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Given how antifeminism is going so strong in SK, If anti-feminism is strong in South Korea that explains 4B,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:40 PM
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You're comfortable leaving behind poo stains in the toilet for other peole to see? You're ok with dry smearing poo around your anus?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:21 AM
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Lesbian quickies are the opposite of hetero quickies. One is vulva/clit centric and orgasmic while the other is piv and orgasm deprived.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:48 PM
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By that logic men also weren’t cut out for year after year of routine sitting in an office all day Women weren't either, yet they do. And this may have been covered by that sexologist too, it's been a while. Is the solution to earn enough to afford to hire in childcare and cleaning services That's what "high value" couples do. whilst also never shitting in your own toilet? I suggested seperate bathrooms. If seperate bathrooms are not affordable, then spray air freshner in the toilet before going…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:45 PM
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Make it mindblowing orgasms and women might go for that exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 09:11 PM
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Just forget about it already and move the hell on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 09:05 PM
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It's not considered "gay". All-male boarding schools, men at sea for several months at a time, incarcerated men, and men from cultures where there is no dating culture and marriages are arranged, have all long been known to engage in MSM. It's never been uncommon in long term gender segregated cultures or circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:34 PM
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MSM. It's common in India and many countries where there is no socially accepted dating culture and the marriages are arranged. I probably don't have to explain this to a fellow desi but you see, sexuality is on a spectrum and under the right circumstances anyone can engage in same sex sexual activity. Another alternative would be for heterosexual men who cannot get women to just move a tad bit over on the sexuality spectrum and engage in same sex sexual activity with men. That's not called "hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:45 PM
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OK well then, another alternative is MSM. Sexuality is on a spectrum and under the right circumstances anyone can engage in same sex sexual activity. Another alternative would be for heterosexual men who cannot get women to just move a tad bit over on the sexuality spectrum and engage in same sex sexual activity with men. That's not called "homosexuality", it's called MSM, men having sex with men. It's actually not uncommon at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:44 PM
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Sexuality is on a spectrum and under the right circumstances anyone can engage in same sex sexual activity. Another alternative would be for heterosexual men who cannot get women to just move a tad bit over on the sexuality spectrum and engage in same sex sexual activity with men. That's not called "homosexuality", it's called MSM, men having sex with men. It's actually not uncommon at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:42 PM
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Men argue that "quickies" should be the regular sex while sex vulva/clit centric sex with foreplay, build up and "lovemaking" should be seen as irregular "special treats" since that takes longer. They say since women are anatomically capable of having quickies, they should be willing to have those daily even if orgasms are never part of it for her, and then look forward to orgasms once a month as a "special treat".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:34 PM
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I'd add going to bathroom and it smelling foul because he just shat is also a ladybonerkiller. I also read that domestic life itself is a real ladybonerkiller because women weren't cut out for year after year of routine domesticity. It robs them of joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:25 PM
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Dating apps suck and most women don't use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:55 PM
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There are a lot of women who wound up trapped by men because they couldn’t sell the thing men valued most. What? Care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:59 PM
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There's neither empathy nor sympathy from these jerks for women who never get any interest from men. They obnoxiously scream that such women just need to forget Chads and give nerdy Nicks a chance. They don't acknowledge that there are women out here who go through life completely unnoticed by anyone and barely have any female friends, some not having any friends at all. Chad, Brad, Nick, Nathan, Tyrone, Jamal, Mohammed - nobody knows she exists. So these men say all she has to do is go to a bar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:26 PM
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A legal and regulated sex industry is better for just about everyone except for actual traffickers, pimps, and John's Traffickers are flourshing in Holland and Germany right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:16 PM
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Sex trafficking increased in the Netherlands when prostitution was legalized. Same in Germany.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:14 PM
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Brotherhood is the answer. Leave women out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:12 PM
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My cousin sincerely loves buying gifts for all her boyfriends frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:09 PM
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What about women who can't even get friendzoned? The opposite sex is so uniniterested in them that they are not willing to become their friends, what to speak of lovers. I know several women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:07 PM
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Two alternatives: Date down across all metrics: looks, money, educational attainment, socio-economic class, etc, then they wouldn't have anything to complain about anymore and the women they date would be fulfilling what these men call their "hypergamous" needs. Monastic life. Many religions still have monastic orders where monastics can live in monasteries, ashrams, etc, creating brotherhood, contributing to society and being a part of something greater than themselves. For the non-religious, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:48 PM
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If those trademarked "nice guys" date down across all metrics: looks, money, educational attainment, socio-economic class, etc, then they wouldn't have anything to complain about anymore and the women they date would be fulfilling what these men call their "hypergamous" needs. But "nice guys" don't want to "settle".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:44 PM
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Not only that, this comment I found out that I had a male testicle instead of an overy when my husband and I were in a Dr's office while we were trying to get pregnant. My husband had a worse problem with it than I had. He left me that day and threatened to kill me. I had to call the police. He went to jail that day, and I moved to Alaska to get away from him. I've lived off grid in Trapper Creek Alaska ever since. It's been 40 years now, and I've never hidden this from anyone. I've been with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:01 PM
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This. 100% this. It's beyond time for this to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:52 PM
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Hetero men have sexualized bi women for themselves while hetero women have not done the same to bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:30 PM
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Another inflammatory post posted solely to rile readers up and not engage in conversation. PPD moderators, notice how this poster, Past-Shoulder-631, has not responded to anyone else's comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:02 PM
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It's not just a matter of being "sexually attracted". It's also a matter of relationship, of consent, of time, of context. Just because a woman is "sexually attracted" to a man doesn't mean sex with him is on the table immediately, or even ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:00 PM
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Prostitutes aren't working their jobs because they desire sex with those men, they do it to make a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:56 PM
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Women have the privilege to select their partners. So they should select harshly and meticulously. And when they do the nations cry "male loneliness epidemic!!!!!!!!!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:54 PM
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How young? What do the ratios look like between the ages of 30 to 40? 40 to 50? 50 and beyond?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:03 AM
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If you read the histories of monasteries and monks, most men were not elite or even thought about being a monk while growing up. It wasn't their first choice. But they made the best of a bad bargain and some even became saints. Also, some poor families "donated" their kids to monasteries because they couldn't afford to raise them. Anyway, there were a diversity of reasons people joined them. For many it was a solution to an otherwise "miserable" life. If they were brought back, it would provide …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:55 AM
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I'm interested in the reasons women give for not liking bisexuality in their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:43 AM
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Yes, people are less social than they used to be. People like to relax alone at home in front of their screens. They don't want to be around other people all the time and families require that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:38 AM
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They actually say, "I'm homophobic and biphobic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:35 AM
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I'm going to copy and paste a comment I wrote regarding how men can find companionship and love without women. Isn't it a fact that throughout the history of humankind most men did not reproduce? When religions with celibate clergy such as Orthodox Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism, etc were more widespread and popular, they had place to absorb non-reproducers, both male and female, the convents, monasteries, ashrams, etc. These are places where single people could come toge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:31 AM
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What reason do women give for not liking bisexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:22 AM
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He says a lot of women don't like bisexuality in a partner though. Is that true? If so, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:21 AM
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He says a lot of women don't like bisexuality in a partner though. Is that true? If so, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:20 AM
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Dating down in all categories: looks, money, educational attainment. That way these male complainers will get a partner and the women will fulfill what these men call their "hypergamy" needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:14 AM
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One solution is for these male complainers to date down, in every lane - looks, money, education level, etc. That way they will get a partner and the women will fulfill "hypergamy". Another solution is: Isn't it a fact that throughout the history of humankind most men did not reproduce? When religions with celibate clergy such as Orthodox Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism, etc were more widespread and popular, they had place to absorb non-reproducers, both male and female, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:08 AM
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Isn't it a fact that throughout the history of humankind most men did not reproduce? When religions with celibate clergy such as Orthodox Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism, etc were more widespread and popular, they had place to absorb non-reproducers, both male and female, the convents, monasteries, ashrams, etc. These are places where single people could come together and create something beautiful bigger than themselves and contribute to society. There are some still left…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:06 AM
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Isn't it a fact that throughout the history of humankind most men did not reproduce? When religions with celibate clergy such as Orthodox Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism, etc were more widespread and popular, they had place to absorb non-reproducers, both male and female, the convents, monasteries, ashrams, etc. These are places where single people could come together and create something beautiful bigger than themselves and contribute to society. There are some still left…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:06 AM
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Isn't it a fact that throughout the history of humankind most men did not reproduce? When religions with celibate clergy such as Orthodox Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism, etc were more widespread and popular, they had place to absorb non-reproducers, both male and female, the convents, monasteries, ashrams, etc. These are places where single people could come together and create something beautiful bigger than themselves and contribute to society. There are some still left…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:04 AM
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While it is true that throughout the history of humankind most men did not reproduce? When religions with celibate clergy such as Orthodox Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism, etc were more widespread and popular, they had place to absorb non-reproducers, both male and female, the convents, monasteries, ashrams, etc. These are places where single people could come together and create something beautiful bigger than themselves and contribute to society. There are some still lef…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:03 AM
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You can go an entire year in USA without seeing even a moderately good looking man in some areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:00 AM
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Monogamous marriages need to be polyandrous as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:53 PM
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I've never heard a man IRL actually use the term "situationship". I have. And the men and women I've heard use it did not use it for F buddy but for on-again/off-again relationships where one or both coudn't decide whether moving forward to living together was a good idea or not. A few also used it for long-distance relationships. It's an umbrella term encompassing several different situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:48 PM
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If you read the history of monks and monasteries, that life is not what many of them "were looking for in life" but they did and made the best of it, some becoming saints. We humans often have to make the best of a bad bargain. Life is not fair and nobody owes us anything. These points seem to be lost on people today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:43 PM
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I agree. It's not about pushing but exploring. Technically Jainism and Buddhism are considered "atheistic religions" so some people who aren't familiar with them might find a good match with either after doing research. Also, there's the possibility of men getting together and building non-religions communal spaces where they live and work together. If no money for co-creating something from scratch, 4 guys could get together and rent, lease or buy a 2 bedroom house or apartment. There's a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:33 PM
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Forget sex robots. Society had a solution for this already but it peaked several decades, if not a few hundred years ago. We simply need to bring it back. Here it is: Isn't it a fact that throughout the history of humankind most men did not reproduce? When religions with celibate clergy such as Orthodox Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism, etc were more widespread and popular, they had place to absorb non-reproducers, both male and female, the convents, monasteries, ashrams, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:23 PM
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"women need to change the way they view and select men which requires a strong social movement pushed by women, similar to how men slowly changed the type of woman they were attracted to. " Please explain more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:21 PM
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Society always had a solution for this but that solution peaked decades, if not a few hundred years ago. I say we bring it back. As I wrote above, here's the solution: Life's not "fair" - whatta ya gonna do bout it? Isn't it a fact that throughout the history of humankind most men did not reproduce? When religions with celibate clergy such as Orthodox Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism, etc were more widespread and popular, they had place to absorb non-reproducers, both male …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:20 PM
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Getting what they can is "settling" and that's what they criticize women for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:17 PM
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"My main problem with this issue is—what’s the solution?" Read what I wrote above. " Is there one?" YES! "If so, what is it?" Copy and pasted just for you below.... Here's what I wrote: Isn't it a fact that throughout the history of humankind most men did not reproduce? When religions with celibate clergy such as Orthodox Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism, etc were more widespread and popular, they had place to absorb non-reproducers, both male and female, the convents, mona…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:17 PM
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Life's not "fair" - whatta ya gonna do bout it? Isn't it a fact that throughout the history of humankind most men did not reproduce? When religions with celibate clergy such as Orthodox Christianity, Catholicism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jainism, etc were more widespread and popular, they had place to absorb non-reproducers, both male and female, the convents, monasteries, ashrams, etc. These are places where single people could come together and create something beautiful bigger than themselves and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:11 PM
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At the same time, a lot of the same men say they want traditional wives who follow gender roles, that women with careers aren't particularly attractive ("I'd rather go for the hot waitress", etc.) and that women are misguided for thinking that men care about their income or job. The"hot waitress" never goes for them. It's all hot air. Men that don't care about educational attainment, careers or income of wives do not come from high educational levels or high socio-economic classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:11 PM
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40 percent of the total income is only a 10% difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:39 PM
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"And if you think rich elites will just allow the society to die out or for men to reach the point where they rebel to get sex by force (or that they wouldn't do it), and women just keep their rights etc and sexless men who have no wives or daughters will enforce their rights, then think again."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:20 PM
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I don't know that "model tier" looks are common amongst hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:43 AM
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lol you act as though none of the women who care online ever downplayed the importance or size. LOL. You act as tho the women who are vocal about it to the whole world online would ever downplay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:28 AM
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Another idiot. LOL. Like the old manosphere blogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:45 PM
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The world needs that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:43 PM
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It always comes down to violence against women and girls with you psychopaths. You are itching to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:41 PM
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Sexual attraction between spouses, even love, is not seen as necessary in India. Once you reach 45ish it's considered shameful or at least undignified to still be having sex with your spourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:33 PM
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Well women did pay for One Taste in San Francisco which specialized in the 10 minute orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:21 PM
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He's very young. I'm guessing, by the way he writes and the things he says, no older than mid-teens. very sheltered, no experience with life. He's out here asking strangers on the internet where to do in his own town to find affordable hookers and saying 3somes, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, open marriage, etc can only result in good for the primary relationship. Totally unexposed to the realities of life and relationships. He's really just trolling the adults here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 11:09 PM
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Women have sex initiated on them. Which means they can use phrases like “grow to be attracted” and “over time they grew to love” & etc. because they are talking about their willingness to let actions happen My family comes from an arranged marriage culture and this is the way they talk - both men and women, for both men and women. They cite miniscule divorce rates as proof it works. American incels/black pillers also praise such cultures for this system and say it's a "solution" to all the probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:30 PM
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Reddit forbids the naming of ex-cons? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:32 PM
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You got let off easy. Be grateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:27 PM
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Hetero men DON'T WANT anything in their asses because it's ALWAYS painful. Why do they expect anal sex from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:22 PM
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" Men already risk their lives for the country in battle," So do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:54 AM
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An argument I forgot to add is that men are already legally required to fight and die for the country. Which country? I'm in USA where our military is 100 per cent voluntary, unlike Israel where both male and female citizens are required by law to give 2 years military service. Holland has legalized prostitution but instead of reducing human trafficking and sex slavery (as the original claim was) it has increased those crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:48 AM
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Now, if a man is a 9+ or rich, he basically has it just as easy as women. You cannot honestly believe that average women have it the same as 9 men. You don't know a 9 man and don't empathize with average and below average women if you think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:43 AM
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German culture is way less sexually repressed, weirdly conservative and influenced by religious ideals than American culture is, which influences their attitudes towards paid sex and sex in general. German men would have been more likely to engage in paid sex than American men, regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:39 AM
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I was just saying its easier as a woman in dating because women only need to be a 3+ to have it easier then a man that's even a 7 in looks. Bullshit. 7 is 2 points above average. Do you know how rare it is to see a 7 man in USA? Believe me, women and gay men want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:00 AM
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ok but what does that have to do with inkwells?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:58 AM
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They're hoping their girlfriends will turn to them after they dump their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:53 AM
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Red pillers are the anxiously attached and mentally unstable ones out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:52 AM
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you're a container for ink?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:49 AM
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Not until the orgasm gap is completely closed, they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:43 AM
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Socio-economic classes are a thing and assortative mating is the norm. Many men see a woman they are attracted to and shoot their shot out of their league, not only looks wise, but culture, educational level and socio-economic status level as well. Stay in your lane means ALL the lanes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:42 AM
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You're not trying to build a life and a family with someone, just hoping to "hang out" and "netflix and chill" so it wouldn't apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:40 AM
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The first comment under the video reads: I dated down, I dated/married for love. I stayed married for 14 yrs being belittled and abused so he can feel relevant. I humbly built him up and helped him get to my level. I dimmed my light to be his "helpmate". It only drained me and affected my mental health. I escaped and it took 6 yrs to recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:37 AM
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For example if a man dates a woman who works at McDonald's as a cashier women would think he's dating down as opposed to a man dating woman who makes $100,000 a year. In the eyes of men though, income is not a factor that matters. This has more to do with culture, family, and socio-economic status than anything else. The higher in culture and socio-economic status your parents are, the more they will care about their son's girlfriends' culture, educational levels and socio-economic status. Men f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:36 AM
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Most women aren't born with great looks either. 3 is not great looks, it's not even average. Most women are average looking just like most men. My country is full of average couples living average lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:27 AM
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Do you find yourself feeling more spiteful because women have it easy, and don’t have to think too hard? They get complimented and asked on dates without even having to try, and people often automatically assume that women are kind people.? Since when do "women have it easy" and "don't have to think too hard"? What? And who are all these women getting randomly complimented and asked out on dates? In which country is this and what do these women look like? How do they dress? And where are all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:23 AM
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Didn't you write this exact comment months ago? Seems like I keep seeing recurring comments on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 03:16 AM
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How so? Do you personally know any prison guards? I do. They usually come from a low socio-economic strata, that's why they take those jobs. In the 5 examples presented in your links, the people all came from similar struggle backgrounds. What's really baffling is when LAWYERS fall for, even marry, known murderers, as in the cases of Casey Anthony and "Sexy Sadie" Susan Atkins, the right-hand woman of Charles manson.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:42 AM
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Another factor is that many of these men in relationships are not sexually desired by their partners. They had some sex before children were born, and that’s it. Hormonal changes and exhaustion often play a role in women's sexuality after having children. That's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:39 AM
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Men can't have "bad sex". They orgasm every time. Or at least the vast majority of time. There's no reason at all for a woman to worry about "being bad at sex" for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:25 AM
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That's called Biology and "How the universe" was built. Men are not at fault that women were created for the task of child bearing and nurturing etc. Take it up with the universe. I'm not the one here claiming "All of those things go both ways" --- YOU ARE. There is also birth control available these days to prevent "accidents" Accidents are what happen when birth control is used but doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:01 AM
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Because Indian men love to copy and paste first world problems they read about on the internet onto India. It makes them feel more modern and westernized maybe? I mean, it's an arranged marriage and joint-family culture yet they still cry about "incels" and "men's rights" - in India of all places!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:40 AM
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"Put ourselves in their shoes, someone calls you, picks you up, drives you around all day doing fun stuff for free, free food, everything planned etc. Shit I'd be finding time to go out whenever for that as well." "Going out" is one thing, especially if meeting in a public place, but "hooking up" is another. With sexual assualt, rape, violence and femicide rates being what they are globally, the risks to women are way too high to chance it. "All those things" do not absolutely "go both ways". Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:37 AM
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Desi, the entire USA pumps our own gas without problem. NJ only doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:19 AM
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He's desi/Indian. Has no idea how USA works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:17 AM
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It's not cheap but you can freeze your eggs and do artificial insemination. Better than that is adoption - giving a parentless child a mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:15 AM
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Having kids is overrated. Men want the imagined status of being "fathers" without the responsibility of actual parenting. That's why in divorce dads don't try for even 50/50 custody of their children - forget about full custody. No. They want to be the "fun weekend parent" who gets their kid every 2nd weekend and once per week for a quick 1 hour dinner out. They simply don't want to deal with nursing their children back to health during a flu, measles, mumps, chicken pox, etc., making and taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:53 AM
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They lie about what they call "late stage abortions" too. As if women are out here purposely waiting until their 8th month to abort, just because, oh I dunno, it would be funner, safer and less complicated that way? Such uneducated idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:46 AM
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"Ancient Athens is well known for supporting state-subsidized prostitution, which heavily reduced sexual violence and provided a way for many war widows to escape poverty." --- What a profoundly sick and evil world we live in, and always lived in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:35 AM
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The following doesn't sound idiotic to you? " ... a guy who said he can tell a woman orgasmed because her leg shook. 🙃 They really think they are giving women 5+ orgasms in 15 minutes or less."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:08 AM
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"because het folks usually don’t think in these terms" If pegging becomes normalized then they will start to "think in these terms".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:02 AM
4

