Edayumz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Do women value/need safety and social/emotional signals to be intimate? Women cannot get pregnant from lesbian sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/26 01:26 PM
3	Do women value/need safety and social/emotional signals to be intimate? I think it's more about safety. Women face by far the most risk in heterosexual sex. Unwanted impregnation, internal injuries, death, and social ostracisation. If you dont feel safe, then the situation can go from arousing to existentially horrifying pretty quickly. I also think men sometimes fail to understand this because they can't really fathom it unless they've been R'd. The movie Alien does the best job of illustrating this BTW. Being desired has little to do with it, I think, because desi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 10:25 PM
0	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition That's not true in any court system - the woman would have to prove her accusation is credible to avoid slander suit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 11:25 PM
0	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition 2% for trial, 1% for criminal conviction. Slander laws still apply for men accused of rape if the woman is sharing this baseless (as in she would lose a civil case.) Most women do NOT name their abusers on social media btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 08:01 PM
1	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition I'm really sorry that happened to you. Most people are taught to handle conflict through discussion, and conditioning does not disappear when the threat is sexual. Of course, the issue is that predators don't actually care about non-consent. It's a turn-on for them. But they will happily pretend they can be reasoned with - until they've encircled their target. Also, a lot of predators will use public molestation to provoke a victim into retreating to a quiet area. The victim believes that becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 06:20 PM
1	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition Totally disagree. Believe it or not, "No" or "stop" isn't a magic word that will stop someone who believes they can take whatever they want regardless of a woman's feelings. It's on the initiator to clarify that everything's OK, and it's also on the receiver to be vocal about if they want something to stop. That's pretty much normal sexual etiquette, and yes, some of it is body language, but a lot of it is conversational also. However, when you're being violated by a man, it really doesn't matte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 04:30 PM
2	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition Yep, it's like they're having an episode. You can't talk or push your way out of it, the lights are on but no ones home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 04:24 PM
1	"Consent" is a thing that more men should reject and more women should enforce according to their respective definition Only 2% or reported rapes ever even make it to trial, only 1% result in conviction. The state is NOT on women's side. The state is on the side of any SLAM DUNK case. If you ever go to trial for rape, there's either a ton of evidence against you OR you've met a master manipulator and fraudster who has the capacity to fool the state and make up evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 04:19 PM
–	CMV: Women's poor romantic decisions are part of natural selection Basically a drop in the ocean compared to how many traumatised women will have children with their abusive partners, because that is also part of survival for women in these relationships. A lot of the time, it's having children that wakes them up because they value their children more highly than their own suffering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/25 11:08 PM
–	CMV: Women's poor romantic decisions are part of natural selection I think this argument kind of falls on its face when you consider that a very large portion of women will become pregnant in an abusive relationship. Never mind that many abusers do not show their true colours until after the honeymoon phase, and that goes for both male and female abusers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/25 11:06 PM
0	“Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist” Good for you. Did I say all of them? No, just my boss. However it's interesting that he never says that to any male no matter how unkempt they are	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 09:53 PM
0	“Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist” I beg to differ. I am rarely around women	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 07:35 PM
1	“Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist” The premise is false. As someone who has spent my life in male dominated fields, it is painfully obvious how much looks matter for women; but especially adolescent girls. Even at work now as an adult I am regularly called out for things they'd never call a man out for e.g not making sure my hair is neatly brushed after manual labour, having dirt or paint on my work T-shirt. Not wearing all work logo'd uniform, not smiling. BTW, this is not about men wanting anything sexual. It's just the social …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 05:47 PM
2	How would women be treated if we physically equals Well, a lot of the socialisation is due to strength differences as well. Women have never gotten that far by being violent, whereas men have. If women were as strong as men, they would know within a generation or two that strength can be power in itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 05:39 PM
-1	Why do women do this? Interesting how you reduce it to a simple lie instead of manipulating and toying with someone's emotions, which is emotional abuse by definition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 03:52 PM
1	How would women be treated if we physically equals Post is about physical strength, not height. There's a reason women are more likely to be domestic abuse victims, and men are less so. Why? Because the average man could kill the average woman with his bare hands. If women were equally as strong on average male domestic abuse, rates would soar, and women's would decrease too. Note that I never said there are no male domestic abuse victims. There are, of course. But it's still skewed because of the strength difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 03:47 PM
-1	Why do women do this? It absolutely is emotionally abusive to lie to someone about being in love with them for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 01:57 PM
