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There are many instances of this, but the main issue is when this isn't dealt with and the time drags on because then it becomes much more difficult of a break off. I would suggest letting her know you dont see anything serious and just want to enjoy the current. u also have to know what u want as in the level of seriousness
/r/seduction08/03/26 01:15 AM
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Yeah I think this would be the best response to this situation. unfrotunate that it had to be right before a long trip
/r/seduction08/03/26 01:13 AM
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I would say the most important part especially when I got started was simply not wasting any opportunities. I would keep going and actually thinking about what works and what doesn't. Even though one or two bad experiences can hurt the current tone, its important to not let the shy you away from the times that it could work... U got this
/r/seduction08/03/26 12:09 AM
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Hey man it takes effort to even try. I wouldn't give up after just one rejection since social skills are still skills at the end of the day.
/r/seduction07/03/26 11:58 PM
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Honestly I just keep it simple and respectful. If I get the vibe she’s not interested I’ll usually say something like "No worries, nice meeting you. Have a good day.” and move on. I think reacting calmly is important because it keeps the interaction positive and makes it feel less awkward for everyone.
/r/seduction07/03/26 10:45 PM
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The guy who said energy is contagious got it right. Make sure you show up as friendly and elude confidence because if you dont present yourself the right way and show that you are comfrotable with yourself first then how can she be comfortable with you yk. I had the same problem but a tip would be to try out 'Shawty - approach better' which just gives you metric-based insights to learn from and make sure you get your convos right consistenly. what principles would you say have helped u so far?
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:46 PM
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Congrarts bro! good stuff the first step is definitely always the hardest thats exactly how i felt when i was just starting out building my social skills and cold appraoching. my top tip would be to try an app called 'Shawty - approach better' which tracks good convos when you need and gives back metric-based insights to improve faster. good luck on your journey man!
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:42 PM
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exactly bro you get it they not all like that
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:21 PM
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I agree i think it really just depends on the person and time since some people are firendly while others couldnt care less
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:21 PM
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Congrats on even approaching man most people don't! the trick is that your thinking of it wrong since it really is onlly a first approach and one time. not everyone is like this and when one thing goes wrong it may make it all seem wrong but there are mamny women who are interested and actually friendly. the best things is tyring out different way to appraoch girls based off of if they seem like they are interested and or simply wanna be friendly. I used to struggle with this a lot myself but th…
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:20 PM
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The main problem isnt simply about how many women there are to choose from at a given time thats a wrong mindset. you gotta think about how you actuall go and talk to them and the impressiona nd confidence that you elude during your conversation. thats what matters. Ive had this problem for a while and it really only comes from really just being more social when the time matters and approaching when it seems right. think about what you would want in a women and those types of places are great to…
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:16 PM
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facts honestly. the only way to get better socially is by actually talking to people in real life and i had the app 'Shawty-approach better' help with that too since it gives actual metric based insight on my convos and tell sme what i gotta improve on when socializing with girls. actual life changer
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:13 PM
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honestly a lot of it just comes down to meeting more people and getting comfortable starting conversations. things like social events, hobby groups, classes, and mutual friends help. the biggest skill though is being able to talk naturally in person, and something like the app 'Shawty-approach better' can help with that since it gives real metrics insight on conversations and helps improve how you approach people.
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:11 PM
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honestly that’s a good move. the best confidence comes from being able to talk to women naturally in person and improving that skill over time. something like the app 'Shawty-approach better' can help with that too since it gives insight and feedback on your conversations and you get better at what to say when approaching girls. thats how i was able to get comfortable in my own shell and get my current girlfriend
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:09 PM
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How did you typically even begin or pursue the women at your work
/r/seduction01/03/26 09:58 PM
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Can you explain your experience with developing social skills? there are many differnet ways but how did you naturally get better?
/r/seduction01/03/26 09:57 PM
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I think that the best thing you can do is just practice having normal conversations as being social can also take shape of a skill. Being in touch with your hobbies and comfortable with yourself and just having genuine conversations with others helps
/r/seduction01/03/26 09:56 PM
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