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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | Pay Attention To Where His Eyes LandI was with an ex who looked at every woman when we walked by them, but me. He used to think he was sneaky too, but it just showed the kind of man he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 03:14 PM |
| 21 | Do you have a friend who reaches out to you when things aren't working out with her man, and then the minute they're okay, she's gone?Been through the same thing. Friend disappears from our regular hangouts and suddenly when she appears, it's because things are not looking good with her bf. Thankfully, the trash took itself out by no longer wanting to talk to me so there's that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 23 | The main character is catfished by some ugly guy but she eventually falls in love with his “personality”. Safe to say this is my least favourite film everI couldn’t even watch this past 30 minutes knowing how it would end (and it did) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 278 | This is terrifying. Scrote at a thrift store tries to lure a 17 year old at to his farm talking about getting injured and needing help.This is terrifying. He deliberately targeted her knowing she was thrift shopping alone. The audacity of scummy old men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:15 AM |
| 141 | "WIFE 💍"The bible phrase took me out HAHAHAHAH and yes, lost count on the number of times I have seen "Wife | Mother of two | @/richard's" on Insta. Yeah ok, we know who your husband is now, you can get going | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 07:54 AM |
| 28 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?Interesting. In my culture, both the boys and girls will have our dad's full name written next to our given names. So it's like _________________ D/O ____________ (father's name). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 04:43 AM |
| 23 | I’m just so over dating at this pointIf he wanted to, he would. It's that easy. Know your worth and never settle for less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:17 AM |
| 4 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!Why would she even post this? Is sis a fresh graduate from clown uni or what 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:21 AM |
| 28 | My long distance boyfriend deadass just told me I should move to Iran,,,Yeah, time to drop that long distance bf like he’s hot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:57 AM |
| 34 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄Yeah, gotta agree he was. But then his physical appearance started reflecting his ugly heart so 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:27 PM |
| 226 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄Man will be on the other end of the weighing scale and think they are a solid 10. Are we even surprised here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:51 AM |
| 567 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄Isn’t this the former husband of Kate plus 8?! Lol, he was trash right from the beginning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:47 AM |
| 61 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.This is me when a man employs manipulation tactics now. Like you can delete and make my life much easier thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 03:09 PM |
| 28 | Well done Germany on blocking Pornhub. Hopefully other countries will follow their exampleGermany could have blocked Pornhub, but pornsick men will still continue to access it via VPN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 05:04 PM |
| 173 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from peoplethey can have protruding beer bellies and be out of shape, but when it's a woman, EVEN if she is carrying his child, she has to remain fit. The hypocrisy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:55 PM |
| 48 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from peopleI am glad most of the people who commented went with him being the a-hole because HE IS ONE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Blocking is therapeutic.Blocking people who no longer contribute to our growth in general is therapeutic. From 300+ followers on Instagram, I only have 117 now and they are all people whom I went to high school or college with or know in person. I have removed people whom I am no longer in talking terms to because I do not want them to be prying on my life either. So yes, blocking in general is therapeutic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 07:00 AM |
| 29 | Why I Stayed Single in College and Why You Should TooThank you for inspiring us with this post. I used to think my life would only be complete with a significant other, but I beg to differ now. While I do go on dates once in a while, I am enjoying singlehood as it grants me the freedom to focus entirely on my goals, health, and future, without a LVM coming to pull my world apart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 06:52 AM |
| 4 | Another date, another lessonSis was a little too blind 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Another date, another lessonSome part of me felt bad for hurting him and hence, I texted asking if we could be friends. I realised it was a huge mistake in a matter of hours lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Another date, another lessonReading this, I am so glad I fled. Thank you for sharing your story so women can be wary of men who are like this. I really hope you are in a better place now. Hugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 10:06 PM |
