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OP, you need to be around other people right now. It will really help you get over the girl. AirBnB in a shared house for a week if you must. GET AROUND OTHER PEOPLE. You'll realize you needed company, not this one person in seven billion.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 02:11 AM
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Well, that's just good manners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 12:35 AM
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I'm considering bringing piano into my rotation of hobbies, but every time I finishing "playing", I get the same feeling I used to get after playing video games: "That was fun, but I have nothing to show for it." I can't help thinking I should be using my time more wisely. I don't plan to make money from it, entertain others, etc. Hell, I don't even like LISTENING to live music. Should I put the instrument(s) aside?
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 07:40 PM
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I remember that ride report.
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 02:03 PM
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Any advice for substituting information addiction? and no, the irony of asking that is not lost on me.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 01:12 AM
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You really struck a nerve with people. Woe to the man who separates an addict from his drug. We all know music can be an in-the-moment motivator, but your comment addresses the darker side of music that most people don't acknowledge. It's auditory cheesecake. And not only that, but it's often an opportunity cost.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 01:10 AM
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I agree maintenance sex is necessary in marriage. It can even be enjoyable if both parties have a decent attitude about it. You don't know what a relief it is to read that. There's been so much opposition to those two ideas on this thread that I started to feel I was taking crazy pills. a person can be so exhausted that they cannot manage more than basic day to day functions. I think that women use this as an excuse far too often, but it is a relatable experience. Yes, yes, and yes. People, man …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:19 AM
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It sounds so simple, but when you're heart's invested...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:05 AM
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I wonder if what's going on is that we each are speaking to the extremes of the other side. You're speaking to the fact that some guys won't let up on the pressure for sex, and I'm speaking to the fact that some women fall out of interest and kill the bedroom altogether. Maybe most men are like that and most women are like that, and surely there's blame on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 12:02 AM
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I'm glad you two are happy. I wish that for everyone. I just can't get on-board with the idea of marriage, precisely because of your advice. My personal experience is that if a woman doesn't believe one of her duties is to sleep with her man, then when the desire wanes, she'll fault/demonize/resent him for wanting it. I experienced increasing sex rejection in my longest LTR (4+ years, living together most of that time). I would have been helplessly trapped if we had been married. She never would…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:57 PM
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It seems I've been using uninterested and disinterested interchangeably. My apologies. Nevertheless, my examples of having sex are examples of times I was ACTIVELY not interested in doing so. But she needed it, so I put my feelz on the back burner and took her. Haven't you ever hugged a child just because they looked like they needed a hug? They look dirty. You have stuff in your arms already. Your late for your appointment. But you hug the bejeezus outta them anyway. Relationships sometimes cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:41 PM
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It's not my job to have sex with my husband. To a man, the guys on here disagree with you, and it sounds like your husband did too. I mean no disrespect when I ask this, but are you two still married? If so, did you allow him to outsource the job of sex to someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:31 PM
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Reread my comment. I never said should. I've since commented on your other comment, and you'll see my point is about what women are capable of doing. The existence of porn stars and prostitutes proves that women can seem like they're into sex without actually being into it. In most sex, guys do the vast majority of the actual physical "work", so I stand by my getting dressed in the morning comment. A touch here, a comment or sigh there, coming up to meet him, switching positions, if these are co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:25 PM
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I brought up prostitutes and porn stars to make the point that women can act like they're into it without being into it, and they can decide how much of a show they put on. They don't "have to", but it's within their power. There are (female) posters on here who make it seem like having sex without desire is some insurmountable task. My point is that prostitutes and porn stars do it all the time. It. Can. Be. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:15 PM
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Can't you enjoy your job? And if you do, it doesn't stop being your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:32 PM
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Sure I've had sex when not interested. Half-asleep still, full from dinner, sea-sick, you name it. Step up. Get 'er done! Using the word "horrible" for having sex when uninterested makes that word lose meaning. Save "horrible" for rape and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:31 PM
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I once heard someone say that if you want a trophy wife, you have to provide her a trophy life. You explained that truth well. It comes down to priorities, I guess. Chore or whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:27 PM
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lol, seriously, what does his game look like? Just out of curiosity. The fact that this is Tennessee tells you a lot right there: African American views on single-moms, religious views on abortion, educational ignorance of fertility, financial ineptitude. It's a perfect storm of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:24 PM
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Bring on the lame!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:17 PM
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He seemed to be masculine enough for that young, French coworker. And yes, I get that each has their flaws and that makes it funny, but the truth of the sex-denial is scarily accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:14 PM
