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ConversationEducationalMeeting95/r/seduction17/11/21 02:36 PM
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Mumbai anyone ?
/r/seduction30/08/25 05:29 PM
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Anyone in Mumbai ?
/r/seduction27/08/25 04:00 PM
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Be relaxed , and chilled before approach. Go and have a conversation to connect and chill. Don't go with the mindset of pickup and flirting. Don't have an objective basically. Just go and socialize. Then it'll come to you quickly.
/r/seduction27/08/25 05:24 AM
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Just make little eye contact and smile.
/r/seduction25/08/25 05:16 AM
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I say basically let your origonal personality shine.. And make sure that: You DON'T come off as a simp.
/r/seduction11/08/25 01:06 PM
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Yeah those "few minutes" will be sexual tension buildup. Playing guitar will take her into completely different Emotional zone. If that happens she might not even want to have Sex later.
/r/seduction06/08/25 07:31 PM
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Whatever happens, IF she decides to come home with you, DO NOT play guitar. If she's at your home, it means she's ready to get laiid. Don't ruin it by playing some emotional on guitar. Just get laid.
/r/seduction06/08/25 06:23 PM
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Dmed
/r/seduction04/08/25 11:14 AM
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One simple trick. When you both are relaxed, just go near him like face to face near. Give a soft naughty smile , and Glaze 1 finger on his crotch over his pants real nice. If you have nails that's a big bonus. That shit turns the the knob to the max. See this movie scene for reference.
/r/seduction18/07/25 04:53 AM
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If you look intimidating then not many will approach you. Unless you give them explicit signals
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:34 AM
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Yeah. Just walk upto the dude and say Hi wassup. That's 80% of your problem solved.
/r/seduction05/05/25 06:37 AM
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I'll say, just stay relaxed and have fun while talking to em. Do this enough times and everything will fall in place.
/r/seduction10/12/24 04:48 PM
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Go for therapy. You're chasing that feeling because you're escaping another feeling. When you address what you're escaping from, this addiction will be easy to heal.
/r/seduction18/11/24 03:10 PM
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Your uncle is in police. Your life will get fucked beyond measure if this shit happens. Stop thinking with your dick. Leave the house when she comes.
/r/seduction11/11/24 11:57 AM
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attention is the currency women thrive on lessen the flow of attention and they feel it and naturally want it back
/r/seduction02/11/24 03:17 AM
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Just cheked him out and I gotta say I was expecting a lot more. I mean the pics are definitely really good. But they're all just poses with formal clothes Pose in an airplane Pose with a drink/cigar Pose with an expensive vehicle. Now although the pics are dope, the dude clearly has a pattern. Yes there are few gym pics too. But if he's charging 2-3k for that, then I guess you should get a cheaper photographer yourself with better ideas.
/r/seduction12/10/24 08:30 PM
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Exactly. If you share something about your life when she vents, she won't even hear it for 20 seconds and interrupt you with another round of venting or some other shit. Girls are really really manipulative and selfish by their nature.
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:58 PM
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If all of their sexual desires met over text, then there's no sexual tension left to motivate them to come over. So build sexual tension (not sexting), and then call them over.
/r/seduction06/10/24 08:49 AM
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True words. Sex is Highly Paradoxical.
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:48 PM
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Bingo. Next time tell her you have a plan . Then postpone the date.
/r/seduction06/09/24 06:15 PM
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Focus on your mental health, heart and mind. No amount of sex can fix that. Bandaids cannot heal a fracture.
/r/seduction28/08/24 08:08 AM
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If you're unsatisfied with the therapist. Try changing and get other opinions. Make sure you go to a Well renowned therapist who has lots of experience. Not a psychiatrist - those give medicines. Go go a Psychologist/therapist.
/r/seduction27/08/24 05:49 PM
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I feel I am fortunate to have an amazing therapist. If you want I can share his contact. He works with international clients too.
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:20 PM
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Go for therapy. It's the only thing that you need.
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:40 PM
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There should be a way to share the chat history for that session so others can learn
/r/seduction12/08/24 11:57 AM
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Dude I just tried it and it's fucking insanse. Brilliant. The girl plays hard to get but I was chatting with her for about 20 mins. It was going really good. Good work keep it up.
