Eedoryeong Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
44	Why No Men's Books section in Amazon?	Progress	Eedoryeong	/r/MensRights	01/04/22 09:08 AM
15	My Divorce is Freedom Coffee Ritual		Eedoryeong	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/22 11:36 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do you think feminism is hurting women in the long run? Yes and no. Feminism is at least ostensibly a form of power distribution. And for a certain subsection of the female population, that offers life choices they need to be able to have for higher fulfillment I.e. self actualization. It has always needed to exist in some form. But it's just an expression of power, not of virtue. And as we have all observed and the histrorical record readily shows, as with power in the hands of men, so too feminism corrupts same with women, and in situations when it…	/r/MensRights	07/08/22 01:02 AM
6	Question I am always acutely aware that discrimination exists against women. When I was young I learned about it but it was just a kind of intellectual abstraction. But now I have skin in the game as they say. None of my contentions thst get voice in this forum detract from this basic understanding. But years of denial /explaining away/ not being heard about very real, explicit violence against me personally and vocationally as a man, by individual women who should represent nothing but themselves but ba…	/r/MensRights	26/07/22 05:48 AM
12	Marilyn Manson Accuser Admits She Was Told to Lie That was my first question, too. It's not clear from the text screenshots but it seems at one point she's saying it was the cancel movement then at another she seems to be saying staff involved in the Evan documentary told her to. Either way this should be a watershed moment i.e. if we had the men's rights political lobby we desperately need, a plea deal for a reduced sentence could be offered in exchange for her ratting them out more precisely. Legal action could then be mobilized to go down th…	/r/MensRights	23/07/22 02:07 PM
1	Feminist Strategy: Insult Men While Demanding Our Help They stacked the audience, just like they did the commenter on the YouTube post. It's all plants I'll bet.	/r/MensRights	02/07/22 07:46 AM
9	Feminist Strategy: Insult Men While Demanding Our Help UNTIL WE ARE ALL FREE, NONE OF US CAN BE.	/r/MensRights	02/07/22 07:42 AM
3	Feminist Strategy: Insult Men While Demanding Our Help ...and after scorching the earth of any potential allies, Karenzilla heaved and slouched her way back into the Pacific, to eat Tokyo citizens another day. Karenrageporn: the side of nachos & dip you all suspected was coming, yet literally nobody at your table ordered. Thank you universe for the heads up.	/r/MensRights	02/07/22 07:40 AM
2	The sex strike is actually good May sll those self righteous diddlers be afflicted with carpal tunnel syndrome. May it be so.	/r/MensRights	28/06/22 01:43 PM
1	Banned from twat echo chamber that is /divorce. I noticed that too (and the up to 90% for college women) and it does cast a stink of insincerity over the entire article. If we step back from the article, and just consider the numbers, with even just some sense of human nature, certain questions (perhaps odious to the author) do nevertheless arise. The failure of the article to acknowledge and address them is the tragedy here. It's the lack of representation, the perpetuation of rendering men's legitimate issues invisible. Oh okay so nearly ev…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/22 01:48 AM
1	Banned from twat echo chamber that is /divorce. IKR https://www.whitleylawfirmpc.com/3-reasons-why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/22 05:09 AM
2	anyone feel like they failed a test at the end For me at the beginning more likely. The end was a long time in coming.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/22 01:04 AM
5	8 Mistakes Men Should Avoid During Divorce OMFG I want to bake that man a cake or something and bring it to his jail as part of a care package. What a fucking disgrace that that could happen to such a person. His story needs to be known everywhere. Jaysus I wonder how he's holding up.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/22 12:39 PM
1	NBA player reportedly required to pay $200k a month in child support after his wife secretly filed for divorce 2 weeks after the birth of their son and refuses to let him see his own son. I used to think that too. 1) Evangelical Christians have higher divorce rates than average. https://www.baylor.edu/mediacommunications/news.php?action=story&story=137892 2) Christians in general, not specifically Evangelicals, have higher divorce rates than non believers. https://www.news24.com/news24/xarchive/voices/more-christians-divorce-than-non-believers-according-to-statistics-20180719 The picture does depend on the sources, but clearly there's more to it than that.	/r/MensRights	16/05/22 01:43 PM
14	I hate her, how can I forgive? I chose to let myself see that forgiveness is a selfish act that has nothing to do with the forgiven person. It is an act of removing power from the other person over decisions in my life. It is not sitting down to tea with one's oppressor. It is a gift of serenity you give yourself. You can still keep the lessons moving forward. But you do move forward. Also, remembering everybody is always free, all the time (not to commit crimes of course) helped.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/22 04:20 PM
2	NBA player reportedly required to pay $200k a month in child support after his wife secretly filed for divorce 2 weeks after the birth of their son and refuses to let him see his own son. "Women aren't asking..." That's not true. It's especially noticeable among people who work in sectors related to the wedding industry. "The quality of men..." Also not true. Many good, intelligent, compassionate men are finding their way to similar conclusions everyday. It can be argued that the "stock" left to accommodate wedding fantasies, given the availability of data on the current state, are the worst, i.e. the most pliable of simps. The cleverest of prey escape the net, not the worst. "An…	/r/MensRights	15/05/22 03:34 PM
3	NBA player reportedly required to pay $200k a month in child support after his wife secretly filed for divorce 2 weeks after the birth of their son and refuses to let him see his own son. In complete agreement with your point, but I'd still counter that there is also the existential path of self-love and the love for learning that may be a more worthy expression for our efforts in the first place. My worry that drove me to reply is that line of thinking in your very reasonable post has been unfortunately extrapolated on by others in the recent past to then include "why participate in the laws that uphold such a corrupt society" and then we get lone wolf or mass terrorism. I'm goi…	/r/MensRights	15/05/22 02:51 PM
6	NBA player reportedly required to pay $200k a month in child support after his wife secretly filed for divorce 2 weeks after the birth of their son and refuses to let him see his own son. The churches are culprits. They are the biggest propagators of this messed up institution and need to be outed for enabling a system of financial enslavement and torturous emotional conditioning against mostly men. We are long past the era of needing to produce sons to feed the war machine, so this system thst used to serve countries now presents a problem. This was not addressed head-on in The Red Pill but it would do every son and brother a service if it had. If we are not prepared to name and…	/r/MensRights	15/05/22 02:24 PM
