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Trump passed the first stimulus package. Biden passed the second. They both contributed to the inflation problem. The border crisis is fear mongering. That's how millionaire Republicans get poor people to vote for them so they can pass more tax cuts for the rich. Fear and emotional wedge issues. Trump is going to increase taxes on the middle class if his plans go through...but he's successfully distracted you by talking about who uses what bathrooms and that immigrants are going to take your job…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:39 PM
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I'm going to work no matter what. You never think that your marriage will fall apart until it becomes painfully obvious. I don't mind carrying the financial load. Monty wasn't the issue. The issue that she became increasingly abusive as time passed, so that is what ended everything. Money only came into play when they had to determine support payments. My point of view is if you're no longer married to me then you need to start taking care of yourself like all adults do. You no longer get the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:47 PM
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What I'm telling you is that during a divorce money is involved, and everything goes against a big balance sheet and you go down the list. This wasn't in a equal property state. Everything wasn't just split down the line 50/50. It's not California. Every major expense that I paid for was a credit towards me and everything that she paid for was a credit towards her and income from me was factored in and income from her was factored in In many states, they will look at potential income based on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:09 PM
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I was fortunate enough to be able to support my family whether she worked or not. I can't tell my wife what to do. Ultimately it's her choice whether she wants to work or not if she has the luxury to be able to make that decision. In other words, she didn't force me. Her income wasn't an absolute necessity and I couldn't make her work if she didn't want to. I believe spousal support should be based on her maximum realistic income amount and not some significantly lower amount just because she do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:59 PM
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I was specifically referring to my situation. My wife went to grad school entirely with loans. I paid the loans off. She decided that she hated the job that required the Masters and then she took an entry level job at the same place just because it was easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:46 PM
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I'm referring to situations where the wife may be highly educated and capable of earning a significant income, but because she's married, she chose to have a low-paying job and just have her husband make the money. For example if someone someone is choosing to make $30,000 instead of $95,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:41 PM
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Don't financially reward women who are deliberately under employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:25 PM
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I was referring to him asking you out but not being able to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:40 PM
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I don't see how therapy can work as preventative care if you have nothing to talk about and everything's going well and you have no issue. I think a much better form of preventative care for mental health would be to have an active social circle, and activities that keep your brain engaged and emotionally satisfied. Staying busy and connected to your community is probably the most important form of mental health care. Loneliness is a real problem among middle age men because they lack a passion …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:22 PM
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I know guys who've gone to therapy to help deal with the fall out of a divorce. They were happy with the therapy and they found it essential for emotionally recovering from the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:15 PM
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+1 for honesty -100 for not being able to pay for a date or two
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:13 PM
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Why do I need to see a mental health professional if I am perfectly happy, have no emotional issues, I'm successful, and have a great relationship. Why is it so hard to admit that therapy isn't for everybody? Not everyone is the same, some people have no trauma, no issues with their parents, and they're genuinely and truly happy. What do I possibly need to discuss with a therapist? I would literally have to create a problem talk about, or pretend that being teased on the playground in in 1983 ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:05 PM
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It's counter to what is stated in point number one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:00 PM
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Why would my opinion change?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:32 PM
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Lesbians have the highest divorce rate and gay men have the lowest....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:28 PM
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WASP men want a woman that they can put in the New York Times wedding section. That's pretty much all they care about... Some high class blonde that won't be embarrassing and who went to Miss Piggy's school for girls and then to Brown to get her MRS degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:23 PM