| 8 | Another date, another lessonThe best part? People are asking him for details. Can’t wait for him to give the details now. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:29 PM |
| 10 | Another date, another lessonYeah, like how about you paint both sides of the story before calling me a nightmare because last I remember, it wasn’t me pleading for another chance with a DIFFERENT number | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:28 PM |
| 15 | Another date, another lessonHe probably said that because he was begging for another chance when he texted me again yesterday and I turned him down. Lol jus clown things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:38 PM |
| 23 | Another date, another lessonIn case anyone is looking for his comment on the sub where he posted I was a nightmare, feel free to see my post history under ‘comments’ 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:02 PM |
| 38 | Another date, another lessonOh, he said he loves me three days into talking (this is even without us meeting) and I already let him know I can’t say those words until I really feel them. Nope, he proceeds to love bomb me. 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:00 PM |
| 19 | Another date, another lessonYeah, this was my mistake. But I blocked him after that and he used another number to text me soon after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 11:59 AM |
| 26 | Another date, another lessonI used to feel terribly guilty whenever a man pulled that on me, but thanks to FDS, am quick to catch signs of manipulative behaviour now and know what to do. I used to be passive, but I am no longer that woman. I say no when I have to and refuse to change my decision for anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 11:58 AM |
| 61 | Another date, another lessonYou are right. He kept gaslighting me when I said I only wanted to be friends. He said “I know you don’t care about me, but I care about you.” Gaslighting 101 signs. That was when I knew to distance myself from him for good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 11:30 AM |
| 55 | I learned quickly that if I have to chase you, I don’t want you anymore.After being introduced to FDS, it's safe to say that I have NEVER chased after any man. If a man takes hours to reply me, I take it as he isn't interested and delete our conversation. Never beg OR chase a man, it only inflates their ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:38 PM |
| 4 | He does his own laundry. What a catch! 🤩🤩And overused. I roll my eyes everytime I come across this quote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 12:56 PM |
| 16 | He does his own laundry. What a catch! 🤩🤩They really think having two flags, coupled with their ability to do laundry on their profile is going to give them loyalty discounts on Bumble or something lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 11:44 AM |
| 28 | He does his own laundry. What a catch! 🤩🤩I have had men who initially displayed green flags tell me to meet them up for a drink as a first date idea. I immediately ask them AGAIN as to what they are looking for and one said, "look, I just got fresh out of a relationship, so I do not think I want anything serious as of now." so I replied saying, "Yeah, that's too bad you want a woman to hook up with then. Unfortunately, i am not seeking that" and he responded saying, "Who told you I want a hook-up?" None of these which surfaced when I f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 11:43 AM |
| 31 | He does his own laundry. What a catch! 🤩🤩The fact that these clowns believe this is something that qualifies them to date a woman is beyond me, but at least am being entertained on Bumble 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 10:54 AM |
| 60 | This is just ridiculous (don't forget to swipe)“You have got this, king” yeah flaccid king 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 10:11 AM |
| 28 | Yep. Never be a Bob the Builder.Date men when they are at their lowest and they will think they a damn prize | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:06 PM |
| 8 | 💩How can someone do this to their own blood? Am disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:04 PM |
| 116 | Yessssssss Queen!Men would do anything to avoid commitments because hey, they are just tied down with work and university, but put a scene when we start seeing someone else. Make it sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:40 PM |
| 48 | Vetting a man while chattingI agree, I shouldn’t have mentioned that, but knowing that the guy I crushed on was a big mouth himself, I was afraid he would tell him that I crushed on him (he knew and liked me too) before I did, and this guy would come questioning as to why I kept mum when he showed me a picture of his friends and I didn’t say anything about that friend of his and our ‘history’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:44 PM |
| 42 | Vetting a man while chattingYeap, I knew he wasn’t worth my time then and promptly deleted him from my contacts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 23 | The truth tea ☕️🐸Women better themselves and make tremendous progress when they come to a realisation that their lives shouldn’t be orbiting men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:14 PM |
