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I live in NYC, even Chick Fil A is expensive here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:57 PM
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I live in NYC, nothing is cheap lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:56 PM
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Probably cost a lot more than that just for the travel costs from NYC :P
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:56 PM
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You're asking for an impossible solution. As a man, I'd love to be able to take women on dates who don't just want to use me for my money. I've accepted the fact that some women just want a free meal at a fancy restaurant so nowadays I do my due diligence but still continue to take women on dates. I just accept the fact that it's a cost of doing business.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:59 PM
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I'm a man who has a skincare routine but I wouldn't call it makeup. I have a daily cleanser, moisturizer, sunscreen and retinol cream for context. Makeup is all the other stuff imo like lipstick, foundation, blush, mascara, eyeliner, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:41 AM
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I'm talking about all the PUA on youtube that are straight up marketing their courses. It might have started off different but the current iteration is a grift and was designed as a money grab.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:56 PM
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If anything pua stuff was designed to get views and money from schmucks on the internet. Kinda obvious when the PUA tries to sell a weekend class or online course for hundreds of dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:05 PM
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Is that really that surprising though? Ugly people are still ugly even if they're trying to "spit game".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:48 AM
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Lean usually means six pack abs otherwise you're just scrawny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:46 AM
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Shave it all off daily or get a toupee.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:42 AM
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Not everyone is content with spending their life alone. Different strokes for different folks. I enjoy my life with someone to experience things with. Im going to a museum in a couple weeks with a date because it makes the experience so much better if I'm sharing it with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:15 PM
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I think most people who talk about the positives of international dating because they can't find a relationship in their own country, are simply just speaking from outside the window looking in. That is to say, they haven't experienced it themselves but see posts or videos of others that only portray the positives. Personally I want a family and partner to raise children with. If I wanted to bring someone back with me to the US, it would be easier to just find someone in the US. I guess if you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:02 PM
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Depends on the path tbh, good luck creating a path when you both want totally opposite things like children early vs childfree. Or 80 hour work weeks and early retirement vs 40k/year and work til your 65.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:30 PM
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20 is an understatement for some women though. I've seen some women get 999+ likes in under 24 hours but I also live in NYC so there's a lot of people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:53 PM
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Honestly I wasn't sure what he meant. $860 seemed low for a year unless you're going on like 8-10 dates that entire year. Then again, there have been some other insane debates on this subreddit so this was still within the realm of ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:18 AM
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What about the rest of the typical vows? Like "I promise to protect you", if I'm getting abused in my relationship, she's already fucked up the vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:14 PM
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I will say though that there's generally not just one thing that makes you undesirable to everyone. Like height is a common talking point but there are short people in relationships everywhere. There are bald people in relationships. There are disabled people in relationships. There are obese people in relationships. The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:29 PM
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That's up to personal preference. I don't go on very expensive first dates so I usually just pay for first dates. The extra $50 from paying in full is not going to break me. Usually she pays for dessert or coffee afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:04 PM
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What the article claims seems pretty accurate though, $77 as an average cost of a first date is pretty normal if you count dinner and drinks somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:56 PM
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Read your own title. On average women paid $499.96 for a date That's what you wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:54 PM
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Did you even read your own title before you posted it? On average women paid $499.96 for a date and men paid $861.29 in 2019. Funny how when I ctrl+F that sentence, there was no result. Instead, they posted the following. Our survey respondents spent an average of $696.98 on dating in 2019. Women spent much less than men, at $499.96 and $861.29, respectively. "paid $499.96 for a date" AND "spent an average of $696.98 on dating in 2019" are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:52 PM
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Not exactly, you just posted a misleading title. According to the article you linked: The average cost of a first date is $77. That's actually much more in line with my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:45 PM
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That's how much they spent on dating in 2019 and not for a date. Reading your title is misleading and made me question their survey altogether lol. If I had to spend $861 on a single date, I'd probably swear off dating forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:43 PM
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Then you're undesirable and have to learn to accept it. I'm not going to sugarcoat it and say there's someone out there for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:18 PM
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To me that question is like asking if I would rather my children go to a school that has a football team or doesn't have a football team. It really doesn't matter to me if it did or not. All things being equal, I'd be willing to just flip a coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:15 PM
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God forbid someone changes their mind. If my girlfriend turned abusive after marriage, I wouldn't hesitate to divorce her. What good are vows if I have to deal with an unhappy marriage, I'd rather just move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:05 PM
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Sounds like those men need better friends. I'm a dude that has friends who are also men, and we just chill and vent about random shit. Recently, he was having trouble with his house that he was renting out so I just listened.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:25 PM
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The way I see it is if one or some woman don't like you, that's normal. If there's no woman that likes you, that's something you need to look into in yourself. I don't turn heads but I have been in relationships before as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:12 PM
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Where do you live that the average man is only 1.65m? In the US, the average is like 1.75m.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:00 PM
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How does a woman asking to be paid the same as a man for the same job, force another man to be paid less? Sounds like some boogieman if you ask me. I think it's a reasonable ask to be paid the same if you're doing the same job. Define less fit, I'm not interested in someone who's never seen the inside of a gym or prefers to watch TV over regular exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:03 PM
