EbonyProgrammer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"My neighbors hate me" People say dumb shit when they are anxious, "After tonight they'll hate me too", all you had to say.	/r/seduction	10/02/22 12:55 AM
3	Do anyone else see being a male cockblocking friend a dick move? Get confrontational, might lose the girl but the 'friend' won't do shit like that again, he's doing it now because he knows you don't know how to react to it.	/r/seduction	27/01/22 07:18 PM
4	[deleted by user] Talking about an ex is fine, venting about one to your new boo, is not. Don't be naive. I mean would you vent to her about your ex at this point? Don't let the other commentors gaslight you OP, if the roles were switched and a girl asked Reddit why a guy was ranting about his ex they'd have a much different response. Also a red flag that you glossed over, she still has him followed on Instagram, still looks at his stories, I would bet my left nut she tries to talk to him on Instagram too. She's …	/r/seduction	20/01/22 09:40 PM
2	Am I bad if I just want sex? Generally women/men will ask you what you are looking for, then you tell them "something casual" or "nothing serious right now", don't bring it up unless asked, don't put it in your dating profile but don't lie about it. If they never ask but assume you are looking for something long term, that's on them, you don't owe them a long term relationship because of a couple dates, the same way they don't owe you sex because of a couple dates. Most people would be down for casual sex with the right per…	/r/seduction	19/01/22 11:10 PM
–	Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statistics Dating in metropolitan areas is almost always gonna be easier than dating in small towns, there's more people in Metropolitan areas, more options. You don't have to travel out the country just travel to a city with a decent male/female ratio in your favor	/r/seduction	01/12/21 04:46 PM
–	Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statistics Oh stop your bitching, travel when you have more money, asian chicks tend to love white guys, youll be fine	/r/seduction	01/12/21 04:39 PM
3	Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statistics Lmaoo I'm weak I didn't realize I added an extra n, lil wild that adding one letter could change the meaning of a word that much, gonna keep it tho for giggles	/r/seduction	01/12/21 04:02 PM
–	Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statistics Black guy in NYC, mostly attract black girls, hispanic girls, and a very small amount of white girls. I havent dated any other demographics, other demographics generally don't pursue me and I generally don't pursue them. I like black/hispanic chicks the most anesthetically speaking cause I'm an ass man 🧐(although this depends on the girl too). Aside from location, I also think it has a lot to do with who you put most energy into pursuing, I have a friend who is obsessed with white chicks and onl…	/r/seduction	01/12/21 02:55 PM
1	I really fucked up fellas. I feel terrible. Everyone's hating on you but you actually did the right thing, let me explain, this girl did not take you seriously long term and never would. She also doesn't seem like girlfriend material, I mean she's chasing after a married man and brings her dog to your house so that it could wait outside while you fuck her. She tried to use you as an emotional pillow and you showed her why she can't. Cut your losses, believe me if you were supportive she would've gotten very annoying very fast.	/r/seduction	26/11/21 03:25 PM
2	[deleted by user] Things are never equal between two different people but if they were, you'd want the older one, more established in life, generally more money(don't say you don't care, because when you finance all your dates you def will, it takes a toll), generally more mature with more mature friends(a girls friends can break or make your relationship fr). But honestly its too early to choose, have sex with both, pick the one you like best after that, sex changes things, see which one stresses you out less.	/r/seduction	17/11/21 09:48 PM
3	[deleted by user] Lmao dude don't jump to conclusions before you learn to walk to them, meet them in person, see what the vibe is, some people look good in photos and bad in person, some people look good in person and bad in photos, also there's nothing wrong with juggling them both as long as you are safe and you have not promised exclusivity to either of them yet. For all you know they could be juggling you with other guys. All things equal tho I would go with the older one, a 20 year old usually is gonna be at…	/r/seduction	17/11/21 09:30 PM
5	Cute guy at gym: Will he ever notice me? Okay so I agreed with you at first, the average guy prolly wouldn't be creeped out by the average woman following him, but then you tried to make it like something is wrong with the guy if the average guy was creeped out by the average woman, now youre just some asshole simp lord	/r/seduction	17/11/21 08:56 PM
1	My boyfriend is very busy - how do I STFU about it? Engineer here, engineering school is absolutely no joke, it's very likely OP doesn't know or isn't aware of the many hours you put in outside the classroom to perfect your craft, afterwards tho, the job hunt is hard if it's your first so he'll be even more busy during that, then after he gets the job he'll likely chill out.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/21 05:38 PM
1	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Why? What do you think you'll gain from that?	/r/seduction	19/10/21 12:46 PM
1	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Even having one girl around takes a lot of time out of your day, women tend to live on their phones in their 20s if she likes you enough to have sex with you on a regular schedule she will likely text you, a lot, if you have multiple girls you're dating running around that problem is multiplied, you'll fall behind on your career/fitness goals, will have to deal with bullshit highschool level drama between friend groups you don't care about, and not to mention the insane anxiety you'd get wheneve…	/r/seduction	19/10/21 12:44 PM
1	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Not worth the stress man	/r/seduction	19/10/21 12:37 PM
5	Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret? Why the hell would you want to sleep with that many women, do y'all think stds are a joke...	/r/seduction	19/10/21 11:15 AM
13	What did I do wrong? You over extended, end convos before they start to dry out so they don't get tired of you too easily. Finish the rest via text or snap or w.e	/r/seduction	08/10/21 12:24 PM