Notice there is not a single man here replying to his comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:00 AM
5

Normalizing hetero pegging is the only solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 12:00 AM
1

It will take pegging to make that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:59 PM
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Heterosexual pegging needs to be normalized to close the empathy gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:58 PM
1

They probably won't take it seriously until pegging gets normalized in all hetero sexual relationships and hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:57 PM
3

Pegging will probably have to be normalized in all hetero sexual experiencing to get the message across.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:56 PM
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Notice how no men replied to him. I think it's time pegging got introduced into all hetero sex so that hetero men can finally "get it".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:56 PM
1

Probably what’s mid/okay sex for me is what’s bad for men What do you mean "bad for men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:51 PM
6

Women can get mindblowing multiple orgasms from themselves alone in the comfort and privacy of their own homes. Why go out and risk: pregancy STD uncomfortableness pain abuse rape murder for the off chance of a lousy little half-orgasm with some dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:47 PM
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"You don't see women looking for sex as much as men are looking for sex." Because of the orgasm gap. If you were guaranteed not to have one most times (with the opposite sex, that is), you wouldn't be "looking for sex" as much as you do. Also, women absorb all of the risks: pregnancy STD rape murder reputation (still apperantly a thing if reddit megathreads are anything to go by) uncomfortableness pain To risk all those possibilities and not to get even one lousy little half-orgasm out of it? I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:43 PM
6

Coming from a man shouldn't make it "more valuable".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:36 PM
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"Like how if he slacks on chores or ends up being too needy, they lose sexual attraction." Then don't slack on chorse or act clingy. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:35 PM
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"With the right woman, I'm open to it." With the 'right woman'? What right woman? What does 'right woman' mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:20 PM
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And no religious people don't do it if their denomination considers is it sin or haram or whatever. Spoken like someone who was never religious and has no idea what religious people do behind doors. 1, 3, or 300 times a week... you don't need to pay for an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:03 PM
3

They are complete and total idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:59 PM
2

Does everything need to be spelled out for you people? Drug and sex trafficking are closely related, always has been. Go to the area of town where drugs are sold on the street and you will find sex for sale there as well. Most people know where the dodgy side is in their own damn town!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:57 PM
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Men also claim that they’re séxless and need it almost every day for forgiveness They need sex for forgiveness??? And yeah, you're right. Most women don't receive attention from men out in public. It's basically only young looking, thin and pretty women who do. Not your average Amy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:44 PM
3

what it takes to get ready for a date. We can throw on a shirt, while women need makeup, bras, dress,etc. Women are wising up and starting to match that energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:07 PM
4

It largely has to do with the orgasm gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 10:02 PM
1

Then why is this and this now happening if women have more options? From what you're saying women's demands are for higher quality men. Do you see those as higher quality men? Right. Disingenous. You know damn well your wife, your daughters, the women around you are not choosing ex-cons, and very few women are (just as few men are choosing ex-con gfs no matter how many admirers Casey Anthony and the like have, including her lawyer who moved her into his house). The examples you gave were of peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:48 PM
1

"doctors feed girl babies less, for less time, allow girls to cry longer," Where? Which hospitals in which countries? Absolutely evil. I would support the death penalty for those demonic "doctors".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:45 PM
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They do think something mutually beneficial happens, if it does. Not all sexual experiences are the same. Most men don't even bother learning some basic female anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:25 PM
2

At some point you have to get offline and go out into the real world and meet people. No way two ways about it, brah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:19 PM
3

I was referring to masturbation obviously. That's how most people are getting most orgasms, religious or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:18 PM
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I'm pretty sure the OP is desi/Indian. They use funny, misplaced words like that all the time. Or maybe they meant "chore".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:14 PM
3