/r/seduction12/08/24 08:13 AM
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I had an AI app idea like this. To be more precise it needs huge amount of chat data so that it can replicate an actual girl through texts. A powerful tool to boost up text game
/r/seduction12/08/24 07:44 AM
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Sure
/r/seduction29/07/24 02:44 PM
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your texting game must be just small talk and asking questions. That gets you nowhere. Your texts have to be engaging such that the girl Wants to text you.
/r/seduction29/07/24 11:53 AM
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It's simple. By being a masculine individual. You can't fake it for long.
/r/seduction16/10/22 11:43 AM
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I don't know what social circle is But you're trying too hard to do it a certain way thats not working. Sometimes when I try cold approach in a way it's 'supposed to be' I screw up. It's ok though. Just try doing what makes sense to you for sometime. And keep exploring.
/r/seduction12/10/22 12:27 PM
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You know most of the things you're facing are very normal for most of they guys. We face it in different time of our lives. So it's okay to feel nervous while escalating or flirting. It's just like a muscle or skill. The more you do it the better you get at it.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:30 AM
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Precisely. It's called seduction for a reason. It's not an office task that you can ask your boss "Can I do it?". That's the most common mistake guys make starting cold approaching and not understanding how emotions work and mistaking interaction with girls as logical.
/r/seduction30/09/22 12:50 PM
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Ok what is this app and why do I not know about it ?
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:05 PM
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Do one thing. If you have pics of that night with All of em. Upload it on insta. Tag L, ask L for B's Insta. Tag B, ask her for E's Insta. Now you have E's Insta. Tag her and start a conversation. Won't look creepy.
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:23 AM
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Those heels did the job. It was tough keeping my hands to myself.
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:19 PM
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That's why it is the wrong way. Expecting her share/validate your enthusiasm.
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:09 AM
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They want signs of intelligence. Not intelligent discussions/conversations. For example : Wrong : You know Google ads uses algorithms that are made by PhD mathematicians. These generally involve complicated calculus and huge density convilitional neural networks that process data to serve you the ad tailored to your needs ! Right : Yeah, when I was studying AI I learnt Google uses advanced mathematic , and complicated algorithms made by PhDs to show you those ads of black high heels you bought. …
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:14 AM
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I don't have top 3 list. Just search opening with girls and research
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:31 AM
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Lots of videos of that on YouTube.
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:29 PM
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Yep . Using tinder seriously is one of the quickest ways to get depressed.
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:44 AM
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Ditch apps Go real world cold approaching.
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:29 AM
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They're adding value , you just can't see it. Now why the hell will professional girls go for low lives ? This is a stereotype that exists everywhere Because they're adding Some value that Rationality can't explain. But women aren't rational , they're highly emotional with certain needs. Low life thugs are highly masculine don't care about them These 2 qualities are highly attractive to women.
/r/seduction16/09/22 10:27 PM
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And that's the issue with Canned game. You memorize lines, routines and shit like you're performing a play. That's why building natural game is the best. Authentic, tailored to your personality, builds up your Character and always in you. It will take time and a lot of effort. But you won't feel this Isn't You.
/r/seduction16/09/22 06:05 PM
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So here's the thing Attraction/ seduction /dating is an education not a tip/trick thing. Mostly people learn through pain, experience, research and trial n error. Nobody can give it to you in a post / comment format. Yes people can help you with guidance. As to whom to listen to or what book to read Or even what to do. But can't educate you completely. All of those statements you mentioned are indeed useful advices. But only people who have been rejected / failed and Really want to do better Wil…
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:25 PM
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Indian man here. I have approached girls and have taken their number. Tier 2 and 1 city. And the funny part ? I don't even do many cold approaches. That doesn't-happen-in-India is an age old bs excuse that every guy thinks after watching pick up artists from US. I am a 6.5 ish by looks and some of the girls I've approached are 8/9. Stop making bs excuses about color and shit. I am 30years old, overweight 110kg + and I am losing hair. Get out of your house and start approaching.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:49 PM
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It has to be organic. It's hard to plan things like these. If it isn't then your reference point wouldn't be solid enough to spike any feelings the first time, let alone a call back. Notice something about her and spike her emotions on That particular thing Which-You-Like. And don't fake it.
