Eauxddeaux Archive

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3	Other then sex, there’s you get in a relationship that you cant get in a friendship. I’ll give you this, friendships are the form of relationship I trust the most, because (to me) they are the least transactional and conditional. Granted, I have unusually good friendships. Romantic relationships are very conditional and transactional, generally. They’re also wired to self-destruct if a level of trust or expectation is crossed. Even family relationships are less trustworthy than great friendships because there’s a level of obligation attached that muddies the incentives. That’s n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 01:02 PM
1	The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamy Is this supposed to be some kind of secret conspiracy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 09:33 PM
3	For most men, sex is better outside of a relationship It’s like one of these cliché sayings that you see as memes. “Choose your hard”. Single is hard. Relationships are hard. In my opinion, relationships are the preferable “hard”. At least there’s a theoretical chance of a lasting value, even if it’s difficult for me to believe. It works sometimes. There aren’t a lot of good outcomes with the long-term single life, but again, that depends on what you want. I think (and again, my opinion) if you happen to be a very self-centered and happy to be alon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 05:07 PM
4	For most men, sex is better outside of a relationship I’ve done it. I’ve been in several long-term monogamous relationships for many years. I’ve seen the birth, life and death of passion and love. I’m actually in a position where it’s hard to convince me that’s not inevitable. I very much understand the argument. And I’m somewhat nihilistic about lasting love, personally. However, being single for long stretches of time is not better. Single sex is a consolation prize, not the grand prize. Also, and this might be deviating from the point, but being…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 03:46 PM
4	For most men, sex is better outside of a relationship I can’t speak for “most men”, but in my experience, sex in a loving and committed relationship is vastly superior to sex as a single person. Not only is it more frequent, it signifies and embodies true intimacy and connection (or should). That’s something of substance. Single/dating sex can be exciting and new, but it’s often frightening and shallow. Those are empty emotional calories to me. In my opinion, relationship sex is like eating healthy. Single sex is getting what you can on the go. Yes…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/25 02:10 PM
2	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? I disagree, but considering your username, I won’t try to convince you. Agree to disagree	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 04:34 AM
6	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? It’s a flaw when you assume they’re all attracted to the same specific things, which aren’t you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 04:16 AM
8	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? I’m not trying to argue with you,man. Just control what you can control. Eat right, work out, be social, be friendly (but not a pushover), crack some jokes, take some dance classes, etc. Just take care of you. It’s all you can do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 12:57 AM
8	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? I’m just saying, keep your head up. Over examination of anything can take the magic away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 12:37 AM
18	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? The flaw in your view here is lumping all women into sharing the same narrow sliver of discernment in who they’re attracted to. There are lots of people. Lots of women, and lots of men. The variables are too vast to understand. Finding somebody you connect with isn’t about being somebody you aren’t. It’s about meeting people and being social. Most people aren’t attracted to most people. It’s rare, and that’s why mutual attraction is so exciting and fun. Don’t get fooled by pessimism and confirma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 12:20 AM
1	The Circle of Porn and Intimacy : Men watch porn because they can't get women Vs Men can't get women because they watch porn How about another angle? In this one, the guy can have sex, but sees sexual encounters with women as false and a vector of manipulation. Having no faith in lasting romantic relationships due to total disenfranchisement by long repeating experience, he treats porn as a tool to clear his head and scratch that itch, aiming to avoid being lead around by his desires like a donkey following a carrot on a string. The easy response to this is avoidance, and I won’t argue that, other than to say it’s too…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/25 01:01 PM
1	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment Here’s why this is not workable. The person who decides to not be as “generous” with their sexual availability is de facto “in charge” of the relationship. If the other person wants sex, or even sexual release they need to appease the other, and that won’t work. What you’re laying out is basically sexual communism. If each person could be reliably trusted to not be manipulative, maybe this could work, but that’s not how people are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 11:43 PM
1	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment So then, and correct me if I’m wrong, sexual gratification/release/pleasure in a monogamous relationship should exclusively happen when the two parters have mutually navigated and consented upon it happening together. Is that correct?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 10:56 PM
1	CMV: You should be your partner's ONLY source of sexual fulfillment First of all, what the hell is Homie Head? Secondly, this is nuts and delusionally egotistical. Are you willing to be “free use” for each other, without hesitation or protest, day or night, regardless of the circumstances? Because if not, this is a doomed plan. And even if you are, that’s bound to be terrible at some point also. Just set some boundaries you both agree on and give each other a little space. And if “homie head” is what it sounds like, and something you’re contending with, your rel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/24 09:26 PM
