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EcstaticYoung8856/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 05:15 PM
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Also she just seems like a profoundly unhappy person so is is ridiculous that she is leading a happy wife school
/r/ExRedPill18/08/25 03:39 PM
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Would you get "triggered" by women yelling at stupid men what women think?
/r/ExRedPill09/08/24 05:20 AM
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Or ultimately how is red pill for women?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 01:31 AM
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So red pill is ultimately good for women?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 01:28 AM
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Well then if this is a logical movement please give me a practical example not a mythical analogy. Thanks
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 01:22 AM
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Again you are literally citing mythology (kings, army, village) to prove your point. Please provide a more concrete example to illustrate your point. Can you please clarify the difference between RP and TRP?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 01:16 AM
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Sorry. Internet went out for a second so I couldn't refresh and I responded in the wrong area So for example let's take your own words "women are more important to the 'red pill' than men" Why is that the case? Logically shouldn't men be more important to "red pill"? Isn't it a movement about men being the best they can be? That is not how people work though. Many RP men have a lot of emotions about women because of broken romantic attachments they have had with women. There hearts are broken an…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 01:03 AM
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So just yo clarify you want me to qualify how the red pill movement is representative of emotional thinking? Not trying to be sassy just want yo clarify
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 12:37 AM
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How am a throwing around emotional truths? I'm a big believer in life as much truth is possible it comes from an equal recognition of the emotional and rational of every situation
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 12:34 AM
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Red pill is just the result of extreme emotional thinking. The reason why women are such important variables in the red pill universe is because red pill men are so emotional about them that they forget the reality of the situation. The truth is that women are just as human and just as valuable as men. Red pill is a myth about human interaction that sometimes can speak to some emotional truths men experience. It is the furthest thing from a "truth" or mathematical
/r/ExRedPill20/04/24 12:23 AM
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Do you care about anything? Your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:15 PM
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Oh dear. That is awful
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:03 PM
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Cool. You basically just gave the textbook definition of empathy. No ability to put yourself in her shoes Every person, women included, young and old, pretty or not pretty is fighting an uphill battle to find love and deal with past issues. There is no binary blue pill/red pill world. Yes men and women are different but we are all just as much human. Sadness, loneliness, depression, grief feel the same for men and women. Please consider this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:55 PM
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Do you have a heart?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:59 PM
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Im sorry. That must be hard. Honestly we all make mistakes. Sometimes I feel like I make more mistakes than get things right! If you respect a woman and stop when she says stop then you will be fine. I bet if I was a man I wouldn't get it too. Most men are not rapists so they dont get it. There are however a few men who rape and hurt A LOT of women. Does that make sense ?
/r/ExRedPill19/03/24 01:16 AM
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I understand. That is all anyone wants. The world can be lonely. Maybe keep it lighter. Smile. Be the friend you would want
/r/ExRedPill19/03/24 12:59 AM
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Dont watch the news so much. It plays tricks with emotions. How does it happen to you?
/r/ExRedPill19/03/24 12:51 AM
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An apology has 3 components, man or woman. 1) you humbly admit you made a mistake 2) you take legit concrete steps to account for your mistakes 3) you ask forgiveness with the realization that people can forgive but not forget. Maybe you are young but as you get older and have sex more regularly with someone you love you realize this is not hard to do and reasonable
/r/ExRedPill19/03/24 12:42 AM
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Where is your proof of that?