/r/seduction14/09/22 07:20 PM
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I agree on the point that you need to go deep. Depth works really well. That's why talking about her childhood is powerful because it's very deep, personal and emotion to her. It make your connection more profound. Now that doesn't mean you don't do light stuff when seducing. Humor , light touches compliments work too when done the right way. Think of it this way. She'll hookup for feeling attraction and likability towards you. But those qualities won't be enough for her to jump in a relationshi…
/r/seduction13/09/22 02:13 PM
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There are plenty of people I know Personally with mental + physical issues Making it in life and enjoying it as well. I think you're waiting for an approval by seeing an example like.. Oh he has done it. cool now I will too yeah. Man, everyone has issues some or the other. Everyone. Even the spoilt brat who's parents have $200 millions+. He never asked to be born in that life. Thanks to his dad's money, he'll not have a shot a getting true friends EVER. Not learn what responsibility is. Living u…
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:41 AM
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You can But when you get results by lying and don't get naturally You'll be lying all the time before you even realize it. And that's becomes a habit which is unhealthy for your personal life. Hence I don't use it at all.
/r/seduction11/09/22 05:50 AM
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Have nice behaviour don't be a nice guy. It's important to understand the difference. Also if you lie like in the scenario, you are a lying oversmart simp. If you can't even hold your ground with your preferences , Standards and choices and need to lie about something as big as religion, then you're kind of a loser with no confidence in yourself. Lying works in temporary hookups and all but won't work in a relationship or in life. It's best not lie as it can become a habit.
/r/seduction11/09/22 03:40 AM
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Sitting idle and doing nothing won't build attraction man. Some other dude will take her Learn some text game and use it with her
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:48 AM
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No She won't reply to a date cuz she's not ready. Not much attraction yet. Build more attraction in coming days and Only then ask her for a date.
/r/seduction10/09/22 06:05 AM
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Yeah you did. But all is not lost. Reaching out doesn't make you low value. Reaching out in a low value Way makes you low value. If you wait for her to take the first step you may wait for months. Now understand this, why will she want to be to you. Because she gets good feelings being with you. As simple as that. Be it attraction, validation, Happiness, chase, love whatever. That boosts your value high. If she gets bad feelings by being with you like neediness, desperation, annoying, negativity…
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:45 AM
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In the middle of the night shes talking about you name. That's a good sign and she might be interested. But your reply wasn't helping your cause. You said 'you can call me WHATEVER YOU WANT'. Why would you give her power after solving a problem ? As a man you lead and take charge. Yeah that's my first name however my friends call me Ben. If we get closer you'll get to call me Ben too. Something like that. Maintain a standard. Girls don't like guys who just give away value and shit. Let her know …
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:15 AM
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Many people confuse it but, she's an Indian chick not a Hindi chick. Hindi is the language we speak. India is our Nationality. So I've been in a situation of language barrier before and building attraction is hard if you can't convey what you mean to say.. However if you're super good at building attraction without much words then it shouldn't be a problem That opener isn't a good one though imo. You're basically asking her is she a God. That's low value from your side. Also if you keep sending …
/r/seduction10/09/22 04:59 AM
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Building up the conversation doesn't necessarily need common elements or association. If you rely on that you'll only be able to approach very very limited set of girls. When you conversate you dont have to Rely on commonalities. Of course they help But that shouldn't be the basis of your verbal game. You want to build attraction through conversation. So the first element you need is attraction within you -Her clothes -Her hair -Her fashion sense -Her smile -Her nature -Her voice Those are many …
/r/seduction09/09/22 06:53 PM
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👍
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:06 PM
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Nah Dude's pretty solid and can talk with wit and humor.
/r/seduction09/09/22 08:03 AM
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So you're clinging to a far fetched dream that things might change in future. And your thing is either I cling to this pipe dream or be a failure for life wallowing in sorrow... It isn't like that man. You're too scared in your mind to face these circumstances of your life. You're talking about accepting them as a finality. There is no finality that you can comprehend at this age or any age for that matter. Just accept your situation. It sucks big time Right Now. At present. And then focus on ho…
/r/seduction09/09/22 08:00 AM
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As a general advice I'd suggest a big no for dating coworkers. And a bigger No to any flirty/ lightly sexual / tease at the office.