3	How would women be treated if we physically equals There would be much more even statistics for sexual abuse of all kinds, as well as domestic abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 01:37 PM
-1	Why do women do this? It is a form of emotional abuse. Maybe not something to break a friendship over, but I am quite happy to tell my friends if I disapprove of their behaviour without making it personal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 01:31 PM
1	Why do women do this? Why do women complain about being lied to? Must be a mystery. In all seriousness, it's because these types of men are charmers and it's obviously going to be a let down if someone has a brief time full of romance and sexual satisfaction, only to find out that the man is into flings and has a history of this womanising. It's a lot of oxytocin thrown into the garbage, and the come down from it can be depressing. Men like this aren't always evil, and they don't all know what they're doing. Some of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 01:26 PM
2	Wow, older women really are full of baggage How is this a debate post?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 06:32 PM
2	Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women? Just because it's illegal doesn't mean it's not a huge part of the profession, the majority, actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 11:59 AM
2	Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women? Trafficking is an absolutely massive part of the industry	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 11:08 AM
1	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Again, then everything anyone does is manipulation, and the word becomes meaningless when referring to social situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 10:26 PM
1	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Trying to achieve something you're honest about trying to achieve is not manipulation lmao otherwise literally everything anyone does ever is manipulation	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 10:24 PM
2	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. It was sad for me at the time, but I got over it pretty quickly because I hadn't fallen for it too badly. My partner was in my class (we were friends at that point, I'd known him for a few months), and he saw how upset i was. He told me that I'm too trusting and need to be more careful but that I did the right thing by stopping it before I made a worse blunder and good riddance to him basically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 10:19 PM
1	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Again, it's like black magic vs. white magic. Charm isn't synonymous with manipulation because manipulation implies a twisting of an object, in this case something such as 'charm'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 10:01 PM
0	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Manipulation implies a twisted result. It's not the act of being 'charming' that is inherently manipulative, it's behaving that way to deceive someone that is manipulative. E.g a man courting a woman with the intent to marry her isn't manipulative if they're both aware that's what is happening. If a man was courting a woman and lying about his intentions, that is manipulation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:56 PM
1	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Ignoring a criminal who attacked me and played the long game, yes, I've met men who want too much info too quickly and act like you're best friends within a week of meeting. Personal story I guess: Once, I met a guy who'd been on a former college course with me. The friendship re sparked so quickly, and he showed so much interest in me and my life. We talked everyday for two weeks and they were very philosophical conversations. so we hung out at my place, and we had a drink. He started going int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:49 PM
1	Do women actually feel this way about men who've been falsley accused? Twitter isn't the same as being cross examined in a court. You're going to get absolutely grilled during cross examination and the insinuation is always related to being a whore or that you're having a fantasy about something that didn't happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:26 PM
2	Do women actually feel this way about men who've been falsley accused? Yeah that's like saying you've been falsely accused of being a butcher in a meat store surrounded by knives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:23 PM
1	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Well, yeah, I'd never have sex with anyone I wasn't in a committed relationship with. Abstinence, basically. Having sex before that is like paying someone their first month's salary before they've even done a shift. If you're in a committed relationship and you find out you're not sexually compatible, it's not hard to end it. It's not like marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:20 PM
1	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Well, I've only had one partner, but for him, yes. It's not that I'm anti casual sex but for me personally it's such a massive risk and I didn't want to waste my first time having sex consensually on someone who didn't care about me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:16 PM
0	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. This simple answer is that no one is immune to manipulation, no matter what they say. They're bluffing or just haven't had the misfortune of ever meeting a genuine psychopath.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:10 PM
1	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. Some of us do wait, but obviously, people with a high libido struggle to control their sexual inhibitions, especially where alcohol is involved. Goes for both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:07 PM
2	When telling women to "choose better," take into accountability how excellent some men are at leading women on just to get laid. Plus, most people think they're good guys. That's just fools' luck from people who have never had the misfortune of running into a psychopath. People say the same about true crime, about the victim and their choices. It is very easy to judge others' actions and pretend you'd be able to avoid it all when you're in a vacuum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 09:03 PM
7	Cheating should be illegal Also, in some states, divorce due to proven infidelity can lead to the cheating spouse getting the short straw in regards to the splitting of joint resources or even alimony	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 08:56 PM