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| 8 | Withholding sex entirely can be a mechanism of dominance and control by a more powerful partnerExactly. Men take note - when women in a long term relationship don’t want to have sex or turn down your advances, 99% of the time it is because she’s not aroused. It’s not about punishment. Figure out why she’s not aroused so you can change those circumstances and your chances of a yes are so much higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 08:23 PM |
| 0 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.It is not fixed. In fact, most women say they’re demisexual and they really mean they find a man sexier once they get to know him, attraction growing over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:42 AM |
| 6 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.The idea that each time women have sex they lose the ability to bond with a partner is something you’ll laugh about believing when you get older. It’s the same as saying that each time a man has sex the vagina shaves off a bit of his penis so it gets smaller each time. There’s no such thing as being “dickmatized” and killing off part of a woman’s brain, unless you’re physically attacking her during sex and hitting her in the head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:40 AM |
| 13 | Men Need an Extreme Separatist Ideology , Total Detachment from WomenYeah OPs idea will never happen. If some men decide to participate in this there will be other opportunistic men swooping in on all the single women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Do you just accept his need to be with other women?A town bicycle | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/25 06:52 AM |
| 5 | Do you just accept his need to be with other women?No way. That is not high value. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/25 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Favorite fiction books? Favorite authors?Poison Princess by Kresley Cole, this whole series is so good. It’s an apocalyptic story but has fantasy and romance in it. A court of thorns and roses by Sarah J Maas - I think this is a pretty popular book but for a reason, also fantasy and romance. You can get both in Ebook, dm me if you want them | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlIt’s gross in both cases. As I said, things are different if they’re say 40 and 50 because they’re in the same life stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 03:39 PM |
| 3 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlThey might not be the same level of creepiness to you, but women get that feeling looking at a relationship with a 20yo and 30yo regardless if it’s the man or woman who’s older, or even same sex relationships with a gap in the life stage. You know theres something off about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 10:35 AM |
| 3 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlThat’s different because they’re both in the middle life stage at ages 30 and 50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 01:20 PM |
| 17 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlThat weird look you give the 30yo woman dating a 20yo guy is how women look at the 30 yo man dating a 20yo woman. It’s the “what’s wrong with him?/creepy” vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 01:19 PM |
| 5 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlAgree that the older person in the relationship is stunted, whether it’s a man or woman who is the 30yo. It’s usually someone who can’t relate to people their own age due to whatever reason, is undesirable to their peer group, or someone who people in their 30s won’t tolerate. I will say this changes as people age. 40 and 50 yo dating each other is different because they’re in the same life stage. A 20 yo is still living the college lifestyle, where a 30 yo is usually buying a home, married, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 01:16 PM |
| 3 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlSame with the man’s maturity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 01:08 PM |
| 3 | How do I come to terms with the fact that I am damaged goods, and won't find a decent partner?OP and anyone else feeling this way, I am begging you to watch this short video.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/25 04:50 AM |
| 1 | It's very rich that women expect guys to make the first move at all times yet they should be under no obligation.Women do make the first move when they want to enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 09:00 AM |
| 0 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveHaha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveWhile I agree on that, I think the difference is Mackenzie is girl pretty and Lauren is guy pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: How would you feel if women acted like "fukgirls"?What’s Ladette culture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Delaying sex strategy really works well for women. That's why men in this sub hate and despise this strategy so much.The Science behind your theory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 10:11 PM |
| 6 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveConsidering most 55 year old women in the US look more like this …. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsDifferent life stages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 04:11 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Primer Foundation Powder Bronzer Blush Lipstick/gloss Eyeliner Brow Pencil Highlighter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 04:52 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Only to a certain extent, if you get too hot they’ll stop talking to you again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 04:50 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sometimes women are trying to not attract men so they purposefully don’t do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Do women actually feel this way about men who've been falsley accused?I said empathy needs to come from both sides, men extending it towards women’s issues and women extending it towards what men are going through. Also, it’s completely untrue that women don’t care about men’s problems, but you have to pick people who have empathy and kindness for others. People can’t give what they don’t have and many people don’t understand empathy. I have always advocated for my spouses rights. I feel like he was really discriminated against as a young to middle aged white male… | /r/MensRights | 12/05/25 09:26 PM |
| – | Quick question do red pillers actually believe that hot women in 30s with kids can't get hvm to wife them up and even play step daddy?A channel called hoe math isn’t a credible source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 09:21 AM |
| -17 | Do women actually feel this way about men who've been falsley accused?lol thanks. If they really wanted change it would have registered differently I think. I still believe empathy could come from both sides. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/25 01:32 PM |
| -78 | Do women actually feel this way about men who've been falsley accused?Seems neither side cares according to what you just said. Some empathy and compassion is required from both parties. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/25 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Why do Political Incels seem to hate straight white men with girlfriends/wives??They’re jealous. That’s the be all, end all. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyWhere’d I say that? Not my fault if some people are never going to improve themselves to become attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:51 AM |
| 0 | So, um... let's just say I am a cut man in the a country full of uncut men (Myanmar) ... and the men here somehow think that circumcision can't be possible because "it wouldn't make a man manly anymore".I think men who are uncut are definitely more judged than cut men in the west, at least with millennials. I have heard girlfriends say they are dating someone uncut and aren’t keen about wanting to go down on them or don’t like how it looks. I will agree that I prefer the look of someone who’s cut too. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/25 11:53 PM |
| 2 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesOh okay, I must have read it wrong. Yes it’s a nice bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:20 AM |