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I get what you're saying loud and clear, but commitment trumps desire or boredom. It all comes back to commitment. Because attraction will wax and wane for both parties. That doesn't give either party the right to shirk their commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:11 PM
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lol give the wife an ultimatum: a maid or a prostitute. Pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:05 PM
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Starfish sex and sex-when-not-in-the-mood are two different things. The latter can be as much of a spectacle as the woman is willing to act to make it. Think high-priced prostitutes or porn stars. Not only that, but he next time you're sad, put on a smile. I guarantee it will help you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:02 PM
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when the wife is too tired to have sex If a woman has the energy to dress herself in the morning, she has the energy to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:57 PM
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Why are men entering a contract that they have no ability to enforce? FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:53 PM
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Why can't a man and woman be happily co-dependent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:47 PM
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I personally would not want a woman to sleep with me because she is "obligated" to sleep with me. I would want a woman "wanting" to sleep with me. Huge difference. There's ideal and there's acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:44 PM
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They say that those men are still waiting to this day . . .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:42 PM
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Can confirm. Feelz rush in like a tidal wave before the first button is buttoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:41 PM
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men are the wildly emotional ones ?! I don't think it means what you think it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:39 PM
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and started by the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:34 PM
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Yours is the kind of relationship mindset that I think makes for a lasting bond. You have a physical connection outside of sex, and that intimacy carries over to the bedroom. I noticed that too about the characters in *Catastrophe*. Their not lovey lovey with each other. Maybe it was even the first episode when Rob and Sharon are sitting on the end of the bed. He swings his legs over hers and wraps his arms around her, calling himself a sprite. It was super cute, but Sharon shut that down in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:32 PM
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Is your point that you condone hiring a sex worker when the bedroom is dead, or that a bedroom can only stay dead for years with aid of a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:24 PM
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I'm curious to know what you think a man should bring to the table because I started this thread based on a TV series where a guy brings everything to the table, and yet, his wife rejects his advances time and again. Looks, money, standing up for her, compliments, attentiveness, social aptitude, a child, you name it. The most comical/sad part is that the wife isn't oblivious to any of it. She knows her husband should be getting laid, but she can't be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:20 PM
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learn to pleasure his wife When a woman is pushing her man away, she's not pushing him down to her crotch, she's pushing him over to his side of the bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:07 PM
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Could a lot of men make more of an effort to be romantic, attentive, and hot? Sure! I don't think any guy here is denying that. What we're saying is that it shouldn't be a prerequisite for some basic action. Moreover, where's the selflessness? Instagram? Pedicure? That's Marie Antoinette-level coldness to the plight of a sex-starved man. Is 20 minutes of lubed sex such a burden? When my family needs to eat, I cook them a meal, unless I'm physically incapacitated. I signed up for that. If a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:04 PM
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There are gradations of sex. If you have zero other means with which to communicate your needs to him (highly doubtful), then give differing efforts depending on your needs, but don't starve the man. If you disagree, think of it this way: Imagine your man withholding all forms of attention in order to communicate his needs. No kisses. No hugs. No holding hands. No smiling. No listening to you. Is that reasonable? You'd rightly be "starved" for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:53 PM
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Almost all the time she's marrying someone she is less attracted to than the men she used to fuck as a younger woman. Is this the primary reason why TRPers object to women with a high partner count--they know the odds are against them compared to the memory of the competition? Or is it a near-virgin fantasy hold-over from a bygone era?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:42 PM
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I have yet to read a comment from a woman saying, "Yes, it's my duty." If us men here read that regularly, we wouldn't feel the need to preach it because nobody wants to preach to a choir.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:34 PM
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I welcome more conversations about how husbands can be more attractive. Sign me up! But that female libido is going to drop no matter what most guys do, so the bigger question is one of duty. The drop is inevitable, so it's on women to make the next move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:32 PM
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I think the mainstream culture should also be more accepting of men needing back-ups if his main squeeze isn't fucking him I don't have much hope of mainstream culture accepting mistresses, but it does seem plausible that sex robots will become acceptable, although I'm reminded of how many women are against their men even watching porn... we're fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:23 PM
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Women want their men to change, and men want their women to stay the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:13 PM
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It's not the best-case scenario, as we all want to be desired, but at least the men won't starve or stray.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:08 PM
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Not snarky. An attempt at a humorous compliment. You have a strong author's voice and know how to make your point, and I just find myself nodding as I read down your post. Our message, written your way, *might* do some good in the world, snapping women out of their sex-withholding entitlement. I'd buy that greeting card and hand it out like Halloween candy. I'm with you. Obligation. Duty. Responsibility. Contract. People can call it whatever they want, but it's there. This entire thread has been…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:06 PM