If you go to rougher, more crime ridden areas of town there are usually people roaming the streets who will do that work for much, much cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:56 PM
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The men who would frequent prostitutes if it were state sponsored are the men who are frequenting them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:55 PM
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Oxytocin? Oxytocin is produced in many ways, not just through orgasm. And orgasms can be had ALONE (and yes oxytocin is produced that way too). Women don't orgasm with men as often as they do with other women and with themselves alone anyway. But again, orgasm is only one way to produce oxytocin. If you can't have sex, either with yourself or someone else, participate in other oxytocin producing activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:53 PM
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Orgasms do not require another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:50 PM
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Looks matter. Being a good person doesn't mean you are physically attractive. When men say they want a "homely girl" it means they want a PRETTY woman who is domestic. Duh. This is common knowledge that both men and women want a goodlooking partner. So what? *For Non-desis here: "Homely" is one of those old British terms that Indians have misappropriated. Instead of meaning "plain looking" as it did back in the day when it was in use to Brits, it means "domestic, of the home" in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:36 PM
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What's the point of desi dating when mummy will just arrange your marriage anyway? A bunch of grown adults sneaking out and lying to their parents like a bunch of children. That's not "dating".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:32 PM
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Actually most people are not behaving like this. Some because they don't want to, some because they can't, others may have other reasons. It was a hypothetical to debunk piller propaganda that says "female dating strategy is to lock one man down while male mating strategy is to spread seed".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:03 PM
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Do you. But don't knock 2 average people who find each other mid 30s who decide that they compatible enough to build a life together and stave off the isolation and loneliness that is life in 2025. Winter is coming and they have someone to bunker down with in front of the fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:59 PM
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" First it's the "Chad" in her 20s, who won't commit. Then it's the "betabux" who she marries. And guess, whose still always single? The ones believing in the fan fiction and making up cute little names for all the men actually dating women." So true! If betabux is real, and these dudes put themselves in that category, wouldn't they all be partnered by now? Instead they are crying about the "male loneliness epidemic" and begging the government to issue them an assigned "mate".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:45 PM
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"So we conclude that although a marriage is supposed to be for soul mates" Being hot doesn't make one a "soulmate". Hotness elicits immediate sexual reaction, soulmate has to do with 'connection' on many different levels, sometimes a past life connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 07:41 PM
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You mean "reciprocal" relationships? Because transactional has a monetary connotation,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:46 PM
2

When did "n count" become a thing? I've never asked or was asked this when dating. I talked to boomers, gen x-ers, and millenials and they all said they never heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:21 AM
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"They were typically prone to outburst because they couldn't process their emotions. They let their insecurities cause them to harm other people." Have you heard about this latest crime? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6a1Zw1u8sk His creepy TikTok clips are toward the end of the video. I'm so sick of all the femicide taking place!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:02 AM
2

Violent crime statistics say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:00 AM
2

Mental health issues, personality disorders, autism, and the overall beloved "neurodivergence" etc are prolific in the USA amongst men. Yes, women have all this too but women MASK more. Society seems to enable men to let loose with all their issues while women are expected to mask, "grow up/woman up" and face the world head on. Can men with these issues be "good"? Sure. Not necessarily good for a relationship though, and they sure as hell aren't willing to mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:58 AM
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Not at all. Most marriages are arranged so guys don't have to work on themselves at all to be guaranteed a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:52 PM
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The OP is Indian, give him a break. They try their hardest to copy PUAs and red pill in a culture of arranged marriage. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:50 PM
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I think the OP is from India and they often get western internet terms mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:48 PM
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I'm betting he's Desi (Indian).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:47 PM
2

Oh come now, humans will be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:40 PM
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Black don't crack, yes. They're also the only men who can pull off the bald look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:05 PM
1

How soon can it happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:03 PM
2

Bingo! Now you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:03 PM
2

What implants are men getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:42 PM
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Why is lying necessary? Are there that many ex-cons, murderers, rapists, pdf files, armed robbers, arsonists, white nationalists, etc in the dating scene that lying about one's past (or present) becomes necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:41 PM
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Framing men getting haircuts or taking showers as lookmaxxing and "trying too hard" Oh boy....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:20 PM
1

And Reddit calls you "reasonable" mouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:19 PM
1

And reddit calls you "reasonable" mouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:18 PM
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She'd be more attractive with darker skin. Light skin tends to make people look older than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:09 PM
1

T levels peak in late teens. I guess men hit their wall at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:24 PM
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"That starts happening after 50". Are you sure about that? Perimenopause usually starts late 30s to mid 40s, no? And T levels in men start dropping off late 20s, I thought.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:55 PM
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Well at least you say 20s. The Manosphere says by 16 girls hit the wall. "If men thought middle-aged single moms were the most attractive then everyone's dating problems would vanish instantly." Not really. Single moms also have standards. And they've got their kids to worry about. Way to many pedo, hebe and ephebophiles lurking about wanting to fulfill their porn fantasies with non-adults. They are known to target single moms for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:44 PM
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Poor women and not men for impregnating them? Have you been to India?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:18 PM
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TLDR; The Male Loneliness Epidemic vs The Female Safety Crisis.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UmYjBjijpCk&list=PLsIAQrZf8m-oZiqA3aM_JIbwLW8eGwtJ6
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:15 PM
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Depends on location. Some places have more good looking men than others. Some places you will see a really handsome man every week, even every day. Other places you can go a whole year without seeing even one 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:59 PM
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It's not mandatory to pair up. A happy, fulfilling life can be lived without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:47 PM
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Indian man said, ""I dont care for the bottom 70% ." The bottom 70%!? Did anyone else here catch this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:46 PM
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"I dont care for the bottom 70% ." The bottom 70%! Did anyone else here catch this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:46 PM
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When dowries were given to brides in European culture, they didn't stay in her hands. The dowries were intended to help the couple together starting out. Often times if the dowry was in the form of money and not household gifts, the husbands took complete control of it. In South Asian cultures like India TODAY (where dowry deaths are prolific) the dowries go to the men and their parents. Why do you think Indian-American influencer "This is Shah" created the "gold pill"? He's trying to convince w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:41 PM
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Those men should have chosen better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:20 PM
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You can't live in India and think eve-teasing only happens in "bad places". Unless you think everywhere in India is "bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:20 AM
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What does being below 21 have to do with anything? You think sexual desire starts at 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:11 AM
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Basically don't go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:10 AM
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Much higher. So many miserable marriages in India. Couples who absolutely hate each other. Women who are abused, even almost killed. Dowry deaths, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:09 AM
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Means and connections for what? "Virgin tests" are illegal and no one would agree to it. And you think virgins don't have sexual desires? Are you free from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:07 AM
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There's no need for men to approach women. And Desi dudes need to stop the disgusting eve-teasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:05 AM
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But from you it sounds fake and gay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:03 AM
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The divorce rates are too low.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:01 AM
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The question wasn't for you. There's no way to know if someone is a "virgin" or not. And there are virgins who want to sleep around too but for whatever reason they don't. Men in India have no business on this reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:00 AM
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Stop copying west goras lingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:58 AM
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Marriage rates have been trending down for a while in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:56 AM
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Arranged marriage woes. And yet they insist on us making the same mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:51 AM
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Nobody's telling you to get involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:33 AM
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You posted that research like it's a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:22 AM
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And? So? There's always going to be people prettier, smarter, richer, etc than you. You can't live your life envious of an imagined scenario. That's no way to live life, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:04 AM
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Yes but presumably they pair up with a longterm partner that attracts them too. Doesn't mean they stop finding other people attractive, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:48 AM
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Anal sex is dangerous and unhealthy. Some people try and don't like it so don't do it again. Some people do it and later come to understand that it is dangerous fo their longterm health and then correct course, that is only a good thing. Obviously 3somes are not conducive for a marriage. Why even bother getting married if one wants polyamory?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:44 AM
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Care to explain? My post said nothing about "attraction".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:39 AM
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I don't use that phrase. My point was to debunk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:33 PM
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Men usually peak at 25-35 as far as physical attractiveness is concerned, and start declining after 40. There's really only 1 ethnicity of men that looks good after 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:29 PM
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You didn't want to have sex but you did anyway because what... again? "I just thought, why would I be that naive guy that some girl who played the field settles down with?" Sounds like you are naive if you had casual sex even when you didn't want to. Nobody expects someone to marry or settle down naively but rather because they love someone and intentionally want to build a life with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:13 PM
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"Wild" sex? There's a lot going unsaid here between that and winter_lover28's "best sex" and "experimenting with many things".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:03 PM
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What do you mean "they're getting"? They are CHOOSING these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:59 PM
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Well 2 isn't exactly enough to make the sweeping generalizations that you did. "Running" chores? Did you mean "doing chores" or "running errands"? Both of which are aspects of usual, ordinary, mundane human life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:50 PM
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The word "experiment" connotates trying new things so I was asking what new things exactly. Regarding "sex drives" aren't the highest sex drives, hormonally speaking, for both males and females, in their teens?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:46 PM
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How many married male friends do you have that regularly open up to you about their marital misery?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:39 PM
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You have married male friends that regularly open up to you about their marital misery?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:38 PM
3

I'm not quite getting you. Could you be more specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:34 PM
3

Experimenting with what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:32 PM
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Define "best" here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:28 PM
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Yes. What I'm addressing here is the silly Female vs Male Mating Strategy that redpillers harp on about. You know, women playing the field in their "best years" and then wanting to settle down with a "simp" when they've "hit the wall". LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:27 PM
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But you want to and presumably would if you could - right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:18 PM
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Don't knock it til you've tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:16 PM
2

Yeah but I'm arguing against a certain silly idea we hear from pillermen online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:15 PM
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A girl who wants to sleep around but can't, like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:13 PM
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Pillers don't seem to give this grace to women, only men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:10 PM
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Yeah I don't get the fury over women wanting to eventually settle down and nest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:09 PM
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Any guy that wants to have kids and will eventually try to look for stability in a partner Pillermen seem to be upset that women also "eventually" look for stability in a partner. I guess they think "eventually" is ok for men but not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:07 PM
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You mean Capitalism?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:02 PM
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Me too. But I'm specifically addressing the idea that women play the field in their youth but then want to settle down with one man after their best years are over, well, what is being called their "best years" are their 20s which is when men also hope to play the field. It's a youth thing. A hormone thing. When those hormones settle down and one is established in a more placid, "adulting" life, one naturally starts thinking of nesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:57 PM
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What made it better and easier for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:56 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:55 PM
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Probably. But this idea that women play the field in their youth but then want to settle down with one man after their best years are over, well, what is being called their "best years" are their 20s which is when men also hope to play the field. It's a youth thing. A hormone thing. When those hormones settle down and one is established in a more placid, "adulting" life, one naturally starts thinking of nesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:54 PM
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Do you live in Jammu? Kashmir?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:52 PM
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.... an endless catalogue of women of any variety willing to participate in any debased sex act you so desire... Why do men desire "debased" sex acts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:49 PM
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So why are you trying to mislead people? The vast majority of Indian marriages are still arranged and brides are coralled off like cattle to live in the "joint family home" of husband. There is no socially accepted "dating culture" outside of a few,, rare "modern, westernized" and wealthier families. Even then, after those daters are done trying to copy the west, mummy and puppy will still arrange their marriage according to caste, region, religion and socio-economic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:46 PM
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The vast majority of Indians do not have that "fair" of a complexion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:37 PM
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Never before in history has marriage been less of a necessity than today, what to speak of "relationships". Historically marriage has been transactional and of necessity. In arranged marriage cultures like India and several others, it still is. But for everyone else where we choose our own partners and what kind of relationship to have with them because we "want to", the necessity and transaction has never been lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:35 PM
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"Fair"? Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:29 PM
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Which country is that? In USA the vast majority of couples are ordinary. Assortative mating is a universal norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:27 PM
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Find what such women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:18 PM
2

