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–	Paying for it is so much better than casual sex. That makes sense too. I can certainly see it coming off that way, and if I suspected that were the case, I would be turned off too. I guess it would come down to ferreting out his real reason for doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 05:47 PM
–	Paying for it is so much better than casual sex. I think it depends on the woman and the calibre of the escort. I'm a pretty logical person. If a man said he wanted sex without all the hassle of dating apps, and simply sought out a safe, high-quality escort, I'd see nothing wrong with it. It's a practical solution to a problem many men seriously overcomplicate then get angry about. Shoot, I think I'd admire his direct mindset and problem-solving skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 05:32 PM
–	Paying for it is so much better than casual sex. I've often thought this should be more popular, and I'd even take it a step further and say many men might be better off doing this than being in a relationship. I've heard a disturbing amount of married men talk to each other about ways to get more sex, do things like give her a back rub, or take her to dinner, or watch a stupid movie she likes, etc, like they just do these nice things for sex, not because they truly like and value their partner. If they were honest with themselves, they'd see …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/26 05:23 PM
1	What is the outlook for western culture if too many women “never settle”? I'm a woman and I would never date a guy with a kid. It's not mine, I'm not contributing to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 02:18 PM
1	If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent? But even if a person is granted a privilege by society, evolution, whatever have you, it doesn't necessarily mean it should be used unless somehow necessary. I get that more women in a bar means more business, that's simply true. However shitty behavior shouldn't be tolerated no matter how hot a woman is. And yes I can probably hit on a guy while drunk and get away with it, but just because I can doesn't mean I should. I respect other people. Also I'm a bar manager, I kick out the person who sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 06:33 PM
1	If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent? I mean I'm a female. I get irritated when I see hammered drunk women harassing men who very clearly aren't interested. I get equally irritated when I see the inverse situation. Mostly I'm bothered by people thinking anything about who they are makes it okay to get away with things others would be in trouble for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 04:12 PM
3	If women are so much more willing to have sex while drunk, Why is there a gray area of consent? It's insane that if the roles were reversed you wouldn't have been kicked out of the bar, people probably would have cheered and bought you a drink. I'm very over double standards in all walks of life. People can't seem to think for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/22 03:47 PM
3	Do women really find men like MGK and Pete Davidson attractive? I had no clue who these people were so I looked them up. Take what I say with a grain of salt because I'm demisexual so unless I personally know a guy well I don't know if I'm attracted to him. But I can recognize conventional attractiveness of course. The Pete guy looks like he's on drugs, some women seem to like that. I don't. The machine gun guy looks delicate. I do know I'm not attracted to men who look like they'd lose a fight with a toddler. At a glance I find neither attractive, but I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 07:12 PM
2	Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”? This isn't just a female thing although I suspect it is more common in females. What you're describing is very real for some people, the term is demisexual. Hear me out, I'm as tired of new silly labels as anybody else, but for some people, myself included, we don't know if we find a person attractive in a sexual way unless we really know them. I can tell at a glance if a person is conventionally attractive, but I don't know if I personally find them attractive until I get to know them. So to me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/21 01:21 PM
5	Is this low birth rate something that should be concerning? And I can't help but think perhaps that is by design. That way there is only upper class and lower class. And with nobody in between there will be no chance to move up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 06:40 PM
18	Is this low birth rate something that should be concerning? Oh trust me people are still having children, it's just a lot of the people that shouldn't be. Well-educated financially secure people who would probably be able to provide well for a child and see to it that they have a quality life and a solid education aren't the people having kids anymore. So yes, I would say it's concerning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/21 04:02 PM
1	Why don't people believe in being in love first before having sex anymore? For what it's worth I think that was a value arising from religion. However I agree, as a person who is demisexual the thought of a one night stand with some man I don't even know is absolutely revolting. I have to really get to know a person to know if I personally find them attractive, and then I have to develop some affection towards them to desire sex with them. So I don't know if for you it's just a value thing or if you may also find yourself leaning towards being demisexual and not knowin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/21 02:02 PM
1	What's your shallowest turnoff ? People who announce that they are of above-average intelligence. There is no need to tell me this, I can discern for myself who is and isn't intelligent. When people feel the need to announce it it's cringy because they're usually not nearly as bright as they think they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/21 01:46 PM
3	Despite some protests to the contrary, the pre-selection bias is quite real....... I think women in general are more prone to wanting things that they've observed others wanting. Might be tied to our supposed instinct to seek resources or people who have resources.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 08:21 PM
7	Men really underestimate the power of emotions decreasing sexual attraction for women To be fair I think some women don't understand the root of their dissatisfaction with the relationship. They think they're disconnected from their partner when he isn't doing enough to help out, but I think they'd actually have more happiness and more sex if they just got a damn maid. The daily responsibilities of life wear on a person after a while and I think that exhausted and fairly libidoless state has women upset. They search for how they got to that point and begin examining what in the r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 07:30 PM
