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| 120 | "Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rocked | Discrimination | Educational_Tank_175 | /r/MensRights | 10/06/23 12:45 PM |
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| 1 | Q4W: What steps do you take to make men less afraid of you?I wonder if they envisioned hot dogs flying down hallways during these trysts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What steps do you take to make men less afraid of you?Like they had the self-worth to break up with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What steps do you take to make men less afraid of you?(Green Flag)^2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid being 'boring' to ladies?Ask her about the things that interest her and see what you have in common. Use open ended questions. Listen to the answer (don't just wait to talk). Talk passionately about things that interest you. If she is unengaged at this point, she is just not that into you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 11:19 PM |
| – | How are men supposed to meet women?Change your paradigm. Pursue the things in life you are passionate about and become the person you want to be. When you don't chase, and exhibit passion and enthusiasm in your life, they will chase you. But, if you need you need to get lucky - Always be ready to talk to women when the opportunity presents itself In Real Life. Don't waste time going to "special places" to meet women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 11:23 PM |
| 6 | Post abortive grief for menWhat is done is done. How you reach acceptance with it is a different matter. Focus on the future and how you won't allow yourself to be in this position again. Mourn the loss if you feel you must. But, you are mourning the loss of something you never truly had. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/23 11:09 PM |
| 2 | After 2.5 years of pure torture, finally have a trial datePrayers and good vibes. You know, a few years back, I had to make an adjustment. No meeting with female peers alone together in an office. Please leave the door open or accompany me to the conference room that is transparent on all sides. NOW? Sh!#. I am starting to be afraid to be alone with my date. | /r/MensRights | 17/08/23 11:01 PM |
| 1 | If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life?You seem like you are in a bad head space and believe me I get it. Regardless of our relationship status, in the end, everyone dies or leaves us, or we leave them. Attachment to the idea and belief that these people will always be in our lives is a recipe for sadness. So is the idea of avoiding establishing these types of bonds to forego the pain of their loss. I will take the love knowing it comes with the pain. Is there no one in your life you can mentor? Pass some lessons along to? Maybe a cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's dating advice revolves around physically escalating. Women, what are your thoughts about this?Yeah, he clearly wasn't doing it right. As for, "You really think women don't know what men are doing when they put hands on her for phony, contrived reasons?" You do realize that people do this naturally in conversation with others all the time. It's not necessarily a "dating" technique, but it does have some facility there. No, you shouldn't do it for contrived, b&!!$hit reasons. You should do it as a natural part of conversation, banter, and flirting. And, if she is not receptive, that is tot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:55 PM |
| 0 | If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life?This question finds me at an apropos time in my life. I am separated on the downside of a second marriage. Just waiting for the clock to run out to file for the actual divorce. Same story - betrayal. What kind? Take your pick? I just turned 49. I have had to accept that there will no children in my future. I gambled on bad mates and lost. Luckily, I have been on a seven-year weight loss journey, and I head into 50 at my high school weight. So, I won't be alone. For a night, if I don't want to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman?I am really going to need to know --- where does she fall on the Super Sweet vs. H[LL Bent B!#ch on Wheels spectrum? If we can say she lands on the good side of super sweet, f it. I am in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Most of men's dating advice revolves around physically escalating. Women, what are your thoughts about this?I am seeing some questionable advice from the Ladies out there, so I feel compelled to chime in. Kino is not aggressive nor necessarily sexual. It also stops at the other person's comfort level. When done right, you don't even know it's happening. You just feel a "closeness" or a "vibe". Kino is also not really optional. You have to signal your intent early as a man that the friend zone is not your ultimate destination. I know this may draw some lady ire, but otherwise the man risks his time, re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Most of men's dating advice revolves around physically escalating. Women, what are your thoughts about this?Sure you have. You just didn't know they were a PUA. They didn't wear their T-shirt that day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?Both. Women's standards and hypergamy have hit the stratosphere. The never-ending war on men has also caused an erosion of typically masculine behavior like you describe (cold approaching). One comment here - I have never used an online dating platform. All my dating activities have been started old school (IRL). It is possible. It won't kill you, Gents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Are there really jobs that pay men more than women?Women make 98% of what men do now behaviorally adjusted so no significant wage gap. In fact given men do the more arduous and riskier jobs men are likely underpaid--fatalities at work 96% make. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/23 12:34 AM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Older woman are less optimistic positive enthusiastic, and tend to have a more cynical dark view of the world and men so...why wouldnt a man be more attracted to younger women? there are exceptions, but men like women to brighten up his life, not be skeptical and give him a hard time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Women insist that their “taste” or standards are instinctual and without any outside influence, and that they can’t be changed when the opposite has been proven when it comes to physical attraction. Their inflated standards are quite clearly the direct result of their abundance of options.There is some truth to what you say, and in today's society, where women are being taught, there are no consequences for your actions. Women are acting on escalated hypergamy, instincts to throw themselves at males that they will never secure. These women will rack up their body counts and accrue emotional damage from attaching and reattaching in sexual relations and relationships, which will change them and their behaviors making them very unattractive to men in later in their life, 30+ and bey… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV Online Dating is the primary reason why today superficial things like (Looks Money Status) are more valuable then genuine things (character, charisma, humour etc) and i wanna discuss this.Agree with you 100%. Online dating statistically reduces men to five parameters that women look at exclusively appearance, money, age, height, race. In multiple studies, it has been shown that women look at these five factors and they don't look at your interests, or your hobbies, you are reduced to a 2D man. Furthermore, you will hear a woman complaining that the introductions are only 2 to 3 words and too simple or careless. However, studies have shown that in dating online apps, the length or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 01:19 PM |
| – | Is anybody here good at hookup culture, but hates it?Just like with women to a lesser degree frequently, dating many women will make you jaded, less appreciative when a good woman comes along. Still, you have to have a way of meeting women, right? I found going to country line dancehalls a nice place to meet good people in a fun context, more likely to date for the purposes of long-term relationship and marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 12:03 PM |
| – | Is anybody here good at hookup culture, but hates it?True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Given Very Bad Dating Advice.This is just one reason why that is terrible advice. When a man feels that the woman is trying to control or manipulate him, or willfully, withhold, sex, he may not say anything, but she loses value in his eyes. She's no longer a sweet, precious woman to be cherished. She is a conniving animal Attempting to enact her will upon the man. This will make the man eventually less willing to do things for her, and he will often act out or leave the relationship. Men realize when women try to manipulate… | /r/MensRights | 18/06/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder that there is no such thing as a femcel30 or so in my experience. Of course you need to be an active force in bettering your life, improve health, build network of brothers, find hobbies you enjoy, learn useful skills. Dont just worry about women. Preparation is key to attractive women, who are attracted to men who have a full satisfying life. "Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe." Abraham Lincoln | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Friendly reminder that there is no such thing as a femcelLife is rough for young men. It gets better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:59 PM |
| – | Women should check other women instead of validating everything.There is definitely a dearth of older women that will be role models for women and check, outrageous female behavior. The sad thing is many of these women giving out advice now to their female compatriots seem to be purposefully sabotaging. These women's lives by giving God awful advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:51 PM |
| 3 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?Oh, it's a factor for women who are immature and not mindful of doing the things that are in their best interest. It's just like young guys who go for chicks just because they are busty and look hot, and they don't really investigate their values. Those men and women get burned by life all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Settling is not a bad thing. It’s just a thing.One thing you can be sure of, those women who made lists pages long of their needed requirements in an ideal mate--they very very rarely end up in any kind of stable, enjoyable relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder that there is no such thing as a femcelThe equivalent of incel for women is a insin - involuntarily single. Especially when a woman crosses 30 the number of men that are interested in partnering with her becomes far less and you get hundreds of thousands if not millions of women that post on social media about how no one wants to get into a relationship with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Is anybody here good at hookup culture, but hates it?Pick up culture and red pill, gives honest, fairly accurate information about the real motivators and the way that women think. And it does help men attract women. But here's the thing, the more that you understand the base motivations of a woman, you lose the fantasy to be able to cherish a woman. You end up finding a woman is less and less special. Especially in today's culture where multiple studies have shown that women pick mates based on very superficial criteria for a large portion of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Women should not get mad at their guy friends for ghosting them after they reject themIf the guy has shown interest, and she rejects him of course he's going to end the friendship. It is likely that if he did continue with a friendship, he would feel constantly embarrassed. Why should he do that? It is a common practice among women to keep back up guys in the friend zone. Perhaps