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I've seen high standards used as a way to avoid commitment by women. For example I knew a girl who's considered to be extremely attractive by just about everybody turn a guy down because although he was successful, good looking, and most likely on the road to being a millionaire... She's told him she was holding out for a billionaire which is insane. There's like a handful of single billionaire men in the entire country. Another girl had the usual list of insane demands and then added "oh yeah h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:19 PM
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Pure physical attraction and sex still plays a role here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:15 PM
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Funny thing is I'm seeing a lot of women with supposedly hide standards being completely used and played by losers. The standards can't be that high if that keeps happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:11 PM
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I'm the first one but I'm an atheist. I don't understand why religion or political party has anything to do with the concept..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:55 PM
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I have to kids in college. They're basically raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:50 PM
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I'm happier in a relationship because I like sharing my life with someone I care for and someone I am attracted to. While I hate to cook, besides that I will do any chore. I don't care. My attitude is if I was single I'd be doing this, so I will happily do it no matter what. The mommy sex maid bot desire does not apply to every man. I don't need a woman in my life, I want one. That's a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:49 PM
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If women had high standards they wouldn't constantly be played and used by complete losers and idiots....it happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:43 PM
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It's a good thing to trust your partner. Both sides need to have some semblance of individuality and some part of their lives needs to be just for themselves like a hobby or a friend group or whatever. You can rely on your partner but you have to know how to handle things if he's not there. Trust in someone to know that they'll help split the load is healthier to me than needing someone, which sounds like codependency. I can do everything in my life that I need to do. I literally don't need anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:41 PM
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Men don't understand that they're often perceived as a threat until they prove otherwise. One of the jobs of a man in a relationship with a woman is to keep other men away. Sadly. Guys can be a roll of the dice... soulmate or abusive and soulmates aren't common.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:37 PM
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Keep him away from screens as much as possible. Limit TV. No iPads to keep him quiet. Encourage reading and being outside playing. Let him learn how to entertain himself and how to deal with boredom. It's really tempting just to throw screen for them to shut them up but I swear it's an ADHD breeding ground. Constant intense visual stimulation at the expense of everything else that really matters need to be avoided. Free play with blocks and Legos are important. Reading every day. 6 hours of dail…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:33 PM
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I've raised a boy and a girl. Yes I think the is real patriarchy, but I think The Substance did a better job with it then Barbie...but I digress. Raising a boy was harder FOR ME. Your situation may be different. Boys start out extremely sensitive. They're able to express emotions and hopefully do it without acting out like a screaming brat. But society does everything it can do to get him to to not express his emotions in a constructive way and to just bury it deep, be a man, shut up, move on. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:22 PM
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Raising a boy is HARD. You're constantly trying to undo the damage done by everything else around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:04 PM
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Dude I was agreeing with you. Relax m
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:00 PM
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I'm agreeing with what the previous two people said. Have you ever had a girlfriend? No? All you seem to be knowledgeable about is how to fail and blame others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:59 PM
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There's so many things I can list. I was in an apartment once and the guy had no couch no coffee table no chairs just a high top table two bar stools, a massive TV like 90 something inches, and a stripper pole. No dishes in the kitchen no food no cups no plates nothing. Completely inhospitable. Yes what he could do to improve his dating life and I said how do girls react when they come over and he said "not well." Dude was living in a very small loft like condo with concrete walls, concrete floo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:41 PM
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I can't list everything because I'm not writing a book and I'm not going to make a comprehensive list. Often times when you stop trying, someone just comes along. Anyways seem like you do have all the really basic stuff I mentioned, so maybe the situation isn't as dire as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:26 PM
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There are a lot of features I'm attracted to, physical and otherwise. You're never going to get the absolute 100% perfect person to be with you. That person does not exist. Finding someone who's in perfect does not mean you are settling. What you may perceive as imperfections may be something that compliments you well. If she's not physically perfect because she's 5'7 and 140 lb and has gorgeous face with beautiful hair and everything else you like but oh my God her elbows are too pointy.... The…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:23 PM