Do you consider anal sex "vanilla"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:14 PM
2

yes but not in this masses, you see in 1/2 Hour on the street maybe 10 really attractive woman Where do you live? Where I am in a half hour you might see 1 "really" attractive woman and in one month you might see a "really" attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:12 PM
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Forget OK Cupid. On the street and in the homes (mostly rented) USA is filled with ordinary looking couples, most of them overweight or out of shape in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:10 PM
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Free use?!?! Dare I ask? I don't think I wanna know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:06 PM
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Plain, not ugly. The vast majority of people are plain - so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:04 PM
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I does seem the older men get the more delusional they become.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:58 PM
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I first found this out when I saw incal and femcals subs of my country Which country is that? In India women absolutely have it worse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:12 PM
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Christianity = generational dysfunction? What does the data say? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkz1V49WdLg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 02:23 PM
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Again, you're not concerned that someone's been assaulted. You're concerned she's "getting off" in her mind without you in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:34 PM
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So your real concern here is the possibility of a gf thinking of another man instead of you....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:33 PM
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I've heard the BDSM world is being inundated with patriarchal "red pill" men that think like that who purposely weazle their way into various communities to prey upon people. Communities are alert to them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:02 PM
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Women are not advocating for sexual crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:55 PM
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Then why would they eveolve to be turned on by something that simulates rape or a lack of consent of all things? What?!?! Who the hell "evolved" for that?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:55 PM
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Well if consent is a mandatory requirement for a sexual assault fantasy, than to me that’s just consentual roleplay That's exactly what it is - duh!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:53 PM
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Nobody wants to engage in practices that steward the mind, like meditation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:46 PM
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like so many women seem to have that fantasy, but the only deterrent they ever have is “it’s against the law”. What fantasy is "against the law"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 09:41 PM
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You are a rape apologist saying that women feel lust during SA. What fantasy? What exactly is "against the law" here that you are referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:29 PM
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No, it was she who blocked him then made another account in hopes of reconnecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:11 PM
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Are you and your female friend Desi by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 03:10 PM
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You're not in "America" you don't know what's going on here. "Liberals" don't want to "ban" social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:59 PM
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I've never seen a woman shout "helloooooo, nurse!" LOL. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:51 PM
2

No pushback because no one in "the manosphere" can meet those new standards so they won't have to join the military and go to war, only "Chads" will.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:29 PM
1

Some women prefer this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:18 PM
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They are obsessed. Latent homosexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:12 PM
1

They've always been a minority, hasn't changed anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:34 AM
1

Right now it looks like the capitalists are doubling down. I see a future of a rich, capitalist overlord class and poor minions, no in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 12:23 AM
1

Do you see the end of capitalism any time or is it just going to get worse and worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:05 PM
2

Some solid advice for neurodivergents https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c4f8NNi6J38
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:44 PM
4

Ask me anyhing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:56 PM
13

It really depends on culture and socio-economic class. The "higher class" someone is, they more they and their parents care about the educational attainments and careers of prospective spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:55 PM
5

I come from an arranged marriage culture. Ask me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:17 PM
1

no true scotsman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:05 PM
2

"Kind of depends, but you're right in that most of those PUA gurus" are men who peaked years ago and are average at best." I was talking about their peak. They were average at best looking then. Now they look like roadkill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 02:19 PM
1

Nuclear family is a breakdown of traditional family systems, hence the "nuclear". There are some Muslim women open to polygyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:24 PM
1

"I’m speaking in the context of divorce. Divorce is not an option for those that vow religiously in absence of abuse" Really? What are the statistics on religious people divorcing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:21 PM
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First of all, there's this thing called sexually transmitted disease/STD. Therefore in such an arrangement neither person would be sleeping with other people, otherwise that would be called "polyamory". LAFWB is a temporary monogamist relationship. And it's very much availabe to "average ass looking dudes" considering that is the vast majority of dudes out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:08 PM
2

Now, now, take a breath and calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:48 PM
4

if your're a 5 then a 3 partner is reasonable for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:43 PM
3

Pretty privilege is real!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:40 PM
3

Feminists say men are more suited for certain roles? Can you provide evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:38 PM
1

Yes, I think so. It makes 4B easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:35 PM
1

4B is best but if you're going to have any relationship with them, this kind is best. It's good to have sit-down before hand and write up a boundary defining agreement. Like, "this relationship will last 6 months in which we will be committed to each other and then end it". If he's particularly appealing, put in an option to review and renew for another 6. But then the risk is growing attachment, or if you're lucky, getting so familiar that you get sick of him and easily move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 09:32 PM
0

I have a very specific looks type that is generally found in certain phenotypes from certain regions of the world. Unfortunately those regions happen to contain cultures that are patriarchal and misogynistic, very generally speaking. Therefore when I initially find myself attracted to a gorgeous man I often have to remind myself that there's a good chance I will hate his views, character, personality so I am hesitant to show interest. In the even they show interest in me, I always give them a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:13 PM
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"Player types" are usually not great looking. I mean, think of all the PUA "gurus" that peaked years ago, average at best - very best. Great looking men live in a parallel universe. You can't expect what happens to them to happen to you, your friends, acquaintaces, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 05:41 PM
1

It will happen when science advances to the point of sex selection within the womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:05 AM
5

That's basically their message to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:43 PM
1

No. But there's local volunteerism too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:42 PM
1

Different countries and different areas within those different countries are known or not know for being friendly like that with strangers. I've lived in various areas and there's always a learning curve as to if it's the thing to do or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:41 PM
1

Sure. Many do. But it's not women's job to solve the so called "male loneliness crisis". The brotherhood needs to step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:37 PM
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It's weird that men gravitate towards it as well. Why do men crash sites to view actual rapes that have been filmed? Why do they create sites where they upload hidden camera footage of their very own daughters, mothers and sisters? Why does any of this exist? Online porn is allowed to exist by law in most countries. Children are reporting first views as young as 7, full on addictions by 12. The sickest most depraved acts in the world have been normalized via this evil industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:36 PM
1

Did the fathers those children were given to do fulltime childcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:31 PM
6

At the forefront: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SS3hHrvjKxc Where are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:42 PM
3

Gay male friends can help them do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:31 PM
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At the forefront: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SS3hHrvjKxc Where are you? " could be spent on the actual charitable cause " Women donate. But you certainly don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:16 PM
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Maybe they've been influenced by porn. Before online porn became rampant, most people never heard of these kinks. I certainly could never conceive of them in my wildest dreams/nightmares. And people who aren't viewing porn or are not adjacent to people who do, still don't know about them. It's very much a cultural thing. A porn culture thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:13 PM
2

Great. Let it end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:10 PM
1

Boxing might be a better example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:09 PM
7

Everything from charity boards to donating to volunteering physically. This idea that women are less empathetic than men or not empathetic at all is pure bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 07:05 PM
7

Women are at the forefront in fighting for the poor, the homeless, the drug addicted, etc. Women are disproportionately represented in caregiving jobs. They don't lack empathy for humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:52 PM
4

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:47 PM
7

Let's see if any of the men here can understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:45 PM
5

Sounds like straight men need gay male friends then. And slightly more femme gay male friends than masc gay male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:31 PM
3

That psycho in the youtube link you posted was horrible. So called "good men" don't "become monsters real quick". If they become monsters real quick or at all, they weren't "good men" to beginwith.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:25 PM
3

Waiting2Wed is mostly women who have been girlfriend zoned for years on end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:48 PM
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So if private relationships become common law marriages eventually, then it's best to not have a private relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:46 PM
4

Someone has to file first, even if the decision to divorce is mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:45 PM
6

Men like the idea of being "fathers", not actual parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:39 PM
5

Men like the idea of being "fathers", not actual parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:39 PM
3

Men like the idea of being "fathers", not actual parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:38 PM
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Yes. Because most divorced dads don't want full or even half custody of their kids. They just want to be the "fun weekend dad" who gets their kid every 2nd weekend and once per week for a quick dinner out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:32 PM
4

Are common law marriages "private relationships"? What are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 04:00 PM
3

"Africa which is a very traditional and religious continent has the highest birthrate out of every one else." But it's still down from what it was. Birthrates are declining globally. "Source? Just trust me bro!" Tune into ex-Muslims channels on youtube and tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:59 PM
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"When you try to explain to any woman how marriage is a contract poisoned by the government that turns a private relationship into the business of the state, it's in one ear and out the other." --- Weddings are not government contracts. You can have a wedding without registering the marriage with the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:55 PM
4

Right. Commenter made it seem like "Mohammeds" in UK want as many or more kids than their parents had. Birth rates are declining with each successive generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:51 PM
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There is a growing and thriving "Ex-Muslim Movement" taking place right now. Birth rates are down across all demographics, world wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:49 PM
1

What does "love" have to do with not wanting to raise your grandchildren? Of course most grandmas love their grandkids. Doesn't mean they want to be with them every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:12 PM
11

Bumble recently put billboards up begging women not to stay celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 03:09 PM
0

So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:59 PM
5

Conservative and religious women will not allow Feminism to die out. They fully take advantage of all the rights and progress for women in general that Feminism has made.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:56 PM
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He's obviously never heard about ex-Muslims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:49 PM
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"I mean clearly that isn't happening considering now the most common name in the UK is Mohammed." What does that have to do with, "People who don't want kids usually came from parents who did."?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:46 PM
1

Any generation grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:01 PM
1

Well, they enjoy the "fun grandma" role where you see your grandkids once in a while and get to do fun stuff with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 02:00 PM
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Conservative grandmas think the wider family taking care of kids is "communism". They want to retire, relax, play golf, go on vacation. They call it their "golden years" for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:32 PM
0

Haven't you heard? Women never get to retire, no matter the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:29 PM
1

So a woman never gets to retire, is what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:28 PM
1

"What matters is if the guy is helping you when you are overwhelmed with the kid" Parenting gets called "helping"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:08 PM
0

Ladies, winter is coming and hobosexuals are out and about looking for places to rest and nest. Don't let them in! If you're amongst the dying breed that is still interested in "dating" these dudes, meet them in day time in a public place, never, ever, ever let them know where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 07:06 PM
2

the sisterhood needs to step up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:32 PM
1

we wuz kangz
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:31 PM
1

" there's hundreds of thousands of frustrated men spending money on channels that abuse females like the Nth rooms" Why do psychopaths paying to see humans tortured have to do with "frustration"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:03 AM
1

RFK jr is coming out with a cure for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:54 AM
2

"Do so many autistic men ACTUALLY want the typical white picket fence house supporting a wife and two kids?" --- No. Nor do they say they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:53 AM
0

What structure is generating vengeful incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:14 AM
1

Some do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:45 PM
5

The "male loneliness crisis" is framed by both mainstream and social media as women's fault. It's not. Men aren't extending a hand to their brothers in need. It has nothing to do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:44 PM
2

Go for older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:21 PM
1

He doesn't have to worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:04 PM
1

Well, he won't have to worry about that scam anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:03 PM
6

Tucker Carlson's Jesus says they might have a crush on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:56 PM
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"Women’s problems are mostly imaginary or self inflicted while men have problems from divine" Problems from divine? As in Tucker Carlson's Jesus?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:52 PM
-2

Assortative mating is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:51 PM
0

Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:47 PM
0

Don't be jealous of people who travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:46 PM
0

Don't hate. Appreciate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:19 PM
1

What language is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:13 PM
1

Shy women will get a friend to ask the guy if he's interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:59 PM
2

"Point out their flaws, make subtle jokes at their expense, be a dick." Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:58 PM
3

4B4eva
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:56 PM
3

"The problem is loneliness and isolation" Women can't solve that for men. Other men have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:55 PM
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"(Some) women should stop treating themselves as a prize to be won. Because yes, some women are guilty of this. “If a man wants me he needs to be this this and this”. It's called having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:45 PM
0

Great idea. But too late. Women won't be having kids anywhere near the extent they did just 30 years ago. The government will have to compensate women to do so if it's so important to them to keep the population of "citizens" going.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:34 PM
4

"Signs"?! R u 4 real?! Women don't drop "signs" with men they are truly interested in, they directly approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:29 PM
2

"If this were true, then why are women complaining about a male loneliness epidemic?" What women are complaining about that? We want to make it a pandemic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VS-chIHooTE
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:16 AM
2

"There are so many funny sexy smart men out there." There are?! Which cities in which countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:07 AM
1

Ladies, winter is coming, hobosexual season is upon us, pests looking for a nest to rest are out and about. Stay safe and don't ever let them know where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:06 AM
2

4B
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:07 PM
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"Women ask out guys from hobby groups all the time. " --- I've been saying here that when a woman is truly interested in a man, she will let him know, and Redditmen are saying "doesn't happen" - which just means it doesn't happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:35 AM
1

sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:41 PM
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Hmmm.... maybe in the beginning. But the 6 figures bit has been repeated by multiple RP podcast bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:41 PM
1