they don't realize they are doing it consciously nevertheless, many women do that. It is the mature act by the man to end the friendship if the woman expresses that she doesn't want anything romantic fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Are there any women in favor of the passport bro movement?Many men are increasingly disgusted with the decrease in values demonstrated by American women. So they seek women that are more appreciative and desire to boost their male partners lives. It's not my thing, but I certainly understand their way of thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Do women rape more or is it men?I read some studies by Laura Stemple that investigated sexual victimization men versus women, and on the year that it was assessed men victimized women, 1.2 million and women victimized men about 870,000, note this is counting, forced penetration in the definition. I thought the statistics were very interesting and contrary to expectations | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | The answer to 'misogyny kills, misandry only hurts feelings'Suicides are 80% men, a lot of that comes from misandry, which does indeed kill. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | "I'm a mom who flies in business class while my family stays in economy. We see it as a lesson on feminism."Well, that's disgusting | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Women Are Given Very Bad Dating Advice.Women actively sabotage other women. They give god awful advice. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | "Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rockedFrom what I understand after she finished her book, she reported that it took a lot out of her emotionally, and she was admitted to a mental hospital for a time. I think she had issues of depression anyway. Per Wikipedia and the times, though pretending to be a man, was very hard on her emotionally. Part of that was probably all of her preconceptions being broken. I believe last year she went to Switzerland and had assisted suicide, but exactly the details are unclear. It appears very likely fro… | /r/MensRights | 12/06/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | 1/3 of all men below 30 have never had sex, my brother being one, how do I help?The whole INCEL term is an female, emotional shaming tool to attack males masculinity. That's all that it is. When the woman found out, he wasn't a virgin she just realized she had to use another vulnerability to attack. When a woman says that to you, just laugh, and continue on in the conversation. Men are often so clueless to all the, emotional and verbal tactics that women will use to get their way and actualize their desires. Men do things, physically, women instinctively get what they want … | /r/MensRights | 12/06/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | 1/3 of all men below 30 have never had sex, my brother being one, how do I help?Agreed. It's a form of female emotional shaming, an attack on their masculinity. But the reality of it is, there's nothing wrong with someone that hasn't had sex yet. That's a perfectly fine lifestyle choice. It doesn't change the value of their opinions, or the value of their lives. Intimating that because someone hasn't had sex that they are somehow worth less?--, is a despicable attitude | /r/MensRights | 12/06/23 01:00 PM |
| 3 | "Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rockedIn any case, the stories of younger people that transitioned and regretted it are truly heartbreaking. https://nypost.com/2022/06/18/detransitioned-teens-explain-why-they-regret-changing-genders/ | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 04:23 AM |
| 4 | "Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rockedThis check your fact site says that percentage is very misleading and the numbers are likely higher. . I know a transgender survey in 2015 reported 4/11% reversion rate, and 5% chose to stop their transitioning. https://checkyourfact.com/2023/05/26/fact-check-rate-of-regret-gender-affirming-surgery/ | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 04:18 AM |
| 3 | "Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rockedThat is an interesting statistic. Do you have links to substantiate that? | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 04:13 AM |
| 6 | 1/3 of all men below 30 have never had sex, my brother being one, how do I help?Probably so. It just seems despicable to me to act like someone doesn't have value or their opinions are unimportant based upon whether they have had sex or not. Some people still choose to be virginal until marriage, a very respectable lifestyle, although I would imagine extremely difficult to implement and follow. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 04:12 AM |
| 16 | 1/3 of all men below 30 have never had sex, my brother being one, how do I help?Agree with you, life is actually a lot more peaceful as a young man if you concentrate on your life and don't worry about women. However, young men don't know that, and it messes up their self image and their confidence. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 02:59 AM |
| 77 | 1/3 of all men below 30 have never had sex, my brother being one, how do I help?First of all women who call people incels are disgusting pitiful creatures devoid of value. Ways that you can help your brother, get him a gym membership, pay for him to take dance lessons, take them to a country dance place a great way to meet women and have fun and good exercise, get him enrolled in some coed classes, such as cooking, Have him try out singing in a church choir, increase his confidence by having him practice public speaking were acting in a play,. Have him avoid social media, e… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 02:58 AM |
| 17 | "If you call prostitution the oldest profession you hate women."That statement is totally illogical. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/06/23 02:43 AM |
| 14 | "Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rockedApparently, she was a really impressive person. The dedication to pursue an 18 month undercover mission like that and the honesty to be able to change her preconceptions. That's very rare in people nowadays. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 02:27 AM |