7	I don't think height is as important of a factor as people say it is here. Height is very important to a lot of women, you haven't noticed because you're somewhat tall and never had to worry about it.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 09:58 PM
2	[deleted by user] Lol bro if she's comfortable coming over your place to "study" alone with you, you got a decent chance that she likes you, we need to stop pretending girls are all innocent flowers with no game. She doesn't need "YOU" to quiz her for her exam bro she has other friends that could do it, she likely wants to fuck you buddy. Atleast at the time when she asked you to help her. Start off doing what you said you were gonna do, study, then take a break, ask her what she wants to watch and lay on the cha…	/r/seduction	01/10/21 06:40 PM
9	[deleted by user] Go ahead and meet up with her, see how far you can progress things, if it doesn't work out, don't do it again. Also when she says she's talking to her ex she means she's fucking him(which doesn't mean she's off the table, he's her ex for a reason😏), so she prolly isn't gonna be as thirsty for sex as you are. Keep that in mind. I personally think she's keeping you on the back burner for when her ex screws up again. But I don't know this girl, go on the play date.	/r/seduction	30/09/21 02:24 AM
3	Anyone ever date a bartender? Don't fall in fall in love with a bartender, you will get your feelings hurt.	/r/seduction	30/09/21 02:05 AM
1	[deleted by user] She's talking to other guys and you are lower priority out of them for her right now, she might reach out but don't wait for it, talk to other girls.	/r/seduction	30/09/21 01:50 AM
4	Should I flash my neighbor today I feel like that's not a scalable solution, she can't just flash every guy she wants to have sex with its a bad habit to start, it doesn't build the right type of confidence in my opinion, but I never dated as a female so maybe there are different more subtle rules I am not aware of.	/r/seduction	28/09/21 01:22 AM
5	Should I flash my neighbor today I'm not gonna assume the story is make believe like the other posters, but don't go flashing the guy, that isn't going to help your shyness like you think it will. What will help tho is shooting your shot and asking him to come over sometime for movie night or if that's too forward for you asking him on a date.	/r/seduction	28/09/21 12:51 AM
13	How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward? We dislike your post because you made it seem like sex is always a service offered by women to men, instead of it being a healthy part of life that should be enjoyed by both parties involved. It's not about her giving up her body. Healthy relationships gotta be 50/50, even if she was having sex with him, this situation wouldn't be fair. It's just that most men have such low standards they will literally pay women for the opportunity to please women. She needs to pay for her own shit. And ofcours…	/r/seduction	21/09/21 05:44 PM
–	How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward? Sorry OP but if she's not looking for anything serious and she isn't fucking you, she's fucking someone else, she likely doesn't want to bring you to her place because she doesn't want you seeing the "Evidence" that she had other guys over. I know she might be nice and you might not want to hurt her feelings, but stop taking her on dates, if you have a date planned, cancel it, say you just aren't feeling it. I think most guys know how it feels to be strung along by someone they liked. We all bee…	/r/seduction	21/09/21 05:33 PM
0	How to be confident when dick size crushes self-esteem? My dick size is about 7inches and even I feel small about it when I watch porn. But if the girl youre with is worth her weight, shed make you feel like Goliath even when you have more in common with David. Don't get me wrong dick size matters, but at 5inches, what matters more is the person the dick is attached to for most girls. During sex the same way you want her to feel in that instant, that she's the only person you want, she should want to make you feel like you're the only thing person wa…	/r/seduction	14/09/21 06:26 PM
9	[deleted by user] Bro she's very likely not going to want a serious relationship with someone who could be her son, casual could be possible tho. Compliment her in a way that makes her feel youthful and sexy again if you end up going on a date. The general technique for bagging women and keeping them interested is giving them a unique good feeling that they don't get often. For some guys, the unique feeling they can offer is the feeling of enjoying a breeze on an expensive trip, for other guys it's the feeling of…	/r/seduction	03/09/21 04:32 PM
2	CMV: When it comes to hook ups & casual sex, height > face. With equal confidence average tall guy is hooking up more than short hot guy. If the tall guy is also hot chances for short guy are even worse Okay yes, we went over that. Less height might mean less opportunities, but It doesn't mean no opportunities. Gotta find something about yourself that you can develop to the point where girls can say to their friends "Yea he's a lil short but [Insert good quality here]". And if a taller guy has that good quality as well, then that just means you have to work a lot harder to overcompensate for it.	/r/seduction	31/08/21 12:56 AM
1	CMV: When it comes to hook ups & casual sex, height > face. With equal confidence average tall guy is hooking up more than short hot guy. If the tall guy is also hot chances for short guy are even worse I see what you are saying and it's probably true, girls do love height, anyone who says otherwise or try to say the height obsessed girls an exception are either dumb or lying. But I don't see the point of crying about it. Is your goal to be average? Money, reputation, charisma, there are a ton of ways to get women, why focus so much on the aspects of it that you have so little control over? This subreddit is about the art of seduction, not the art of bitching about having a hard time seducing.	/r/seduction	31/08/21 12:48 AM
1	Need advice on how learn pick up for beginner! Lol no, do not follow that persons advice, don't compliment girls appearances when first talking to them. Makes you seem shallow and thirsty. Also it doesn't give her space to follow up, most people are awkward when accepting compliments from strangers. Even if they like them. She's probably not stupid, she knows you are talking to her because you find something about her attractive. Comment on something that would be a good convo starter, I was in a cafe next to a girl and she was having a hard…	/r/seduction	22/08/21 03:05 PM
2	Lessons from 15 years of learning seduction: How to be attractive. Maybe you should do a patreon for your book, it sounds interesting. I would donate for a hardcover copy.	/r/seduction	21/08/21 09:51 PM