3	We need a Pro-Fathers-Rights-Choice movement. In principle I agree 👍 In reality what do you think they're going to do to the name of such a group that they haven't done already to everyone of every other similar group? Even men who want to be left alone get harassed and vilified. Which is fine. Just understand that you'll be encountering resistance. Go in with your eyes open.	/r/MensRights	13/05/22 01:33 PM
9	men should qualify to retire earlier than women. "The procedure took him four days and cost 75 francs." For a half second I thought I was reading the snipped his whip for 75 francs. They meant the registry data change procedure. Thank goodness for that. Yeah I love what this woman did.	/r/MensRights	13/05/22 12:27 PM
2	Freedom!!!!! Congratulations and thst is really good to read. I'm wondering if the laws work better in your region than in others but I want to be clear I don't want to solicit location specific information. So don't even answer that. But the question of which states/provinces/countries the laws tend to be the most fair (defined as presumed 50/50 custody barring extreme exceptions, no alimony, somewhat balanced record of custody awarding) might make a good thread elsewhere on this sub. Perhaps a blacklist of…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/22 10:53 AM
12	Woman does everything in her power to have man arrested on fake DV charges.. If He hadn't had the foresight to record her attempt this could have ended very differently, as it does for so many other men. Guys with android phones! AUDIO RECORD There are free android apps that can do this https://filmora.wondershare.com/audio-editor/best-voice-recording-apps-android.html Most of these won't harass you with endless limits to buy the app, and you can record for days and turn off the screen, as much as your phone memory can store. VIDEO RECORD + COMPRESSION If you need to video record for some reason, file size reducers e.g. Video Compressor Panda Resizer will reduce your videos down to manageable st…	/r/MensRights	13/05/22 06:28 AM
12	This "mother" goes on TV and brags.. BRAGS about abusing her son.. about the pleasure it brought her to beat him down harder when he fought back.. How much more of this socially and legally sanctioned, more often than not REWARDED EVIL will it take for a change? I don't know how much more I can take You're right they're not. A vagina does not confer more parenting skills. Our choices do that. That's what the law needs to reflect.	/r/MensRights	12/05/22 09:46 PM
4	(28M) I’ve had the worst possible relationship with my spouse (28F).. surprisingly, right before we both initiated the divorce process, we found out that she was pregnant. I want my child to grow up in a happy home with both parents, but I do not see a future with this woman. Please help 👆 this	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/22 12:24 PM
13	UK: Calling a man 'bald' is sex harassment after employment tribunal compares it to commenting on a woman's breasts The term is follically challenged! Insensitive incels!!	/r/MensRights	12/05/22 12:03 PM
5	Found a fantastic attorney and paid my retainer. Wish me luck gentlemen. Very best of luck. I'm in the same boat. Just paid my retainer and am doing the tally of assets, liabilities, mediation proposals and outstanding issues. It took a lot out of me to get it all down on paper.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/22 09:48 AM
4	Ex husband got me flowers for Mother’s Day Wuthout knowing him, it seems most likely it's not a ploy to get you back, it's just him being a good father helping his kid have something to give, teaching him what to do on mother's day. Why now? Perhaps the tragedy of separation and pending divorce has helped him focus on how to spend his time with his son.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/22 09:03 PM
1	Ex husband got me flowers for Mother’s Day OP dn’t do this. It will be child abuse as the gifts were prepared so the son would be able to have something to give.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/22 08:57 PM
7	Sexism against men has become full force ^ I came here to say similar gene pool curating comments. Bravo!	/r/MensRights	09/05/22 05:21 AM
34	Feminism tackling the important issues The snake hersed loudly, and she had a hersyfit and hisniated her vertebral disc.	/r/MensRights	08/05/22 07:54 PM
3	Women can be abusive too Indeed. What does it mean? Perhaps it means that women are fully equal human beings with the same capacity for good and evil as men, and should be regarded as such when talking about them; and maybe also that anything less than this (e.g. positive sexism, and labeling apostates as bad feminists) is fundamentally a denial of their humanity.	/r/MensRights	08/05/22 09:59 AM
3	Women can be abusive too I think neither I nor Margaret Atwood, whom I quoted, implied that, troll.	/r/MensRights	08/05/22 09:08 AM
24	Women can be abusive too I have to rant. This is not aimed at the op but at the prevalence of this conversation starter in general: I would like this "can be abusive", as if the notion involves mental calisthenics stretching us to the limits of our capacity, to be replaced with a new conversation starter in this topic perhaps something like how long and how wide spread has this been happening in our society. There's a so much ground to cover but we always go back to this low hurdle of imagining that this could be possib…	/r/MensRights	07/05/22 01:35 PM
2	Ah yes, completely necessary in a game where women already make as much as men. Well this game sucks anyway in the pantheon of boardgames. You start out friendly then win by bankrupting your family. This and Risk at 2am after too much beer and pizza brings out the worst. I was always looking for an excuse to burn/chuck it. Now it's an easy decision.	/r/MensRights	06/05/22 06:55 AM
3	#MenToo and #AbuseHasNoGender is trending, and this is a HUGE step in the direction of mens rights Most people are as a principle, but too many get tripped up with specific scenarios. It's then that they revert to gender bias programming.	/r/MensRights	05/05/22 10:53 PM
8	#MenToo and #AbuseHasNoGender is trending, and this is a HUGE step in the direction of mens rights Fuck yeah, this is true. Organizations compete for funding. Opening up gender protection scope would dilute funding. And Karen likes her gravy train. It makes complete sense to try and make this emergent need (systemic overhaul to include help to male dv victims) go away asap.	/r/MensRights	05/05/22 10:49 PM
6	Feminists and other women are losing their minds today over their loss of "rights". What "rights" are exclusive to men that we even have the opportunity to lose? It must be kind of nice to even have rights to lose. It's clearly stated on the back of your man card that you are exempt from robberies and killing upon member card presentation!! Do you even read the newsletters or attend the secret meetings? The staff at the Daily Glans do important work!	/r/MensRights	04/05/22 11:35 AM
3	"Did I hurt your feelings? Aw poor fragile male baby!" This is not intended as a threat, but it is a valid observation on our society's cavalier and gender selective attitudes on mental and emotional health: If Marc Lepine, a paranoid schizophrenic, had been empowered to express his feelings, i.e. with a doctor, Montrealers could have avoided him having created the biggest social scar on the Canadian psyche by shooting those 15 women in Montreal, 1989. He is no island - in either gender e.g. Laurie Dann, a confirmed paychopath. An uncomfortable trut…	/r/MensRights	30/04/22 03:57 AM
