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Hence, bar-hopping.
/r/seduction27/12/25 05:18 PM
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That's why they don't prosecute false accusers when they come clean. If you do, they'll stop coming clean.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 08:51 PM
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One of the basic concepts of civilization is that the hormones aren't very smart and shouldn't be allowed to make the decisions.
/r/MensRights20/12/25 08:49 PM
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The STEM disparity isn't real either. They only get away with claiming it by separating medical professions (which are as well compensated as other STEM careers) from the STEM classification.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 03:06 AM
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It appears that what's new is her admitting it. Yes, her story was shown to be full of holes a long time ago.
/r/MensRights13/12/24 09:51 AM
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What percent are proven true?
/r/MensRights13/12/24 09:49 AM
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You need to listen to Dave Chapelle talking about the relationships between the letters in LGBT+. It's hilariously accurate.
/r/MensRights31/08/24 01:11 PM
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Consult a lawyer. He or she knows the judges and what they're likely to do with this. In the end, a lawyer is a lot cheaper than not getting a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 08:16 PM
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Until you get to "That wasn't expected before". With that context it seems clear enough that it's talking about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:23 PM
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where did the notion that house work is hard even come from at all? Because it was. Back before modern technology gave us washers and dryers, dishwashers, electric steam irons, vacuum cleaners, gas and electric stoves, refrigerators, hot and cold running water, hydrogenated vegetable oils to give us cheap soaps and detergents, blenders, food processors, microwave ovens, flushing toilets... Well, take a look at the time and effort each if those saves and you'll see what hard work it was. Carrying…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:52 AM
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If that's too hard for her, maybe she isn't cut out for college.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/22 07:12 PM
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Thank you for the explanation. BTW, awesome username. Love how it meshes with the flair. Poland has an impressive history of badassery.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 11:54 PM
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Why have I not heard the term "defensive game" before? How is it defined? Where is it being discussed and defined? Thanks in advance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/22 07:27 PM
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Short list: Felony convictions, drug addiction, being in jail while the custody decisions are being made, severe mental illness, lacking the ability to maintain a home and care for kids even with financial support from her ex, not wanting custody enough to petition the court for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 01:44 PM
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"must be 420 friendly" No. Not recovered.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 01:06 PM
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"No felons" But also, must be ok with her using intoxicants that violate federal law.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 01:02 PM
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The trick is the "right" amount of vulnerability. Too much and you're weak. Too little and you're inaccessible. You have to find the right balance. No. Not the right amount. The right type. If vulnerability means opening up and showing what's inside, what matters is not how far you open. What matters is what is inside to be seen. You must be strong inside and they must see that when you open up. And this may be the answer to why they are saying they want us to open up emotionally in the first pl…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 12:46 PM
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If you have the stupid idea that once you become "ALPHA" a woman who at the time is sucking your asshole, respects you and is there for you, is gonna listen to your problems because you're an " ALPHA" then you need to learn more about lfemale behavior. You also need to learn more about alpha behavior. To do is to be. To be is to do. The behavior we are talking about is not alpha behavior. Ergo, if you are behaving this way you are NOT alpha, you're faking it. You need to either stop crying (ther…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/22 12:22 PM
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The traditions held in common by all successful societies are the behaviors that are necessary to maintain a successful society over time.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 10:13 PM
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I agree and I disagree. I have met PhDs who were highly intelligent with the maladjustment that frequently attends high intelligence. I have met PhDs who were wonderful people and generally well adjusted because their intelligence was up to the job. And I have met PhDs who were educated far beyond their intelligence, and these are maladjusted beyond the nightmares of psychiatrists.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 12:23 AM
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Every single guy who's earned MRP Approved flair on this forum has done so from creating a perspective from which they can actively understand an angle that you can possibly engage your problems from. And each of us are staring you down every week under a microscope watching what you're doing, because it allows us to read you like a book. I'm literally sitting behind my keyboard watching you navigate the model in your head. Horns is watching you feel through us and everyone in your life. 3KL is …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/22 03:23 AM
