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It's so weird to me. I never see discussions like this where I'm from and I just don't understand it. I would never be with a man that wants or expects me to submit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:37 PM
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I still don't get it. Why is anyone worthy of submission? Why would anyone submit to anyone? I see relationships as a partnership, not a leader and a follower. Maybe it's cultural? I never see anyone speaking like this in my country. Like I have seen discussion here about women cooking and then serving their husband their meal and if that is how it should be or not. I didn't even understand that conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:10 PM
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She was arrested for her crimes. So what would they protest?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:10 PM
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I haven't seen any support her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:09 PM
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Why would you submit to anyone? I don't care how good he is, rich, strong and powerfull, why would a woman submit to him? And why would he want her to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:50 PM
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I still don't think that kind of men deserve submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:43 PM
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Yeah I feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:44 PM
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I agree. If the parents are both decent people and can get a long then reshearch show that 50/50 is best for the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:48 AM
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Nobody changes their names when they get married in my country. I've always thought it was a little weird. I would not take my husbands name if I got married to someone that comes from a country that follows that custom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:23 AM
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It's not the same thing, FGM is usually much more extreme. But yes both should be banned! Boy circumcicision is not really an issue outside a few countries I think. Boys in my country are only circumcised if there is a medical reason for it and sometimes in the small jewis community we have for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:23 AM
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Because the child has rights. It has a right to be financially supported by both parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 11:55 PM
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I think most women want a partner not a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:40 AM
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What do you mean? You think women are fine with dating a rapist? Most women definitely are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:10 PM
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Yes. There are always people that are attracted to criminals, most people are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:06 PM
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What? I know multible women that stopped dating or left a man they found out was a rapist. I was talking to a man and found out he had raped a woma that was passad out. Never spoke to him again. It's not just because of risk but a morality. If I know you are a rapist you are out of my life and I think most regular people feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:04 PM
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Same in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:14 PM
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I don't like games in dating. I think some people, both men and women do it if they're insecure and have low self esteem maybe. I never noticed this around me after I became adult though. Dating culture is a little weird in my country. Everybody pretty much knows everybody and if not, they know someone that knows you. So when you start seeing someone you usually know them a little or at least know someone that knows them. Plus, we're not really romantic and we don't really date a lot. Just meet …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:01 PM
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I don't know if this is cultural differences but I have no idea about this shit testing women are supposed to do. I see many comment on it in this thread. I remember as a teenager a few girls would do something like that, pretending to be uninterested to make the guy more interested but I have never heard of adult women doing it. When I think about it, teenaged boys played that game as well though. Adult men no. Well, maybe I should say mature, well adjusted adults don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:54 PM
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I really thought you were a guy pretending to be a woman because I've read similar description in books. Where a male auther is describing women. You're good lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:20 PM
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Your flirting sounds like a man writing how he thinks women flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 01:59 PM
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Feeling mentally and emotionally safe with your partner is very important. Nothing to be embarrassed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:37 AM
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I've done the poor/broke thing and not interested in going back there. That is why I would not want to be with a broke or unemployed man. I can't go back to wondering when I can afford to eat something else then ramen/porridge and if I can pay my bills next month. If he just lost his job and was searching for a new one or in school or something that would be different. Security and stability is very important to me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:38 PM
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I could say the same about the men that are 33-40 year old. Doesn't mean I'd be interested in dating a 20 year old though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:59 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:34 PM
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I don't think I really think about it. I don't walk around thinking, I'm so feminine or I'm so unfeminine. I'm just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 04:14 PM
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I can't be attracted to a man that is not a genuinely good person. I know plenty of women that like kind men. Being kind is a baseline, most people, men and women need more than "just" kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:32 AM
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I don't know one woman that wants to be a SAHM/W. Probably some culture differences because it's pretty rare to be a SAHM/W here. Women I know want their own careers, they didn't get an education to not have a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:23 PM
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So? That's their problem. Same with men who want a traditional wife that takes care of them, the home and kids but also works and contributes to the finances. Not many women are okay with that so they wont date those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:26 PM
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There is nothing wrong with a coffee date or even a nice walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:21 PM
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Depends on the message. I don't assume all people that talk to me, comment on my stuff, DM me or likes my posts are interested in me. Just the way I'm not interested in the people I do that with (I'm don't really DM men but I might like their posts or comments). So many men seem to think a like or a heart mean something deeper, but it really doesn't. If it turns out I was wrong and the guy starts flirting or tries to sext or something it's really not a problem even if it is annoying, I just tell…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:07 PM