1	Who's side are you on? This kind of post is like putting on troll goggles. 62	/r/MensRights	29/04/22 11:14 PM
19	Who's side are you on? It most definitely is. I know someone who was in that situation and reacted similarly. Typically the authorities minimize the physical assaults or the attempts and try to steer all the investigative focus to the man's reactions like cabinet door-slamming. Such feckless cowards don't want to rock the boat, so they'll just throw the man under the bus each and every time. Here's the truth you'll never hear from a feminist: for every Amber Heard that's caught, there are a million that slip under the…	/r/MensRights	28/04/22 06:26 PM
1	If you get married you’re a fucking IDIOT None of that surprises me. Unsure if I should laugh or cry. Meh.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/22 12:37 AM
3	We can do betterer A white knight dispatched to the enemy like an imperial probe Droid because he thinks somebody has dangled the promise of pussy in front of him. He has no clue Han Solo and Chewbacca live here at manosphere resistance echo base 1. When he plods dejectedly back to his vagoverlords with no converts, he will not even get a sock to sniff. He will suffer the indignation of losing a finger for his failure, like the yakuza. They will do this just so he can say now he can only party with RosyPalm and...…	/r/MensRights	26/04/22 02:38 PM
3	If you get married you’re a fucking IDIOT Bro I'm sorry/glad this happened. I hope for that same happiness too. I believe I will get it.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/22 01:47 PM
9	I wonder if most men with full time jobs are mostly just working to be able to pay for the right to be married/in a relationship. This phenomenon you have aptly described is precisely the reason why feminists ignore the voices of sex workers. I think this forked up definition of a man's worth is maybe the silent real reason many disabled older men off themselves. Can you imagine what a mindfuck it must be to have your inculcated core sense of worth gone and second guess your right to exist everyday? An alternative: change laws or go to a country where you can hire a sex worker legally and with dignity, show up clean fit an…	/r/MensRights	26/04/22 01:38 PM
10	If you get married you’re a fucking IDIOT "If you think marrying this one will be any different than the rest..." may be better. Even if she is different from the rest, when problems arise, who's she going to turn to for advice? Yes, all the rest of them. It will not be you. Just as an aside, I wonder if male-male marriages have these kind of problem dynamics.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/04/22 09:18 AM
1	Female is the future Female is not the future. People can only be as corrupt as their options. Much of what we need in order to build a more recognizably compassionate society is in legislation reform, which runs on political activism and numbers. If we organize we can take down some of their cherished legislation workhorses 1) by undercutting their funding 2) by showing up at public hearings, ballot boxes, rallies, and 3) becoming a politically significant force that votes (even just as a partly united bloc) That's…	/r/MensRights	26/04/22 09:14 AM
2	Does patriarchy exist today? It might be a less encyclopedic task to ask the question, "what has escaped today's matriarchy?" And maybe more productive to authentic promoting of awareness.	/r/MensRights	26/04/22 02:10 AM
5	We can be better I see many stories told here that are miles away from "why can't I get laid". If you are incapable of hearing the stories of actual gender prejudice you are either not paying attention or are morally crippled. Many of the complaints I've read in here have nothing to do with getting laid. More importantly prejudice against men as a group has already been documented, dissected in academic institutions, and its reality changed the way family law is taught and practiced. This fact doesn't need your …	/r/MensRights	25/04/22 10:58 PM
1	Why is this subreddit under so much hate? Feminist institutions create too much collateral damage and unapologetically, endorsing fringe elements who revel in the suffering of innocent people. In order to move forward to a more compassionate and inclusive world, these damages need to be called out and these elements ostracized publicly. But since the philosophy and its applied manifestations do not possess the collective will to call out and shut down their own human rights violating elements, much like with the Catholic church so too w…	/r/MensRights	13/04/22 07:03 AM
1	Everyone knows it's wrong. Almost everyone, men and women, have the same, visceral reaction to this. Where is the disconnect in reality? Many such individuals curate echo chambers put of their social networks. (One more reason to date slow, give her crazy time to come out.) And then they build up all this bullshit in their mind until Ukraine farmers start towing away your tanks. Whoops how did that get its way in from another subreddit? It must have invaded. Darn, there I go again. Seriously, not to Putin emphasis on it, but yes men (or in this case trailer park diva yes women I'd bet) lead people to these collisions with reality…	/r/MensRights	12/04/22 09:21 AM
0	Stop aggressive women and avoid domestic violence I know you're not but it needs to happen. If a departing man has any hope of establishing a paper trail, any form of public record,, he must try to exercise that ability for his own benefit later in court. But the system will not help in many instances so he should be ready for that. This is an obstacle for many men;and the point of this reply is it deserves dissection. FWIW I think with witnesses, reporting after leaving the house, seems better. Or with witnesses and having the police force her…	/r/MensRights	11/04/22 10:01 PM
22	Stop aggressive women and avoid domestic violence It's not that easy in many places. Most police aren't even trained to deal with such a complaint. Not being believed is a huge contributor to underreporting.	/r/MensRights	11/04/22 06:07 PM
3	MGTOW You might feel better using a throwaway account linked to a throwaway email. I hope you find your venting space soon. I need one too, though things are much better now.	/r/MensRights	10/04/22 07:44 AM
1	Thoughts on Jordan Peterson ? Count me on team Jordan Peterson fan club. I think he has been tremendously Important and welcome presence. Some of his political ramblings I have reservations about, but many things he says are spot on timely. If feminists are red flagging listeners, that just proves they're trying to Handmaid's Tale the shit out of society, with the roles reversed. Crush the infidels, etc. Fork them with their own utensils.	/r/MensRights	09/04/22 10:53 AM
2	Found this crossposted to Imgur - thoughts? (A post from a trans person on now being male) That's what I'm (hopefully we are) here for. Also wonder if I communicated right. Just edited for clarity.	/r/MensRights	02/04/22 10:23 AM