/r/seduction08/09/22 09:03 PM
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Did you ask her number in front of her friends ?
/r/seduction08/09/22 07:35 PM
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Yeah dm me sure I have a friend who's just as charming as you describe yourself. Makes friends at the drop of a dime. Is clearly the guy who everyone wants to be friends and hang around with Funny, confident, super chill vibe but has exact same issue as you. He's 32 and Virgin AF. Haven't even kissed a girl. Ever. Lets figure this out.
/r/seduction08/09/22 06:12 PM
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If you have all those things going for you... And still you're not able to attract girls your age group. Then the only conclusion I can think of is your game isn't that good. Even this homeless guy is picking up chicks ! Good game is the only differentiator. Since you're asking about tinder, maybe your profile isn't set up the right way to show you in best light possible. I'd suggest you to get your tinder profile checked. I can help you with good ideas of pics and a catchy bio. There are profes…
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:48 PM
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They don't need solutions. They just need an ear. Someone to understand and comfort their emotions. This alone will boost your relationship many magnitudes. Now when she starts talking about her problems just say... Ohh.. is that so ? Oh damn ! Yeah that sucks.. Tell me about it ! That's unbelievable! Yep that's right ! Yeah Karen Seems like a bitch tbh .
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:12 AM
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That book is the real deal man.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:07 AM
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Just wait till you hear his divorce lawsuit.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:22 PM
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And thats the beauty of learning good game. It builds in you the concept, that you don't need others validation to the level that 1 night of rejection can crush you like this. Your self respect shouldn't come from the fact that you're an 8 or a 9. Girls have that mentality and they're fucked up. As a Man your confidence needs to be coming from something more substantial. I keep getting rejected a lot of the times Tinder bumble Instagram cold approach Have even been rejected kisses even when the …
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:41 PM
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Acceptance is what you need. Acceptance that you can't get her. It will calm you and help you with you urges.
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:29 PM
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Was that at the start or has it happened recently ?
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:08 AM
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Maybe she's using you to make some other guy jealous ? Always inviting for 'group' hangouts. Flirty vibes in office where others are present. Dig down in her friend group and maybe you can get answers.
/r/seduction07/09/22 09:56 AM
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This. How we measure success is really important.
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:43 AM
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Yeah probably she was playing with you. Specially after you confessed you like her. Girls do that alot. But that doesn't mean you couldn't get her. When a girl is playing hard to get that obvious, She wants to Play the game real bad. Now this game you gotta know how to play. If you let her believe she is hard to get, She is pretty beautiful and what not, you've lost. If you say fuck it and move on then you'll get pissed off on her behaviour but have a sense of victory since you ended it. The way…
/r/seduction05/09/22 05:07 AM
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Alex is mostly text game for tinder/bumble. And John Anthony mostly disses others to make his channel grow. Which is a good strategy but I don't trust him. I won't recommend you any course as such cuz most of the stuff is free on yt. The only advice I'll give you is to keep going out and approaching. With every failure, analyse what you did wrong and improve. Nothing beata consistent action . You'll learn magnitudes more this way than any other thing.
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:30 AM
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I don't have an award to give this comment. Hence writing this.
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:48 AM
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I think he wasn't looking for an answer/solution. Only a magic pill to solve his problems Or validation for his self pity. Classical immature behaviour.
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:38 AM
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You're welcome.
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:20 AM
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Yeah it's hard to accept bitter truths about life. Specially when told by others.
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:17 AM
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That's what I am saying man... Don't WAIT for someone to like you, for you to like yourself. In life you can't wait for something to happen to you. You need to MAKE IT HAPPEN. That's the whole concept of self love. Not depending on others to like you. You having love for yourself. And no matter if you're even a billionaire or Pope himself, you'll always have haters. There is no way you can make everyone like you in life. Absolutely Impossible. Take most influential people in History Gandhi, Wins…
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:14 AM
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When you're trying to help a stranger do good in life and then they have this immature attitude. Sucks.