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I don't like casual sex. I tried to do the friends with benifit thing and it was fun for a while. He wanted more though and I really hurt him because I didn't so I don't do that either. What I've seen around me, one person usually develops feeling in those kind of relationship so I think they are more trouble than they are worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:58 PM
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Same. I'm single and not lonely and not looking for a relationship. Bad relationship is way worse than being single and you feel way more lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:57 PM
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Depends on the DM for me. Is he commenting on my dog, saying something like funny dog or what ever. Yes I would answer. Is he saying something about my boobs looking tasty (btw what is it with men sending those kinds of DMs? It's not attractive and it just makes sure they get blocked) then no I would not answer him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:15 PM
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They don't? Many women and men would answer, many reasons why, they get an ego boost, they are just always looking for something new or better. Cheating has everything to do with characteristics, it's not a gendered thing. Some people are assholes and can not stay faithful. Also, there are a lot of women and men that would never answer those DMs. I never do most of my friend never do either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:10 PM
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I'm a single dog lady, not older yet I guess though. I'm happy and content. I feel like I should want a relationship and I even want to want to find a partner but I just can't seem to bring myself to. I've never been heartbroken, cheated on or been in an abusive relationship so it's not trauma. I was very unhappy in my last relationship for a long time so it's probably because of that. Men try to flirt with me or send me messages but I don't feel like talking to them or go out with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:14 PM
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I agree with you. I personally am not interested in sex work but I don't think women that do it are disgusting. They have their reason. I know one girl who is an only fan model, she's kind and super nice. She's had a hard life and suffered se**** abuse as a child. Her boundaries are messed up because of that abuse. I know one ex prostitute, she was also se****** abused as a child. She was poor, got out of abusive relationship and needed money to take care of her children. She suffered a lot and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:07 PM
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I'm really sorry you feel like everyone is against you or despise you. I think it's your inner pain and depression that is making you feel this way. Are you getting any help? You don't have to feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:14 AM
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Women being with other men doesn't mean they hate or despise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:56 AM
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The strippers I've seen have never done anything for me personally. Not that I have seen many, except in movies. Not interested. I like muscles just fine though, just not the very muscular, super cut and shaved look. I don't know about the dad bod stripper joint going out of business, I know a lot of women that like strong dad bods. Nothing wrong with strong cuddly bears. Maybe the soft out of shape dad bods though wouldn't be popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:17 AM
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why is the burden of abstinence always on the man? If the man absolutely does not want children then yes the burden is on him. Because after they have sex his choice is over. If she gets pregnant she can choose to have the baby or have an abortion. He cant make that choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:48 PM
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I'm pro choice but I don't think I could ever have an abortion. It's a difficult choice to make and not all woman can go through with it, if the dad want's the child or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:43 PM
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Lol we definitely have friends we don't find attractive. One of my ex had these traits, he was rather short but I was attracted to him even though he was not conventionally attractive. I have a friend that is (5'6) and he never had any problems with women. He's married now with kids. And no he's not rich. One of my girlfriends has never had a boyfriend that is taller than her and she's about 5'7. I don't know if she likes smaller guys or just falls for guys that happen to be on the shorter side.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:27 AM
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What I'm pointing out is that women do not hate nice, funny and smart men. They just don't. Just because they are not attracted to some men that have those traits does not mean they hate them. Not being attracted to someone does not mean they hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:14 AM
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That doesn't mean that women hate nice, kind and funny guys. These traits are a must for me and many other women. But there is more to it then that. That's just the baseline. There needs to be more, some attraction, shared interests, interesting personality for example. It's weird women don't even want to be friends with you. My girlfriends and I have all kinds of male friends. I've never thought about basing my friendships on looks. I'm sorry you haven't found your person. I hope you find her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:07 AM
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Yes because all women go for drug dealers and gang members... Saying women hate kind, smart and funny men is simply wrong. Some women may be attracted to some other traits but that doesn't mean they hate all other men that don't have those traits. I've never been attracted to insecure and needy men, it doesn't mean I hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:58 AM
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That's not true. Most women like smart, funny and nice guys. These traits are a must for me. I've never been attracted to a guy that didn't have these traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:41 PM
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I haven't seen many call him ugly. They're just not attracted to him. I can see this man is good looking but I'm not attracted to him. I don't like to judge who he is as a person because I don't know him but his vibe is completely off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:56 AM
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Familial love is in no way the same thing as sexual preference. I think it's really weird to try to compare the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:41 PM
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What hoop jumping are you talking about. I don't think she had any hoops to jump through. Do men jump through hoops to try and convince women that they need to raise another women's child because they are irresponsible? Why are single parents irresponsible? Some are widows/widowers or divorced. What is irresponsible about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:40 PM
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Yes I believe that. What does DNA not being important for families have to do with forcing yourself to be attracted to someone and having a child with someone random?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:43 AM
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My brother has always been very popular with women. Like crazy popular. He started seeing a single mother. He treated her daughter like his own and loved her so much. They broke up after some years together. And now my brother is married to an other woman. My brother continued to be a great father to the daughter though. You don't divorce children and all that. Now the girls daughter calls him grandpa. Don't see the humiliation. He gained an extra daughter and a granddaughter that love him so mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:36 AM
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They don't have to approach women if they don't want to. Women don't have to approach men if they don't want to. People that want to get to know someone and want a relationship should make steps to try to make that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:06 PM