4	Found this crossposted to Imgur - thoughts? (A post from a trans person on now being male) Yep, totally out on a limb RE why many US expats seem to have a chip on their shoulder. I realize machismo is a latin term but I used it here to describe having to come off as a badass all the time type thing. Perhaps I should have typed gangsta instead. Of course we have an army base here so that could be skewing the sampling. As I witnessed it the homophobia the machismo and not admitting puppies are cute, the heart attack in one's 50s etc they all go hand in hand. Good to hear your experience…	/r/MensRights	02/04/22 10:06 AM
2	Is it wrong to not want to marry? Everybody dies. Not everybody truly lives. There are as many ways to build a life of fulfillment, gratitude and love as there are people. Do not let this old, corrupted institution called marriage whisper into your ear through its zombies. Your life is always yours to lead. And the world is big. Go and enjoy it. And don't marry. Be happy about it.	/r/MensRights	02/04/22 09:33 AM
3	Why No Men's Books section in Amazon? Fine, and good for you. For me and it looks like some others on this thread, it's different. The suggestion left in the negative polemical space is that we have no need to pool information, no need to relate or tell our stories to one another (part of the point of fiction) which is one degree removed from no need to congregate. None of that is healthy or necessary. Amazon can do better.	/r/MensRights	02/04/22 09:28 AM
3	Found this crossposted to Imgur - thoughts? (A post from a trans person on now being male) I dont really get this complaint of his. I experience camaraderie with other males all the time, although from which nation/region is important. Just today I went hiking alone along a photogenic trail and all day I was meeting lots of nice people, many of them men. Broadly speaking, my own experience is Europeans and Asians yes (as in easily socializing) Americans no. I'd like it to be different. I was in the US for a few years and met awesome people. But outside the US it's different. I'm not s…	/r/MensRights	02/04/22 09:07 AM
16	Asking as a feminist: What is the ideal societal outcome with r/MensRights? Political advocacy for resolution of legitimate issues affecting men as a class, for which no public funding currently spent/ earmarked to promote equality as yet can find lobbying power or representation. Some of these issues include Problems in alimony calculation and family law Problems in child custody distribution Problems in reproductive and paternity rights Problems in job quota reservation particularly in historically female dominated work sectors Redressing disparities in education and …	/r/MensRights	01/04/22 10:30 PM
7	Why No Men's Books section in Amazon? Interesting as that's pretty much exactly what was said to women complaining about the same thing decades before. I.e. honey, the books we write are for women too. No, I think you are confusing the rest of the site with authors trying to write with universal appeal. I'm talking about authors writing to men about men's issues. Thats not the rest of the site. And in a time when most of the fiction authors are women, it underscores the point. Interestingly I since found a category in nonfiction tha…	/r/MensRights	01/04/22 10:06 PM
8	Why No Men's Books section in Amazon? Exactly, which as a policy is stupid because it makes attempts to reach us about stuff about us rendered invisible. It's like letting the Red Pill get lost in the pharmaceutical or medical section.	/r/MensRights	01/04/22 10:44 AM
2	Asset Protection? That's a good point. These peeps are 50s. I forgot to add that. But yes, absolutely. This begs the question about the new male birth control pill... whether it really has no side effects.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/22 09:55 PM
2	Asset Protection? Here's a better model for how to live with a person of your dreams rather than marriage consider it a viable alternative: My friend is dating this woman. He lives in his house which is owned by his aging mother whom he is taking care of. She lives in her bought and paid for townhouse. They both go sleep over at each other's house. But they do not move in with each other. They live separately and fuck, spend their vacations together, see each other all the time. But they do not live with each oth…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/22 04:57 AM
3	What does “Men need to learn how to express their emotions” actually mean? It sounds like a version of use-your-words, which is fine in itself. In some sense though it seems odd in that many women explicitly do not want men who share feelings the way a lot of women do. Bill Maher summed it up aptly (while discussing a different but related subject) when he started with the phrase, " no amount of training will turn us into your favorite Twilight character" in last Friday's New Rules bit "Make America Grind Again" on youtube.	/r/MensRights	27/03/22 01:16 AM
1	Was doing so well with grey walk and lost it over text. Down on myself and just tired. Sorry for your going through this. I'm going through similar. What is gray walk? Are you just referring to techniques that the book offers?	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/22 10:31 PM
3	How do y’all feel about ever getting married again? I don't want the one I have now. It would be like signing up to get a new tumor.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/22 07:06 AM
1	Stuck with alimony. I want to retire. Indeed. You likely won't find one who is not a plant. And once they hand in the recording, you'll be in jail.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/22 06:56 AM
3	working wives sharing the costs of living Well it depends. https://www.theguardian.com/money/2015/aug/29/women-in-20s-earn-more-men-same-age-study-finds	/r/MensRights	20/03/22 12:54 AM
7	For those of you in relationships, are men's rights something you actively discuss with your partner? More power to you for living it	/r/MensRights	19/03/22 04:19 PM
18	For those of you in relationships, are men's rights something you actively discuss with your partner? No I discuss them openly, but they do not pervade our every conversation. I am somewhat Warren Farrellian in that I do not wish to silence the story of women. I only intend, as does the good Dr, to include the story of men, whose inclusion is intended toward the liberation of us all. I was very conscious of my choice to discuss them openly when relevant, because I had made the choice early on that the temporary discomfort of adjusting a life or parting ways was less painful than living a life of…	/r/MensRights	19/03/22 02:12 PM
16	I am working on a infographic that's shows the difference between the treatment of men and women, but I still want the issues women do have if any. It's your comments now? Just above it was debunked anything. The false narrative (my point) feminist organizations depend on for funding has been debunked many times in this forum with data on circumstances that mitigate their points and force the recognition that men are in need of advicacy by their governments, which they are currently not receiving. Moving goalposts part of a fitness program?	/r/MensRights	15/03/22 10:37 PM
18	I am working on a infographic that's shows the difference between the treatment of men and women, but I still want the issues women do have if any. Not true The Narrative has been debunked many times over just look at the evidence provided in the links if you have the courage to step outside of your Echo chamber that is	/r/MensRights	15/03/22 10:09 PM