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 11:09 PM
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Welcome to the human condition. Many women feel the same exact way I promise you. Even pretty women. You want a heart connection. You deserve it. There's a lid for every pot
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 08:29 PM
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Online sort of see your point. In real life disagree wholeheartedly
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 01:24 AM
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Empathy happens every day in the world and sometimes, but not nearly as much, online. Genuinely, from an empathetic place I have no idea what you are talking about
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 12:38 AM
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Speak straight from the heart. Clearly, directly, not passive aggresivly. Say you were in a confused and vulnerable part of your life and you feel remorseful for things in the past and you are on a journey to be a better man and human Rise to the challenge dude. Dont take the RP path and just assume everyone lacks empathy and you are a victim It is difficult but if you are real like this people, including women who are different but just as human as you are, will be understanding.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 12:16 AM
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But aren't you lying to "vet" her? What does that say about you? Instead one can clearly, directly, and non passive aggressively tell their date they value empathy and gage their direct response. No need to lie or play games to
/r/ExRedPill12/03/24 09:29 AM
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It seems like you need to challenge a core belief you have about women. You simultaneously put women on a pedestal while also resenting us. The truth is women are just as much people as men are. Yes there are differences but we are all just as much human. Our hormones vary but the experiences of emotions like sadness, joy, and embarrassment feel the same. I don't think it is fair to say women are not held accountable. Like all people, every woman experiences loss, death, sickness, loneliness, he…
/r/ExRedPill12/03/24 09:19 AM
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Do men have empathy towards women? The answer is the same. There are differences between the sexes but many familiarities. So for example sadness, falling in love, heartbreak feel the same. So women have empathy towards men
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 01:06 AM
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Consider your emotions and thought/cognition equally. Two things can be true at the same time. Men can find red pill stuff to be helpful AND it can break your heart to see how it hurts some women Your thought process now is indicative of someone who is maturing and developing wisdom. Keep at it
/r/ExRedPill31/12/23 05:24 AM
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Because they legit know nothing about women and have no conception of the menstrual cycle
/r/ExRedPill25/12/23 07:34 PM
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so not true. men and women both fall in love the exact same way. look at attachment theory keep your head up! there are great women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:23 AM
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You miss my point. One of the tenants of Buddhism is that everyone suffers. Suffering is like gravity. It weighs down on everyone equally but we can't see it. Humble yourself a little. With all due respect what makes you the arbiter of human suffering? Everyone you meet, man and woman, is fighting an uphill battle. You may not be able to see it. It may be very different than your own. It may manifest differently from yours. Everyone is fighting one though. I want to make it clear that I don't at…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:02 AM
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You completely missed my point. I am not some vile person who minimizes the effects parental death My point is that we all (men and women) suffer. An adult losing his or her parent is better than the alternative of a parent having to bury their child or a child being orphaned so it is something we will all have to face. We will all have to experience heartbreak and unbearable sadness. We will all have friends and loved ones die, witness sickness and injustice, and we will all face the hour of ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:19 AM
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Like we dont get nervous around guys we like, wonder why a guy likes someone else and not us, get our heart broken, get stuck in traffic, have to have periods and give birth, have worries at work, worry about kids Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:57 PM
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But can you genuinely say that women dont struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:55 PM
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These are not "extreme cases" every woman (and every man) will face at least one of these issues in life. How big are your issues? I bet you're like every other human being in that your worries and stressors are all relative "Women as a group do not struggle out of choice." No idea how you conclude this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:55 PM
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Do you do well with the ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:23 PM
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No one, male or female, needs or benefits from harsh, unsolicited advice from a vengeful person. It is unhelpful and often not true. Is better than a 30 years old that will put career over relationship without a second thought. -What makes you think it is so binary? Have you ever listened to the lived experiences of a 30 year old woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:18 PM
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do you truly believe that? ​ When a woman gets diagnosed with a deadly disease she doesn't struggle? When a woman sees her younger sister die of cancer she doesn't struggle? When a woman is heartbroken when a relationship ends she doesn't struggle? When a woman has a miscarriage after trying so hard to get pregnant she doesn't struggle? When a woman buries her parents she doesn't struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:11 PM
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Yes women are going to see you as less then if you keep that childish attitude. You can hate me but trust me dude your attitude is off putting to women and you're going to attract what you give off. Just like an intense man hating feminist whose negative energy can be felt by all when she enters the room, you too give off bad vibes This doesn't mean your experiences are invalid or that you probably don't have some points but you are not being honest with yourself both intellectually and emotiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:06 PM
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There is a lot in between speaking platitudes and what you said. Women are human beings just like you and are on their own individual journeys. Just like men every woman has to confront the major existential crises of life (death, sickness, heartbreak etc) and don't get out of this world unscathed Have you ever met and spoken one on one to an unmarried woman in her 30s. Why so much venom? She may have a hole in her heart the size of Texas because of a breakup or shy or a bunch of other issues. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:48 PM
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Who are you to point any fingers with that attitude? What would your kindergarten teacher say if she heard you say that? You are sinking to that level
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:40 PM
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women don't struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:38 PM
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Have a heart. Women struggle too. Dont be so cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:34 AM
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Fascinating thing about life. Good looking men can be humble and monogamous while not as attractive ones selfish, cheaters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:15 AM
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Do you remember the Me Too thing? Not all that glitters is gold. A lot of women are not having this great sex. You may disagree but just listen for a second. Of course not all men are bad but some are horrible and really misuse women. How could every woman have a FWB but most men be deprived of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:16 PM
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I dont think every one does at all. Are you sure about that? Also (and please hear me out on this) FWB is not this great thing. It can be good but often it can be emotional vapid and hurtful for women. Please just radically accept that this. Being a woman and being used for sex is really painful I know it is awful for a lot of men but why cant you accept that although men and women are different we both suffer. Sometimes we suffer in the same way and other times very differently. Look up oxytoci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:08 PM