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Even if you are correct, that doesn't necessarily mean that God wishes them to take that Aura of goodness and be pastors with it. I understand what you mean. A woman looking to God certainly reflects His glory. C.S. Lewis in "The Great Divorce" observed: There is only one good, and that is God. Everything else is good when it looks to Him and bad when it turns away from Him. And the higher it is in capacity for goodness, the more terrible it is when turned to evil. Demons are not made of bad mic…
/r/RPChristians15/01/22 03:37 AM
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A few observations: Malachi says "prove me now herewith". Elsewhere testing the Lord is forbidden, but in this particular case he invites us to do it. The old law was do not commit adultery and do not murder; Christ taught not to lust or be angry. He taught a more difficult discipline, not an easier one. Tithes then become the minimum baseline rather than a principle to be discarded. Even the very poor can offer this much relying on God's promises to bless them with more than they can receive. I…
/r/RPChristians15/01/22 03:22 AM
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Right. The OP appears to make the mistake of assuming the math is honest rather than deliberately skewed. "But she thinks it is." No. She says she thinks that. If she's not honest with the math she isn't honest about the math either. And if she really does think that, she isn't honest with herself either.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 05:31 PM
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Haven't had a chance to look at hers yet. But Art of Manliness comes to mind.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 04:58 AM
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Co-worker indicates you are employed. This means that either through work or through the market place you should have access to insurance. Insurance should cover a significant portion of a therapist. Look into it. In addition, talk to HR at your company. Many companies have additional benefit packages that include things like online counseling. If you are near a university, a counseling program often includes student work. The school may provide discounted access to student counselors to the com…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 01:36 AM
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Co-worker indicates you are employed. This means that either through work or through the market place you should have access to insurance. Insurance should cover a significant portion of a therapist. Look into it. In addition, talk to HR at your company. Many companies have additional benefit packages that include things like online counseling. If you are near a university, a counseling program often includes student work. The school may provide discounted access to student counselors to the com…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 01:36 AM
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They absolutely do. Quality city busses are around half a million. Hence the joke: I get paid to travel, have a corner office with a view of the city, and drive a $500,000 vehicle.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/21 01:55 PM
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Men wish to date attractive women. Attractiveness in women is in large part about indicators of fertility, including youth. Youth is attractive. This appears to be biological rather than cultural. Those pushing against said narrative are generally those who know that they lack attractiveness and resent it. Whether they will admit it or not is beside the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:15 PM
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But the end goal of FITYMI is ALWAYS the "Make It" part of that. Don't get so caught up in the fake that you forget this.
/r/askMRP22/07/21 05:45 PM
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This is the difference between the PUAs and the MRPs. PUAs are interested in how to signal alpha, how to appear to be a HVM long enough to get her into bed. MRP is about becoming as high value as our individual abilities permit.
/r/askMRP22/07/21 05:40 PM
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A few words of advice for aspiring homemakers who need a career to cover the gap between graduating high school and marriage: Pick something that doesn't require you to maintain current licenses or something where renewing a lapsed license is relatively painless. Teaching, nursing, most medical options, require that you be licensed. You have to get continuing education and be putting in a certain number of hours working in the career field in question to maintain those licenses. If you fail to d…
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 06:17 AM
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Man here. Some perspective: Here's what you are actually up against. The cheating-ex wants him back. This is a kind of validation for him. He's paying attention because this is the revenge fantasy playing out in real life. She cheated. She found out that he was the better choice all along. She's now crawling back, acting nonchalant about it, flirting instead of begging, but crawling back nonetheless. With that said, this sort of validation is unlikely to be a real threat to you. If he has an oun…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 05:18 PM
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Only if you want to be dependent on injections. Injecting it will suppress your body's natural production and make you reliant on it. It's necessary sometimes, but it should be an option only if nothing else works. For starters: https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/how-to-increase-testosterone-naturally/ There's a lot more out there. Oh, and read about the history of breakfast cereal. It's connected there too (and you will never want to eat another bowl of Froot Loops again).
/r/askTRP13/06/21 08:54 PM
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It having as many subscribers as it is has does not necessarily signify that all of those subscribers agree with the out of touch parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 05:07 AM
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I put quotes around that, didn't I. Lol. Sorry. The only sense in which I could consider that a quote is that I have said it before.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 02:36 PM
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"Ethical materialism, the idea that having more stuff will make us happy, is among the most disproven and debunked ideas of all time, yet strangely also among the most persistent."