5	UK: Mayor Sadiq Khan says children as young as FOUR should be given lessons on misogyny in bid to curb violence against women. "The powers that be" are nothing more than a very vocal minority of women who bully the rest and broader society as a whole, manufacturing an illusion of broader consensus than there is. This is why men and the people who love them need to organize, lobby and demonstrate. In South Korea they just did this and changed the election outcome! They publicly identified a contentious gender issue (2 in fact), formed a voting bloc around it, and moved unilaterally against a corrupt common enemy. Actual …	/r/MensRights	14/03/22 09:26 PM
8	S Korea's new president vows appointments by merit not gender. Westerner in SK here. If I understnad your question correctly, there is no leap of faith being taken. It's a very natural conclusion to the social climate here. Feminism here 1) is f**king nuts 2) has its activities sugarcoated/euphemized by plenty of defenders, especially for some reason gyopos (K-women immigrants repatriated from abroad) 3) upsets many in the country for existential reasons related to its declining birthrate. 4) is still needed in some form nonetheless however. It's just sever…	/r/MensRights	13/03/22 02:17 PM
2	Does anyone regret asking their wife for a divorce? Best group ever. Best of luck to you too!	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/22 04:35 AM
6	Does anyone regret asking their wife for a divorce? Holy cow you wrote my story by and large. Like others I regret not filing sooner, but forgive myself on the basis of the likelihood of custody at the time. Now is a much better time and I've retained a lawyer and am cataloguing all the evidence. I suppose I regret having allowed myself to get into this predicament, but it hasn't been all terrible either. And I'm not sure if life is meant to be lived like that, with that outlook. Usually we are making the best decisions we can with the informatio…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/03/22 03:12 AM
2	I signed up for a Masters Degree but found out the lecturer writes papers on women's rights and 'gender equality '. I don't know what to do. Your concern is not the slightest bit unreasonable. Of course female faculty punish dissidents/ infidels, in about the same rates as male ones do. It's just for different reasons.	/r/MensRights	12/03/22 01:55 PM
1	I signed up for a Masters Degree but found out the lecturer writes papers on women's rights and 'gender equality '. I don't know what to do. Gender bias marking is a thing especially if you are taking any kind of gender studies class. Find another faculty elsewhere.	/r/MensRights	12/03/22 03:45 AM
1	How has Feminism harmed men? That time publicly funded women's groups got together and launched a coordinated national campaign to demonize Canadian men as a class, and squeeze them out from sectors of Canadian society and industry, in part by deeply embedding gynocentrism in public policy, circa 1989-2004 Legalizing Misandry: From Public Shame to Systemic Discrimination Against Men, pp.1~492; https://g.co/kgs/xcd3bR	/r/MensRights	11/03/22 12:52 PM
7	How can I be a better ally to the men In my life? Listen to their stories. Join the reform effort. Join an NGO or lobby or other activist group that is prepared to move their legitimate reform requests forward, and help them push. Understand that some feminists will call you their enemy for doing this, and for justice's sake make your peace with the fact that that is coming. Stand up anyway. Most men aware of the issues - via personal trauma or otherwise - do not want to silence the story of women or undo their achievements. The problem is most…	/r/MensRights	10/03/22 12:08 PM
1	My Divorce is Freedom Coffee Ritual "Excellence then is not an act but a habit" - Aristotle If that's true then I must be an excellent dogwalker I guess. Time to set my sights a little higher.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/03/22 09:06 AM
1	My Divorce is Freedom Coffee Ritual I love this story. It seems you achieve serenity through physical maintenance. I want to do that	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/22 09:34 PM
6	My Divorce is Freedom Coffee Ritual That's really great and I'm super happy for you. Even though the tragedies in this subreddit are very real and I would not want to detract from their impact at all, at the same time I know spiritually I will need to revert my focus to what good things are possible amid what the court system gives too many of us. I think it will help me deal with what's ahead better. I am finishing more writing projects now. That wasn't possible before.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/03/22 02:01 PM
1	Female MRA here , AMA 1) it meant - and applicants were told - that jobs that needed to be filled would not be filled until qualified women filled them, regardless of the consequences of the understaffing problems. As the staffing shortages hobbled along, creative initiatives were introduced to endow individuals with qualifications until the positions were filled. The area was particularly high in unemployment so yes it was as dumb and painful as it sounds. Yes it was drafted and lobbied by feminists - Canadians - an…	/r/MensRights	01/03/22 11:12 AM
2	Female MRA here , AMA "How can something be gender equality for ine side?" It's actually an observable, mathematical reality. If you have, as my region back home had, 50% job filling quotas for women in male dominated industries, but government drags its heels for two decades on creating a 50% quota for men in historically women-dominated industries, or in other cases with no historical gender leaning at all but still no 50% quota stated for men, then you get, as we had, 80-100% representation of women in unionized w…	/r/MensRights	01/03/22 02:23 AM
1	I wish we didn’t live in a society that shamed male virgins this	/r/MensRights	13/02/22 07:07 AM
3	I wish we didn’t live in a society that shamed male virgins Sometimes it's better if you don't really fit the pop culture of society. I waited until I was 20. It helped that I was somewhat not really accepted by the community I grew up in (many of those kids are now serving life sentences. I'd have ended up in a bad way if I had rolled with them). I'm so grateful now looking back because of all the horribly brief, manipulative, or clumsy first experiences that I hear about having happened to other people, scarring them sexually for life. In my teens I ha…	/r/MensRights	13/02/22 06:58 AM
1	guys speaks out for equality against sexist quotas, ends up apologising and loosing his career Where are our egalitarian champions of feminism now? Will not even one among them speak up? Whence the white knights eager to prove feminism really is about equality all along and that this room is just a gaggle of misguided simmering malcontents? I hope he launches a sex discrimination lawsuit	/r/MensRights	11/02/22 05:05 AM
2	What is the difference between r/menslib vs r/mensright? Duly noted and corrected.	/r/MensRights	10/02/22 01:57 AM
4	What is the difference between r/menslib vs r/mensright? Like you're 5? Okay. Their supporters have -a dogma problem -an honesty/truth/sincerity problem, and -a heretic burning problem ...that hurts their cause. Most here see those problems and that they hurt us all. The system itself may be part of the problem. Feminism in 2022 is justice-crippled, addicted to gravy, and may need to go on a diet. Men get whacked entering pink doors for solutions to their legitimate problems. So it may be necessary for us to organize, tear down some government funded …	/r/MensRights	09/02/22 11:12 PM
