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Do hypergamists change for better partners money? If yes, i just call them gold diggers still
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:07 PM
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Whats wrong with gold digger, its a known term?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:44 PM
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Feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:45 PM
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But men providing = patriarchy = trad woman. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:26 AM
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Trad women want your money, feminists want to 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 11:07 AM
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Yeah, if theyre the same theyre the same. Period. Too bad for guys who fucked 100 women for self esteem. Same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:03 PM
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But its not to the point that a man with bodycount can disregard a woman with bodycount. Ur trying to make it pass as okay. A man hoe is a man hoe. If he fucks 25 women and acts disgusted by a woman with the same bodycount, hes an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:52 PM
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Sometimes or all the time to plan dates is not the same. A lot of women expect the man to be the main entertainment manager like shes a queen and hes her parking valet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:41 PM
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Oh no im not trying to date them. Im actually out of the game. Women envy them. The travels, the magazine life. But deep down its a luxury escort life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:35 PM
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Thats why ur married. Because you can plan things for your husband too and he finds himself reciprocated. The number of chicks just waiting for me to do everything is so tiring, i just told them straight up and unmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:27 PM
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Women actually care if he had sex with a lot of women. Women are TERRIFIED of men with lotsa choice. Because they know hes gonna flip them sooner or later. Also women care about germs a lot, since the vagina its inner tissue and directly exposed to the bloodstream. Just a bad tampon can be lethal for them. So yeah, women do care about bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:45 PM
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Men dont have bigger sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:03 AM
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Right back at ya. Men were brainwashed to think they have more libido than women and that men chased, and women just waited like flowers. Thats a lie. If you think its the mens job to chase, women conditioned you. Ur a beta and not a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:01 AM
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Being a simp isnt biological. So before you go make some more dumbass analogies, just let it sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:10 AM
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Nop. Only culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:11 AM
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Being a simp is not biological. Its cultural. Being picky is not biological, its cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:10 AM
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Overall, how they behave according to what hand they are given. Sex doesnt change this in a meaningful manner. Culture makes the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:30 AM
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Men and women are exactly the same. Women just have more choice than you at the start of the race, because guys are a bunch of simps, culturally. Thats all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:43 PM
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Not exactly. Hes saying because of that, its fine to be a hoe as a man. Dead wrong. High bodycount men, lose access to plenty of women. They have the qualities to be high value maybe, BUT still lose access.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:05 PM
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Fuck no. If a guy has bodycount and complains a chick has bodycount, too? To me, theyre both the same. Im a man too, but i wont be an hypocrit. Some women could excuse it because he has "experience" to take the lead. The same, some men could think "she has experience and knows what shes doing in bed", but either way, theyre similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 06:41 PM
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Thats not what i was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 05:34 PM
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Now were back to square one. Why should he be the only one planning. What is this hypocrisy. Why with friends women will be decent teamplayers. And with men they become like that? My hypothesis is its a power thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:31 PM
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Exactly. But that specific stance where the chick does nothing and wait to be chased is 🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 05:58 PM
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Weekly. Annual traveling is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:29 AM
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Weekly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 04:28 AM
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I wasnt asking you for a solution. I didnt ask you anything actually lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 01:42 AM
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The only reality is that an escort is an escort. If i have to spend to get reciprocal love, shes an escort. And its reality according to both our logics. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:39 PM
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Good. Ur a keeper then Others would say, he owes me a restaurant cause how im dressed and the makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:03 PM
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How much money would you charge for getting dolled up for your man. How much is it worht.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 08:00 PM
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No its not. Because its all about wanting to live the life of escorts who get their plane tickets paid everywhere in the world. Men are folloowing the trend cause they want pxssy of course. The whole dubai, surgery, travel, sugar daddy culture. Men have to pull away from it, especially if theyrenin the 80% let disney live in disney and never chase her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:59 PM
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Because women want to be THEM. That Vogue lifestyle, high end, experiences, etc. You all compete and flex to each other, hey im living that life. And men FOLLOW YOU. Because men want women right? Indirectly women baited men into this madness. THIS IS EXACTLY WHY. Men must pull out of female competition, and recenter on reciprocity and respect. Is it clearer now? Do you understand how men must pull away as a leadership move to prevent superficial collapse? People are butchering themselves to reac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:49 PM
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All the money she spends on her appearance is for HER, and all potential partners she can put her hands on. Also, the according to lending tree, men pay 15 000$ a year more than their partner to keep the relationship versus 1300$ So no. No matter how much you charge per our for your makeup, ur gonna charge ur OWN MAN 15000???? Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:34 PM
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Their simps still offer stuff to rail them. So there is entitlement to whatever they imagine in their head. Thanks guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:31 PM
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When its every week, like i said, its outsourced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:30 PM
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Why cant both you guys plan something together? It cant be that hard, even a picnic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:29 PM
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Just a culture of female competition. "If she can have it, i can"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 07:28 PM
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Women dont travel every week, from their own money. Its always dudes paying for their trips so they can have sex with them. Oh sorry, i meant spend a weekend doing activities**
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:53 PM
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She isnt of that lifestyle. She wants it. But she isnt. Traveling once a year doesnt make you that fancy. The man doesnt have to pay for her delirium, just to get normal treatment. Pay her stuff, get normal girlfriend treatment....so debalanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:39 PM
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No. Mid ones give men the same attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:09 PM
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Thats not my experience. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:08 PM
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Oh no, mid ones give me the same attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:07 PM
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To be planned out. You see. He has to manage and she does nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:07 PM
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This is the damn cure. Educating boiz to not be simp and not tolerating this crap
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:46 PM
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Eh! My man knows. We cant be fooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:32 PM
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She will start small, and respect her man when he gives her what the baseline of men can give her. And she will reward him with basic love. They reward the mans extra, with basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:32 PM
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Of course they do. Thats how they rewire you, by rewarding you with love when you give her these gifts. Thats also why they wont give attention to normal dudes, with average height under 6 feet, etc. Its a game of treat me like a princess and ill reward you, with basic decency. BASIC DECENCY, i repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:30 PM
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Not that men are too average. They expect massive entertainment from the guy. They dont want to have a boring life. Its the emphasis on entertainment. Dubai, traveling, gifts, Always excitement. Not a single minute of boredom Men have found videogames on the other hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:08 PM
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No. One side is entitled to something, making everyone miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:04 PM
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What beauty? I thought 80% were ugly?? Whats up the discourse changed. Lets be honest, having a woman is a shitload of energy to gain just a little boost. Especially in the current market. If the energy investment lowers then maybe. Until then, i leave Disney girls to simps. Life is not a dream. Its harsh. Its no wonder educated single people are better off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:43 AM
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Because of our wiring, men and women can reward each other immensely. It gives a lot of rewarding in the brain when we are reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 01:19 AM
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Damn right. Better than paying your wifes dumb decisions. Fuck her debts To some extent. Financially wise men dont invest in women. Beauty fades. There must be more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:31 AM
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All of it. Theres the exact same number of penises as vaginas on the planet. One is not rarer. One is more in demand because women manipulates the market like what diamond owners used to do. Artificial manipualtion of the market. Its a human concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:15 PM
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Wdym used how? You talk like a woman ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:10 PM
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On losing conditions, yes. Dont have sex if the deal is such at disadvantage and ur being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:03 PM
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Because most people are suprisingly OBLIVIOUS. Its worth discussing the matter because they never saw it like you experience it necessarily. Centuries of simping made it seem normal. Wake the hell up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:48 PM
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Because men want them "more". Culturally men like to flex women. Its our own fault. We have to stop simping like that. Because women act like a luxury person. Men are what? Dogs? Idk bout you but my life is as worth as another life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:40 PM
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Oof they can last. They will be upset at first, then will realise whats the cost of going back to single and to look for an appartment at todays cost....they will tough way longer until they cheat into a better opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:13 PM
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Yes. Only because we simped too much. We created that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:52 PM
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Yes but not enough to the point of regulating the market. Some women still think men are disposable dogs in relationships, or casual sex. Only to extract from them ressources and whatever Disney promised them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:52 PM
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Its not stigmatised because celibacy has become the norm. Men gave attention to too many women, now women are all negociating for their highest bidder
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:24 PM
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Women dont disclose to other people when they have casual, because it will affect their reputation directly. They keep it secret and confide it to a few people. Either women have casual sex , or masturbate because they cant dare to have sex, or make the moves to have sex. But the need for sex is there, exactly like men. Men offer the good dickdown she secretly wants from that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:16 PM
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Because everyone wants to have sex. The question would be, which woman isnt ready to get married yet, or just want to have fun for now. There are plenty, but would rather having casual sex with very hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:00 PM
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Wrong. Women are in the delusion that they are prettier BECAUSE men are desperate for validation and will fuck anyone. Even the ugliest will have someone to dick her down. Its about male validation due to masculine shaming. "Hahha you virgin, nobody wants to fuck you". Nothing to do with female beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:14 PM
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Because SOME women use their beauty to lure in rich men and secure their retirement at 26 if possible. We dont do that shi*
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:45 PM
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Some women have an escape loop saying we like "attractive" men. But attractive = health wealth status entertainment Thats what they mean by attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:15 PM
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No one said that you had to give me 1 million dollar either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:02 PM
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Ask newyork times, im only a messenger! Half the population is too much tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:44 PM
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Im off dating apps, but im not approaching chicks who swiped left on me because "meehh i can get better"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:04 AM
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Yeah and its annoying how nobody cares about it. Always painting men as evil
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 12:29 AM
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In the pyramid of maslow, survival comes first. Yes they still chose. But you dont know what % was allocated to survival, and how much left for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:18 PM
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No i meant while ur officially a couple, wether married or wtv. And yea i agree with cutting clean then going elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:22 PM
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No. Clubs are putting the price on you ladies now that men dont pay anymore and they dont get fooled. Simps will stop simping. ITS WORKING BOYZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:12 PM
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Liars will be liars and theres nothing to do about it. But there is one thing men will not compromise on: if its been 2 weeks of no sex, the person doesnt love you. Its like there an alarm telling you "SHES WITH YOU FOR THE RENT" Women who get cheated on, usually stopped giving sex for multiple reasons which also include : not loving the man anymore. And guys pickup on that fast. So yes maybe granpa cheated. Hes wrong for it. But grandma maybe stopped loving him and he knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:07 PM
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Yyyyuupp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:26 PM
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If women getting paid makes it even and you "gain something" in exchange for sex, its transactional and its the same as prostitution. Sex for sex, meaning both of them desire each other regardless of money is not prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:22 PM
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Oh i sincerely doubt people go for love when half want to pay rent. Its like a partner is more a strategy of survival, rather than about love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:29 PM
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Ur confused because you mix sexual violence, and domestic violence. Theyre not the same Go check stats. Men do sexual violence more. But women do physical violence more, not only to men, but to women AND children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:04 PM
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Yes they do. They do less damage sure, but violence is violence. They certainly hit men, women AND CHILDREN more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:00 PM
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They cite the studies by the universities. And yes, that women are more violent is OLD NEWS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:51 PM
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https://share.google/UQtIr6OgLxowMtBIL https://share.google/IhoYfh4yn8KaldcW7
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:47 PM
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No. Women beat on women way more, than men beating on women. Stats are out. Lesbian couples have twice the beating than hetero couples OR gay men couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:33 PM
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Physical violence commited to women is mostly done by other women. Such as lesbian couples. Anyone can betray you and send your nudes to everyone. Being untrustworthy is not exclusive to sex. The era of diabolizing men stops now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:18 PM
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No. The lesson is, dont trust anyone until you are SURE 10000% theyre trustworthy. That applies to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:57 PM
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Its litterally half the population. What a global scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:13 PM
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What are you trying to say??? That its justifiable to lie to someone about how much you like them based on you needing to pay rent??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:09 PM
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Who people settle to, doesnt mean they actually desire them. It has been revealed by new york times, 45% of people got motivated to find a partner, simply because they had to pay RENT. That includes men and women. So no, i dont take people in walmart as a reference for a good couple
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:37 PM
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Peefect. We will reorganize and work for real causes than "getting laid" by women Right now a lot of men design their life in a fashion, almost all to get laid. Its ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:15 AM
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Since you will "pay him" sex, you dont want it as much, therefore you dont desire him. Ur just grateful that you are loved. But its not the same as desiring him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:14 AM
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Still very wrong. You dont desire him and its transactional. Your fee is "entertainement" and you operate exactly like a h**
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:20 AM
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There she is. I call that prostitution, and gold digging. Guys. Dont pay. Dont simp. Dont give attention. Walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:15 AM
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Im not hating women as a gender. I point out actions done by a gender in existing circumstances, usually related to high male attention. Personally the men giving free attention and PAYING for women they will never touch is what i blame. Watching doesnt hurt, its free. But all the rest is too much. -Chivalry -Men doing the approaching as a power strategy by the women -Women chosing men who will dump them, raising bodycount -Men and Women lying to get what they want -Tolerating sexless situation …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:42 PM
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Theyre not. Stop giving free unsollicitated attention to women and see the healing happen. You will see women arent different than men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:40 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:27 PM
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If she did surgery, shes a 0/10, automatically disqualified for trying to fool the jury. Same thing if she tries having sex in the dark. Dont let yourself get fooled. Might find a saucage when you turn the light on Jokes aside, surgery = attempt to deceive the natural beauty. Some dude had to sue his wife in china because the baby was ugly, and he won. Good for him!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:52 PM
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Yeah on average men use psychological violence a lot. No one fixes issues with violence in any work place, ever. Else hospitals would be overcrowded with people in the sewers and on the roof. The times you punched someone in the face can be counted with the fingers of only one of your hands. And you know im right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:18 PM
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Thats a lie. Men use psychological and physical violence all the time. Women too use violence on weaker people, such as children or the elderly. Gender roles were a lie. Its simply roles we took during military regimes during medieval times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:13 PM
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Many, Not reciprocating Taking things for granted Being entitled simply because another man might want to offer her whatever. Thats putting your man against other men and tell him to compete with them for a lifetime else she switches him Calling most men ugly and litterally aim for very very handsome men. I suggest men take it as a lesson and stop giving women free attention. If as a man, if no one gave you attention, give none to women. There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:12 PM
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No. men tolerate disrespect by women way too much. In all forms. It has to stop, in a non violent way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 02:45 PM
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They were more realistic, and less materialistic. Also, women dont give a f, because they know there will be another one in her dms. Always looking for the highest bidder
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:07 PM
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Total gender warfare until problems get solved 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:41 AM
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It kills MODERN desire. Women in caves didnt know going to dubai was like 10 000 B.C.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:32 AM
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If they dont wanna smash as much, its because of masturbation and the fear of men. Thats the only reason ifnits the case. But im pretty sure women want to smash, so for that smash, shes gonna chose the better deal with a chance to go longterm, with that hot guy who lives the dream life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 10:28 AM
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No children. Cant raise a child in this messed up society
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:54 AM
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Yeap. No princess treatment. Decency yes. Princess? Nope. Coffee/walking date
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:53 AM
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Women wanna smash too, but will take the extra that comes with it. Cause smash is guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:05 PM
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Men dont owe you chivalry now that you have a job, and rights
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:04 PM
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Yeah but first impression to make a summary of everything included in the package. Guys dont look at how much money she makes and if shes gonna take him on vacations???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:23 PM
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They go with first impressions rather than analysing what they can grab for assets or social circle. Its not a social class leap opportunity for men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:37 PM
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Yes. But liars isnt exclusive to one gender. Both lie for what they want. Both pretend to love to get whatever. Thats a human problem. Not a gender one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:54 PM
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I mean, crime has the same logic too. Theres a need theres a buyer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:52 PM
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Yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:43 PM
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Fairness. Equivalence of energy "Im exploiting him all bc he wants me" is abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:53 PM
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I mean its known that guys in their 20's are fighting againt guys in their 40's/50's But tell me why the analogy sucks,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:50 PM
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For LTR men want respect. For casual men will lie, because they dont have access to prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:44 PM
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In this scenario, the item wants the highest bidder? Are you asking because you dont understand the analogy or you disagree? Im not sure what its about
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:41 PM
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In my post i meant women treat it as such
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:33 PM
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Im actually curious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:31 PM
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“I’m going to bid on Everything” no one at auctions Men, to my understanding, dont treat it as such. Thats my whole point...Do you treat it as such?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:17 PM
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Its about HOW they like, and WHY they like. This defines a person. Sometimes, some women say indirectly "I like when hes a rich simping slave for me." This is opportunistic power dynamics. Thats not love. Men want respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:13 PM
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But men rate profiles with the system they have for themselves "I care about being cute. Therefore ill put pics of me, because i dont care how much money she has or her hobbies" No?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:07 PM
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What im saying is, its an auction house. Guys have to flex what they promise. Travels, barbecues, museums, rooftops. Women will buy to the best sellers. The men selling the best lifestyle are old. Guys are fighting against these wealthy outdoorsy fellas. Whereas men will see a chick "wow she has a cute face 😍". We men are way more naive. Its time for a wakeup. We need to know what its about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:32 PM
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Not as much. Exceptions are not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:15 PM
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Chivalry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:01 AM
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Its a wakeup call. Its with this that men learned and stopped acting like traditional men. Thats how change happens. Its the peaceful way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:06 AM
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I think its a market thing. Offer and demand. If 10 lawyers try to talk to you, ur gonna think "im at least lawyer level" which is nit entirely wrong but not entirely true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:39 PM
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Lets not debate exceptions to the norm. Its not about having an absolute cohort of perfect human lawyers. But most of the time, regardless of being homebodies or not, theyre not losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:24 PM
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There is additional information. But its not enough because there are an abundance of men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:23 PM
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You know, i disagree but also agree... I think female teachers fear consequences...meaning crying... Like little girls will cry more to their parents whereas boys learn to suckit. Because if you cried, you were SCREWED ,they boys would pester you and call you a crybaby 😂 I think teachers overall fear intervention by angry parents. And its not directly about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:51 PM
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Fair exchange of desire, and add same longterm goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:17 PM
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You cant make your idea of lawyers on Saul Goodman for christs sake 😂, its just a show. Lawyers give a shot to their clients, they dont lie necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:10 PM
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Thats exactly whats happening "i can get better" swipe left. In mass left swipes from womens part 😂 I dont need luck, im out of this stupid game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:04 PM
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I agree. He might be boring to someone, but he definitely not losing at life...if you see what i mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:03 PM
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But why would i try to hit on a chick who thought "mehhh i can get better"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:02 PM
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How ....do you have an example...its hard to imagine to imagine someone not having the required qualities to do the job they succeded doing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:01 PM
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When u say theres more to dating than profiles. But its the same chicks from tinder. They rejected you once cause they werent impressed by you. If you approach them, it might work, but why would it be a good thing? Why would you go for someone who didnt like you on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:56 PM
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Because hes intelligent, hardworking, and has his life under control. Thats what that diploma is proving, essentially
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:53 PM
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What is the tinder profile for? You cant go outside and bother all the women you see? "Im married" "in taken" "im married" etc Its not time efficient, and ur spending gas to move around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:51 PM
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Is he still unworthy tho? Knowing hes not a loser. He just have a normal appearance and a down to earth tinder profile. Hes not pretending to be someone hes not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:39 PM
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I cant date someone who looked at my face on a profile and swiped me left. Because i know for a fact my face doesnt sway her. She actually tried to look for other cucumbers after analysing my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:39 PM
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Ur not wrong about that...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:38 PM
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What if hes a lawyer who doesnt leave the house
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:35 PM