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Who cares how many men she fucked. It doesn't mean anything, and it probably means she's pretty damn good in bed, which is a huge bonus. If you're so worried take an STD test, make sure you're both clean, and go nuts. Women don't need to "save themselves" for you. I'm guessing you're sensitive about body counts because yours is very low or zero. Again, not any woman's fault. If you're looking for a long-term partner, you want them to have their shit together. If you've reach a certain age like m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:17 PM
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You're completely right. Blaming others for being undatable is your fault. Not any woman. Or society. Or some conspiracy. I'm seeing a lot of bitter men who have don't have a job, don't know how to groom themselves, can't dress in any decent way, or do any other basic adult things. Figure it out guys, and learn that you're not getting a super model cock guzzling sex bot who also buy your dinner, clean up after you, and make six figures in her spare time so you can buy more crocks and cargo short…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:09 PM
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Have a job. Be able to ask a girl out and pay for her dinner. At dinner actually listen to her and show interest. Never bring up sex with her unless she does. Don't be creepy. Appear to be clean, meaning, have a haircut, don't smell, have nice white teeth (which is really easy to get just go to CVS and get something for your teeth). Don't have impossibly high standards where you don't have a chance. If you're rejecting supermodels because have pointy elbows or something silly like that, you need…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:43 AM
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I think you need to understand that being attractive isn't just about looks. It's also about your behavior, how you present yourself, how you treat her, and if you have your shit togethe.r
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:11 AM
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Something like 20% of women in their 20s are single. Something like 60% of men in their 20s are single. Young men, might be frustrated by that, but a big percentage of the men that age simply aren't relationship worthy. The statistics are perhaps showing us that women are more interested in older men and other women than they are men their own age. My phone is there are far more available men in their 20s then women...according to the available data.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:10 AM
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Young men are frustrated because young women are kicking their ass. Young women in major urban areas make more money than men of the same age. Discontinues until they have kids and then the pay gap, which is almost impossible to calculate accurately, kicks in. Young women better educated an and paid, and young men are dealing with the consequences. Anyway, I'm privileged, and I don't mind have if a portion of my tax dollars goes to help them in a meaningful way. Being conservative isn't what it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:05 AM
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I think they're just saying that they want their man to be considerate and maybe think of what they need or want at least some of the time. You can't possibly know what she wants for dinner that night, but you can buy the flowers she likes. I think that's what they're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:42 AM
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Feminism is simply advocating for the equality of opportunity. That's it. Women, and men, should be able to live as they want. Nobody is forcing any role on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:50 AM
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Personally I think it happens because you realize you weren't actually in love or as in love as you thought you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:46 AM
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I've been told by women, and I have observed, the for long term looks are secondary... What matters: Job Personality (funny, calm) Clean (self, home, car) Empathy (ability to listen) Emotionally available Not creepy Not obsessed with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:04 AM
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Women can be picky because they are in charge. If you want to be picked, step up your game. Across the board. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:01 AM
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Yeah no. There's too much generalization here. An independent and capable woman is attractive to me. I don't want someone who fakes weakness in an attempt to manipulate my emotions. I'll gladly help if needed, but that's insane. That's like a guy saying he can't figure out how to do laundry. Help me mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:57 AM
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My boundaries are: Long time male friends are ok. It's totally ok to talk to someone from 3rd grade. Don't seek out new male friends because it never ends well. Do not talk to recent ex's. Some dude from highschool is ok. No contact with serious exes unless kids are involved. It's too easy to fall into old habits. Gay men are wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:53 AM
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Dude...my marriage....which is over thank god. She didn't work. I made $200k. I took the kids to school. I did all the cleaning. All the yard work. The laundry. 4300 square foot house....so it was a lot. She cooked maybe 3 days a week and didn't clean up after. Honestly I was ok with it as long as I could do it when I had the energy and I could do it my way. She criticized every thing I did, including working late if I had to or doing 1 of the 4 bathrooms per day instead of all at once. It was c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:44 AM