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Party-pooper, yes. But wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:59 PM
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Agreed. Absolutely. I think that before couples have chore-talks, there should be a Bring-your-spouse-to-work Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:56 PM
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To quote Homer Simpson, "If you don't like your job, you don't strike! You just go in every day, and do it really half assed. That's the American way."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:53 PM
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I think you could make a strong go of it in the greeting card business.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:51 PM
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Dead bedrooms aren't a "strain". They're a Dementor, sucking the life force out of a man. Why do you think we go to such great lengths to get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:49 PM
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And to anyone out there who thinks they can keep marital strife from their kids, I'm here to say you can't. Kids know, and it affects them negatively and often for the rest of their lives. Monkey see, monkey do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:43 PM
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That's a good analogy...a ticking time bomb. Saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:40 PM
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My sympathies, but that comes down to communication skill and balls. All conversations can be loving, but they can't all be nice. Hell, dangle a carrot if you have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:38 PM
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You've changed the debate here. We're not talking quality. We're talking quantity. Quantity is doing your duty. Quality is what standards you and your partner hold you to. Be good, giving, and game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:33 PM
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There are two entire industries that stand as counterarguments here: porn and prostitution. Resentment is a mindset. If women realize it's part of their job to have sex with their husbands, they'll sometimes enjoy it and sometimes not, but they'll have gotten the job done. And they'll be paid in kind ten-fold. Men will move mountains for dutiful wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:27 PM
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I honestly don't get it. Is sex so bad when you're disinterested? I go through the motions with a hundred things a day. And where is the idea of Fake It Til You Feel It? If I want to feel happier, I pretend to be happy. I put a smile on my face, and by god, it usually works!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:17 PM
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I don't think prostitution would exist if men just wanted to be desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:14 PM
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Gods I was strong then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:12 PM
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I have to disagree with you there. Stress has physical manifestations as real as those caused by labor. You're overall point stands though. What's done outside the home should be taken into account, and not all jobs are equal in their demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:10 PM
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That whole "not enough time" excuse needs to die and be buried in an unmarked grave. Twenty minutes, spaced out three times over the course of a week, would keep a lot of new fathers satiated. Do you disagree? Another user here said it best. Women in committed relationships need to do their fucking job, and that's having sex with their men on the regular. Should a guy not protect his wife in a physical altercation because he's not feeling aggressive that day? Should he not hunt food for his fami…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:02 PM
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The tax-paying citizens of Tennessee are the biggest losers there. Those women clearly have no objection to be single moms, and the guys clearly have no objection to knocking up those women. Somehow, unfulfilled child support is the only objection the articles can raise. To quote an ass of a person, "SAD!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:50 PM
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Another good Diogenes quote :-) I think women usually talk up their men in order to compete with other women--to show other women that they themselves snagged a high-value guy . . . and self-deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:35 PM
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C. Horny, seductive sex goddess milk factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:30 PM
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I don't think that's accurate in the least. Dead bedrooms are just that, dead. Not limping along. Not on life support. Dead. Moreover, when guys bring up sex, frequency is by far the most referenced metric. Men aren't getting maintenance sex; they're getting passed the lotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 03:29 PM
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Preach it, Brother Lewis! Saving to my account. Copying to my personal TRP document. Jesus, this is good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:36 PM
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Maybe I was unclear. I meant that it sucks that the reasons you mention for wanting sex every day have to do with just you. There's not an ounce of, "He wants sex daily, and I want him to be happy, so that's also why I have sex with him daily."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:26 PM
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For those who didn't click, he's easily top 20% SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:11 PM
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I have sex with my husband everyday because I think he is ridiculously hot. I am extremly attracted to him. I desire him because I see him as a prize, and not some loser I settled for Wow, you're the reddest of red. Sucks to hear it's all about **your** feelz and not an ounce of "because he wants sex every day". This woke me up further.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:09 PM
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In ancient Greece, Diogenes the Dog, a philosopher was being chastised for masturbating in public, and he said, "if only I could get rid of my hunger by rubbing my belly." I'd settle for maintenance sex and have, but not starfish maintenance sex. That's serving cereal for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:19 AM
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Just a last thing about "testing the waters". Medicine isn't paternalistic anymore; you can get done what you want to get done. Be definite and pushy, and worst case scenario doctor-shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 07:09 AM
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Mr. Money Mustache would be proud.