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Agreed. Also women have so much attention from random guys of different "caliber", the timespan a woman will look at a profile is like 3-4 seconds and flip to the next profile. What is sad is, guys wont lock in these women. And will only boost bodycount and lock her out from the normal guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:31 PM
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But those are celebrities...its not even comparable...women dont look like celebrities either...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:27 PM
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All reactivity. Less proactivity. Need someone who is good at management and maybe she will be organized about it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 07:30 PM
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You are basically saying "please stop cause its getting big and im scared" Maybe this hard talk is what we need as a society to make it better. Non violent conflict is sometimes required to find solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:58 AM
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I get it. But what the woman thinks and why she does it, it really doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:14 PM
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Exactly. Thats why i think groups like "are we dating the same chick" is useful too for men, and not only for women. You know if shes cheating and you know if shes ran thru by the whole city
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:02 PM
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Men have boundaries. Its not their job to accept everything. No maam.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:00 PM
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I dont have to adapt to you, When you, dont adapt to me 80% of men dont have much choice, then they are the majority. If for these men, a bodycount of 10 is a lot for them, who are you to tell them what is right or wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:21 PM
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How will you sleep with her without lying to her? Im not into bullshitting women or lying to them. Shes gonna tell you she has kids, do you love her or not to invest in that family. Even for sex i wont start lying for that. Fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:59 PM
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You do you indeed. She doesnt love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:15 PM
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When they fail to reach their high value man, they will come knocking at your door. Make sure you close all the lights and play dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:06 PM
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No. If you have a high body count, it means ur always shopping for better and you cant work with what you have. People dont want to marry a relation capitalist but a relation mechanic, who will repair rather than toss and get a new one!!! Women have way more choice on dating apps and thats why it is more common for a woman to have a high body count. Which is 2-3x the experience of any average man. Surely you can understand his anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:18 AM
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No. Its because women have so much demand they spend 3 seconds reading a profile, getting a first impression and flipping to the next dating profile. Plenty decent men get overlooked in an instant. Also, it has reached a point of business. "Since all these men are after me, imma take the best deal." And yes, women are free to do that for their interest, And frankly men know theres nothing to do about it. Except men are entitled to inform each other about how this rigged game is played. And we ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:38 AM
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Working a job is the best thing that can change your life. And i believe for women too. Working is not exclusive to men. Women always worked. But everyone tried to live a life of no work. Financial freedom. Men and women strive for that. The problem is when they use relations for it.....like bro, you looking for love? Or looking for money???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:15 PM
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If you butchered yourself to try to land high value man, i will judge. And you can bet theres bodycount behind that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:16 PM
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Oh just because you say so? Put yourself in my shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:01 AM
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Top seller fiction. Follow womens money. Not their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:22 PM
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Then you agree with me, and my analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:31 PM
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A fish will never tell a fisherman how to catch him. BUT the fish revealed itself by buying all these books of these novels. So yeah, i double down on these archetypes and i wouldnt believe a single word a woman would say to blur this fact out. You cant negociate on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:24 PM
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No. There is no secret about it. They want a powerful man, the asshole archetype (billionaire, wherewolf, vampire), that they tame slowly over time, because HIS ONE WEAKNESS is her. They crave that power to bend him over time, in a looong fight. So that down the road, shes riding a rare and power pokemon in her command. Check 50 shades : she even started to dress corporate. She started changing Greys ways. Thats what women fantacise about. Climbing in his world and gain HIS POWERS.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:18 PM
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Respect yourself, forget about old school traditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:23 PM
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You fear more yes. Have more to fear? Im not sure. If a woman decides to have children she can keeep it. Me, i cant do anything about it. Thats wild. You have the option to abort and not be a mom. They guy has 0 option except trusting her she wont betray him. She trusts him with his sperm, he trusts her with the abortion agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:59 AM
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Status. 75 yo man w status. Lets sayyy Al pacino.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:41 PM
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Orion Taraban, Psy D. Lets see whos the kid who coughs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:27 PM
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No. The way to fix everything, is for certain groups to stop using dating/relationship as a survival strategy. You fear being lonely? Buy a dog. You fear bad finances? Get you a better job. Also self esteem issues. People will reject others only to feel good about themselves, to then regret when that person finds someone to date. Mental illness all over. Fix your shit people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:12 PM
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Me? Im a hamster? Trying to hamster you? No, every relation starts with short term. A doctor said it, not me. UNLESS ur into that old school arranged marriage thing....tbh thats really not my world and i despise that shiet ...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:25 PM
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Oh no. If he hates the girl because shes an ultra feminist and says political stuff they cant handle, or shes super fat, watch them run away. Whereas women can deal with old geezers barely able to stand for money. Thats next level psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:38 PM
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I disagree and agree : Agree: men will lie to have sex, and more importantly, validation to cure their loneliness. Diagree: Gold diggers dont give a fuck about the dude. At least the sex digger is attracted to her body, and fairly to her personality But gold diggers are rutheless on another level. They want your MONEY. its not even something related to you. Just what you hide in your coffers. Its a fucking robbery. Litterally. The coffer is the main attraction. Conclusion : one is a desperate lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:07 PM
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"wage gap". Excuses to be gold diggers And yes, by ENDING chivalry, we will be truly equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:27 AM
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The hot rich guy at least offers something in return: hot sex with a hot guy and money. Thanks for admitting ur a basic gold digger, and you work on double standards for everyone to see. So yeah guys, as we alrdy know, rules and chivalry are made for ugly unnattractive guys, which is somehow 80% of the market according to women. What specifically do you mean? It sounds like a threat. More self respect for men. No giving attention for free, no giving compliments for free, no being generous for fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:25 AM
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My answer meant men love women more, and women take them for granted. A study showed by LendingTree in 2025, men spend on average 15 000$ per year on their spouse, in gift, travel, etc. while women spend 1300$ on average. Its almost like if you want to KEEP ypur girl, you have to blow that 15 000$ on her. Which more than 10x the effort women put it. So no. Women are clearly CHEAPER than men. Nice try tho. Time to learn self respect boyz.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:15 AM
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Because men are more generous and kind. Seen many videos where they say they would give their organs to their wife in need. Then wifes go "id never give him my kidney". Men are so generous and spend more, to the point of no self respect is the reason why men simp. Thats why the pedestal. Lack of self respect and too much generosity. Time to flip it 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:54 AM
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I have a theory that women masturbate way more than men, and thats why they appear asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:50 AM
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Hmmmm sometimes i truly wonder, when i sense their energy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:47 AM
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Gorgeous women will date 75 al pacino and fall pregnant twice, or any rich guy, and you will be told "you cant date a younger girl because its disgusting". You know, to some extent, i wonder if some women simply hate low status/normal men. But like hate so much they want them unhappy, or worse .... Maybe they think power is in that order 1. Government 2. Rich men 3. Women 4. Normal men If you dating this chick and you didnt sacrifice your self respect for it, you didnt SIMP and getting treated l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:33 AM
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It will still stay these same percentage. Because of inflation. Offer minimum wage boost to everyone, prices go up, inflation go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:16 AM
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Whats even funnier its that you dont deny it. So lets recap for the boys : If ur hot, there is no risk If ur unattractive, there are risk and you have to give her reasons to be with you, cause somehow shes purchasable. How nice, legal prostitution. Disgusting. Dont double standard me please. Time to regulate this market fellaz
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:07 AM
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It makes no sense. If we are all on the same level, there is no top 10% anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:35 PM
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The only way i see this possible, is people not EXPLICITLY saying what they are, and what theyre looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:02 PM
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Try dating apps. Apparently men become suddenly ugly on these apps but outside apps theyre normal! You whats funny? Some people even blame the apps for finding others ugly 😂🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:04 PM
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Whoever designed this really did this in their own advantage. Because when they want to approach, and they 100% do when the guy is hot. They can sleep with him on date 1 NO PROBLEM So that "men approach women" is for fugly normal dudes like you and me!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:23 PM
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You know whats funny? When the guy is rich and hot, suddenly there is no risk!!! So this is just manipulation to fit needs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:06 PM
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It says absolutely everything, knowing a LOT really want a longterm relationship. Its just manipulation to fit needs...of POWER.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 05:05 PM
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Social skills aint enough. Whats ironic, is that she doesnt necessarily have them, hence why she needs the guy to approach. Somehow shes the prize? Who are you kidding?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:53 PM
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Lets make a movement and call it "Hold the line - no simping" It would imply men move only when the effort/energy is reciprocal and equivalent. Fuck that gold digger market. "Any man can fuck me if he takes me out and spends for me". Fuck this legal prostitution bullshit. Do you like me too or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:54 PM
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Because men let them have sex with them in exchange for validation. Stop mother fucking simping fellaz. Hold the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:09 PM
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Just need to stop trying too hard. Let the market regulate itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:19 AM
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Nah i never spoke of having sex during a period of childbirth/post childbirth. Tbh i dont understand why we are evoking childbirth. It could be anything related to hospitalisation. Getting a leg broken, arm. Etc. Thats why i refer it to extreme. Because theres a legit medical reason. But in the mundane life? You cant trust someone who hesitates to have sex regularily...its the best indicator because ehatever the issue, they gonna drag it all the way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:39 PM
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No. You dont have to do anything. Its like the market. If you want a kitkat and someone sells it at 100 dollar, its your choice to decide how bad u want that kitkat Also if someone sells it to you 100 bucks, ask yourself what is their real goal???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:50 PM
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Pulling out + condom is the best. If he cums wih a condom but stays inside its meh...just pullout and finish in the condom w hand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:42 PM
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Pulling out exists. Condoms exist. Abortion exists. Everyones parents dont fall pregnant every weekend. When she starts thinking like that, its over. Because when she was attracted, she would fuck you every week. But then it becomes "ahhh sex contains risk". She just doesnt eant to be pregnant with a guy she doesnt LIKE.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:59 AM
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I think this is a manipulative way to keep the guy. When you like someone, you want to procreate with them. Its natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:43 AM
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I want sex with HER. But she doesnt want, and its been a month. She doesnt desire me, im OUT. She is using me for rent, or as a way to make her life better but she has no sexual desire for me. She doesnt love me!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:34 AM
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Ur basically saying that she doesnt like me, exactly my point, and exactly why im out. She doesnt desire me. A month without is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:33 AM
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We dont need to talk about pregnancy and extreme cases. Pregnancy is an extreme case, such as hospitalisation after an accident. Why are we even talking about this. On the mundance life, if she goes 1 month without sex, to me, its a red flag. She doesnt desire me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:30 AM
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But she doesnt want to. Im not leaving it open so that with me she DOESNT WANT, unless uts with another dude...like ur joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:29 AM
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If she gave birth and we have a mini human to care for then yes. But if on a normal basis she doesnt wanna jump on me, like i wanna jump on her or similar, theres clearly a lack of desire. I dont wanna be used. Id rather have it reciprocal or nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:35 AM
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They "fall in love" but dont want sex for a month...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:14 PM
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Tbh emotions felt with sex are real. Its the interpersonal stuff that makes a man back up and leave. At first the guy truly likes her and really wants to claim her. But then he discovers her more, and maybe he doesnt like how hes treated OR its just not how he planned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:10 PM
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Because being tagged as a GOLD DIGGER, is the shame some cant handle
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:48 PM
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I usually respect women who can ask a guy more. Because you KNOW shes genuinely interested even if she has ppl in her dms. Also, just the courage it took her, i salute her for it. What lazy men conclude fast = she must ask a lot of guys. And trigger insecurity. But in reality, a hoe is a hoe no matter who initiates first. Also, even if she made the first move, she cant make me submissive. She just cant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:04 PM
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We are social mammals, and what we do individually influence everyone collectively Thats called culture, and can stay for millenias if not adressed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:04 PM
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I dont amuse you, you tried to make me stop doing it. Now that i figured you out, you flip your vest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:47 PM
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What you propose is to take no accountability as a collective. Keep it for yourself. You wouldnt even mind what i say if u didnt care about the collectivity Do what you preach and go play elsewhere if i annoy you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:25 PM
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Assuming her value on the market would have stayed the same, yes, i would have agreed. But over time, it changes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:17 PM
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Yes. Because he "waited so long for her" its safe for her knowing that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:59 PM
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If she knows the guy yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 03:53 PM
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An anti filter detector, imposing people upload unfiltered pictures? Hmmm interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:36 PM
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Some women will take an ugly man as long as he pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:07 PM
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Im just against covert prostitution. A wedding, a lifestyle = a bargaining price.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:44 PM
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Ill wait for them, until then my mind is madeup. Market cap = total capital /amount of shares.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:42 PM
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Someone convinced men they were ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:41 PM
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I think women did a good job at putting men in the dirt. It actually worked and its heart breaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:29 PM
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Fucking agreed. TIME TO HOLD THE LINE FELLAZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:16 PM
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Polygamy exists in humans, definitely, but its not the norm. Nope. Whe are a monogamous species.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:16 PM
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Always one at the same time, because another simp is there to disturb the market
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:15 PM
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Most PEOPLE on the planet are monogamous. Jealousy hits you no matter what. Whereas monkeys, polygamous, dont give a damn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:10 PM
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I disagree. My biggest problem with the dating market are guys who compromise so much for sex. Stop simping. Stop being bank accounts dudes. Stop legalizing covert prostitution, for people who think ur a 2/10 "but since u provide it all ur a 10/10". You fucked up the market fellaz. There are 50/50 men/women on the planet, and most are monogamous. ONE IS NOT RARER THAN THE OTHER. Both are equally picky. Only simping disturbed it all. What women want to do, i dont care. I care about men who stoppe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:01 PM
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Were talking about pairing up and marrying after rejection. Why the fuck would you talk about peole matching normally. Were talking about something specific then you strayed towards something basic, plus you insult me I think the whole point was to insult me, because you would marry her, like a simp. I stand by it mate. Go on and marry her, and tell everyone she loves you knowing its a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:48 PM
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If we talk about sex, sure. If we talk about marriage, veeery simp. So simpp it stinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:25 PM
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Simp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:59 PM
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If a man picks her even though she rejected him, and went to try other cucumbers, hes a simp. His choice is his choice, but fuck bro. Dont simp like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:58 PM
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Bro she will try telling you, noooo it was actually this and this (verbally modifying facs to make it appear acceptable) dont fall for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:55 PM
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If she comes back to you, she didnt get who she wanted!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:53 PM
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No. Dont even try. Dont be a simp. A friggin carpet that she can walk on. Man if you were her type she wouldnt have gone see other men. You need to wake up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:53 PM
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If her perception of you* improved, you mean. You might have been better than her from the start. Bro a chick with no diplomas and just beauty cant tell me shes better than me, unless shes doing really good in life somehow. Idgaf. Beauty fades, not like gold that appreciates. If she settled its because no one decent wants her except you, when u wanted her. Then she comes by and say "welll i changed my mind". Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:51 PM
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Yes her options run out, especially as she gets older. Doesnt natter if she has more options than you. Its about respect, and self respect. She wont love you. Ur gonna marry her and shit, but deep down, she went to go fuck someone else cause u werent enough for her. It doesnt matter not getting the first choice in a life. What matters is: * initial intent followed through mutually*. It it was a zigzag? Forget it. It should be magnet. Not effing boomerang.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:39 PM
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Dont compromise on a relationship just for sex bro...like stop messing around. Never ever in your life will you be able to affirm "she loves me" in a romantic way. Its gonna be "she settled for me after being rejected by other men, when she initially thought she could get better"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:36 PM
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She actually might when all her options might run out. Which is very common. The guy she rly wants doesnt want her....she then goes to see plan B, the good lap dog And yes this lap dog suddenly becomes hot when all other options are worse
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:34 PM
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Why would YOU marry THEM? is the real question. Hell no man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:17 PM
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Never!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:16 PM
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Loool my bro. Free sex okay. But dont marry her. Dont be that simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:16 PM
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Yes. Without a doubt. Like the comparison would be men, in a feminist group....like wtf u doing there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:07 AM
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Like she hates men so grabs a simp she can control type of strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:55 PM
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Stop infantilising women and tellung other women what they want to do with their lives. Controlling women telling other women what to do with their own vaginas everywhere Its soooo ironic. Women claiming my body my choice, but theres always another woman to tell her what to do with her body 😂 Prostitutes dont necessarily asked or needed your advice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:39 PM
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Lame excuses. Humans are mostly monogamous. In monogamous mammals, both genders are equally picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:34 PM
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Exactly, disguised prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:33 PM
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1.What do you mean you guys couldnt afford it? We can CERTAINLY afford it, its way cheaper than marriage and multiples dates and whatnot. Stop objectifying men financially, then we can talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:32 PM
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We need to take our accountability pill. The system didnt make us shallow. We alrdy were To be more precise, people follow culture blindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:22 PM
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Total freedom and equality, is women asking for guys numbers, its also men not having to be the ones chasing etc. Patriarchal = men makes the moves. Freedom = everyone does whatever and theres no roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:49 PM
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If the female is not mentally healthy, your population wont be healthier, but sicker. Women are not in control of who they want to date. They just sit and wait who comes their way Men stopped approaching women A man can decide to NOT impregnate a woman or not, quite easily, while enjoying the sex You confuse attention men give, with actual commitment. If he wants to hit it, it doesnt mean hes gonna give you access to his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:15 PM
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Far less males would exist? What? Is that a threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:16 PM
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Hahaha yes i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:52 AM
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Traditionalism is one of the reason the dating marketplace is horrendous, why gold diggers exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:49 AM
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Better try than not trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:13 PM
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No...by keeping to want women in their lives more than women themselves want it, is the major, main, mistake Why would u care about someone seeing you like a tool? Thats what inflated the market. Stop simping. She doesnt want you sexually? Fuck it. It means she has more than enough Ds to survive winter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:13 PM
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Dellusional women dont dictate who is below average. Effing small broke chicks talking how they want this and that, when she works at doing nails, never stepped foot in a gym, calling 6ft+ dudes with careers below average 🤡🤡🤡 Take off your makeup. Chicks below 5/10 talking smack is excessively overdue. Its time you crack pickup lines ladies. Its about damn time. Cause im tired of hearing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:56 PM
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Prostitution. When a woman wants it she can have it by being a sugar baby. Not men bc cops are trying to catch ya
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 01:38 AM
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I actually challenge this dynamic. And i am pulling away from traditional ones, so as many men lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 11:14 PM
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Yeah, quite tiring if you ask me. Trad men look like tyrants and trad women like beggars on first impression
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:58 PM
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WHAT. This era of 1900 is long gone. Now women have the same financial power and opportunity to go to school and make money like men. 0 excuses. Somehow the expectation to be treated the same is still there, romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:35 PM
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Wanting the guy to make moves, and pay, and take charge is clearly a dominance state. What you refer sounds very specific to a fun bed dynamic, behind closed doors. What i understand of it anyways....else its what i said in my paragraph above this one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:24 PM
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Except in romantic expectations. Its a total circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:34 PM
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I disagree, both have to disappear at the same time. The sugar baby has to vanish as the same time as the sugar daddy, because theyre part of the one and same system
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:21 PM
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Yes, its like women are in control unless ur a $$$$$. Being a lawyer, engineer, or any uni degree helps but isnt a guarantee, except doctor, and finance. Yes university degrees dont impress chicks at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 04:39 PM
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In total, the energy poured in the relation. Is it equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:16 PM
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Nothing is entirely for free. Even religious people do it for the grace of god and going to heaven, mother theresa included. That said, it doesnt have to be material, it can be other gestures, but is it equivalent in exchange. Both pour energy in the relation, some materialise it in gifts, others in other stuff. You get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:15 PM
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What do you fear? I just asked was it equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:08 PM
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In gifts, energy, doesnt matter, as long as its reciprocated
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:56 PM
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Well, were you getting ripped off or not? You know it inside
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:55 PM
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Ehhhh stop right there. WHILE shes pregnant, he helps her out. OUTSIDE OF PREGNANCY? Go to work girl. Ur like any other man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:43 PM
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No gifts for Christmas?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:41 PM
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Yes...i wonder if those friends, who were givers were the right ones...now you make me wonder for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:32 PM
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If they put hours in it and so did you, its equivalent in a way,
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:25 PM
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Did they request big?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:25 PM
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But did she do the equivalent on the form of energy. Lets say you give her a gift of 500$ which is hours of your work. Did she make a gift equivalent to hours too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:24 PM
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Did her expectation of your gift for her, matched what you got from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:44 PM
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But were you reciprocated equivalently, is the real question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:43 PM
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Exactly, like working adults they chose to pay. Motherhood penalty is NOTHING, compared to the conditions women lived in the early 1900 with no access to society's power. You trying to compare these conditions to our grandmas, is either ignorant or deceptive. Therefore, since women are as powerful as men and have access to money, they dont need anything from men. And men have ZERO obligation to give them special treatment, like our grandmas received. Women know what happens with pregnancy. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:17 PM
