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Definitely some cognitive dissonance going on. No one seems to believe that biological gender differences exist but thanks to trans rights activists there’s tons and tons of research/anecdata on the effects gendered sex hormones have on behavioral compulsions and physiology. (And thanks!) you do know hrt exists right? that its bioidentical hormones and everything? one of the most reported changes in trans communities from hrt is sex drive differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:25 AM
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you were just being passive aggressive/sarcastic saying i dont have empathy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:33 AM
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have empathy for the fact that i dont have empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:23 AM
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I've never had what I said in the original comment happen to me, I've had sex with one man, my boyfriend who fits into the conventional chad standards here. I am capable of having empathy for experiences that I have not gone through myself, which is more than I can say about you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:09 AM
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The fuck zone is a million times worse in the woman's position than the friend zone is for the man's position.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:06 AM
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Well yeah that's true, but wanting something longterm buy also wanting to start casual is a valid position to hold. And is one men could be honest about, but choose not to. Either way, your right that people are pretty much never completely honest and wholesome when it comes to romantic love. It's indeed a challenge to navigate. I think that even in life in general, things would be far easier if people were both more honest and less judgemental, but it is what it is. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:51 AM
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You went to her post history picked something out, and aired it out saying it must be why she's single. I'm not sure why you're arguing so hard about something that is clear as day to 99% of people reading, you're not fooling anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:50 AM
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I wasn't the person you were arguing with. To fling shit at her and insult her about her mental health struggles the second she "falls out of line" and shares her experiences is shit. You have no solidarity or support, and wishing her well after insulting her just shows how empty your wishes are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:47 AM
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While wanting something casual, something women don't desire. That's why your argument of "to avoid casual arrangements, filter for men who only want something long term" doesn't work. Men lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:44 AM
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It's funny how quick "women need to support women!" turns into vile personal insults the second one of us doesn't fall in line with everyone else in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:43 AM
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What someone is thinking or feeling is something can be stated, which is what they do by saying they want something long term. If they also want casual arrangements, then they could easily say they're open to that as well, but chose not to. This is for a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:40 AM
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It's the fault of men to say they want one thing while also wanting another. It's funny you make assumptions about me as I've only been with one man, my boyfriend, who does fit into the stereotypical chad stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:39 AM
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Bumble was also mentioned, but for the sake of argument OP was saying filter for people who are saying they want a long term relationship. I assume by this he means Hinge, Match.com, etc where you can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:38 AM
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Not thinking you're compatible would be saying "Sorry, I don't think we're compatible and should go our separate ways." Malicious is saying you want something serious on your dating profile, only to be open to casual arrangements while telling her you may want something serious with her one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:34 AM
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Again, you're extremely naive if you think it's only 50% of men who say they want something long term while having no qualms about having something casual. It's the vast majority of men and you're extremely dense if you suggest otherwise. People aren't open and honest about their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:32 AM
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Even if we assumed 50% of men are liars (which is still realistically too high) and you have 100 matches who selected „looking for a relationship“ there will still be 50 good options for you. If only you could tell who was lying and who wasn't. To say the vast majority of men don't also mean the second half of what I said is extremely naive and shows how dense you are to the dating experiences of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:26 AM
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It's not that he must marry you, but if you say you desire something serious, then go about things in a way that you're actually also interested in something casual, that is a misrepresentation. Look at what they do, not what they say, as red pillers say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:22 AM
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Notice she takes zero accountability for selecting these men (repeatedly, it would seem), neither does she even hint at the possibility that the man was genuine and that did something to scare him off. Note the original context of "just filter for men who want a long term relationship on dating apps." If a man says he wants something serious, then shows he does not want something serious, that is misrepresenting himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:16 AM
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Did I say dumped? I said men will say they're looking for something serious while being willing to use you for casual purposes while telling you he may want something serious with you one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:10 AM
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People have nefarious intentions for you and have no qualms about misrepresenting themselves to get what they want, meaning apps like Bumble and Tinder let you filter for men who are serious about relationships is meaningless. not to mention the fact that 99% of the time a man says he's looking for something serious, he usually doesn't say the second half of "but I'm good with using someone for something casual while telling them I may want something serious with them one day." Your post assumes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:50 AM
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I don't think asking a man to put in even a tiny bit of effort into a relationship is expecting him to be a Disney prince. Is the standard so low that a man who puts in even a small amount of effort is considered a dream man?
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 02:34 PM
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There's a reason he hasn't told his friends and family about you, it's not like he just so happened to forget for a year and a half he's had a gf while talking to them. While it's the RPW norm to not advocate to break up first, you're asking for advice on how to break up, so I think it's best to focus on helping you achieve your goal. I agree with the other poster to do it after exams but before meeting in person again. Doing it in person will likely make the rest of the trip awkward and make hi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 12:50 PM
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I don't expect him to be a Disney prince, but I would like a man who doesn't stop putting in any level of effort just because he thinks he doesn't have to. That's one of the ways relationships end up feeling more like roommates rather than lovers. None of what he does with me falls under any of the love languages. He doesn't seem to care much for physical touch, he doesn't try for quality time, he doesn't give gifts or do acts of service, and words of affirmation feels forced half of the time. s…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 11:04 AM
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Thank you, I'll give that book a read and try to not be drastic black and white about my reciprocation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 03:45 AM
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I should clarify the need to have the conversation seems indicative that he doesn't like me, because a woman who has a boyfriend who likes her wouldn't need to have that sort of conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 03:43 AM
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Unattractive as in it's clear he doesn't like me and me having to ask him to show me affection and put in effort is unattractive and just seemed to make things worse.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 03:10 AM
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I could give you a script for talking to him about it but I'm more interested in whether you've tried to talk to him about it. I have before, but it just resulted in me looking very unattractive and made things worse because me asking to have him show me more affection/put in more effort was very unattractive. He just says he'll try to do better, then doesn't really, or does, but only for a few days. Also, why did you act cold towards him, and is that a regular thing? The first time I was tired …
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 02:46 AM
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We interact normally with us hanging out and talking about things, sometimes being sexual. Most of us spending time is just me being around him while he does whatever hobby he desires at the moment. There is little in the way of romance or "trying to win me over" so to say, it feels like I'm just a convenient part of his life and not someone he desires. I would like for him to flirt more, show me more affection, take me out on more dates, and have less "yea sure you can come over while I do what…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 02:02 AM
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