| 25 | The truth tea ☕️🐸You are right, my skin did improve a TON in the absence of a man. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:13 PM |
| 30 | The truth tea ☕️🐸Wow, so happy for you! You just inspired me, congrats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:28 PM |
| 61 | The truth tea ☕️🐸This happened to me when I got over my ex. My GPA plummeted in college after we broke-up, but I knew I had to pick myself up and when I did, I got a good progress award for improving the next semester. I hope women don't spend their prime years sobbing over a man who is useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:27 PM |
| 14 | Anyone Else Cut Off A Lot Of Friends/Situations That Didn't Serve You Recently?I feel you. I cut off a friend whom I had known for more than 10 years too. Somehow after she got into a committed relationship (with a clown who was actively on dating apps), she forgot about my existence altogether. We hardly text and even if we do, it isn’t the same like before. I used to be one with a wide social circle. Now, I can count the number of close friends that I have with a single hand. Somehow, life seems way better that way and that’s because I willingly cut toxic people off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:58 AM |
| 183 | "You earned my respect by not sleeping with me, actually", said the man who tried to relationship-fake me into banging himThis happens ALL the time, no matter where you are on the globe. I matched with a man on Bumble many months ago who told me the same story: that he was looking for something serious and wanted to have a meaningful relationship with me. I only continued chatting with him on the app as he made his intentions clear. We met for the first time and he gets ridiculously touchy. Had the audacity to ask me to get down on him, and that too in a PUBLIC SETTING. I refused to when he kept bugging and he got … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 03:24 PM |
| 86 | Anyone watch Indian Matchmaking on Netflix?Yeah, before FDS, I thought she was stuck in her ways and mildly annoying. Now I am like, "What's wrong in having standards?". Everyone were quick to bash her for her strict requirements, but couldn't care less about the demanding woman who wanted a fair, tall, and "stay home" daughter-in-law. She was the absolute WORST, I am not surprised the son's engagement with the woman his parents settled for fell through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 03:07 AM |
| 5 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸Man's not even a solid 1 and has the gall to call her "not cute". Sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:59 AM |
| 116 | Made me laugh 🤣Sisters, remember you guys aren't Bob the Builder. It isn't your job to fix a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 03:55 PM |
| 32 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸Let’s not insult sausages here, shall we? 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 02:12 PM |
| 49 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸Chuck Degrendel. Look it up and have a good laugh. We all need humour to unwind after a long day 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 12:47 PM |
| 52 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸Yeah I couldn’t even locate this thumb’s neck LMFAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 12:12 PM |
| 284 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸And even then, couldn’t offer a word of apology to the woman whom he said is “not that cute”. That Oscar performance was to salvage his business, period | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:29 AM |
| 7 | I would choose me“Shitty situation or rejection is actually to protect you because you have better and bigger things in store” This needs to be amplified. It has been my mantra since 17 and it will continue to be to remind me that everything in life happens for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 02:39 AM |
| 35 | UPDATE: He DID lie about his age so that he could match with younger women, but he still looks older than his actual ageYes. Bumble specifically asks you for your birthday and birth year, so there's no damn way you could have made a mistake there, even though it states you can't change it once you have keyed in your date of birth. It's like they are deliberately doing this to target younger women. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 02:15 AM |
| 8 | Type “Women attacked after rejecting man’s advances” on Google and you would see just how many incidents there have been. This is deplorable but sure, let’s hear some men say how they are afraid of women instead like as though we are the ones attacking them brutally for rejecting us.Yeap, I am going to go with this option. It's better to pretend you are happily taken than to risk being assaulted. Somehow, these clowns fear getting into a tussle with another man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Type “Women attacked after rejecting man’s advances” on Google and you would see just how many incidents there have been. This is deplorable but sure, let’s hear some men say how they are afraid of women instead like as though we are the ones attacking them brutally for rejecting us.What a power move. These kind of animals need to be put in their places. Heck, even animals would know what is appropriate and what isn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:54 AM |