8	What is the difference between r/menslib vs r/mensright? Publishing "research" based on designing conditions to ensure data skews in favor of a predetermined direction bias is nothing new to the feminist movement. It is the backbone of their fundraising. Back when women had nothing but their assertions to suggest we lived in a patriarchy (which we now know is a lie - it is only ostensibly so, and has functioned for at least 400 years as an oligarchy with apex males ready to sacrifice themselves and insulate their apex female counterparts) few of them …	/r/MensRights	09/02/22 01:34 PM
10	The notion that women are vastly more empathetic then men is just very wrong My God why didn't I know this a year ago. It would have changed so much. Still, thanks for posting.	/r/MensRights	07/02/22 12:37 PM
2	Help me! I see a lot of good advice in here, and you are to be commended for reaching out for help. I just want to add to please make sure once you have established your routine and created fulfillment, that it is becomes something you are emotionally invested in , and not a bandaid you throw away at the first woman that comes along shaking her tail at you - especially when those dollars start rolling in. I'd hate to see you give it all up. As I get the impression you are a virgin and emotionally vulnera…	/r/MensRights	07/02/22 11:49 AM
2	Amazing how much women have changed since I was a teen I remember that time too and some minor aspects of it I look back on with nostalgia - the styles and looks while dating in our teens. But you're forgetting a lot of awful things back then that really needed to change. Sexual politics was a different minefield and it had implications for pursuit of happiness that it doesn't anymore at leastnot in the same way. If you had a sister or daughter or mother who hoped to be an astronaut or a storyboarding animation team lead or be stationed in isolation…	/r/MensRights	05/02/22 04:27 PM
1	How do I respond when women say men created the patriarchy? I would, but you'll just not read it again.	/r/MensRights	02/02/22 11:41 PM
1	Just got called an 'Incel' on other supposedly 'safe' and 'tolerant' sub by a person whos title rhymes with ZOD, because I stated that I am tired of violence against men, OR women, & dont like ANY violence whatever the genders involved. Sounds like you're still doing it to yourself. Stop investing your dignity in their approval or appealing to a fictitious common decency.The modern feminist is an archetype of hypocrisy. They are classic goalpost movers and double standard bearers only interested in defending their funding. Nothing else. And those are the coherent ones. We all inhabit a broken society with many underfunded mental health programs. You may be discounting the amount of mental illness that is out there on Reddit. As…	/r/MensRights	02/02/22 11:23 PM
13	Just got called an 'Incel' on other supposedly 'safe' and 'tolerant' sub by a person whos title rhymes with ZOD, because I stated that I am tired of violence against men, OR women, & dont like ANY violence whatever the genders involved. You appear to suffer under the illusion that you can appeal to them with logic and morality. Feminists in 2022 are fundamentally morally incompetent. You need to make your peace with the fact that these enemies of compassion will always be there, and they will never be appeased, only cowed into submission by a powerful lobby mobilizing social pressure. We are not quite there yet. We can boycott advertisers like Gillette; but we need more organization to go after their government funding. Keep sp…	/r/MensRights	02/02/22 03:24 AM
65	Hate women after divorce Bro, don't waste your precious time hating on women. It's like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. The best revenge is to flourish without them. If you still need physical companionship consider a FWB, or move to a place where sex workers are legal and can unionize. Be worthy of being a regular (gentleman, clean, polite, pleasant, physically fit and well-groomed). This world has too much beauty left in it for you to waste your days hating on such a large group that mostly do…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 01:12 AM
1	I was accused of being a sexist, misogynist and antifeminist over laughing at a comment Absolutely agreed men need to become more involved - in Men's Rights Movement, since they can never have any real voice in feminist hierarchies. Look what happened to Dr. Warren Farrell, the only man elected to the advisory council for the National Organization for Women not once but three times! He said, the story of women cannot continue to move forward until we begin to include the story of men. He didn't say women stop talking or their story needs tweaking. He realized the movement matured t…	/r/MensRights	01/02/22 02:13 PM
8	UK: Undercover female officers will walk streets to catch drivers shouting sexist comments Not in absolute terms but the policy doesn't exist in a vacuum. Considering it's an institution with finite resources, what evils must consequently remain unaddressed as a result of this choice, and what's involved to enforce it, whataboutism is perfectly valid.	/r/MensRights	01/02/22 07:00 AM
23	UK: Undercover female officers will walk streets to catch drivers shouting sexist comments To say nothing of the western women teachers chasing same.	/r/MensRights	01/02/22 06:50 AM
3	What is feminism? Wrong answers only Big sister looking out for your best interest. The cry of the poor Misunderstood by us The gospel to bring to the well-meaning but helpless savages abroad, and would never ever step on WoC	/r/MensRights	01/02/22 06:21 AM
6	How do I respond when women say men created the patriarchy? Yes because it upholds the actual matriarchal oligarchy. The patriarchy is false.	/r/MensRights	01/02/22 04:16 AM
14	How do I respond when women say men created the patriarchy? Women oligarchs created the patriarchy, as they are the top beneficiaries of it and the chief oppressors. They shape everything in the society ostensibly run by men. Even the apex powerful men are in a state of constant sacrifice, whereas their female counterparts enjoy fluid social currency should their enabling man falter or be called on to exercise his sacrifice. Ask any survivor of the Titanic. The patriarchy is a smokescreen for the matriarchy. Then point your finger right at her and say "a…	/r/MensRights	01/02/22 01:04 AM
1	What Really Happens to Sexual Desire During Marriage?—Study finds women's sex drives drop after marriage and this causes relationship problems, not the other way around (How do you select just sections of text? My app forces me to quote it all) You're right it's not that viable. But it's not unicorns either. I think it's certainly common enough to merit mentioning. BTW that entitlement issue also is a big deal. You raise a lot of good points. But I don't believe sex is the primary goal of scheduling time together. RE putting the work in (making yourself attractive) I share the view that that's important, but in my experience it's not enough. I know survivors fr…	/r/MensRights	31/01/22 02:13 PM
3	does anyone escaping a toxic relationship ever regret getting divorced? I feel this totally. I'm all about new horizons so it's becoming easier with each day. The inconvenience of disentanglement is disappearing in place of the rich promise of a life with my dignity and my terms for happiness being important again. I'm not walking to the light at this point but flying. I just hope it's not a flame and I'm not a moth!!! LOL	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/22 04:50 AM