1	There are two ways of talking to women: 1) treating them as people and 2) treating them as people you want to have sex with Bean	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 03:13 PM
1	Would you date someone who is bisexual? I’d imagine that most straight women wouldn’t want to worry about the idea of other men being a temptation for their romantic partner as well as other women. That would be my main guess. Especially considering that it’s stereotypically easier and faster for gay male hookups to happen on a whim as compared to straight hookups. I think there are many other reasons a straight woman wouldn’t be interested in dating a bisexual man, but from a monogamous security/insecurity standpoint, I could see tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 05:34 AM
2	Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy. I’ve been saying it for years, this damn rap music is a problem!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/24 11:44 PM
1	Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choice Sad ≠ wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 02:07 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. In your mind, you are right. Go on with your bad self	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 06:35 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. Jesus. Ok, here’s your argument against mine. I said, “40-60% of men reproduce vs 80-90% of women” You said, “that’s not true. Here’s a 2019 US census that says thats wrong.” According to that, In 2019, in the ages of 40-50 in the US, 40-60% of men reproducing isn’t accurate. That does not disprove my point. That’s a sliver of male breeding behavior. That percentage would need to be factored into the whole, at which point it would fall to a lower number because 40-60% of men reproduce, world-wid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 05:38 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. You’re a troll	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 03:21 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. I've done more to try and work with and understand you than you have to work with and understand me. That's because I'm making a point that is relevant to the original post and your aim is to disagree with me. You aren't trying to do anything but view what I am saying as wrong, so there's no point in making rational arguments that require honest engagement because you're not here to do that. This is why speaking to you is a waste of time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 07:39 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. You have not been able to prove that wrong, on a worldwide scale outside of the year 2019	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 06:17 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. Where in your initial statement did you say the United States census in 2019 ages 40 to 50? This is hairsplitting, and you know it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 06:16 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. My initial statement was in reference to the world. You reworked it into the men of the 2019 census between the ages of 40-50. That’s the history of our non-conversation	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 05:33 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. My claim is obvious and easy to see, feel and understand. It’s apparent and true by the facts around you, as well as the historical record. You are the one insisting that things are a way they aren’t. And I’m fine letting you live that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 05:24 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. You’re not having a good faith debate. This is pointless. I’ve made my case, I have confidence in it. You’ve made yours, I disagree, and that’s that. Nothing I can say or show you will change your iron clad conviction, so we’re just gonna need to call it. Wishing you all the best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 04:38 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. You gave one source you’ve clung to like the wreckage of a ship. It doesn’t apply to the actual debate I’m having with you. You are building a narrative. You have consistently diverted and convoluted what I’m asking you to address. World wide stats. The world. Not the men in the United States by the age of 50. I’m just talking about why it’s more tilted toward the satisfaction of women in the area of sex and dating. It’s a supply and demand thing. You’re trying to say that doesn’t matter, and it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 04:32 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. I’m not pretending. That is the general world wide stat as I understand it. This is no false claim. It’s my position and you have failed to convince me otherwise	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 04:13 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. A quick Google, Bing & ChatGPT search. Where did you find your census data?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 04:04 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. From what I can see and search for, it looks like about 50% of the global population reproduces	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 03:25 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. As a stubborn person myself, I can appreciate your debate tactic of, “I’m right, and that’s just how it is. no arguments will move me” but it’s not going to work here. First of all, 5% might as well be nothing. So you’re still suggesting that it’s 1 to 1, men to women, meaning there is essentially no disparity between men and women in their reproduction rates, and that’s not real. It simply isn’t true. Secondly, you’re choosing age 40-50 on a specific census of the United States. Not everyone fi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 03:17 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. I’m only interested in these statistics if you are willing to engage in the conversation I posed to you about what they suggest as it relates to women. If this is true, and I’m willing to go dig through this stuff you linked. How do you account for the idea that that would suggest (strongly) that women, in that same bracket of age and time, would have a significantly higher birth rate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 11:39 AM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. This is false	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/24 09:25 AM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. I can’t understand why that’s impossible for you to fathom Most men are not worth having children with. I say that as a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 07:17 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. 