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This is one of the most incorrect things ever Listen men and women are different in some ways and exactly the same in other ways. If you care I can further elaborate but this narrative you have that life is so easy for women is incorrect and frankly self centered. At the very least when a woman counters you at least listen to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:36 AM
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All I can say is that women crave and want want love just like men. Women literally crave to love a good man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:47 AM
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Watch the movie "He's just not that into you." Basically the reverse is going in for you You are wrong. Love is real and feels the same for men and women. Unfortunately, you just have not found love. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT but these girls are just not that into you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:13 AM
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You attract men that want you only for sex and look past your heart. I don't think many men know how big this is. No one is nicer than a man who wants to sleep with a good looking woman in her early 20s. They then reject you after sex and stomp on your heart Partly bad luck. You have not met someone who you connect with on a deeper level. You can be a beautiful and accomplished woman and still have low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:21 AM
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Of course. Women fall deeply in love with men every day. Yes having sex is a great expression of love but love is more powerful. I have men family members who I love and male friends that literally saw me through my darkest times TL;DR There are many great men who enrich the lives of people (including women)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:13 AM
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Because for both men and women it's about deeper things. Not to say that there is anything wrong with you but you want to meet that person that you connect with. You just have not met her yet. Hope that helps
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 10:20 AM
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https://youtu.be/clSkuZp1b_E?si=rbuaRO77hQdSvbSy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:18 AM
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It is just different. As a woman sex is very important to me. The difference is women have sex to meet a lot of needs while men have sex to meet one need
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:05 AM
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Or we could have gone through a period and got over it and become a better person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:54 AM
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Putting penises aside, this is a very human thing. We all fear abandonment and contemplate our inadequacies. There's a lid for every pot though. Find someone that likes you for you
/r/ExRedPill24/10/23 03:20 PM
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Also you don't have to be perfect for a woman to sleep with you.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 01:45 AM
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Also I wouldnt say at all it was easy to be promiscuous. I guess it was easy in the sense that I didnt seek out men to sleep with. Emotionally however it was not fun and showed how I could graduate from college and look like l had my shit together and still have the self esteem of a raccoon It did force me to learn to value myself more in relationships
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 01:43 AM
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It is a bit ironic if you think about it. Good point. I guess it comes down to gender roles and a lot is probably based in evolution. Do you think as a man it is easier to sleep with someone without catching feelings? That was almost impossible for me to do under the age of 25.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 01:36 AM
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I think that comes down to your operational definition of promiscuous. Promiscuity carries a different connotation than recreational sexual activity. I would argue that often times when people self-characterize their behavior or the behaviors of others as promiscuous they are not referring to fun and harmless periods. Maybe they are being too hard on themselves or others but I'm just responding to the OP
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 01:23 AM
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That's why I prompted it with "in my experience"
/r/ExRedPill23/10/23 12:41 AM
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He totally can. I'm all for that. He just asked a question so I gave him my 2 cents.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 10:26 PM
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🤔 This may help. In my experience, men who are good with women (get us in bed and have a good time) are driven by a genuine love for women. They love having sex with women, they love talking to women, they love being around women. In a weird way they celebrate women and women's sexuality. Adopt this frame of mind and you'll kill 2 birds with one stone. You'll be less resentful and you'll have more sex
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 01:02 PM
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Try putting yourself in their shoes. Genuinely. Speaking from my own experiences when someone, male or female, is being promiscuous it is usually not a great period in their life. Looking for love in all the wrong places. Maybe drinking too much I had kind of a slutty phase right out of college. I was living with a group of people and always had people around but was so lonely inside. Wouldn't want to go back there for all the tea in China
/r/ExRedPill22/10/23 09:38 AM
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No black and white answer. Both men and women attach (i.e. attachment theory) and form intimate bonds. When you bond with someone it is healthy to show vulnerability for both men and women. In regards to sexually I think it is analogous to "a lady in the street and a freak in the bed." Kind of not sexy if it is in public but can be incredibly sexy if men share their intimate concerns with you privately. For example my ex boyfriend at least appeared to be a tough guy. At night sometimes he would …
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 05:15 AM
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It sound like you have a lot going on and are really not in a good place. I genuinely hope you feel better and are able to get any help you may need.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:14 PM
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I know it can be very difficult and I'm sorry about that. You probably won't agree with me about this but many women are suffering too in our current climate. I realize it doesn't seem like this but 2 things can true at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:46 AM
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the bitterness is evident by the all or nothing thinking and the assumption that women and society hate him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:19 PM
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has it really worked? with all due respect you prove my point. feminists are often known to be bitter and unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:48 PM
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dude watch this bitterness. it will rot you inside
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:34 PM
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!!! ??? LOL
/r/ExRedPill01/10/23 11:19 PM
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My best advice is to look at women as humans too. They all go through loss and heartbreak. Your perception of this is not accurate. Im in my 30s but when i was my hottest in my early 20s with the best body i probably felt the most lonely and used by men. Not everything is what it seems
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 03:23 PM
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Honestly I am not surprised though someone thought you were a man. You do emit a lot of masculinity.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/23 04:47 AM
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I think as a woman the biggest issue i had with it was its acceptance of how easy it is to be a woman. Trust me finding love is hard for us all
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 11:56 AM
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I'm saying the female RP movement does not practice what it preaches. Example: "There is a lot of shade cast on women, yes, but most of it is rightfully so." This is a cold, judgmental, and spiteful things to say and frankly not indicative of "wifey" goals or femininity in its true form. I'm sorry if it is your lived experience but it is not mine. Of course there are terrible women out that there but they are 50% of the population so there is a lot of diversity. There are really a lot of great w…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 11:31 AM
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sure but if you are a woman how hard is it to be naturally feminine?
