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Usually the man ahah
/r/askTRP15/11/18 12:36 AM
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I'm a dj, i'm a very social person. I have a lot of friends, i think i go out more than i go home. I know and talk with near everybody at my gym, and in other place where i go. On average i think ill go 4/5 days a week on various type of place. On average im going out on 9 and coming back at 3/4. I meet a lot of woman, i talk with a lot of woman, trust me its not the issue. In fact i have a lot of possibility, im kinda frustated by that. I think the problem is my look in particular my height / f…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 09:32 AM
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I was meaning someone male
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 09:25 AM
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I was talking about some friend. My friend genuely tell me my good point and bad point (height, personality ecc). I find that i receive a lot of compliment about my personality, i think theyre true. Also this friends are the girlfriend of my friend so there not of course orbiting issues or similiar. I agree on the rest of your comment by the way, the dont know what attract them and so on. The problem is that height and good look its important to them and if you havent you are gonna have very big…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 08:04 AM
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Dude wait. Im not saying that its all done and that im not trying. I had girlfriend, i fucked. This wednesday im going out with a girl. Im just saying that face/height its a huge problem. We have to make double the effort to be noticeable and in the most cases its useless. I just want to end the endless discussion about how you need to be confident and bla bla. Of course you need to be confident ecc but if you are short and / or ugly you probably gonna fail based on that. Thing that you cant con…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 07:59 AM
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Illegal in italy cause of the taxi driver. Its a long story.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:44 AM
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Not listening to woman applies also when they say that theyre not attracted to you or that theyre gonna on a date with you "as a friend"? Or we dont listen to them only when they say good things about us?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 07:40 AM
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Thank you! Surely ill try it!
/r/askTRP13/11/18 07:00 AM
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I already have two (big house) and thats where my money for basic expenses like tax on house, gas, electricity and so on comes I just need something for food, car and so on, in the meantime that i produce music and recover myself
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:36 AM
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Yeah i mean that i can cover all the expense from my house. This include tax, electricity, gas and so on. Just not enough money for eat or my car etc ahah
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:26 AM
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totally agree on the second part, i admit that. i will try with all my energy to not talk about that or be insecure about that. but i have to say that i asked her out the first time and she makes a exscuse. then i nexted her, casually i saw her and she asked me to go to dinner. then she changed in going to drink something this wednesday
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:01 AM
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my "fear" is to see as the "friendzoned guy" that is trying with her but she doesnt like me. if shes playing with me i want to know, i dont like go out on a date with someone that play with me and waste my time. Now my "fear" is that she is thinking that i sent him and cancels our date cause of that.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:48 AM
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yeah english in not my first language, i apologize if i dont write well. he's not her orbiter, he really talked to her like 2 times. he has a girlfriend. i really dont understand why he would go to her and talk about me. someone told me a couple minute ago that he usually tell some bullshit. now i dont understand why he would do that. why he would invent that she doesnt like me. he has no interest in this, he usually stay with me and my friends.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:46 AM
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She know who i am, she is talking about our date
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:09 PM
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What do you think its a good starter? Writing her tomorrow something like "how you day is going" i think its lame
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:51 AM
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Thanks but i dont think im a good looking dude, thats why i was suspicious
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:30 PM
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This guy is a bitchy boy, im not too tall but im muscular, confident and the leader of my group. Im not in competition with him, i wanted to know if he insulted me or if he was just trying to act like a boss and failed miserably
/r/askTRP10/11/18 07:13 PM
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Ahahah im not disinterested in her, actually i dont minded him and he noticed that ok dont know if you are trying to be funny or what else. Keep trying dude one day you will do it!
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:59 PM
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Yeah im very insecure about my looks
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:09 AM
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i dont know how to describe it to you but he doesnt sound like a bad ass that is insulting a girl. He seems to me butthurt, he sayed that with some critics in his tone.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 05:57 AM
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so it was nothing to do with me?