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 06:58 AM
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And yours is the most green. Good on ya, bru.
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 06:53 AM
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/r/childfree has lots of tube-tying stories. It comes down to age for some doctors. Mid-20s should be fine for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:42 AM
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I'm tempted to say that the track record for women changing their minds in general and about children specifically is a truth universally acknowledged, but I don't even need that argument. Here's an easier one: Your decision is the only one that matters in the end if he's still shooting live rounds. You get to decide, with or without his knowledge/consent, whether to get pregnant. That is why I caution you, and I caution him about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:39 AM
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I appreciate how candid you are about all this; it's helpful in understanding your view. You make a valid point: you want someone who can spend as you spend. Two counterpoints: 1. The ratio of earning to spending differs wildly from person to person. What if you're YOLO, and he's FIRE? 2. Are you expecting non-monetary expenditures to be equal as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:26 AM
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Maybe I've been hanging out in the MGTOW and TRP subs too long, but when both partners agree not to have kids and neither partner gets sterilized, kids seem like a very real possibility down the line. I was planned only by my mom, and she had known my dad for about fifteen years, and they had agreed no more kids (!). Your fiance doesn't know you 100%, and you don't know your future self 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:18 AM
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I think the separate accounts thing actually works for some couples. The frugal one doesn't need to stress about the spendthrift and visa versa. It's not meant to be a love-strengthener; it's meant to be insurance against financial catastrophe and/or strife.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 05:36 AM
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I, too, would like an explanation. Make more $ and have separate accounts. Still a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:56 AM
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THAT is something I'd like OP to address: What are her and her fiance's views on the consequences of infidelity?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:46 AM
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You and OP say that in a divorce your spouse won't be too screwed. Is that a nod to the current court system that so heavily favors women anyway, a nod to RP'ers who are sensitive to divorce rape, or some foreknowledge of how your lower-earning spouse will get less than 50%?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:41 AM
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Do you recommend guys find less attractive women with money or a good happiness compromise?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:33 AM
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No to marriage for me. People change too much over the years to want the same partner decades hence, and I'm a SMV 4 on a good day, so deadbedroom would be a sure thing. OP, has your fiance had a vasectomy? That's better than a prenup for saving him $ in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:29 AM
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Thank you for elaborating. I've noticed the swift hammer of shame on some other manosphere subs when dissent occurs, and it is indeed refreshing to see actual back-and-forth here on PPD. How ya'll keep civil debate alive here is beyond me, but I like it. I guess I need different subs for different things. MGTOW reminds me the dangers of women are real, and it's okay to be an island TRP teaches me how to deconstruct my past relationships, to pull back the curtain on female motives and Braincels (…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:16 AM
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Purple is where it's at? Dead serious: enlighten me. Or point me in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:59 PM
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Good point. I hate that about some workplaces--it fosters a culture of underhandedness, eroding trust between employer and employee. Because people with a conscience and a strong sense of morality try to follow rules, even stupid ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:57 PM
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"Rather than love, than money, than fame, give me truth."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:19 PM
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I'm pretty new to the terminology, but I think I'm a black pill with mgtow sympathies. I think looks are fate, game is icing, and there MIGHT be enough distractions in this life to substitute for a female companion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:19 PM
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As Good As It Gets: "I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:07 PM
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Do you know of a black pill resource / meeting place? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:05 PM
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I resent myself, specifically my genetics. I don't fault hypergamy because as another RPer reminded me, we have female selectivity to thank for genetic fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:04 PM
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You're going to have to give us more than that. Make your case. Here's mine: Let's take a character from history like Genghis Khan. Would you say he was ALPHA? He slaughtered and raped from China to the Mediterranean, leaving what became today millions of descendants. Likely, he didn't take responsibility for the vast majority of the kids he spawned. No responsibility, right? What about leading a Mongol army as one of the most successful warlords/generals/conquerers in history? Raping was his ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:19 PM
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I appreciate the honesty. This is all even less solidified in my mind than yours, so I'm just trying to get my bearings. Not ten seconds before I read your line about not referring to men just knocking up unattractive women, I thought that might be part of my problem here. The only examples on which I can draw IRL and fiction are trashy ones--not the envy of anyone. Nevertheless, glorifying drug dealers and pimps is a non-starter. You might as well be espousing that humans like eating shit. We'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:08 PM
