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That's 100% true.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/24 02:09 PM
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Wow, that sounds quite grim. It's sad that many women internalize these notions. There's more to life than that. Try to find meaning outside of what society is trying to instill within you. Then, you'll feel liberated and find happiness. There are so many things to learn, so many hobbies to adopt & so many people you can get to know & connect with. Platonic bonds are quite rewarding & fulfilling too. You can create a calling for yourself. For example, teaching little kids & making sure they grow…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/24 01:23 PM
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I wouldn't leave my partner. Unless they were abusive toward me, our children or toward themselves. & value doesn't have to depend on their financial state or social status, but about the bond that we have between us. To look at it as a matter of materialistic benefit: The relationship expiring once the materialistic benefit is gone is quite depressing...
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 11:04 AM
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I am (or was) in a pretty similar situation as you. I used to consume redpill content when I was younger & that made me paranoid, terrified of men & disgusted by them. I've only healed (partly) when redpill content rose to the surface & many men criticized it. It served as a surprise to me. Because for a very long time I believed that all men think the same way & secretly hate us... But just want us for pleasure or to assert themselves amongst other men. Joining Mental Health subreddits has also…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 10:57 AM
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I'm in a similar situation, & I know good men exist, But they seem so rare. + how do you find out what type of man someone is? Many hide the truth until it's too late (especially in my case, I can't date men - & I don't want to... It has to go straight to engagement then marriage).
/r/ExRedPill12/11/24 10:51 AM
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Here's the rule. The type of people that are mean-spirited & call others losers, are exactly the type whose opinions don't matter. They're very low. So letting them dictate your mental state & control how you view yourself is giving them too much power. Just stay hopeful, dedicated & work hard. Develop the habit of noticing even the smallest opportunities that come your way with regards to building your life & your career... Each person goes through life at their own pace. Don't get discouraged …
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 07:18 PM
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First of all, there isn't really an alpha and a beta. Different people have different mixtures of these aspects... & this concept is very misleading & serves to instill insecurity among men to make them constantly willing to consume redpill podcasters' advice. Second of all, you really need to do something about your paranoia... You need to make a serious stand and not succumb to these thoughts. Otherwise, you'll damage yourself further & you can possibly damage her too. Making her lose trust in…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/24 05:22 PM
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Noooo please don't "educate" yourself on women's issues through radical feminist spaces online. They're extremely hurt & reactive women. What I've noticed is that a lot of them write with the intentions of hurting men (as a form of retaliation against them being hurt by men). Just live life & when you meet well-adjusted women in real-life, ask them genuine questions (but avoid sensitive question if you barely know them). & don't tell yourself that you'll never meet somebody's standards. Don't lo…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/24 08:49 AM
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What are these things that make you say "damn, I wish I could be a woman"?
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 06:56 AM
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Agree 100% It depends on the woman mainly, her morals, values & what she prefers. Some genuinely like & want the sweet & cute guys. Also, to me it conveys confidence & individuality when a guy is unapologetically not trying to be an "alpha". It shows that he's comfortable in his own skin, he's non-conforming, capable of thinking & choosing for himself & not letting society or other men dictate his decisions. The only trait I'd say one might think of working on is indecisiveness. Indecisiveness i…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 06:15 PM
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I pray it gets better for you, you deserve so much better than this. Don't let his negative talk ruin your self-esteem. He says it to destroy your confidence so you wouldn't have the guts to call it quits.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 05:22 PM
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I can't speak for all women, & I've also never been in a relationship (by choice). With those important disclaimers mentioned... I truly believe that there's a lot of variability in what each woman finds attractive, & also in the pattern of attraction. So for example, in my case, I've come to the conclusion that I will most likely only become attracted to someone I have an emotional connection with. & men that are rated as 8s 9s & 10s don't interest me at all & I can't see myself with them 🤷🏻‍♀️…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 09:18 PM
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I can't speak for all women, & I've also never been in a relationship (by choice). With those important disclaimers mentioned... I truly believe that there's a lot of variability in what each woman finds attractive, & also in the pattern of attraction. So for example, in my case, I've come to the conclusion that I will most likely only become attracted to someone I have an emotional connection with. & men that are rated as 8s 9s & 10s don't interest me at all & I can't see myself with them 🤷🏻‍♀️…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 09:18 PM
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In that case, you need a whole shift in your mindset & what you are focusing on. Do you have good qualities other than looks? Can you be a loyal partner? If yes, then shift your focus on women who'd appreciate that & who wouldn't go after looks. A big part of finding a partner, especially for men I believe, is self-actualization. I don't mean amassing wealth... But I mean, reaching a version of you that is as authentic & true to who you really are as possible. Jealousy & resentment drag you the …