/r/askTRP10/11/18 05:24 AM
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Im already ripped, going into the gym since 4 years. My jawline and nose are fine, i think that togheter are just not good ahaha
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 09:33 PM
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Im already ripped, going into the gym since 4 years. My jawline and nose are fine, i think that togheter are just not good ahaha
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 09:33 PM
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Im not saying that i give up taking care of myself, that not for the women. Im going to gym since 4 years ago only for myself, mens sana in corpore sano. Im having an haircut from a good barber once every two weeks, im trimming and clearing my beard every two days. When you say social i dont understand what you mean exactly. I never had trouble finding friends, gettin in a group and even lead it. On highschool i was the students president, a lot of friend and people take me as a role model perso…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 03:49 AM
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Ans if you already iproved what you have? Game over?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 02:57 AM
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Ok Thank you einstein. We are on red pill we know for what is this behavior. We were discussing how a woman tell you that you have not good looks and the personality is not the issue
/r/TheRedPill07/11/18 01:40 AM
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Of course she can be more hot but the guy needs to be above a threshold. Im not complaining about not being 6'5, 200 lbs 8% bf and with a model face. Just saying that if you are below that threshold you have bad time.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 07:19 PM
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Actually its not the case. A lot of girls told me that that i have a nice personality, but phisically theyre not attrached. The last one was very attrached to myself but not my exterior. Im lifting since 4 years, i have a lot of hobby and my career is starting to kicking ass (i am a producer / dj). About my father, yea hes 6'2' and im 5'8'. Even my mom its hot, i think that i just got unlucky. A girl from the gym once told me: "with your attitude, if you was hot, you were fucking every girls"
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 07:16 PM
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Quit this bs. Women are not looking for "something else". Only if you are very powerful or rich but thats unlikely. Look is not everything, it only open the door, but if you cant open the door what you have inside its useless. Thats a fact not a rant
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 09:30 AM
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what do you say for those that have bad face genetic? we can improve our phisique, our job or alpha attitude buti see an ugly face a huge turn off for a woman
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 04:39 AM
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i think you are like me, playing like a warlord when you meet a woman that you are not interested in or that you would fuck but doesnt give you emotions, and play like a dumb beta when you meet the woman of your dreams that makes your heart race. i have no problem with girls, but im not interested in casual sex. so i end with girl around me that im not interested in and i suffer for the oneitis that i have. this sucks. how a brain of the dominant species on earth be so stupid?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/18 04:20 AM
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just a clarification about the part where she loses respect for you if you do not try sexually: how do you explain a girl that clearly want to have sex with me but refuses my kiss then became angry at me cause i want to make things fast and not paceful? i made sex with this girl year ago, she stated that is attracted at me and gave me a lot of ioi (like let me touch her breast ecc ) . we argue early in out appointment but later we had good time, then the kiss. after that she told me leave me alo…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:40 AM
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its painful to say that but last time i felt emotion so strong was with my ltr of 6 year ago. i dont want to wait another 6 years...
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:18 AM
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Im more interested in your engage with her emotions thing... I have a girl around me that its behaving just like that, sometimes i can make her happy, sometimes confused, sometimes angry ecc just one week ago she texed me "leave me alone for some time". We usually met after some months, she told me that she is very attached to me but we end argue cause she is very egoistic. Even if she has a big attachement on me we still havent fucked, what am i missing? Ahah
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 02:19 AM
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Of course i ignored her. Thar fact is that i think that every girl do some random shit games like that. It really piss me off. All this effort just to get some attention from a guy that keep ignoring you. Just go to another guy, it makes sense right? She have plenty of orbiter
/r/askTRP01/11/18 03:29 AM
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Seriously all this effort? She could do that with other guy, why "chase" the only one that ignore her?
/r/askTRP01/11/18 03:27 AM
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I see that you read my post...
/r/askTRP01/11/18 02:41 AM
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i agree with you, but why its always her fault? i mean probably she is not special at all, probably a very bad person but never happen that she is maybe above average, and you fucked up cause you also have some problem (like insecurities ecc). probably she is into him but hes messing hard. why this option is never considered?