6	What Really Happens to Sexual Desire During Marriage?—Study finds women's sex drives drop after marriage and this causes relationship problems, not the other way around That's a bit misleading I think. An otherwise problematic book - Soul Healing Love - nevertheless gave me one very useful insight into this particular phenomenon that helped me forgive myself and her: the cocktail of euphoric hormones that cause you to be drawn to each other is supposed to drop off. It's a high your body is building resistance to, because you cannot sustain that kind of euphoria or it would burn a hole in your brain. Pretty much like your body has to process alcohol only of cour…	/r/MensRights	31/01/22 04:17 AM
1	I was accused of being a sexist, misogynist and antifeminist over laughing at a comment "Trying to help your gender" What a matronizing colonialist sentiment. Feminism is a hate movement. It's easy to say, and it will make you feel better letting it out undoctored. Like the church, it started out as something good, then got twisted into something else. It is dying a slow death because it has some good people in it but it can't hold itself up unless radical internal change happens. And also like the church it's doubtful it has the existential drive to evolve enough to cut out its ow…	/r/MensRights	31/01/22 01:07 AM
3	Billie Eilish is all about body positivity. Except for men. I know, right?	/r/MensRights	31/01/22 12:14 AM
14	Billie Eilish is all about body positivity. Except for men. How ironic she would say such a thing. To me she has always been an extraordinarily unattractive individual whose ugliness I overlooked to check out the music. (A lot of iconic musicians are unattractive). I wonder if she's just lashing out because of hate mail she gets? Well it hardly matters I guess.	/r/MensRights	31/01/22 12:10 AM
6	Is there anything a man can do to protect himself against a false accusation? For example?	/r/MensRights	30/01/22 11:29 AM
1	Andrew Yang supports men and boys. Thanks for replying and duly noted. I agree there are a few principled politicians who operate like that, and many more who enter the sector drawn to their beliefs in things. In my experience those that do not learn to use the political machinery suffer for that, especially in the political shark pit of my country's capitol, e.g. if they don't tow the party line. The phenomenon of key opinion polls changing politicians' positions underscores my main point that lobbies truly matter and we need a …	/r/MensRights	29/01/22 11:48 PM
3	Andrew Yang supports men and boys. IMHO this only happened because men had no organized political clout with which to threaten his position with repercussions. You are blaming him (and right to do so) but it seems like some of you are missing the point: LOBBIES move politicians to get things done. A LOBBY made him do a 180 on circumcision, as well as on other men's issues. Reading that is like watching a pinball get bounced around. Politicians live and die on political clout. Their profession is not designed for them to go out on…	/r/MensRights	28/01/22 10:08 AM
2	[deleted by user] That is sickening but it needn't necessarily be a bag of shit. Hear me out. Your kids are in one aspect going to be influenced by several mentors and advocates in the world. Most of those influencers are not going to be you or mom. I don't know your specific circumstances but I hope for you that it turns out (as it very well could) that your kids will have acquired an addition to their roster of long term advocates from 2 people to 3, instead of just removing one (you) for another (him), the lat…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/01/22 12:45 PM
3	Why #MarriageStrike is trending in India? You @#~%&, I have to wash my sofa now because I spilled my coffee all over it laughing at this comment. LOLOLOL Ah, it was worth it. It's the weekend. I'll keep my coffee on the table before reading more.	/r/MensRights	23/01/22 03:59 AM
12	Why #MarriageStrike is trending in India? Even though this is horrifying news, and I don't wish any harm to any spouses, reading rhis news makes me feel good because it shows me that others are paying attention. It's a completely healing validation to know others are seeing the same thing. Its time we all stood up. You don't know how often I hear these kinds of issues denied. So much gaslighting. This group is like a vaccination against the gaslighting. Thanks a million to OP for posting it.	/r/MensRights	22/01/22 11:49 PM
2	I just can't imagine why this is happening? Excellent point but why hasn't the unconscionable contract clause been invoked to mitigate past divorce settlements yet? In a society where the Tender Years Doctrine (an idealogy at the core of women’s narratives in custody battles) has been struck down in courts, this lack of exercising makes no sense.and merits examination. A worthy target for lobbying?	/r/Divorce_Men	22/01/22 10:52 PM
1	Reported this tweet i came across the other day. Twitter refused to take it down. hmm i wonder what would happen if the roles were reversed… We need a national organization to lay charges against Twitter. The settlement can be used to fund Men's Rights lobbies.	/r/MensRights	19/01/22 02:39 PM
1	Why do women complain about u paid labour at home? The cognitive dissonance between each group's ideals and methods is a completely appropriate parallel. Did you never read the history of what several funded women’s organizations actually attempted in Canada in the 15 years following the Montreal massacre? https://www.amazon.com/Legalizing-Misandry-Systemic-Discrimination-against/dp/0773528628 Their sins against innocent citizens are well-documented. It's no accident that the incoming Conservative government in 2004 reduced the government funded…	/r/MensRights	18/01/22 11:01 PM
1	Manspreading. An appropriate response... Ive never seen one man block out another on the subway with a manspread. I've only ever seen that manspreaders can be spoken to. [Edit] okay not a troll. I get it if it's a woman looking to sit down beside you. I've witnessed them try the same using their handbags. Ive always just moved the handbag and sat.	/r/MensRights	18/01/22 10:43 AM
7	Why do women complain about u paid labour at home? Yeah and Nazis were similarly ostensibly for the liberation and unification of the German people. And the CCP are just looking out for the Han Chinese. Sincere believers of that line of thinking need to wake up. It is so easy to see whether feminism lives up to its billing (pro-equality of all sexes) - and not just for the promotion of the cause of women without qualification (what it actually is) - by counting the number of feminists who are standing up and volunteering their time and resources…	/r/MensRights	17/01/22 11:42 PM
6	Do you feel as though you have a social responsibility to protect women from danger? Absolutely not. My own loved ones, yes. Anything beyond that IMHO is just silly white knights promulgating the old lie of protecting the weak in the hope of getting laid or filling a psychological hole of worthlessness possibly dug in their souls by a chaotic feminine figure of authority in early life. In earlier times it used to be expanded to include looking out for "the little guy". That that part of it has fallen out of fashion unveils what that sentiment is really about today - matriarchy. …	/r/MensRights	16/01/22 06:25 AM
