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| 8 | [California] about to divorce - my income is way higher than it has ever been and I expect it to dip back down within the next couple years - best course of action? | Educational-Time-939 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/23 08:42 PM | |
| 3 | Lawyer consultations - What do I ask or look for during consult that would make it worth hiring them? | Educational-Time-939 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/23 05:43 AM |
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| 4 | Dividing assetswhat's with that sub, btw? They seem a bit off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/23 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Good luck gentlemenI earn similar income to you and have 3 kids as well. Even with 50/50 custody, I take home 1/3 of my income. How is that? if I couldn't keep at least half my take home I'd do something that I couldn't say on reddit without getting banned unless you're figuring in taxes or something | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/23 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Lawyer consultations - What do I ask or look for during consult that would make it worth hiring them?What is his hour rate and what is his para legal rate? Why the division? Under what circumstances will the paralegal hourly be charged vs the lawyer? Other than that, thank you very much | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Lawyer consultations - What do I ask or look for during consult that would make it worth hiring them?Thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/23 04:37 PM |
| 10 | She seems to be struggling...I think women are more susceptible to hedonistic impulses because they learn they get bailed out their whole lives. Men learn no one's going to bail them out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/23 05:37 AM |
| 1 | [California] about to divorce - my income is way higher than it has ever been and I expect it to dip back down within the next couple years - best course of action?it's been so emotionally draining over the last several years that losing half my shit in exchange for peace and freedom seems like a good deal | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/23 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Encouragement neededWomen for the most part, are waking up one day and saying “I’m not happy, I’m done.” I literally saw two posts in a row 'elsewhere' that were exactly this. I'm sitting here agonizing over personal misery and some people just go "yeah it's just sorta not doing it for me anymore" | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | [California] about to divorce - my income is way higher than it has ever been and I expect it to dip back down within the next couple years - best course of action?it sounds like you felt happy enough before you found out completely the opposite. I just didn't get into it here with my short post. I am open to reconciliation but not sure she'd be able to stick to what I would consider appropriate conciliatory behavior. However you never know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/23 11:30 PM |
| 1 | [California] about to divorce - my income is way higher than it has ever been and I expect it to dip back down within the next couple years - best course of action?Learned all this shit from lawyer consultations (10, half paid) and an accountant. The accountant was critical to figuring this shit out. What aspect did the accountant mostly help with that you may not have figured out on our own? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/23 02:23 PM |
| 1 | [California] about to divorce - my income is way higher than it has ever been and I expect it to dip back down within the next couple years - best course of action?did her attorney fees, then, come out of 'her' split? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/23 01:46 PM |
| 2 | [California] about to divorce - my income is way higher than it has ever been and I expect it to dip back down within the next couple years - best course of action?You can also negotiate a buy out for spousal support is that AFTER division of assets or in lieu of it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | [California] about to divorce - my income is way higher than it has ever been and I expect it to dip back down within the next couple years - best course of action?get fired now and get a job that aligns with your real income potential nah, stocks need to vest and it's guaranteed income (can't say why right now). I'd honestly rather stick it out for a while until it falls organically before filing if it's going to be impossible to adjust later. I'll still be talking to lawyers soon to get their opinions. already been miserable for several years, if waiting another couple can ensure I don't get mega fucked financially it might be worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/23 09:18 PM |
| 2 | [California] about to divorce - my income is way higher than it has ever been and I expect it to dip back down within the next couple years - best course of action?she worked before divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Men who wanted outI don't think your DMs are open | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/23 08:13 PM |
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