Way past high school. And yes, adult women let the men they are truly interested in know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:36 PM
1

If they're peaceful they're not hooking up, at least not with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:53 PM
1

4th wave is 4B, no? They are not in the market for "choosing".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:52 PM
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The single mom rate is going down. Birth rates are plummeting so you don't have to worry about that any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 03:23 AM
0

So you're saying of the two, the man should be able to "run women over" rather than the "woman run the man over"? Why anybody has to run anybody over? No wonder the birth rate is plummeting!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:58 AM
2

Oh god he looks horrid!!!! And he's wearing the same type of hat rollo wears to hide the bald. Rollo without that hat looks like an 82 year old woman and I bet it's no "mystery" that this dude looks the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:36 AM
-1

Listening is a communication skill that is important for couples, but leader of what, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:21 AM
1

He's like 54 now, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:19 AM
1

Whatever happened to "Mystery"? Owen Cook and his anchor baby? And who was that other guy - Eben Pagan? And the NLP guy (he must be 98 years old by now)?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:41 AM
2

That's weird to ask. Especially in the beginning of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:38 AM
3

I think that's what they used to call "alpha". Then they started using "high value man" when they brought money into the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:37 AM
0

Not in USA
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:22 AM
1

The way it was worded made it sound like former frat bros remained unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:21 AM
1

But the people who first started using that term defined it as earning 6 figures consistently over several years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:06 AM
3

Submissive? What does that mean? What about just being normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:04 AM
2

"Some of them will be frat bros, and others will be the “married with kids” type. " Interesting. Do men who once belonged to fraternities in uni have lower marriage and kid rates compared to their non-frat bro counterparts in USA?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:02 AM
3

"A wife could choose to leave and get paid for leaving" But if your partner leaves you're going to take care of her financially anyway...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:57 AM
1

Would a fake wedding ring work?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:56 AM
3

Neurodivergence and physical unattractiveness are HUGE issues in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:52 AM
1

Neurodiverence is a big issue in today's America. So is physical unattractiveness and morbid obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:51 AM
0

What's wrong with putting trash by the door? That way we see that it needs to be taken out the next time someone in the house goes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:50 AM
0

Choose better or stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:47 AM
3

DIVORCE HIM.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:46 AM
1

Lacking facial bones?!?! Sounds like a congenital disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:43 AM
1

Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:41 AM
1

Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:40 AM
1

Sounds about white.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:39 AM
1

Sounds about white.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:39 AM
0

Watch the movie "When A Man Loves A Woman" for free on Youtube.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:39 AM
15

Yup. These podcast bros (and Sadia Khan/Con) talking all "high value man" and "high value woman" garbage have no idea what it is like to grow up around the upper-middle and above classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:35 AM
3

Great! Stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:33 AM
1

Which society in which country? I've lived in several and never heard "looks don't matter". But I'd like to visit that society for research purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:32 AM
1

LOL! Your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:22 AM
2

"such as making creepy comments but swear they should be able to get away with it because hot guys do." Where are these "hot guys making creepy comments"? The only "hot guys" I've ever known have been exceptionally kind. And the "hot girls" were not shallow. These guys are bigoted against above average looking people, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:16 AM
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He can't know her previous timelines. People aren't connected like that socially like they used to be when humans barely ever left their own villages.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:02 AM
2

How would they even know previous timelines?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:01 AM
1

They will. But they will read this too: Depends on culture. Some men come from cultures where they pay for dates not because they feel they "owe" you or you "owe" them anything, it's just considered the right thing to do. Usually those are the same cultures where men fight to pay for their male friends' meals too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:59 PM
1

Women. Also read this: Depends on culture. Some men come from cultures where they pay for dates not because they feel they "owe" you or you "owe" them anything, it's just considered the right thing to do. Usually those are the same cultures where men fight to pay for their male friends' meals too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:58 PM
3

Depends on culture. Some men come from cultures where they pay for dates not because they feel they "owe" you or you "owe" them anything, it's just considered the right thing to do. Usually those are the same cultures where men fight to pay for their male friends' meals too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:58 PM
1

There's also a difference between circumscised and un
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:51 PM
5

You're saying your wife's only other alternative was being homeless and uneducated?!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:47 PM
1

First few times may not feel "awesome" as you say, but it shouldn't hurt. If it hurts, it's not being done right. It might take time, days, even weeks, to gradually work up to the full experience. Any one who demands immediate action should be dumped, deleted and blocked at once. Never to be thought of again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:45 PM
2

No wonder women can't be "nice" when turning them down. What about screaming no in their face and telling them they are so disgusting that if they were the last man on earth you wouldn't date them. Or giving them a fake number? Or making weird faces and acting super crazy? Or just laughing in their face? Or carrying a gun and pointing it at them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:54 PM
1

Been there, done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:51 PM
2

And men wonder why women have to be impolite when turing them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:48 PM
3

Even reddit has rules too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:44 PM
1

"It is what it is". Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:42 PM
0

Cool. Then stop whining about the so called "male loneliness crisis".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:41 PM
3

kay
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:33 AM
5

Interesting how you're quick to accuse me of "Islamophobia" and not quick to ask me if I'm Muslim. How many non-Muslims do you know that know what "deen" even means?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:28 AM
5

Islamophobia?! Where? Quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:15 AM
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It's so funny how Indian guys are all over this PPD subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:46 AM
10

Pay for her lifestyle? Does that include a full retirement package, investments, 401k, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:29 AM
2

Um, read your comment above. "Yes, together with the completeness of the LGBT community" in response to mine, "Are you with me that rich men should create communal homes for autistic men so they can live and love together?" So.... LGBTQA: Lesbian Gay Bi Trans Queer Autistic Geez. We really do have to spell everything out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:14 AM
1

Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:10 AM
1

LGBTQA
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:10 AM
14

Right. The woman without her own money needs everything paid for from day 1 until she dies. Even after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:53 AM
6

Do you produce value for a corporation/boss/client? How do you make a living? Do you make a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:52 AM
0

There's an online self-improvement to Islam pipeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:43 AM
3

"I am just not willing to accept women who expect marriage after living a hedonistic life" It's not an unrealistic expectation. Plenty of married people used to be hedonistic. Some still carry the hedon on after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:42 AM
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Gross. No one needs that visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:38 AM
7

It's good that you recognize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:37 AM
2

Did self improving help you? Are you on your deen now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:35 AM
2

The men who shouted "we are going our own way" - were met with shrugs by women. Women weren't paying them any mind to beginwith. And yet, all these years later they still won't stop bothering women. How long will it take them to go away? They've been shouting that since the Obama admin and here we are Trump1, Biden and Trump2 later.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:34 AM
1

Revolutions come from the middle class?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:19 AM
1

I agree. Funny how this current governmental administration is trying to make divorce harder and getting pregnant easier. They fall into that "dumb, dysfunctional" category that shoulda never married themselves (or been allowed anywhere near government).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:31 PM
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See above.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:23 PM
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Men didn't go their own way, they were sent their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:23 PM
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"cook and clean for him" Disabled passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:21 PM
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I wish the men in my country would looksmax. I often go 1, even 2, years without seeing even 1 great looking guy. But a great face is largely genetic. Still.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:19 PM
1

from the start my response was always going to be "I have a boyfriend." Even if you didn't have a boyfriend? I think honesty is the best policy. If someone asks for your number or asks you on a date, you don't own any explanation beyond "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:14 PM
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Autist or normal, men just aren't showing up for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:53 PM
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And? Are you with me that rich men should create communal homes for autistic men so they can live and love together?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:52 PM
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Well the point of the OP itself is, and I quote, "it is baffling to expect women, especially neurotypicals, to be somehow guilted into giving autistic men a chance."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:50 PM
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Are there communal homes for austic men where they can live and love together? If not, rich men like Bezos and Elon should create them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:27 PM
1

Right? Maybe that's why they feel so entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:26 PM
1

"It is interesting how many people on reddit suggest autistic men date autistic women when autistic women don't like autistic men anymore then their neruotypical counterparts. " Are there communal homes for autistic men where they can live and love together? If not rich men like Bezos and Elon should create them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:25 PM
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"On the Wrong Planet forum circa 2007, nearly all the guys were rotting in loneliness" And here we are in 2025 and there's still a "male loneliness crisis". All this time and men have failed to show up for their brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:17 PM
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Forget "put up with an autistic woman's weirdness" - there are some men out here who will purposely seek out women with mental challenges and personality disorders because they think such women are "easy'. Not just sexually easy, but easy to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:15 PM
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It wasn't that long ago when autistic men were institutionalized. I'm not saying they should be now, after all, husbands used to istitutionalize their wives for things like PMS, menopause, divorce requests and discovering father-child incest, but it does put things into perspective when you realize our society just didn't tolerate these types of men to the extent we tolerate them in today's post-Reagan era. It was Dead Prez Reagan who closed all the institutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:12 PM
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"friends who didn't masturbate" Didn't know there was such a thing. But yeah, it's up to women to lead men in how to please them. At the very least, even the people who never masturbated know intuitively that sex should not hurt. I mean sex has always been sold as the most pleasurable sought after thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:06 PM
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No, that's how you're interpreting it because being rejected feels shitty no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:53 PM
3

It's not necessary to approach everyone we find attractive. I will rephrase by saying awoman will make sure you get an opportunity to talk to her if she wants to talk to you. It's not that we want to talk to every attractive guy we see.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:52 PM
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No, Icyfemboy Depressionmaxxed Man, that is not it. Yes, there is a sinking feeling when a man you find unattractive approaches you, that is only natural. However the turn-down is still not hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:47 PM
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"A low ncount woman won't even be able to say what they likes and what they doesn't like because they are inexperienced." Not entirely true. People work out during puberty with masterbation what feels good. Of course it doesn't stop there but if during their first sexual experience something feels good, they feel it and if something feels bad, they feel it. A normal, healthy hormoned virgin has enough of a fantasy life and self-dircected sex life to go into her first experience with expectations…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:56 PM
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If it's humiliating just stop. When a woman is really attracted to you, she will let you know, either directly or she'll get a friend, or friend of a friend, to find out if she has a chance with you, so no need to approach anyone. If some women are harsh in their turn-downs when you approach it's because they've been "polite" before and the dude/s just wouldn't take no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:45 PM
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Don't compete too much. 20,000 new HIV cases in Atlanta in the last 8 months alone: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=88VjkMLbH0I
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:06 PM
2

No need to worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:03 PM
2

Women will always figure out a way to approach men we are truly interested in. Be it directly ourselves, or indirectly through a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:05 PM
1

South Asian, like Indian, Pakistani, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:14 PM
2

Who are blackpillers giving money to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:42 AM
2

IOIs? LOLs. Mystery must be what - 58 by now? What happened to him after his breakdown?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:56 PM
6

"And yet people have no problem with heavily female-dominated industries," Those industries tend to underpay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:43 PM
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Lol. It's called "desimalelogic".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:40 PM
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Well then, the guy doesn't have to lose weight just to stay a 5. He can stay fat, stay a 5, and pair with a fat woman. What's the problem here? But I don't agree with you that a man who loses weight doesn't improve in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:22 PM
1

huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:54 PM
0

Depends on ethnicity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:53 PM
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"some people are calling me gay for posting this. " Not seriously, ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:52 PM
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"If they’re harassing people, it’s not like those people are going to protest!" Why not? Do they like it? That's what we are told. That "most men don't get any attention from women and are dying for it".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:50 PM
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ha ha u must be british
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:46 PM
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Depending on your ethnicity you may have already peaked and are going downhill now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:44 PM
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But you said If they weren't so fat there would be more to go around, so that implies they are here to go around but their equals don't want them. Is that what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:44 PM
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"Like take flirting. A lot of women think staring and making eye contact is flirting." Aren't most men dying for this to happen to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:33 PM
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"touching your chest and squeezing it (saying acupuncture points are there)" Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:26 PM
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Depending on your ethnicity, you will hit the wall (in terms of looks).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:25 PM
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"I’m not saying that doesn’t happen too." I am. It doesn't happen. It's so rare that it might as well not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:24 PM
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4 more years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:21 PM
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"If the average woman wasn't so fat in this country, there would be more of them to go around." USA? Is that your country? Are you saying fat American men don't want to pair with fat American women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:21 PM
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Weight is more of an issue for men in USA. So many obese men here you can't believe it til you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:20 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:17 PM
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I gave the example of a woman with light makeup being told by her date she should've put on more. He felt disrespected by what he interpreted to be a lack of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:12 PM
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Right, but itsn't holding on to attachments a form of "giving up on the goal"? If my goal is enlightenment according to the buddhist narrative, and attachments are an obstacle to that, then knowingly holding on to attachments is giving up on buddhist goal and hence should enable me to progress on the goal with a clear mind, as you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:11 PM
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Was that an extra long contradictory zen koan? Because if "using buddhism as a way to obtain anything other than Enlightenment is a sure way to not reach your goal" then that means by virture of your next statement that they will progress on that goal because they gave up on it (by using it to obtain something other than enlightenment).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:55 PM
5

