , Taoism, Buddhism, meditate. Learn how to budget money, cook, workout, cut down how much sugar and junk I ate. Constantly trying overcomes my fears and anxiety. The list goes on, and on. But I didn’t see it as being high val…
/r/seduction30/09/22 07:22 PM
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Agreed, although there are ways to increase your attractive by working out, clothes, or the unauthentic way through surgery. But that’s all to a certain degree. In the end you going to have to accept your physical appearance even after you workout, and etc. Because there is no point in fighting reality, and the truth. You are stuck in your body until you die.
/r/seduction30/09/22 04:25 PM
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Nah I’m not a fan of being arrogant. But one thing you are right about and I will not deny it. Is the current mentality I have is sort of “will you fuck me please”. I’d rather have the mentality “if we fuck we fuck, if we don’t we don’t oh well” and move on to the next. Instead of the “are we going fuck now or not”
/r/seduction30/09/22 02:31 AM
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I do, I have no issues sparking convo, and befriending women I don’t find attractive. In the process of me becoming more social with women In general. I notice my self dodging attractive women. So now I’m mainly nervous when trying to interact with them. Like today I met this new co worker I didn’t find her attractive, but I noticed she had an accent. Later on found out she moved to USA 2 years ago from Europe, and etc. just from having friendly banter with her.
/r/seduction30/09/22 02:07 AM
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Ye like I said bro they way I grew up fuck up how I perceive a lot of shit when it’s comes to women. which in return created thoughts that conflicted each other.
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:50 AM
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Nah I mean I use to believe pretty girls despise sex or just didn’t do it. But as I grew up I realize they have a dark side. They way I grew up really fuck with have perceive women.
/r/seduction30/09/22 01:17 AM
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I hate that saying “high value men” shit is stupid as shit, and you becoming a high value man is just so women can perceive you as high value. Which in the end you doing shit for there validation. I had a similar experience also in high school fucked like 3 girls in one week and lost my virginity. But the moment I got a girlfriend and this girl was desired by alot of guys in school and then we broke up after. I reverted back to my old ways of thinking. Maybe it might be different for me, or mayb…
/r/seduction29/09/22 10:33 PM
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Agreed I work on myself constantly I even have a folder in my notes titled “me”, and it’s just the ideal me I see myself as in future. The ideal behind this post was just to help me stop seeing them as some trophy pussy or some special being. When in reality the just won the genetic lotto. No doubt I’m still going to keeping trying to approach. And I don’t really expect the anxiety to go away. But I do expect my mentality towards them to changes for the better.
/r/seduction29/09/22 10:15 PM
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You missed the point I was making even knowing this still makes it hard not to put them on a pedestal, or subconsciously worse ship them like most guy including myself do. It’s like flirting, or playing fighting with your crush back in school. But then her ugly friend comes along and your whole demeanor changes and you sort of treat her differently, and you don’t perceive the ugly friend as “special”
/r/seduction29/09/22 10:06 PM
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Hopefully not but it’s better than seeing them as something better than me and my well being
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:29 PM
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Ok but I still won’t have sex with them tho. Because if I do that will just reinforce that trophy pussy mentality. But that can also help me realize that they like sex just as much as we do and there isn’t really a such thing as a good girl🤣😂🤣😂🤣
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:21 PM
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I had 2 tinder date before I uninstalled it here what I took away from it First tinder date we hung out twice, and I almost sealed the deal but didn’t the second date. But that’s beside the point. What I took away from it was literally was just be authentic, be you and only you, don’t try to force any outcomes. When conversing and you don’t have anything to talk about just enjoy the silence, and enjoy her presence. I remember the both times we hang out I put no effort into trying to have sex wit…
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:56 PM
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Nah I’m saying what making difficult for me adopt this mentality. And your comment and another comment helps me understand myself more
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:51 PM
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I already do, I don’t even get nervous around them anymore and it second nature greet and create small talk.
/r/seduction28/09/22 05:39 PM
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Ye I know I haven’t approaching enough women for sure, because I’m still working on my anxiety I get from approaching. I have cold approach before multiple times just not as much as I would like to. Plus it’s really hard especially when you’re by yourself going through your day to day life. But I know when I do manage to build more mental toughness for approaching women it can increase my odds. Even though I don’t like really saying it increase my odds, because ultimately I can’t control my odds…
/r/seduction28/09/22 05:34 PM
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Nah I just talk to them telepathically.
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:30 PM
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Ye the guy who has top comment help realize that I just have to accept. what I’m reaching for just isn’t in my power.
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:00 PM
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Ye a good margin of dating isn’t in your control, and but you can influence more result I guess. but I’d rather just be me, and just chill with girls. who like for more than rather than trying to influence outcomes with tactics, and other goofy shit.
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:54 PM
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Talk to women and realize most of dating is out of your control that what I read 🤷🏿‍♂️.