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 11:14 AM
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Thanks for your response. It just seems a bit different from my lived experience. Of course I want my husband to feel loved, respected, and cared for but in my experience it comes down 2 things: 1) Did you meet the person at the right time. 2) is there chemistry It is also not my lived experience from being loved by a man that they necessarily want a "compliant" personality as much as someone that they gel with and can be best friends with and have good sex with. I think men and women love and a…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 08:18 PM
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Aww. Dont be so hard on women. Do you not find that quip regarding "that's women do" a bit mean or stereotypically bitchy? Nevertheless how did it work for you?
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 02:58 PM
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What is it
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 10:55 AM
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Heartbreak is the worse.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 07:30 PM
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Im sorry to hear that. Dont hate yourself. It can be really hard to date under the best circumstances. You are definitely not "low value" because you are neuro atypical. If you ever need support or encouragement please DM me. I'll try to help but if i cant i swear I will listen
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 07:24 PM
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Are there really women who tell men their dicks are too small?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 07:17 PM
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Did you find the answer?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 07:16 PM
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Im sorry you were sick. It is weird cause most girls would love a boyfriend as well. I dont know why it is so hard for us all.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 07:15 PM
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Well in my experience guys who have swept me off my feet love women. That is kind of their issue. They want to be around women, have sex with them, talk with them, give them orgasms. That is their driving force not anger and manipulation
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 06:12 PM
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I've always struggled with transactional or emotionally meaningless sex. Just dont break too many hearts.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 03:45 PM
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Wow! You must be handsome and charming
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 03:36 PM
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what do you mean by the way it is "suppose" to work? again im really trying to understand and i dont want to come across as judgy or mean. sex in a relationship is really important to women as well. like one of the most important factors. i am sincerely confused
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 02:25 PM
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so glad to hear that. why did you chose the red pill movement and not one of the many other motivational movements?
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 01:46 PM
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😯 i am so sorry. Keep your head up. You're in my thoughts
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 12:45 PM
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Again I'm really trying to understand this, the only thing you want from a relationship is sex? What keeps you from not just hiring prostitutes?
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 12:44 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. As a woman I am just so genuinely curious. Please don't hate me. I'm just trying to understand Do you just lose any sexual interest in women at all? Like are you OK with never having sex again or ever having sexual thoughts when you see a member of the opposite sex? How exactly do men go their own way completely? Personally I find the pickup movement the hardest to wrap my head around. I almost get the MGTOW (although as a woman I would be so sad if I didn't have any men…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 05:25 AM
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I'm glad you had some benefits and are is a secure marriage. What drew you however to the redpill movement and not another motivational speaker like Tony Robbins?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 11:15 PM
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Interesting. I didn't even know there was a woman's redpill movement
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 11:11 PM
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Do you think the red pill provided you any benefit?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 10:30 PM
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did it help?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 10:00 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about your experiences with women. ***accept that there are just as many good women as good men out there** I'm a woman my 30s now but when I was in my early 20s I was very bitter about men. I truly believed that all men saw women only as sex objects and constantly lied and manipulated to have sex. At that time, based on some of my experiences it really did make perfect sense. I'm a pretty sincere person and really feel for others so poor treatment by men was heartbreaking at t…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/23 05:30 AM
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