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:55 PM
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What do you mean with obvioua foward progress? By the way i was searching for some advice on how to act. She was one of the people that knowed me before my transition. Its not easy make someone change idea about you, even if you are different
/r/askTRP25/10/18 09:27 AM
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I mean what i feel when i see her, "effect on me"
/r/askTRP25/10/18 07:26 AM
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Probably, im more curios about what effect she still has on me and how i see her behavior in a red pill perspective
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:53 AM
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I believed that an orbiter is someone that keep staying around a girl hoping that someday she will get intimate with him, but is never gonna hapoen
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:47 AM
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Ahah are you also italian? Nice minestra cit. Its nor one of my exes, she was an ex oneitis. Meaning that she was a oneitis of mine but now is not. I dont know how she can see me as a beta when we was very close to fuck but i rejected her (she mentioned this a lot of time, shes still buthurt), we kissed, and when i saw that i cant have what i wanted i moved away. A beta would stay near her cause "our friendship is special"
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:30 AM
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Yeah forgot to mention. I am just curios, to know what she is doing, to know what effect she still have on me and similiar. Also, we was veeery near to fuck how can i be an orbiter? We didnt fuck only cause i refuse her cause i was in a ltr. We also kissed in the past
/r/askTRP25/10/18 06:25 AM
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Probably its not clear from my original post. But today i wrote to her asking her out for tonight and she replied that "unfortunatly i have plan for the entire week end". Its of course plausible but she then could ask for another day or tell something like "we would organize after the week end" or similiar. Its possible that an orbiter of her can talk shit about me. I know him and i know that he hates thst im "good" with the girl. Probably is saying classic shit like "he is a player" or somethin…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:59 PM
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Taking note...
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:51 PM
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Ok thanks for the advide. I still dont understand why one day ago i was so okay that she texed me first and now im just an orbiter ahah
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:50 PM
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Understood. But after three days she added me she texed me her number. Snd the same day she texted me on facebook "hey" and so on. She judged me in the three days, thought that i was ok (either way i dont get why texing me number ecc) then after one day she decided thst im not good anymore? By the way i barely use facebook and thr few photos or post that i have have a lot of likes
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:42 PM
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I know one of her exex and his smv is very low, hows that possible?
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:25 PM
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She added me knowing only my first name. I didnt gave to her
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:25 PM
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She added me, just acceptet. Where i screwed up,?
/r/askTRP12/10/18 04:23 PM
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She messaged me her number this morning. I think i overthought that right?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:50 PM
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She just wrote her number on my messenger ahaha here are 9 am. I think that this destroy my post completely
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:59 AM
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I was talking about previous experience
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:55 AM
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25 why?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:40 AM
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This happened 6 hours ago (1 am here) now its 8 am By the way i dont think she will do
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:49 AM
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Of course i will go all in i was just meditating on the outcome and how she react. If you being serious with your previous comment can you elaborate more? Just wanna know what signals makes you saying that,just for talking. Thanks
/r/askTRP10/10/18 04:38 AM
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Interesting. Can you elaborate more? What are the elements that make you think so? Also some example of acting less needy as possibile after my "fall" on asking her number and not getting it?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:21 AM
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I mean sexually. One was my former long-term relationship, another one with whom I had sex for a while, and yet another was an old friend and we talked on Facebook every now and then and sometimes we fuck. Never phone numbers
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:18 AM
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Can you elaborate? Why you are thinking that? Maybe she is but its also true that not all girls are open too soon. Some girls make it just more hard. I just dont understand why doing the ioi and shittest
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:15 AM
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I dont agree with the part "the fact that you are asking..." i will surely write her on facebook im just trying to understand if this is a rejection or not. This dont validate nothing. Asking on the forum for different point of view is natural. I think that this girl likes me by the IOI's that shes giving
/r/askTRP10/10/18 01:17 AM
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In the past I have been in intimacy with girls with whom I spoke on Facebook so i dony know if its a rejection or just a "i want to know you better". If a girl refuses to give her number but add you on facebook its always a rejection?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:40 AM
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Yeah i was thinking if its a polite way of telling me shes not interested or if im overthinking too much
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:36 AM
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Can you explain that? Wrong about what?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:30 AM
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I havent instagram, gonna make that. Thanks
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:29 PM
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Yeah she just told me that shes not giving her number on tinder... Mah
/r/askTRP16/09/18 09:06 PM
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Dont understand if its ironic or not ahaha
/r/askTRP16/09/18 08:38 PM
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Former friends support me but the majority of them is blue pilled as fuck My main "goal" is with girls. I want that they see what they have lost. I know its selfish but some of them are the cause of my change.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 03:15 PM
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Maybe she wants to see if i am real or a creep i dont know
/r/askTRP16/09/18 12:18 AM
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Understood. Then why keeps asking me question about my self, accepting to meet up ecc. Its not too much effort for one follower? She could wrote "write me on instagram tinder is buggy" (i see girl like that all the time)
/r/askTRP16/09/18 12:14 AM
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I messed up or girl like that use tinder only for gaining instagram follower?