Men have a collective low opinion of themselves that's why they think sex with them is icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:51 PM
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Many people don't want to get married. Many people in South Asia don't want to get married either but arranged marriage cultures force them. And then you've got the whole joint family debacle. And why is a desi guy who knows nothing about "the west" on here talking about "the west"? Desis have enough mess (literally) to clean up in South Asia. You are guaranteed a wife appliance through arranged marriage. What are you complaining about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:47 PM
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He's a desi guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:44 PM
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Not just in favor, I encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:10 PM
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"To argue women never appear approachable with their phone because they simply don't ever want to be bothered is disingenuous. Everyone is on their phones. Nobody knows what we want until we know about it or have it." Who's going to tell him? Ok, I will. Women and girls find it a huge perk that mobile phones provide them a convenient way to avoid eye contact. "But it's not that big of a deal as long as the guy can read the room" How prevelant is that skill?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:09 PM
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I'm not going to sit here and argue with some lallu-faltu who's never been out of his own country. As a world traveller and resident of the epitome of "the west"/USA, the vast, vast, vast majority of couples are ordinary working men and working women paired up with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:33 PM
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Good. And this shows how little you know about "the west". Most women are not dating the same few men. Assortative mating is a universal norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:24 PM
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In my country it's christian men trying to "take porn away".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:21 PM
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People from your background also benefit from DEI
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:19 PM
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" Also you're using these products everyday anyway." Not really. Not every woman wears makeup. For those that do, when we work from home we also can go weeks without it. Women often put a lot of money and time into date preparation. I don't think we need to, nevertheless, many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:17 PM
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So am I!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:14 PM
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Since you're buddhistpilled you might like this buddhistpilled relationship coach: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rtxu66w_RRM
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:12 PM
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Women don't need makeup at all, not even a "light foundation" as you put it. However the woman in my example was wearing light foundation, lip gloss and mascara but the dead old man still told her she should've worn more. Some men wear hair products and nice cologne but not the majority. Arab men can usually be relied upon to smell good because scents are a big thing in their cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 05:06 PM
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"If a guy doesn’t take charge, most likely nothing happens. " Who's gonna tell him? Women don't need anything to happen from you if we are not making it happen ourselves. All these complaints about women's heads being buried in our phones when we are out and not "smiling and making eye contact with men". It's because we don't want to be bothered by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:46 PM
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Most of the young pretty women I know/see are either single and peaceful or with young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:15 PM
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Depends on culture and socio-economic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:14 PM
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"But she has to be fertile because I want to continue my lineage!" Lineage?!?! Are they members of royalty or at least the nobility? What's this "lineage" they speak of?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:49 PM
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I linked to the video in this thread. You might want to check out the rationale of it all. It's not that these young women (teen girls in many instances) think the dads aren't going to stick around. Nor is it that the young men/teen boys plan not to stick around. What happens is that the girl/woman gets pregnant and the boy/man is excited about the prospect of becoming a father and makes plans to stick around. For a while it's a joyous, exciting time in both of their lives and they together make…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:32 PM
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As long as he's a 1, he's hypergamous for a 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:25 PM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:24 PM
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Certainly. And it would help kids understand their moms better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:24 PM
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More and more women are waking up to all these facts. That's why media, both mainstream and social, is losing its collective mind with cries of " the male loneliness crisis" - which somehow means a lack of sex and women are to blame for it. If men got no pleasure from sex much of the time, or that sex was uncomfortable a large part of the time, downright painful a lot of the time and in any case anti-climactic and non-orgasmic the majority of the time, do you think they would be as sex obsessed …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:23 PM
0

"Why are we acting like only inner cities are poor" Where did I "act" like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:01 PM
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I would add teaching about menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:40 PM
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Vaginismus is one of the main barriers to female pleasure. Many people have never even heard of it. Supposedly it affects religious women and women from extremely sexually conservative societies at higher rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:35 PM
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Busy moms often say they are unable to relax because of mental load and invisible labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:30 PM
1

Also, the "sex dance classes". Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:10 PM
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Desi means Indian guy. In Hinglish/Inglish/Dinglish "worst" is often used in place of "worse".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:05 PM
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", given the complaints I've read and heard from both sexes about "jackhammering", "starfishing", the things you mentioned, and more. Many will use that as an excuse for promiscuity" Seems like a better excuse for celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:29 PM
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Women are not obliged to be "good in bed" for men, especially men with whom they don't experience orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:18 PM
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The "worst" in the title was the dead desi giveaway. Iykyk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:07 PM
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"sex dance classes"?! Lol. What are those? Are you desi or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:05 PM
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The person who wrote this is a desi guy. "Worst" is the giveaway. Iykyk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:02 PM
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Dyk?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:00 PM
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"Worst". Desi alert. Iykyk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:37 PM
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That's important too but I know people who do all that and are still mentally and emotionally unhealed and unhinged. Not either/or, rather, both/and.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:08 PM
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I've noticed they seem to like weed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:03 PM
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STDs are easily spread and there's been an uptick in HIV in some American cities. Please protect yourself and others and practice safe sex. It's a jungle out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 04:45 AM
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Intoxicants are against conservative values.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 03:09 AM
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Conservatives shouldn't be drinking alcohol to beginwith. Just quit already.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:23 AM
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Was that for me? I'm a woman. I was curious if conservative men pay for all dates and if paying for everything extends into live-in relationships, engagment period and entire marriage. Here in the USA it doesn't, but I'm asking this guy who seems to thing paying for dates is a conservative value - does that value extend to paying for everything throughout an entire relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:23 AM
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Churches are notoriously difficult to find partners in for either sex. Conservative women would love to be able to meet mentally healthy, well-adjusted conservative men on apps or in real life. Problem is that a lot of men who call themselves "conservative" have really bizarre, warped ideas and hostility toward women. Conservative women themselves are reporting meeting total assholes who call themselves "conservative". Maybe you underestimate the virality of bad ideas floating around "conservati…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:15 AM
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Do conservative men pay for all the dates all the time? When do they stop paying for all the things - when living together? When engaged? When married?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:18 PM
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The dating apps created specifically for conservatives, like The Right Stuff and others, folded quickly because there were not enough women on them. There were also reports of conservative women meeting these men for what they thought was going to be a fun-get-2-know-u date only to be met with hostility along with far-right ideas and crazy "women shouldn't vote or work" platitudes. What do you mean by "lifestyle conservatism"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:16 PM
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I think it's because there were some dating apps created specifically for conservatives (like "The Right Stuff") and they folded very quickly because there were hardly any women on there. So then the "even conservative women don't want to date conservative men" meme was spread. "That liberal man still has to be a conservative when it comes to male gender roles though." You mean by paying for dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:05 PM
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Dry wiping is not enough. One must get in the shower and cleanse with soap and water. "Manosphere King" Kevin Samuels had to give an entire demonstration and explanation to his male viewers on how to do that. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o2vDv-0G_14
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:09 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRUj_C5JdHs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:55 PM
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" in reality, why do you want a partner who’s inferior to you?" These particular Redditmen do because they are full of self-loathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:25 PM
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Even then, do those men think their wives are beneath them because they aren't paying bills? Most of those old-school gentlemanly types refer to their wives as "my better half" and brag about how they (the men) "married up".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:24 PM
1

I don't know any.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:20 PM
3

What's the delusion? Am I deluded for finding great faces super attractive? Should I think they are ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:21 PM
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I said " great looking guy" not "attractive". Obviously I would see more than just one "moderately attractive" guy in a year. And it also depended on where I was living. In big metros like New York, Miami, there's more of a variety of looks and a wider range. The state of California also has some serious hotties. But generally speaking - rarely does one see a "great" looking man in the States. And it has NOTHING to do with my own looks. I could be a zero/10 and it wouldn't matter. I'm talking ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:40 PM
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She said it at the 2:18 minute mark: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBeRkZ2KoLI And yeah, these people have a lot of healing to do. Instead of going from 0-100 they need to go from 0-20 by first doing "the work" on themselves to heal their broken inner child. Then they need to heal their relationships with their family of origin and bond with their parents, grand-parents, siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles. Then they need to make a friend circle, it doesn't have to be large, but at least 2 fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:34 PM
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Not me. If someone's a jerk I keep away. I haven't seen any correlation between looks and character.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:29 PM
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But the healing isn't for women, it's for you. Going through life bitter, angry, hurt, sad, depressed, suicidal, etc just leads to complete miserableness which leads to many physical health problems. Inner healing, bonding with family members, getting a friend circle (and for that I also recommend volunteering at nursery homes where you can connect with lonely old men bringing some much needed joy into their lives), and taking up some sort of practice, whether it's religious, spiritual or just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:24 PM
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I get it, that pain is real. That's why I wrote" Instead of going from 0-100 they need to go from 0-20 by first doing "the work" on themselves to heal their broken inner child. Then they need to heal their relationships with their family of origin and bond with their parents, grand-parents, siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles. Then they need to make a friend circle, it doesn't have to be large, but at least 2 friends. This idea that unhealed and unhinged men who have zero bonding with any family…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:15 PM
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Possibly. Just like Redditmen exposed to online porn assume a large percentage of average American women "had trains runs on them by the football team in high school", which is something you see put forth here as an "argument" quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:13 PM
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"a baby mama is an unwanted oops baby a man didnt want that he spawned on some "girlfriend" While this is a popular assumption, and certainly the case in many instances, I would be cautious to assume it applies to the vast majority of cases. "Promises I Can Keep: Why Poor Women Put Motherhood Before Marriage" by Kathryn Edin and Maria Kefalas puts the myth to rest in this fantastic inner city ethno-graphy. To say it's more nuanced is an understatement. There's a Youtube video of an academic talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:07 PM
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But the rhetoric from men here is the opposite, that's what I'm talking about. The assumption that good-looking men are bad and non-attractive men are good is just wrong. Some of the best, kindest and most morally sound men I've ever known have been good-looking. And we've all known absolute jerks where physically unattractive. A person's character cannot be judged from the outside view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:54 PM
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"Some men and women do overrate where they actually rank," As I wrote above, forget where we rank with desired romantic partners and see where we rank with our family of origin and friends first: Instead of going from 0-100 they need to go from 0-20 by first doing "the work" on themselves to heal their broken inner child. Then they need to heal their relationships with their family of origin and bond with their parents, grand-parents, siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles. Then they need to make a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:45 PM
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Instead of going from 0-100 they need to go from 0-20 by first doing "the work" on themselves to heal their broken inner child. Then they need to heal their relationships with their family of origin and bond with their parents, grand-parents, siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles. Then they need to make a friend circle, it doesn't have to be large, but at least 2 friends. This idea that unhealed and unhinged men who have zero bonding with any family members and zero bonding with friends are going …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:42 PM
1

Yeah I don't know why the guys here assume non-Chads are automatically good people. They often carry a bitter chip on their shoulders and come working some sort of angle or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:50 AM
1

They only thing I'm hypergamous about is looks. And you can go an entire year, even two, in my country (USA) without seeing even one great looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:47 AM
2