1	Did you get bitter or better? I'm just entering the long dark sphincterous tunnel that is separation and divorce, and have not yet climbed out the other side of it. So there's no category for me here yet. But when I do crawl out of this and hose off, I'll answer then.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/22 08:11 AM
3	Living with toxic feminist You are straight up giving way too much respect to her words, and consequently suffering under a mentally/emotionally ill person, and it's making you sick now. See the situation for what it is. It's not about the polemics. It's about the need in her broken brain. You are letting a disturbed person act out. You could stir the pot. But seeing the matrix is the first step to being free.	/r/MensRights	06/01/22 12:57 PM
20	What do you think Holy fuck, yes this. Post of 2022. Get it in writing. Do not rely on honor or accountability.	/r/MensRights	04/01/22 12:59 AM
3	Great. Now the Pope's at it. The WW2 thing is already debunked. That pope manipulated Hitler in order to move allied soldiers and Jews through the church system, and is now credited in having saved 864,000 Jews because of these actions. American Council of Jewish Scholars corroborates the credits. And the descendants of those Jews came out decades after and made a supportive statement and asked the Hitler's Pope people if they'd pls f**k off. So the Hitler's Pope story now falls in the realm of alien lizard people anal prob…	/r/MensRights	03/01/22 04:48 AM
3	There has got to be some sort of justice in this world. First, I'm truly, deeply sorry to read what you are going through. It makes me want to break something. I'm going through a separation, I can't imagine something like what I read. I offer the following in the hope that it empowers you, and provides clarity for a way forward towards serenity and, eventually, happiness: my understanding is 1) There is no justice in this world except what justice we make. 2) people generally don't get in life what they deserve, they get what they negotiate. 3) The …	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/21 10:09 PM
1	I don't think I can hang on any longer Agreed. As with the LGBT+ community in the 80s and 90s of the west, political will is created via building political capital, and leveraging that capital against industries. This is how relevance is built, and no one's going to do it for us, we have to do it ourselves. When we matter in terms of votes, then politicians will be forced to deal with us. One major problem is we have so few lobbies. But after this I may just start volunteering time to one.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/21 07:05 AM
7	I don't think I can hang on any longer Thanks... but it's 10 years and change too late for that. I thought she was different. They're all the same. Better to rent. I understand now we're really paying for the shut up after, not the sex. Maybe why the most vocal opponents of legalizing/unionizing sex workers (they should be a branch of sex therapy IMHO) are the Karens posing feminism as equality when it obviously isn't. They fear the end of the gravy train. i.e. men's systemically cultivated gullibility. I've seen the Matrix, albeit l…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/12/21 05:31 AM
2	I don't think I can hang on any longer Over the past decade, I worked like a dog and supported us while her income varied from half of mine, to absolutely zero. But as soon as she became the primary earner and our economic survival relied on her, she just resented me for it. I see it now, her resentment was just boiling under the surface since I took my leave of absence. Which is even more ironic since me stepping away from my job was her actually her suggestion and she helped me file it. I know she was supportive of it at the time, …	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/21 11:16 PM
10	I don't think I can hang on any longer Holy fack why didn't my dad teach me Briffaults Law before I got engaged?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/21 11:27 AM
2	I need to be roasted - go at it Ok well I better not tell you about the rubbery squid leg toppings or the sweet potato crust then...	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/21 01:37 PM
7	I need to be roasted - go at it LOL the heck with you, ya sloppy-Korean-event-planning-skills hater! Do you change light bulbs by standing still holding it up and waiting for the world revolve around you? I musta taken a wrong toin at Albuquoique! Gee that's tough, Mr. Abdominobubble. You're welcome. Have a good weekend anyway.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/12/21 05:56 AM
4	I need to be roasted - go at it I'm in Korea, the land of taekwondo. Events going over expected time is as Korean as corn on pizza. I would bet money she didn't lie on this one particular occasion. Especially an awards ceremony? Ho ho, yeah. But don't let that dampen your ardor though. How many times has she chauffeured the kid to TKD and she never thought to forewarn you? Seriously, the heck with her.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/12/21 05:43 AM
1	Probably an unpopular opinion, but I’m tired seeing the comments section filled with “GET A LAWYER”. Each one's mind traps him differently. For some reminder is useful. If that's not you more power to you	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/21 01:38 PM
1	On the edge of divorce and can use experienced opinions. 1) You need evidence. Start recording everything. ASR app is free and it can run in the background. You can just delete convos where crazy doesn't manifest itself. Document everything before it fades from memory, including how these incidents made you feel e.g. stressed, anxious, depressed etc. As stress increases, details will be harder to recall so you want to get to a place of quiet where all the important information and dates can have a chance to resurface. You don't want to be recalling in…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/21 12:09 PM
1	The wasted time No disrespect, but that immediately strikes me as far too poisonous a way to look at it. For me, much better would be you had x years of marriage, y of them good ones, Then you consider the memories. . Then it is less of an all or nothing investment. And that can free up emotional energy for bucketlist planning. Good luck	/r/Divorce_Men	17/11/21 01:26 PM
4	I want out! This is all great. I wouldn't wait until filing to start recording. Depending on what s**t you're putting up with now (e.g. if it rises to the level of abuse) you may want to start as early as possible to collect such evidence.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/21 01:20 AM
2	I was cleaning up and the bitch said to me Excellent. And don't forget to have the recorder on.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/21 12:29 AM
1	I was cleaning up and the bitch said to me Or serve your anger (and your health) well by speaking in a way that you would feel good about hearing played back in front of a judge (and she would not if she were trying to frame you). Clean anger expression can be deeply satisfying. Sadly many of us (myself included) are not taught clean anger expression from childhood and have to learn it later in life. But if she's scandal-farming, it can also out her as the problem. I learned from The Anger Trap by Dr. Les Carter. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/21 12:22 AM