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Shit I should tell my garbage lady she's not a feminist, I think she will be shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:47 AM
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I don't really know that subreddit but yeah, even the left wing americans are kind of right leaning elsewhere. Except maybe Bernie Sanders
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:44 AM
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This makes sense, I'm sorry you have to feel this way. It's not fair and you do not deserve it. It sucks that you had to learn to be careful, carry yourself a certain way and behave in certain way so people wont be afraid of you just because of the color of your skin. Women feel unsafe for maybe other reason than you but there are a lot of similarities. Women are afraid of the rotten apples, but it's hard to know who is a rotten apple. Same with you, not all white people are racist and will accu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:03 PM
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I don't know. Of course it's more important that they feel safe that the guy himself will not hurt them but women feeling safe from other men can be important to. I think it depends on the area people live in. If it's a dangerous country or a city with a lot of street harassment and catcalling, I could see women go for a big guy knowing that other men wont mess with them. I once traveled around central america for a few months with my then boyfriend. I live in a very safe country with little to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:48 AM
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Hey Jack Black does not deserve this. I think Jack Black is really charming and attractive. He is so funny, has amazing voice and a cute face. He's to old for me though. Channing Tatum is good looking but he's not really my type, I don't know why. I've seen him in sweet, caring and funny roles, which is my type but he still doesn't do anything for me. About the safe thing. I'm a pretty closed off person and I don't trust easily. It´s not because a man has broken my heart or cheated on me, I've b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:35 AM
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I think that depends on what genre you're into. The books I read that are written by a women, the men are usually in their 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:50 AM
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I don't really do hook ups but if I did I would prefer men my own age. Younger guys are not more attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:44 AM
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I'm a single, childless woman, not 45 though but the rest fits. I'm choosing not to date right now. After work I like to take my dog out, read, watch tv, work out, meet friends or family or something. Maybe take a nap if I feel like it. I like cooking and sometimes I invite family or friends over. On weekends I like to go out in the countryside, let my dog run loose. Then I read, watch TV, do my hobbies, meet friends or family. On saturday nights I like to go out dancing, going to the movies, me…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:36 PM
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No it sure isn't. But it can get better. I truly hope it does for you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:31 PM
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You sound like an intelligent and caring man. I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. I really wish you could find someone and if that doesn't happen then that you will find peace and happiness alone or with an AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:00 PM
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I agree. You should be nice and polite to others. But no one should have sex with someone they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:10 AM
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I agree. You should be nice and polite to others. But no one should have sex with someone they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:09 AM
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I agree. You should be nice and polite to others. But no one should have sex with someone they don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:09 AM
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I actually think a lot of people think like that. At least the people around me. Maybe it's a cultural difference. For example if I talk about the diamond thing, in my country we usually have pretty simple wedding bands, we don't do the hole engagement with a diamond ring thing. Usually there is just one ring for the engagement and the wedding. Yeah sure there are probably a lot of women that would like expensive jewelry but there probably are more that don't care that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:20 PM
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Are you drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:15 PM
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Rape fantasies do not mean women want to be completely dominated in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:30 PM
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Thank you, English is not my first language.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:28 PM
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Yeah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:48 AM
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I don't want diamond jewelry. I think it's insane to spend so much money on jewelry. What if you loose it? Plus the diamond industry can be really unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:38 AM
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They are female?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:57 PM
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I know a lot of women. Family, friends and coworkers. I have spoken about men and relationships to many of them. Iv'e seen what kind of relationships they are in and what kind of men they are with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:57 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:52 PM
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Absolutely not. I don't know any woman that wants to be lead by a man. They want a partner and an equal. I would not kill a spider for you, but I would catch it and take it outside. No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:09 PM
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I would actually like that as a date. Dinner is fine too, not for every date though. It's fun to do different things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:24 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. Hope you had the support and help you needed after it happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:23 PM
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I have no opinion on it. If it make's them feel good and confident go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 09:46 PM
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I told you the reason in my first comment. I'm happy in my life right now. I wouldn't run away if I met someone special that I have strong feelings for but I'm just not looking for him. Maybe I meet someone, maybe I don't, I'm happy ether way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 07:36 PM
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Lol, if you mean financial support, I can take care of that myself. I mean emotional support, like I would give to him. You know, we would be partners that care and support each other. Don't need nor want a provider. Anyway, I'm not looking for a man at the moment, not with a strong back or otherwise. So no, I hope I don't find him, well not right now, maybe later.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:38 PM
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I don't know. I don't really have an ideal man in mind. I like really funny and outgoing men and kind. If I would stay in a relationship it would of course have to be a happy one were we love each other. A good and supportive partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:08 PM
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I don't know, I just weren't happy. He was not the man for me and I guess deep down I knew and felt it even if I couldn't admit it to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:19 PM