1	Men really underestimate the power of emotions decreasing sexual attraction for women I think that's much easier said than done. But I'm a woman so who knows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 07:18 PM
3	Despite some protests to the contrary, the pre-selection bias is quite real....... Probably, and it would be interesting to see. I'm thinking to a degree it would be the same outcome but only to a certain point before we actually saw the opposite outcome in which upon the second rating her score goes down compared to the first rating. Men don't tend to be into women that appear to have garnered the interest of many other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 07:11 PM
3	Despite some protests to the contrary, the pre-selection bias is quite real....... I feel like this makes obvious sense. We value things that have value, and how do we determine what has value? We look around and see what others value. If many women value one man over another well then that one man must be pretty valuable. Of course this also leads many people astray because they will value whatever nonsense the media has led them to believe is valuable. But that is a whole different issue. Maybe the simple lesson here is to try to become aware of this phenomenon. Be aware of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 06:58 PM
2	Which man would woman rather date? (look below) Oh shit... didn't realize it but yeah my friends who are firefighters are indeed hoes. Wow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 06:42 PM
4	Which man would woman rather date? (look below) Oh come on, you can't tell me you wouldn't have said neither had you been given a similar option for two different women that were equally opposite and frankly equally unappealing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 06:41 PM
3	Which man would woman rather date? (look below) A. sounds like an oaf. B. sounds pretentious. Hard pass on both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 06:35 PM
3	Which man would woman rather date? (look below) For me that's a turn on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 06:31 PM
1	Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick? I can accept that explanation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 01:15 PM
1	Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick? What if they put all his pubes on his head?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 12:21 PM
2	Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick? I know I'm late to the party here but I'm very confused. A husband is someone who will buy you dinner? You sound like a pet looking for an owner. Or a skilled troll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 12:20 PM
2	Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick? Welcome to humans	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 12:19 PM
1	Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick? They already killed him	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 12:16 PM
3	Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick? Maybe I'm weird but I'm kind of put off by groomed guys. Got to be a little feral or I don't want it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 12:16 PM
1	Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick? Ready for a mind blower? Depending on where a woman is in her menstrual cycle she will prefer them both but at different times. Ovulating women will prefer the second guy, otherwise they'll want the first guy. It seems stereotypically masculine traits turn a woman on but a man possessing those traits is statistically less likely to stick around to raise a child and more likely to be abusive. A softer less masculine appearing face predicts a man who will help you raise your kids and be good about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/21 12:10 PM
0	Why do women seem to prefer long term relationships and commitment instead of just being best friends with sex? Do you genuinely desire a man to devote and commit himself to you for the rest of his life or is this just a social pressure? Is this something that you genuinely want for yourselves? You're going to have to find a very specific woman who thinks a long-term relationship doesn't include sharing financial burden, building a home together, and not sleeping with other people, but I do hope you find her. My suggestion would be to look for confident, independent, self made women who are financially secure. And honestly it's going to sound bad but look for a narcissistic streak. She'll be so wrapped up in herself and her own goals that she's not going to want to be entangling hersel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 02:04 PM
13	Why do women seem to prefer long term relationships and commitment instead of just being best friends with sex? Do you genuinely desire a man to devote and commit himself to you for the rest of his life or is this just a social pressure? Is this something that you genuinely want for yourselves? Couldn't agree more. Why on Earth do I want to risk disease, pregnancy, being left with some kid I can't afford? That's all risk and no reward. Sex offers me absolutely nothing, long-term commitment offers me everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 12:48 PM
3	Why do women seem to prefer long term relationships and commitment instead of just being best friends with sex? Do you genuinely desire a man to devote and commit himself to you for the rest of his life or is this just a social pressure? Is this something that you genuinely want for yourselves? For me that mindset would disqualify you from being an option. But that could also be a good thing, you're filtering out the women who desire a reliable long term commitment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 12:34 PM
1	Why do women seem to prefer long term relationships and commitment instead of just being best friends with sex? Do you genuinely desire a man to devote and commit himself to you for the rest of his life or is this just a social pressure? Is this something that you genuinely want for yourselves? First off I think you're confused about the sex aspect. Nobody needs a best friend to have sex, you can have sex with anybody. Men seem to equate sex with love, as a woman I do not. I view an emotional connection and long-term commitment to be love. I'm not sure if it stems entirely from being a woman or partially from having issues being able to rely on my parents when I was a child, but knowing someone wants to be with me and plans to stay with me and proves this via a commitment like marriage…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/21 12:31 PM