Yet the media wonders why women have less and less intersest in dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:40 AM
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" a man must be both a provider and gentle" - - Where's the contradiction? "work himself to exhaustion and still run the household." - - Work/Life balance is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:27 PM
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Tell us what you did. How bad did you lie and in which direction? What's the real number?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:24 PM
2

But Redditmen of today look at Miami sugar babies on the Whatever podcast and think "that's the life". Thing is, as long as they are financially middle-middle class savers and investors, they too could have a sugar baby. Not in Miami perhaps but in an ordinary suburb. As long as they are socially flexible and willing to pay for dates and pay some bills, not even all her bills, just some, they too could have a sugar baby from SeekingArrangement dot com.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:56 PM
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Being below a 5 on the looks scale does not automatically grant one angelic morals. Some of the sweetest, kindest, most caring people I've ever met, both female and male, were 7s thru 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:30 PM
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Well, it's "Khan", like SRK, Shah Rukh Khan, the world's most famous actor. They're not related but I guess both are Pathans claiming Gengis descendancy. Desi Khans tend to do that. Anyway, she was grifting in Red Pill spaces as a "psychologist" and "coach".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:54 PM
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I keep getting multiple msg from this sub's mod that I must choose a user flair. I have done that multiple times but it's not working. Can you advise?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:00 PM
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I keep getting multiple autogenerated msgs from this sub's mod that I must choose a user flair. I have done that multiple times but it's not working. Can you advise?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:00 PM
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Depends on the country. If the average height for men in a certain country is 5 foot 4, then 5 foot 5 would be taller than average there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:47 PM
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Ask PurplePillDebate admin who posted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:41 PM
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Of course the eyes are the first to perceive, so looks evaluation comes first. After that - is he a good, intelligent human being? That is filtered for. Of course nowadays with the internet you some people get caught up in their feelings first without even seeing a photo of a person (which is totally against nature), or seeing a photo that ihas been doctored and then meeting them in real life and they look nothing like hte photo but because feelings were already caught, give them a chance. All o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:41 PM
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I'm not buyin the racial hierarchy. People make fun of "pajeets" all the time online but ALL the good looking desis I know have no problem attracting dates. There's a looks hierarchy but it's not racial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:32 PM
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"Just like you didn't answer under another post that autistic men are significantly more lonely than women" Rich men should create communes where autistic men can live, love and grow food together. If they don't want to grow food they can at least live, love and play video games together and not die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:28 PM
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Speaking of grifters, what about that Sadia Con lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:26 PM
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This is Shah, creator of the "gold pill" wants to bring the dowry system back to the West. Interesting this is that he's from an Indian background and is using his platform to try and get white women to marry and give dowries to Indian men. Do you think then that introducing the caste system to the West would be a good idea? I mean dowry and caste do go together in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:25 PM
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See my comment above.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:21 PM
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Men can spill the tea here in the comments on their n-count. How many times have you lied about it and to who? What's your real n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:21 PM
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Like Sadia, my heritage is also South Asian. As a Desi woman I can give some insight into her particular style of grifting. First off, her family hails from POK, Pakistan Occupied Kashmir, particularly Mirpur. What's unique about Mirpur you might ask? Are any of you familiar with the "grooming gang scandals" in the UK? Mirpuri migrant men are overrepresented in those crimes. That means Sadia, as a Mirpuri Britisher, grew up surrounded by this particular demographic of men. Imagine what that does…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/25 08:18 PM
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Below average women are being hypergamous and getting commitment from average men. Where's the problem here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:15 PM
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Not that much. At any rate she will figure out a way. Maybe by having a friend contact him and find out how he feels about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:43 PM
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The classic man-crush seems to be Tupac for the older set, Hamza and Tate for the younger.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/25 06:25 PM
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The other big problem is that, once these women try to hook much higher value men, they become disgusted by all men, not even giving the men in their own league a chance. If women are hypergamous why are men still expecting to be given a chance by women in their own league?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 06:13 PM
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"That means they don't know what their preferences are, what works in a relationship, what they like/don't like, and what their dealbreakers are." My type in terms of facial preference was formed by 18. It hasn't changed. I never really had a personality type other than a decent human being who shared my values and at least some of my interests (for conversation's sake). Cultural and religious similarity are kind of important too but not to an overwhelming extent in my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:17 PM
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"Births will be extremely concentrated in low income countries " - For a while, but then they will go to below replacement rate too. Until then the labor that developed countries require can be imported from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:45 PM
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I'm talking specifically about the male ones with huge entitlement issues who create major problems for others. Rich men should create communes for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:37 PM
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"A 7/10 guy most likely isn't going to take a 5/10 woman seriously." If women are hypergamous then how can a 7 male expect a 7 woman for a committed relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:34 PM
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Rich men should create communes for them where they can all live, love and work together growing their own food and etc, etc. Even if they don't want to produce anything like food, at least they could all live and play video games together in one big house and not "die alone".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:29 PM
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Where is this data that 80% of women are "chasing" anybody? Most women are not even on dating apps. This is clownish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:22 PM
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What to do about it? Before the Reagan admin tore down all the mental institutions, these types were funnelled there. Now they're just put on meds (which many don't keep up with) and are allowed to exist in polite society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:19 PM
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How do you know Chad isn't commiting to Becky? How do you know Becky even wants commitment from Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:16 PM
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Because people are still naming their kids Trevor in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:53 PM
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You mean when they go back to India? Depending on the area and socio-economic demographic, dating may not even be a thing. There is no real dating culture outside of the upper classes in a few Indian metros.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:52 PM
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Why? Family members can't be bad? People aren't being incarcerated for silly things and non-violent crimes? There are no falsely accused prisoners? What's your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:50 PM
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"Ex making fun of someone like a dork looking guy, or some older woman she doesn't like" She's toxic too. Stop pining for toxic women because you think they're "crazy in bed"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:46 PM
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You don't understand the allure "thug life" holds for bored white boys growing up on hip hop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:45 PM
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"I don’t get it either." Bored white boys who grew up listening to hip hop and pining for "thug life".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:42 PM
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Bored white boys grew up listening to hip hop and pining for "thug life".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:41 PM
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Many do come with huge entitlement issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:29 PM
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People are still going to prison for weed of all things and incarcerated women are having babies so there's men out there unable to resist the alluring pull of a lady jailbird. (Yes I know many incarcerated women get raped in jail but there's also a lot of free men having consentual relationships with them or pining to, even creating altars in their homes to worship them as goddesses like Casey Anthony and other violent killers that somehow hold charm for men).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:22 PM
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Because Muslims are supposed to answer for Osama Bin Laden.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:20 PM
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Because Muslims are supposed to constantly answer for Osama Bin Laden.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:20 PM
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"Gail"? LOL. Has anyone named their kid that in the last 40 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:18 PM
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And you're sure they're dating there? From all the hullaballoo in mainstream and social media, there's supposedly a worldwide "dating crisis", "loneliness epidemic", "population decline", "(lack of) marriage crisis", "world-ending nobody's available anymore epidemic."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:15 PM
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Nothing lasts forever. Our universe itself is temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:45 PM
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Being lusty for someone doesn't mean you will orgasm from sex with them. That's not how female orgasm works.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:28 PM
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While assortative mating is a universal norm (as it should be), you are dead wrong if you think just because a person is goodlooking, rich or charismatic that s/he thinks people are there just to use sexually or otherwise. You just don't want to admit that some of the best and most ethically sound people on this planet are goodlooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:25 PM
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Common sense. There's also no source proving or even claiming that 80 percent of the world's adult female population is mating with 20 percent of the adult male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:21 PM
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"their opposition need to understand how they actually operate" Let's be real here, they aren't "operating" in any capacity. They are simply whining online with nothing better to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:15 PM
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"A relationship, or marriage status is not proof of actual desire, or love" That's been the default throughout world history. Only recently has sexual attraction, romantic love and "s/he completes me" been expected in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:08 PM
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Men are excluding other men for not giving them external validation for basic adulting? Is the bar that low that simply having a job, paying billls and not commiting crime is a big achievement for many men? It wasn't too long ago when adults who were that inept at basic life were institutionalized. Are you suggesting we bring that back? The USA got rid of such last remaining institutions under the Reagan admin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:03 PM
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"It's 80/20 in action." Debunked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:58 PM
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That's because women themselves have jobs, pay bills, avoid commiting crimes and otherwise act "normal" as you say, without expectation of reward. It's called "adulting", even teening. I had a job, paid bills, didn't commit crimes, and acted "normal" in my teens and it wasn't difficult to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:56 PM
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That's not true. Birth rates are declining across the world. There's even demographic decline hysteria in Indian media now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:49 PM
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They do? Where? I'm seeing more women talking positively about 4B, not against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:57 AM
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Women are out here paying attention to men they are not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:38 AM
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Authenticity is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:36 AM
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Sex, pregnancy and birth rates will plummet. And it's about time they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:33 AM
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Women generally don't engage in a lot of casual sex because of the associated risks. And they rarely orgasm from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:32 AM
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I don't buy it. There's no reason for women in developed western countries with healthy attitudes about sex to minimize their numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:30 AM
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Pregnancy rates are trending down anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:26 AM
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Overseas? Like to become a monk in a Buddhist monastery?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:21 AM
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NACALT. Chads can be kind, ethical, loving, committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:20 AM
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NAGOOOLALT. Not All Guys Out Of Our League Are Like That. Out of league guys are no more likely to be assholes than in league or below league dudes. Just because someone has looks, charisma or money doesn't make them a jerk. Similarly, unattractive face/body, social awkwardness and poverty do not make someone ethical and kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:18 AM
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NACALT. Not All Chads Are Like That. Just because someone is good looking or charismatic or rich doesn't mean they're evil and treat people like shit. We all know ugly, awkward, struggle dusties who are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:13 AM
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Where's the problem? Men just have to try with women who are "below" their levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:07 AM
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"Basically, average Brad is not expecting hot Stacey to treat him like a Chad. But he is expecting average Becky to do this (since they are both average). When she doesn’t, this is what bothers men." Boo hoo. Below-average Ashley is out here too. What is Brad waiting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:04 AM
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"But men also see so many women going for the hot bad boy ... except if he's hot or rich or popular enough ... even if he's a murderer in prison" You seem to think there are a lot of hot, rich, "popular" (junior high schooler?) dudes out there and that a lot of dudes are murderers too? Hot, rich "popular" men are extremely rare on this planet. And unlike you, I believe there aren't a lot of murderers either. You aren't seeing "so many women" with any of these guys. Assortative mating is the norm…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:54 AM
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Sex is better with oneself or other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:40 AM
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"People who disagree with this are just afraid of men harming women and society because of these views becoming more common and accepted." How dare people be afraid of violent crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:33 AM
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Accomplishments? "a man who holds down a job, maintains a home, pays his bills, doesn't commit crimes, and generally lives a normal life should be able to go out and receive external validation." --- He wants public praise for paying his bills and refraining from crime. I guess this is the result of all those years of awarding kids for graduating kindergarten. I always knew that was a bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:24 AM
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"Men should be taught and encouraged to brag a little more about their accomplishments and it should be customary to show respect to someone who does so." --- You already argue against your own idea here; "In the masculine view, to praise another is to confess yourself unworthy. It would do just as much damage as it gave aid." So.... how are you going to get other men to respect and praise you? a man who holds down a job, maintains a home, pays his bills, doesn't commit crimes, and generally liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:19 AM
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Sure, let men validate other men for adulting, nobody has an issue with that. "Society needs to boost the egos of men who make an effort and live up to certain standards, even if that means not necessarily being beneficial to a woman." Again, it has nothing to do with women. We don't care if men pat other men on the back for paying bills. Hip hip hooray!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:12 AM
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Monasteries. Buddhism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:07 AM
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Women are already doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:06 AM
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Monasteries. Buddhism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:04 AM
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"A lot of stuff that holds feminism back is the cakism " Cakism?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:01 AM
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Short answer: NO. It hasn't gone far enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:56 AM
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No evidence then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:53 AM
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You never watched the movie. Watch it before commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:50 AM
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What do the stats say per country?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:45 AM
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"You have to understand women lack empathy. " Charlie Kirk told us "empathy is a made-up, new-age term, and it does a lot of damage".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:43 AM
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"Same with women who already have everything and living their best single lives: doctrinally they would require much greater efforts (especially in sustained long term efforts), thus the chances of entering a successful worthwhile relationship is much lower." --- What's your solution? Look for needy women who live miserable lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:39 AM
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And porn is ruining relationships as we type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:37 AM
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Porn is ruining relationships as we type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:36 AM