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I'm not great at jokes You're an engineer, after all! ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:34 PM
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Painful but true advice. Saving...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:48 PM
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I don't see how a no-relationship policy is even humane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:45 PM
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And a funny one. I chuckled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:44 PM
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My experience is that when a woman gets comfortable in a relationship, she puts less effort into the bedroom. Sex was much more frequent than when single, but it got vanilla. Women who are trying to make a sale, so to speak, can be glorious freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:19 PM
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I like the cut of your jib.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:03 PM
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We have child support so 1 the child is provided for, and 2 so the state doesn't have to do the providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:14 PM
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Agreed. A major masculine trait is responsibility, and the baby daddy is the opposite of that. Men who own their shit are respected, not ones who skate by.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:12 PM
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"Women are hardwired to destroy their relationships from the inside out." You blew my mind again. I'm stealing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:49 AM
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A fuckin master class here. Blinded to normal distribution. Never heard 80/20 put like that. Will use.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 04:50 PM
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women will have a STR with somewhere around the top 5% from her perception (since what she believes an average man is hovers around the 20% mark, the rest being "unattractive.") I'm fully with you on the concept and the validity of the OKCupid 80% unattractive stuff, but either I don't understand the math (or you), or your numbers are wonky. If SMV 8 males are seen by women as average, or SMV 5, and women only want to STR with top 5% males, then are you saying women only STR with the top 1% of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 03:26 PM
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This speaks to me on multiple levels. Thanks for speaking up despite (surely) knowing the downvotes would come.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 03:10 PM
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Can a guy change his voice and scent? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 02:03 PM
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I see your point about porn. It has many effects. I submit one is satiating people already in monogamous relationships, but another is, as you said, eroding traditional concepts. Are incels really a threat to society? That seems like news cycle hype. There has never been a time in history with more distractions for guys who can't get a girl.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 03:52 AM
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What about porn, sex dolls, religion, and tax-hungry governments? They keep monogamy alive. Nevertheless, the history of humans is alpha + harem. There's a lot less male genetic diversity in DNA than female. There always were alphas.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 10:55 PM
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The 3 g's of sex: good, giving, and game. That has steered me right so far.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/18 07:47 PM
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All good signs. You've done well for yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/18 07:43 PM
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And thus weaker male bonding and more orbiters.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:20 PM
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No ego hit...TRP reversed my mindset on that. IATP: I am the prize. If she goes a different direction next month than I've foreseen, that's her loss, and no regrets on my part for the prep time because I'm learning here. About them never telling you about their options, that's so true, except when shit testing.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:12 PM
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I wasn't seeing all this in the context of aggression. You're so right. There's no more "boys will be boys". It has it's advantages with fewer overt bullies, but it denies the physical nature of males.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:06 PM
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It's good to add that some states require consent of both parties to record conversations. Find out your state's laws. The acceptance of crazy is proportional to a woman's hotness. I have experienced this drive firsthand and suffered for it. It's good to keep in mind at all times. I wonder about this one. The more I've been with a woman, the more she sees me as an individual human, and I presume, would be less likely to go scorched earth on me. Disclaimer, never been married, just some LTRs. Ple…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:03 PM
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Great question. The answer of when to work out can be as complicated as you have time for. It involves consistency, safety, hormones, hygiene, neighborliness, and more. First and foremost, you should be safe. That means giving your spine discs an hour to have most of the night's extra fluid squeezed out of them before lifting. See Stuart McGill if you want to dive into spine health, and you definitely should. Second, consistency builds a great body more than anything else. Exercise adherence is …
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:54 PM
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You just described east asia even moreso.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:44 AM
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and, to OP, honey works a lot better than vinegar. Don't just keep your head down and refrain from pissing people off. Go the other way. Teachers who like you are teachers who are on your side when the grey areas of grading, assignments, projects, and such come up. You don't have to be a yes-man, but getting on a teacher's good side is worth it. Basic human nature, bru.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:43 AM
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If OP is indeed humping away like a dog, he doesn't need to hear about total domination. You've gotta write the right prescription for the right patient, doc.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:38 AM
