EdgeCityRed Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Are men unable to tell that women are way nicer than how much they are actually interested? Well, I think most people would be kind and tactful in a situation like this video, and that includes men as well. Nobody would say, "you're just too friggin' funny-looking for me, Crystal. No way I could get it up." As for "being nice," is the person interacting in a way that they would also interact with a colleague or their friend's mom? Lots of women hand out compliments and say nice things and it doesn't indicate they want to fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/20 05:00 PM
4	Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name? "Require" is a funny word here. I think people should do whatever they like, but anyone can get attached to their birth name and if it's significant to them, keep it. I'll be honest and say that if my husband's surname had been Buttz or something, I'd have made a case not to go with it. Sorry, Buttz.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/20 12:09 PM
3	Do you require that your wife/future wife take your name? Why not pick a name you both like and legally change them together?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/20 12:06 PM
2	Does the prevalence of sex selective abortion contradict the disposable man theory? If you are poor and in a culture where women don't work but are there to be mantained without working (because they are valuable without working) then you don't have the resources to pay for a daughter. The daughter will be dowry-ed out and will go live with some other family and cook for them and wipe her mother-in-law's ass instead of yours. If you think that's not working...well...	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/20 08:46 PM
0	Is “men are more visual” a hoax? No, I was saying that height is kind of irrelevant when it comes to people that fans fap to. Hence, those KPop guys. Their fans don't care if they're short or not buff, because they're cute. "Buff and tall" is just "buff and tall," not automatically facially attractive. If someone has muscles and height but has a face like it was hit by a shovel, he's still a buff, tall guy...but not necessarily a hot guy. Personally, I'd take the guy with an appealing face and an average bod, but some might pre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/20 03:34 PM
1	Is “men are more visual” a hoax? The point is that they're liked for their humor/voices/talent/roles and not for their looks. Height doesn't matter when it comes to celebrities. Prince (RIP), James McAvoy, the Jonas Brothers, Tom Cruise, etc. are all shorter than average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/20 03:01 PM
1	Is “men are more visual” a hoax? Women also fangirl Adam Driver and Benedict Cumberbatch and Adrien Brody, so... I mean, they're cool dudes, but they're not Greek gods or traditionally handsome. To add: women are also much more prone, generally, to find written erotica compelling. A very high percentage of erotica is written and consumed by women, comparable to the appeal of visual porn to men. (Not that either sex can't enjoy either medium, but women like a story and can imagine the dicks just fine.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/20 02:03 PM
1	Why do so many women now have children outside of marriage? Does it matter? It doesn't cost that much, but if $600 is going to break you, imagine what a baby costs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/20 04:31 PM
4	Has fucking on the first date become the norm for online dating? They're suggesting that they're tired of fuckbois who only want one thing, not that they give them that thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 05:56 PM
2	Why is circumcision not considered genital mutilation? FGM is objectively worse, but I wouldn't circumcise a son, if I had one. I'm aware that most circumcised guys are fine with it, but it seems unnecessary (unless medically necessary).	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 04:51 PM
2	Explain why yaoi is created by and for women and Bara by and for (gay) men? Other points people have made about a romantic narrative are accurate. Younger women seem to prefer softer kpop idols, possibly because they're "nonthreatening" and more relatable to teenagers. See also: boy bands in general. But there are plenty of women who like slash with more masculine archetypes. There are lots of reasons for this, and it's less fetishization than "nobody in this scenario is me, so this means 100% less cringe." I guess it can be compared to men enjoying lesbian porn. Zero p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/20 02:50 PM
1	Keeping boyfriends secret: why? Yeah, I wouldn't do this now, but at 19? Maybe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 08:54 PM
25	Keeping boyfriends secret: why? (Numbers keep reverting to 1, 2, etc. so I used letters.) C. They have friends who are man-stealin' hoes. All it takes in life is ONE "friend" who goes after someone you're interested in and plays dumb about it to keep future love interests on the down-low. D. She has a creepy stalker ex that she doesn't want to set off. E. The guy is someone that her family might not approve of (divorced, older, different religion, etc.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 08:34 PM
9	Why is so much of history just trying to control the populations sexuality? Why do people care about the sex/degeneracy of other adults? It allows people to pretend they're superior, using the backing of religion (usually religion) to claim authority in this area. In some cases, they were raised in a way that means they can't personally enjoy sexual freedom, so they don't understand why other people want it or they do understand and want to impose their standards on others. I mean, you can make an argument that stable, monogamous pairings are a societal boon in some other ways that aren't morally judgmental (less loneliness as pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 06:06 PM