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/21 01:38 PM
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Most places a "private marriage contract" will not work. The government does not allow people to do end runs around its authority. Common law marriage makes it so a GF who cohabits can divorce rape you just as much as if you had said vows in a church or in front of a judge. Prenuptial agreements are frequently thrown out by the courts. Know the laws where you live. Plan accordingly.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:47 AM
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Yes. They are. Tattoos, piercings (beyond a basic set of earrings), and hair dyed unnatural colors are red flags because they indicate attention seeking. Social acceptability is irrelevant. If you want a FWB, a plate, a FB, a ONS, or a P&D it isn't particularly relevant. But it's relevant in evaluating LTR potential. Don't confuse the two. In this specific case it's one red flag in a Lenin's Birthday Parade. If a little ink is the only red flag shown over time by a well vetted potential LTR, may…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 05:28 AM
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Wow. Well, clearly you must be some other river in Egypt, because that's extremely short for a river.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 03:51 AM
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I've never been there, but I have friends from there. I was told years ago that the cost of getting married has been pushed up to where most couples will just cohabitate without bothering with actually getting married. This would suggest that couples that marry rather than just cohabitate in Australia are likely to be either more affluent than average or more religious than average. I understand that there is a trend towards cohabitation instead of marriage in all western nations. But if what I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:46 AM
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Data is from Australia. Australian marriage data is problematic because they've gotten way ahead of the general curve among western nations on making marriage an institution exclusive to the upper classes, at least that's how I understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 10:54 PM
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That isn't omega. That's sigma.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 09:26 PM
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I read a book by a family law attorney with his own firm. He asked colleagues outside of his firm if his numbers matched or were off. They agreed that his numbers were about right. He asked clients who it was that really wanted the divorce. Around 5% were the cases that nobody wanted but drugs or cheating or abuse or similar things made continuing unworkable. Around 15% were wanted by men, mostly in the stereotypical midlife crisis (40s, increase in earning power and respect in the workplace, li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:21 AM
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I was just checking to make sure I had done that. Seriously though, I mention it because it matters. Oh, and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 07:20 PM
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what I'm experience now with women and what I've experienced growing up seems to conflict with everything I've been taught And that is what Red Pill is. It's the empirical model that you get from watching what happens in the real world. All the rest is ancillary. The theories are useful, but they're just models trying to match up with the data as best they can. If you know the history of science, incorrect theories can work very well for centuries if they make a point of grounding themselves in …
/r/askTRP26/05/21 07:05 PM
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And read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:39 PM
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Read the sidebar! (I hope this is sinking in.)
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:35 PM
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This! Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:35 PM
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This! Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:35 PM
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It's usually slow. It's always painful. But we're rooting for you.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:32 PM
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Pffft! As if "fair" is a consideration. A famous (alleged, and convicted) sexual predator once said "Parents don't care about justice. We want peace and quiet." In the same way, women don't care about "fair" (unless it's a euphemism for "to her advantage"). They care about getting commitment from a high value male while ideally keeping him unaware of his own high value. In the same way, men don't especially care about "fair" (whatever that is) either. Maybe a few men and women care about it. The…
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:12 PM
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If you are talking about your friends out there in meat space, it's because social dynamics make it much easier for married couples to hang out together than with singles or even with unmarried couples. They want more time with you. If you are talking about people on the interwebs, it is because marriage benefits society. And marriage and children have given them a stake in society and its continuity. Marriage 1.0 had costs and benefits for both men and women. Marriage 2.0 benefits women at the …
/r/askTRP14/05/21 02:23 PM
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Really?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:11 AM
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Then stop being a beggar and start being a a chooser.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 12:32 AM
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The problem then becomes that recording the act can also be considered a violation of personal rights and a crime.