| – | "I see far more attractive women than men" shows that beauty standards for women are not highThat first sentence made me laugh so hard lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:15 AM |
| 1 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesI would bet my life that I know zero women who’ve chosen to hook up with a guy solely over having a big dick. Why do men refuse to believe when women say what our opinions are? If people are looking, it’s because they’re shocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:14 AM |
| 4 | What makes a woman want to sleep with a man, regardless of intentions?I’ll agree alcohol is terrible for you, but it definitely makes you horny and likely to hook up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:09 AM |
| 1 | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyYou’d be shocked. Men will pick great sex over anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 08:08 AM |
| 0 | Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they areBut there are some looks who almost everyone finds attractive. Chris Hemsworth and Kim Kardashian say as examples. Individual people might say they are not their type, and it might be true because they prefer certain traits, but almost everyone can agree they are as a whole, objectively attractive, even if you wouldn’t pick them as your first choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Women get incredibly outraged when they get reminded that they're not as pretty as they think they areJD Vance, Pete Hegseth, and The Donald himself wear makeup. If anyone could normalize it within the manosphere it’s them. I don’t think anyone calls those dudes unmanly. Also a good haircut and beard/stubble can mean the difference between being a 2/10 and a 7/10 on men proof proof see how it matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:58 AM |
| – | We need to improve urban planning and design to help mitigate (some of) the causes of the Male Loneliness Epidemic in America, Canada, and Australia.Agree with this, though I think the lack of third spaces is due to capitalism, especially in the states. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:43 AM |
| 2 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesIt sounds like when guys tell women to pick better. Sounds like a shitty person who would have found bad about him regardless of size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:41 AM |
| 2 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesSome men can be casually desired. But most people aren’t willing to put in the work to be that hot, male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:40 AM |
| 2 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesPeople resent it but aren’t willing to put the effort and money in to change it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:38 AM |
| 4 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesAs another woman, she is actually right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:34 AM |
| 3 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesMost women aren’t feeling looking at a man’s dick in sweats and actually avert their gaze from that. If we do objectify men it’s his arms or chest or that he’s tall and athletic, etc. I’ve never heard any women talk about wanting a man due to his dick. Size doesn’t even really mean that much during sex unless he’s got a micro penis. It’s always all about what he can do with it. Editing this to say girls do talk about what we like in men sexually, but the dick discussion is always on circumcised … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:33 AM |
| 13 | What makes a woman want to sleep with a man, regardless of intentions?I think a lot of hookups are fueled by alcohol as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:28 AM |
| 1 | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyThey put up with it if you’re hot or sexy to the majority of men. Look how many men are even willing to put up with women who are hot enough to run an OnlyFans or women who have BPD but are sexy by western standards? They might lose some guys but there are 5 more clamouring to take that guys place. I am in social work and i see this all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:26 AM |
| 1 | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyNo what they are saying is I wish I could find a man who is attractive and also good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:23 AM |
| -2 | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyHard disagree, have you seen all the women Elon Musk has been with? They’re all hot, and he has like 100 kids with them, so is obviously getting laid. Proof that autistic people can do anything, even become a billionaire playboy or take down the government. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do you misunderstand or malign well-intentioned dating advice?You can be yourself when you’re hot. First achieve that, then your personality can be even BPD and people will put up with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do you misunderstand or malign well-intentioned dating advice?It is advice. People find attractive people desirable because it’s hard to achieve. Not many people will devote time and money to look hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do you misunderstand or malign well-intentioned dating advice?Nepo girls are even more entitled to be spoiled, especially ones who are beautiful by western standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/25 03:14 AM |
| 5 | “The man is expected to do everything, all the woman has to do is exist and look good” - this statement shows exactly how patriarchy harms both men and womenCan you give an example of something that’s happened recently ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 10:02 AM |
| 4 | Redpill men, what do you have to offer, what do you bring to the table?That’s cute idk I think it would work if a guy said it as an answer in real life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Redpill men, what do you have to offer, what do you bring to the table?What’s the median income? Cause a lot of places it’s skewed compared to cost of living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:57 PM |
| – | Men have no options.I love the warm approach.. hate the cold approach. There’s also warm approaching via social media if you interact on Reddit or in a Facebook group etc. I’ve seen that one work for many couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Today's culture wants the dating market essentially whittled down Tinder swipesWhat are 101s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 08:30 PM |
| 2 | The loneliness of autismExactly! OP needs to list what traits he has that make him different, and then figure out how he can play those up as strengths or as ways he can be seen as unique. Autistic men don’t need to be alone, and they need to know that women aren’t settling for them either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/25 08:38 AM |
| 4 | The loneliness of autismThe sexiest man I’ve ever met was autistic. He recognized patterns and had a better than usual memory. He used the pattern recognition gift to remember what actions turned women on and what actions were just ok, and my god he was fantastic at it. He also had other career accomplishments that were suited to his brain, and those were sexy too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 10:59 AM |
| 1 | 13 yo boy made to 'lift up penis so that his scrotum could be seen' on new TV series where he is called an incel.What? Why would that scene in the title even be in the show? I can’t picture what context that would happen in. Let alone why it would be necessary to air. Some of this stuff makes my heart hurt. I won’t be watching this show. | /r/MensRights | 25/04/25 04:36 AM |
| 1 | You were not gaslit by society as to what women are attracted to. You need to take accountability for not seeing what was always totally obvious.I think a lot of people cling to blaming anyone but themselves for their circumstances. When I was a little kid I remember watching Disney movies and my dad telling me I’d marry a prince when I grew up. I have known most of my life that was him saying he loved me and not a literal thing that will happen. I definitely didn’t and don’t hold it against him. The truth is that our results are a direct reflection of our efforts. While I’d love to eat donuts and McDonald’s every day, doing so would gre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/25 04:15 AM |
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