| 2 | "Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rockedI don't know I've never seen any testimonial about a trans man, saying that life is so much easier. Not once in my half century of life. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 02:26 AM |
| 9 | "Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rockedAlthough the details aren't clear, Wikipedia and the times reported that she said she had a hard time from the way she was treated disguised as a man from women and had to cut the time down to 18 months rather than two years and went into a mental hospital right after book published. However, depression is, a lifelong thing usually lapsing and relapsing. So it's likely her 18 months as a man was a factor, but exactly how much it's impossible to say. Reading some of her material, though her dedic… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/23 02:23 AM |
| 2 | "Female suicide rate is fastest rising".... NO. IT. IS. NOT. It only SEEMS that way BECAUSE THEY CHANGED THE DEFINITION OF WHAT THEY COUNT AS A SUICIDE ATTEMPT. I have been pointing this out for literally YEARS now but people STILL fall for their trick, just as they do for the wage gap myth.Men need to focus on having a network of friends. They can talk to, and establish a brotherhood. Men absolutely, must have guys to talk about their feelings, fears and their failures, as well as to acknowledge their experiences in life. Historically, in tribes, men used to go on long hunts for weeks at a time where they would enjoy brotherhood being able to talk about all aspects of their life. In modern day society, we don't do that and it's terrible for our mental health as men | /r/MensRights | 07/06/23 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Did Feminism Ruin Everything For Women? The truth is that feminism did not harm women, it wrecked men. (random article i came across)Societal crisis upcoming by 2030 there will be 45% women single alone childless for first time ever with huge ramifications that are going to ripple throughout society and our economy. Political leaders are aware of this, and they don't know what to do. This was caused by feminism and was predicted 2 decades ago but few listened. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/06/23 06:30 PM |
| 1 | "Stats about women handling pain better mean nothing because of anecdotes from people who totally wouldn't lie for a cause."Many women dont care about men's pain--avoid them | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 2 | "Stats about women handling pain better mean nothing because of anecdotes from people who totally wouldn't lie for a cause."Kidney stones can be total agony. My dad had a tremendous pain threshold yet he had a kidney stone one time and brought him to tears.I'd never seen such pain. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/06/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | "Stats about women handling pain better mean nothing because of anecdotes from people who totally wouldn't lie for a cause."If you have ever heard women say men handle being sick worse than men not true. Recent studies suggest men due to neurological differences get higher fevers to viruses and bacteria explaining why sometimes they are more debilitated by sickness | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | The term male hormone cycle and relation to mood swings, effect on cognitive function and exerciseMen's testosterone levels change throughout the day they tend to be the highest in the morning, and then gradually decline and be the lowest at the end of the day, they are slow to return to their baseline levels. That is what I know about testosterone levels. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | I don’t care about “what it means to be a man”When people tell you that you have to be the strong man or the alpha, that's a salesman, trying to use the ideal that men desire to be to manipulate men for an agenda. Everyone wants something, but if you are man enough to be open and say what they want. They have hidden agendas. The best way that I know how to help men is through my own failures that have given me wisdom. So I try to give advice that helps men avoid or minimize life pain be that a loss of money, time, stress, or hassle. So that… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Can a man be a feminist?There are men who cater to these progressive, self-destructive agendas. I think the term is Simp, who thinks somehow they will get some type of social credit from women. Pitiable creatures. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 12:50 AM |
| 3 | My brother is starting a non profit support organization for male abuse victimsVery noble. I strongly suggest he goes everywhere weaponized | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Justifying their misandry because of what different men didIt makes absolutely no sense just like the whole original sin idea makes no sense. It's when emotion triumphs rationality. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Broke up with someone and the treatment is so differentThis is a younger female thing to trash men socially. You can always respond and trash her socially, and there are ways to get on the Internet to trash her reputation quite easily. But honestly, it's not worth it. Just go your own way and rebuild your life man. Search for Brotherhood and rebuild network of friends | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 12:47 AM |
| 2 | SystemicSexism: To bolster tech and innovation, EU offers funding, mentorships, coaching, networking, skills enhancement and four different prizes - but only to womenDiscrimination is wrong both ways | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | double standards when it comes to men's issuesWould you say in society we have toxic #masculinity? Or has the #culture of our society become toxic TO men… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/23 12:05 AM |
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