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"There is no doubt that multiple partners hinders pair-bonding in all cases and there is not a single case where it says otherwise." What? Edit for clarification or provide evidence of all "cases".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:36 AM
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"I'd rather invest my time, energy, and resources in a person who has demonstrated the ability to settle with one partner in a long-term relationship" So you'll only go for divorcees or widows?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:30 AM
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"so now we have something closer to a free sexual market" Would you prefer sexual Marxism?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:27 AM
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The average woman is not promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:26 AM
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Are they even dating at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:23 AM
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Would you cringe at a 10 dating an 8? A 9 dating a 7? A 2 point difference is nothing to hem and haw about. The guy said women are hypergamous so the only way an average 5 man could get a woman was if he dated below average. Um, ok? What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:02 PM
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It's only 2 points below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:09 PM
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Because they are not living life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:39 PM
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The OP isn't being shown interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:23 PM
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Not common in mine at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:22 PM
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"Even if they are average and below women. The women would basically have to be a 3/10 and below before they show good interest upfront to average men." If 5 is average than 3 is only 2 points below. And the problem there is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:21 PM
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Respite from your condition which you describe as, "Let’s pump you with 20-30x of testosterone you have now and see how you act. It’s not a fully conscious decision to be sex-obsessed"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:44 AM
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Men need to care about other men as humans. Start visiting lonely old men in nursing homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:31 AM
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It's not your job to do that. Let men show compassion to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:30 AM
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"Women being too selective in their choices of men to date is a serious problem" Women are not selective enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:29 AM
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Why aren't other men helping them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:27 AM
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It's not women's job to show concern for men they do not know. That is the job of other men. They can start by voluntering at nursing homes and showing compassion for the lonely old men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:26 AM
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"Thankfully for me Im already in a patriarchal country where women dont really have much of a choice." India? Things are changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:25 AM
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Men need to feel compassion for other men. Start by volunteering at nursing homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:23 AM
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Men need to be there for each other. Start by visiting old men in nursing homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:22 AM
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Men need to do that for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:20 AM
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Now it's time for men to understand, appreciate and support other men in their struggles and pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:19 AM
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Point being, women are not only going for "bad boys", nor are most average women exclusively targetting the top percentage of hot rich guys. Assortative mating is a universal norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:16 AM
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Not in USA. It's full of average couples living ordinary lives, working paycheck to paycheck together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:08 AM
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What is a suicide swipe?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:05 AM
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"so hinge now is trying to get women to be more proactive with their choices by paywalling the attractive men." --- Have you heard of the "gold pill" created by influencer This Is Shah? He's an Indian guy floating the idea that white women should pay dowries to marry Indian men. And he really thinks they are going to!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:04 AM
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GET OFF DATING APPS. You are just making tech bros richer. Whatever happened to MGTOW? Maybe now there needs to be a 4B for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:00 AM
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"The problem is that most women tend to treat non-chad men terribly in relationships. " Sounds like men should 4B like women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:58 AM
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If men are treated so badly by women why aren't they 4Bing like women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:57 AM
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Is that a dig at East and South Asian students? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:52 AM
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Can I have your son's number?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:50 AM
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All parents think their kids are cute I guess? Otherwise the cultural presumption is of course she will like your personality after she initiatlly finds you cute. Just like how boys are attracted to cute girls. Same thing. Duh. Not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:48 AM
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"we grew up with blue pill advice like once you become an adult, girls will like you for your personality" But it's presumed she has to find you physically attractive first. Most people know that instinctively and don't have to have it spelled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:45 AM
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It's men who don't think it's fair, not women. Women are perfectly fine with not being pursued by men they don't find attractive. Men are pissed that women don't want to be pursued by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:43 AM
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"Sometimes but some men pursue women regardless of their interest level being high." What was that movie - "He's Just Not That Into You"? Yeah, nobody wants that. Better to not pursue at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:39 AM
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Come to USA. Assortative mating is the norm. The country is full of average to below-average looking, average to below-average earning and average to below-average living couples, both working paycheck to paycheck and eeking out small joys in the day to day. You won't have to worry about becoming a "bad boy" to get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:10 AM
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I don't know where he's coming off trying to fool goras into thinking India is giving free houses and healthcare to all its poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:07 AM
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The "free" healthcare in India is crap. Also, very few families have "free" houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:06 AM
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"this means most men would never be able to improve from a 5 to 8 " Not a problem. If women truly are hypergamous like you say, then 2's and 3's would go for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:00 AM
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Women do not date up in USA. Assortative mating is the norm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:55 AM
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"1. At least semi-cute" --- You didn't just say "health and hygiene" like you listed for things you think women want. No, you're number one for what men require in women is "at least semi-cute". Then you complain that women want "face" in men. Well, yeah, duh. If men want at least semi-cute faces in women, women want at least semi-cute faces in men. Just "health and hygiene" is not enough for us either. But anyway, come to the USA. This country is full of unattractive men with partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:53 AM
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He's neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:37 AM
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Just love men more and you'll be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:36 AM
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Time to turn to your bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:35 AM
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"Manly, masculine and high testosterone doesn't automatically translate to attractive to women." No, but it's attractive to other men, including straight men. Straight men project what they find attractive in men onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:34 AM
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Accounting for race/ethinic background how does it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:32 AM
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"cheating on my stepdad with a 25 years younger Arabian guy. " Arabs have a lot of goodlooking people in their ranks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:28 AM
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STDs are a major concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:22 AM
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STIs are major concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:21 AM
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Errr, what? Come to USA and tell me the fat, bald dudes with asymmetrical faces roaming Walmart and Home Depot with their wives/girlfriends are "desired by many".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:19 AM
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Ask men to show compassion for men. They can start by visiting the nursing homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:17 AM
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What purpose would that serve?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:16 AM
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I think it's a good strategy. Most men understand that if women are not voluntarieeing their numbers to him, or asking for his, they are not interested. I think it's best for men to leave women alone and wait for them to approach. Believe me, when women really want someone, they approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:12 AM
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Women don't hint when they really want someone. They will directly offer their number or ask for his.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:09 AM
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They will give him number or ask for his. When they call they will try to set up meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:08 AM
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Men hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:05 AM
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There are different "types". Different ethnicities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:04 AM
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One Taste San Francisco
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:00 AM
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"There's no shortage of men replacing their wives with younger women" Are you sure about that? In which country? Countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:59 AM
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"why oh why would you lose attraction to your man if you found out he was fucked by another man? " --- Not everyone would. But for those who would, it'd be for the same reason they would lose attraction if he was the one effing another man. Let's see if we can use our big brains to figure this one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:57 AM
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Men will pay for dominitrix before they will pay for submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:52 AM
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But then the other extreme is the Indian joint family. Today's Indian woman desires nuclear family set up because it allows for more freedom. But we are still corralled into joint family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:49 AM
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It's not boomers out here peddling this crazy idea on the internet. It's people like Sadia Con, Mina Irfan/The Universe Guru, and a whole host of "dating coaches" male and female, and influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:39 AM
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Of course. Assortative mating is a universal norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:11 PM
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Of course there are plenty of single people in USA too. But the "average American couple" is what is claiming the majority of the relationship demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:09 PM
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What about the lawyer that married the seriel killer - "Sexy Sadie" the right hand woman of Charles Manson? Then you've got the lawyer who brought baby killer Casey Anthony home to live with him, while she was receiving hundreds of love letters from murderess-loving men. Then you've got that mormon murderess who couldn't keep men away from her while she was behind bars. We could go on listing murderesses and the men who love/lust them but we don't have all day. Evo-psych says men crave violent w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:23 PM
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Here in USA there are a lot of overweight couples so overweight men do get paired up. In some cases both of the pair were fitter in youth and then grew older and fatter together, but USA has a lot of overweight teens and young adults now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:15 PM
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What country are you in? Because this is not the case in USA. Our streets are full of equally matched average to below-average looking and earning couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:12 PM
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"And minority of men - are enjoying the vast majority of sex, with the most desirable women." --- Well of course, naturally. Because the most desirable men are that minority, so naturally they will get the most desirable women. Assortative mating is the norm. That's why the streets of USA are filled with average to below-average couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:10 PM
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Maybe in your particular country but the streets of USA are filled with average to below-average couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:06 PM
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Face matters..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:03 PM
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"checkout what these men look like. They are usually accompanied with bad or extreme style, bad hygiene/smelling/bad teeth, dirty clothes, bad/unkept hair, look like they haven’t showered or overweight." In USA I often see men like this paired up with similarly looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:02 PM
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"Acting as if attractiveness is subjective when the same men keep getting tens of thousands of women, while average men(I'm not even going to mention the below average men) get nothing, is ridiculous" Come to USA. Our public spaces are filled with average to below-average looking couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:59 PM
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"A guy could like a hot chick based on pictures then find out she's a white nationalist nazi meth head that was clear in the profile he didn't read." Would he outright reject her then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:47 AM
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One walk outside in a busy American public space is enough evidence that the vast majority of American couples are average to below average in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:45 AM
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" I'm not religious, I'm just waiting until marriage because I'm too sexually repressed to be able to have sex with a long term boyfriend without feeling guilty and ashamed of having sex." Where is this "guilt and shame" coming from if not religion?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 02:36 AM
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Orgasmic disfunction? Pray tell...
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 02:35 AM
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You don't have shared values, which is the most important thing in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 02:26 AM
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This is a big one. I used to think if I could just do enough (cook the best meals, keep the house spotless, stay on top of everything) that would earn me love and safety. I am sorry to hear you feel you have to earn love and safety. Particularly the second one, safety. From where did you get this idea that you don't deserve to be safe unless you do something?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 02:21 AM
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Men keep saying they like clear, direct communication.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/25 02:16 AM
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" It's not easy to find that 6'5" muscular rich Mafia boss with a big package who's just violent enough to be sexy but not too much and who only wants one woman." This is a particular type that men are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:02 AM
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Hymens don't "break", learn some biology. There is no way to tell if a woman had intercourse before or not. Are you from a BIMARU state?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:33 AM
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Being a step-parent is NORMAL. People marry, have kids, divorce, marry again. If 2 adults vibe with each and want to blend families - so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:29 AM
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Being step-parent is NORMAL. People marry, have kids, divorce and marry again. So what? If 2 people vibe with each other and want to blend families - what's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:27 AM
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"have a conversation with a rich guy and he will talk a lot about money in the conversation." So do poor guys who listen to a lot of brocasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:21 AM
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"Prioritizing sexual desire and romantic love is how we ended up with the toxic dating market we have today." Be careful. I come from a culture notorious for "practical" arranged marriages and you DO NOT want that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:18 AM
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Men were the first to demand no-fault divorce because before that it was difficult for them to come up with valid reasons to divorce their wives on a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:16 AM
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"what would you do if you found out that men could do it all, be parents, be lovers, be workers and more, all alone and with ease?" Impossible. Infants and children up to a certain age require not just adult supervision at all times, but careful attention and work. Just like artificial wombs, you are hoping to outsource all that to robots, not do it all yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:38 PM
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"We already recognize that housework is pretty much easy thanks to women refusing to do it for so long. I do not expect being a parent to be much harder either." Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:34 PM
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Name of this NGO?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:30 PM
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"a steady one that can allow for people to still properly care for their children without getting overburdened is ideal" Goverments might have to step in and pay women to have kids and raise them then. Short of that - human race will eventually die out - and... so what? We overrate ourselves as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:21 PM
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Forget about it and enter a monastery. Not everyone is meant to have a romantic relationship. It's not everyone's "destiny". There is not "someone out there for everybody".
/r/MensRights06/09/25 09:23 PM
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She was recently caught by the fiancee of the man she's a side girlfriend for and lost her mind after being exposed: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZHJXJKo2cw
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