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Did your parents stop working for 5 years? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 10:14 AM
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Its clearly written SOME women. Try again ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:04 AM
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Lol, good night
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:41 AM
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No. Read the LAST sentence of the LAST paragraph. Dont assume, just read.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:40 AM
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Wdym? Im asking a question and im writing a post. Whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:12 AM
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They want gifts on another form. Its still something, its still attention. The energy trade is still there. What will you do in exchange for your man in exchange. If your answer is "nothing bc men want nothing" pfff you missed it totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:11 AM
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So ill take that you have no answer and ur running away. Have a good night. Deep down i knew. I knew making gifts to your man wouldnt cross your mind. Pfff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:48 AM
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Whats the equivalent of providing gifts every week??? Btw im telling you straight up Sex is not a gift, sex is a 50/50 pleasure. What does she do to make it equivalent? Find an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:31 AM
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Have you received an equal amount of gifts? If the answer is no, throw that relation in the trash can.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:28 PM
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Men do want attention. Men werent designed to be simps and tools, and to be negliged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:23 PM
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Of course, the moment the woman decides to have the child you assume all the way. But if a woman choses to have a child, has 0 to do with our grandmothers having no right to work or to vote. Now women get to work. So expecting a princess treatment is clearly overreaching. If a grown woman decides to have a kid in 2025, its with a partner, you have 50% of the responisbility as a woman that you have to assume and accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:38 PM
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Yes but you understand my point. An abortion is cheaper than the cost of raising a child. Women have that choice ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:04 PM
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The child yes, not the adult. The child is entitled to be spoiled, not the adult in 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:45 PM
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This doesnt deserve a full, life time princess treatment like our grandmas. She takes parental leave, the father too, then put the kid in kindergarden, like everybody in society. Women dont have a social handicap like women back in the days. Its not the same, and shouldnt be treated the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 08:32 PM
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This isnt entirely true because people still do a lot of business. We still interact when we still need each other. All this atomisation did was reveal that, in reality, we dont need each other romantically, or for entertainment, as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:14 PM
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Traditional gender norms suck. Red pillers want to go old school, and as a man u gotta take charge of everything but with a modern salary. Screw that. Let the okd princess treatment/privilege die alrdy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:40 PM
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I disagree. This law was for women in the early 1900's who couldnt work or access society and vote. Modern women dont need to half half, they have the possibility to be as rich as any man. Modern women do not need the protection our grandmas needed. Go work!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:32 PM
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No ur not. You wont fool me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:56 AM
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If he was pregnant from the balls, and he would chose to the keep the child againt a prartners will, i would be for a womans say on keeping the child. Contraception is you vs your partner. If you take it raw, thats your problem and your level of trust of your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 07:43 PM
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Then at the same time, your body your problem. If men cant even have a say about their own potential child. Then heck. 50/50 all the way. Biology shouldnt be mens business, from a to z. Assume it. Right? In other words, if its not mens business, then men shouldnt accomodate anything. Either we are a team, or we are total strangers Thats the fair scenario to me then....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:09 PM
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Being women doesnt automatically make them good moms or sensitive moms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:48 PM
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What about men paying 75% of the abortion since they dont get to suffer...but with a right to say about wanting to abort je child. You can get the butter and the bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:47 PM
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Yes, men should be allowed to have a right to say for an abortion imo. He would also pay half
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:46 PM
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"sounds like an incel" doesnt seem very balanced and fair for a comment But there is the balance, she works you work. Women complain that they work and men expect her to do chores. We are going in a 50/50 world, slowly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:31 PM
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Like tight pants arent necessarily the only option. Shorts have been internationally reliable. Sweat pants too. Theres clearly an element of fashion in it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:30 PM
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Theres maybe some truth to it too there. Not 100% because womens action arent about men 24/7. BUT maybe a mix of both?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:50 PM
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If multiple people said it maybe there is SOME truth to it. Maybe not 100% true, but partially?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:44 PM
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She has a point, why live in the servitude of women when they litterally acquired the power to make money like men. Power has been equilibrated. Theres no reason to bend the knee anymore, we are equals. As men we also surrendered our physical power to the police. So men have litterally nothing on them. Enough slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:20 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:00 PM
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Ofc they do 😂. Loneliness sucks for everyone. Men and women. Being a simp is not in the nature of anyone. Men giving attention and receiving none, or getting exploited is not in mens nature. As they feel upset about it. Dont you get upset when people take advantage without giving? Then males are not selfless simps. Thats all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:57 PM
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Sex alone isnt enough. They want attention. Little boys see sex as a rollercoaster. But men know that empty sex feels lonely af.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:26 PM
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Very controlling, self centered, lack of social skills, and rude. You have to chill. What im talking about is real. Wether you respect me or not bc we dont agree, is childish. You gotta go beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:23 PM
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Why the sudden anger? Being triggered says something. If i were you i would investigate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:16 PM
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No...a lot of women will hide their age to various people. It doesnt mean they all want to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:15 PM
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You just try to lead the conversation where everything is blurred. This is MY post and i came up with a specific subject. I dont mind you straying away with "everything is fake". I respect your opinion BUT i condemn personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:14 PM
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I have lived what my post is about...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:09 PM
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Nah, ill go on and say we will have to take an accountability pill as humans and admit we have things to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:14 PM
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Its not about you, its about attention and self rsteem about being pretty Skincare goalz etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:04 PM
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Men as a sex, DO want attention from women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:20 PM
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Yes its caring. Commenting is a form of respect towards the person, to try to bring them back to the right path, etc. You do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:19 PM
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I think theres something deeper. Because if it triggers anger, theres something behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:18 PM
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This "digital" stuff is a lie from people who act shallow online, to save their face. "Online is fake so i get to be shallow" Nanana, online is real....its where people get to be real without fear of immediate retaliation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:16 PM
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Are you sure? It is socially a thing to never as a woman her age... What if male attention is a sign of still being pretty = still being young?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:59 PM
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No, validation can definitely come from strangers. We paint reality with the help of external stimuli. If you didnt have enough people telling that specific woman she is pretty, she wouldnt be so sure anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:44 PM
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Lets focus on the case im describing then, lets leave other scenarios for other discussions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:34 PM
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Gross Generalisation 👎 We are social animals, attention definitely means something. All it means is you have your quota filled. Good for you, but the guys who give it to you....on a regular basis....why
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:34 PM
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I effectively said nothing? Okay sir. I respect your perception. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:15 PM
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Nooo im glad your life goes well. I am glad you care about men. But it was never about doing mental support for men. It was about...men are CURRENTLY doing mental support....with boosting ego and giving these specific women their "attention quota". why should they keep doing it when they have no attention in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:12 PM
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No, because most people don’t care about most people outside their circle. Women care about the well being of the men in their life. Just like men care about the well being of the women in their life. Thats human nature. They do care what men do and think, even those who are not in their lives. This is why you are here talking to me. You do care. Unless she likes you back - why would she care if you like her? Unwanted attention isn’t an ego boost. It’s an annoying at best, dangerous at worst. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:02 PM
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I did say SOME, in my post. Im referring to specific people. Try again ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:52 PM
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Whatever they do, instead of giving them attention, is observed, analysed. Passport bros, guys doing hobbies, red pills, purple pill forums on reddit 😜, you name it "What is he/they doing, instead of giving ME/US attention???"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:38 PM
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Well we can agree it bothers you the most? But why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:18 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:09 PM
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Me individually? Or lonely men as a group?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:06 PM
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Casual sex doesnt mean hes gonna switch partner, its about the expectation of the relationship's "severity". I have no intention to be a boyfriend and have obligations. I have no obligation to be your fiancee in 5 years or so, or to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:52 PM
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No im a realist. Why else would a feminist woman be in a purple pill forum, except for fighting a war and bringing men back to her own culture and ideals? Thats what i thought
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:55 AM
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No, it only proves women would FIGHT on forums to keep MONOPOLIZING ATTENTION. Women are all about receiving attention. When they dont they panick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:09 PM
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Because a lot of women prefer this, "to be the prize", even if they find the guy ugly, as a safety measure. So that he doesnt stray away towards other women. Like a dog. Its a position of power that the woman finds attractive. Not the guy = its NOT love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:22 AM
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Not to me, i like them smarter, more experienced, they dress better The only problem js the bodycount...like whats down there...like what lifeform is incubating after 100 different men. Also maturity, kidergarden smh My personal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:45 AM
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Nahh, dating apps ARE real life The only reason women settle for guys who make moves for them because hes whipped enough to do more than other guys for her. Its a place of power
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:58 PM
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Accountable for her own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:33 PM
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Like are you expecting for him to drop an actual name? Is this for real? Just understand the general argument. Sheesh. Way to keep dodging shiet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:59 PM
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No. Either you ARE shallow or you arent. Take responsibility for who you are and your actions. If you had a crush on these men and you probably wouldnt have swiped them right, is because you have no idea what you want, or how to get to know people. You simply assume you know them from a picture. Thats being shallow and thats on you and allll those doing EXACTLY like you. You could limit the physique to the picture and figure out who he is with a date OR a video call. But i guess physically they …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:10 PM
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If she rejected me once on tinder, i know what its about then. I wont blind myself and say "its love". It aint.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:41 PM
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Because you tolerate that that same woman X your face online for a better dude. Just being accepted by her irl is validation. To me, i call it simping. Because you and i both know, on tinder, u werent on her level, she wanted and expected better. In other words...a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:37 PM
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Yup, but what decides what is true or not is what is socially accepted as an answer. If ugly women put makeup and start being cocky, as long as simps validate her, she can call herself that. If men understand that if they stop simping for people who dont value them, or simply dont find them good looking even jo themselves hide their flaws with makeup, men will stop trying to seek validation from fake, and shallow people. Men will learn to treat others how they deserve to be treated, relative to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:33 PM
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Thank you for justifying some women simply USE men, and validates my claim. Idk if thats what you intended to do but there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:02 PM
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Its the people that are shallow. The app is just a tool for people to connect. If she can X your face on the app and settle for you irl, then SHE is the shallow person that tried getting giga chads on app and failed. U cant blame tech for that. If you still go for her....my bad but the fact is if she could, she would have skipped you. And makes the guy a simp....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:35 PM
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"Theres not enough genuine attractive men" is the first lie men accepted from people who cover and hide their features under makeup and surgery. Dont get fooled. There is lie and manipulation, society isnt based on women fooling men. Humans are about more than that. If we talk about births, it better to have quality people from quality couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:15 PM
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I would never marry someone who X'd my face when she saw me on Tinder, because she thought she could get better/i wasnt her type. If ur happy because that same chick failed to find better and "settles for you" you can forget the idea that she loves you. She doesnt. Ur just an escape plan. Its time fellas understand this. Tinder is our best friend realising the women on it actually dont like you. And if they do irl, they are settling, like a losers prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:57 PM
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Because she wasnt able to land the gigachad 11/10 on tinder. Thats why shes gonna settle for a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:29 AM
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Like Odin said, a hammer is a tool that can be used to build or to destroy. The problem is the human who uses it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:27 AM
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Married couples dont live longer, they get alzheimers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 11:39 PM
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We need to do it again without the nudes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:29 PM
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Wdym they alrdy do it. There is no such apps. Name me one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:27 PM
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Men should start putting women on similar apps to see who she banged with and have a bodycount estimate. Men too deserve to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 01:32 AM
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I disagree, women also fantacise on men they cant access too and spend an enormous amount of time fantacising about them and being in relationship wih these celebrities or fictional characters. What is vicious, is that women can have a crush on fictional characters and her man will pay for it by thinking its his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:26 PM
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Nope. Women are uglier without makeup. The reason men dont put makeup and why men dont care that much, is because men are LESS SUPERFICIAL. Womens self esteem, cuLturally, is tied to their appearance. That is why you cant ask a woman her age, nor tell her she is fat. Its KNOWN. Im very confident about this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:12 AM
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Nah, i think most women think they are pretty because 1. Usage of makeup 2. Simps want to fuck at any cost with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:43 PM
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Women, themselves chase real top alphas, like lionesses hunting meat. She will slide in dms and all. The way you describe men chasing = beta. Women make rules for guys they dont like, and one of the rules is "ugly guys have to chase me". So no, the best men dont approach, they get jumped on by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:39 PM
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Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:34 PM
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What invitation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:34 PM
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Low quality humans is not a Male problem. Its a SOCIETY problem that affects all sexes. That said, if the criterias of the woman are superficial, such as his looks and income, well, you could have made a better choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:35 PM
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You definitely missed the point, and you definitely are threatened by me. Else you would have said something to that odd comment. And no, we can call BS, we font have to move on. I certainly dont want to be YOU. Keep feeling threatened by people with opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:18 PM
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Doesnt look like it, you actually flexed it and attempted to use it against me. Nice attempt but ur gonna need actual real arguments, this delusional attention thing works only in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:32 PM
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Because i thought u knew something i was wrong. Now you think receiving attention validates you, like most women. Thats the BIG mistake women do. Because no matter who gives you attention, if you have nothing to bring, you have nothing to bring. Keep feeling validated by my attention
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:08 PM
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Whats the point of exchanging if: you bring nothing to the table I find it very ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:33 PM
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Then you are EASILY defeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:25 PM
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Go back to school to learn argumentative essays and how to bring an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:22 PM
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Be weary of alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 05:39 PM
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Its not only feminists but traditional women too. Trads dont want you to go for prostitutes and she wants your money more than the feminist. If you ask me, trads are worse than feminists. At least feminists are progressive and want some change. The feminist will respect your finances as she values hard work and masculine qualities about getting money. A traditional woman will suck your money dry and say "well its because im pretty and im worth it" Trads of today want the benefits of old days and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:00 PM
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It was risky in 2010, but in 2025 its safe Plenty of sources cited at the bottom of the page. But seriously, u didnt know lesbian couples hit each other more?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:27 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_in_lesbian_relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 01:06 PM
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Stats say women are more violent, but when men are its worse. But overall women commit more partner violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:58 PM
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Red pillers arent fucking anyone. Thats the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:22 AM
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Red pills are traditional men. Dating doesnt imply marrying. Any pill man could go for a good pump n dump. What they care about is who they marry. They wont necessarily love whoever they have sex with, or who they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 12:36 AM
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Also, women commit more violence. Only the extreme are male, but statistics say women are twice more likely to cause Partner Violence. Especially women among themselves, lesbian couples. Thats a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:20 PM
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That has been debunked already. Very succesful men, get chased by women. Only low status men chase women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:19 PM
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You are saying men dont want to be understood to find the right girl, when men are less scared of women, than women from men The only reason men cover their intentions, if they do, its because women are very picky. Even for short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:16 PM
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This is not genetic, it is taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:09 PM
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The idea that men pursue is the first lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 09:18 PM
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It doesnt change the fact that women dont understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:58 PM
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There you go fading out of the logical argument. I take it as a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:21 PM
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Having sex with a man doesnt entitle a woman to marriage, or him finding she has the qualities he desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:00 PM
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Women dont want to be understood, to not fall in love with the wrong guy. The blurring is done on purpose. Men learn to not believe what she says and look at her actions instead
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:31 PM
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Bring somehting. I can tell you women miscommunicate so men can understand what she needs and does the problem solving.to be able to understand what she needs to be happy = empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:12 PM
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Men, have more empathy. Women are weary of all men because they dont understand men. Therefore they lack empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:52 PM
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Nah, if a woman choses a friend over me, first, then me, i could fuck her, but ill never marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:40 PM
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I think men should stop chasing, simply to bring balance to the force
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:13 AM
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Having some sexual experience at my age is not uncommon. Whereas marrying a successful rich man is uncommon. Being a gold digger = waiting at the finish line. Sexual experience is very common and very accessible. A wealthy accomplished man isnt. Therefore no, it is not waiting at the finish line.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:53 AM
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Wdym possess. No one possesses no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:17 AM
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You are argumenting with yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:15 AM
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You can have sex with someone without being obligated to marry them. You can have sex with someone bevause you like them, not knowing if its going to be for ever as long as no prgnancy is involved you protect yourself from diseases. Marriage is an old technology for an old society in my view, and is obsolete. But like you said, each their view.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:42 PM
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Ofc they do, and its shown online how they gladly hop on in the lamborghinis with total strangers Total BS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 08:03 PM
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Options based on a lie are not real options. They will cheat or leave once they know the truth. To me someone who cares about marriage too much is a redflag
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:59 PM
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And i think men should START filtering more and simping less!!! You are offered leave and paid for maternity. There is a limit to what pregnancy will excuse. The number of people who blame being fat because of pregnancy for example. Pregnancy is the black sheep of everything and mean BUY INTO IT 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 07:53 PM
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People discard when they dont feel fulfilled. Who is desirable in the market doesnt mean anything. Heres a concrete example : caucasian men. They tend to be associated with wealth even though they can be BROKE. So caucasians get so much attention but it doesnt mean theyre all rich. Its what people associate as a hive mind group Personally i cant marry someone if i dont know if shes any good in bed. If my sex life is going to suck, i want to know before a 30 000$ marriage. Each man his preference…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:06 PM
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Yes you have to dodge that 0.56% But men arent obligated to tolerate the creep/grapist treatment. If a man has a ferrari, suddenly it doesnt matter that he might be a grapist, right?? Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:52 PM
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Men polygamous? Idk bout that. Its more that they have options so they keep switching till they find aomeone they truly love. But the problem is most women lineup on him bc he is successful. Why would he give that pleasure to gold diggers. He could marry one just to have kids fast, but still will seek for a real lover Options is an illusion in the current market. Heres why. Women will confuse attention with actual value. So guys will have sex, BUT will ditch. "I have options" no you dont. You mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:41 PM
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I didnt get the last part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 04:55 PM
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She seems to say men have to spoil women because of it, as if its his fault. Nono you are a grown woman. You know what you want. Being pregnant doesnt have to be compensated. We are compensated for things we dont want to do. If you dont want to, you know what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:47 PM
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"i agree to take your child so treat me like a queen" you too you want a child. Dont act like its a transaction the woman doesnt want....the woman (traditional) wants wholeheartedly to get deformed by a baby. I dont see why only men have to shoulder that responsibility. Also anything a man gets, a woman gets ; love sex affection and more. If its really 50/50, in the modern day, make it 50/50 from the start.... If not, you are a traditional ish woman. And its okay. Same for men who pay the dates.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:41 PM
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Im a man and i dont want a virgin. Sex is going to be boring, AF. She knows nothing. Plus, she has no clue on how to please a man physically and psychologically. I wont generalise but i wont make a case based on exceptions either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:21 PM
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No i definitely aknowledge the rest of what you wrote, its just i associate young boys being problematic to shitty parenting, and i wont blame children for that. You want to blame children for being children, then tell me you are empathetic, keep dreaming! Women will take "empathetic" jobs without being it necessarily. They can also be kind to women and children and still be clueless when it comes to men. I cant prove women have more empathy when im telling you she has 0 communication skills and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:18 PM
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In my exp fights were always women, at school and in clubs. You speak of maturity, but up until now women still shit test men. Why? Because they cant understand men. Women dont have as much empathy as they think they have. Whereas men, to satisfy women are trying to understand her world and make her feel "safe" according to her standards. This should stop till women actually learn empathy. Who is the immature one again? Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:45 AM
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"plenty of women have done it" yet theyre all single. Or they SETTLED with a normal dude. Yup normal, no finish line for them. Thinking women are more mature then men is the most naive and immature thing. Little girls of 9 years old say that same thing. "Boys eww immature". What differenciates you than a 9 year old regarding that belief? Truth is, you know nothing of men. Most women are terrified of men, and are bad at communicating. Some even feel more comfy at stealing someones man, than to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:57 AM
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So you think you can snatch a guy at the finish line because ...? Like give me actual reasons that will convince the guy to not use the greedy woman just for fun and all the other? Thats what they do, become sucessful and rich, and then they have 2000 invitations to connect with these women...hes gonna have the time of his life and will not stop. He will have mistresses as long as he can Also, why would a man chose someone who wasnt there at his lowest, to support him and cheer him up? Why would…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:47 AM