40-60% is pretty squarely in the middle. It’s not a crazy stat. The point is that significantly less men reproduce as compared to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 06:05 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. Another exaggeration, but one that does not address the current argument	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 05:58 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. Then your census data is also irrelevant because it’s from the past. We are in time and what has led up to us now is relevant. Unless you’re saying that currently, as in the men and women who are alive now are the only ones we are counting. Could you please address what I asked you about the 70% of men relating to a higher percentage or women. Does that not show you the point I’m making here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 05:55 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. Here’s an article about the history of humanity in Smithsonian Magazine supporting the (difficult to refute) reality that we have far more female ancestors than male: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/through-history-more-women-have-reproduced-men-180952840/ Here is a collection of links (and discussions) as to the findings by Nancy Lebovitz from 2013 about the argument we are having now https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/differential-reproduction-for-men-and-women You can also just look ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 05:25 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. Address my question while I try to find something to refute an entire pdf of the 2019 census	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 05:08 PM
1	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. Ok, I’m referring to the humans in the world, first of all, and this is a very specific cherry picked piece of data that you chose to support a claim I can’t find anywhere else. 70% of men do not reproduce. That can’t be true by following this logic. I’d hope you would agree that more women reproduce than men. That seems fairly solid. So if the percentage of men who reproduce is 70% that implies that close to 100% of women do. Or even 80-90%. This math doesn’t work. I don’t think any reasonable …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 05:02 PM
2	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. Where do you get the number? The best I can find is 61% of men in the US in 2019 had children. That’s not world-wide	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 12:49 PM
0	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 10:21 AM
4	Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap. 80-90% of women reproduce. 40-60% of males reproduce. This is essentially why male sexlessness does not matter. It’s supply and demand. We can get all bogged down in whys and what-to-do’s but the numbers are just what they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 06:59 AM
1	Is it possible for men to be attracted to women who are 40 plus? I couldn’t agree more	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 05:22 AM
1	Is it possible for men to be attracted to women who are 40 plus? I’m sorry to be the one to introduce you to superficiality, and it’s common practice	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 04:02 AM
1	Is it possible for men to be attracted to women who are 40 plus? Im talking about putting that before the physical, which you won’t find a huge line of people opting for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 02:53 AM
2	Is it possible for men to be attracted to women who are 40 plus? We all age and looks fade, but that’s why it’s good to find a person you’re into on a personal level as well as a physically attracted to them way. It’s honestly MORE important to match as people who enjoy being around each other than it is to be physically attracted, but nobody wants to buy that, so I’m not trying to sell it. It just happens to be the truth. Point being, if you establish a good, solid, communicative and fun love with someone, the idea (and hopefully reality) can be that you jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 07:19 AM
1	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity That person is out there. I have no doubt, and hope that for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 06:19 AM
1	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity These are all emotional and biased points that aren’t relatable to the average truth. This isn’t to diminish your suffering, but the bulk of what you’re saying is not applicable to the general experience of most people. We (men and women) built civilization together. You are giving men the glory by accepting that as your truth. Live your life as you see fit. If you aren’t interested in sharing it with somebody, don’t. But your experience is not something that fits everyone else. Nor is theirs to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 06:13 AM
1	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity Humanity is cooperative. Yes, humans are violent and aggressive, but civil society mitigates and minimizes that. The fact that we are able to write text to each other in the comforts of our living spaces and bicker about this, all that exists under the umbrella of that reality. I did not say that there’s power in psychology. It’s a factor that should be brought into account if you’re trying to draw everything into a power dispute. That’s different. The “awe honey” back on your feet analogy doesn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 05:50 AM
5	Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex? The reason it’s seen as bad is because it goes against the silent agreement we’ve all made that says we don’t do that. In this shared reality, that’s tipping over the cart and that isn’t what people want or depend on as every day life. Leverages exist that keep the gears of this whole thing turning. Being able to pay for sex throws that out of whack, so we say it’s bad. That’s ultimately the reason. You can attach a lot of anecdotal, but true and undeniable reasons and examples to this, but ulti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 05:41 AM
