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Social Nothing except more sports. A pre-season soccer game and bjj practice. I still feel like a total dunce every time I get on the mat. Telling myself I'll need at least another week or two (or longer) before I start attending the all-level classes. I noticed that I was eager to make changes and be proactive in adopting new hobbies and pursuits when I was angry and dissatisfied with my day-to-day life, but now that the anger and the feeling of novelty have worn off, I can feel myself settling…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/24 02:55 PM
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OYS 9 Stats: 25yo, 6’1, 195 lbs, LTR 2 years Lifts (lbs): BP 205x6, 225x3 SQ 225x6, 245x5 OP (Dumbbell) 120x6 BR 185x5 DL 275x6, 315x3 Reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, Book of Pook Read: NMMNG, Courage to be Disliked Keeping it short and sweet this time around. Vision Be a man who creates and seizes opportunities for growth and discomfort, regardless of how he feels Mission Cultivate a life of abundance, leadership and novelty (in accordance with harmony). Develop and maintain at least two different sou…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/24 02:53 PM
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Relationship I haven't been counting my initiations in the past 2 weeks. Sex 2x or 3x in this timeframe; don't entirely remember. I've noticed she's more open to having sex after we go out and do something or have fun together (watching Netflix doesn't count). She's told me that "spending time with her and doing things is what turns her on" but I originally thought she was just spouting bullshit to reject me in a roundabout fashion. So far I've been careful not to establish a covert contract her…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 02:16 PM
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OYS 8 Stats: 25yo, 6’1, 193 lbs, LTR 2 years Lifts (lbs): BP 205x5, 225x3 SQ 225x6, 245x4 OP 105x6 BR 165x7 DL 275x6, 315x3 Reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, Book of Pook Read: NMMNG, Courage to be Disliked Vision Be a man who creates and seizes opportunities for growth and discomfort, regardless of how he feels Mission Cultivate a life of abundance, leadership and novelty (in accordance with harmony). Develop and maintain at least two different sources of income Mental No major changes in the last 2 wee…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 02:16 PM
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fuck that, no more plateauing this week
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 03:18 AM
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good point. i’m still being a pussy with the woman i’m comfortable with but it seems i’ve been using her rejections to justify not improving my sexual interactions with her in general
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/24 03:16 AM
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Career Had a very productive day yesterday. Went on-call so I’ll need to be around my laptop all week as mentioned earlier. Social Joined a fantasy football league with the bros and participated in my first soccer game before the start of the league this fall. Did some research on martial arts gyms and found a no-gi jiu-jitsu place right around the corner from where I live. I intend to sign up. I’ve also been researching difference dance studios around me because I want to get back into dancing.…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 01:32 PM
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OYS 7 Stats: 25yo, 6’1, 192 lbs., LTR 2 years Lifts (lbs): BP 205x7, 225x3 SQ 225x6, 245x4 OP 105x6 BR 165x7 DL 275x6 Reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, Book of Pook Read: NMMNG, Courage to be Disliked Vision Be a man who creates and seizes opportunities for growth and discomfort, regardless of how he feels Mission Cultivate a life of abundance, leadership and novelty (in accordance with harmony). Develop and maintain at least two different sources of income Mental My main focus now is on building discipl…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 01:32 PM
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Fair point. Rather than not initiate at night I’m just not going to initiate in bed at all
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/24 12:06 AM
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My behavior. They just aren't overt initiations so I don't count them. But initiating during bed time has by far been my biggest problem and that's the first thing I'm going to change
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 12:58 AM
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Yes, I'd prefer to fuck the neighbor for now
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 12:42 AM
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No because she flat out just doesn’t meet my sexual needs anymore, nor is she willing to explore anything or even give bjs. But I’m not yet sure how to end things with her
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 05:19 PM
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It’s not clear to me what you, a 25 year old man, are getting from an LTR with no kids and a woman who doesn’t like to fuck you. Every time I try to break it off (or hint at it), she starts crying and I always fall into her frame because she doesn't have anyone else (doesn't talk to her parents) and she can't afford to live on her own where we're located. And I'm not sure what to do whenever that happens except feel like shit so I just forget about my frustrations for a while and at this point I…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 04:02 PM
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Career The project I’m working on goes into piloting next week. I’ll have four days to get everything together on my part but that’ll be easy. Not much to comment on aside from that. Social Met up with the bros during the middle of the week and we had a blast at the park. Played soccer with them and some strangers, and then practiced playing football with each other, along with some basketball to close things off. My back and hip flexors were destroyed and I felt like an old man the next day. Re…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 12:27 PM