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:07 AM
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Here's your deal : People dont like me, I suck. Starts believing he sucks real bad, starts hating himself And when you hate yourself, you radiate that shitty vibe all over the place and then people hate you more. It's a self sustaining cycle. Your initial desire was messed up in the first place. Why would you want Others to like you ? Do you even like yourself ? First have some self love and go at world and others with a positive attitude. And see how things flip.
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:05 AM
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The problem here is not that he doesn't know. But when offered wisdom and knowledge he's discarding it saying it's stupid etc. He first needs to understand basic communication and having an open mind before he moves on to dating.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:49 AM
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Not before 2000. Before modern civilizations existed. Cal it double standards, hypocrite or whatever That's how world works. You can call it bs all day Or understand it and learn to play the game and get girls. A lot of your opinions are based on incorrect thinking. But you're young, you have time to get better. I'd suggest you to get deeper into this and study how attraction and dating works before calling it bs.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:08 AM
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At first it is. You need to build an understanding of how to deal with rejection and then face as many rejections as you can so it desensitises you. This might help : https://youtu.be/-vZXgApsPCQ
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:48 AM
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So here's the thing. Being a guy and waiting for girls to approach you is like banging your head against a concrete wall and wondering why won't the wall break. As a man, you take the initiative. That's what masculinity is. You need to understand how gender dynamics work That'll clear a lot of things in your head. So don't feel bad as it's just an experience. Learn from it and improve. I didn't have my first kiss until age 24. So everyone is on their own pace.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:46 AM
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I think it's not dating which you have problem with. It's handling rejection.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:39 AM
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https://youtu.be/Bv6g_hLMecc
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:52 PM
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Yeah you're kind of overthinking it. This yt channel Playing With Fire has a good video on this. You can check that out.
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:50 PM
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Depends on lots of stuff tbh. I've had a bj on first date. I didn't like the girl alot. And only kisses till 9th date. I was ready to be in love with this one. Being clear about your intentions works well. If you're faking it to get sex , girls sense that. Nothing wrong with wanting physical stuff. But you gotta set the tone accordingly with the girl so she is aware where it's going. Helps to keep things clean and fun.
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:59 PM
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Maybe. But you do have balls to acknowledge you might not be good at something. And that's harder to learn than game.
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:51 PM
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69% of girls don't like to give BJs
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:38 AM
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Well girls do want to friendzone guys and get constant validation. So maybe you're right. However, if a good looking guy can't text/talk the right way The matches are of no use.
/r/seduction01/09/22 11:28 AM
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Well I have been into game since ~4 years now. The 1.5 years in pandemic didn't game much . Don't have one specific teacher, just some concepts from many puas on youtube. Some books here and there. So it's mostly trial and error. Nothing/no one will teach you game better than you getting your hands dirty and doing stuff. But every time you fail, find out the reason and improve . Getting theory is essential, but without practice it's nothing.
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:39 AM
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Correct.
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:19 AM
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These tactics/techniques only are for open your interaction and stuff. After that they are not of much use alone. If you've ever been into mindset/zone where you were attracted to the girl , having fun and the texting would go on without effort. Everything you'd text was playful and she'd respond good. After the first message, get into that mindset/zone and you'd not need much of anything else. Your texts seem to be good enough to have cool conversations so I think you have that locked in. If yo…
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:14 AM
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So you're Matching with pretty girls You must be good looking. As I can see in these messages Most are requests/questions. If you understand tinder dynamics , girls get hundreds of messages from guys. They don't reply to all/most of them. Specially if you're asking them questions. In generality, if you ask someone a question they need to think. Thinking is exhausting. Now if a girl is getting 50+ matches a day She just needs to say 1 sentence to get sex. And has plethora of options. Why would sh…
/r/seduction01/09/22 06:02 AM
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Sounds like something you shouldn't do.
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:40 PM
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Exactly. OP, you can have good job, house and hobbies. But can you stimulate their emotions by being fun, playful, building attraction, teasing, etc. If the answer to that is No. Then you'll have to learn how to be the kind of person who has those qualities.