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:27 PM
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Preciate you for keeping it real, and understanding where I’m coming from. Not just throwing some half ass advice “like stop caring about sex, and have fun” when we are literally hardwired to do so. Hell if I’m being completely honest I don’t even think. I’ll even be able to sleep probably more than 70% of women I like. This isn’t coming from a place of insecurity either. It’s just the simple fact some chicks I click with some I don’t, some chicks are heavy on religion, and moral, and principle’…
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:08 PM
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why not? I don’t have abundance of women either like I use too it’s really hard to get. Especially since I’m not in high school anymore. Also what do you consider an abundance of women exactly. Is it just the option of having multiple women to choose from for sex, or a relationship. Or can a abundance of women can be consider platonic also.
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:14 PM
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Eat uh Frank🖕🏿
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:29 PM
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By realizing it will suck no matter how you see it. Whenever I’m about to do something outside my comfort zone I don’t sugar coat shit. I tell myself “this going to suck or may suck” because that facts. There’s a possibility for both bad, and good outcomes and you can’t do shit about it. Just the nervous feeling alone sucks by itself. You don’t have to be comfortable with the feeling in order to do what needs to be done. You can’t control fear, and you can’t just stop caring either. You have to …
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:21 AM
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Yup that’s exactly why I learn how to get rid of the need to constantly check, or even post on my social media accounts, and same go for old dating now
/r/seduction25/09/22 06:26 PM
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After the 3rd time of me reinstalling tinder I hung out with 2 girls. But that’s it, it was coo and all but it’s not worth the effort. I felt it literally deteriorating my damn brain, and it made me constantly check it, and subconsciously seek validation. So I’m keeping it uninstalled until I am content with social life with women without it.
/r/seduction25/09/22 06:20 PM
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💀
/r/seduction25/09/22 04:42 PM
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The Tinder/OLD advice you don’t want to hear: Stop using dating apps as a primary so delete it. Build up the habit of talking to women, and approaching women irl first. Then use dating apps as a secondary. That way you are not so deeply invested with it because you have life outside of dating apps
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:53 PM
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The word “socially retarded” always kills me 💀
/r/seduction22/09/22 09:18 PM
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Not me, I don’t measure my success with women based of sex or getting a relationship. Hell if anything it made realize how pointless this shit is. To take pride in fucking alot of women like it’s some type of trophy, or feeing some void with a gf thinking it would make me happy. I graduate from high school recently, and I drop that’s dumbass mindset. Me wanting to be good with girls again made realize something more meaningful and fulfilling. yes I’m still improving with women but by that I mean…
/r/seduction22/09/22 09:16 PM
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I think she likes you and she probably wants to “get busy” with you If I where you I would invite her over for a movie or go to her place for movies, and you guys cuddle, and etc. Then play a game in your head called hot or cold. Where you caress her try to escalate and see if her response to you is cold or Hot(Cold being don’t proceed, and hot being she allows it). This can also help you find their spots that turn them on if you pay attention to them. But that’s if you like her like that.
/r/seduction22/09/22 04:35 PM
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People focusing on the smallest detail about this post. Like cold approaching is everything when the main purpose is just chatting with women more. I rather use cold approach as a last resort to be honest, and try to make things as natural as possible like what his post is. I don’t get why people care so much about the smallest shit. It’s the same destination just a different route. Cold approach or not the guy still completed the mission 🤦🏿‍♂️
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:55 AM
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What you just said probably is the reason why I find talking to women such a drag sometimes. Maybe it’s because I’m only talking to them because they are eye candy. But deep down I don’t click with them enough to genuinely find them attractive. So Im stuck with tolerating (sorry for my harsh words) but a “basic bitch” in my eyes. Guess I got to really sit down and ask myself if I really find the girls I talk to attractive and what I like about them but not on a surface level.
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:59 PM
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Honestly I fucking hate texting but I have to tolerate it. Plus girls around my age like texting rather than hanging out.
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:54 AM
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For me no, it’s never ending conversation until we hang. I can’t just text them to hang that shit never works. I tried to let conversation die out by responding with one or two words. That allows them to leave me on “read” or “delivered”. I even told a girl I will talk to her later, and she just continued to text me for a month straight. Ideally though I want to limit the amount of attention I give them over the phone. Because most of times I ended up with just attention whores/pad pales which l…
/r/seduction20/09/22 09:45 PM
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I’m curious about this too dating apps fucking suck. Plus I don’t know how this dating stuff in the real world. Dating in high school was a different ball game. I’m 19 year old working on myself, and etc. But I don’t know where to begin improving on my dating life or just making female friends in general. Cold approaching is just too much for me at the moment.
/r/seduction20/09/22 12:57 AM
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Ye fuck that shit, lm not working for shit that’s exactly why I left her on delivered. It’s not worth it my eyes and it’s mentally exhausting. I’ll just ignore her.