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Internet is real. What people say and how they behave is real. How shady they are online is not internets fault. They are truly shady. You were pro-simping and trying to make that man do it. When i explain to you why he wont do it, you run away upset. You had an agenda, and you had 0 intentions of having a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:04 PM
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Or this is you running away when you have nothing else to add?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:49 PM
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That time is long gone. Thats not a man issue, but a humanity issue. Men werent pedophiles in majority. If you think every man wanted to bone a child in middle east you are naive. People in these desertic areas couldnt feed their children sometimes and sold them to other families to have them married...better this than left for dead...each epoch their context, dont mix. Besides, in some counties in the USA you can STILL marry your cousin. Old disgusting traditions are hard to get rid of in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:41 PM
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There is 0 complaining, only argumentation.if you wanna exchange with me, throw the emotions away and stay with me to debate. If whining is a strategy to avoid having a real discussion then be it. Real talk or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:38 PM
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This is the exact concept men are challenging. Tradition was good for 1637. A lot of women want to know which man is willing to spend the most for her and will accept him. This is NOT love. Guys are done being sugar daddies. Theyre just done. They understood the power dynamics thanks to tech, and media. They got smarter. The same way feminists got smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:36 PM
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Because women are entitled to ask for better because of simps. We see them, fat, small and ask for jacked guys of 6' with money. The sad thing is, these men with her standards will have sex with her, and convince her she has access to them. Then she has a new "minimum", but that pretty boy would never marry or live with her, or be even FRIENDS Smart men see this and understand this is the rigged game. Then refuse to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:27 PM
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Yes, a lot of them would rather steal a man, than talk to one in the street. They cannot be men's leaders in relationship/courtship matter, as long as they incarnate these traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 02:34 PM
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Men did what they had to do in hard times where power was physical violence, and anyone could take anything from you with it . No man in 2025 will be held responsible for this, because it had nothing to do with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:38 PM
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You misunderstand. Most men are good people who go to work to do hard things and are not in jail for doing crimes. To say they are rapists without any proof, is unreasonable. They are innocent until proven otherwise. No matter how whoever feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:33 PM
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In exchange for a useful and wanted tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:23 PM
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Just google it. Its there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:19 PM
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What is this argumentation tactic. Not having data, ask the challengers data, call him a twat if he refuses to cooperate to invalidate him 😂 JESUS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:03 PM
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What do i look like a statistics bureau? Go get them yourself. Press charges agaisnt that minority and leave the rest of us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:00 PM
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Go get it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:45 PM
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Theyre 0.56% of the population. What now? What can you possibly say now? Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:39 PM
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Keep calling men sex offenders when its 0.56% of the male population. Who would chose a woman like that?? Only simps would.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:35 PM
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Yes and they were at work and not in jail! I mean the whole "prove me ur not a sex offender" is ridiculous. Dont you dare call an innocent person a sex offender. Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:28 PM
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I dont owe you anything. Period. Male offenders are 0.56% of male population. Get a grip of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:26 PM
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"The gender who rapes them" Male sex offenders represent 0.56% in the US. Dont you dare call me a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:24 PM
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Of course everyone is free to be paranoid. And im also free to judge paranoid people who treat me unfairly!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:20 PM
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Jokes on you, i never spoke of dominance. Im not here to please you either. A woman invented wifi, excellent! Neither did i affirm that men created every possible technology on earth. That, you interpreted it for yourself with your emotions, and thats 0 my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:19 PM
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The % of sex offenders in the US among male population is 0.56%. Enough said. Fellaz, dont let anyone treat you like a sex offender. EVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:16 PM
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I dont care what terrorized children think of men, who built their whole world, and that allowed them to be the terrified spoiled kids that they are. You speak like im trying to convince people men are good as if the consensus that men are bad and women are angels. Im arguing that surely you cant be that silly to think that most men are criminals. Me having hope you have neurons is what keeps me going. I know you will see clear in your delusion, you just need a lil wakeup. Most men are not crimi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:13 PM
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If you say someone has 1% chance to be a rapist so ur gonna treat everyone like potential rapists, is on you. Men have 0 obligation to oblige into your disproportionate fears
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:43 PM
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Because men simp so hard they drove access to women across the roof. Inflation. Its like men work all their life to get money to then be with a 22 yo silly child just because of her looks. Why did you work all your life for that you loser. Shes not even mature enough to respect you properly. Men, the values of men in general, have tended towards simping, and its biting us back in the ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:42 PM
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Oh i dont care wether you like me or not. If you are scared of people to the point you make claims like men are all potential criminals, you need to socialize more. Get out of the house once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:33 PM
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YOU must be kidding. If you and me have to bet our life savings that your neighbour is a rapist or not, we both know you will chose to gamble hes not. Also every man is innocent until proven guilty, thats just basic. And what kind of mentality is this "the person has a 1% chance to be a rapist so im gonna go ahead and call them a rapist". Just like that woman, you are terrified of people my dude. Go out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:31 PM
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Is your dad in jail because he raped women? No. Is your male neighbour a rapist? No. Most men are law abiding citizen. Nobody is perfect so talking about perfection in this context is irrelevent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:44 PM
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You cant speak to me through an app made by a man and say men are evil. Being a spoiled brat wont make it true either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:40 PM
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So you are telling me most men are criminals??? Is that what you mean??? Are you serious right now??? Im not going to generalise but some women need to grow up past their fears because they make no sense when they meet society. "Most men are criminals" is the most RIDICULOUS claim i have heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:32 PM
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Most men are good. I will never pay for a 1% of criminals. Ever. If you are too scared of men its your problem. Most men are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:27 PM
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Dont care. Doesnt matter. Most men are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:26 PM
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Most men are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:26 PM
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But most men are good. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:25 PM
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Most men are good, period. The gadget you are using was built by a man for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:25 PM
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No. I reject this. You house, your floor, you water, your plumbing, your heating, your ventilation system, businesses, your roads, were all made by men. You need to stop being afraid, of people you take from. Because its either hypocritical or self centered. Im not sure which.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:23 PM
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Most men are good. Period. Men will not shoulder the shame of criminal men. Ever. You are afraid of crazy men, be it. But dont make clean men do things in a certain way because you suslect them to be criminals. Dont insult men, because MOST MEN ARE GOOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:44 PM
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No. Men would walk with boners 24/7 if it were the case. Its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:14 PM
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Wdym how so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:31 PM
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With that same logic, that would make you a lesbian. So this argument goes to the trash can. Again, without makeup, women dont look fabulous, but very normal. They cant call men ugly in that form. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:29 PM
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OR men can realise the truth that without it women are VERY basic, and their cockiness is unfounded. Women's power on that matter, is all based on what men believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:54 PM
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All makeup is about tricking appearances. And women tricked themselves believing theyre far prettier than men when theyre not. In general men have more eyebrows, lashes, and gyms are more crowded by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:21 AM
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Just stop. Litteral men can look like 10s with makeup. How many videos out there show old people can look like in their 20s with all the right makeup techniques. Makeup is an art to trick people. And with that trickery women tricked THEMSELVES thinking theyre better looking than men. Naturally men have more eye brows, lashes, and overcrowd gyms to have better bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:19 AM
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Exactly. And their god is women...kind of tired of religions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:05 AM
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Irrelevant with the topic, you got nothing left. Thanks for showing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:02 AM
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Oh yes it changes the face drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:01 AM
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What do you mean bp is right? Women change what they need and change narrative when it suits them. And clearly you are considered evil for them if you dont abide to their rules Blue pilled are litterally here to fight for people to go back to blue. They dont care about what you learned or what argument you have. Most just want to bring you back to the simping
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:00 AM
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Women think men are ugly because they themselves use make up to distort the reality of their appearance. Without makeup they would act normally, and so would men. There would be so much spread simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:57 AM
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Bluepill is tribalism too, but the tribe is women, and the rules change all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:44 AM
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Dont waste my time. I repeat, women without makeup, look way too basic to be cocky. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:41 AM
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Blue pill = they believe women in all circumstances When women say she wants a guy that provides he believes it and provides her moneu When she then switched to independant and wants a mean that cleans he believes it and provides it. Basically hes a simp, a whipped one. Red pill = he wants the woman to have the traditional role and be super conservative. They are basically old school religious people, relics Purple pilled = realising these 2 groups are just following either a woman or a traditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:19 AM
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Its all the makeup that inflates their ego and creates a distortion about how they really look like naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:07 AM
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With the same logic women finding women prettier is lesbian. Please stay on the topic before you get lost more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:05 AM
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Nope. Yall hairy. Pretending not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:02 AM
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Dating apps, by not lowering standard and not being delusional. Its a human problem, not a technology problem. "Dating apps make me shallow". No. You are shallow. The app isnt the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:53 AM
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No, he just thinks he deserves better because he is not satisfied. Same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:52 AM
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CLEARLY not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:47 AM
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You dont dictate how it works. You THINK you dictate. The only power you have is how much men are willing to believe you. Like i said no makeup no magic. Were all normal homosapiens here, we are all hairy monkeys who learned to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:39 AM
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Take off the makeup and see who is equivalent to who.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:42 PM
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And to my horror, that assumption has been normalised. For men to be considered basic and scum, just because they re not top 10% is UNACCEPTABLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:51 PM
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The problem is, you assume all normal men are sex freaks which is totally wrong. A lot of normal non special men can be very intimate and not talk about your busineness. So either you think yourself as a star that deserves a high value man even for casual, OR you are in delusion thinking normal men are all the same. Either way its superficial or shallow, chose your poison.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 10:55 AM
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The problem lies in socializing, not in the video call, with all due respect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:46 PM
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Maybe you feel its akward because you are holding back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:38 PM
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By actually meeting men in safe places and talk to them. Instead of making assumptions on who he is, with how perfect his online profile is made. Start with a video call. People should video call
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:33 PM
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If women want financial and power in general like men, it means that that biological premises are just garbagio. Some guys like to cook too. That wiring story, just like men wired to chase women, isnjust BS propaganda. Because we would all do it without questionning it like peeing or breathing air
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:59 PM
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Nono you know what i mean. Aiming for the JACKPOT. Which is fine. But whats weird is its not mentioned. While guys are very open about what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:30 AM
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Well people SETTLE. Thats different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 11:29 AM
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Its not nonsensical when women made a business out of marrying rich men to divorce them. To the point laws of divorce have to change. You know whats funny? No woman ever writes on dating apps looks for someone wealthy. It will be a text of all kinds of stuff but no mention of it. Is it done on purpose, covertly? I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:46 AM
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No. The nice guy deserves to talk to other nice guys and be picky, like women and remove the nice guys from the pool. So that nice guys get what they want or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:49 PM
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Its very coherent. Read closely and tell me which part you dont understand, ill help.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:08 PM
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You didnt expect that one eh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:41 PM
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I call it predating male loneliness. He agreed so yeah hes consenting. Technically prostitutes too agree but yet they banned it? Hmmm theres something wrong here. Dont tell me society has financial predatory habits on male loneliness?? 😮 Right now men have no idea. But the day the will do...sheesh. Also, what people normalise is none of my concern. If its weird, its weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:51 PM
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But using men to get free drinks is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:35 PM
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They, like men too, ideally want to secure someone out of their leagues if they can The problem is they think men are ugly hence why they think they deserve more. The technology of makeup created a delusion + singping
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:24 PM
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I agree because most people were peasants. No woman was sitting like a queen siping her rich husbands wine. Not normal ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:45 PM
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I think theres nothing wrong unless its the age you target. If thats the only match you got, why not. But if repeatedly its 20 yo now thats weird. Yet its not a crime. Cougars do the same so....i dont see why anyone would have something to say if cougars are free to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:43 PM
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No. Its people letting others know theres something wrong in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:42 PM
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Agreed, a lot just tell others to do what benefits them, and THATS IT...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:41 PM
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How did your post make it through, being so short and I cant post anything, it keeps getting shut down by mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:20 PM
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Without their makeup, they are "ugly guys" too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:18 PM
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You deciding you are tired of making the first move isnt asocial. We are not wired to do that, its just propaganda. This guy didnt do the first move and like you said they wanted him, or his attention. Hence why tradition and "chivalry" is BS, because knights werent allowed to marry royals. PERIOD. Would a woman wanting you to be social and buying her drinks , would she even bother buying you a drink? Why should you then for someone who doesnt care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:00 AM
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Im down with women's revolution. Actually, them still looking for rich men is still an old school value. Men making the first moves is old school Basically anything annoying is because theyre still traditional. The day women will forget these old school/ religious/ medieval values, the better we will be. Same for men. The sooner theyll stop being trads, the sooner they will stop simping for 18 yo chicks and making the market impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:42 AM
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You talk like women have these standards and its do or d*e. A lot of men are saying, YOU buy us a drink for a change, yall the same and its boring. Some men are done with the classical rules
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:31 PM
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I disagree because else they wouldnt go to bars and clubs that much, knowing before hand they gonna get hit on. They are "selective" also because they dont have the social skills to get a man's number. If they are traditional in the courtship side, they cant hit on who they want, they can only wait and hope. They would rather lose a man that interests them, than taking a chance to talk to him, thats how big their ego is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:44 PM
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There ya go. Expect yourself lucky to have free drinks and enjoy your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:58 PM
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No one has the obligation to marry anyone. If they dont feel whole, theyre free to go elsewhere. Men or women. Now right back at ya, imagine you buy a drink to a woman and she accepts it even tho she has 0 intention of knowing you, and its just taken for granted by the whole society?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 06:17 PM
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100%. The psychotherapist role will be activated when hes a value man. The mental weakness, or the unability to express emotions is a weakness/opening in men women exploit to get closer to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:57 AM
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No. The economic status to get delulu chicks? Its just a bad move. All men are saying is, stop being so picky when you are a normal woman. If you are normal, be normal. Stop that princess BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 04:54 PM
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OF is neither bad neither good. An excess of anything is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:19 PM
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Listen, with men changing and becoming less the gentlemen they used to be "not wanting to listen someone whining" will become bilateral very soon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:44 PM
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Get treated like a man and see how both situations compare. All your male instances of authority were more polite to you, all your life. Men had it different. Women also have no pity for men. And you have, no clue, but no no no imaginable clue. Ur just spoiled by society but you just want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:54 PM
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We need to change as a society with our expectations to gender In other words tradition about the provider and the gentleman has to stop. If we are equals, we are equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:46 AM
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Why would i go to a woman for mental help? Wtf is this post. When men say this they say stop playing victim, because on top of having the expectation of supporting HER he has to support himself and maybe family members. And when hes weak in front of her he becomes ugly. The whole expectation of society is crushing men. Good for you and your little therapy, but its not about just yourself. The problem is societal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:23 PM
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You have no idea of what is a market, and what macro-economy is about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:31 PM
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Because women want 1. European caucasian rich men 2. American ones 3. All the other caucasians, then you have all other immigrants,
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:13 AM
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You are mistaken because you dont know what makeup does to the psyche. Delulu started from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:12 AM
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Oh hell no. You are mistaken my friend. In some distant future where men will wear mascara, see the shift happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:46 AM
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Take away womens makeup...who is the normie now huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:11 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:52 PM
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They just have no libido for normies like you and me and thats the sad truth. Society reinforced that men were providers of lifestyle, therefore women try to leverage this fact and are horny for people with bright futures with 300,000$ + per year living the great life For you and me, meh. Shes gonna feel horny for you maybe half the time if you are lucky. Then shes gonna gaslight you about "its how you make me feel that decide how much i wanna f you". Aka you better make me feel like you deserve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:57 PM
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Sex is a need. If that need isnt fed, depending on the man, he may indeed start disliking her and get horny on other women. If a womans needs arent fed, she will go see elsewhere too. The same way a man can perceive she doesnt want to have sex because she doesnt like him anymore, or doesnt like him as much. In other words, you and I understand womens feelings on that, but it doesnt take out the accountability. They are grown women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:27 PM
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I have no issue understanding the dilemma. If you dont give him what he needs, hes a roommate. The man feels like a roommate and the man go sees someone he can be more than a roommate with or gain sex from. Even if shes behind a screen. That too stems from an emotion. Its not always mens job to respond to females emotions. Both have to engage towards each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:21 PM
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If shes not in the mood a lot and she has a problem that he watches porn...then she thought she could control the man with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:04 AM
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Yes. "Therefore women are hard to get" or "its mens job to do this and that" is bs. All it means, ur not hot enough for them. Thats where inflation and market value comes in. Currently even mid ones play that game of "ur not enough"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:49 PM
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They wont act difficult at all with successful men. People i know told me. Its night and day and you have no idea my friend. Imagine what a guy would do ....lusty and bold...yeap. but you wont hear about it. Heck you will marry one and never know she did that She will make your life harder when she made the life of that other dude easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:15 PM
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They will hide it from normal guys like you and me. For some other i know, women are the ones who will give their number directly, and guys being like "wtf"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:41 PM
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They wont be necessarily upfront. Women from all tempers will go to them, each in their fashion of approaching a man, even if they didnt think they were able. Thing is most men arent that good looking, clean, fit, fashionable, rich, nice, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:17 PM
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Women are attracted very much to men, but some specific ones who can make their lifestyle better. As simple as that. If you have what they want, they will be the ones catcalling you. Its just most normal guys arent these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:06 PM
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Oh yes there is, is to let the market crash when its overvalued!!! Not accept these unreasonable terms, and let these women be lonely, until a good one shows up. Even if no one shows up, its better than selling your soul and being cornered. Men need to understand their value doesnt come from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:45 PM
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You've GOT to be joking. Men have no such choice. Thats why they like every woman they can on dating apps, because they KNOW no one wants them. Desperation. Women have so much choice they go into "i want one with such measures and such assets" Women can afford to not shoot their shot. Thats how much choice. Now you talk about standards not low enough for men. What do you want, for every man you want to compromise for you, even high value ones? Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:22 PM
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To starve the man sexually, in an attempt to control the dynamic of the relationship, knowing he already committed and cant go back. Thats what it is. Control. Because hed want it more than her. For that to happen, women chose purposefully men who love them more than she loves him. Hence why "no i dont make the moves as a woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:27 AM
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With that same logic, we can say of course, the information about the next scientific breakout on how to travel to the speed of light too is available, it is only ours to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:37 PM
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The day ill see a woman ask a number to a man in the street, then ill be willing to compromise. For now women have men doing wtv they want. "Where are the good men at" "men i want never approach me" Did you ask his number? "Screw that im too shy" facepalm. When you need something at the grocery store you go get it. U font wait for it to land on your table. Men are completely changing their personality to try to please atm. Its pathetic. Dont ask more please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:22 AM
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Just trying to dodge inflammatory labels. Obviously theres nothing spiritual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:54 PM
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Im not even red pill, but thanks for your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:33 AM
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Limiting inflammatory content
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:27 AM
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Then ill tell you what red pillers say to these women, "you dont bring nothing to the table" The irony
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 11:10 PM
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I still dont see any arguments. Dont come here empty handed guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:47 PM
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Being hustled by women is not a joke. Red pillers attack real concepts of women wanting to be treated like 1940, but they have none of the skills. You call that a fair trade? Heck even divorce laws changed in the USA and China. So your arguments that rely solely on impressions and emotions, they could need some rework and deeper analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:12 PM
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Clearly you missed what red pill were about. Red pill are about: if you want queen treatment, you better make daddy a sandwich. If shes promiscuous, shes not a queen, for red pillers, because the promiscuity will, without a doubt, put a constant threat on the family's stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:23 PM
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Thats not an attitude for a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:21 PM
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No erection tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:32 PM
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If for you men should be controlled by the law and women are free to do what they want, is fair, clearly theres a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:41 AM
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Whats your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:19 AM
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Is status quo any better? How about an upgrade?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 08:36 PM
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Male libido gets disciplined by the law, but women do wtf they want...Matriarch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:42 PM
1

Yep. You will leave your man who just wants to check TV because you know some other man will take you on a vacation. Knowing you may have better options will make you move around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:12 PM
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Then why prostitution is banned when sugar daddy for women is totally okay?? I believe the matriarch clearly has a grip on male lbido.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 11:46 AM
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They dont care. If hes sexy or wealthy is what matter If hes too kind she takes him for granted and puts him in her "followers" bucket. Thats why the asshole seams AUTHENTIC to them. They think every nice guys tries to be nice to fuck them. And this is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:23 AM
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No. If i tell you you have to do all these things for 2$ / hour and you get shitty conditions, its not worth the squeeze. You are saying "just do what they want and ull stop being single". Its like showing off a carrot and we know the deal sucks. Guys are done with this carrot. Its not only my word, its men stopping to approach women in the street as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:10 AM
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Thats not an argument of debate. Sex is weaponized by women and its known.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:36 PM
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Then she must confess shes not attracted anymore. As he suspected it and left after 2 weeks of unjustified dryness between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:06 PM
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Obviously stuff happens. Im talking about the "ahh not tonight." "Im tired" "im stressed". Having sex with the one you love should RELIEVE you from all the stress. Unless you dont really love him and its a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:46 PM
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Sex shouldnt be affected. Sex is the proof of love. If you stop having sex, it means you are starting to consider maybe someone else aka there is no more love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:45 PM
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Im open to discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:43 PM
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If she doesnt want to have sex with you, she doesnt love you and she is using you for : survival, social status, or whatever. Even if she "loves you", weaponizing sex to gain what she wants from you is NOT love. Someone loving would communicate. In total, if small stuff makes her dry, means all the good that you bring has been nullified. All the good of the relation has been canceled. She considers these disagreements as bigger than all the good together. 2 weeks no sex, i breakup any relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:52 AM
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Whats your argument? Im open for discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:07 AM
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It tells you who likes you in general so you can go retrieve them. Thats how guys know no one likes them statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:28 PM
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Its not because a man COULD have sex with a woman, that they are not friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:07 PM
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No, digital dating exposed how humans select partners : "heres the dating pool, and I will try to match the BEST of this dating pool", instead of going for whats compatible. Apps reveal how people can truly be shallow. It was the human nature that was discovered. Apps are simply tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:08 PM
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One more than the other though, hence to whole unfairness callout. Its never a 0-100% point out. Unbalanced is enough to get pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:50 PM
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Tradition is dying, and immigrants with old school values enter the USA, hold the tradition line.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:09 AM
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What if theyre married but incompetent and not responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:49 PM
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Exactly, its tradition from an old world not everyone want to keep perpetuating. Some traditions can disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:10 PM
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These values dont fall from the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:02 PM
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Someone who says that marriage is important before kids, has religious parents or grand parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:03 PM
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It is still a remnant custom of monotheistic religions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:54 PM
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Marriage is a religious value ultimately. And religion is a personal thing. What kids need is good parents. Not a marital status. Im not sure what you mean by pick me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:46 PM
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You mean marriages work most of the time? Hell no. Idk when you got these statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:53 PM
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Thats manipulation and exactly what women are doing. By not lifting a finger and going princess mode. Dont do the same please, else this subreddit has no real purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:26 PM
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When shes gonna initiate divorce like 56% of marriages, hes gonna come back here and vent. We are all human.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:18 PM
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In a perfect world yes. In a world where women fear missing out, its called hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:06 PM
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Just in case do your research. Never trust someone 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:48 PM
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And she will become your next headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:46 PM
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What other neurodivergents are proposing them directly or indirectly. Actually any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:23 PM
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The moment you will not be the hottest neurodivergeant in the room, she will make you work harder to earn her. Because she will always have the fear of missing out in the back of her head.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:49 PM
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They have too much choice in their dms, they have no reason to make the moves. Let them be, if all of it was just saucages who wanted to pump n dump, shes gonna assume the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:23 PM
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The top 10% rich chads? No idea what are their values. Elon Musk impregnated many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:09 PM
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All i know is that religion as a regime failed miserably in different parts of the world. So lets leave religious values in church. For multiple partners, most men have trouble securing 1. Our top 10% fellaz who keep the ladies on their toes worked way too hard to skip on all what life has to offer. Is it even possible to be possessive of multiple partners? I would like to know. If yes, maybe polyamory could be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:47 PM
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Yes i question all these traditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:23 PM
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If not making the first move is a choice agreed upon among women, but when hes top 10% she will jump on him, its clearly a power dynamic. Because normal men, muggles, with no outstanding attributes will have to chase her just so she accepts them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:32 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:08 PM
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Its not because people do with current situations that these situations are good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:04 PM
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You missed the point completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:03 PM
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Choice in partners. Hence why chosing the one who is the most obsessed over her is safe. But thats not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:56 AM
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Haha. Not getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:19 AM
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Things you cant control arent fair. Those you can control can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:15 AM
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To manipulate is to trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:12 AM
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They do the first move, chase, and bend the knee like a knight in front of royalty. When she wont chase him. Thats power yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:11 AM
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Yes we want to survive, and some will trick. But fairness is also an expectation even from animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:08 AM
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What do you mean by doesnt exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:07 AM
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What opression? Im talking about possibility of psychological dominance, especially when you are not her plan A.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:53 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:33 PM
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Women arent submissive during the relation. Its not reality. I dont want women to be submissive, and for example, to be forced to have sex when they dont want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:41 PM
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I think there are hidden truths worth uncovering
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:31 PM
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Thats not love ...thats trickery. Keeping someone for a personal goal. If you love the person they should be aware of the reality, and still love you, if they really do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:30 PM
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Manipulation makes love more of an issue* you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:43 PM
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If she is lowkey dominant, and making you bend the knee is to assert dominance, would you want to know, instead of just following culture? I would want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:42 PM
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I would rather accept the truth. Only the truth matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:32 PM
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Yeah but lets be honest in a scenario where 2 people dont objectify each other and actually love each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:26 PM
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Yes normal men are muggles who are not special. Maybe thats why they make em bend the knee, because they have no reason to like them initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:06 PM
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Its not because shes giving a blowjob, that she is not in control of the dynamic. She can be very merciful to her servant. It doesnt mean it comes from a place of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:02 PM
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Im open to discussion, you want to say during the relationship they will balance it out. But thats not what im talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:36 PM
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I think its not true. Hot rich men get hit on, and women dm him first. On the other hand she will make you struggle to have her. A treatment reserved for male muggles
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:34 PM
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Yes sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:28 PM
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Doesnt matter, she made him kneel while he just wanted her. She got him + made him kneel as a servant (knights are servants to royalty. Knights dont have the right to marry royals)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:25 PM
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Knowing most women initiate divorces, i dont think they do at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:23 PM
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Not when some bevahiours have become unquestionned culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:21 PM
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I think they use men as validation to other people. The guy who kneeled, is a stepping stone to other goals, since its a power relation. I see it as, shes so desired he has the right to put his name on her so other men backoff. In exchange she gets everything she wants from him. Unbalance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:06 PM
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Because the rules are already laid out. Today im challenging the rules themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:57 PM
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You are just saying men manipulate and thats why they are not bending the knee really, thats dishonest. Im not talking about what you can obtain through fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:57 PM
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Why the knee? Bending was an act from servants to royals. When you think about it, everything demonstrates shes in control of him. He chases her, initiates, etc. He puts his name on her to tell OTHER MEN to backoff. She is somehwat winning the trade. "I have so much choice, just being exclusive to you means you are my servant"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:47 PM
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When a woman cant even reach out because "its not her job" then yes its a first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:06 PM
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Im glad power is not what you seek!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:05 PM
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Then it IS a power dynamic that is attractive to women. But its not love. Its power.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:56 PM
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How about awareness about these things as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:55 PM
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To bend the knee is submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:45 PM
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You want power. Thats not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:45 PM
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Then lets let men stop initiating, and bending knees and she doesnt get her name erased. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:44 PM
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Any inbalance in power wether on the mans side or the womans side is ugly. How about no one is submissive, and men dont bend knees For sure it looks nice to whoever is winning. Its selfish... If hes winning her, but she needs him to kneel on top of having him....its wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:40 PM
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You are saying "these are the rules but do your own thing alone" how about challenging these rules as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:39 PM
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Then how about i dont make the first move, dont bend the knee, and you dont lose your name? No power dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:37 PM
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How about you dont take my name, and i dont bend the knee, and i dont make the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:37 PM
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Yeah the men who want submissive wives are real red pillers. But they dont realise women have the inner ambition to be as powerful or MORE powerful than any man. But people settle. They chose their plan B. Because plan A has too much choice and didnt chose em back. But overall the objectification initially is there...and in modern dating it lingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:59 AM
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The expectation of a man providing while women work, IS the paradox, because its in brain. Its not 1940 but women will still expect men to do manly things. So yes women want to be "safe" by having a man with good $$$. That said, with time they realise and settle down. Just like men settling down for a woman who is not the prettiest. But overall even women with money have the reflex of checking if he makes money, like we are still in 1940
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:06 AM
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Nobody spoke about being with any women. Women make their own money and still objectify mens ressources still in their selection process
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:28 PM
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Under a bell curve, most men objectify her body; most women objectify his ressources + social status. The random other cases are the sides of the bell curve, less occurent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:38 PM
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There are many random occurences and lets not get lost in random contexts. If we draw a bell curve, most men objectify womens appearances, and most women objectify ressources + social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:36 PM
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There are. But lets see statistics under a bell curve, and not look at extremes based on random contexts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:34 PM
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Some men dont wanna fake liking her for sex. Thats a hard truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:21 PM
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Yes but hes rich. Thats the hypocrisy. Women do it, its fine cause hes rich. Men who arent rich cant be sugar daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 10:20 PM
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It is objectification. A moving wallet for a goal. For the guy, shes a sex doll for his goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:30 PM
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No. Women are using sugar daddies, currently, but men cant use prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 04:29 PM
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Of course it is. Many men dont want to pretend to be interested in her to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:07 PM
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Exactly both acts exchange what they want according to what the objectify. One is punished by law. It only shows male objectification is punished. But female objectification is fine. Are we living in a matriarchy? Is what im wondering
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:06 PM
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Living in shit is not an alternative. Clean the place and then sleep comfy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:59 AM
1

One preference is illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:41 AM
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Yes but they are not arrested by the cops like a man would for a hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:39 AM
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If you want to stop debating feel free. Im open.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:31 AM
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Men dont objectify womens ressources nearly as much. Men objectify womens bodies Its all about statistics. Theres an occurence of everything. But the overwhleming stats are : men for her body, her for ressources
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:04 PM
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Zoom out. Im talking about women objectifying mens ressources as the main element jn the bell curve. Inside this population, and on the extreme side they will do surgery. Even if they dont do surgery, most still objectify mens ressources.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:22 PM
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Im not talking about exceptions. If there was a model of a bell curve, what you are talking about are the outsides. The main of the curve is the objectification of his ressources
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:26 PM
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Some will settle due to time frame limits. But it doesnt change the fact that women will do surgery to access these rich dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:01 PM
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Its not dream land, they did it for weed. Women want to be free of objectifying a mans ressources, but want to deny men from objectifying their body. Thats CONTROL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:25 PM
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There is no trafficking when its regulated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:39 PM
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The prostitute is clearly consenting in a regulated sector. Like everything else. Grown women make their own choices, and they dont need the grasp of the matriarchy to decide what to do with their bodies Lets keep christian values in sunday church
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:09 PM
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I think like anything else, it can be regulated. The way women fight hard against prostitution but are totally okay with sugar daddy is the real hypocrisy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:05 AM
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Sugar daddy is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:02 AM
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To think most men are criminals in our society, and that most would grape you is not realistic. Its paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:04 AM
1