0	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity Working to making money is not driving the market, it’s playing into, and creating the market. It’s also a cooperative and mutually beneficial endeavor within a partnership, but i’ll reiterate what I said in another comment because it applies to you also. Youre playing a power game. From what I can tell, you see (and if I’m wrong, tell me) masculine as more powerful and power being better. In the Foucault kind of way. Power shapes society and that’s all that’s really going on. This kind of think…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/24 05:27 AM
2	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity I’m sure that’s true. I’m happy for you both :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 04:40 PM
2	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity I’ll say the same thing to you about that, “Guns” is a silly and narrow answer to what I’m saying. Yeah, it helps balance things. It’s the reason the biggest meanest UFC fighter isn’t in charge of things, but the spectrum of violence in this world is much more complex than all that. Watching each other’s backs/protection extends beyond physical violence. Men can defend women against men in ways that are more effective in business and social situations too. And women do this for men also. To be l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 04:33 PM
3	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity Of course you think it sucks. It’s not what you want to believe, and you’re locked in. You’re very tilted toward thinking your belief about the nature of masculine and feminine as not only accurate but universally agreed upon, and it isn’t. Youre playing a power game. From what I can tell, you see (and if I’m wrong, tell me) masculine as more powerful and power being better. In the Foucault kind of way. Power shapes society and that’s all that’s really going on. This kind of thinking is interest…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 03:49 PM
1	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity Well, I’d start with the personal preference of not wanting to be masculine, and enjoying the idea of embracing her femininity. It might not seem good to you, but a lot of women do enjoy that. And when I say a lot, I’d guess that percentage is a majority. So if you give any credit to that individual choice, that’s one. On top of that, the same benefit a masculine man has in his life when matched with a feminine woman, a rounding of their personalities and perspectives. When you have a healthy ba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 06:11 AM
0	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity Again, I’ve got to ask what do you mean by offering? Specifically what I’m asking is, as in, offering an individual woman in a relationship, or offering in the larger societal sense?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 05:41 AM
5	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity You want an example of men offering nothing in what sense? To women, or just in general? Also, you can go back to the 1950s to see women doing most of the purchasing for households if you want, but it’s not limited to that at all. How much do you think things have shifted to where only recently this is happening? Do you think there are suddenly enough #girlbosses to flip the structure of capitalism? This is just how it is and has been	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 05:15 AM
4	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity Women have been driving the market for a lot longer than these perceived gender reversals. Men offering nothing is a bonkers stance. The “complaint” about women choosing single motherhood wouldn’t be a complaint if it were preferred. And I’d like to those stats. My guess is it’s a very small number of people actually choosing that path, relatively speaking	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 04:37 AM
-2	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity The simplest way to apply it to your myopic lens of capitalism is that women drive the market. Women do most of the purchasing, individually and for families. This is in no way based in being masculine. If anything it stems from a variety of feminine instincts. Femininity being a supportive role, in your estimation, dictates where the money this leading role of masculinity “brings home”, which isn’t by any means universally true. Also, as an anecdotal take, I am a straight man. As a straight man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 03:45 AM
3	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity Men and women, and in this context, let’s say feminine and masculine (which can apply to both) are not in competition, apart from within the individual perceptions of femininity and masculinity. If you want to be a masculine individual and see femininity as its opposite (which is your stance, but not a solid fact) then you’ll see it as a bad thing to be feminine, and vice versa, but that doesn’t extend beyond that. This is a series of false premises based on preconceived notions of what it means…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 02:40 AM
2	I have witnessed firsthand girls who previously wanted a guy badly but completely lost interest in him when they found out he was nice It’s worth reading	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 05:07 PM
4	I have witnessed firsthand girls who previously wanted a guy badly but completely lost interest in him when they found out he was nice For sure. That goes with any self-development/improvement stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 04:11 PM
7	I have witnessed firsthand girls who previously wanted a guy badly but completely lost interest in him when they found out he was nice There’s a confusion about what a Nice Guy is. A book called “No More Mr. Nice Guy” by Robert Glover explores that. It’s very much worth reading if you haven’t. Glover explains that there’s a Nice Guy Syndrome, which basically means men who people please and suppress their own wants and needs for others, hoping this will lead to happiness. It has the effect of making people (the nice guy and others) unhappy, confused and resentful. The book title is a little confusing and “triggering” because it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 03:16 PM
