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Ask her if you could kiss her and then escalate from there
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:45 PM
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You should know that repeated interactions often lead to emotional entanglements, even when the original intention was to keep things casual. It’s easy for someone to use this gray area to manipulate or control the dynamic. Be mindful of how these mixed signals might affect you long-term. The guy you are hooking up with is blurring boundaries and sending mixed signals, which can be emotionally manipulative. He’s telling you not to fall in love while using possessive language like ‘you’re mine’ a…
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:18 PM
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Yeah I definitely had done it and casual hookups can get complicated , even the guy that OP mentions is acting contradictory and unfair, if he’s telling her to stay detached while behaving in a way that invites emotional attachment, it’s manipulative. The ‘no feelings’ rule sounds simple, but people are complex. Frequent hookups can easily turn into emotional entanglements, even if no one plans for it because humans aren’t robots.
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:08 PM
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Exactly, I wouldn’t start a hookup or situationship because it feels like setting myself up for unnecessary emotional confusion. If I’m investing time and energy into someone, it’s with the intention of building something meaningful, not just passing time. I value my peace and self-respect too much to get caught up in arrangements that often end in misunderstandings like what’s happening to OP.
/r/seduction08/01/25 11:10 AM
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I wouldn’t want to be with someone that tells me from the beginning to not fall in love with them, that’s crazy. I wouldn’t even do situationships, I prefer to get a hobbie tbh
/r/seduction08/01/25 10:54 AM
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This is just weird to me, I rather be by myself than dealing with a situation like that. I don’t understand how people do all that for a hook up and then get all weird at some point. Yeah sex is good but knowing how to be by yourself is better than being in a situation like that in my opinion.
/r/seduction08/01/25 10:13 AM
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yes that’s true when we are with friends we just vibe and it’s all fun and same can happen with a girl you go on a date, she can feel the vibe really quick and they also appreciate that you are just feeling good with yourself because that’s a sign of a confident person that they would definitely want to know better
/r/seduction06/01/25 10:16 PM
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I don’t even meditate, it’s all having a good time and being secure in yourself. I also don’t care about the results because I’m confident in myself that it’s enough for me to have a good time and it’s contagious because when I have a good time I’m more funny and natural. I also don’t care about they opinion of me because I care more about the opinion I have of myself which is that I’m a cool person and know they will have a good time with me. I’m 4’11 all the women that I dated were taller than…
/r/seduction05/01/25 11:50 PM
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I paid attention to subtle signs, like when they smile too much means I can escalate, I don’t wait until they give me obvious signs, just subtle unconscious signs that they do but they don’t even notice they do them. When it comes to taking them on a date, I get the time to make them laugh (really important), talk about my passions, let them talk about random subjects. It feels like a natural conversation, no pressure and fun. Then when I know they kinda like me, signs like smiling, asking me ab…
/r/seduction05/01/25 08:42 PM
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So I started doing easy openers doing day game like “hey do you know where is ___?” Until I got comfortable and I will try to make conversation after they gave me an answer. During week 1 I didn’t approach any girl because I just was so nervous. On week 2, I did talk to 2 girls but conversation was short, my opener was “hey I like that color of your hair?” and another was “that’s a cool sweater where did you get it?” they could tell I was nervous and they felt weird lol so the conversation was s…
/r/seduction05/01/25 06:58 PM
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my motivation was to be able to talk to beautiful women and get some dates. I was shy and women made me nervous. I don’t know how I started watching that kind of content but it was honestly super bad advice most of the stuff I found on YouTube. I did buy some online courses (night game, day game, text game) but what really helped me the most is just talk to women until it’s super normal and comfortable, you have to be natural. It was really simple. The hardest thing was doing day game but that r…
/r/seduction05/01/25 11:51 AM
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