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I'm glad you've been exercising even just with bodyweight. Remember, you're going to be lifting for a lifetime, so a few weeks or months without equipment won't kill you. Depending on where you started, it will be an opportunity for your body to get used to some physical demands. You can ramp things up over time so you don't get injured, which you always want to keep in mind because injuries will set you back physically and mentally. Having said all that, heavy freeweights are the best known cat…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:31 AM
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That mood change is totally normal. Guys can fuck, cum, then just go on with their day. It's an evolutionary advantage. Think about it. Why keep having the same sexual feelings for a female when you've already passed on your load of genes? What it sounds like you need to do is learn to appreciate the naked female form in front of you. Post-orgasm actions say a lot about a person. Decide how you want to be perceived and act accordingly. Assuming you're bedding someone you like and not just a sex …
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:23 AM
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What's morally wrong is if you lie or deceive. Don't keep the truth from girl #2, but don't lay it out for her either. Maybe she doesn't want to know. Maybe she is too insecure to know and can hold her breath for 3 more months and lie to herself. Volunteering info that doesn't concern her is forcing her hand and could make both of you less happy. But it sounds like the real problem is that your morality hasn't caught up with your acceptance of your sexual nature. Don't feel shame for being a pla…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:11 AM
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maybe yes yes Relationships get rocky for a lot of reasons, but women think of men like jobs, they don't leave one until another one is secured.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:54 AM
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/r/homegym is where you should be lurking for answers to this. It covers everything from when big sales happen to where to go for what. It all depends on your budget, where at home you can lift (inside outside garage bedroom etc) and what your used market is. Mine was terrible, so I bought new mostly (Titan Fitness btw). Start exercising today, not when your gym is complete.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:48 AM
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I'm glad you see the bullshit of the word "break" because there's no such thing. It just means your turn is up and she's swinging somewhere else. You're a fast learner, faster than me at least. I might be downvoted for this, but you should have called her back, as long as you knew you could keep it casual. You're goal should be to neither pine for this girl nor hate her. You need to get to a place of friendly indifference. Ask about her family and so forth and keep it pleasant. One thing to cons…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:39 AM
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Ideas to protect yourself? Save all communications seems like a good start. What else?
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:29 AM
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It's scary shit, man. That rewriting of history based on current feelings opens up everyone to ANYTHING. Couple that with societal preference for believing women or at least not wanting to appear to not be believing women, and heads roll. Regarding why men don't want to commit, it's multifactorial. How much time do you have? Divorce rates, alimony, RP awareness, porn substitute, free milk, weak middle class pay, demanding hours, grass-is-greener social media, the list goes on and on. #metoo fear…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:26 AM
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Whoa! I have an ex-LTR/plate situation right now. I hadn't even considered resentment. Glad you spoke up.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:16 AM
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I don't know if I skipped over content about this in the past, but this just hit me hard. You're so fuckin right. I've actually lost that gamble before and multiple times. Never plate an LTR. I'm going to apply that immediately.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:13 AM
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Porn is not what you want to base your sex moves on. Porn is made for the sake of the viewer, so camera angles with visible parts, etc are necessary. Don't think in-out in-out fucking. Think making love. Slower. Steady. You can vary things, but vary every few minutes, not less than a minute. Ramp up the sex from start to finish. Enjoy her entire body instead of just trying to get to the end like a dog would. Whether or not it was a shit test, you can always be better in bed. Improve. Just rememb…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:07 AM
2

Maybe I should have been explicit in the post, but while sex is guaranteed happening, I am requesting game advice to maximize the quantity--sport-fucking.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:53 AM
1

I'm not completely through the TRP sidebar, but is there such a thing as too much dread? I think what you're describing would be too much dread for this particular girl. Plus 30 days of ghosting leaves me, max, 15 sport-fucking days. That can't be optimal. I appreciate you bringing up dread. I think that will do wonders in the right dose.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:51 AM
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Thanks for the headsup. I think I have the right mindset already: it's just my turn, and not even in a relationship sense (that desire has been dead for years), but in a FWB sense. I have lots of work and interesting activities lined up for the month; sport-fucking as much as possible would just be icing on a helluva month's cake.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:44 AM
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I've added an addendum to my original post. I hope it makes it clear that I'm trying to help myself. It's why I posted. It's why I lift faithfully. Hell, it's why I see this ex-gf's upcoming visit as a sport-fucking opportunity and nothing more.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:39 AM
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I added an edit at the bottom of my post to clear up any misunderstanding. If you think the basic premise of my post's request is flawed, then please clarify it for me. If it is, I clearly have a long way to go in my journey because it seems reasonable to ask for particular, short-term game advice.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 02:36 AM
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If not less nice, maybe a better way to say it is "cold".