/r/MensRights23/04/21 04:35 PM
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But asking forgiveness acknowledges that you're wrong and thus that you have a moral obligation to stop doing it. Asking permission, on the other hand, allows the hamster to justify the cheating that has already taken place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 03:05 AM
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That theory doesn't really hold water when you consider that historically marriage is found in pre-agricultural and non-agricultural societies. And the changes in marriage are pretty much all late 20th century developments while automation was on the rise by the late 1700s. So we have nearly two centuries of continuously increasing automation before marriage as an institution starts to break down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 02:56 AM
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Like I said, depends on exactly where. There's serious money in horse racing though, and the area around Louisville reflects it. It isn't ALL of rural KY, but if it's that particular bit, what he said about 80k not being all that isn't wrong. It's not about the absolute number. It's about how the number compares with the other eligible numbers nearby.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/21 12:44 AM
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btw making 80k in rural kentucky is pimp shit Not necessarily. Some parts of rural Kentucky are low value rural like you're thinking of. Others are Horse Country which is more like Texas oil land or the trendy areas in upstate New York or Long Island.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/21 11:34 PM
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IANAL. Find out what your state's laws say about common law marriage. Check both statutory law and case law (precedent). After cohabiting for a given time, they can consider you just as married as if you had made vows to a clergyman or a justice of the peace. It isn't the end of the world. But it is something you need to know about beforehand rather than after. If you have assets that need to be protected from potential issues later, get a professional to help you. Real lawyers go to law schools…
/r/askMRP28/06/20 09:00 PM
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I wish I remembered the source. Seems like it might have been aiming for comedic effect, but it's no less true for that. I'm sure I'll butcher the quote badly, but it was along the lines of: "Men socialize by giving each other insults they don't really mean. Women socialize by complimenting one another, but they don't mean it either." With that said, if they don't really mean it, participate. Insult them back in good fun. If it's a lot of different people and they also do it to each other, it's …
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:03 PM
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I am the prize, not you. If I‘m not there already, I‘ll grow into that more and more each day. I‘m not your safety net. If you want to keep your life with house and kids, you have to fully commit to this marriage. Otherwise you can‘t live with us anymore. You just said "you" -- meaning "her" -- 6 times in 5 sentences. You don't even have the concept wrong, you don't have the concept at all. This reads as something to be said to her. You are so deep in her frame that you cannot even imagine what …
/r/askMRP04/05/20 05:18 AM
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If she wants sex outside of marriage, you can't stop her. But outside and inside are mutually exclusive and if she decides to go outside, there shall be no inside to return to. If she wasn't living on the streets before you, why would she be there after? It should only turn ugly if she wants it to turn ugly. (And she might, regardless of what she claims now.) Sounds like manufactured drama. Now please explain why getting a divorce would mess up your career. Unless there's something you have fail…
/r/askMRP23/01/20 01:44 AM
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female, Asian, divorce attorney I understand why a female can be preferable as a divorce attorney. Why Asian? And remember the SAS Credo: "He who files first, wins." True. Can confirm.
/r/askMRP23/01/20 01:19 AM
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A link to that pdf would be appreciated. You can make it public in google drive or dropbox. Lots of other ways to do that too.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:26 AM
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I just want someone to grow old with Yeah, I believe that she thinks she means that, but... when you're 19 exactly how old counts as "old"? 40? 35? 28? How many years before she decides that she "lost her youth" to single motherhood, that she "was forced to settle", and that she "needs to find herself"? I don't think her rescuer is going to be happy with how things work out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/20 01:17 AM
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Well, that's kind of one of the issues you get in Red Pill, isn't it? RP itself is simply the accurate information about human nature (mostly about female human nature, but for those who delve deeper ore than just female human nature) replacing the inaccurate information that modern society has tried to feed us. [That's my definition. I know, the definition is a point of controversy within the RP community. But I'll use mine until I can be convinced that some other definition works better.] But …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/01/20 12:55 AM
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Here's the question: is your RP implementation about what you do or what you are? Is your goal to act in a way that enables certain goals that you weren't reaching before, or to internalize certain principles so as to become something different than what you were before? When you internalize the principles "losing everything" isn't an issue. If you need to, you can do that. You worked your way up to this, but DGAF (done correctly) means that if you have the right reason to you can burn it all, s…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 07:31 PM
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She has confused self-respect with self-esteem. They are not the same thing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/20 09:31 PM
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Don't confuse self worth with SMV. Don't confuse self-esteem with self-respect. A woman's SMV is tied to how she looks. And nobody here is claiming that that is right or fair, just that it's how the real world works.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/20 09:30 PM
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Somebody somewhere said (and I wish I could remember who and where so I could give proper credit) it isn't just that AWALT, it's that all people are like that. People are self serving. It doesn't mean that generosity isn't possible or that one cannot rise above their baser impulses. It does mean that all of us have baser impulses. AWALT simply means that women collectively share certain baser impulses. This as opposed to the baser impulses that all humans of both sexes share or the baser impulse…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 05:38 PM
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Becoming inured to pain and discomfort is a useful thing. It is not the same thing as frame, at least not as I understand it. As I understand it (and I am admittedly a neophyte just beginning on my journey), what most men need to train their frame control against is emotional discomfort due to social and personal pressure from other people, not physical discomfort. If it helps you with any problem at all, by all means do it, of course. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 07:49 PM
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Low investment of both time and money on a first date is a smart move for a man, especially a man old-fashioned enough to insist upon getting the tab every time, and especially a man who has plenty of money. You get coffee or drinks, and if you really hit it off, you can always escalate it to "would you like to get dinner?" You can also afford a lot more first dates if you go for the lower price tag. Finally, and best of all, it screens out the girls who insist upon high up front investment in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:00 PM
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