2	CMV: Women have it harder in dating Me too	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 06:48 PM
1	CMV: Women have it harder in dating Let’s take a weird case as an example. Grizzly Man, the documentary following Timothy Treadwell who went out into the wilderness and lived with Grizzly Bears for 13 seasons and eventually was killed and eaten by bears. He also had a girlfriend with him. She died too. Also by bear. As far as dating being difficult and dangerous, this is a super strange case, obviously, but who would you blame that woman’s death on? The bears were just being bears. Treadwell (as far as I know) didn’t drag her ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 06:44 PM
4	Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women. The commoditization of people is nothing new. We are each individual, unique and special human lives with hopes and dreams, and all the good and bad. We are also objects in this world that other people view as useful or not. Is this good? Depends on how you see it. Whether or not you’re seen as “high value” to people or a person you also see as worth the investment of your time and emotional energy. Even if you are, and you like that, you can always see the other level of none of that mattering.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/24 06:27 PM
2	Is it tougher being childfree? Are you honestly a 32 year old virgin with no relationships in your history? Because if so, this perspective aligns perfectly with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/24 05:51 AM
2	Why does it seem women are a little more pushy with marriage than men? Of course women have a shorter window (on average) of physical attractiveness than men. I dont think this is disputable by any honest person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 12:42 PM
2	Why does it seem women are a little more pushy with marriage than men? Is this meant to be sarcastic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 12:39 PM
1	"You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life? You can do all the things (exercise, practice gratitude, speak to a professional about the self defeating/dark patterns within your own mind you find confusing, learn an instrument, etc) and simply be discerning and critical enough to know whether or not its good or bad for you. You could trust yourself that way. It’s an option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 03:34 PM
1	"You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life? Take it from this person with a throwaway Reddit account. All therapy is useless. Hear that, traumatized war veterans? Do pull-ups and be grateful! Avoid loud noises and strobe lights too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 02:54 PM
1	"You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life? ‘Woke” and “bluepill” (as well as their opposites) are concepts based in a degree of psychological understanding. Youre just cherry-picking what you like and don’t like. Sure, there are people who float around trying to find forms of therapy that reinforce what they want to think, and that can and does happen, but confronting your own inner shit is pretty alpha, bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 02:31 PM
2	"You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life? This is like saying medicine is for cowards. There is very a wide definition and application to the concept of “therapy”. Totally dismissing it is just as goofy as expecting it to be a silver bullet for all your problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 12:40 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men Yeah. For the record, I don’t think either one is “better”. They’re just different	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 04:07 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men Most women can do this. Even if they don’t. That’s more honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 02:11 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men Your pain is your pain. However, comparing your concept of “alone” to the one described toward the most utterly alone of men is not equivalent. Being alone (in the sexual/companionship sense) due to a lack of desire or connection ≠ being alone due to having no actual options. This doesn’t mean you should be happy or whatever, you are just comparing different things and insisting they’re the same. They aren’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 02:09 PM
–	Men empathize with lonely women. Women are disgusted by lonely men There are many ways of seeing human dynamics. This is a very jaded and angry perspective, and that’s honestly what this sub should be called (talking to both sides here, btw). The way you framed this is understandable, but so is the idea that it’s easier for men, in the position you’re talking about to be magnanimous because most women don’t pose a physical threat to them. It’s true that women can wreak mental havoc on men often and easily, but most men are a genuine potential threat to the life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/23 04:26 PM
1	Men don’t care about love People care about love, and men are people. This is all you need to understand to change your view. The rest is about confronting your jaded perspective on the humans in the world. You haven’t met all the men, so you can’t be certain of this. And in no reality does the statement, “Men Don’t Care About Love” withstand honest scrutiny. This is you projecting what you negatively believe due to various degrees of disappointment and confirmation bias.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 02:33 PM
1	Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem. Hopefully we’ll get to a place of technological advancement where we can reproduce without having to interact. Everyone is so incredibly selfish and self-centered, and increasingly more-so, we deserve to get what we’re asking for. Experience that devils bargain. See how it actually feels. I’m so exhausted of the details of how much people don’t care about others and how it’s really about “me”, whatever the gender or orientation. We should be given the chance to exist without each other for a whi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 06:50 AM