/r/MGTOW06/06/18 07:45 PM
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Society--we all--are to blame for it. Beautiful people get a pass on all sorts of bad behavior since childhood, AND imagine how much you would be bothered by everyone around you if you were super hot? You'd quickly learn to be less nice, just as a defense mechanism.
/r/MGTOW06/06/18 06:08 PM
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Does he really think she's a 10, in his heart of hearts though? Two things make me suspect otherwise: The unspoken ratings rule of relationships is to SAY to the partner and everyone else that she's a 10, the most beautiful creature in all the world, etc., and The vast majority of men are hotness rating experts--it's in our genes to pick beauty well. Maybe what your brother needs, if he needs saving (which is a HUGE if), is your help in seeing the whole spectrum of available beauty.
/r/MGTOW05/06/18 06:08 AM
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If you lament your brother's relationship, at least be grateful the gf is unattractive--she'll have much less sway over him than if she were a hottie. My unhealthiest relationship ever was with the hottest woman I ever dated. It's a universal law that a guy will put up with crazy to the degree that a woman is hot.
/r/MGTOW05/06/18 05:07 AM
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You're on another level entirely, so everything you're doing seems beyond me, but that last part you just mentioned seems like the biggest psychological hurdle to me. My heart/sympathy/empathy for others--women, men, animals [anything conscious, really] hinders me from going my own way. I don't want my actions to make others' lives worse, even a bit, even with little things. I remember reading a TRP testimonial once where the guy said TRP worked but he hated who he was when he used that knowledg…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/18 03:14 AM
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Whoa, you've incorporated so much red pill. Just curious, is there anything red you disagree with and have rejected?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/18 03:24 AM
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Fixed--added another "no". Thx.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 03:19 PM
1

Phew! your life is an /r/nonononoyes Edit: added one more no. Thx /u/redsprinklersystem.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 12:04 AM
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If I remember the news stories correctly, there were some women along the way who spoke up at or near the time(s) of their assaults, but assuming I'm remembering that wrong, there's still the undeniable observation that it's widely common for sexual abuse victims to come forward only after a tipping point. MeToo was that tipping point for a lot of women. Before that, the Roman Catholic priest revelations. To oversimplify something I don't understand well, sex victims have more than their dignity…
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 02:25 PM
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He's admitted to the sex. He has admitted to giving women sedatives. Accusations by dozens of women from dozens of decades. Open secret in Hollywood, just like another infamous, powerful figure. Would you trust him around your daughters?
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 05:53 AM
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Maybe I missed some development, but didn't he DRUG DOZENS OF WOMEN? Imagine if one of his victims was a relative of yours. Still a good guy?
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 02:21 AM
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I'd give you gold for this if I hadn't bought so many damn muffins in the past.
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 02:11 AM
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Orientation: sewer
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 02:09 AM
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I'm upvoting you, but I thought both want sex, but TRP knows how to get it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 01:59 AM
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Get your shit, and fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 01:56 AM
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Stay strong and steady, brother. Be Jesus walking on water.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 01:55 AM
2

Those sound like hard-fought maxims. Thanks for sharing. My sympathies for whatever Costco trip was so bad that it made it on the list with the other stuff.
/r/MGTOW07/04/18 12:15 PM
1

I would like to hear what those dogmatic principles are.
/r/MGTOW06/04/18 05:14 PM
1

Bro, I can relate. Being no longer naive to female ulterior motives--that has been the biggest takeaway for me from MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW02/04/18 12:32 PM
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It's refreshing to see a dual-sport bike outside of ADVrider. I think if there ever was a sport that could epitomize MGTOW, it would be dual-sport riding: explore anywhere in the world practice self-reliance open to all income brackets choose the remote outdoors or nearby asphalt years of skill-building as physically grueling as you want as isolated or group-oriented as you want
/r/MGTOW02/04/18 02:36 AM
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Updated African Twin?
/r/MGTOW01/04/18 11:13 PM
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