| 21 | Proof FDS works... I just discovered you can access blocked numbers! Look at the coffee dates. Swipe for the guy that asked me out to mcdonalds and what he messaged after being blockedSome men are really out there thinking we use them as a meal ticket. Yeah, as if I can't afford that $3 McChicken without my knight in shining armour LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:34 PM |
| 52 | I Married a Homeless Man Living Under a BushSis is flashing a million dollar smile like as though she hit the jackpot, I am deceased. The bar is in hell, really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:05 PM |
| 15 | Wonder if she got picked at the end of the day 🤡Beautifully said. This is not about religion and I wholeheartedly agree with that. It’s about most men and their warped sense of thinking under the disguise of ‘religion’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:25 PM |
| 160 | Wonder if she got picked at the end of the day 🤡I belong to the same religion, although I am far from a practicing one. I know what you mean because my parents used to shove their beliefs down my throat. While my father respects my boundaries now and no longer enforces the religion on me, he still polices on what I wear and that’s infuriating. Now, I don’t wear skimpy clothes or anything of that sort, but he doesn’t allows me to head out without covering my shoulder for I would attract the “male gaze”. We have had many heated arguments over t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 04:56 PM |
| 14 | Thank you FDS for giving me courage to take care of my needs and wants.I am glad you understood it is okay to leave and that you would rather be contented with life when on your own than for it to be riddled with never ceasing troubles with a LVM. FDS changed my life and outlook too. I always believed that my life was incomplete because everyone around me had a significant other and I didn't, but this sub was an eyeopener. I came to terms with the fact that there's only one person in this world who can make my life complete and that's myself. If a HVM comes along, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:30 AM |
| 17 | Rejection is redirectionand attend to their unwashed bits and pieces, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 16 | What every woman wants to hearIf I read this garbage in my teenage years, I would have went AWWWWWW over it and probably come up with a hashtag titled #relationshipgoals. Now I am reading this and just did a 360 eye roll. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:15 AM |
| 16 | Grannie knows what’s up! 😉Wished this was ingrained in us rather than the, "there are lots of other fishes out there in the sea". Whenever I dated someone and it went south, I had the mentality that I would find someone better in no time. Now, I am more than happy to be single. If it's aligned in my stars to be with a HVM, I will take it. Otherwise, I am perfectly fine enjoying my own company. I would rather focus on my needs, health, and career than focus on a LVM like no thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:53 PM |
| 28 | This was posted in a subreddit (which I can't name as to not break FDS rules) where users share "cringe" content. I fail to see what's "cringe" about a woman having standards? This is why males on Reddit are singleThe fact that scrotes are so mad, she ended up receiving 21k upvotes...shocking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Glow!It's true: it always be the dusty ass ones stressing us out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:24 AM |
| 6 | This is the kind of attitude we need to have👏🏼👸🏻Was getting to know a man that told me something similar. That it was great getting laid with me, but I am not the kind he would want to be in a relationship with. Good thing after viewing myself as someone inferior and having a battle going on in my head in getting over him, I finally moved on. Never looked back. Been close to half a year since I last texted him. Hope karma bites him in the nalgas lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Just a rant about comments on makeupI can feel you. I once went on a date with a boy (calling him a boy because he isn't fit to be labelled as a man) and let me tell you I did not even apply foundation. All in all, it was baby powder on my face, blush on my cheeks, a Colourpop lipstick that I applied on my lips with masacara and eyeliner and he said, "You wear a lot of make-up." That was it, it never progressed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Women have the stereotype of being needy and clingy whereas I keep meeting men that are needy and clingyWhen I was a teenager, I was the clingy one. Boys used to label me as 'clingy' and I admit, I was one. Now I am 24 and every man whom I meet are the clingy ones. I am the complete opposite at this stage and I feel you. I just need some space | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Used or new, we will run you overMore than half of the brown men species are like this. So it's not surprising but if the tables are turned, being a non-virgin for a male is suddenly something to brag about. Absolute retards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:34 AM |
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