EdCarberry Archive

TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Thinking of pulling the trigger... Again So first off, DON’T UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES EVER NO MATTER WHAT FOR ANY REASON HAVE KIDS. Also, how about a legal separation instead of divorce?	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/20 05:32 AM
2	Financial disclosure in separation - Ottawa Canada Hide assets? I thought Canadians were honest? Hmmm..	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/20 05:14 AM
3	possession of son transfer to girlfriend if I die If she’s that abusive or neglectful, your priority is to address that now and get more custodial time, limit hers, maybe require supervised time. Depends on the level of abuse. It doesn’t make sense to avoid it now, then rely on your girlfriend to bring it up later in some contested guardianship. The court will wonder why didn’t you bring it up if its that concerning. If it wasn’t a basis to give you custody while alive, why would it be enough to give a girlfriend custody when you’re dead? Unles…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/20 02:29 PM
1	possession of son transfer to girlfriend if I die Girlfriend could only adopt if they got married and mom consented to losing her custodial rights, or abandoned the child.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/20 02:07 PM
1	Things got real today I like that you’re looking out for your kids. They need you and you need them, and they should be the priority. You can have her keep the house and postpone sale for years to get your equity if she can’t refinance to pay it off. You don’t have to sell the house immediately. She should refinance now to get your name off the mortgage, but if she can’t, you don’t have to. You just risk damage to your credit if she doesn’t pay the mortgage. You then move close by and maintain shared custody. Mediati…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/20 01:53 PM
2	I want to kill myself but I can't bring myself to do it. Her leaving is not at all a reflection of your worth, and you have no control over it. You’re the same good person you were before you met her. A lot of spouses just up and leave, for reasons they can’t even articulate, and that pattern may continue with the next person they’re with. The better question then may be what’s wrong with her? Based on her lack of sympathy and calling you manipulative, she doesn’t seem like a nice person. It’s possible you dodged a bullet by not staying with her. Like…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/20 09:44 AM

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter