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Well it’s men who bully men for being gay. Also, most men don’t even fight for custody. The majority of them isn’t exactly lining up to bother with co parenting. It’s very skewed how you see the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:56 PM
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In the world where Jocko Willinick has a podcast that even I (a woman) enjoy listening to I can’t listen to how there is no male role models, and all of these voices are suppressed with a straight face. It’s an excuse. They could have still found positive influence, but they chose Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:53 PM
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I don’t see it as contradiction, because TRP established that it’s a man’s job to sell himself and a woman’s job to use her bargaining chips to buy the best man she can. Why would we put effort into marketing ourselves as a partner for the activity that ruins us and makes us sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:06 PM
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Any man who wants a woman to be agreeable and understands what exactly it means is looking to exploit her. That’s what agreeableness means - willingness to get exploited. A lot of people here confuse disagreeable and volatile/hysterical. A disagreeable woman will not go out of her way to start shit nor will she be aggressive. You will not necessarily figure out that she is disagreeable on the first date, she can actually come off as very sweet. If she raises her voice or is being all bitchy for …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:32 PM
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That’s volatile, it’s not disagreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:24 PM
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They are pretty ugly according to women. I don’t know what else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:24 PM
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You just confirmed my point 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:10 PM
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If they are unsuccessful because they are ugly, they are soyboys. Andrew Tate and Myron are ugly. They are doing just fine. If you are Autistic, you will have problems everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:28 PM
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I think their complaint is that women are too picky with their choice of men but are too slutty around men they picked
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:23 PM
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feminine They will tear you apart if they smell soy. And if you can’t attract any women back home, they’ll smell soy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:00 PM
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they’ve never been able to get sex outside of relationship 😱the horrors of male experience 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:58 PM
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A lot of feminist rhetoric is, in fact, misandrist. Now, back to OPs point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:39 PM
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I like Tristan Tate, what a snack. Man is handsome. Setting that aside, these Tate guys are the biggest vaginas ever, and so is their following. They moved to Romania to exploit the local permissive laws and have no problem talking crap, because they are ✨alpha ✨, and don’t like western feminism, but suddenly they want their cute little human rights back when the same system that allowed them to dick around with thots bitch slaps them 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:12 PM
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woman is the party that wants kids This is absolutely untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:49 PM
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If the only reason why you are treating me good is because you don’t have any other options - you are not treating me good. Average men, when given the opportunity, fuck up as often as fuckbois. In fact, more often than fuckbois. Because they don’t understand women and what irritates them. A man’s goal is almost always to push through boundaries, and average dude is no exception: he begins to push-push-push, and then makes it a girls fault. Also, it’s an app for hookups. Of course women will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:49 PM
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To you, he will say you are bitter and your mind is rotten by feminism. You are either bitter, or eager to ride him. No third option
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:49 PM
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I’d tell you to F off or else I disconnect your life support
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:47 PM
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The reason why I don’t ask men out is because I don’t want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:17 PM
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It’s Identity theft. If I can’t steal your art to put into the AI, I can’t steal your self to put into the AI
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:12 PM
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Are you looking for my permission?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:29 PM
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They don’t need to be called out on it, I’m stating it as a fact: female choosiness is a reason for frustration around here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:20 PM
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They do, but it’s a very specific dick that they want to suck, which is coincidentally what this whole sub calls them out for
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:09 PM
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I don’t mind. You are entitled to it. Why is this meant to be a flex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:11 PM
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Women become strong and independent not to suck your dick, but in order to not have to suck your dick. Like, you don’t get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:10 PM
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I feel like I’m not attracted to any guy just visually, even if they are a 10 it does nothing for me. It’s just one data point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:32 AM
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Wait she made you take her out? 🕺
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:03 PM
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I honestly don’t know the extent to which diseases like cancer are preventable, but I sort of assume that it’s a losing battle. Really? Not my experience at all, and my situation is the opposite: I immigrated to the US from a country with socialized healthcare. I guess I understood that I need to think this whole thing through better than that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:00 PM
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I believe they do infantilize people. They for sure can make people feel like responsibility for their lives and their education is on the government: “why didn’t they teach me how to fill out taxes?”, for example, when answers are just a google search away, or blindly trusting a cop just because he is a cop with all this “police needs to police” crap. These institutions are just a necessary evil. The only reason why I’m not against them is because I can’t imagine the society without the police …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:23 PM
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The humanity just would not benefit from it. It does nothing for me and you. On top of it, this infantilizes men, since now they do not have to try and vet women for loyalty - the government will do it for them and will surely relieve them of road bumps in the face of a disloyal wife and someone else’s baby. That’s one unintended consequence. Sure, health is still regarded a private business. But many times people can’t choose whether they are ill - outside of obesity/smoking/drugs, and there is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:47 AM
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I am a Jp fan
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:24 AM
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What? I think it’s hot and kinky. Just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:21 AM
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Yes, of course. I just don’t think it’s good to handle consequences of people’s consensual sexual activity. It’s not good for the society, and it’s not good for people themselves, because it will give people around them legitimate grounds for policing their bedrooms since they are the ones paying. I don’t want my choice of partner/activity to become anyone else’s business
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:54 AM
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Oh fuck the military too. Leeches on the backs of taxpayers. Don’t even get me started on this shit, or there will be foam coming out of my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:41 AM
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Not from the societal perspective. Even if all women trick all men the humanity will benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:20 AM
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So that the society can exist. DNA tests are of no utility to us as a group. Just like abortions. It’s in the best interest of society that women give birth and men subsidize it - of course not me and you individually, preferably some other women and men. We need kids, so we pay for kids. The collective interest is fulfilled at this point. It’s of no value to us to figure out who carries whose child and other types of who fucks who, it’s in the best interest of an individual. So individuals shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:02 AM
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If he is dating a woman who is younger and hotter, it’s almost implicit, but the blame goes both ways. Like, he knew what he signed up for, or should have known, so it doesn’t make sense to cry prostitution, whether the hot young chick is a feminist or not. If he is dating a woman of equal age and status, a man might be expected to make an initial investment, but a woman should be expected to reciprocate it with equal effort. For example, he buys ingredients and she cooks dinner. This way, every…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:25 PM
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I’m enjoying your company) Ideally you wouldn’t be “paying” for anybody and drag them along, but that’s in my world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:00 PM
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you are entitled to using whatever language you please, I don’t give a toss. I’m saying semantics in fact became important once you accuse somebody of being a hooker, because it’s an extremely loaded term. I’m curious tho, what if somebody wants a sugar baby? She is hot and young, but is the opposite of traditional?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:56 PM
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Why? Im guessing it’s because people pretend not who they are to get a cut of your financial success?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:52 PM
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Then don’t call people you are not interested in useless hookers. You are using extremely charged language.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:51 PM
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Okay, I guess there is you then)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:31 PM
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I understood you don’t want to pay for 2, I was saying that 1 is not a much better deal given that you don’t want a hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:26 PM
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First of all, I’m pro-choice: people should be allowed to get bc and abortions. I don’t think that taxpayers are responsible for subsidizing these expenses because are we adults or what I don’t want to punish people I just don’t want to pay for a solution to their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:23 PM
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Yeah, so she is a useful hooker. You can say that, but it doesn’t change the fact that you are buying her. The deal is justified in your mind, but it does not change the nature of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:17 PM
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Hold up. Think about that. In both cases you are paying for somebody who doesn’t carry their weight. The question is what exactly you are buying. So if you think 2 is a useless hooker, 1 has to be a useful hooker in your world. What makes 1 different from 2, she just provides submissiveness as a part of the package of favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:10 PM
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Wait What’s the difference between 1 and 3 then? Sounds like In 1 you are just getting a better and a more expensive hooker Also, beauty is of no value to you? Just submissiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:01 PM
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Yeah, no. It’s just another extension of participation trophy mentality where they clearly don’t make the cut but think the bar should be lowered
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:43 PM
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Yeah, that’s exactly what I’m talking about. Your worldview just is not making sense when you lay it out to a stranger. You can try explaining your hooker-traditional woman dichotomy because I’m failing to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:42 PM
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Universal healthcare is a whole separate topic that I’m not sure how I feel about, but DNA tests, abortions and birth control are not healthcare. Let’s not confuse them. Here is a thing tho, I just don’t think paying for someone’s crap is pound wise. You will lower some unwanted expenses but you will create a whole lot of other unintended consequences that people will pay for. For example, if bc is handed out like jolly ranchers, people will not be pressured to get married and have families, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:39 PM
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:/ I’m not trying to pick a fight, if you really want to know why I said that it’s because you come off combative from the start. I hope you sort out whatever you are going through
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:29 PM
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Sure, or that, but given that the pregnancy already happened your argument can be used for free abortions. Btw, I’m against free birth control, or free abortions, or free DNA tests: if you are adult enough to fuck you need to be adult enough to handle the consequences Abortions are more complex than just fixing families, turns out, it’s extremely difficult to make people have kids they don’t wanna have.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:19 PM
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Woah, that’s quite a hyperlink. I can make the same argument about abortion: cheaper to pay for someone’s baby to be scooped out then pay for a prison cell, because unwanted kids (I’m sure) tend to resort to crime more often. I’m not sure if this is a good argument because we can justify all sorts of subsidies “or else people will turn to crime”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:14 PM
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Sorry. I’m trying to say that the men who want 100/0 tend to think that the women they want are supposed to lower their financial expectations down to whatever these men earn for 100/0 to be possible. That’s what I tried to say. Why is it crazed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:11 PM
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But money is to be offered for beauty. That’s counterfeit tradition for counterfeit tradition that we are talking about. You seem to think that a traditional man has fulfilled his obligations of traditional manhood when he payed for someone’s pumpkin spiced lululemons, it’s like no. Money is a good start, but in relationships with traditional women men offer much more than their paycheck, otherwise it’s prostitution which you say you dislike in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:05 PM
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3 - can anybody explain to me why anybody is supposed to pay for someone’s DNA test? Sounds like a Rollo problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:00 PM
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What? No. Why you making this personal? That’s first of all. We are not attacking character here, we are attacking arguments. Second of all, you are not making any sense in your thinking, at least to me. If the girl is submissive and you go 100/0 it stops being prostitution? And if the girl is just young and hot and you go 100/0 it’s prostitution? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:57 PM
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I’m boring and looks save me big time. In fact, I put 0 effort, and everybody still wants to entertain it. I just need to be there for magic to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:52 PM
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Yes, why? Just had something to say on the topic. What’s wrong with my response?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:51 PM
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Bro, whatever you can negotiate for yourself (I seriously doubt that you can, because I don’t see why a hot young woman would go for an older guy without seeking compensation). But if she does, all power to you. Just don’t turn around and cry prostitution, if you are going for hot young submissive chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:50 PM
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Lemme think: all of them. When submissive women are being romanticized rarely does anybody think that she will have requests and needs of her own and that the guy needs to be on top of his shit, and that does not include just having job - we all have jobs here. I doubt aspiring alpha dudebros own a house, have their retirement maxed out and have anything at all to offer to the woman who will follow them around. I seriously doubt. Actually, I’ve been subjecting myself to PearlyThingsAlly recently…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:47 PM
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I don’t get it. What if she is not submissive but younger than you, hotter than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:42 PM
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Oh, I see. Then, If the concern is that men will vote against it, I don’t see how it’s a good argument. People will vote against everything that doesn’t give them handouts, does not mean we are going to empty harems and wallets of top 1% to make the broke and fat majority happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:27 AM
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I understand cognitively the thought process, but I don’t think someone’s subjective feelings of misery should result in participation trophies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:15 AM
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Well most societies have been authoritarian period, and in fact some of the most authoritarian societies have socially and legally enforced monogamy: the Soviet Union, North Korea, puritan America. I am not sure that authoritarianism and polyamory are correlated, and I don’t know if they have to be correlated. What do you mean by “vote to end polyamory laws”? In my world, polyamory happens, if it happens, as a result of expression of free will. There would not be a law that tells people who to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:04 AM
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Not a totalitarian state. Totalitarian state is the one that hurts people who exercise their freedom. This state would hurt people who violate freedoms of others. And, I only want this state as an alternative to the world with “enforced” anything. I really see redistribution of women as unjust as redistribution of wealth, so how can we criticize socialism and not criticize enforced monogamy - I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:51 AM
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This does not explain why we can’t just lock them up if they are the ones who fuck with free choice/ need something from someone. You are sort of making the argument for chemical castration of men if they are unable to exist without inconveniencing people around them with their libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:36 AM
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That’s not an infantile take, it’s called radical freedom of individual. If millions of men suffer because millions of women exercise their free choice, then millions of men will suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:25 AM
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No I don’t care I don’t care I don’t understand what the fuss is about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:44 PM
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Then it’s a one sided conversation, just like the ones they have on PearlyThingsAly, also known as rounds of propaganda. The conversation that we should be having is everybody sucks and everybody fucks up. Any woman worth her salt can make an exact same post putting men in the position where they have to justify not meeting her standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:02 PM
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I was being totally sarcastic. I’m not saying that artists are low value, I’m just trying to say that it’s stupid to assign $100k the status of life mission and ultimate goal to be the alphaest alpha. It’s too meh for the amount of attitude some dudebros have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:54 PM
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First of all, women display masculine traits not to attract men, but to avoid having to sleep with men to survive. Second of all. And modern western men are…? I hate this discussions. It’s like, everybody fucks up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:40 AM
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If making a 100+ k is what makes you a top of the food chain, then men are complete losers for not being able to make the bar. Even women make the bar that you say you can’t make.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:35 AM
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The question can be flipped. There is not a stockpile of conservative men with their shit together and a house so they can bring a wife and put a baby in her, and provide for both of them. There simply is not. But everybody loves to bitch at educated women who go and make the money they want. A woman can at least offer sex - the golden nugget which everybody chases and everybody downgrades when it’s convenient for the sake of the argument - but what can you offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:30 AM
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I mean, adults want to deal with people who want to deal with them and don’t want to waste time on moving mountains for some princess/prince.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:54 PM
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If he is complaining being lonely and sexsless, yes. If he is willing to be alone, no. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:52 PM
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Too opinionated is annoying too, of course, this is radical sides of the spectrum. Dude just sounds like a Neanderthal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:57 PM
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They are trying to attach some strings and make a girl feel like she owes them sex because they bought her a burger. Not everybody of course. I just payed for my own food until relationship became more involved/intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:49 PM
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Nobody wants to deal with a person who doesn’t have opinions. If he doesn’t have a stance on politics he doesn’t have a stance on anything else. I dated a person like that. It’s like talking to a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:42 PM
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He was an Anthropology major and didn’t know what Proto Indo European language was. Told me I’m making shit up. I blocked his number - this shit is, like, textbook, if you study history/anthro, so what in the fuck was he even doing during lectures since it’s not listening
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:34 PM
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Extroverts. This idea that women like men with social skills - I like men who can shut the fuck up from time to time and not be exhausting. I hate extroverts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:36 PM
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The upgrades: I’ll take it back. Attractiveness fluctuates as persons ages and their bones are changing. It’s more like except for nutrition and sport there is not much a girl can do to improve her bargaining position in the dating market is what I meant. Some people are just born with unfortunate facial features that remain unfortunate, but then again, can fly to Brazil and get a nose job or something. So I guess it’s one more reason why being unattractive sucks but is not as horrible as people…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:10 AM
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It’s not a fun experience, to put it lightly, but it’s not the worst thing in the world if you have any sense of identity. Unattractive men who claim they have a massive problem need to just shut the fuck up and go learn a skill - I’ve been there, and there is things way worse than being ugly. When I was a teenager, I had acne all over my face and some medical problems which were pretty visible. It was pretty bad. Guys were offensive to me for no reason at all and bent over backwards for pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:35 AM
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Of course not, it’s fucking weird. And then, after losing a sense of identity and self-respect, they demand for our gratitude🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:22 PM
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But just because corporate talking heads represent the feminist narrative it doesn’t mean people suddenly stopped capitalizing on male demand. In fact, a lot of “average guy wins” trope has found an outlet in the face of YouTube and pick up artistry guides, and Pornhub, which are more culturally relevant than Cosmo magazine and Hollywood anyways. Looking past all the victimhood olympics from OP, he is really complaining that movie directors don’t accommodate his really niche tastes, which is sil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 07:45 PM
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It is. The hand is blind. As long as there is demand there will be an Andrew Tate to harvest brownies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:52 PM
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I agree, but I’m not arguing with the woman who whines about representation, I’m arguing with her male cousin. When women whine about representation in the world where we have Hunger Games it also annoys me, it has nothing to do with OP’s pity party tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 06:34 PM
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Me saying I’m not whining is just stating the fact that I’m not whining. I’m sure men do, and it’s retarded and I call it out. I’m just saying you are no different: picking random shit that nobody gives a flying fuck about to complain and using my gender as grounds for personal attacks. If you were born a woman you’d be one of those fat chicks sitting on your arse and blaming all men for the evil-evil patriarchy around. For now you are a guy blaming me - a stranger on Reddit - for things some pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:27 PM
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I wouldn’t say either girls or guys in porn are very attractive, they display aggressive sexual appeal with huge breasts and penises. If you ask a guy whether he considers a typical porn actress beautiful you will probably hear a no
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:08 PM
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OP complaining there isn’t romance with average men for men, but there is romance with average women for women. He does not claim that romance with average men would be targeted at girls. FYI his complaining is retarded, I just wanted to clarify what he means
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:20 PM
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You would do such a great job as a feminist, because this argument is the perfect level of retarded. I am not responsible for other women, just like you are not responsible for men who rape and kill. Do you understand that? For now you are the one whining like a bitch tho, so you are responsible for that, and I, as a person who doesn’t whine like a bitch, am a perfect delivery driver of this information for you. Have some accountability for your own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:17 PM
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There is the Bridget Jones’s diary, where desirable guys competed for a chance to father her kid. There is 50 shades of gray. The whole point of the book is that the girl is average. I’m sure there is more but this is what came to my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 03:01 AM
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parody of real life no woman would stay with Peter or Homer 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:58 AM
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An average man does not watch romance movies, but an average woman does. That’s why there is a representation of an average woman and no representation of average man. If men displayed interest in the genre, the invisible hand of capitalism would make you average men with hot girls. Quit looking for oppression where there is none.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:55 AM
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The reason why everybody advises everybody to play games is because games work. Like, this didn’t just come out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:05 PM
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Dude, go do your homework. Or your female teacher gives you an F and fails another generation of boys which of course will be her fault Lol, he is asking for a proof that dislikable kids are disliked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:52 AM
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Ill show you proof that disruptive behavior causes people to not like you long term right after you watch a PowerPoint telling you that the earth is round. Shocking statement! Humans walk on two feet? Show me fucking proof! Leave your house and look around, watch aggressive people not getting the upper leg that agreeable people get, there is your proof. You are just arguing to argue at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:54 PM
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I never said it’s bad, I said it does not negate long term effects from kid’s behavior. Just because I punish you on the spot does not mean that I’m going to like you. And if I don’t like you, you will be at a disadvantage one way or another. What are we even arguing about? Giving an F for behavior is in fact punishing somebody on the spot. Go get your definitions straight and don’t warp them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 09:19 AM
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I don’t know why you decided that punishing kids on the spot excludes long lasting negative effects on student-teacher relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:45 AM
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But this isn’t what happens is it? Kids who don’t behave get punished, and as long as the same standard is applied to all students I don’t care if most of punished kids happen to be green, blue, polka dotted, or gender neutral, just like I don’t care that most people who get into Harvard are Asian, or that nearly all self made rich people are men. Because I’m not an idiot. And no, I didn’t come up with the notion that dislikable kids get harsher treatment from men, women, your mama and your dog.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:36 AM
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Same thing.They apply their standards implicitly rather than explicitly. If they don’t like you - and many of them will not like you if you tend to question things - you can fucking be sure this will affect the amount of social brownies that you get in their classroom, so next time you are at 89.49 you will regret pissing them off just as much. Unless your argument is that men are more lenient on argumentative kids, which is not true in the slightest - who cares how exactly your bad behavior hur…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:51 PM
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Oh, but just being a woman is not something that a woman can ever change, and her gender also doesn’t require any amendments to existing system of learning/grading. Now, if she asked for a higher mark on geometry assignment because her gender puts her at a disadvantage in terms of spatial intelligence, that would be a problem. A provocative, talkative teenager can’t ask for a browny points/treatment that obedient kids get for exactly the same reason. School is not just a learning environment. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:28 PM
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And I’m not saying that about disabled children either, and frankly I’m not saying anything about disabled kids at all - this is beyond what we’re talking about. I’m saying we should not change the nature of the system because it happens to not benefit kids with certain temperamental configurations if the system does not actively harm them. For the same reason we shouldn’t give A-star to a kid with low IQ, if he didn’t earn it. Academic success is not for everybody and your mama, it’s reserved f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:14 PM
1

I think men are entitled to male only clubs so I don’t see it as unfair. The Einstein quote: so go swim in the lake. Join the army or the police. But the tree doesn’t have to automagically become a lake just because there is fishes who decided to climb it in the classroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:52 PM
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I am a woman who consistently scored Fs on behavior, so my unbiased perspective is: Whose fault is it that you can’t sit down and stfu? If you don’t know something, learn it. It’s unfair to a low iq kid. If you are annoying, clean up your act. It’s unfair to a extroverted argumentative kid. I’m sorry you didn’t get all the temperamental advantages out there to succeed in the system, but you know what, most of us didn’t. Academic environment selects for civilized people as well as smart people, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 12:51 PM
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Well, I’m against affirmative action altogether. That being said, men are given all tools to succeed and the fact that they don’t is a reflection of them. Nobody prevents y’all from getting a high school diploma
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:37 AM
1

Well, vocation is not that bad of a punishment. Sounds like you acted up because your parents allowed you to act up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:29 PM
2

Wait a second, your parents gave a 15 year old a credit card and were surprised that it was maxed out? 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 12:33 PM
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Can’t comment on your uncle because I don’t know him obviously, but maybe he is fulfilled for all I know. I get it, you were a difficult kid, kids are difficult and annoying. I’m not saying it’s not true. I’m pointing out that the alternative is usually worse - you continue being the same person you were at 25. And I guess you can develop through floristry and creative pursuits, but it does not extrapolate to the rest of your character. So it’s a pick your poison situation. Do you wanna raise a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:15 AM
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your mom is exhausted now, but had she not have kids it probably would not be a cake baking-traveling-advocating for a social cause utopia. It would be a crazy person. This is what I’m talking about: when people remove one pillar, they need the rest of them to be stronger so they have enough emotional reinforcement. If they don’t have a career, they better have a much better than average marriage, a cool hobby, a A star kid to make up for lack of professional involvement. And vice versa. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:21 AM
1

And what would your parents do had they had their freedom? Invent cure from cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:30 PM
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So, for you, it’s fear due to your own unrealistic expectations of what it means to be a parent. In my experience, when I talk to people 40+ who don’t have kids, they are lacking depth. I don’t know how to explain it. It’s like, your arms are designed to grow, and if they don’t, you are missing something. Your character/soul/whatever you call it is designed to grow in a direction of adopting responsibility, and if it doesn’t, it’s similar to a underdeveloped body part.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:12 PM
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Making a conscious choice to not have kids is fucking weird, and not in a cool creative way - in 2022 nothing about it is innovative - but in a “this person consciously refused to walk one of the most fundamental roads of life out of fear and laziness”. You guys better be Einsteins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:50 PM
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If you ever date/marry any woman, eventually you will not be her priority when she pops out a kid (if she is a good mother).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:32 PM
0

That’s a nice legend losers tell themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 05:00 PM
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So you think you haven’t been successful in your career because you don’t cater to women for pussy? That’s cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:45 AM
1

But, that’s exactly what I was saying: a guy has much more freedom if a girl gets pregnant, and maybe we are supposed to sue him and not fuck him, but the reality it’s a little more nuanced. For example: as you said, a guy doesn’t make enough money to support the kid and the woman, so the girl has to search for employment and a nanny even if she receives child support payments. There is not enough lawyers and doctors and NFL players to fuck everyone, someone actually dates broke college students…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:33 PM
1

Okay, maybe. The second part of my argument was: Even if he pays child support, the man enjoys degree of freedom incomparable to pregnant woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:52 PM
1

It’s hard to sue anyone for anything in civil court, and most people don’t have resources to do it, I don’t know where you guys are getting the idea that random pregnant girls start legal battles instead of figuring out their own situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:34 PM
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Of course they are. This isn’t 1950s. I’ve never heard of a single mom who can live on child support alone with a kid. Maybe if he is rich. But most of you aren’t rich, so of course single moms work, as well as fulfilling other needs of the kid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:28 PM
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The majority of pro-lifers are men, the data on this has been clear. And, I know there is pro-life women, so what? With this demographic I would have an entirely different conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:58 AM
3

I don’t have a clever line to give you about financial abortion, but because abortion or lack of one is costly primarily to women either way, we want all the agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:49 AM
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Not wrong, but the exact term I used is “relatively inexpensive”. More like yeah, yeah, of course you are pro-life, if you were the ones to get pregnant you would get abortions like jolly ranchers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:01 PM
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They still don’t have to cook the kids, sacrifice their career, AND they have a back door open if they are not married. And they know it. Just because they choose not to you use it now, they will gladly vanish into thin air if the kid is difficult or disabled (80% walk away statistically speaking). But even if they do not walk away, the primary and biggest sacrifice is required from a woman, so it’s absolutely not their fucking place to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:41 PM
4

Are you asking for my permission?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 03:36 PM
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Pro-life men whine that women don’t take their shit seriously “just because they are men”, but honestly you dudes are a low hanging fruit for pro choicers like myself because you are crazy lefty virtue signaling crowd that appeals to emotions, but on the right. It’s very inexpensive for you to adopt a holier than thou attitude, because deep inside you know that if shit really goes south the most a woman can do is sue you, and even that is a. Expensive b. Doesn’t happen more often than it does. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:11 AM
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Or he has to get sued for child support which is difficult, effortful and expensive, but yeah, he is free to run away and move. Pregnant women can’t run away or move from the bb, you see
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:59 AM
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So, pro-choice as long as they behave in a way that you see acceptable? And if they do get fucked by Chads, you are pro-life, or..?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:55 AM
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Outsourcing pregnancy to labs can help this and a bunch of other problems, so I’m holding my fingers crossed that Elons of the world find a way to make artificial wombs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:51 AM
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Typical old fart who hit the wall of female disinterest as soon as he was born, got branded as genetic biogarbage and spent too much time taking it out on women. KS invited girls on his show to disagree with his (questionable) shit, and then branded every instance of them voicing opposing opinions as disrespect, yelled them down, refused to have conversations, interrupted and frankly acted like a pseudo intelligent high school douche in a debate club who thinks listening to Daily Wire makes him …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:02 PM
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Look at yourself objectively. If you are hot, we will forgive you everything. But if you are asking this, approaching isn’t for you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 12:49 PM
2

Who gave you guys an idea that average and hot guys are supposed to be treated equally? You what, treat average and hot girls equally? Beauty is a currency just like anything else. Let’s both cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:17 PM
1

How many lions did my king personally tame? Judging by your spelling, you can’t even conquer a fucking Lang and lit textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:27 PM
3

No dude, anything YOU do with women is creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:41 PM
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So attractive women don’t want you and for some unknown reason you decided that you are above average women with some history. What a fuck do you want us to do, pitch in and buy you a ticket to a Willy Wonka factory full of virgin Stacys?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:40 PM
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You are the desperate low value man with an explosion of verbal diarrhea. Look at how much you be typed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:16 PM
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Women don’t have sex with you not so they control you, but because you are unfit for sex unlike hot men she screws within minutes of meeting them. You are simply not hot. What do you want us to do about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:14 PM
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What different way? There is only two: go to the gym, make money. Both will pave your path to the milestones that are 1.longterm 2.casual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:20 PM
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Your point is invalid. When dealing with women, to get something casual, you need to improve even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:42 PM
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They don’t have to, but then they won’t fuck. They don’t want to improve, I don’t want to have sex with them (and probably no one does). Which part of this is difficult? Most of them will never unlock women, 19, 25, or 45. Maybe one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:22 PM
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If they want to fuck, they better
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:05 PM
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To answer your question: because unless you cater to women you don’t fuck, casually or long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:01 PM
4

But the average woman bares responsibility for sex, so she does not need to work for getting it. Meaning that she is stuck with emotional/physical consequences. In the word of TRP “men and women are not the same”, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:59 PM
5

But isnt it because dudes die at disproportionately higher rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:12 PM
4

Meh, India is broke so there is a huge incentive to prioritize boys over girls, I would say in the us it will go roughly 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 02:30 PM
1

Let’s start with the fact that getting sex as a woman =\= getting a relationship. Second, given that you do something with your life getting laid/relationships will be increasingly easier, your value is indefinite unlike the woman’s because it’s tied to your accomplishments and skills. Hers, however, is finite, meaning that it has a time limit. Women certainly have no means to recover their investment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:08 PM
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It’s… the same for young women. So can we extrapolate your point to general principle “if there is uncertainty in your investement, just sit on your ass and live your life like trailer trash, fuck hoes, and smoke pot”. Why did you decide to stop at dating? Getting a degree is not worth it. Picking up a skill isn’t worth it. Having kids isn’t worth it. Even buying a car isn’t worth it: what if you get in a wreck? Going out isn’t worth it: what if you have a terrible time and - oh my god! - you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:45 PM
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^ same guy who complains that women use dudes for free shit. I feel like young women should never commit to a relationship if they can go to dates for meals. After all, she will waste so many years of free riding if she stays with OP for four years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:22 PM
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Well apparently you feel perfectly fine telling me what concepts about the US I do and don’t grasp, so here ya go: at best you resided in the anglophone West your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:20 PM
1

If somebody judges you it’s a reflection of their boring, puritan, uncreative Karenhood
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:55 PM
1

What? 😂 what a fuck are you even saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:49 PM
1

I read that expectations were lower in the past: as long as woman fulfilled her wifely duties consistently, men would not even think of complaining about quality/lack of attraction. It was good enough. Same for women: as long as their husband provided it was sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:43 PM
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? I’ve been here for half of my life. Why did you determine I have no concept of US class? Two people are now telling you that you are wrong in your analysis, your response is to say my words have no merit because I was exposed to more than one culture Seriously consider traveling to places other than Mexico but for longer than a week, expose yourself to other cultures, see what ppl look like, in other words, fucking get a clue. Then we can discuss how accurate my understanding of US class is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:11 PM
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I’m European in North America, and Americans are fat in general, I’m not even talking about lower class folks. These Walmart landwhales are beyond good and evil. I’m talking about upper middle - you people are just corrupted with radical unhealthy self-acceptance. Outside the US/Canada people’s definition of fat is different, so this adds to how culture warps people’s perceptions. Overall, a normal person in America is chubby in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:22 PM
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Online dating is not for everybody, and it was never meant to be for everybody. It’s for hot people. If you are not hot, man or woman, you will lose in some fashion: a girl will get pumped and traded in, a guy will not get any matches. Your income is irrelevant on the platform where people select for attractiveness, and good shape is not enough to max out this stat. If Tinder does not work for you it’s not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 01:58 PM
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Yeah, cuz it’s unlikely that a woman will approach him, then ask him out, then pay for food, then spin on his dick like a disco ball. I’m sure everything happens, but what are the odds. That, and “earning sex” and putting effort into relationships are different things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:03 PM
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No. They lack creativity. “Stop sucking dick” is dumb not because it’s rude, but because anybody could come up with this joke. The chicks who insert themselves into this fucking circus are equally stupid, so I guess you are stuck with one another because like attracts like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:17 AM
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I’m glad and of course it depends on individual man and an individual woman but I speak in generalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 04:07 PM
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Women are not going to “earn” sex or “show effort” to get pumped. They have options. Make peace with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:02 AM
1

Here we go again: if only women were to fuck men more, men would be less obnoxious. I mean, or we could just put y’all in the zoos if you are unable to grasp the idea of accountability for what happens or does not happen in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:19 PM
2

“Everybody heard me? I AM HOT!! I AM HIGH VALUE!!! MY WIFE WAS A VIRGIN!!! UNLIKE YOU THOTS!! I DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YALLS OPINIONS!1! Everyone heard me????”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:44 PM
2

Huh? People share who they have a crush on, and a lot of this sharing is strategic. What’s the problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:33 PM
2

Everybody is trying to tell you that you didn’t do a good job reading the scenario, you half-assed your way through it and now are projecting your issues with women. You see, she did make a move. She told the OP precisely so that the OP tells the guy - this form of approach is less aggressive than cold approaching a stranger and is frequently used. The guy was flattered but unimpressed. She moved on. What part of this do you not understand? Secondly, women in general do approach and flirt with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:05 PM
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Let’s clarify something: men go for “personality” not because they are deep, but because they don’t have a ton of willing Victoria Secret angels throwing themselves at them. There is a difference between not having an option to go for hot girls and not wanting to. You are telling us that you and your friends don’t really care, but excuse me, when cute ladies line up for y’all and you reject them in favor of girls who have “similar values” we can have a conversation about your depth of character …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:42 AM
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Oh, I thought we were talking about CPR. I don’t know the other guy. Just looking at him, he is no Hollywood actor: I’m seeing a generic bolding white dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:34 PM
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The guy lived in Kharkiv before the world ended by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:51 PM
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I’m not blaming him for importing his wife, I’m pointing out the fact that paying for sex and attracting women are two different things. CPR is not attractive. He pays for sex. Anyone can pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:50 PM
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Bruh, he had to go to the shithole that is UKRAINE to find someone broke enough to get him off for food and shelter. That’s the definition of BB
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:32 PM
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I meant more like seriously enough so that someone actually responds. Here ya go: So, you are 19. What is your life like? Do you go to school for anything? Or are you developing any skills? What about looks? Do people recognize your intelligence? You are brave and assertive, more so than an average person? What about you allows you to associate yourself with top tier guys, or why do you think that you will ever get to the top? Most likely you are not a catch and on top of that you have a fuck to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:48 PM
1

,,,,,,,,,,,,, - here you go, use them next time if you want to be taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:53 AM
1

If you cold approach while being 5’ 8” it’s completely warranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:45 AM
1

The only reason how anyone will be a always happy non argumentative 1930s housewife is if you make a lot of money. No one will let you lead them unless you at least cover their bills, and bring home a very decent salary on top of that, but definitely cover their bills. Is that part of the equation? If not, why would you ever think anyone would be all these feminine things you want while also carrying their own weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:11 PM
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So, responsibility associated with pregnancy forces women to be choosy, meaning that we are incentivized to mate with the top men. Women will try to impress them. The bottom men (almost all men), to put it bluntly, are not desired. And whoever wants the other person more has to do the hoop jumping.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:37 AM
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You are missing the point. We get pregnant from sex. If one gender gets pregnant, they will be choosy regarding who nuts into them. If you were to be nut in you would be careful too (I hope). Clue in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:23 AM
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Not insulted, annoyed. It’s a self defense mechanism created to vet out non-reciprocal people. Because you are refusing to play the game. You are bringing a chess set to a basketball court and wonder why isn’t everyone lining up to be your playmate, but in fact you are just wasting everybody’s time to attention whore. You are disruptive, arrogant and lack sophistication. Women are trying to trade with you in pennies to figure out whether having sex with you is a good decision, so they flirt, ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:17 PM
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She does not have to prove much, aside from meeting a looks threshold which can be very low. The reason why is because women bare primary responsibility for consequences of casual sex, but sex in general too. It would not be fair if both a guy and a girl had to do the same amount of hoop jumping, but the girl is the one whose fertility window is shorter, and who carries the baby; she, knowing that, will be more conservative with how she gives out sex by definition. So, you guys are going to hoop…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:10 PM
1

You already are. Coo-coo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:16 AM
1

You are not very intelligent are you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:05 PM
1

Learn to write. Judging by what I read, you seem to think that if something is not about you, it’s “stupid”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 06:31 PM
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The whole fashion thing is not stupid, because it’s not for you. it’s there for other females to observe and get jealous. If you think you are the audience - you are the stupid one in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:38 PM
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It’s hard to be a good anything. When it comes to being a good musician, it takes years of practice. I can’t just be born and be a good musician. Everyone realizes that. However, when it comes to being a good person, everyone sort of thinks they are one on no grounds whatsoever. Just like practicing an instrument, if you want to claim you are a decent human being, you have to practice this craft day to day. Make choices that are reflective of that. Prove to people around you that you are what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:37 PM
1

?? Virgin women marry non virgin men who make much more money, it’s a rare hot virgin who marries a 40 year old deadbeat. For some reason I always think this guy is successful and good looking. Thats what I tried to say: your requirements are reasonable if you don’t also require her to be a chaste virgin, feminine, agreeable and sweet on top of sharing a financial burden with you (which many RP guys do want). None of that sounds like I don’t know a jack shit about what I’m talking about, and all…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:14 PM
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Each time I hear a guy ranting about lazy bitch women who better share the burden I wonder: if I’m sharing the financial burden, what do I need a guy for? Especially a RP guy? Your movement loves third world feminine women, but y’all don’t seem to understand that the only way someone will stay pure, sweet and submissive is if you pay for their shit. Your theory makes sense only if men are willing to share the burden of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:32 PM
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It does not change the fact that her personality is irrelevant to sexual attraction 🤦🏼‍♀️ yes dudes will take whatever garbage they can get, we get it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:08 PM
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? Why should it be different? Last time I checked men do not swipe right because a girl will be a great mother and wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 04:07 PM
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It’s all nice and sweet, but if she is a 10, they need to get to know each other at a nice restaurant, not mcdonalds. Otherwise she will be going out with each deadbeat who know thinks she should get to know him as a person. Her attitude might eventually bring her down to a 4, but excuse me, a gentleman approached a very pretty lady and not for her character/social skills, but for her beauty, so until she proves she is a 4 it’s reasonable to expect him to match his effort to her looks (aka the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:57 AM
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If they don’t get more than a coffee date ever - the problem is them: they are either aiming too high or are very non desirable. Prob both: they are undesirable for the partners they have in mind. If they agree to go to bed for a croissant and a medium cappuccino, that’s also on them: you either stand your ground or don’t complain. The other side of the coin is that plenty of men think that they should just be able to slide that d into a girl who is attractive and desirable, and get upset when s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 12:40 AM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:06 PM
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Not sure what exactly you call a lack of human decency. If it’s the fact that she dumped you over text: given that you were a boyfriend and girlfriend and she knew about that, she should have been an adult and talked to you. Dumping a boyfriend over text means she chickened out and it’s pathetic (the key word - “boyfriend”, like you defined your relationship and didn’t stay in the convenient gray area). If it’s the fact that she dumped you in general: no girl is obligated to stick around for a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:34 PM
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On the first scenario: I mean… you two weren’t married. A good rule of thumb is if you are dating you should not expect your gf/bf to actually stick around, they still reserve the right to trade you for someone better in their mind. I don’t see anything specifically wrong with what she did, it’s not like you wife’s her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:38 PM
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I simply don’t see how your original comment contradicts my point that no woman wants a dude with no backbone. I’m well aware using a doormat and dating a non doormat can occur simultaneously, but it’s an entirely separate branch of the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:28 PM
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Yeah, that’s scary
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:32 PM
0

The fact that I thought you were an old ugly RP fart thinking too much of himself is concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:06 PM
3

This scenario is most likely not very good for you. I didn’t see you, but in all likelihood you are not among the men who will have pussy at their disposal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:19 PM
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You are missing the point. The whole reason why women work sucky jobs is because in their minds it’s better than tolerating your dick for food and shelter. And you go: “haha bitch! You are not getting my dick!” That’s… precisely the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 03:13 PM
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Whatever you call it. So not at all “just paper”, rather a legal agreement. There is miles of difference between just paper and a complex legal/social system a few thousand years old. People need to make up their mind: either it’s just paper and they can get married left and right like it’s nothing, or not just paper and the territory they should think before stepping into, unless they are deathly afraid of paper of course
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:35 AM
1

So it’s not “just a piece of paper” and it has some social agreements behind it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:24 PM
4

Do you see yourself as a contributor to the problem, or your dick is somehow special and didn’t count?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:56 PM
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Dont explain to me how women think on average, and what you said confirms what I said. Think about it. A guy with a backbone gets her, while doormats are used and discarded, if that. Which part of this do you find unfair? Or are we supposed to fuck doormats?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:09 PM
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I’ll paraphrase, your logic is based on the assumption that the level of attraction that a guy has is default, and the female behavior is a deviation. Yes, a man would be considered asexual if you compare him with an average guy, but comparing an average woman with an average dude on a dude metrics is retarded, that’s what everyone tells you you got wrong and that’s what you ignore in all your arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:55 PM
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If women have nothing to offer why are working so hard? Whatever you are working hard for is worth your work by definition, be it attention, “just sex”, or long term arrangement. Not worth? Then… I’ll repeat myself, you would not be working for it because in your mind it would not be justifiable to put in effort for “nothing”. For example, if I’m not getting anything out of going to work I will not be going to work. You people really need to take Econ 101 and Psych 101 cuz this shit is textbook,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:49 PM
2

It’s not even about tax benefits, it’s about the fact that it’s costly to get a divorce, as it fucking should, otherwise, what’s the point. Seriously, I’m a big fan of the idea of two people making a commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:28 PM
2

I did not tell him to socialize. I told him to work. More than women. I told him women who spend time on work while he is out with the boys certainly complain about the lack of men, but when they say men, they exclude him from the definition, therefore, his entire existence is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:18 PM
1

Calling it a piece of paper refers to its lack of any meaning, and that’s just so fucking demented
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:14 AM
5

So… it’s not just a piece of paper? 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ can’t you people read omfg
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:01 AM
0

So wrong but I’m too lazy to unpack
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:00 AM
1

But to you it doesn’t and that’s why you responded “money”. Makes total sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:45 AM
6

So it’s not just a piece of paper? It actually has some meaning behind it? 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:07 AM
22

If marriage is a piece of paper why so many men run away from the piece of paper and why so many women want it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:06 AM
2

I think we are talking about different things. If domination is playful and game-like, sure. If we are talking about a guy who for real has the decision making power - I don’t know an idiot who will listen to someone while being financially responsible for herself, it’s a necessary component for a woman to trust him enough to be submissive and all this other jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:13 PM
3

You have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:05 AM
1

Yes They are dumping all the resentment here, if a girl (especially hot) walks up to them in real life they are putting up with whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:00 AM
1

These men just can’t find any better. They do accept much, if not everything in exchange to pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:57 AM
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The ones who are not put off by it will date you, but they will always know that you were the one who approached them - that will lead them to believe that they are actually as attractive as you are and therefore don’t need to put effort into the relationship and will take a passive role.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:36 AM
1

Okay, it is. how is this relevant? I’ll paraphrase: “No woman wants to entertain male dominating her without his financial contribution being larger than hers, excluding the prostitute-pimp dynamics”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:29 AM
1

That does not support you point. If you use a pimp prostitute dynamic as an example of females who want to be dominated w/o guy being the main provider, then this example is invalid because pimps and prostitutes are not a good representations of anything besides themselves, and because there is many things wrong with and about them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:23 AM
3

Who the fuck do you think you are
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:11 AM
1

Oh! What a hell is that comparison? 😟 I guess a lot of things are warped with a prostitute and her pimp, its rooted in their job titles. You aspire to be a pimp and make a prostitute feel dominated, protected and feminine, or…? When I layed out my arguments I completely forgot about prostitutes and pimps, I have to admit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:09 AM
1

Not throw around I-don’t-understands like I said 👉🏻👈🏻😖
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:01 AM
10

Yes I do, or log off and go play Minecraft
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:57 AM
2

You really believe that anyone is going to want to feel feminine but oh by the way it’s fine she will pay for herself? Maybe not a sole provider but the level of dominating is proportionate to how much you contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:56 AM
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Dude, women chase after career precisely so they don’t have to tolerate your dick for food and shelter. Your opinion is irrelevant, unless you make high 6 figs& your last name is Clooney, or let’s say, Reeves. But you are here on Reddit, so… Independent masculine women have their problems but you spitting this crap is like a high school kid who was never invited to the party but has far too many opinions about people who attended. Once again, women chase after careers so they don’t have to toler…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:53 AM
2

Girl, the reason why we, thots and degenerates, rely on our looks is because everything else is secondary to dudes. Or you think your guy came up to you because you are “not like other thots”, “are clever and deep”, “have good character”? He likes your tits and ass. And when he no longer likes them he will look elsewhere. We all care about male attention. We all get it through displaying our looks. Our skill set is irrelevant to how men view us. We are meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:44 AM
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Bruh, if you “dominate” me without paying for my shit - you are useless. It’s not about money but the money is a necessary prerequisite. If I have to do 24/7 I have no interest you making me feel feminine and protected, it’s just flirting and games with nothing real underneath it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:30 AM
2

Given that he also pays her bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:22 AM
11

I don’t think you deserve the traditional woman then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:14 AM
5

We want to be put in the serious category by men who can offer money and looks, others can categorize all they want - this is just armchair theorizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:09 AM
1

Then, you got two choices: 1. Be in a performance 2. Get married. This is what conservatives got right, but you people want to have the cake and eat it too: you wanna be honest in an arrangement where you fuck/share an apartment without getting married. Cohabitation sets you up for dishonesty, and we can have this argument, but I’m sure I’m not saying anything crazy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 05:07 PM
1

Oh, I don’t believe many women actually believe that. In real life I met only one. Maybe the flock towards FDS and PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:28 PM
1

Like comparable to them as women? Well, fat ugly broke cooch =/= fat ugly broke dick, this they got right. Their MV is higher than that of their male counterparts. But what girls are not getting is fat ugly broke cooch =/= attractive six fig dick. Their MV is less than that of the kind of dude they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:38 PM
2

I am slim and go to college. It’s tough for guys. I know. Everything that I have they have to have, + they gotta have extra. On the plus side, once you get past the threshold of her being impressed her problems magnify and yours scale down. At this point, you can dump her, get her pregnant, ruin her reputation and self esteem, string her along - and she can do the same to you, but she is more vulnerable due to biological and social reasons. In my opinion, I’m expressing this in a neutral and log…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 07:52 PM
1

I might consider but what are the conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:54 PM
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What other education systems have you experienced? Where else did you live? Because US schools are a joke, narrow technical subjects are fine, but when it comes to history, psychology, Lang and lit - the stuff that you actually need to know to function in the world - it’s appalling. Bitches in my (1st tier) uni: think Freudian impact on modern day psych can be summed up with a cookie cutter “he was SexIst!!1!!!1”, don’t know who Winston Churchill was, can’t write one essay on Shakespeare that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:08 AM
1

You believe Ukrainian blondes prefer westerners because America has a good schooling system and American men are good communicators. That’s cute. America has a shit schooling system compare to Asia/Western/Eastern Europe. You people are stereotyped as idiots everywhere you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:39 PM
2

If your wife inherited a good chunk of cash from her dad, do you think she would not visit bars, not have girls nights out and an array of pretty guys in her bedroom + be low maintenance? This sounds like something most traditional women tell themselves they like, but where we should start the conversation is that they don’t have the option to be anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:08 PM
0

Of course abuse is real but conversations about it are always shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:03 PM
0

I hate clichés. “Fetishizing”, “mental health awareness” , “rights”, “my body my choice”, “objectification”, “unrealistic body standards”, “toxic relationship”, “verbal/mental/physical/financial abuse”, “depression is a huge struggle”. Western brain is plain and simple, like McDonalds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:10 PM
1

I’m not a western woman, and when I hear that a guy prefers “not a leftist”, “not a feminist”, and all this other jazz I always think how women from my country would not be traditional if they had the financial means to be independent. Those who don’t depend on anyone display exactly the type of behavior you described. You give anyone money - they will not give a fuck. I guess my response is “no one will, and if they will, only for money”, it’s a good rule of thumb in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:02 PM
1

A protestant will not screw you this early on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:53 PM
1

It might be that you hyper focus on a tiny substrata of particular women, because I’m telling you, among me and my female acquaintances I know like 1 girl who does OF. It’s not a common route at all and it def stands out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:22 AM
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Are you asking me? Because the true freedom is to not have to do only fans to buy groceries. You are projecting your male way of thinking on women. I’m sure, you would do only fans if it sold.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:21 PM
1

Oh, okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:15 PM
4

What’s unfair about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:28 AM
2

I had a guy courting me while I slept around. If you ask him, I didn’t fuck him because I’m a slut trying to keep him around while giving it away to Chads. If you ask me, his courting was his initiative and never did I ever gave him a promise or an idea that I might be interested. My participation was limited to politeness, the rest he created in his mind. So… To all men out there: If a girl does not sleep with you, make sure you didn’t extrapolate her level of involvement to something it’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:24 AM
1

Unfortunately it’s enough for one person to determine that things are casual for them to become casual. She is not fit for one and she is not the type to have one are different things. I agree with the first, I disagree with the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 02:03 PM
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It’s irrelevant to the fact the she is having a casual fling. So she is the type of girl to be in one. My math is simple dimple. I eat a pb and j sandwich every morning, and I’m not the type to eat a pb and j sandwich every morning 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:28 PM
0

She… is having a casual fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:10 PM
2

You are projecting your personality on her. You had the nerve to end things, so far we have no evidence this girl does. Right now her actions are telling she is exactly a casual fling material: too agreeable, gets attached too easily, can’t argue for herself for shit. Or you think casual fling material is only tattooed hood rats and girls on the corner? No, your local thots are sweet, personable and forgiving people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:37 PM
1

What to do so that the result is good for you short term? This is simple: date her but keep your options open.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:30 PM
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Even if she does not land in 1% she can save money for college, if she is smart. Sure, not the perfectest scenario, and I’m not going to pretend all men are excited when they find things out about girls they are interested in. We need to talk about the alternatives to OF then to have something to compare it to. What are they? Women in traditional monogamous arrangements are prostituting themselves in the same manner, but for food in the fridge and vague prospects of future together, even though …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:19 PM
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Everything is a gamble, OF or a degree in psychology. It’s not like people who don’t do OF have employers lining up for their asses, but OF chicks at least have a financial safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:14 AM
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He is saying: if men’s external circumstances changed they would cheat more. You are saying: if women became more like men they would cheat more. Each time I talk to you you keep pissing yourself, it’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:14 AM
1

There is no such thing as “worse”. There is only a “can get myself the kind of woman who will tolerate it” and “can’t get her”. Some men are able to find her, but considering the fact that you are here preaching… 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 03:06 AM
2

Sure, ChadThundagaCock. You do get laid by HVW.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:59 PM
5

I don’t understand, why are you trying to shove things down people’s throats, and when they refuse to swallow why do you call them insecure? My definition of blue pill is that you get to do whatever you want, but other people don’t have to change their standards because you think their standards are arbitrary. Yes, arbitrary. If you told me what you are not willing to tolerate, I would identify like 5 things that are nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:48 AM
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If you think everything that’s traditional is mysogenistic, you are not a sophisticated thinker
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 12:05 AM
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Not “fault”. If he realizes a girl fell in love with him the honest thing is to break it off, otherwise you are using person’s feelings for you for your own gain. Again, no judgement here; I am the last person to judge on this sub. But this is exactly what he is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:02 PM
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No, it’s up to an individual to fix themselves. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:02 PM
2

That is exactly what FDS is saying. Both you and resentful females feed off of one another while the rest of the world flourishes. But you would not know anyone who thrives because they are quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 10:00 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:31 PM
10

The problem is that she will end up with exactly what she wants, and will blame the world for her situation. Same with guys who search for hot Barbie doll and get divorce raped. It’s like, excuse me, you never searched for honesty, loyalty and other virtues to begin with, why are you complaining your partner does not have any of that? Everyone eventually gets fucked by what they “have a right to”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:38 PM
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That’s exactly what women who treat you like a tool say my dude. EXACTLY. Maybe, just maybe, one should start with fixing themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:33 PM
2

😍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:20 PM
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No, but I also would not fuck them, encourage them by giving money and claim moral high ground, because I’m analytical and consistent. It’s cool to be like me. I highly recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 04:13 PM
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Well if he, being exceptional, wanted a woman his age, then she would have to be exceptional too. If he wants a woman 15 years younger she does not have to be exceptional, she just has to be very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:22 PM
1

🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:27 PM
1

Oh, him. Wasn’t aware his end goal was to fuck around anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:40 AM
1

What is wrong with you 😂 do you wanna take responsibility for men who rape and kill Clown
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:39 AM
1

Harvey Weinstein is in jail and Bill Clinton is laughed at like a clown. I don’t know the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:58 AM
0

How would you know? You interning in the White House?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:09 AM
1

I’m not taking responsibility for what some women say somewhere 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:08 AM
0

They are his side hustle not his goal. For this clown, pussy is a end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:30 AM
1

Did you join local church? There is going to be a whole bunch of them but you won’t like them because they are boring. Well you have to make up your mind then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:29 AM
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Besides that, he discovered relativity theory. Never ever compare yourself to Einstein. Just don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:28 AM
0

Libido as a life goal and libido as a side thing are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:27 AM
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If casual sex is your goal you will attract people with a similar attitude. However there is a whole population of women who don’t even offer the option of casual sex, so the idea that every girl allows mouthbreathers to touch herself… You might have an exposure to a certain % of women as others will not come near the person who believes being with them is a consolation prize. You know, there is people who want to get PHD, go to space, start a business, and then there is you, who wants to fuck h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:24 AM
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Russia is pretty good. I highly recommend for all American men with no sense of responsibility. This is a paradise in terms of getting away with shit if you are a guy. While laws officially favor women 🪄They don’t work 🪄 The more money you have, the easier it is to leave your kids penniless, or, vice versa, take them with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:48 PM
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That’s what I don’t understand. Why not just not have kids and not get married? Nope, need to get married and have one just so I can avoid child support and alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:43 PM
2

So, emotional unavailability can be caused by different things. REALLY?!?!😱
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:40 PM
1

It does not matter if you take damage is a result of your desirability or undesirability, it matters that you take damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:48 PM
1

This is no different from single men in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:40 PM
1

Med schools? Law schools? Corporate America? Women who were stuck in the forever girlfriend zone? Are you sure your brain does not register single 30 year olds as unfit for marriage automagically because of fertility/attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 02:19 PM
1

A guy who defaults to chivalry because he has no other option
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:37 AM
2

F22, liberal. Liberal to the point when I’m telling you: you have the right to want what you want and think how you think, BUT it will not change anything. Your rationale is besides the point, because it won’t make people follow your moral code. I described the things that will. I think I need to turn it into a post because this is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:40 PM
0

Depends on what you mean by keeping female hypergamy in check
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:30 PM
1

That’s what it seems to you because you are in your head. To me it seems like the contrary is true because I’m in my head. The best we can do is become more sophisticated and watch ourselves not go down on the level of Deborah and Bob who “know better”. The moment we adopt the same mindset we become complicit in walmarty karenhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:30 PM
2

Neither one of them is “worse”. Categories like “worse” and “bad” are to be saved for Sunday gatherings in Church or parenting your children. Among adults there is only “can I negotiate it for myself?”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:26 PM
1

I think we are talking about different things. I you have to give me more details because I don’t understand what single moms have to do with all that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:23 PM
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Because people read between the lines. They have the right to do it to you too rn. You don’t know how many dudes bang them. Sounds like you want it to be a one way street, so I’m saying: possible, but very expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:17 PM
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Obvi you came up with a convenient dynamics and then picked a justification, rather than having a justification and arriving to the dynamics. This can be reduced to “I want to cheat and her to be loyal to me”. Whatever you can negotiate for yourself. I’m on your side, so I’ll help you. If you are planning to cheat on her those are the things she will require from you: • Money. Expect to be a sole provider. From now on you are paying grocery bills, and not from Walmart but from Whole Foods. You a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:55 PM
1

Yes. Nobody likes people who fall on their laps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:47 PM
1

Nobody should be judged. Everybody should be busy figuring their shit out. That being said, We don’t have to defend their choice to sleep around, we have to defend their right to sleep around. Just like freedom of speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:45 PM
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They are not “afraid”. They understand that judging requires moral highground. Judging without the moral highground makes you a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:43 PM
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You can judge her doing it, but when you deny her right to do it, it makes you a fruit loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:39 PM
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I don’t get it. The way I see it: if men pay women’s bills, women are not to sleep around. If men don’t pay women’s bills… Women are to do what they want. Why do we have such a hard time wrapping our brains around the fact that whoever pays chooses the music?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:38 PM
2

To have a healthy function society, we have to keep male want to keep female hypergamy in check in check
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:35 PM
1

Yes, given that they have an option not be chivalrous and still get laid. If you default to chivalry because you have no other choice - no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:30 PM
1

That’s sjw argument bro 😟 there is no system of oppression of this guy, there just isn’t a system of accommodation for him. That’s the same shit fat chicks with funny ideas about gender believe in
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:18 AM
2

Whether I’m truly involved in the bombings is besides the point. Maybe. That does not undermine my argument about non-involved’s persons consequences are not consequences of his doings by definition. While they might be his problems. There are the consequences of doings of people who… Are involved 😟 If you shit in my house you should clean it up even though it inconveniences me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:06 AM
1

Wrong analogy. If bad things happen as a result of my (US army’s?) involvement - those are consequences. If bad things happen as a result of my non involvement - those are the consequences of actions of people who did get involved. Even if they are my problems. The only person who is involved in this clowns sex life is himself. If we are going to sanction people for non involvement we might as well sue you for a. Not finding the cure from AIDS b. Not ending world hunger c. Not fulfilling my basi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:51 AM
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Your need for intimacy is your problem. Not my job to inconvenience myself because you don’t get enough of it, just like I am not obligated to donate to children of africa
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 08:20 PM
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I’m literally from second world. I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:49 PM
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If someone thinks they are the shit they are probably shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:47 PM
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It’s because non western women don’t have better options. Don’t teach me the alphabet my guy. I know more about them than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:33 PM
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You are just complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:39 PM
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I know, but go try telling them about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:29 PM
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Oh, then what’s your problem? You don’t have one and you don’t want one. Harmony and peace 👼
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:28 PM
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“In my world im always the right choice” - 🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:15 PM
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No, I’m irritable and low energy. So the LV
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:14 PM
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Fix whatever you see in the mirror and worthy women will flock to you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:13 PM
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Idiot virtue signaling Youtubers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:38 PM
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A beautiful woman who will never as for a penny. What is wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:37 PM
1

But they are an alpha 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:36 PM
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So you would not be the second wrong choice? Be a little humbler.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:34 PM
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You are telling this to a woman. Get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:32 PM
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I’ll repeat it just for you because obvi it does not sink in: if someone will follow it, they will only do it for something. No one will do it for free. You understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:28 PM
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Go look in the mirror and come back
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:26 PM
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I’m a non western woman and the reason why we are “marriage material” is because we allow men to piss upon us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:24 PM
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He is a convicted pedophile and I’m not even joking 🙃 his answer might be not representative of everybody’s opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 07:04 AM
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You people can’t even agree upon the definition of RP and you are talking universally accepted standard for women. Get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:07 AM
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I hate it when people define things for others so I can’t be unbiased anymore. And stop downvoting me. It’s annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 06:00 AM
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How much older?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:59 AM
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I already talked to you, you want to just start a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:58 AM
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No dying. Get worthy. You are further than people who pretend they are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:57 AM
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“If you don’t agree with me - you are stupid!1!1!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:31 AM
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Read it up to the point where you said the cookie cutter good guys are denied and stopped taking it seriously. All women are wrong in their assessment and the guy next door is right in his nextdoorhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:30 AM
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Your definition is not less nor more accurate than any other definition, to think that you defined HVW for every single HV men alive is not 🧠🧠 Whatever you can negotiate for yourself - if you can get her go for it 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:23 AM
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I would say, if HVM is a man who is selected the most, HVW is a woman who is capable of being the most selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:18 AM
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Really? That’s not what I frequently hear on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:10 AM
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It’s annoying. You are talking to someone and they can’t crush your skull so they crap on your head a little bit like a dumpster pigeon 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:06 AM
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True. I would push it even further. If you are invisible to men because you are HV you will just be alone. I think you actually need to be a little LV to get a guy fall in love with you, especially if he is not that conservative and proper himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:05 AM
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Nobody will 2 3 and 5, and if they will, only for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:52 AM
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Right, they like 40 year old dick because it’s alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:49 AM
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You came out of nowhere my guy, you needed someone else to define your ideal woman for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:47 AM
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No, if I’m being serious, we need to stop measuring women’s behavior and men’s behavior with the same ruler. Women should not engage too much in the beginning stages of relationship, they should invite men to take initiative. This is normal. If she throws herself into you, spins on your dick like a disco ball, pays for herself you will become disinterested and the moment someone tighter and younger shows up you will throw her out to the wolves, who will eat her face and her pussy as one great Am…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:46 AM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:24 AM
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You have a massive chip on your shoulder
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:20 AM
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So you responses are not true for you? Don’t point fingers at Justin and Tyrone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:16 AM
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Not at all what I said. Stop downvoting me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:06 AM
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You can’t find a woman who doesn’t fuck around? 😟 or you can’t find a woman who does not fuck around among other virtues you want her to possess?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 02:04 AM
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Sounds like you want her in order to ruin her as a revenge for the fact that you can’t have her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:59 AM
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Only this woman is worth dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:48 AM
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If you can’t find the type of woman you want the problem is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:47 AM
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I think you identified everything that makes you less attractive than you could be yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:45 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:28 AM
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Break the package down into components?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:26 AM
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if a guy can’t find a HVW and all he is surrounded by is single moms and ladies who divorce raped their husbands it’s some serious food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:25 AM
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Are you HV?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:19 AM
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It’s just important for advertising purposes?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:16 AM
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Gotta deal with them like with kids: tell them they are an alpha where their input is needed, tell them to adjust their behavior where commas are needed. I have my mom mode on rn 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:14 AM
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So… Does it mean that those who marry a HVW will end up being married to a LVW?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:12 AM
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Sounds reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:10 AM
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And I figured it out and moved on: what is this woman like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:08 AM
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If a woman like that read you post she would go “oh! He wants to remind me I’m ruined for other men to keep me on best behavior.” Do you think she would go for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:06 AM
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If you 69, you n count becomes 69 🧠
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:04 AM
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all of that is true. But I am talking to people who will never admit they can’t get HVW, they claim there are barely any. Everything else is a consequence of this wrong assumption. If there is barely any - those that are there, are swamped with offers? Not true because of what you described. You and I know there is more than enough of them for HV guys. But the key words are for HV guys 😗
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:03 AM
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That’s the time to attract gold diggers. Who do they think they will attract if they as a person did not change since college, but acquired wealth. But noooooooooo… They want a church virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:55 AM
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Pay your punctuation bills and come back
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:52 AM
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I suggest a new theory: even number of partners. She can have 2,4,6 but if it’s 1,3,5 she is a thot. The first one fucks her, moves back and forth - the second one unfucks her by moving forth and back. Cleanse 👼🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:51 AM
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Why would you remind her that? If a woman like what you described read this, do you think she would be with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:45 AM
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(I wanted to say, I’m asking men of Reddit, not athletes or high performing professionals) What is your HV?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:44 AM
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Next guy? We are talking about LTRs here. You are the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:39 AM
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I know 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:38 AM
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I know, but there is a clown below who just listed a bunch of criteria. He pissed himself big time in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:37 AM
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Are you swamped with LTR offers from HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:36 AM
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if she cuts her hair she stops being HV? If she has 4 bodies and than bangs you, she stops being HV?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:36 AM
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That’s what I think, but I have to speak the language of my target audience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:20 AM
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No, they can go home and masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 12:14 AM
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But that’s the thing, he does not “have to”? Men’s sexual frustrations are their own issue, I don’t see why I’m expected to accommodate people who want to fuck me with giving back as little as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:46 PM
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Whoever asks for the other persons time pays for the date. Because they asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:26 PM
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For him I’m meat to be nutted into. If he asks me out he needs something from me. If he does not need anything he can fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:35 PM
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Would make him go do sport as a kid, like MMA or judo. He will be calm and confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:16 PM
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You are useless unless you pay for my food
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:44 PM
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Is anybody gonna tell him that straight women on average sleep around as much as straight men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:16 PM
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Can someone explain to me why, with all the birth control options, damn coffee makers and your washing machine that makes your sahmotherhood easier, a man is “supposed to” provide for you like he did in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:23 AM
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Whoever pays chooses the music to which the other person will dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:17 AM
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😂 Those who don’t look grotesque - yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:12 AM
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Grilled chickens? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:55 AM
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So what good if your offer, or we are not talking about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:29 AM
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Mine is trash, he better off with hookers. We got that established. What good is your offer is the real question.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:21 AM
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I think hookers are way more expensive than my coffee and a croissant. Even cheap ones. J
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:09 AM
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“Turn offs” and “deceptive” are different things. It’s almost like you arbitrarily drew a line in sand and arbitrarily called women who crossed the line deceptive…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:06 AM
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You just said how they should fuck hookers so which one is it 😟 your audience is confused who to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:56 AM
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That’s what I am saying, but annoying men keep trying to fuck me instead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:50 AM
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You think any guy can just go and get a hot hooker. That’s cute 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:48 AM
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Oh. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:40 AM
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I should have said everybody is somewhat sadistic then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:38 AM
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No one said that he can’t go to a hooker 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:31 AM
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Right, you iterated it for the audience. Indented under my comment. You were talking to the audience. Because it makes your comment visible for people, if you put it under mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:26 AM
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We reached a dead end
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:16 AM
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I got an impression that you were responding to my comment for a brief second.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:14 AM
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Oh, then, i’m not giving him my permission. What do you want from me? 😟 Below is exhibit A of why human males can’t logic as well as they think, for all you self proclaimed evolutionary biologist types on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:04 AM
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Yeah, he can go pay a hooker if he wants to. He has my permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:55 AM
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If you don’t understand, I’m not taking responsibility for giving you the answer as it might fuck you up beyond the point of recovery, and you might (will) yell at me, and it will turn into a long conversation that will not change anything. I posted this for upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:50 AM
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I’m not a charity, so he better look like a Greek god.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:38 AM
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No, understand pretty well. “WELl You thINk EvFyone Is An ABuSER!!1!”. Me and everyone else who fucks with psychoanalysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:34 AM
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Well, I don’t know how to tell you, but everyone is, but some people to a greater extent than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:10 AM
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Because taking responsibility for your shitty relationship is empowering. Takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:25 AM
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Freedom always has responsibilities and consequences attached to it whether one wants it or not. Not sure what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:58 AM
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Yeah, that’s the price of freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:40 AM
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No…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:39 AM
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that's convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:14 AM
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There is sick people out there. Some are abusers. Some search for abusers. You are neither, I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:01 AM
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Not lying - they genuinely believe what they say when they say it. RP took "actions speak louder than words" and sold it to the crowd of degenerates like a new "Uber-ultra-giga-Iphone 100". This principle is old like your mama, and it applies to both men and women. IT APPLIES TO BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. And it was never a secret to anyone except for you, Justin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:49 AM
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The devil is in the details. They will take someone else into account, but then they will grow resentment. The moment they can snap and hit back they will snap and hit back, any sort of suppression magnifies your true desires and warps them to the point when you push will push back twice as hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:37 AM
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You is the key word. If you find the right (or wrong) person to provoke they will snap. Some people seek them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:33 AM
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You can date whatever you can negotiate for yourself. If you can get her, you are exercising preferences. Many men have nothing to give to a virgin and like to pretend purity is just owed, and if the woman refuses to keep it for them to come and get it for free, she is a slutafeministruinedandwilldiewithcatsat40. But the truth is that they just can’t get what they want and are pissed off at everybody and your dog. That makes them a hypocrite. Same for women, of course. I’m all for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:14 AM
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Well, yeah. Where is hypocrisy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:00 AM
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Really? I don’t have a data on that I have to admit. My guess is that women support the Nordic approach when it’s that against arresting women, but will pick legalization over mobbing Johns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:25 AM
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Even though most women are against legalization of prostitution, there is more women who support legalization of prostitution than there is men who support it. Just some food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:08 AM
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And to your point about being able to tell: if someone drinks, has bad manners, displays loose behavior, tatted up it’s very likely she is a easy. I agree. But if she is calm, collected, well mannered, you can’t eliminate the possibility though. Can be the biggest hoe in town. Same thing with men. It’s well mannered, calm people who are a real gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:12 PM
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So you have your rationale for some of these situations. Guess what? It does not matter because you are not the one who selects you. The woman can hear all of that and have her own POV. She is not even gonna argue with you. You just will not hear from her again. And you can always go to the next woman but the only girl who will let you into her life after hearing you response to 7 year thing is either broke or ugly, or is deeply damaged. What will you say if a 10/10 beauty tells you this happene…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:59 PM
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It’s a matter of what you can negotiate for yourself. If you can’t offer anything to obtain what you want it’s hypocritical. If you can obtain what you want it’s preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:40 PM
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People completely ignore that we choose ourselves an asshole and provoke them. This isn’t Afghanistan, you could go for someone else you went for this person - why? That’s called accountability and I find it empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:35 PM
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I don’t want to talk in absolutes, but I’ll say this: many women go for abusers and ignore red flags. Not her “fault” but her subconscious choice. A victim sees her abuser and abuser sees his victim, it’s like a chemical reaction. There is secondary benefits to being in a relationship with a tyrant, such as: - Emotional rollercoasters. - Not having to carry responsibility for your own life. -Sexual fetish. -Attention seeking, now everyone has to feel sorry. I don’t think we are ready for this co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:32 PM
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Assault
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:08 PM
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I would not use the word rapist to describe it, but if in your world he is a rapist, then I guess, yes. Or a guy who punched a girl? It’s unacceptable to punch women - in all situations? Really? Or a guy who dated one for 7 years and decided not to marry her and she was already 30? What if he attempted suicide? What if he cheated on his ex? All these people should never have a second shot - that’s a bold statement. I am not in the position to really corner you right now because you can always sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:07 PM
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Read my example with a guy one more time. Project. Chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:40 PM
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Okay dude, people get away with lying all the time, some lies are small enough to go unnoticed. It’s easy for you to sit here and point fingers, and I don’t expect you to understand a woman who was promiscuous and realized she fucked up. Just try to understanding a guy who grabbed a girl when he was pissed off and sexually frustrated and realized he fucked up and does not want to be defined by this moment. Then project this understanding on the woman and calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:27 PM
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Investing in skincare is lying though. Sure you can say even the prettiest 35 year olds don’t look like they 27, that does not change my point: they look better than a 35 year old who does not take care of their skin. By using skincare you are enhancing the way skin looks, just like mascara makes your eyelashes look better. Again, my question: if putting on mascara is deceptive, how come skincare isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:09 PM
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You are lucky 🍀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:02 PM
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Probably not, but some people had more partners than others. If thats the case, it’s stupid to tell it if it’s above 5. If a guy is liberal that’s a different story, but most are jealous to a woman’s past. We can say it’s stupid, but they don’t think so, so the only thing we can do is sugarcoat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:48 PM
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Well now I know. I don’t think it changes my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:30 PM
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I’m 22 too, I’m just making an example. Of course it’s not your average 35 year old, but those who didn’t have a party lifestyle and took care of themselves, and have $$ to invest in their appearance. I’m sure their husbands are not complaining that their wife puts on red lipstick and high heels as opposed to walking around like your average 4ft wide Deborah from Kentucky in Walmart shorts. Both skincare an lipstick are aimed at signaling you that she is young, and both should be pretty deceptiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:30 PM
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Not low, adequate. Expecting a stranger with a goal to be honest is inadequate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:22 PM
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Maybe you can argue they should not be on a global scale. On the individual scale, when self interest is involved, it’s harder to make this case: if I engaged in stupid behavior do I want to be punished for my past? Is it really my fault? How does a person across from me define stupid behavior? How much my past make him insecure as oppose to being “stupid”? I don’t know if I really dug into your biography I will find at least one thing that’s really questionable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 07:21 PM
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How is it not deceptive? If I’m 35 but look like I’m 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:50 PM
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Red lipstick is deceptive but Korean skincare isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:04 PM
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I’m telling them how I operate in the world, and these dudes just fucking knows better because they are self proclaimed alphas or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:43 PM
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And you use good haircut (I hope) to deflect female attention from the chip on your shoulder. So leave women and their makeup alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:39 PM
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The more I know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:01 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:50 PM
1

Where are you geographically? Israel?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:50 PM
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“Everybody heard me? I’m an alpha! I fuck! I fuck! I get pussy! I’m an alpha! Sex - I get it regularly!”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:43 PM
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Meh, we would have to talk about a specific situation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:42 PM
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For the purposes of this conversation, we are talking about being honest about someone’s past. You went off about things that bother you. Using makeup is besides the fucking point, just like wiping ass, good wardrobe or taking a shower You have a good wardrobe? Fucking liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:41 PM
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Wow, I had no idea. I heard it’s only Russia and Japan whose population declines. Russia is economically unstable, and it’s population was wiped down in the 90s. Why don’t Japanese women give birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:58 PM
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If you are nice because you don’t have any options you are not nice, you just don’t have any options. I’ll take XXI
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:53 PM
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I mean, my post is as imperfect as all CMV views. I can’t cover all variables that go into a relationship in a few paragraphs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:52 PM
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No… You don’t want to be too easy if you are a guy and you don’t want to be too difficult as a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:51 PM
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I don’t think so, but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:50 PM
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That’s literally what CMV is for 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:49 PM
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Didn’t think about rural communities, sounds like it’s harder because everyone knows everything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:32 PM
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If you truly tell somebody your past and your personality and opinions - they will run away from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:38 PM
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Because people are willing to accept their past but are not willing to accept someone else’s. Also genders don’t understand each other. Cognitively, yes, emotionally - nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:36 PM
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Are you saying that to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:35 PM
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You say that, but there is things you would not a accept. If someone was creepy with a girl in the past, it will strike you as a red flag. Well, they might have learned control their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:34 PM
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Yes, I’m familiar with the red pill. None of my ideas belong to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:32 PM
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Fuck off. You know nothing about sex or “real alphas”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:24 PM
2

Is it a salut or sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:23 PM
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No one gives a fuck about your off topic rants. “Women uSe MAkeUp!!1!!” You sound like someone who is chased.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:18 PM
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Of course, that’s why we came up with all this wonderful technology that lets us be free. I was not romanticizing the past, I was trying to make a case that people need to lower their expectations with regards to present.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:13 PM
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You should not cheat, but given that you already did - don’t tell. The motive for telling is to get rid of this weight on the shoulders and to put it on another person. That being said, don’t cheat. If you live live live together, then they find out something about you and dump you it does not mean you are not compatible. It means they can’t swallow something due to their own biases. They were fine before. Any relationship will be built on lies, that’s why marriage exists by the way: to corner p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 01:10 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:35 AM
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Tolerating rude is way above my pay grade. Wanted to talk up until now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:32 AM
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I… Don’t know. He looks niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:16 AM
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See, it would turn me on if I closed my eyes. But I watched this video with my eyes open. And i didn’t like what I saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:15 AM
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I would buy it if he was good-looking. I don’t know who does not move away when confronted with that a stranger and his beer belly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:11 AM
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I imagined it. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:06 AM
2

Will check it out. Thnx
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:05 AM
2

see an average skinny fat dude telling any chick he wants to fuck her and her going to bed with him. I can’t disprove, but I would have to see to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:04 AM
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What is your honesty in regards to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:01 AM
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What women? What do you look like? What’s your income?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:57 AM
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Well at least you are consistent what can I say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:38 AM
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Wait, so why would they wait till 25 and 27? Wasn’t fertility a problem at this point? And who would sleep with the guy until he is 27, wasn’t everyone afraid of pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:37 AM
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That’s… Deep. And not at all about you. I’ll go learn to abstract.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:35 AM
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I have seen a traditional woman being fucked, because I objectively looked at her boy with my hypergamous female eye and realized that she traded in quality to oversell herself. And who else are women supposed to sleep with, you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:34 AM
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No, I would not. I would probably fall for it, given that we now add the haircut and the wardrobe to your side of the equation. But then you can’t complain that someone more intelligent than me and you outplays you. For every sociopath there is a smarter one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:29 AM
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What do you care about first and foremost?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:23 AM
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That’s fine, but that’s the trade off many people don’t realize they have to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:12 AM
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Is descriptive political at the moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:09 AM
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It sounds like you are being sarcastic, but I can’t tell anymore on this sub so I’ll treat it as if you were serious. You are entitled to what you can negotiate, but the reality is that it’s not going to work unless you picked her up on the side of a road.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:08 AM
3

I like it that you nickname is ToughAnswers 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:06 AM
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First of all, this is unintelligent and cookie cutter. Second of all, how does it relate to my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:05 AM
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“Clean record” is arbitrarily defined by a person you are trying to date, that’s the complication. So you were open with the person and they decided yours is clean by their standard, and that sounds cool. For many people, it’s a real gamble to reveal their past because they fucked up. It’s so common. The number of guys who did things that I would classify as assault when they were teenagers is ridiculous, but if these people tell their dates about that, they will be alone. So my recommendation i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:04 AM
1

I don’t know if we even need this conversation. Men and women will just get pissed off at one another and will never ever recover. This chat is certainly not for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:51 AM
2

Well, the prerequisite for honesty to work well is a clean record.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:43 AM
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We can have honesty between men and women on this sub. There is limited space at a restaurant table. A man, a woman, honesty - you can sit two.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:37 AM
2

Maybe you are placed in LVM precisely because you show your cards upfront?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:30 AM
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I think we can all agree not whining to your person is not dishonesty - it’s healthy filtering of insignificant information. However, filtering out information which I know is crucial to their choice to step into a relationship with me is, in fact, dishonesty. Any guy who is interested in me will ask me how many dicks have been in my mouth sooner or later, and I can’t tell him dry facts if the truth be told. But that’s okay, because his agenda is to lure me into his bedroom ASAP, and he can’t af…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:16 AM
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So who does it, and why do they do it only to American families, if everybody and your Mexican grandma takes birth control? Lol, the aliens will of course land in California too. Duh, everybody knows America is the target.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:50 AM
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What exactly do you mean by composure?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:48 AM
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And you are lucky if you found someone who understands you. For the rest of us, it’s better if we don’t show our cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:47 AM
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Yes, it is. In 80s or 90s we didn’t have the internet and tinder, which made the dating market even more cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:34 AM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:32 AM
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In a warped system there is no straight answers. I can’t be moral because I don’t want to be alone. The best I can is be not too immoral. So the question to anyone who wants to be moral, especially to women, is - are you ready to be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:31 AM
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Meh, this is a good old chicken and egg. I was more trying to tell him his point is idiotic rather than make mine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:26 AM
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You are entitled to whatever you can negotiate, as much as your post hurts my fe fes. The thing about virginity or purity (whichever you want) is that no woman will save hers for you to waltz into her life and sweep her off her feet. She will give you her past as well as her future only if you are rich, or have a cool passport, or if she is desperate to get out of war zone - shoutout to Ukraine. My girls in Ukraine will cater to your every demand, you want a young virgin? You will find one. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:20 AM
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All of that was done as a result of introducing reliable birth control, it has nothing to do with the West. If you start handing around the pill to women in Africa, it will be a major catalyst to social, economic and political changes. This dating dynamics is not a cause. It's a logical consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:00 AM
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I’m saying exactly the opposite to AFBB. If I’m fucking him I already decided that he is an alpha. The question is: why would I go an extra mile to meet his, not my, sexual needs? I would not unless I get something out of it. AFBB is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:50 AM
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My point is: your point is too idealistic, because there is no human being (especially a woman) who will have the same sexual desires as you. So the way I see it is two people take turns being comfortable. If you want your sexual needs met - the other person will have to put the effort that they will want to be reimbursed for, because your sexual needs are unique to you and nobody is really a match. Of course you can leave, but that does not really solve the problem, if every single woman finds …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:47 AM
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And I’m not, but I have looks to make up for it. Intelligent also does not mean a good chef, loyal or good at blowjobs. I don’t see what you are trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:23 AM
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You actually got me to formulate something that never crossed my mind before. Will make it post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:12 AM
1

A simpler way of saying that is “everybody who disagrees with me is an idiot”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:59 PM
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Him not supporting me is equivalent to me not having sex with him at all. The equivalent to me not doing certain acts is equivalent to him not buying me, let’s say, and iphone while he did it for his previous girlfriend. I don’t know how I would feel because it never happened so anything I say will be a speculation, but sitting in my armchair I can understand his and my side. In reality, I might be salty. This is controversial, but I think there was never meant to be “honesty” and “open discours…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:57 PM
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I tried many things and had a change of heart, it has nothing to do with my boyfriends. If it’s so important to him I’ll do it once, but I am not obligated to continue, just like I’m not obligated to continue using the same perfume or liking the same tv shows
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:38 PM
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Depends on your desires. With some men, It always will be a transaction, because nobody will hang on the chandelier in a split, and if they will, they will only do it for something in exchange. If you want whatever act so many times a week and pay her bills it’s one story. If none of my bills are paid but I’m supposed to put out as if my life depended on it - that’s above my pay grade, to be blunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:29 PM
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If she tries anal once she is obligated to do it for the rest of her life 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:22 PM
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It would help if you updated your tone to something that does not sound defensive. Actually it’s your job to offer arguments since you made the statement first, so I’m asking you to defend it. But if you want to just attack my arguments, that’s fine too. The reality that I’m facing is that a bunch of desperate men think they like me, but that’s because they project desirable things in a woman on me, a stranger. After reaching their goal of pumping me, they can always dip, and since first sex suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:18 PM
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Or you have something to say that is actually an argument. I’m all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:06 PM
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I don’t know, last time I checked I was high enough in intelligence, so maybe dating as a woman is not 2+2.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:50 PM
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First you join BP. Then you get fucked and join RP or FDS. Your last stage of this Pokémon evolution cycle is supposed to be leaving RP and FDS but people get stuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:43 PM
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She never said anything about a man having to make things happen for her. You brought up the thing that was true about your last relationship and projected it onto her argument. This is why I don’t like TRP and FDS, I frequently see a person telling their opinion, and people will burst with their personal pains, even if it’s unrelated
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:40 PM
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Oh, the amount of times I’ve seen people telling me game is easy for me… Then why do so many women struggle with dating? Obviously, because we are idiots. All men are smart, that’s why they see how easy it is, and all women are idiots, because they don’t see how easy it is. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:35 PM
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All of that is true for most men, but let’s be honest, it’s the men with an access to a pool of willing females who offer the open relationship. It’s fine if it’s brought up from the get go. The rest will want exclusivity and will scream their lungs out about morals when they are young, but will switch geers when/if they acquire the resources to be immoral. At this point, the woman usually has a liability in the form of a child, and is not in the position to make ultimatums so she has to turn a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:18 PM
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I thought everybody and your mama already learned that no prince or princess exists, and if they do, they will never settle for them. People on this sub certainly know it, and people who don’t know will never visit this sub to see this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:51 PM
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Dude, you have to demonstrate the evidence that it does because you are making the claim that there is correlation. That’s why in our justice system you are presumed innocent until prosecutors prove that something relates you to the crime. You sound like a religious fanatic “prove me god Doesn’t exist!!!”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:46 PM
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Women raise children, who will become taxpayers and bricklayers. Whether she pays taxes or not, she does not just sip on martinis all day long while brave men carry the world on their shoulders, so the idea that I need to press Fs for respect annoys me. On the individual scale, no one forces anybody to take a blue collar job, and I specifically have nothing to do with circumstances that make guys take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:07 PM
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No. Are you drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:24 PM
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If you want to present your argument you are welcome to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:35 PM
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That… does not make any sense as many ethnic groups are more prone to weight gain, for example, hispanics. does it mean Hispanics are less attracted to hispanics than Congolese are to Congolese? Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:34 PM
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Of course not but initial screening is about utility unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:31 PM
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If everyone was fit we would find a way to discriminate against others and it would not be personality. I’m not making an argument for body positivity btw, or at least I’m not trying to. I’m just pointing out that with changes in population the standard adjusts. Like, In the eastern block, women are naturally pretty so men upped their expectations with regards to beauty. They select top 10% and say “this is what beautiful is”. And in Texas you just need to be not a landwhale to be attractive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:47 PM
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I see people defining fat differently based on average person in the environment. Anecdotal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:57 PM
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In my head it makes sense what I’m trying to say but I think I should straighten my arguments. I am just arguing to argue at this point tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:54 PM
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I disagree with the metrics, but okay. My job existed 30 years ago and exists everywhere so I’m good I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 03:24 PM
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I’m ridiculously uneducated on economics, so if you tell me I consume more than give, I’ll have to eat it I guess. But women give birth to these men who give us all this cool stuff, we don’t just sit around. respecting people as a group does not make sense to me. I think we should respect people on individual basis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:20 PM
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Definition of attractive will shift accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:00 PM
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Not respect - token for heroically guarding our society. But, if you want to destroy my point, you are welcome to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:25 PM
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The definition of fat changes as population gets bigger, I can see it going between Europe and North America. People who I consider chubby are already considered skinny here. It will have 0 net effect on dating dynamics because people’s definition of fat will adjust.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:22 PM
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No, I’m saying every woman can provide sex the guys are looking for - that’s easy. Not every guy can provide women what they are looking for, because it takes hard work
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:19 PM
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Fair, missed it completely. You get the same amount of roads and electricity as I do, and I certainly don’t leech off of public utilities while getting my COVID checks. I… contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:18 PM
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What do you mean by “through time and space”? my hiring wasn’t just to fill in made up positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:16 PM
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Regardless of how you put it, my labor is a part of this society. There is a demand for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:54 AM
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-don’t have kids -went to private school -pay for my own medical insurance -parents paid for college. I take no responsibility in being a burden on anyone except for mommy and daddy. And even women do get more benefits, what do you think they are doing, drinking wine and watching sex in the city?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:49 AM
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That’s actually funny 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:22 AM
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Women make men who pay taxes. We can’t both make you guys and take on an equal weight in the workforce. That would make your utility questionable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:21 AM
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Enough to get you to write this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:19 AM
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they would probably pass me around first. I love my corporate life in America, I do have to admit. I’m an active participant in maintaining it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:18 AM
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I guess you did not. It’s hard to distinguish between human decency and respect (which no one owes anybody). So of course men should be treated with human decency. I agree. No shitting on bricklayers. But respect is earned on individual basis. I can’t respect bricklayers as a group just like I can’t respect blue eyed people as a group. I can only respect a specific person. That being said, they will lay bricks for a city hall and get paid by me and others, we don’t have to step into the territor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:08 AM
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Here is a deal: if you want to fight, you have to come up with clever and funny shit, and this one is neither, because it’s (a.) irrelevant (b.) does not contradict my argument (c.) is a desperate girly fit in a attempt to be edgy. Let’s do this one more time: I don’t care if you care about my career. I’ve been saying that I use it to pay bills of heroes who hand out speeding tickets on highways and that’s why I get the service. I don’t need to be anymore grateful than they do, because we both p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 08:31 AM
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Without goodness of humanity you would be tied up, killed, and brought to my cave where I, submissive and pregnant with tenth son but alive, would cook you for a chimp looking guy who captured both of us. Civilization is good for everybody, that’s why I actively participate in maintaining it. I don’t owe special thank you notes to other participants. Me funding this shit is sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:54 AM
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Right, if your wife asks you to trumpet her cooking as if it was a heroic act of kitchen science with oil and steam burning her face, rather than just doing her fair share. The appropriate answer to hysterical cries for Respect with a capital R is always STFU I paid for it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:19 AM
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I certainly pay more taxes than a police officer, and that’s all I care about. If you want to talk averages: women birthed more men than men. What’s your point? I’ll break mine down: My point is that both men and women are simultaneously beneficiaries and providers, and the idea that we have to go around and trumpet “men who courageously guard the society” is one-sided. I literally fucking pay them. Most men have nothing to do with men who gave me “freedoms”, so the idea that I’m supposed to tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:15 AM
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It’s not that they don’t deserve respect. it’s that I don’t agree “men guarding our society” are a. motivated by the heroic desire to guard our society b. Deserve more credit than women chasing their careers c. Are the providers of security and women are beneficiaries, rather than both parties being providers and beneficiaries simultaneously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:05 AM
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One thing: what about lower class men who would like to get a sex worker but are afraid or can’t afford one? I would factor them in. After all, it’s not virtue if it’s motivated by fear of lack of income. I think most men do not want to pay for sex though, that’s why we have this whole “game” cult on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:42 AM
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A simpler way to put it: the definition of unattractive is the bottom 80. the concept of unattractive does not just “exist” hovering over us, it is derived from the population. All males are ranked in terms of their physical traits that are useful for survival/providing food, bottom 80 is cut from the game. Unattractive guys can’t all die? and if they do the 80% of the remaining twenty will be unattractive. In their defense, if every single man did what he is supposed to the 80/20 dynamics will …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 06:32 AM
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My gratitude to men maintaining the society is in the toilet where it belongs. Every person goes to work and gets paid for the work they do. The career that I am chasing is an element of the economy that allows these men to actually get paid a wage greater than in most places, where is their gratitude for maintaining their income through my taxes? And, secondly, bricklayers are not laying bricks because they want to heroically carry the world on their muscular shoulders. They would take a better…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:41 AM
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That’s your inherent bias. Your brain registers signs of aging in a 35 year old woman as undesirable and signs of aging in a 35 year old man as forgivable. It does not make sense, we are the same species. Almost like women think an average guy is below average… Just saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:29 AM
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Not possible until we outsource pregnancy to machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:25 AM
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Males have no reason to be able to choose. Every hole on legs will fulfill the need for sex, not every guy can be a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:23 AM
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Our passive role in dating is justified by the fact that men are of no use unless they demonstrate how they can be useful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:18 AM
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What is attractive shifts based on the population. If everyone got attractive tomorrow we would rearrange ourselves in the same social categories of “pretty” and “ugly”. If the standard is too attainable or too unattainable it will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:11 AM
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Being in STEM is not where logical thinking hides, and crying in a movie theater is not what indicates its lack. These are differences in interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:05 AM
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You hit the wall as soon as they were born. And I have a couple more years of fucking around what can I say 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:52 AM
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It’s not, unless there is a tank full of fit people nearby. I don’t see how changing one physical trait in a population will change the dating dynamics itself. Feel free to educate me tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:45 AM
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Both genders are emotional, both think their emotions are logic. It seems like men decided to take their view of reality and said “this thinking makes you analytical”, but excuse me, the world is so complex that this approach is literally you trying to fit a globe into a narrow condom of your biases. Women are not “emotional”, they view the world differently. What you mean by logic is an ability to separate yourself from biases and get a birds view of the world. Well hardly anyone is logical. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:37 AM
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They think they want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:03 PM
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Dudes argue like it’s new to them. I thought this shot was textbook
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:02 PM
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You would only like her for the first month or two
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:01 PM
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After several lectures on evolutionary bio and psych you will remember this comment and be embarrassed. Could debunk it but it’s too much typing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:29 AM
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a. Respect =\= kissing ass. b. people who gravitate to FDS and TRP have warped world views, I’m not going to speak for each fruit loop out there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 03:25 AM
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Don’t teach me the alphabet, I know that women who fuck their boyfriends have less issues than women who screw everybody and your dog. On average. Im not advocating for promiscuity, I’m advocating for looking in the mirror before telling women (or men) how they should exist in the modern day dating market. My point: you either marry at 18, or you are contributing to people’s body counts. Whether you date them or not is irrelevant. Many “sluts” are agreeable girls with hysterical personality conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 09:56 PM
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Not my experience at all. People are willing to use them, but that’s different. If this is your experience you might want to revise your definition of a kiss ass
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 08:21 PM
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You brought up too many points, I am not a preacher so I’ll keep it concise. If you want not a slut, not a liar, not a cheater, you should have married one when you were 18 and she was 18. Otherwise, you contribute to what you despise. You guys want casual dating so desperately - you don’t want to “deserve sex” you don’t want to “pay for her shit” you don’t want to “get cuffed” and you got it, and now you are eating this shit with tablespoons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:58 PM
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Yeah, people who kiss ass get in managerial positions especially in corporations, where it’s hard to scan for actual accomplishments/usefulness, and managers sympathize to ass kissers like themselves. But it’s more like narcissists gravitate to corporate environments because the environment rewards it. It’s still a minority of people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 07:03 PM
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Did you just say it to have a fight or you have any clever points?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 06:33 PM
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Too vague. Game is good enough to fuck her, we are talking about dating not a hoe, no? What experience? Does she not have parents who fulfill the function of knowing better?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:27 PM
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I meant a guy her age, younger relative to you not to her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:20 PM
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You laugh, but a man is only an asset if he offers something, or else he is a liability. If I face the choice between a liability in a face of another human and cats I’ll take cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:16 PM
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let’s say you are the woman who is all of those things: sweet, feminine, young, attractive, not a hoe. Why would you go for an older guy as opposed to dating a younger guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:09 PM
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Mhm. Let me pick your brain for a second. Can you describe her in higher resolution, or the rest is irrelevant to your willingness to date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:39 PM
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What kind of woman do you think will go for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:30 PM
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See disclaimer 3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:30 PM
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No no, every woman who is not a narcissist wants somebody who has his opinion, and who she has to tolerate. Do you respect someone who kisses your ass? You find them irritating. So do I.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:26 PM
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You know how else to solidify the idea that you don’t need any improvement? After all, nobody wants to feel like they are just wasting oxygen. For everybody who thinks getting sex from willing females is a good indicator: You get in your pick up truck and drive to your nearest ATM. Get like $300 bucks. Take a highway and go to a small town in a shithole state (if you are from North America), for starters I will suggest outskirts of Louisiana, but later you can progress to Arkansas or Mississippi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 04:22 PM
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Gotta be the first one in line to damage them. And if they don’t line up? That’s because the western society is circling the drain and feminism ruined the dating market 😰
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:53 PM
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Because who do you think women in their early 20s have wet dreams about? Leonardo in his best years, local college Chad, Thimothee Chalamet? No, it’s you. Not dating them would be depriving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:46 PM
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Right! Consistency! Just like you can’t stop being addicted to alcohol, a vegan, a gambler, a Christian or unhappy! You engaged in something stupid at 17 and no longer engage in it? Fuck you! This hookups you had at 18 - remember that? This is going to define your love life at 40, as it should, whöré!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:43 PM
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You have too much social lego in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:20 PM
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Yes! If a girl is a party hoe at 20 she has InHeReNT ObLiGaTiON to continue being a party hoe at 40, or else - it’s unfair to 40 year olds around her!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 01:16 PM
0

This behavior goes beyond nice, so, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 02:52 PM
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For both sex and ltr. I can’t stand the sight of stupid men, just can’t get wet, they are so unbelievably irritating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 12:29 AM
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Okay, but a successful man is far more attractive than a pretty man. You don’t understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:44 PM
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Why did you call me Cathy Newman? As far as I know I don’t agree with her on anything I’ve heard her say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:48 PM
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I’m trying to learn from you so I am not hysterical next time, but unless you tell me what exactly is overly emotional I can’t correct it. you can contribute into people being more logical
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:47 PM
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In other words, you are right because I am hysterical. And I’m hysterical because you are right. That’s… sophisticated. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:29 PM
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What makes you think that your way of thinking is “logical” and mine is “emotional”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 06:17 PM
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Don’t attack me, attack what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 05:23 PM
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Women get pregnant. Women get shamed for sex. Women’s fertility period is shorter. Women often don’t even orgasm and don’t experience any pleasure from sex. Why would any of that be without guarantee of protection? It had been transactional throughout the human history and the only reason why people tell you it’s not is to not hurt your little fefes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:56 AM
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Incorrect interpretation. These wives did not have to submit to him. When God punished Eve he did not say she must submit to Adam, but that she will (because she will have no other choice which definitely aligns with most of human history and how broke people were). Why do I, an hope and degenerate, know this? Learn your Bible, “Christian”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:51 AM
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Excuse me, why are you choosing the “truths” people have to believe to be considered rp? No offense, but who are you? I guess I can define RP for everybody and your mama too. If you believe life starts at conception, you are BP If you believe your game can make up for ugliness and empty bank account you are BP If you think young girls want to suck your 40+ year old dick for love you are BP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:45 AM
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When you come to Macdonald’s and ask for a burger and they ask for $2, and the government backs them through police arresting you if you steal the burger, is it taking advantage of you? Dudes actually think women are supposed to give birth to their children and suck their dicks because they exist and breathe air, and not ask for protection in exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:39 AM
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They chase all women but get sex only from low value ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:34 AM
16

You look in the mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 12:28 AM
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Before discovering TRP many dudes claim they were invisible, but that’s because they appealed to no one. TRP teaches you to be successful with the kind of women who find TRP behavior attractive, obviously. If you learn to play with women you will attract shallow party girls, if you learn to trumpet your psychopathic version of success you will attract gold diggers, if you learn to project traditional masculinity you will attract a traditional woman. You will get what you ask for while claiming “…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:50 PM
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So, the scientific fact that women don’t want just a nice guy is somewhere between “earth is round” and “plants photosynthesize” on the obviousness scale. Congratulations on catching up and notifying the community! Everybody and your dog knows that people have tons of requirements and preferences. not vomiting out “I want him to be six feet, blond, rich, with a huge dick, funny and he needs to be a Virgo and nice” is a sign of sophistication and politeness. People who go around “teLliNg EveRyBOd…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 09:49 PM
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All of that sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:46 AM
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I don’t think you have anything in common with the dude I argued then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:45 AM
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Question: why do you, or the guy above argue that y’all are not losers to me, a hoe and a degenerate, instead of chatting with these successful men from these communities? Seems like their paragraph that they write between surgeries on spinal cord or Wall Street transactions is of greater value than my stupid comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 06:03 PM
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No guy I identified as high value - successful in his job, intelligent, good looking - spends time convincing people on debate sub that he is the shit even if he secretly holds TRP viewpoints (I doubt it, but who knows?). Proving that you are the first rooster in the chicken house means you don’t get enough validation in the outside world. This shit is textbook.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:53 PM
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I can’t argue with it. This is something that you just decided.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:04 PM
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Romantic idiocy. Commitment is voluntary enslavement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:55 PM
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The guy who voluntarily enslaves himself to do something of great complexity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:15 PM
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If you have enough time to type these paragraphs you are not an alpha. Period case closed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:05 PM
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An alpha guy would not argue with me. He would move on with his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 01:02 PM
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Because alphas, for which you people fangirl, are too busy slaying poon to browse your subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:36 AM
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The problem with this one is he does not even believe what he is saying. Sure we argue, but don’t do it in long off topic paragraphs full of cliches, and if someone does, that’s how you know they are trying to convince themselves instead of all of us. Like Hamlets “to be or not to be”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:29 AM
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I fundamentally can’t separate the argument from the person who makes it, and I don’t think I should. A pedophile telling people to not rape children is correct on the level of this particular discussion, but if we expand the frame a little bit he is a fruit loop. This is why people hate things like hypocrisy and virtue signaling: they go on the higher level of analysis and get a birds view of the situation. Which part of this is unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:20 AM
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Okay, that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 02:10 AM
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Read my example about a pedophile priest
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:04 PM
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But why do you care
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 08:01 PM
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What if I agree his statement is partially true but still think he is not the one to make it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:40 PM
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You can, but I wonder what motivates you to point it out. For example, I don’t give a shit about bitter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:34 PM
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In think it’s justifiable for one person to have a certain position but is ridiculous for another one to have the very same position, or to spit it so arrogantly online. Ad hominem - I had to google the definition so correct me if I’m fucking it up in my example - does not seem inherently illogical to me. If a priest who molests children at night preaches about purity and a guy who chose to wait till marriage preaches about purity there would be a massive difference between the two, and I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:44 PM
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It’s not your problem though. Your problem ends at not being a branch for a monkey to grab on, but nooooooo… You have to go on a rant about “single” “bitter” “40 year old”. Even these adjectives sound cliche and overused
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 06:32 PM
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This is what troglodytes do: first they fuck, then they spit into one another and point fingers. Normal people start dating first and then have sex. Eliminates confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:20 PM
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The logic makes sense, it does not make sense for anyone on TRP to lay it out, because you people are not even close to the level where the problem of choice emerges. Your problem is how to slide that d into anybody. You are really going to tell us about the problem of choice top men face? What convention of lawyers, doctors, scientists and Hollywood actors elected you to be their mouthpiece?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:18 PM
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You have to think that girls fucking Chads will end up 40 and bitter, otherwise you have to live with the fact that you do not gatekeep anything and women you so desperately desire will be just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 05:08 PM
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Monogamy is neither by-product or a goal, it’s a tool for your to stop being an idiot. If no one tells you are an idiot the errors in your behavior will accumulate and go unchecked. Seriously, look at middle aged people who decided they are too good for monogamy. They are rigid and set in their ways like Christian fanatics, their worldview is skewed, running around confirming their biases with nobody to tell them they are wrong. Because nobody is interested in telling them they are wrong unless …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:51 PM
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Regarding playing it cool/doing the outreach, its simple but not a lot of people like the dynamics, that’s why they come up with exceptions of all sorts. The dynamics: If you are a guy, always reach out unless you are in the top percentage. You can’t afford to act like a king of the mountain if other people don’t view you as such. Please don’t tell me “that’s why men no longer talk to women”, no one cares. Girls will just flock to guys who put themselves out there and this will be the end of sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:36 PM
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The girl in the uni situation just went ahead and filed a complaint because she had your world view. How did it end? Her supervisor started treating her like shit and she had to drop out of the research program, and there is hundreds if not thousands of Sarahs and Hannahs who had to do the same thing as a result of acting on a whim. What should she have done? Go out with him, record the entire thing, state in the recording “I am not comfortable with us doing this” so it does not look consensual …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:32 PM
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My arguments is that they should not be relied on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:08 PM
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Yes, of course. In my mind, these things should be assumed to have functionality of a scarecrow, because they are as functional as scarecrows
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:02 PM
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Base your claim. Why do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:56 PM
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I have empathy for women because I am a woman. I don’t think that expecting someone to protect you does you any good
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:55 PM
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Being a woman and being blue pulled, I can’t wrap my mind around the fact that so many girls are willing to turn establishments into punishing forces, when we already have the punishing force. Who guarantees that tomorrow the university won’t implement a strict catholic dress code to help themselves deal with these situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:53 PM
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I’m glad you found someone good for you. I don’t know what you did and did not do, but since you think there is a principal difference between stringing someone along for 3 days and 3 months I made some assumptions. If during your ONS you lied to them to get sex, which is technically what we are talking about, it is sociopathic. So you should not cry when another sociopath takes advantage of you. The two of you are playing the same game. The fact that you lied for 3 days and she was stringing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:25 PM
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Okay I can see that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:17 PM
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You already selected them from all the other companies when you went to a job interview with them. You can go, sure. But saying “you are not special” is just trying to save face I don’t understand the last point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 06:35 PM
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How about we spin this around. It’s like saying “if the company does not want to pay me before doing the work fuck them, they are not that special!!!”. I mean, they aren’t. But you chose to be employed by them and no one else, so you already stated implicitly that they are special whether you want it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:50 PM
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You are the type of guy who wants to eat the groceries first and pay for them after, because if the store wants money first “tHiS Is WEaPoNiZInG aNd What if I don’t like the groceries??????”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:47 PM
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I actually believe you that the stringing along has/will happen to you. If you think it’s acceptable to dick and ghost, seriously my guy, what do you think you are inviting into your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:38 PM
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What makes you think you are the mouthpiece for HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 05:22 PM
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Whether they are willing or not is besides the point, which is that the definition of HV is very flexible and nobody can monopolize it, just like the definition of “slut”. You are a nerd? Go to college, there is going to be people with a similar system of values and yours will go up. You think you are rich and successful? Go to New York and your value will go down. No one looks at you? Go to a third world country and watch women line up. And, they are not sociopaths, they are just women 😂. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:06 PM
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Okay, let’s talk about the general population, not basketball coach assistants or high IQ geeks. Well who is the general population? Any American guy can tell any Ukrainian girl that he has a blue passport and she will piss herself. Millions of chicks in the third world will line up for every single guy from the rich west. Does it mean that 100% of American men are HV? According to Ukrainian women, yes. According to American women, no. So, if in order to become HV one has to buy a plane ticket, …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 01:39 AM
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For 140 IQ people I’ll break this down one more time. I wanted to show that HVM is an arbitrary category, not about PHD being the ultimate standard for all of humankind. No matter how great you think you are there is going to be people who have a different system of values, they won’t care about your accomplishments and people who are constantly surrounded by males of your level. He flexed his masters, but if I’m on campus I’m surrounded by these guys, I’m not going to be too impressed, to me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:43 PM
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You think I’m joking, you clown?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:07 PM
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You are actually pretty unintelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:06 PM
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You are not disproving what I am saying. Every FDS chick imagines something different when they say “ability to provide”. What is it? $50,000 a year or $2,000,000? What is long term commitment: marriage or just dating? Genetic top: Elon or Lebron? Yes, they use the same categorical thinking but fail to understand that for each one of them the threshold is different, and I guarantee you that not all FDS chicks think you met it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:51 PM
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Then why do you say you are HVM instead of just saying “I’m successful I don’t need to follow yall standards?”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:31 PM
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What you think about yourself is irrelevant though. I can be a five hundred pound landwhale and think I’m a HVW, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:25 PM
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Justify. Why is it not the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:23 PM
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A woman who has a job/a home business/makes soap/has an Etsy shop is a different story - she is somewhat involved in the outside world… precisely because she deviated from full housewife mode and adopted some masculine ways of being, ironically. A woman who relies on her husband to feed her is in a more risky position than the one who relies on herself, period, case closed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 03:25 PM
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You do care about their opinions, you defined yourself as HVM. I am trying to prove that it’s not an ultimate reality, it’s the perception of a particular woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:02 PM
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The probability that some sort of crisis happens is 100%, for example, the one in 2020. They are helpless in USA because their success is conditional to particular setting. A career woman can learn to cook a meal and milk a cow, a trad wife can not suddenly flip the switch and go into the big scary world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:57 PM
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Means nothing to a psychologically damaged woman, she secretly wants an abusive boyfriend so she can be the victim. No matter what you tell me about you I will find a way to criticize subjectively criticize you and suggest how you can be not desirable to many women. It’s arbitrary how you choose to listen to 100 women who say you are HV as opposed to 100 women who are not impressed because of their own psychological wiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:52 PM
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I’m trying to make a point that HVM is very relative to which woman you ask. It does not matter that PhDs are dumber than you, it matters that I want one, period, case closed. Same with HVW, you might want a virgin. Well a local campus thot can be much prettier, sweeter, funner. It does not matter, you defined HVW as a virgin. So anyone who puts himself in the HV category is insecure and irrational, because there is going to be a population of people who don’t find your virtues/accomplishments w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:43 PM
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But we also have to control for which women go for him in this class (18 year old sweethearts or single moms?) and particular preferences of each woman. And we end up with HVM being a hoax
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:26 PM
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If he was on my campus, and I saw him at the campus gym with 100s other dudes, yes. Everyone there has a degree or works to get one, no one has been married or had children, everyone is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:16 PM
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Optional consent was outlawed because people can control where they put their dicks. We can’t control deeply rooted neurological processes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:12 PM
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Don’t have a PHD? 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:03 PM
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I’ll repeat myself, it’s relative. In Ukraine chicks chase anybody, because there isn’t enough men. Is everyone there high value? No, women there are just desperate. In Harvard, they will flock to hyper successful men. In Afghanistan, they don’t chase anyone. If I am a Hollywood actress, I will look at all people with less than an eight or seven figure income like at shit. How many women have to chase you for you to be considered high value? One? 60% of men will be chased by at least one in thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 01:00 PM
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I’ll repeat myself: if her husband is abusive or it ends in divorce or he finds a younger woman or someone gets ill, she will take quadruple the hit. There is a 100 % probability that one of those will go down. She will be helpless like a child. Let’s not hand out participation trophies to maladjusted dependent little girls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:54 PM
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And blue eyed blond 6’-1” thing is just as retarded. Maybe I’m sitting in Denmark and it’s expected. Maybe I’m into Julios and DeShawns and don’t see the particular appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:24 AM
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I’m trying to make a point that it’s relative yet this guy has a nerve to monopolize the definition HVM. I hate it when people monopolize these categories. In West Virginia anybody with a job is a HVM, but flexing your degree to chicks on college campus is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:18 AM
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Finding a better job is easier than divorcing an abusive husband, getting the custody of kids, and then after years of housewifery finding a job
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 06:05 AM
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If you think you are any different, you are the biggest animal of us all my guy, because you are also unaware of instincts and impulses that guide your behavior. What I’m seeing is arrogance on top of lack of knowledge in biology, neurology, brain science, evolution and other useful disciplines, but trust me, after a couple of lectures on either one of the subjects you will remember this convo with embarrassment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:35 AM
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What are you going to do when your husband dies, when your parents get old and sick, when your he falls in love with someone else, when he loses his job and you need to help him make a living? You will not be as fast on your feet and clever as you could be because you are not exposing yourself to the outside world. You will always be an easy target. It’s easy to abuse you. It’s easy to take your kids away. It’s easy to give you ultimatums - because what a fuck are you gonna do, walk away? Being …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:30 AM
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We are literally animals. What a fuck do you think we are? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:21 AM
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Here is a thing. Before approaching her, look in the mirror. If you don’t see a Greek god, look in your wallet. If you don’t see anything it’s harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:20 AM
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no masters? Sorry dude. Not gonna fly with just undergrad 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:18 AM
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“Ruined by feminism”, “alone drinking wine”, “wall approaching”, “toxic lies feminism told”,”classic feminine virtues”, “modern women”. Urban legend says that if you write these on pieces of paper you can arrange the pieces in any way and get a speech so preachy that a Sunday mass at your local church will seem a motherfucking circus 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:22 AM
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Males chase females across species. Before posting on a debate sub read a biology textbook, you will drop less cliches
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:16 AM
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What about you is high value?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:12 AM
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You legitimately don’t feel the difference between chivalry and harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 02:08 AM
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Why are you monopolizing the definition of TRP? There is no universal agreement/understanding of what you described within your community.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:28 AM
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I’m curious, why did you have to make this comment? Are you trying to provoke him to say something outrageous so he can feed your bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:57 PM
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Well first we have to agree on the definition of sexism and second we have to agree on the definition of morality don’t we
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:55 PM
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I dunno dude people stop appreciating what they have pretty quick that’s why they line up for new iPhones every couple of years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:46 PM
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You think this resentment does not pour into other areas of the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 09:21 PM
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I agree, I just phrased it weird 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:43 PM
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This is a pathway to mental asylum because people will force each other to hyper focus on their insufficiencies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:37 PM
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But why are you complaining if men are the same? You think they will always be honest and if both genders are equally shitty, what’s a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:13 PM
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What is this comment in relation to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 06:46 PM
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Instead of doing what? I thought that’s what everyone does anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:43 PM
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How do you imagine people being honest with one another? “You are fat”, “you are broke”, “you have a shitty kid”, “you add nothing to my life”, “you are a hoe”. Not everybody handles this stuff well in my experience 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:41 PM
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There is not a shortage of dudes crying in despair for anything, and there is a small number of men who will not fuck just anything, only 9s and 10s. Everybody has standards for both sex and relationships not everybody gets to exercise them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:33 PM
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You and I know they do, they don’t know they do. They say they want “any woman”. But as soon they get “any woman” they will complain and want a better one, because everybody has standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 05:23 PM
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Say men with no standards. But just because they don’t have standards does not mean other people can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 04:59 PM
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There is a threshold. Those who pass it are equal irrespective of who is more attractive. If they don’t meet the threshold I don’t look at anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:39 PM
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Well of course It’s relative to your preferences, your Macdonald’s is my 3 star Michelin and vice versa. I tried to outline the principle that once you get something that’s just food to you, you will become more particular about your preferences unless it just so happens that Macdonald’s is your perfection
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:47 AM
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Because once men get the sex they are looking for they discover that they a whole list of other needs: now suddenly they are not satisfied with a fat booty they want a nicer one, they no longer want to pay for the girl, they want to be loved and respected not for their income but for existing and breathing air, and not be pushed around. Sort of like when you feed a hungry person with Macdonald’s, after a while they will no longer appreciate the crappy food they get and will ask for steak
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 10:51 PM
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If women can’t handle the army they should get the fuck out. If boys can’t handle education system they should get the fuck out. The overpriced jobs require a lot of responsibility and intellectual ability, if you pay teachers instead nobody will do the overpriced jobs because there is not enough return for their investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:55 PM
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Listen, I could be a trad woman and a wife tomorrow if taliban waltzes in. I would not like it. Could I adjust? I absolutely could. It’s a rare traditional woman that could lift their asses and go get a life, because in XXI ALL trad chicks I’ve met secretly hide their fear of life itself behind the facade of 1950s virtue. Telling that they are just as or more valid is to hand out participation trophies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:50 PM
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It sort of is. I think everyone knows everything about everybody we just have to listen closely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 02:21 AM
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I don’t know what to tell you. I’d rather be rich than married
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:53 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:20 AM
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It’s almost like I’m … BOTH
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 08:40 PM
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I agree that women strive forward and demand even more of men. I don’t agree we somehow “lost”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:50 PM
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As you said, I’m not. My argument was limited to men I’m interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:39 PM
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The men you are talking about can’t even do that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:28 PM
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Because I man who will just leech off of my youth without providing anything in exchange (beauty, money, security) is useless meat. Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:22 PM
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Believe what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:20 PM
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That’s the dynamics. I disagree that it’s bad for women. I would rather be alone on top of the mountain than with someone on the bottom. Yet dudes try to convince us that in fact, we secretly want to be one these Walmart chicks with husband and kids. If we wanted that we would get it trust me, it’s less effort full than self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:20 PM
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No. Because it’s unfair. woman raises kids, dude makes a living. If I’m doing better in both it’s unclear what I get out of this arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:03 PM
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I’m not supposed to provide examples for the point YOU are trying to prove dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:01 PM
1

I’m literally Russian lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:00 PM
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Hills are an extra. They won’t feed you. You can put them on or take them off without any major impact on your life. Education is essential to your quality of live. You remove education, your quality of life goes down. That’s the difference between shoes and a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:15 PM
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Dude, women get degrees not to impress you, but so they don’t have to tolerate your dick for food and shelter. And you be like “women lost the war for having to tolerate dick for food and shelter!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:04 PM
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Oh shit man, you are such a big brain. I didn’t realize they don’t have to do anything, but now you said that and totally convinced me!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:03 PM
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China, India or Russia - the shitholes. If you get laid in one of those, it’s because women there are so broke they don’t have any other choice. Your examples are weird my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:35 PM
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Partly because they have to. If everyone else puts out and you don’t, they have extra 100 points which you don’t have because you are “difficult”. Hookup culture is not exclusive to going out to the bar and grabbing the first stranger you meet on a dick and fucking. It exists in the form of situationships. I am an objectively attractive person. I can’t tell you how many times dudes would ask my number, text me and over the course of conversation I would find out they want a FWB situation, using …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:25 PM
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Oh and second thing. What’s a better alternative in your opinion, to hand these 80% participation trophies? Before social pressure equalized the market, now women refuse to participate in “everybody is a winner”. It contributes to pussyhood culture we have all around North America.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:15 PM
-1

Why do you speak in cliches?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:11 PM
2

Tried to be confrontational.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:11 AM
2

Right, and they want to fuck me that much… because I’m an 8. Just cope with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:58 AM
2

Do you have a boyfriend who is high value and fucks you, you clown?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:54 AM
2

Men around me rate me. Slavic is not aryan. Im not attractive because of them. I just am attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:40 AM
2

8/10, Eastern European by ethnicity, 22 yo, blonde, blue eyes. You just pissed yourself big time on this last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:48 AM
1

Bro if you get pregnant you would have these standards too. They are not too high. What do you want from women? And according to you there is two groups of men: high value and doormats. No offense but high value does not argue with pussy on Reddit, he scores it while you are crying me a river about lotteries and girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:23 AM
1

I’ll tell you more, men with options want the same thing in a woman. Those are not high standards, nobody wants useless to nut in them because women have to raise the product. Useful has nothing to do with money. Or, not all of it is money. It’s rather competence and an ability to share resources. If you own a brothel you can have money, but I doubt a normal fucking woman will not run away screaming. Then it’s even worse. I don’t need a doormat, I need a partner. Before writing a statement like …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:56 PM
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Women want a man who is useful, handsome and treats them well. The problem with desperate is that it’s neither of those, that’s how they ended up there. But they will do everything in their power to put on the act. And how am I to know if he is truly a nice person behind the performance? He raised ten orphans, or donated to a dog shelter? And think about it: if someone tries to be liked too hard you don’t respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:18 PM
1

Cool, will check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:52 PM
1

I thought it was the difference between scientists and engineers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:39 PM
1

Riiiight, which is addressed in the part where I talked about how you will only come across desperate dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:38 PM
1

Then you won without trying 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 06:37 PM
1

Not to everything. The answer to the problem of having no choice is being hot. But once you have choice you face the problem of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:38 PM
1

I’m not saying people should take whatever comes. I am saying people should adopt the balance between taking whatever comes and sitting around waiting for Prince Charming. If they want love life. In some sense, shitty qualities are normal though, because everybody has them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:37 PM
1

That’s not crazy at all. In fact, it only makes sense for liberals to be with liberals and for conservatives to live with conservatives. If you were so progressive that no one around you is it would be grounds to reconsider
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 05:32 PM
1

What are your principles if you don’t mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:31 PM
1

Those are the benefits. There is repercussions too. But since you never went through an experience of a good relationship (I assume?) it’s like explaining the taste of banana to a person who never tried it. Maybe you have tried it. Even if you did not like the banana, it’s like sure, but this is unique you. there is a lot of people who want the banana but bullshitted it so much: it has to be cut a certain way, and have caramel sauce on it, and be harvested on Tuesday morning at 7:15 am. This ban…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:29 PM
1

Fair enough. But this is a trade off you are making. A lot of people make this trade off without realizing this and then blame others that no one prepared themselves for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:19 PM
1

But this is not your problem. This is my problem. So why are you choking with joy thinking about me at 27? Sure I’ll be less desirable. How will this improve the quality of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:55 PM
1

And you are entitled to doing that, if you understand repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:47 PM
1

I’m 22, so it flies so far. Hang out at any college campus. You will see a plenty of hot girls who don’t work out, because they are young and have good genes. I’m one of them. It would not stop me from being a loser, but I’m not one. That’s why I don’t care about working out and supporting my genes. The problem is not me, the problem is you. I wrote my opinion, you got pissed off. I never wrote anything insulting to you, you started a fight. If I was you I would ask myself why am I so irritated …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:37 PM
1

Yes, in fact I think all these marriages are not in fact people getting exactly what they want. Imagine a perfect woman: her facial features, lifestyle, body, temperament. Does she exist? Probably not, because nature is too random to produce something resembling your image to a t. If she exists, does she want you? Does she agree with your principles? Everyone trades the pursuit of an ideal for actuality of being with someone, also known as “settling”. To one extent or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:29 PM
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Dude I’m an 8. I am attractive naturally. Im just not athletic. You don’t know me and that’s why you pissed yourself big time by bringing up incelhood - sore spot or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:15 PM
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Did you write this to brag? I’m glad it’s working for you. I believe everyone is entitled to whatever they can get - liberalism and individualism are beautiful. The problem that I emphasized is that most people can’t, therefore OPs advice is not working. Your anecdotal experience has nothing to do with the generality I described.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:11 PM
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I’m glad it worked out for you. Of course you should not circumvent your boundaries entirely and hoe around because everyone does it. I am not saying being flexible like plasticine is a better alternative to rigidity. I am saying the balance between flexibility and rigidity is a better alternative to rigidity. I would say, if a girl approached 25 and she never had any relationship even though she tried and wanted to, it’s time to give some second thought to her expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 03:07 PM
0

Unwillingness to negotiate them might. Depending on the principles I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:19 PM
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🥳🎊🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:56 PM
1

Okay, you won. I don’t have these stats. More like anecdotal data from talking to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:23 PM
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I don’t know the girl, but I already hate everything about her. She is probably a non analytical person, never scans her mind for those bugs. Sounds like the type of girl to support Rachel’s break up letter when Ross “cheated” on her (“Friends”, if you are from North America).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 11:04 AM
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I’ve had this concern, but height is not that big of a deal. Intelligence is. I think my best shot is to go for an intelligent and useful guy. Intelligence = good genetic material, useful = helping me deal with the aftermath of him nutting in me. So basically short ugly and broke come before dumb. I can’t do dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:56 AM
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I don’t know if you are sarcastic or not, but actually, yes, If you are unwilling to negotiate your boundaries and think that it should be some sort of eleventh commandment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:39 AM
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I just can’t imagine the scenario. “Can I please fuck you, friend?” 😀👌
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:33 AM
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It’s just as ridiculous as asking your male friend to buy you shit. She sanitizes her pool from bacteria rather than reducing it in size in your examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:21 AM
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True, okay, I should have said “whoever asks for the other persons time pays” He can, but if he asks me out, I assume it’s because he evaluated me as hot and wants sex. he wants something from me. And I don’t know if I want anything from him. So he markets himself by showcasing his ability to share resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:15 AM
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statistically, it does not make sense. There is more girls wanting to wait before marriage than there is guys. Someone is going to be left out. Same for men. There is more guys not wanting to pay for stuff than there is girls agreeing with this. Your advice only applies to a group of very attractive people who have an upper hand in any dating negotiations. The Teslas of the dating world. Let’s say you wanna buy a car, and you see a Toyota, a Toyota, another one… Within the same price range. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 10:01 AM
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Whatever you can negotiate for yourself you are entitled to 💁🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:43 AM
1

Fine. Are you ready to be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:39 AM
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Let’s be honest - I won’t ask him out. I only said it to not make too many points, but since you brought it up: Woman is only interested in very few men in the beginning stages. I dont understand why y’all point it out like some contradiction to my logic, it’s like chill, this probably does not apply to you or any of your friends. I’m sure these men are doing well despite I’ll never ask them out. Now, since the last one is out of the way: this has everything to do with interest levels. I don’t g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:38 AM
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Because If whoever is more interested does not pay, whoever is less interested will not go out. Because they are less interested. If I don’t know a guy and he asks for my time, I want to get something back. Because he asked. I didn’t ask. He did. If he does not want to pay he does not have to go out with me. He can call a prostitute. Or not call a prostitute. I don’t care. But he wants some of my time. I don’t want his. He wants mine. Does it make more sense? I don’t know how else to break it do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:26 AM
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Romantic idiocy. You better be hot. Otherwise, be ready to not get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:20 AM
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Sure, there are, but it will drastically limit your candidate pool. After your pool is already limited there is questions like: are they truly deep and driven, or are they just desperate? Let’s start with desperate. But you probably want them to be good looking, successful, have a certain personality configuration. And you have to have them like you as well, by the way. It’s fine to live by these principles really, but my question to these men and women is are you ready to be alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 09:19 AM
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Women are not piece of cake, sure, what you missed is that males are just as shitty as women. For example, some think they saw the world while in reality their world is limited to locker room talk and chasing young pussy, and blaming women for not wanting to fuck their old estrogenized due to beer intake body (with bitch tits) on feminism. Well at least thank god that you are no at all like that, your personality is not copy pasted from Fox News and the female race has one true alpha to simp for…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:53 AM
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Your math is perfect, it collapses when it comes to real world application. As a woman it’s hard to sell yourself for $2 when everyone else sells themselves for $1. Like, you better be hot. If not, you will come across desperate more often than commitment driven. Same thing for men: in reality a girl will just find somebody who takes her out. You can’t live your life like a loner wolf or a chaste virgin, you have to negotiate your principles with people around you, or else you better be prepared…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:38 AM
2

Social, generous, sociopathic, living here and now, impulsive, creative, flirty, commitment shy, easygoing. The same things appeal to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 01:40 AM
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Here is a valid excuse: not working out because you do not need to. Same excuse applied to anything you are not your absolute best self at. My brain is my working tool, so I need to develop it. My body is not my working tool, because I’m not a model, an actress or a prostitute, so I don’t try to be my absolute best self. Your worldview is just as limiting as “everyone has to go to college”, or “there is no excuse not to be making seven figures a year”. Are you making seven figures? No? Then you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:55 AM
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No, if a man has to pay, I don’t know if I’m interested. But he knows he is interested. That’s why he pays for the platform for me to maybe get interested, because he needs something from me. Which part of what I’m saying is contradictory? If he needed something from a prostitute he could call a prostitute and I would not cry because… I am not interested unless he convinces me that I am. Women are not interested in men just because they exist and breathe air. If you are a chad thundercock who ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 12:30 AM
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Okay, if I’m interest enough to ask him out I’ll pay for his steak and fries. You got me there. Whoever is more interested proposes a date, and usually it’s going to be a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:26 PM
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When a smaller company wants to work with my employer they always pay for lunch. Because they are more interested. Whoever is more interested pays. Which part of this do you find unfair or confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:15 PM
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Him paying for my food is him paying for my time. I did not ask for the date, he did. You see, its clear why a man goes on a date with a woman: he sees a beautiful healthy lady, which is what he is after. Well this is his chance to show how he can be useful, meaning that he showcases his ability provide and share the resources, which is what I am after. Otherwise it’s unclear why a beautiful healthy lady would go out with him? Again, him paying for the meal is him providing the platform for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:38 PM
1

The issue with n count is that it only goes up, while your wealth depends on (for the sake of the argument) how hard you work. Not hypocritical to want a low n count woman if he courts her properly and marries her so she can stay low n count before you provide her with security. Not hypocritical to want a high earning guy, though women should look at themselves and evaluate their chances objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:19 AM
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If you are a virgin at 24 not by choice: to women around you look like a high school kid who wasn’t invited to the party. But because he can’t admit that nobody wants him around he trumpets it as a virtue and has lots of opinions about his potential girlfriend’s party life. It’s not sexist, it’s just… Well. Delusional. If you are a virgin by choice: what you said is completely valid. Clarification: you become a virgin by choice if there was a willing female in your life, but you chose not to cap…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:01 AM
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At my job, whenever a company on a smaller scale is interested in my employer, they pay for lunch. It’s common sense. Whoever is interested has to pay for the platform for establishing working or personal relationship. No one accuses me and my colleagues of prostitution. So to answer your question It depends on your definition of an escort, but one thing I can tell you that I am not a charity organization to give my time of day to people who don’t interest me. Since they are more interested, I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:47 AM
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Women who run casting agencies and offer family therapy are literally doing so by using their masculine qualities, because they have to at least outrun competitors. I think feminine mind is capable of doing these things in spite of, not thanks to being feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:33 AM
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USA. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:53 PM
0

Dude you can literally go, you are choosing to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:45 PM
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You are just making an argument about how femininity is beneficial to the society. This has nothing to do with femininity being strong and has everything to do with femininity being beneficial to the society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:25 PM
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The more masculine the mind is, the more it’s capable of running a business. If you look at female or male CEOs they will have a masculine temperament configuration. Listen you can’t just expand the definition of feminine to include all life tropes, unless you are arguing that everything any woman does is feminine by definition. Is this your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:23 PM
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Okay, I’ll take your word for it. In your world, women are now stuck with depending on whether there is a white knight who will buy them food and defend them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:33 PM
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Cheap virtue. Anyone can defend anybody on YouTube. When it comes to something real men are suddenly more reluctant. And I’m not blaming men for being reluctant - fair enough, nobody wants to take a risk to save someone else, but then let me be my own advocate. “BuT yOu GoTta Be FeMInIne!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:18 PM
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I am too stupid to understand. Please explain to idiots with a masculine mind like myself who will feed us while we are being all that you described. Because I really-really want to be feminine and what you described sounds cool, but I’m afraid of dying of starvation, you know. Please advise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:13 PM
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You didn’t answer the questions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:25 PM
1

Femininity in its pure form is weakness. Being a teacher is a more masculine way of existing than being a housewife, not because of teaching itself, but because you are literally holding a job. The more masculine your lifestyle is, the stronger you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:22 PM
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Beautiful passage that, unfortunately, has nothing to do with real life. Who is going to pay my bills while I inspire, destroy and provide emotional reinforcing for psychos of all sorts? And if they are going to pay my bills, where is a guarantee that they will continue doing so throughout my life? Who will pay for my parents treatment when they get old? Who will feed my kids if my husband passes away?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:01 PM
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Chill. I agree that being a teacher or a nurse grants you more strength than being a housewife. I don’t agree it grants you as much power as taking on a traditionally masculine job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:56 PM
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Have you ever been anybody’s unpaid bodyguard and if you have not, why do you think other men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:29 PM
2

I see how it could be a lifestyle 200 years ago: women were guaranteed shelter and food while they maintained social bonds. It was hardly a good life, but I’m sure nobody’s life was good. This is why women rejected it on mass once birth control is introduced. Today women are not guaranteed food and shelter, so femininity (I am using your definition of it, maintaining social bonds) is no longer helpful. A woman who does not take any masculine roles is risking because Prince Charming does not work…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 05:28 PM
2

So if it is so obvious, would you mind explaining it to an idiot like myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:47 PM
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No, you didn’t describe how performing this function makes an individual strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:42 PM
4

It does not explain how it’s a strength for women, you just outlined it’s function. “An Apple is tasty because it’s green”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:37 PM
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A guy paying for my food on a date is him simply paying for my time. If I pay for myself, I might as well go out with a friend, without my friend staring at my breasts and having weird expectations. I don’t understand which part of this is not clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:13 PM
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I think the problem with being feminine is that it is not necessarily beneficial for the person. Traditional people say “if you are feminine there will be a guy to help you”, but it’s like, when you are sweet and soft they might help you or kick you to the ground. It’s a Russian roulette really. It’s very conditional how femininity is a strength
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:07 PM
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Can you get anymore preachy? I hate blanket statements. Define masculinity. Define femininity. Explain how they are a strength for one gender and a weakness for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:09 PM
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Your paragraphs are copy pasted from communities, they are one sided, one dimensional and show no real you. I could poke into all points, let’s do just loyalty because this is what confuses my about not just MGTOW, but also feminism and both pills so people in general. Why do you think loyalty is already supposed to be there? There is a ton of people who don’t require it. So basically loyalty is the default option because you decided so? That’s arbitrary. It might not be how she thinks. She migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:38 PM
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I am the table. I am young, hot and fertile. If those things don’t count he can go on a date with someone old, ugly and infertile, but he decided to go on a date with me. I wonder why? Because these things are valuable. When dudes cry how these specific assets are not enough I would ask what they have to begin with before jumping to “what else” I can offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:27 PM
0

Read what I said again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 04:27 AM
1

Yes, but men can manipulate women with money, financial abuse is just as real. Because there is no unequal couples. If there is a gap in appearance, the dynamics will be flipped on the financial side. You always, always compensate for your partner’s excellence in something. It equalizes the playing field, which is fair, since every relationship forces the two involved to be opponents from time to time. But there is no way to level the field with someone who has significantly more life experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:24 AM
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Because the only thing that gives you ultimate advantage in life in the USA in the twenty first century is your intellectual ability topped with experience. Beauty, money, your family’s wellbeing don’t give you nearly as much footing. They are replaceable. Your brain is not. Intelligence topped with experience allows you to be manipulative in ways so subtle and sophisticated that a girl half your age cannot play your game. That’s why we don’t sexualize children by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 12:58 AM
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So serotonin - the hormone of confidence and assertiveness. It all boils down to biochemistry no matter how you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:02 AM
1

And why would someone want to reach the external social goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:58 AM
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Okay, you got me there. It does not change the rest of my argument. If you don’t exercise selectiveness it does not mean women have to play the same game. And anyways, the problem should be “how do I personally become more choosy and not settle for a fat chick” and not “things landwhales want and don’t want”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:19 AM
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I don’t think you discovered a holy grail: people are always after receiving a dopamine kick and an adrenaline kick. Nobody ever wants to “just engage”, this is evolutionary biology my guy. When a person does something - anything, really - there is always something specific the person is after even when they claim they “just search for truth”. “Engaging in a meaningful debate” is never the goal, it’s just means of reaching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:39 PM
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In their defense women will still want the upper 20. If everyone would suddenly improve it would not change the dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:53 PM
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You really think we don’t realize the interest is going to dry up? We are not as stupid as you think. In fact, the drying up is precisely why we are so reluctant to date down. Might not get a second shot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:49 PM
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I don’t see a problem with that. 100% of men want a Instagram looking doll. 100 % of women want a guy making 6 figs. Men are willing to settle for less rather than be alone and women would rather be alone if their standards are not met. But it’s on men. You don’t want to fuck a landwhale? Don’t fuck a landwhale. The fact that a doll does not want you is your problem. And if you are willing to fuck a landwhale you are part of the dynamics which you are describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:40 PM
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If I am not entitled to choosing which guy to go for, than who is going to decide it, you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:28 PM
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Read my comment again. I said I am entitled to my choice. You are entitled to yours. Fuck whoever you want. But if a woman does not wanna sleep with you, guess what, she is entitled to hers. If a chad does not wanna fuck me, he is entitled to his as well. Everybody is entitled to choosing who they sleep with. Which part of this statement do you find confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:26 PM
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Thank God those are my problems and not yours. You really don’t have to worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 04:14 PM
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This is up to him to decide. None of them complain that I stray into the bedroom, willing and available
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:39 PM
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I am entitled to nothing but my choices. Yes, I would be upset. But I would be even more upset in a relationship with a dweeb. And if it wasn’t this way we would be dating y’all, not fucking Chads, which is exactly what you are pissed off at
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 03:39 PM
1

Punctuation might help me understand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:34 AM
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I am entitled to making my own choices
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:33 AM
8

Sure, we all are over sensitive here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:33 AM
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I’m using actresses as an example of women who have enough financial security to not fuck average for food and shelter, I am not, god forbid, projecting their experience on me. I am projecting their reality on all women’s try desires. Men you listed are exceptional, that’s why it does not matter if they are 30 or 50, every woman recognizes their uniqueness. Just read my post again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:18 AM
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Dude multiple people are telling you that your attitude just leaks through your sentences. Damn whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:29 AM
1

Okay, you got me, Mila Jovovich is married to a guy who is 11 years older than her. His name is Paul Anderson. According to Wikipedia his net worth is $50 million dollars, also he is a film director and his facial features are on the top end of attractiveness scale even at 56. He could find himself a 20 year old girl, a 25 year old girl, and she would actually be attracted to him. My question is: What the fuck do you have in common with Paul Anderson? His 56 and your 56 (35,40,45,50) are two dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:26 AM
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I would rather fuck Chads than have a relationship with unattractive men, and I am entitled to it. You are mad because you are not that Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:10 AM
0

Let’s say all young men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:05 AM
1

Cheating ruins lives, not “not accepting it”. No person will accept this and if they do - it’s because they do not have an option to find someone loyal and they have to play it off like they are “chill and no drama”. By your logic if you and I date and I punch you, and you decide to leave for a better woman, it’s your fault our relationship fell apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 12:03 AM
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Look: let’s say I don’t like spinach. My dislike of spinach is subjective and irrational, because spinach does not do harm to me. Am I going to shove it down my throat? No, because not liking something is a sufficient basis to not put yourself through an experience of eating spinach. Just because your emotions are complex and irrational it does not mean you get to put on bulletproof pink glasses and fool yourself into liking spinach, even if it’s objectively good for you. Now substitute spinach …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 11:12 PM
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I am curious what you are leading up to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:44 PM
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Meaning that my father and grandfather could not. Divorce was costly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:44 PM
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They were already married and couldn’t run 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:32 PM
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Never even once did I say anything closely resembling Disney fantasies. What I did say, is if you want to get loyalty you need to work for it, which is quite different from cartoons and fantasies. To address your point about being cheated on when you are forty: sure, all sorts of things might happen and you might lose even if you do everything by the textbook. No one says it can’t happen. But your attitude right now is to lose in advance by settling for a fat guy and bitch how “all of them prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:18 PM
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Women are more willing to stick around because they are more vulnerable due to pregnancy, children, lack of physical power. It does not make sense for women to “dispose” men on mass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:48 PM
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What’s your take on this? How do women view men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 07:17 PM
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At first, of course. Maybe later they recognized that these women are people and not just handkerchiefs but it was too late
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:59 PM
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Ofc. I don’t see the catch yet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:45 PM
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Rich Hollywood actresses, daughters of billionaires, famous models don’t rush into bedrooms of men 10+ years older than them; the upper bound of age difference will be 7 years, also given that these men are attractive which does not apply to most dudes here or anywhere. I am curious: why do you think women like Kylie Jenner and Chloe Green don’t sugar fuck daddies twice their age? Ladies, let’s help them figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:40 PM
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How about I go for a partner who has other options, but continues choosing me. It’s hard to keep such person around but It’s not supposed to be easy in the first place. Nobody owes you their loyalty just because you breathe air, loyalty is always earned. The only way not to earn it is to get a fat, dumb, broke dude who complains that no woman wants him. But is his loyalty worth anything? Again, it seems normal and logical that you have to bust your ass for an attractive smart guy to always choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 06:18 PM
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People
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:35 PM
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It’s annoying. I see through this. Any guy who tried to be my “friend” is assumed to be fishing for pussy. I don’t believe men and women can be friends because men see women as meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 01:02 PM
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Okay, believe what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:56 PM
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I don’t care if you think he is on his sexual peak or not, to reiterate: women want young men, period case closed. Why are you trying to prove me I secretly want to fuck a 35 year old? Women are tired of explaining to you that old guys are not attractive, and you try to shove this idea of male sexual peak down our throats. Chill. I don’t judge prostitutes, I believe it’s destructive to be one tho. Prostitute is literally the definition of a woman who has sex for money. There is nothing a 35 year…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 02:50 AM
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The same way going to the gym does not make up for a lack of youth for a woman, it does not make up for a lack of youth in a man. Never did I use a shaming language. I am not a discriminatory person, I realize people have desires that are natural of all sorts: fucking hot young thots and dudes, eating cakes all day, drinking themselves into oblivion, sleeping all day long and killing each other for money. But your question of why people shame dudes and girls involved into the youth-money exchang…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:13 AM
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You see, the same way you desire a young hot body we desire a young hot body. There is a ton of talented smart good looking 25 year old guys studying engineering, physics, business in college. What they don’t have is money. 35-40 year olds have the money though. If a 20 year old dates a 35 year old, she is a prostitute. No, people will not stop bashing them for doing it for the same reasons they won’t stop bashing drug addicts or gamblers - because it’s destructive behavior. Of course it’s her c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:56 PM
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No, she is not. She just does not have as many offers from men as a hot thing. The price is lower, the principle is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:42 PM
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You have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:36 PM
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I am a woman. No, I think both men and women are equally fucked up in many ways. If you are crying about me hating men, I have a list of things in the back pocket that girls will think and do. I am not complaining. It’s just not what the conversation is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:31 PM
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I am a woman. No, those are not my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:27 PM
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What we are saying is the only way a 20 year old will fuck a 40 year old (bar Hollywood actors and Elon Musk) is if she is a prostitute. We are not saying we will gladly do it, we are saying it’s the only way this exchange can be legitimate. Many women prostitute themselves in the same manner, by the way, but for cheaper. Not to 40+ year olds and not for cars and real estate, but for phone bill and food in the fridge. I am not judging, I swear, I just hate how people say that prostitution is out…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:26 PM
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True, but as you age there is a greater chance to be richer, because you had the time to acquire the wealth. There is relatively many 40 year old millionaires and relatively few 20 year old millionaires
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:18 PM
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It’s relatively rare that a guy has both looks and a trust fund to fall back on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:30 AM
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He will get enough girls, most of them will be shallow sugar hoes. Because there is good looking guys her age, but what these guys don’t have is money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:54 AM
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Wanting a man who is rich is a definition of woman. I am yet to meet a girl who wants to take out a loan to buy some groceries. The determining factor here is what she is willing to give back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:00 AM
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Dude I’m really curious: why would not a slut marry you? What can you offer her in exchange to her virginity? You are 38 and you argue on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:43 PM
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I used “dating” as a synonym to “falling in love”. Is it safe to say that having sex with him too soon can prevent him from falling in love? Not all men, but it’s just safer to wait a little longer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:39 PM
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Yeah, makes my blood boil too. Yet it’s nature. I think there is many disgusting tendencies both females and males have and if you know somebody really really well you will want them to stay a football field away from you. Male or female
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:34 PM
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Of course. But I don’t think that all guys who leave after SOFD are the guys who did not see you as a relationship material 30 minutes after meeting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:31 PM
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Vice versa. I ve observed that girls use countless possible reasons why the guy left to shield themselves from the fact that SOFD made him uninterested. I recognize there is exceptions of all sorts, but not identifying a general tendency is just as stupid as not identifying exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:29 PM
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I think a general trend has nothing to do with your preference
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:25 PM
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Not a personal preference, but a general observation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:24 PM
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you are more sophisticated than many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 01:23 PM
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“If a guy is truly into you, it does not matter if you fuck him on the first date. He will still be into you.” Initially, male love is based on expectation for sex. If sex happens too soon, there is no expectation for it to make him want to conquer you. But the emotional bond has not been formed yet because he did not have time to get to know you as a person. I don’t think sugarcoating this one helps anybody tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:24 AM
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Right, but… since you responded on the debate sub you want to debate whether you admit it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:28 PM
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And I was only pointing out how you are no better. If you didn’t want to argue you would not respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 05:19 PM
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Chill. If you don’t wanna argue, why did you respond? What you are saying is you are willing to take a woman that’s not conventionally hot. But excuse me my cynicism, it’s just because you don’t have an option to go for someone hot. This is desperation, not virtue. Morally, you are no worse and no better than us. You are playing the same “I want someone good looking” game. You just hate it cuz you are losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:49 PM
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So let’s say it false. Do you desire women because of how well spoken and educated and kind they are? No, you look at her strategically important places: face, ass, breasts. Then why are you complaining, I don’t understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:30 PM
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True but if they have money the approach at least makes sense, that’s what I was trying to say. There is girls who are willing to tolerate this arrangement for money. But the key word here is “tolerate”. And the second key word is “for money”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:19 PM
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Read my post again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 12:15 PM
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Are you telling me that? There is not a shortage of boys (on this sub btw) who cry about high n counts, but none of them are looking to pay their way into a virgins bedroom with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:17 AM
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At least you are consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:12 AM
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IWhy is it odd? Nobody wants a doormat. Everyone wants to be evaluated based on whether their are interesting and cool to spend time with. Do you want a doormat? If not, why would you think it’s odd that she does not want to fuck one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:07 PM
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If he is young and hot, he will score pussy easily, he is not most men. Your statement was about most men. For the sake of the argument, let’s say I offer nothing besides my looks. Well my argument still stands because he does not even have looks. If he has looks I’ll refer you to the first paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:02 PM
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But it’s valuable now precisely because it’s such a temporary thing as opposed to a cock. I am no longer even talking about you: if women think it’s a good deal to be FWB with you, then there is a reason. Most dudes are not you so the logic company+sex = company+sex is not universal. I am glad it works for you though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:58 PM
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Because most men have nothing to offer in exchange to sex on exclusive basis. Let’s say I offer a guy who is struggling sex and exclusivity. Well his exclusivity is not worth a shit because he does not have any options in the first place. I am young and hot. What can he bring to the relationship with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:48 PM
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The value of her pussy is not determined by her, it’s determined by a greater demand for it, so men around her. But if you can actually get women who agree that your dick is as valuable, then you are one of the guys who can play without having to compensate. Maybe you are hot or something, I don’t know. But the facts are that if your cock is as valuable as her pussy it’s because the women around you selected you as such, not because of your backbone or whatever. Your backbone is irrelevant to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:43 PM
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Female, blue For women: don’t appear stupid. You can appear funny, or not knowledgeable, but please don’t appear stupid. Anyone who is willing to have a relationship with you at this point is either stupid too or has weird intentions. Dont have sex on the first date, but appeal to his sex drive. They hate it but it works. For men: look in the mirror. If you don’t find a Greek god look in your wallet. If you don’t find money there, go work. A woman has no reason to give you anything of value sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:32 PM
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No, she does not like it and she will find someone else, but my question to you is: who will like it? Because you are not willing to remove sex from your life entirely. Let’s do math: So she gives you her time, her company and sex in exchange to time, company and sex? Given that her time and company are as valuable as yours she overcontributes because a pussy is more valuable then a dick. So how can you compensate? Are you smart like Elon Musk? Your time is as valuable as the time of a lawyer in…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:20 PM
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There is a sub above this one where dudes scream about how they are not willing to wait for more than 2 weeks (those are the same men who require women to be chaste virgins). What rule are you even talking about? All I see is polar opposites of male desires thrown in my face. This game is crooked anyways so might as well do what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:00 PM
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let’s say it’s true and you date women in their 20s. Let’s say you are dating hot women in their 20s not landwhales. Are you rich? What is that that you offer them? I am a hot woman in my 20s and when guys twice my age try to fish for some pussy without showing me their account balance first, I am confused if anything, because this shows a complete lack of self awareness…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:52 PM
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From what I understand if a woman does not have sex with you you are out of the relationship, so my questions is: what are you offering in exchange for her to drop panties?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:45 PM
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More like some of them are. That being said: nobody owes you sex anyways. You don’t want to wait, don’t wait. You don’t have better options? Get better options. Your problem is not why she is making you wait your problem is why can’t you find someone who will give you what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:36 PM
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Actually you are right. But even then OPs complaint does not make any sense. If a girl was a slut and stopped being a slut, would not it be a good thing by the logic of dudes? Apparently no, because they want her to put out on the first date and then use her as a handkerchief
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:29 PM
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Like trash. In my humble opinion, they don’t deserve sex either, but men think otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:19 PM
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Honestly looking at most dudes, the only reason why anyone would sleep with them is for money or out of despair… So if women weren’t attracted to dudes bank accounts they would not get laid at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:37 AM
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Dude, women having one night stands and women making a guy wait are not the same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 12:31 AM
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To piggy back off what commenters said before me: you have a point. A woman should not count on you marrying her unless you propose. There is girls who wear bulletproof pink glasses, and it’s their responsibility to take care of their future selves and recognize that you are being hesitant to commit “for real for real”. That being said, you then lose your moral high ground and can’t complain if she does the same thing to you. And if she is not a complete idiot she will do the same thing to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:51 PM
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Yes, but I think it implies that women are to be accountable for men’s lack of self improvement. I can barely get myself to do the right thing and motivating someone else is too high of a burden
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:36 AM
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Most women are more concerned with being socially accepted than men, which explains what you saw on YouTube. That being said, labeling them as hive mind is taking it too far. I can say all dudes want to fuck and therefore look for female approval, but this shared trait does not make them a hive mind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:32 PM
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