6	For those of you who believe in "personality theory," what would you say about a man who has no problem making female friends but has difficulty in finding sexual partners and romantic relationships? I don't think "masculine" is the right word. Sexual/sensual is more like it. Some beefy dude strutting around randomly acting manly isn't the same thing as someone who delivers a subtle compliment in a way that makes it clear that they find a woman sexy. Edit: a skinny boy in 6th grade once told me my eyes look like they go on forever. He had game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 10:31 PM
8	The problem is not and was never your "niceness". It was/is every other unattractive trait you selectively choose to ignore so you can play the victim Mothers and Teachers lied to boys, told them they were special and that being nice was the most important thing. This is...what moms do. They tell their daughters that they'll find a nice boy someday and if they're goofy-looking girls, they tell them that "having a nice personality" matters the most. Parents tell their kids they're pretty/handsome too, whether they are or not, because they have parental blindness, because everyone thinks their own kids are cute.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/20 12:12 AM
1	is there a link between exessive porn use and extreme fetishes. I'm female and I prefer gay male porn. The men are usually better looking, there are two dicks, and watching other women in porn is like watching an HGTV special about your own house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 05:25 PM
1	What other aspects of physical appearance do you focus on the most, if at all? "big soft hands" made me think of the Hamburger Helper hand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/20 10:54 PM
3	People underestimate how freaking poor young people are today compared to the past and how much that affects their dating and sex lives Most people didn't make $23,500 a year in 1975. My parents bought a new and very average suburban three-bedroom house for around that amount a few years earlier. It was MUCH more than a year's salary. Many, many households made under $10k a year. Link to census data. Only 11% made over 25k. I definitely would agree that wages haven't kept up with the costs of housing and education, however. Minimum wage that year was $2.10 an hour. Guess what it is now if you work in a tipped restaurant role if …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/20 03:14 AM
4	Men's Flirting Privileges Depend On Their Attractiveness "Game," or charm/charisma/ability to flirt easily does work, as long as it's an interaction with someone at the same level of attractiveness. The PUAs selling this as a way to score above one's level...were selling this because selling pickup tips is their job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/20 01:58 AM
7	The Modern hypocrisy of A lot of Women sexualizing and objectifying themselves and then being upset when they are treated as sexual objects is proof that the modern world lets female hypocrisy slide on a large scale Ehhh, this is entitlement. "I'm entitled to this person's attention because they present themselves a certain way so they must want attention." The rapper analogy isn't a good one either, because no baller rapper takes every random groupie shopping, either, right? He doesn't owe them anything. That's entitlement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/20 12:43 PM
6	Have you ever found men lying and pretending to be someone else just to impress you? "My mom's a movie producer." "I'm a movie producer."	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/20 07:59 PM
1	I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do? I was wracking my brain trying to think of the guy who is the worst example here, and I remembered. It's Jason Miller.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 12:13 PM
2	I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do? It also depends on the beard shape. You can't fix any round face with any beard. A circle beard can make someone's mouth look like a donut dropped on a barber's floor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/20 11:51 AM
2	Why are males always the ones who end up isolated and lonely in society? Society throughout history has shamed and isolated men who don't fit in. They cause trouble, they are violent and unpredictable. It's not that they choose this life or don't try to get friends, society chooses to excommunicate them because its supposedly safer that way. Women who are like this were shunned and burned at the stake for centuries. Women who were "problematic" (mentally ill or a little slutty) were institutionalized or sent to the nuns, which was often worse than being institutional…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/20 02:34 PM
1	Sexual selection vs environmental selection: The effects of hair From nature's point of view, once you've reproduced, it doesn't care what happens to you. But also, whether you have long hair or short hair and cut it is kind of irrelevant, isn't it? Anybody can grow out their hair if they have hair, because hair is a genetic trait and cutting it is a behavior. Historically, most men probably also mated before they lost their hair to male pattern baldness. Personal opinion is that long hair can look great on men but falls under the same rules that it does for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/20 04:43 PM
2	To promiscuous/high-N women: what unique insights to men men do you have that non-promiscuous women and other men lack? Men that go down on you or want to go down on you, actually like women and care about pleasing them ( at least physically ) I've been off the dating market for a while, but there seem to be a lot of women on r/sex whose boyfriends don't go down on them, and I don't understand this. I've never dated a guy who wasn't really enthusiastic about oral.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 10:52 AM