5	What does TRP make of the fact that so many women selflessly take care of their Ill and disabled husbands? I don’t know much about the details of TRP concepts, but if it actually says that, that is incredibly revealing of the psychology. It suggests that they’re expecting unconditional love from a romantic partner, which is (in my opinion) only the kind of love you might get from a mother, and that speaks volumes about what is all goofed up with that thinking	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 01:44 PM
2	What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'? Because often times people don’t appreciate a quality monogamous relationship until they understand, by experience, that the novelty and variety of casual sex is not as fulfilling. If you’ve only ever had steak then you don’t know if you like burgers more, and vice versa. Follow up question, are you genuinely confused by this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 04:02 AM
1	If monogamy is unnatural why is there a 1:1 sex ratio? 40% of men reproduce. 80% of women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 09:43 PM
1	Is the birth decline really only women's fault? I think a big part of the birth decline is the generations who raised the people of child having ages didn’t do a good job explaining or showing that being a parent and having kids is kind of what it’s all about. I think they dropped the ball on explaining/showing that having a family is important and valuable. That the idea of you being the center of your world and your source of purpose gets boring and meaningless, eventually, unless you’re a full blown sociopathic narcissist. They complained …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 04:48 AM
1	If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment? This changes nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 12:18 AM
1	If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment? Maybe the happy women with families are out being happy and not taking surveys	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/23 12:05 AM
1	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. I hardly think you (or I, for that matter) speak for the vast majority of anyone, but to each their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 12:17 PM
1	I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself. Women often emotionally and mentally mature faster than men. Due to this they (younger women) can frequently be disappointed and frustrated in the conversations and emotional connections with men their age. There are plenty of other reasons people can find each other attractive, but this is just one example to counter your “little to offer” stance. Pleasant company is valuable to a lot of people	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 04:21 AM
–	There are no benefits to having kids as a women The premise of this argument is bonkers. It’s written as though time could be frozen in your current moment and that there is nothing greater than superficial gratification at your present age, looks and status in life. Time moves on. People have families. Your friends will do this. Your contemporary family members will do this. As a person without a family you are more alone as you age, these are realities. As another person more succinctly worded it, then don’t have kids, but if you’re actuall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 10:52 PM
3	What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating? Things change. People change. The best thing you can do is start something as honest as possible, but things will change regardless. Don’t cling to an idea of what things are supposed to be, try to roll together and do your best to avoid codependency. Read the Missing Piece Meets The Big O by Shel Silverstein. That should be required reading for an education in human relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 10:29 PM
2	Why are women often bothered by male attention, but men absolutely love female attention? Supply and demand	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 09:50 PM
–	Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a man I prefer Fuck Man	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 07:30 PM
1	If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractive You’re overthinking all of this. You need to be more social and be willing to learn about individual women. Drop the know-it-all attitude and just experience people. That, combined with you clearly being an intelligent person, can attract a woman. But you’ve got to not think of them as in league with each other as some cohesive force which is plotting against you, or your “team”. All that shit is only kind of real as a feature of conversation here. When the rubber meets the road it’s all about c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 02:42 PM
0	I don’t understand the notion about men waiting until their thirties to be successful financially as well as at their “peak” and then date women in their upper teens or early twenties who are in their “peak” A lot of dating and relationships just work out the way they work out. I don’t know that I’ve ever met anybody who has said they have a target age that goes against some kind of ingrained sense of what feels appropriate to them and the other person	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/23 10:57 PM
1	You can choose who you're attracted to I am in the 90%	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 02:05 AM
4	Why don’t short man and tall woman date each other Mutual insecurities	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 09:11 PM
1	Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage? Things change. People change. If a healthy sex life is a priority to both people and the communication is strong and frequent, that’s the best chance of that aspect staying alive. Without work those things wither. Personally, I think a lot of relationships deteriorate because people don’t want to view them as ongoing practices they need to maintain, but rather some magical thing that is either effortlessly ideal or fundamentally flawed. This isn’t only a woman/wife thing by any means. Plenty of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 02:25 AM
2	Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men? This feels like a wild thing to be confused about, first of all. I can only speak for myself, but the first thoughts that come to my mind are women patiently choose of the men that approach and try to have/be intimate with them. They often have their pick of many options, in contrast to most men, who attempt with many women and wait to be “allowed” by them. If I am with a woman in a relationship, I feel pride that she has picked me of the many men she could have chosen to be with. I did the same…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 05:48 AM