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My ex was physically abusive and I only touched her to protect myself. I didn't dare bring it up in the divorce. She could make up anything and it would be believed. Women win here. Men have a massive physical advantage (usually). Some women get physical because they know they can get away with it and men know or are conditioned not to fight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:25 AM
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This is so true. Personality and LOOKING CLEAN and well put together is 90% of it. I'm pudgy and maybe slightly better looking than average but I can turn on the charm. It works. Listening to them and not talking at them about your boring job helps too. Nobody cares if your project is finally off the critical path.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:14 AM
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Did he ask you out and then you paid? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:10 AM
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The women who are attracted to assholes seem to conflate assholish behavior with having a strong, assertive, and outgoing personality. Fun and sexy. Maybe with the potential to be leader and run a business. Or, that's the example that was set for them by their father and it's all they know. "Damaged" girls seem to be attracted to these "damaged guys" It rarely seems to work out. The guys in this subreddit who say looks are the problem are blaming women when the reality is they either really are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:09 AM
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I find women to be shockingly honest. I'm saying abused women are more likely to be drawn to anyone that provides a potential escape. It's not attraction. It's desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:57 AM
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So wrong here. A man needs: A job that allows him to be capable of paying for dinner. Dress well. Not expensively. Wear clothes that fit. Don't show your butt crack. If you have a gut, find a shirt you don't have to tuck in. Have social skills. If you don't, that's your fault not the woman's. Work on it. Being funny helps a lot. Look clean. Haircut but someone who knows what they're doing. Facial hair under control. Be clean. Clean teeth. White strips if you have to. Don't smell. Control the col…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:55 AM
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Everything you said plus don't ever bring up sex or say anything even slightly creepy like commenting on specific body parts besides her eyes and hair....as in you have beautiful eyes, not goddamn them titties. Your hair is beautiful, not I want to eat that ass. Dressing well is easier now that you can join a service like Stately that will put together a complete outfit shipped to you that fits perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:46 AM
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And the definition of attractive is pretty damn broad. I'm nearly 50. Dad bod. Maybe, on a good day, I'm a 6 or 7. At best. I have great teeth and all my hair, which helps polish the turd that I am. I do look like I'm 40 so that helps. One day I saw this teeny woman struggling with her tire at AutoZone. I help her. Just to help. She's stunning. We chat. She gives me her number. I look it up in Mr Number. Playboy Cyber Girl. We chat a bit and I realize she's my complete opposite and kinda stupid …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:41 AM
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Women control dating. But the bar for men is pretty low.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:29 AM
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Girls and boys both bully, just in different ways. I raised a boy and a girl. For the boy, I focused on reassuring him that he can tell me literally anything without judgement. You have to take away that fear. I also did not tolerate bullying from him. Zero tolerance. If I heard of kids bullying other kids, I would intervene and put a stop to it. Another thing was during a phase in middle school of the boys calling girls "whores" or whatever. I made it clear that if I saw him do that or if I hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:28 AM
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Dude what the fuck. An abused 18 year old CHILD has a completely fucked up idea of what a healthy relationship is. They were never taught by example. If they do figure it out then they are desperate to escape, and often a man provides that hope and the support and the negatives are ignored out of sheer desperation. This is why like 80% of strippers end up dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:23 AM
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I disagree with this. My dad wasn't hard core abusive or anything, but I genuinely, from maybe 10 years old, disliked him as a person. I couldn't stand his personality or how he treated women and minorities, or how he made up lies to impress people, or how he was mean to waiters. I saw nothing of myself in him (and was definitely my biological dad...we look alike). My mom was my role model. Calm, cool, brilliant, artistic, musical, always repainting and restoring our old house. She is who I was …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:17 AM
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The most abusive woman I've ever seen was a child psychologist. Her job was all an act.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:10 AM
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It often is. I know someone who has been seeing a therapist for maybe....20 years? With no change in anything? What's the point of that except to pay for the therapist's annual ski vacation? If helps some people. I've seen it. Sometimes you need to talk to someone impartial. I get that. Not everyone needs it all the time for anything. For me, I'd do it if I have identified a specific issue that need help with. I need a plan with a defined end. If it doesn't help after a certain amount of time, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:09 AM