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OYS 6 Stats: 25yo, 6’1, 191 lbs., LTR 2 years Lifts (lbs): BP 205x7, 225x3 SQ 225x6, 245x4 OP 105x6 BR 165x7 Reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, Book of Pook Read: NMMNG, Courage to be Disliked Vision Be a man who creates and seizes opportunities for growth and discomfort, regardless of how he feels Mission Cultivate a life of abundance, leadership and novelty (in accordance with harmony). Develop and maintain at least two different sources of income Mental Continuing to develop mental models which priorit…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 12:26 PM
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I had this perspective in the back of my mind but never really gave it much thought. For the most part I only thought girls would think like this when you’re on a date and escalating, due to how many guys they are usually texting at any given time
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 03:19 PM
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Thanks for this. Just found his archive and there’s a lot of knowledge there
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 03:17 PM
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Question you need to ask yourself is whether you wanna have sex or do you just want validation that comes from your wife wanting to fuck u How could I tell the difference between if I genuinely want to have sex versus if I just want validation?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 02:53 AM
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Yeah, I think me making things more complicated than they are was my way of putting things off due to self-conceived "complexity" and as a result, a need to "figure things out". I do sometimes wonder why self-rationalization always results in bullshit. I guess it's the natural desire to stay in the comfort zone
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 02:50 AM
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Relationship I really don’t know what I’m doing, which is a big part of why I came back here a few weeks ago and started lurking and re-reading the sidebar. For most of our relationship I’ve been the boring one. I would always justify it using my side hustle, but realistically that’s no excuse to be boring. I’ve been suffering the consequences as of late through an extremely lackluster sex life and increasing feelings of loneliness/missing out. I haven’t even taken a single vacation since I star…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 12:51 PM
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OYS 5 Stats: 25yo, 6’1, 191 lbs., LTR 2 years Lifts (lbs): BP 205x7, 225x3 SQ 225x6, 245x4 OP 105x6 BR 165x7 Reading: MMSLP, WISNIFG, Book of Pook Read: NMMNG, Courage to be Disliked Vision Be a man who creates and seizes opportunities for growth and discomfort, regardless of how he feels Mission Cultivate a life of abundance, leadership and novelty (in accordance with harmony). Develop and maintain at least two different sources of income Mental I’d like to think that my mental models have evol…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 12:51 PM
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Never thought of being direct like that before. I always thought that I needed to build up to things so that it feels like it "happens naturally" I guess. I'll definitely apply this and see what happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/21 10:51 PM
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Facts. I just didn't know how to initiate a kiss without it seeming too sudden or "out of nowhere", so nothing ended up happening. My initiations have always been slow and timid; something I'm going to work on.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/21 12:34 AM
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OYS 4 22, Single, 6'1, 167 lbs, 10-12% BF Squat 185x5, BP 175x5, Deadlift 185x5, OHP 95X5 Reading: NMMNG, The Power of Habit Future Reading: Models by Mark Manson, Daybang by Roosh Mission: Go inward with the intent of discovering the person I want to be. Mental I don't have any solidified mental models because my mind is all over the place. As a result, I've been sticking to general principles, such as taking the opportunity to be uncomfortable, even in the slightest, if the opportunity present…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/21 08:13 PM
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I find that I need to take longer rests between BP and OHP, but aside from that, a 90 second rest works fine for the rest (for now). I do chin-ups and dips for assistance lifts, 'cause like you I also feel like I need to do a little bit more than just the basic routine. I do those exact same exercises right after the compounds. Weighted chin-ups on day A and weighted dips on day B. I want to accomplish a one-arm chin-up, but I don't want to catch tendonitis in the process so I'm waiting until I …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 09:24 PM
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OYS 3 22, Single, 6'1, 167 lbs, 10-12% BF Squat 175x5, BP 175x5, Deadlift 155x5 Reading: NMMNG Mission: Go inward with the intent of discovering the person I want to be. Mental Last OYS, I talked about Post-Event Depression and how I think it affects me. I think this may have caused me to be more reserved (maybe on a subconscious level) and not socialize that much when I went out. Throughout my life, I've found that I commonly dive too deep into something whenever I start out. I'm so afraid of c…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 07:22 PM
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Maybe it's a thing where you look for external explanations and rationalizations for things that are actually the result of your own mental patterns. This sounds like the root cause. But then the question is: what exactly is causing these mental patterns? I broke up with my ex back in March and I've had some fun with other women since then, so I know I'm not hung up on her. We still talk often, but I know that I have no romantic feelings toward her. As for being depressed, I can feel depressed a…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 06:17 PM