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:50 PM
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I’ll just ignore her. Maybe I’ll hear from her a again, or maybe not oh well
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:40 PM
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Ight will do
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:37 PM
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Ye I think I’ll just ignore her. Because I was thinking what it will be like being her friend. How relatable was she, and etc and it’s pretty meh I would say. Not going to lie though I had a pretty strong feeling she was going to text me again though it was only a matter of time.
/r/seduction19/09/22 03:30 PM
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I mean obviously if she one day says “let’s fuck” or we ended up fucking then yeah that coo. But I’ll accept the friend zone IF I like being her friend. I’m not going to be some kind of dog waiting for a bone. I’m not being her friend with the hopes of fucking eventually, and as I talk to more women like. I will care less about fucking her also.
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:38 PM
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“Busy with other women” you make me laugh. I’ve been terrible with with women ever since I left my past relationship. But I understand what you are saying 💯 Plus when I had females friends I set boundaries with them. Like I don’t want to be the gay bestie who you tell your sex stories with, or don’t constantly annoy me by being clinging, and seeking attention give me space, and etc. Most understood where I was coming from, and some wanted to fuck me later on.
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:14 PM
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Part of me wouldn’t mind being friends with her. It’s not like I’m going to be friends with hope of fucking. She probably pretty cool as a friend also. Buy another part of me wants to be cold and reply with “it’s coo”. Then forget about her for good. I find it really difficult to really build a lifestyle where I’m busy all the time. With no time for girls even though I work full time, and have hobbies I do like a another full time job. But I still think about girls constantly.
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:05 PM
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I did…not anymore I want more female friends again tho
/r/seduction17/09/22 11:45 PM
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The way I see it is friend with a girl = how comfortable she is around you Once they are comfortable enough around you then you can spice it up a bit and show sexual interest, or try to go into a relationship with them Was friend with a girl for 3 year of high school. In 11th grade we became fwb
/r/seduction17/09/22 11:30 PM
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They are all different bro there is no perfect scheme.
/r/seduction17/09/22 11:26 PM
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Ok I’ll keep that in mind
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:39 PM
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Nah not really I use to dance when I was younger. But I stop doing it after I went into high school.
/r/seduction17/09/22 12:59 PM
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Shit I know one things for sure I wouldn’t be proud of myself for wasting my time scouting out malls, and grocery store just for sex or a relationship. I can’t really think of any other hobbies I want to be involved in though. Beside picking up a martial arts. I don’t like clubs because where I live the like to get shot up. But I do like parties but I don’t have friend who go to them or tell me about them. Most of my friends are flaky, or do drugs as a hobby, or are just skateboarding homies.
/r/seduction17/09/22 12:36 PM
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Thanks for clarifying I understand now, I just wanted to be clear with my thoughts on what you were talking. Because I’ve seen similar post in the past. About joining a hobby/club with decent amount of women but just as a ruse and for personal gains. Or actively going out my way to just to pick up women as a sport, like hovering around a mall or grocery store or some shit to try to pick up women.
/r/seduction17/09/22 12:01 PM
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Ye obviously I have self control of myself when you word it like that you make its seem like I cant control my own action lol. What I'm saying is what if I find a girl attractive, but I take your advice and become there friend instead. That would kind of suck on my end, because I become some orbiter whos only around her for my "personal gain" The only hobby I have as of right now is skateboarding and I love it. Although there aren't many females that isn't why I skateboard tho. Plus don't you th…
/r/seduction17/09/22 11:22 AM
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Gotcha, now the only tough part is trying keep things platonic with girls. Because me being a 19yo guy with a high sex drive it’s can be difficult sometimes to just see them as friends. Another thing to this might sounds so fucking stupid, and it may show how far gone I am with women. But how exactly do I become friends with them? Like getting a girl number, and hanging with her as a friend, and etc. What if she ends up thinking I like her, and she gets mad because she feels I’m just stringing h…
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:36 AM
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I think I’m going to delete it again even tho I’ve got dates with it. Because it’s just not good for me i can feel the effect’s
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:18 AM
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Can you clarify the last part a bit more about the Dual effect and how stupid the ideas about women are?
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:14 AM
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I have friends just flaky ones
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:10 AM
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That’s a big part of It I’ve been making small steps to overcome my approach anxiety tho
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:08 AM
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It’s mainly that I’ve developed a needy mindset with dating and want to ditch it. I can’t really say how big my city is, because I don’t really actively look for women. I kinda just run errands while I’m out, and about and a woman happens to catch my eye. Like today I was running to this grocery store I work at when I seen this cute red hair chick going in with her friend I didn’t do nothing tho
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:33 AM
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I don’t think I ever will be. Because if leave with mindset of “I’m not ready”. I still will be actively trying to improve my dating life just indirectly. I haven’t really thought that far ahead 😅. I guess I’ll chat with girls for the fun of it without the expectation of it going anywhere. Unless you have better advice Idk.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:18 AM
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