/r/askTRP16/09/18 12:09 AM
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What i need that for, in this case?
/r/askTRP15/09/18 12:51 AM
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Ahah its just what ive done. She bump my appointment saying that her friend is giving birth to a baby ahahah Then she tried to continue the conversation talking about the baby i just texed her "ahahah understood" and deleted her number. How girl think its funny sometimes
/r/askTRP14/09/18 11:38 PM
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What do you think if you propose a girl to a date and she says "i cant that day i have to meet some friends" me: what about friday? She: "friday im surely free!"
/r/askTRP13/09/18 10:26 PM
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I used to be a lot sexual, even in my past LTRs i was wanking every day or so, even when im having sex. Its just part of my life i dont think its the issue. I think that its only that this last experience that drained my mental energy
/r/askTRP13/09/18 04:31 PM
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1 day sometimes 2
/r/askTRP13/09/18 01:48 PM
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What work you do?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:32 AM
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Nice tip on taking a course, ill consider that I still think that with some moderation gaming is a lot fun and relaxing
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:28 AM
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Im not blaming them, not anymore. Right now im just pissed, im currently in few dates but often i notice that im bored and i prefer going out with friends or playing videogames. I mean i think that i need some time before re entering the game. This last one was a pain in the ass, months of mental fatigue and little results. I need to recover. I also think i need to raise my SMV, what can i do besides returning to 10% bf?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 06:20 AM
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Yeah but usually girls on tinder dont commit with one guy, she probably want more dick
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:32 PM
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Ok can you explain why?
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:26 PM
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I was in another country, why are you saying that the ship has sailed?
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:17 PM
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Yeah is there where i have problem, with the previous girl wich i banged i just wrote hi my name, where she is from and her number. But she hasnt any bio. This time i wanna use her bio but i dont know how, any help?
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:14 PM
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yeah that was what i was thinking. i was asking if in her bio she is saying something that i can use at my advantage
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:41 PM
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Yeah im not fully red pilled, im in transition from a blue pill mentality to a red pilled one I was asking if the time frame is even a issue, and also some tips on how to handle her based on her bio. Probably i should make another post with only her bio
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:28 PM
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Ok i reread my post and found the "issue". I wrote "suddenly" to not explain how we ended naked to not waste word. It was my choice, she started coming to my place often to see film, play music with me and be in the blankets togheter. After some times i noticed i had a strong attraction towards her. I spoke to my "friend" telling that i was very attracted to her and that we should not see each other again, then she undressed and we began kissing. As you see all of this is irrilevant for the stor…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:54 AM
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Im trying to say it better: she represented my attitutes of the past and being able to sleep with her would prove to myself that i managed to improve. I dont know if its clear what i mean
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:44 AM
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Im not motherlanguage english so probably i cannot explain my self. Im not trying to excuse myself, ive kissed her, ive cheated on my ltr. Years ago i was different, i was afraid and i dont feel right to have sex with her. Im not trying to make myself better, i just not feel that i was doing the right decision. Now thing are different, im transitioning from a blue pill mentality to a red pill mentality since many months. I embrace my failure and my choice, its what i am and what i choose. I choo…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:41 AM
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Ok let me clarify some points. I understand your point of view and its also mine BUT This boy isnt a chad, he is so much beta. Shes in total power of this relationship, he is in her hands. Not discussing this, i agree. Probably nexting her some months ago wasnt enough. That wont happen cause we never return friend. I understand that this is what it seems, im only trying to understand if i can regain frame and fuck this girl. With other girl i have not problem so thats why a whole post with only …
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:02 AM
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I understand that maybe the effort is high than the result but its more a personal thing. I refuse to have sex with her years ago and now that im red pilled want to gain that sex back. This is the concept of my post. Asking that, any chance?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:07 AM
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Why im sounding pathetic? Im already lifting for 4 years now. I repeat, i've other girls in my life this is just a girl thst i think its really hot. Im not trying to have a LTR with her, im just confronting with you that have a fresh mind. My logic says that i have no chance but something in my gut says that i can do something, maybe regain my frame back?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:04 AM
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I dont think its special, i have other girls around. I really like her body and looks and i really want ti fuck her. Only that. No chance? Im not considering me in the friendzone cause happenend something in the past and she still says that likes me phisically
/r/askTRP05/09/18 01:54 AM
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