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Being anti-therapy is dumb. Being pro-therapy for everyone at all times is equally as dumb. (Anti-vax is ignoring logical conclusions derived from observable evidence. It's idiotic). Some people need therapy, and some people don't. Using myself as an example - I have no unusual trauma, childhood or otherwise. No depression, anxiety, or other mental health issues. I have no addiction or substance abuse issues or tendencies. I have a fulfilling relationship. If an issue with my behavior is called …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:40 AM
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Don't bring up sex. Eye contact. Make her laugh. Share food.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:51 AM
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Bare minimum for a man is a job that can pay for dinner, the ability to make her laugh, and a working penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:11 AM
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Dress well. Get an actual haircut. Not from Supercuts. Clean white teeth. Yes, white strips if you need to. Deodorant. LET HER TALK AND LISTEN TO HER. Have a conversation, don't talk AT her. Don't talk about you boring ass job. Don't bring up sex. So, look clean, look good, nice smile. Listening implies caring. Sex talk is creepy. Don't go there unless she does. If she likes you she will.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:09 AM
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If they're manipulative then they aren't nice.....??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:32 PM
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The facts of the pay gap issue are: More women go to college and get better grades than men In urban areas women in their 20s make more then men in their 20s. Women often put their careers on hold to have kids. Her body her choice, and unfortunately the consequence of that choice is her caree suffers. Childbirth is one of the major causes of the paygap. Missing potentially years of experience will have an impact. "Female" jobs typically pay less than men's. Teachers have to get their masters deg…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:27 PM
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If you have decent job, a sense of humor, and any penis that isn't micro you have the basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:07 PM
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You sell yourself by showing interest in her, allowing her to feel comfortable being herself, and demonstrating maturity and responsibility. Pay for dinner, and only go 50/50 if really really insists. DON'T BE CREEPY. NO SEX TALK OR JOKES. DON'T EVEN BRING IT UP. IF SHE WANTS IT SHE'LL MAKE IT OBVIOUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:05 PM
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I met a girl and her number was "somewhere between 300 and 400. I had sex a few times per month for 2 or 3 years." It didn't bother me. I would have done the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:59 PM
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I was pretty stunted coming out of high school. I only had kissed a girl or two. I had no idea about anything pop culture related...my parents didn't have cable and I lived in a small town and the only thing I was exposed to was classic rock on the radio. Besides that I was completely clueless and didn't understand pop culture references all. Then I went to college 8 hours from home. At the first lame ass orientation, my RA told us that high school is over and now you get recreate yourself and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:55 PM
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10/10 girls are often lazy and entitled and expensive. Get ready for boring sex and a big Sephora bill. Hello $2k monthly self care budget. Pilates and PRP and Botox and Lululemon oh my!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:40 PM
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I hear what you're saying - this entitled TikTok influenced generation of women is pretty gross. But I think your numbers are really far off. I'd say at least 50% of women have their shit together and are decent people. In most urban areas, women in their 20s earn more then men. The best of the best shit often leads to an unhealthy power dynamic in the relationship where the woman just ends up being neglected and treated like crap. I've seen it happen. Back to your point, women will always have …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:32 PM
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Men: Get your shit together. Make your home nice. Buy stuff off Facebook Marketplace to save money. Have a clean home. Have dishes and utensils. Dress well. Subscribe to Stately or a similar service and they'll literally dress you. Be responsible and stable. Learn to shut up and listen. Don't mansplain. Be a shoulder to cry on. Don't fuck with a girl by pursuing her for weeks and then saying some bullshit like you have to focus on work and you have to end things. Never ghost someone. Learn to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:15 PM
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Jordan Peterson is an ass clown. Something like 20% of young men are in a relationship. About 60% of young women are in relationship. I think this means young women date older men or other women. They're looking for maturity which is part of being a nice person. They also want someone who has their shit together ($), but that's a different discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:20 AM
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The draft will never be reinstated. Doing so would be political suicide. Our military is as good as it is because its volunteer, and anyone with any sense knows that. Register. It's not a big deal. If the .001% chance of it happening happens...hey guess what, you're now Amish.
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