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:37 PM
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I think she just messaged you as a friend and stuff And you Might have creeped her out a little when you sent a flirty lets-date type of text. That's just a possibility. Maybe she was genuinely busy . A screenshot of actual texts would help.
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:33 PM
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To be successful on dating apps you need to be in top 15-20% of men Looks wise. I haven't got much success through dating apps as well I'd say 1 match / month but even that's not consistent. However my friend who is in the above mentioned bracket got 110+ matches in 1 month of signing up on tinder. Best advice I could give you is start working on yourself. Body Mind Skills and Career. And keep approaching women on the side.
/r/seduction31/08/22 12:05 PM
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Imo only doctor is a prestigious role in society Having said that, I am an Engineer who does programming. My dating life isn't that great. Although I have been on ~16 first dates since I started dating (7years). I started learning about emotions, mind , psychology and attraction recently but covid hit. In my house it was a complete lockdown. One thing I've noticed is my game has gotten better than before. Way better since I gained the above mentioned knowledge. I do cold approaches sometimes but…
/r/seduction30/08/22 03:23 PM
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Words of wisdom. The whole idea is , girls relate you with fun. So if they're stressed, be a world of fun ,banter and flirt in which they can escape into from their life. If however you solve their problems, they're relate you with problems. And only come to you when they have one.
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:03 AM
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Ahhh the religious angle. I have friends who're in the exact same situation as you. Well what sex is and is not is completely your perspective. I can say all this cuz I had the exact same perspective as you. I am not a muslim. But I realised later what is expected in a marriage , how to think about sex and how life works. My thinking evolved. However I guess it's a part of your faith and you're not gonna modify it no matter what anyone says cuz sex-taboo is a very concrete ideology for you.
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:54 AM
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No It's not. Real question is WHY ? Why are you waiting till marriage ? Most of the times there is a moral reasoning for this. But tbink about it this way... If you're virgin entering marriage, you'll have NO skills in Bed. And the girl marrying you will be disappointed as hell. Same logic goes vice versa. If you have sex regularly with different women, chances are you'll have really Awesome sex with someone eventually. Then you'll start realising the importance of sexual skills. Show this post …
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:36 AM
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Yeah it's never about logic. It's just the playful emotions and banter. As long as the emotions are in the conversation ,you're good.
/r/seduction11/05/22 04:20 PM
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Thats cool. She gave you her number cuz she's interested too. Now just keep light chilled relaxed funny flirty vibe and talk to her. Build some sexual tension and ask her to meet. Don't keep a friend vibe. And you're good.
/r/seduction10/05/22 06:38 PM
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Yeah this is not one battle you can fight just by yourself. You'll need help . Consult, a therapist.. They know the root cause of these things and guide is in true ways to solve our issues.
/r/seduction10/05/22 12:27 PM
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So solving this social anxiety would be a big leap in getting your dating life back on track. Do you have a plan for it ?
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:31 AM
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I get that I had approached anxiety for long time. I still do ! One good thing is you're aware of your problem. So you can take steps to specifically solve this.
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:25 AM
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So you're doing what we in the tech industry call.. Rejecting yourself before Companies rejecting you. If you think they wouldn't wanna be with you, you've already rejected yourself and didn't even take the shot which Might have been successful. Don't reject yourself ! Go and approach girls and let Them reject you. Learn from every approach, improve, and apply that in your next set.
/r/seduction10/05/22 11:22 AM
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Helpful advice. Dont pressure yourself with hitting perfection on first date/first time/first whatever. What's the worst that can happen ? She'll smile and say bye after dinner. Building skills takes time. I am 29years old and recently grasp the idea of building attraction through texting/talking. Before that was just pressuring myself to remember lines/openers/escalation tactic/push pull etc etc. None of that worked. So just relax and go in to the date with calm and relaxed vibe. There's someth…
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:54 PM
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I don't think the girl will do anything for a guy Unless she wants to. IF you are a good looking dude with proper style and personality , the girl Might be attracted and hence wouls want to give it to you. However most guys aren't like that We BUILD attraction through communication (verbal and nonverbal). So it's always better to build attraction before asking something from the girl. Number/pull.
/r/seduction01/12/21 10:44 AM
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Couldn't agree more.
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