It is not ILLEGAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:40 AM
1

Exactly, when it suits them its okay, thats my point. I like it when we both double down on it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:06 PM
5

You would prefer a bear than a man??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:06 PM
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What is this attitude? You ask people their opinion then you insult them for not having the conclusion you hoped.... Thats not okay OP...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:55 PM
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Says who i didnt read the article? I read the article. Nothing in this pages gave me enough material to change my mind. I would still chose a man over a bear. More chances for the man to have morals, than the bear to have morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:53 PM
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If i was a woman, id prefer meeting a man, OBVIOUSLY. Assuming most men will rape or kill you is unbelievable. I cant believe people would assume this and prefer a bear. As if the standard male is a rotten animal Who do you think we are? I dont care that a small proportion of men are criminals. Dont you dare call me a rapist and a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:44 PM
1

Dont you agree that sex is transactional because its risky? Might as well sell it for something worth the risk of pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:30 PM
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Of course if she has choice she will take both. But broke men can be physically fit, so physique is not that important, generous wealth is harder to come by
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:29 PM
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For cheap amounts of money, its like she sold out the team. If she goes sugar daddy mode, then its better because she extracts a lot more in exchange Thats the shaming. Not because of the act. But the amount she traded sex for. Thats the shame people put on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:01 PM
1

Lol meat shields, sounds even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:00 PM
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In the rules of the sub itself? I never paid attention. Which ones 😮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:38 PM
2

In the modern context they dont, but they still go after it, thats what i want to debate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:23 PM
2

Then why shame and ban one and not the other
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:22 PM
1

They seemed to think that until trump changed divorce laws recently
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 01:20 PM
2

Then you see that one side is more advantaged
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:36 PM
-1

Sorry i cant relate. I know about men having to do the manual labor to be chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:32 PM
0

No thats what women tell each other so he doesnt cheat. "Pick an uglier one because he will compensate with his money, and he has no other option if you threaten to leave"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:08 PM
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Not in many places. Even when legal, its actively shamed. But sugar daddy, its totally okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:07 PM
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Nope, but they will only date people who make 100k + They are currently having a hard time, because they in fact objectify ressources
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:54 AM
2

What about women and sugar daddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:06 AM
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Sugar daddies acceptable, hookers illegal. Dont you think thats some hard matriarchy work?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:04 AM
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You like simps because you like feeling powerful, and you can extract ressources EASILY. No coincidence there Same way having a sugar daddy is not shamed, but going to prostitutes is ILLEGAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:00 AM
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No, the sugar baby extracts way more and doesnt have to give body if she doesnt want to. Prostitution on the other hand is illegal. Is this a hidden matriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:58 AM
-1

How is that fair when hookers are illegal Hidden matriarchy pulling the strings?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:57 AM
2

"But if hes generous with his ressources and caring hes a 10"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:49 AM
0

I would believe it, but then they have ambition too. So they getting the best of all worlds. Getting sugar daddies, while you are not allowed by law to visit hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:45 AM
1

Why is having a sugar daddy okay, but hooker are illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:43 AM
5

Then why having a sugar daddy acceptable, but going for hooker litteraly ILLEGAL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:43 AM
0

Prostitution is clearly illegal, and having a sugar daddy clearly acceptable. I see an imbalance here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:42 AM
1

Then why are they first line against prostitution when having a sugar daddy is acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:42 AM
1

For ressources first. I even heard "chose ugly ones because they compensate with their money"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:41 AM
1

What about it? They still objectify men for ressources, and women making 100k a year are having a bigger hard time finding someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 10:31 AM
-2

Exactly, why prostitutes is shamed while getting a sugar daddy is totally acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:16 AM
4

Does one has honor only because it serves a womans interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:14 AM
1

Some women lowkey objectify men just as much for their ressources than men for their appearances
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 12:18 PM
-1

What a waste of time. Besides, if we were in 1940 yes men would have the duty to approach women because they werent allowed to be full members of society and were just home doing chores. Now that they can work they have the full economic force of men. This 1940 model of man that has to chase is over. They have it in them to want to be as powerful as men, so there is no courtesy to do about approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:42 AM
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The same 10% of men who practice approaching women, have defined what men are to most women, in their experience. So women believe we are that type of animal who will approach as soon as he finds a woman attractive. If i approach every woman i find attractive i will never get to where i was supposed to go in the first place. Ill be late to work every day. The sad thing is women believe they get approached because they are especially beautiful. Whereas these men just hit on mostly anything to pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:38 AM
2

Absolutely not. She could be taken. Thats why approaching women in the street is not efficient
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:34 AM
0

Personally, if a woman thinks im a 5, its her own problem. She doesnt define me. Also as a man, beauty is important but not to that extent, because too much beauty and nothing else does nothing for me. Also these poor women get butchered with surgeries to attract men but all they do, is look like sex dolls, and nothing more. And they attract men who will treat them as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:09 AM
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This is the way. Also the problem of "seeking the best of the dating pool" will always be there, instead of who is their type.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:20 PM
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Its not about Pagan or Christian. Its about how hard the simping goes in male circles. As long as men keep simping for women just to sex then, there will always be a problem. This simping also blurs women as of how men really are. They all think men are these chasers and hunters like these same 10% men who practice talking to women and have all their prepared pickup lines and psychological tricks to fool her. Women think men are all like these dudes. Dressing classy for photoshoots etc. just boo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:48 PM
1

We cant assume that women would never do that job. Theres all kinds of people. Lets leave christian values in church.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:23 AM
1

Assuming women would never do sex work by their own choice is propaganda. Theres all kinds of people. Lets leave christian values in the church.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:21 AM
1

Some men dont want to pretend they want to know her. Besides, most men make the woman drink to bed her, which is shady af if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:20 AM
1

Oh yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:18 AM
1

Most women are thirsty for the top 10% of men unfortunately. Thats a fact, so people adapt without changing who they are, because changing isnt always worth the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:17 AM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:16 AM
1

Another woman/man can decide she wants to sell her body for a price. Alcohol, weed, is like sex, they legalized it but not prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:16 AM
1

In general, looking for validation in women is bad business. Some would pay to not have to interact, or simply to know the price quick and get done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:54 AM
0

Find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:41 AM
1

True, or end up divorced after a 50k$ marriage. Being with someone will not automatically bring you happiness...and certainly not sex. You have to be somewhat whole, then SHARE your happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:01 AM
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You missed the point there buddy hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:22 PM
1

Fear is the main driver. They fear strangers so much, they chose friends of friends, less risks. And its smart...you dodge psychos. The thing is, it optimizes something in detriment to something else
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:18 PM
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It is NOT your looks fellas. There is an inflation in the dating market where there is too many men for each women so she has so much choice! Dont make the mistake to mix your self esteem in this. You do not need to change, for people you dont even know, or even like you. If you change its because of yourself FOR yourself. These ladies DO-NOT-DEFINE-YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:18 PM
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Oh, i thought you understood when i said women jump on top 10% of men and being 6ft+, and a lawyer isnt enough to catch their attraction to be in that 10%. They have so much choice you wont even match in casual with anyone, like the majority of men on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 06:54 PM
1

Some dont want to engage to get laid. Some dont want a relationship at all. Some just want a blast.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:44 PM
1

I think we understood each other perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:42 PM
2

What they believe is their belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:58 PM
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Guys 6ft+, lawyers, dont land anything on tinder and such apps. Women fight for the top 10%. Its clear. Massive inflation in the dating market. You will have to be a lot more just to please someone very normal...thats the current market.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:57 PM
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Because you have no frame of who you are and who you want to be according to your own standards, for now... You will find yourself eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:50 PM
1

Yeap same for me. I dont want kids, neither a relationship per say. Im good with friends with benefits, but it doesnt match what my locals value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:29 PM
1

Oh no, some dont even want to date or have a conversation. They dont want to pretend to care about her favourite color
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:22 PM
1

Yesss
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:21 PM
1

Exactly. But if you are single and want to afford something transactional, no no no we dont have that in our "pure" society I think the church is still among us when it comes to sex. Lets leave religion in churches in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:53 PM
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Women are right about they want and need, in other words they define whats a good man FOR THEM. but in NO WAY they define what is a GOOD MAN, to YOU. To her, you may be a total loser she wont look at. But in the eyes of the universe, you may be a total LEGEND.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:48 PM
2

Exactly. If its not taboo on camera, but we accept the concept, just accept it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:36 PM
1

I dont see anything on google with a star rating like a spa salon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 12:45 PM
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Women on tinder certainly dont need that extra lust anyway. Instead of saying it wont change a thing, because there is no real data and no real survey, let us make the change so we can see the real changes it will make. Not theories but real change
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:28 AM
1

Its illegal in australia overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:12 AM
1

Who knows? Right now male lust is trapped. Hence why men pay sick money for OF pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:11 AM
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I dont think so. Use protection for STD and dont kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:08 AM
0

Its just images
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:06 AM
1

I mean thats what people tell us...except hookers themselves. Its so stigmatized because of christian values. Keep religion in church.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:06 AM
1

I cant book it like a massage, from a google search, in my local town
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:04 AM
1

There is no "just sex" category
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:03 AM
1

As long its not real cocaine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:47 AM
1

No hard drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:39 AM
1

Red pillers were right about divorce though. The law has been changed. They did draw some attention and made some things move. It wasnt all negative
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:39 AM
1

A secure building with security, like any business. Like you go to the dentist taking an appointment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:37 AM
1

Regulate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:33 AM
1

Let them look down, they can keep religion in churches
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:33 AM
1

Right now i cant book it like a massage nearby. Google doesnt show me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:30 AM
1

Why there only? Why are they better than us?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:29 AM
2