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 06:57 PM
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Yup, it requires effort. Having another human being close to you in life requires effort to nourish that relationship the right way so it can remain a source of warmth & stability for both of you. Life will throw challenges at you, & both of you will have to deal with them together in the best way possible. Also, having a partner, requires both sides to be attuned to their partner's needs, to push for healthy communication & not allow resentment to build up (because resentment & misunderstanding…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 11:09 PM
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I think it can be real but it's not as flowery as popularly portrayed. & it requires a lot of effort. It's partly a skill that both parties have to develop. & also depends on having good character qualities such as loyalty & honesty. It's not easy, but that's what makes it beautiful. That you are capable of being a dependable partner who keeps their word & that you have someone else who does & feels the same. This, I believe, greatly improves your self-esteem & allows you to be a better & more s…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 10:55 PM
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I think the problem with this is the generalization. Contrary to redpill belief, I'm a woman & I've known hundreds of women in my life. The truth is, many women I know look for a kind & loving man from the beginning. There are subsets of women after the toxic type, but these are just a subset. The generalization that women just want to sleep around with an attractive man then settle with a less attractive but stable partner, is very harmful. Worst thing ever is ending up being married to someone…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 10:18 PM
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This sounds amazing to hear! There's only one way to truly live life, & that is to live it authentically :D Wish u the best.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 05:27 AM
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This is what I call "loser mentality"... Sorry for the term, but it's when you only see the negative outcomes in front of you & as a result run away from everything that can possibly lead to a loss... Which results in a much truer & bigger loss in your life. Really, if you think about it: You have nothing to lose. If you open up & she's receptive, you win a closer partner & a more authentic relationship. If you open up & she responds unfavorably, you win yourself & have saved yourself a lot of t…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 12:02 AM
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This is so sad. It's also weird that she gets mad at you when you choose to do other activities on your own. So not only is she emotionally & physically withdrawn, but she's also somewhat controlling. I don't know what the exact solution is, but I know 2 things. 1. You have to have an honest conversation about this clearly & precisely. Ask her if you did or said something that hurt her... Tell her that you can't let this go on anymore. You're a human being with emotional & physical needs. If thi…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 07:22 AM
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Wow, thank you so much. Really appreciate it!
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 10:17 PM
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I've never heard of it before. Are there any specific episodes you guys like/recommend I'd watch first? I feel kind of overwhelmed with where to start. Thank u so much!
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 09:46 PM
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No it's not. There are different types of women. The redpill primarily focuses on the type of women who are hypersexual... Usually because these women are more straightforward in their needs (Most of the time: it's money & security because they are in desperate need of a man to escape their poverty/abusive families or they just like the power & lifestyle that comes with abundant money). Could also be because these women have a traumatizing past which makes them easy to manipulate. I'm a 25 y.o. …
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 03:41 PM
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I really like what dr. K is doing in HealthyGamerGG. Although I don't like it when he starts talking about buddhist concepts. But, he gives very sound & helpful advice to young men & women.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 02:41 PM
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I'm a woman & I have a pretty similar problem. I've stopped believing or thinking that I should help men in those spaces, unfortunately... Because in order to help that means you're going to be in those spaces a lot & the poison will get to you. So I get where u're coming from. & I don't know what the solution is. For me it's throwing it all together :/ & only helping those who already are looking for a way out. Maybe make it a one-time project for a few months. Then put it all to rest & shun it…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/23 12:02 PM
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Not morally corrupt Good Communication & able to build a healthy relationship Individualistic thinker (not easily influenced by toxic rhetoric online or offline) Is driven & not lazy (but money is not imp) Doesn't smoke or drink or do drugs & these exact qualities apply to women as well imo
/r/ExRedPill10/12/23 11:12 AM
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Yes, it can be hard. As you've mentioned to another comment "I don't follow the redpill, the redpill follows me". Even as a woman, I can relate to this. & I put a lot of effort into ignoring that content so it doesn't show up again & yet it still makes its way into my feed. It's depressing for me as well... To see that online spaces made for men are so corrupt. The redpill for me is like a swamp filled with the filthiest of people & ideas.. It hurts me to see so many (if not most) young men foll…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/23 10:18 AM
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Women are like animals? The more you beat them the more they like you? Clearly you are disappointed with your dating life, I think the answer to why women don't like you is more complicated than you think & it does not involve beating.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:20 AM
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