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What? You make it sound like I have been in multiple unhappy relationships? I was in 1 long term relationship that I was unhappy in. Ended it, was much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:12 PM
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Yeah I'd like a good newish car, who wouldn't? But I don't want guys that are much newer than me though. Cars and people can not be compared.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:34 PM
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Why would anyone want to be with someone they feel less strongly for than their ex though? If my feelings for a current partner are less then the partner I had before I would end the relationship. (It's normal in the beginning while the feelings are developing). I don't want to be in a relationship if I don't truly love the person I'm with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:40 PM
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I forgot, maybe he had more money back then? Maybe he got himself in debt to buy these gifts? I would be so mad if my partner bought me something he couldn't afford, that's so irresponsible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:04 PM
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Maybe she cared about expensive presents? Maybe she took advantage of him and he doesn't want that dynamic again. Maybe he wants to be a partner not a provider and gift giver. I don't really care about expensive gifts, I think it's insane to spend so much money on shoes, purses and jewelry. What if I loose it or brake it? If I only cared about money and expensive things, I would have chosen a different career path lol. (Women are really independent in my culture, we take care of our selves and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:59 PM
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I can only speak for my self and my experience. I'm happy single, maybe one day I meet someone that makes me want to be in a relationship. I think I like being single because I was very unhappy in my last relationship, we were together for a long time and we just grew apart. When we broke up I felt so much better and I like being single. I'll need to have a really strong feelings for someone to change my relationship status. My friends that are single are mostly happy as well, some were in abusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:57 PM
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Trans or not, person presenting as a different gender face different and unknown challenges and that is very difficult. A lot of trans people are in the closet so the same applies as with Norah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:18 PM
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There are many trans women that talk about the shock they had when they finally presented as a women The misogyny, disrespect and treatment was really hard for them. Many trans men talk about men all of a sudden treating them better, listen to them and respecting their opinion in the workplace. You get used to a certain treatment and behavior so when that changes it's always a shock. It's sometimes difficult to see the other side until you live it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:10 PM
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Why would I want my huspand to risk his life to confront an intruder? Yeah I don't want to be stolen from but that's better then a dead husband. I have insurence anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:34 AM
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I don't agree with that. Women come in many sizes and shapes. Many women with big breasts are overweight sure. But it depends on the fat distribution, many bigger girls have small breasts as well. A lot of women with healthy BMI have big breasts. I have been in the lower end of BMI and the higher end, my breasts have not changed very much and stay pretty much the same size no matter what I weight. Granted I have not gained or lost that much weight, maybe if I lost or gained a lot more weight I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:56 PM
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I can ick whoever I want to ick. There are no ick rules lol. And as I pointed out, I don't want to "pass" for men with that opinion. That's why I stopped showing my body on my profile pics. I think most women would want to be swiped left by you honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:08 PM
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Lol no. I just don't want men to "choose" me because I have big breasts. My breasts are probably the least interesting thing about me. You are more then welcome to your preferences. They are not important to me and do not effect my life in any way. But talking about ick, men being that bothered about breast size are huge ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:51 PM
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I have big boobs. It's because of guy's like you I started to crop my photos and only have photos of my face on my profile. The messages I got were really just gross. I want guys to swipe left on me that think like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:14 PM
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I'm a woman and I don't get it. I don't want a stressed and bossy man. I want á partner I don't think most women want what you are looking for. I hope you find it though and you and your partner be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:33 PM
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Same, I don't need a provider or a protector. I'd want us to be partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:35 PM
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These are all things women can do, many of them I have done. I'm not a husband or a father obviously and I don't have children. Other then that, yeah, I've done most of this. I live in a safe country, don't need a man to protect me, wouldn't need a man to discipline my own children. If anyone would brake into my house I wouldn't want my husband going out there to be hurt or killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:32 PM
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One is personal the other is not. Personal dating life and taxes is not the same, like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:33 PM
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Yeah and again a lot wouldn't. You know what they say about assuming right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:32 PM
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So you're not attracted to the gay lonely man so you shouldn't have to be with him right? The same goes for women. Yeah if you wanted to be with him you should, if you don't want to, you shouldn't. Again, same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:34 PM
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Yeah a lot of women would do that and a lot of women wouldn't. Just like a lot of men would sleep with a woman just because she's hot. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:32 PM
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Uhh I do that plenty of times for my friends that are interested in dating and meeting someone, both for girl and boy friends. What's your point? You were answering someone that said he would not get intimacy from her because she was not attracted to him. Comparing that with poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:30 PM
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It's a dog for me but otherwise I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:06 PM
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So if there is a very unattractive lonely gay man, should you be forced to be intimate with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:03 PM
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Why would she want to have sex with a man that is boring, stupid and doesn't shower? I don't care how hot a guy is, if I don't feel a connection with him I do not want to have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:02 PM
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I wouldn't help them with physical intimacy. That's a really bad analogy. People shouldn't be physically intimate with people they don't feel attracted to. Attraction can grow when you get to know a person but that is just a photo and we don't know that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:57 PM
11