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I'm not fat and hit the gym 3-4 times/week, looking for someone who's also active. I'd say it's pretty common for most people to just watch TV or do something else at home after work instead of going to the gym, at least the people I've talked to. Just because it's unlikely doesn't make it unreasonable though. If OP was making the median salary then maybe that would be unreasonable imo to want someone who makes six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:58 PM
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Why would something being not likely be unreasonable? If most women are overweight, is it unreasonable to want a woman who's not overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:44 PM
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Sure beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, so don't be surprised when others call her not pretty lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:26 PM
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I didn't know what she looked like until I googled her like 10 minutes ago and I wouldn't call her pretty by conventional standards. It's got nothing to do with plastic Instagram whores either, she's just very average at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:19 PM
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She looks like a typical middle age soccer mom tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:15 PM
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Or that man wanted an inside track to minors, as sad as that sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:10 PM
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That's just how it is now considering most people are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:08 PM
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I mean even here in the US, I didn't see that many obese young women either but it really goes to show how your social circle and places you go to can impact that. I'm sure if I went to Wal-Mart or McDonalds then I would see more fat people. Could just be that people in Eastern Europe who are obese might just prefer staying home so you wouldn't see them around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:23 PM
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You can't argue with stupid because you're never going to win when they have the upper hand with experience in stupid arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:48 PM
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Nah, I'm far from blackpill, I think there are ways to improve yourself in order to get the best option available to you. For example, I go to the gym, I eat clean, I work in tech and am financially comfortable, I go on dates once or twice a month. But to say that life is fair is delusional. I grew up in poverty but made it out with a full ride scholarship because I graduated top of my high school class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:20 PM
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How am I blue pilled? I don't believe in fairness when it comes to dating or even life in general. Some people are born with great looks or a silver spoon and others are not. There is no fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:09 PM
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Wtf is fair when it comes to dating? Now you're sounding like the people who believe in just world fallacy/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:31 PM
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That still doesn't mean men just accept whatever, only those who lack options will take whatever they can get. Non fat is already like the top 50% of women since most women are fat, add in decent looking and you're probably talking about the top 30%. It's like the men who have no education and want a six figure job. Good luck since it's possible but chances are very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:48 PM
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Lmao, the only men that look for that are the ones who have zero choice. Everyone wants the best that they can get, the best paying job, the most attractive women they can get, etc. I've never heard of someone saying nah I don't like hot women, I'd rather take the uglier woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:37 PM
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Yeah, some autistic people learn to mask and others just don't bother and usually end up lonely. I'm not afraid to cut out the "blunt" people out of my life because I don't care for random negative comments. Life is more peaceful without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:07 PM
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I always wonder if people are being intentionally obtuse with these comments. It's like you only believe and remember the comments that go along with your world view. Maybe get out of the house and go to the bar and make your decision based on that instead of some random post on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:10 PM
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I hope you like living overseas then because as soon as you bring her back here, what's stopping her from divorcing you and seeking a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:00 PM
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Being an asshole and saying unpleasant truths are not mutually exclusive. Just because you don't like someone's laugh doesn't mean you should comment on it. It's the same as people commenting on other's appearance, especially something they can't change easily. "No offense but you're short" or "No offense but you have a lot of acne". 9 times out of 10, no one asked for their opinion in the first place. NT people learn those basic social skills early on but autists seem to toe the line where some…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:52 PM
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Cool and plenty of autists I know are assholes because they self-identify as "blunt". Just because they say "no offense" before an insult, that doesn't make it less of an insult. "No offense but your laugh sounds stupid".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:48 PM
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Same shit, it's called dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:34 PM
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End of the day, sports is still just entertainment to like 98% of viewers. The other 2% might touch a ball once a week. I personally can't get into watching men play with a ball and nothing about it is admirable to me as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 01:30 PM
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Whoever creates the first AI girlfriend robot will be filthy rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:15 PM
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You forgot the "I don't have social skills." It's like the trifecta tbh, no social skills, no social outings, no desire to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:09 PM
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And you think lowering their standard is going to magically lead to long term relationships? Sounds like some weird logic like if I worked for lower pay, I'd be less stressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:59 PM
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It's up to the person who doesn't get matches to reduce their standard or continue not getting dates. Common sense basically. If women are getting dates, why would they change their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:56 PM
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I am a man that just turned 30, I've had my successes and failures and know a lot of guys my age or younger who just don't get out much. They rely solely on gaming or some online community like reddit to be a psuedo social thing. How often do you go out on the weekends?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:54 PM
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Are those men solely relying on dating apps? Unless you're physically disfigured or have the personality of a potato, I think most men can get more than two dates in a year if they actually get out of the house on the weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:21 PM
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It's a tale as old as time, good luck trying to change people when they also have freedom of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:16 PM
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Lmao I felt that, Chinese people love their luxury brands, god damn LV and shit walking around haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:45 PM
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That's like trying to change society to stop eating fast food. It's never going to happen, you're better off improving yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:59 PM
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Volunteer on the weekends or work a service job. Low barrier to learning some social skills because you're going to be around people. I had non-existent social skills until I worked a service job in high school. Learned how to talk to people of all walks of life because it meant bigger tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:56 PM
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