8	Women are taking revenge against all men because what a minority of powerful men did Avoid those people then. Or have fun with your Fight Club, I guess? I still say be the best you you can be. Obviously that is subjective, but I’ll also add that resentment is unattractive, as well as being a bottomless pit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 04:35 PM
31	Women are taking revenge against all men because what a minority of powerful men did Women are not an organized unit. Neither are men. We’re all individuals trying to figure it out. The best thing you can do is to be the best person you can be and look for others doing the same. All of this is less personal than you’re making it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/22 03:55 PM
2	What would happen if men and women exchange their situations in dating ? The hypothetical would need to be biologically based to make sense. Meaning sperm become rare and eggs become abundant. If it happened suddenly there would be weird chaos, but if it had always been that way it would simply be the same dynamic we have now, only inverted, in my opinion. There might be some weirdness in the physical strength department. Maybe women would have evolved to be stronger than men over time to serve the same purposes. I think it would just reverse our concepts of what mas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/22 08:22 PM
2	What would you teach your children about the opposite sex? One of the most important things I’ve ever read	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 09:20 PM
2	What would you teach your children about the opposite sex? You have to be a whole person and find another whole person. You can’t be something for somebody else or vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 09:18 PM
2	What would you teach your children about the opposite sex? M42 I would have my kid, boy or girl, read “the missing piece meets the big o” by Shel Silverstein I wish I would’ve read that when I was younger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 09:16 PM
2	Question for men and woman: why dont you use Instagram as a dating app? Correct. All of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 05:09 PM
1	Why are you interested in a relationship/sex? I’m trying to see if you have traits of psychopathy or autism. Not intended as an insult, btw	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 09:00 AM
1	Why are you interested in a relationship/sex? Does the happiness of others bring you happiness?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/22 03:54 AM
2	Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens? I realize that unavoidably this is going to seem like I am continuing to try to have sex with you, there’s nothing I can do about that, but I sincerely do hope the best for you. I swear to God I’m not trying to have sex with you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 01:55 PM
1	Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens? Again, I am very sorry that you’ve had such negative interactions with men. That is very unfortunate. and having heard your perspective on this, as a man, there is no circumstance that I would ever have sex with you. Even if you were begging me. I don’t care if you’re the most beautiful woman on the planet. I hope that gives you some sense of relief	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 01:49 PM
4	Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens? I’m sorry you’ve had such negative interactions with men. By the way, this is not me trying to sleep with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 10:45 AM
1	Are women really more shallow than men, or do they just get called out more for it? We’re both equally shallow in our own special ways. Neither side is better or worse than the other	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 04:02 PM
9	"In women, we find no such effect."... Generally speaking, more people want to “spend time” with single women than with single men. So it would make sense that across the board there should be a curving toward loneliness (or aloneness without much choice in the matter) having a greater impact on men at large. Especially in the aftermath of a breakup when lowered confidence can be factored in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 01:27 AM
50	What is the psychology of women who lust after serial killers? Wish I could credit the comedian, but I remember her saying, “women like men who make plans and follow through with them”	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/21 03:52 PM
1	Do you want to be loved for your abilities, accomplishments, and achievements by someone you're dating? As well as your body, like it or not	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/20 07:26 AM
4	Opinion on the prospect of futuristic sex robots People dismiss or celebrate the idea of sex robots based on their own need or lack there of for them. There are good and bad sides to everything. As for the people who enjoy and are successful at playing the game of sexual human interaction, sex robots are just a new variable in that. If you tend to be superficial and shallow about your sexual behavior, they will aid in that. The opposite is also possible. You can be even more selective about who and why you are with people with these new option…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/20 04:53 PM
1	I’m just going to ask the hard question—why are men mad at women for having standards? I think the simple answer is porn	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/20 03:51 PM
2	CMV: Men don't really love women for who they are I think what you’re saying is coming from a jaded place, but to play with your POV, I’ll say that if any of this is right i’d adjust it to this, “men don’t care about a woman’s achievements”. That might hold some stereotypical water. In the same sense that “women don’t care about a man’s personality or hobbies”, however they do care about a man’s achievements. This adjustment on my part is an effort to tighten up the judgmental, broad strokes of dealing with the shallowness of our attraction for…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/20 04:44 AM