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I mean it sounds to me like you’re fucking girls you’re not even into for some reason. Rather than vitamins it might be worth looking at why. I'd say it's validation. Seeing my friends get girls at parties or kickbacks kicked me into overdrive to try and set something up with any girl who showed any interest in me. I don't want to feel like the most undesirable guy in the group. However, I see now that it doesn't mean shit, and my actions and mindset are what need more work. I'm already doing my…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 12:40 AM
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OYS 2 22, Single, 6'1, 167 lbs, 10-12% BF (I think) Squat 155x5, BP 165x5, Deadlift 135x5 Having some problems with bicep tendons during standard deadlift so I haven't added more weight yet. Mission: Discover my ideal self. Mind Recently learned about Post-Event Depression, where one feels depressed after coming back from an event (or night out, in my case). Happens because of dopamine and serotonin levels: you're talking to people and having fun all night, and suddenly you go home to be by your…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 08:55 PM
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It's embarrassing how true this is. For just about all my adolescent life, I would derive pleasure and reward from thinking things, but not actually doing them. And when I did finally do something, I half-assed my efforts every. Damn. Time. Then, when I do fail, I tell myself "I just need to plan better and go all out next time." You don't approach because that'd mean failure while putting in effort. Before you even start, you're already analyzing to find ways that can justify your failures/lack…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 08:21 PM
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This is what I needed to hear. I definitely have fuckarounditis when it comes to working out, but I didn't want to admit it to myself because I made my own workout routine. I see that SL appears to be based heavily around legs. I do want to hit my legs as hard as I can, but I want to balance it out too. I'm going to do some research and search for the most balanced workout routine, and I'll need to sprinkle in some calisthenics in there because I do have bodyweight goals as well (handstand, fron…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 01:26 AM
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OYS #1 Stats: 22, Single university student, 6'1, 165lbs, 10-12% BF Reading: NMMG, TWOTSM, Sidebar (2nd time) Mission: Discover my ideal self; the person I aspire to be. Mind I've found that, over the past few weeks, I've been feeling very hollow and conflicted. I would constantly focus on women, what I could do to get laid or get attention from them. Just recently, I've attributed this to a lack of sense of self: I don't know who I really want to be. I'm too focused on pleasure and externals. M…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/21 08:33 PM
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Can't do drinks, I'm not 21
/r/askTRP15/12/18 12:07 AM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:20 AM
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Stretch your hip flexors and your lower back. Should rid you of APT over time (it did for me).
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:44 AM
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He's... Just trying to improve his social skills. If I go around greeting strangers, it's not because I want them to think I'm a "wonderful human being". Lol what. Also that still doesn't relate to autism.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:08 PM
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You're autistic, nerdy attempt to greet everyone Your* Also, how is greeting strangers autistic? Care to explain?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:23 PM
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I do boxing and I can tell you that for the confidence boost, it is worth it. However, if you want to be even more confident in your ability to kick someone's ass, you should also take up MMA.
/r/askTRP31/08/17 02:28 AM
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Source? Also, peanuts are a legume, so it doesn't make sense as to why you brought them up.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:42 AM
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If the OP's goal is to lower his sex drive, then he should cut down on masturbation. Why are you so against abstinence anyways?
/r/askTRP20/05/17 09:02 PM
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r/sex
/r/askTRP01/05/17 07:19 PM
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What exactly was it like while you were there? Did you have any friends there? How did it play out?
/r/askTRP30/04/17 06:34 AM
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I'm in the same exact situation, except none of my friends are going. My mom wanted me to go so badly, but I'm gonna see if I can get a refund for my ticket.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 03:21 PM
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She does know me. I used to sit at the same table as her, and we've talked several times. However as the months went by and I caught oneitis for her I became too scared to talk to her
/r/askTRP29/04/17 05:24 AM
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Yeah, but it was months ago.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 05:12 AM
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Is it a shit test?
/r/askTRP29/04/17 05:09 AM
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I read the sidebar, but I don't see what you mean by me "not wanting to ask this question again" after reading it
/r/askTRP09/01/17 03:57 AM
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It's because she's been looking at me a lot, so I assumed she had a crush on me too
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:45 PM
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Nice of you to blatantly throw shade at introverts like that.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 12:49 AM
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not sure if trolling or just fucking stupid
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 02:59 AM
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Unnecessary hostility right here
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 08:07 PM
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