That is simply not true. You will spend but the price is different. Its in energy form. Socialisation, flatter her, buying her drinks, take her out etc. and she will most likely get attached, doing in that fashion, when truly they dont care. Some want to know the price upfront, pay, leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:38 PM
1

Hard drugs of course not, because it has physiological direct destructive effects. But we need more data on legal regulated prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:24 PM
1

I wasnt able to find any data.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:17 PM
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Its too niche. Maybe there is a lobby against it. Who knows. I want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:16 PM
1

I wasnt able to find any study
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:15 PM
0

Some people dont want to pretend they are interested in the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:14 PM
0

Some people dont want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:05 PM
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I dont want to control people in that way. Im saying let the market be the market. Use regulations to protect the people, not to favour one sex versus the other....what is this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:04 PM
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Not enough for the current demand i would argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:02 PM
2

No its doing it with a real woman who is willing for a price
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:46 PM
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They dont want to pretend theyre interested
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:34 PM
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1.Thats not an attitude to approach a debate. Its not about being successful, because success isn't tied to sex. Its time men dissociate women with success or self esteem attached to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:22 PM
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In a regulated market there is no such exploitation. If its illegal then yes there will be people in the shadows making the law. Some people would use that service, men and women on either end of that trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:18 PM
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There is no survey yet regarding these places
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:16 PM
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Yeah but since we know there is a conflict of interest due to legislation, why leave it there. It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:34 PM
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Tried to look the out comes, i ran ai searches but couldnt find any. As if its not documented enough to know the impacts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:25 PM
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Nahhh its not about the humiliation. Its just horny people. Nothing personal. Litterally nothing personal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:02 PM
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Some dont some do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:53 PM
2

Ask red pillers what they think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:52 PM
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Debate!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:51 PM
0

I suspect there is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:42 PM
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Who knows? To get a blowjob for 50 euros, who is to say men dont want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:42 PM
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There is no survey, none. Not enough data. Ran all ai to search. There is just none.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:40 PM
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You are telling me, currently this is how it is, deal with it. It is this way, until it isnt anymore. Its important to discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:39 PM
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I wanna see the proof
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:36 PM
0

I like discussing for change
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:34 PM
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Not all. Ask red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:34 PM
2

I know lol, but who is deciding for us these conditions we live in. Theyre probably dead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:33 PM
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Its about change, and release of the grip on male lust
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:17 PM
2

Thats wanting validation. Some men dont need that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:14 PM
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What about guys who pretend to love you then dump you after they got what they wanted. Some at old age
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:59 PM
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Yeah but talking about it helps to see and understand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:26 PM
3

Illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:05 PM
2

And women framed and dumped old? Cool solutions team. We need to talk more seriously about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:05 PM
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Theres no data anywhere, no survey, no nothing. I asked Grok3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:04 PM
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When regulated, things become different. "Take it or leave it" is never a solution. Talking about it is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:03 PM
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People who want sex exclusively, for them, is there an open market? There isnt. Male lust is trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:02 PM
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No, i want male lust to be freed, also so women dont get dumped old by a lusty man who saw booty elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:58 PM
2

This is a false solution. Just like when divorce allowed women to take half his assets. "Take it or leave it". Change the laws and oops, rules changed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:37 PM
2

Yes i speak for myself and what i think
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:35 PM
0

How do we even know if its crap, its so sketchy. Its not like booking a massage exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:30 PM
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Give them the chance to chose
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:29 PM
2

Its a control on male lust
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:28 PM
1

It could be considered as assault
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:20 PM
1

Allow these men to go in the market they belong to, and not on the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:06 PM
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Obviously women want to keep it this way, it provides so much attention, even if hes framing her just to sex her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:04 PM
2

Read my second paragraph closer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:48 PM
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In the text i describe men are using women on the dating scene, and dumping them. Or worse, they are framing them to make them think they are in love and dumping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:46 PM
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The only noble thing is your misinterpretation. This thread is about the dating market, not prostitutes social benefits. Thats another subject completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:39 PM
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There is no way you are saying men should keep framing women making think theyre in love just to sex them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:36 PM
1

Im open to better ideas, let me hear yours
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:35 PM
0

You dont really care in other words. Poor boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:07 PM
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Men associate success with women as self esteem or success in life. Its time they detach from these harmful, low ambition beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:41 PM
0

And you enjoy it so much. One day it will be your son settling for a chick who doesnt deserve him. See how you like it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:28 PM
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And simps serve only as catalysts and making society think women are the prize. Totally matrixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 01:09 PM
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Absolutely. A man with self esteem doesnt need to sex you to feel whole. This thing is an inflated market
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:40 PM
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For all the wrong reasons. Simps. Then women build their self esteem when on fact they are going to get pumped and dumped. Its not a real value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 12:30 PM
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Some men use women as validation. To flex they sexed her, or to show other women he is worth it, so he can attract them too. Or to show other men hes bringing sexy back and gain social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:59 AM
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Its time they know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:33 AM
0

Actually they dont. Most of them seek validation through sex and intimacy. So the wrong guys are simping to score and she thinks shes special because men approach her a lot...but for the wrong reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:31 AM
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I agree, because since women date higher in hierarchy, YOU are the prize 🏆, my man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:26 AM
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Women jump on top 10% men. As simple as that. In that 10%, these men spent their lives building themselves. So they will fuckaround qnd break hearts. Its cheap if you are the top 10%. If not, ur gonna have to grind, and change yourself to start pleasing them. They are definitely hypergamous. Go check divorces rate women/women couple, versus men/men couple. The difference is insanely obvious who are the hypergamous ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:41 AM
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If you are fighting for the same 10% of men, there are serious questions to be asked. How identical can you be in your selection process? Stereotypes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:46 AM
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Easy and cheap to access? Escorts are not healthy. Also Tell that to dead dating apps filled with men struggling just to match. I think your vision doesnt take in account the released supply of escorts that will join the market. If prostitution gets legalized and as public as setting up a massage appointment, you better believe OF will crash. No more paying for pictures. Its very simple economics. Open the supply, and the demand will be absorbed. Then we will know, who really looks for love, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:28 AM
2

It is clearly not the same, and a lot of men will easily argue about the inflation in the market, and all the efforts they have to make. A lot would prefer to know the price beforehand and deal with professionals instead of malnourished, drug addicted and abused women. This whole market is to be redone, and well. If they legalized weed, its just a matter of time for prostitution. Also, it is time we accept that a lot of men just want sex, and dont want to pretend to be in love. The sooner this h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:47 PM
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Legalize prostitution and see the supply of hookers skyrocket and the price they demand go down. Take off all sex oriented men and leave dating to people who want to date. I think its the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:46 PM
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Women fight hard to keep it illegal. Because the black market exploit kids. But what about legal brothels. You can take a rendez vous for a massage, why not for that? And legally, without hiding and asking masseuse for a happy ending, while she looks at you horrified To some extent, women might not want men to leave the dating market to get easy sex. Some just hate that men could get it easily
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:16 PM
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If i dont have sex in 2 weeks i quit any relationship. After 4 weeks i break any marriages hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:16 PM
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What if brothels and prostitution was closed to men, legally, just to enslave men's horniness into relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:23 PM
1

Hard disagree. To me, in this situation shes in total control. Thats why they chose these guys in the first place. The guy that wants to sex her more than she wants to sex him. That way she can threaten to leave, and tame the guy to make him adopt the wanted behaviour. Whipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:09 PM
1

Its the same principle, do you have to be the one initiating? Do you have to be the hungry one and not her in bed? Dead starfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:44 PM
1

You need to chase her because you are her plan B. She already did all the dirty for free with plan A, who ditched her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:12 AM
1

You need to chase her because you are her plan B. She did all the dirty for free with the plan A. He just had too much choice and ditched her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:11 AM
2

Some men make women want to jump on them. Heck, some men make women ask for THEIR number. In the dynamic where you have to chase and make efforts, shes in control. Some women simp for their Plan A, and make plan B grind his ass to earn her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:56 PM
6

Smells like red flag. They cant provide some for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:23 PM
4

Tbh at least feminists communicate. They dont give you attitude and wait for you to understand the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:01 PM
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Because of the dating game. There is an inflation. Women get so much choice, men have to do so much, for someone maybe not even worth their time. Its like women hold so much choice, "if you dont give me that entertainment, lifestyle, ill ditch you because the 6 other men in my dms will give me that" thats the indirect message. So men seek out more rewarding ventures, where they dont have to sell their soul just to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:54 PM
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This attitude is not the way to have an honest conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:13 PM
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If you think trump is more authoritarian than what Biden was doing around the globe with the democrats, you are not aware. Telling people how to speak and force pronouns THATS authoritarian. Like Jordan Peterson said, it was a first in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:43 PM
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Authoritarians are the dangerous ones. Because they try to control people from whatever party they are from and impose themselves. I dont consider trump as an authoritarian. Hes not operating a dictatorship regime, like our friends kim and vladimir
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:20 PM
5

Yes, the whole dating game will change, since roles changed, and the game is slowly changing with men not dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 01:04 PM
3

You are just saying "women want the game to be played like this". Apparently men said "i got better games at home!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:28 PM
1

Maybe thats why women think most men are ugly...interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:38 AM
3

I agree men do it, but once they understand they are free. The hard part in realizing that no, even if that very normal girl has 12 guys lined up for her, she is still normal. Her perception of view, or womens perception of view doesnt make the value of a man. They could be totally wrong about you. They only try to spot what is in their advantage. Go serve a better purpose brother. Go serve the universe. Not women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:17 PM
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Okay i understand that using that "dirtbag" energy got you a chick. But in the end , you couldnt hold the character because its not you. And she noticed probably. Also, i know its important to you you are loved. But its better to not do that only for validation, i believe. Its an experience, but i would say, if women like one archetype only, its on them to miss all a shy guy bring. Being shy also means being reserved. And its classy!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:32 AM
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Why cant women approach men? I think "the game" is rigged, and i think men know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:43 PM
1

Agreed, but blocking immigration at 100% and being racist wont change the dating problem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:59 AM
2

The dating game is messed up in every country, so its not an immigrant thing. Even in the western world dating needs a fix
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 07:01 PM
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Oh i very well understand OP is giving tips about how to play the game. She has good intentions, i have no doubt. Men are here, also, because they have a problem with the game. Some want to discuss it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:30 PM
1

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:45 PM
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You are just saying "men are complaining so they really want us, hence we should keep hustling them" During seduction, women dont do 1/2. In fact this is where they try the negotiate everything they can and see if she can pull that much out of him, and him not breaking. And since she does no moves, its like she is maximising control, and confidence she can be the one threatening to leave. Thats not love, to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:09 PM
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In other words "take it or leave it". Its gonna be leave it!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:52 PM
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Women have so much choice they ask men to try even harder than they already are. There is a limit to the energy men will put into something or someone before they shift to something else. Especially if the woman, as a person, is normal. Its her amount of choice makes her negociate harder. Is she really worth all that energy and ambition? I cant say for sure. Women wont evolve to reach out to a man in general. Men have to evolve like crazy for...what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:24 PM
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Indeed! If some men dont reproduce then women are to marry twice...or have babies from different partners. If thats not the case....the same amount of women wont reproduce... Unless they settle for what they have For Disney, i believe Disney is only pointing out what is happening already
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:58 PM
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But that would mean no woman on earth would do short term dating, if it was that proportional. But thats not the case. Women are free to have multiple partners in their lives, and they do...probably more than men since they have a lot of choice in their messages Contraception is huge game changer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:26 PM
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Actually heres a screenshot of Grok3 analysing different sources and saying women dont necessarily have more libido <image> Libido is usually self reported in statistics. Which can be skewed in societies where women are shamed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:31 PM
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I agree and disagree. Its good to have a filter that helps to know if you are appreciated. But money can be a bad one. I heard in the past "the more a man loves you, the more he spends on you" and it gave way to really toxic, gold digging stuff as entitlement and routine came in. The girl gets used to it, and expects more and more till bank account hits 0$
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:23 AM
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Agreed. Women have more DMs so the guy has to look good...and be like this...be like that...etc, more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:13 AM
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Social skills from both parties is a must If i want to play games, i open video games, and i got sick ones!! Having so much choice and blaming it on biology and evolution is an excuse to not develop the missing social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:30 AM
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Grok3 is a reliable source
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:03 AM
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Grok3 is an Ai searching through many sources at once
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:01 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:00 AM
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Would you want to know more about him? Since hes good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:05 PM
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No man can get you attracted from appearance? I find it hard to believe somehow, even though i dont doubt your integrity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:59 PM
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Yes but you are telling me its because thats women like. What about whst men like? Im sure men like getting approached by women, even if its rarer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:40 PM
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See up, men might not have higher libido
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:37 PM
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<image> Heres the screenshot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:49 PM
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Somewhat, after some research by Grok3, i have found its more nuanced as women downplay their sexuality publically, and it can influence statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:42 PM
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Do men have higher libido really? What if the choice make it easier to hesitate on the partner, knowing he is easily replaceable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:06 PM
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What if they have the same amount as us, but chose who to give it to, because they have so much choice (even if the number of men and women on the planet is even)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:05 PM
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Okay what if women are picky, but still have the same amount of libido as men...?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 07:04 PM
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Now that we have enough offsprings and we are 5 billion...arent these instincts....obsolete?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:23 PM
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Is it the lack of choice that caused this, or the poor standards that caused men to have less choice in the end? The chicken or the egg?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:45 PM
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I think its about who is available in the mating pool. I dont think men go for younger and immature by choice, and same thing for cougars...people and animals go for whatever is available (and best choice) for whatever need they have in that moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:08 PM
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Then id like to see women make moves on men in the street and not expect only the other way around. Are roles and expectations blurred or aren't they? I have to upgrade my EI, do the chasing, do this, do that, when in the end, she has all the DMs and can flip us like jokes. Why is that though? Only because of supply and demand? I thought it would be for values or more noble reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:33 PM
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One option is to buy. The other option is to not buy...if someone else doesnt want you as much as you want them, maybe there is no adaptation to make. Maybe changing/adapting is another way to prop op the market and cause inflation. At some point, the "game" will be overpriced, and the market will eventually fall. This will occur when "adapting" will require so much sacrifice, and poor gains to compensate the sacrifices. Hodling to your values might be the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:48 PM
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I think its just a stock market, full of buyers and sellers. Everyone tries to promote their product as a valuable one, to sell it to the other. "Seduction" or the "game" is being what the other desires, or fancies, or associate fanciness in terms of how you make them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:19 PM
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This is exactly what i believe and feel like. Thank you for the accurate representation, i see why you are a top commentator.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:52 AM
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