Edward189181 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Your wake up call. The truth: "he has been the sole provider for well over 20 years" The Narrative: "have been financially controlled for so long". They're always the victim, never the one abusing someone's good nature, and taking advantage.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/25 03:18 PM
5	What the fuck! I just inherited a little over 2.0M That final "do you think she will crawl back" is troubling me. Get her out of your head, and do not let her back into it. You owe her nothing. Go out and meet someone new. Keep your money out of that relationship. Don't mention what you have in your savings. In fact, get it tied up in investment. That's your retirement fund. Away from the tax man for as long as possible. Better still, stay single, don't re-marry. You could get taken for everything.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/25 07:47 PM
7	I am on the brink of divorcing my "sweet perfect wife" and am being called a bad and terrible person - please help regain my sanity This is exactly the reason I ended my marriage. Life's responsibilities simply weren't being split 50/50, and by 50/50 I was even willing to concede at an ability level. DIY was never her forté, as were an ever growing list of other items, like keeping on top of deep cleaning, and the one that broke the camels back, was keeping on top of the garden. She'd often say "let's tidy the garden up" and once work had started, she'd disappear into the house, or to see a family member and I was left doing…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/23 06:38 AM
2	Would you marry again wo a prenup? I wouldn't marry again, full stop.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 10:21 AM
2	Grounds for divorce? Dude. Not being judgemental, but... Two words, self respect. Build some, and get rid of her, by any means.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/23 01:44 PM
5	Did anyone here try telling your spouse that if they don’t contribute more then the marriage won’t work out? I walked away from my marriage for the exact same reason. There is only so long someone can put up with being taken advantage of. It was the same with money, I was paying the lion's share of everything, debt was loaded heavier on my side, I financially supported her through university when she went part time. I'd do most of the cooking, If anything needed doing in the house or garden, I'd be working my arse off to get it done while she was out doing whatever she deemed more important than contri…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/23 11:15 AM
8	How long realistically does it take to move on ? First things first, stop looking at time when it comes to recovery, recovered is a feeling, not something a clock can tell you. Find yourself a lot of new hobbies. Something to keep you motivated, and anything you've ever fancied doing, start them, and keep the ones you enjoy most. Make your spare time as full of the things you love doing, outside of a relationship. Then, and only then start exploring the notion of banging those birds, otherwise you'll fall into the relationship trap again. Your…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/23 11:04 AM
4	Losing friends in separation/divorce As small quarter says, the ones that are married will do as their wives say. It's exactly what's happening with my group of friends at the minute. Women tend to side with women regardless of the circumstances. Just let them get on with it, and count your blessings that life gave you the gift of naturally filtering out people who would never have your back. It hurts for a while, but you get through it.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/22 12:23 PM