Yeah or you have confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:53 PM
6

Maybe he is attracted to them even though you find them bland or unattractive? In my experience women are not really holding out for anything. I'm not, I'm happily single and kind of feel like for me to be interested in dating anyone he has to be great. Or I would have to fall really hard for them. I'm attracted to very funny, outgoing and super kind guys for example, and I don't think I can compromise on that. I just feel like I enjoy my own time and being single so it would have to be with som…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:40 PM
3

I don't think people hit a wall. I have a coworker, she has three kids, she met a man with 2 kids. They are engaged now. I know so many stories where "older" women both with kids and without look good, feel good and get a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:29 PM
2

What is with this rating thing? Do people really rate each other? I've never thought yeah this guy is a solid 8 or damn that guy is a total 4
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:37 AM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:38 PM
1

Because he sounds cold, unfeeling and calculating. Consider himself to be a gift to women. Has negative views of people around him and view women as pitiful charity work. And he uses women to escape his boredom with no regards to their feelings, needs or wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:44 PM
2

So asexual, aromantic and possibly narcissistic sugar baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:33 AM
1

Thank you. I agree, so rude and disrespectful. Why make a comment like that? I don't think it's that rare to be with someone more or less attractive then you. My ex for example became handsome when I got to know him. He's super funny, kind and charming. He's still my friend and his wife is a friend too. Some people just start to be good looking when you get to know them. It can go the other way to, some really handsome guy/gal becomes unattractive when you get to know him. I've met plenty of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:32 PM
3

A lot of people didn't understand why I was with my ex boyfriend. Once we were out dancing and this stupid guy came over to me when my boyfriend went to the bar. He said my boyfriend must be loaded (he was not, we were just broke kids in school). When I asked why he would he think that he said it was because I was so beautiful and he's so ugly so he must have money. When I got mad he said relax it's a compliment. I was like really? Me being shallow and greedy or my boyfriend is ugly? Which one i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:54 PM
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Sure. If he's a good and active dad I wouldn't have a problem with it. If he's a deadbeat dad, no way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:27 AM
3

We're talking about parents of school age children not when the kids are home all day every day. Of course it's more work when the kids are home during the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:29 AM
1

I'm not dissing stay at home parents. I know it's hard work. But working parents run a household too. And to someone who mention that it was good to have a parent that wasn't too tired to be with them. The few stay at home parents I know aren't any less tired then the working parents I know. Where I'm from it's rare to be a sahp. Kid's go to kindergarten to socialize and they learn a lot there. I used to work as a kindergarten teacher and the kids usually loved it there and didn't really want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:09 PM
11

Yeah, there is something wrong if people don't have any empathy. Of course it makes people feel bad when they hurt other people. I hate rejecting guys. I hate it when guys I'm not interested in show interest in me because I don't like hurting their feelings. Also I have never gone on a date just to boost my ego and I have a lot of girlfriends and I've never heard of any of them doing that. I've never heard of anyone doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:08 PM
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