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I know. It's almost funny. I just was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:37 AM
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Brother, this is the wrong place for common sense. But you ain't wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 09:27 PM
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You're not seriously suggesting that the vagina is magically the only part of thr human body that is exactly the same dimensions on every body. That would be absurd even by this subs standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:11 PM
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1) In order to diminish the previous commenter's points, you said: "So, in your head, these people are having shitty sex? All aaaaalll women are faking orgasms? Does this happen with hookups too? A woman sleeping around is also faking all of her sex? How about chilfree relationships?" I pointed out that the orgasm gap's existence suggests that yes, tons of women are having shitty sex. 2) those lesbians having great dickless sex are a)not attracted to men and have different expectations in a part…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:49 AM
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I'm too small to really have penetrative sex. So I don't really need to imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:19 PM
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You. This sub. Reddit. Society at large. I have been to therapy. Therapists can help you cope with reality, not change it. I possess an unattractive trait to the vast majority of my potential partners. It isn't exactly insane to be concerned about that, or upset when virtue signalers like you insist on downplaying it's importance and shifting on people like me for pointing it out. All therapy did was equip me to have these conversations without feeling the need to throttle people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:36 PM
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The point is they never say things like "small", "thin," or other diminutives. The fantasy is still about something far better than what I and other guys on the bad side of the bell curve are stuck with. Which is fine. That's life. It's this stubborn insistence that it's all in our heads and not a fact of life that is crazy making.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:54 PM
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Exceptions don't disprove the rule. If I get burned touching the stove 9/10 times, I'm going to be very dubious about the 10th stove's assurances. Also compounding the issue, at least for unlucky guys in my size range (well below average), is that there are some serious physical limitations. So it's hard to understand why you'd prefer something that objectively doesn't function as nature intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:49 PM
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You missed the point. It's completely disingenuous to dismiss insecurities about a trait by only focusing on people who are average and above in that department .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:01 PM
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Yes, and the more below average a man is in multiple traits, the more likely he is to get left behind regardless of what he tries. When men point this out, they're demonized. It is possible to be proactive and still less than optimistic about outcomes. It's acceptable to be upset about the hard limitation mother nature sets on us. I've had sex, I've been in relationships, I've gotten pretty damn good with my hands and mouth, I'm widely regarded as a good dude and good partner. Ive put in the tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:00 PM
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The orgasm gap, which reddit women love to point out when it suits their narrative, absolutely does suggest the majority of women are having shitty sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:37 PM
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And yet women consume and create erotica/romances where the men possess porn star dicks and model heights.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:35 PM
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Erotica and trashy romances, mass market and amateur, are specifically targeted for and largely consumed by women. Interesting how the male characters in those are almost exclusively tall and hung. If those aren't traits that turn women on, why do women creates and consumers consistently choose them to fantasize about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:33 PM
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And if she doesn't, are we allowed to be obsessed then, oh arbiter of insecurities? While there are some average and above guys who fall into the obsession, what about the left side of the bell curve?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:24 PM
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It's sad that you let your feelings get in the way of reality. Men may be the gatekeepers of commitment, but women are the ones who do the initial selecting. So yes, many average and below average men are waiting to be selected. Not out of pity but put of necessity, or desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:16 PM
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Girth being (checks notes) a matter of size. Thus, size matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:39 PM
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Did you really miss the point that badly? Can't tell if you're just naturally obtuse or if you're just arguing in bad faith. From your lame attempt to shame the men here into silence (the 90s called, it wants its homophobia back) im assuming the latter. But hey, you're right about one thing. The prevalence of tall, hung male leads in women's erotica (mass market and amateur), sure does suggest women love concentrating on detailed scenes of what hung guys are doing to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:31 PM
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Very hard to deal with is an understatement. Been dealing with it for decades. I appreciate your honesty. Wish more of your brethren here could show enough respect to be equally honest. Wish my exes would have too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:12 AM
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I'm aware. I'm in the objectively small camp. Never had satisfying sex in my life. It's soul killing. But according to the good ladies here, I just a weirdo crazy person who's delusional. That's the part that's maddening. It's bad enough to be inadequate. It's a whole other level of pain to be mocked, judged, and dismissed on top of it. Women gave me the insecurity, not porn, not the manosphere, but real people in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:02 AM
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That's the sheer evil of this sort of gaslighting. I've had multiple partners leave upon seeing my size. I've had relationships end because of it. I've heard how women talk when men arent around. I know I'll never be good enough. But then the constant refrain of "size doesn't matter, it's all in your head, women don't care" is always there, always nurturing a kernel of false hope. Until you get with a partner who claims to like it, then immediately asks for toys, sheaths, and occasionally, open …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:50 AM
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There isn't one. Which is why a lot of us get stuck in the denial loop, mainly because people insist on gaslighting us, giving false hope, and generally being dishonest about the reality. It's hell. And people don't give a damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:14 AM
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Porn maybe. But throw in erotica and trashy romance and those numbers skyrocket. And it's interesting how the men featured in erotica and romance stories are always tall, hung, and rich. Almost like it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:58 AM
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Both preferred sizes were above average though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:45 AM
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It's OK. Not everyone can be comedian. Just don't quit your day job.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 08:46 PM
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Sounds like you're using cbt the right way. I've benefitted from some therapy techniques. Unfortunately my experience with cbt was unhelpful. The practitioner took reframing to the point of absurdity. Mindfulness certainly helps for coping with things in the moment. The roadblock for me has always been with radical acceptance, or maybe what comes after. At some point a shit sandwich is just a shit sandwich. I can accept it, but eating shit gets old no matter how many ways you reframe it.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 08:50 PM
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Not the guy you asked, but I figure you might be interested in another opinion too. I'm not even young, but I feel most of those things. But I'd never seek counseling. I don't need to open myself up just to be condescended to with lame attempts at reframing. Most popular therapy approaches are basically just benevolent gaslighting.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 07:14 PM
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