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Such a lovely story! You're a lucky lady. It's too easy for the little things to go unnoticed. Practicing noticing them daily isn't easy, but it's so worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:42 PM
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Lol got it - same, I don’t know what her life was like either, beyond the movie. No idea how accurate the movie was - great film either way!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/19 11:07 PM
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Curious why you included June Carter Cash as fictional? Is the movie version of June different from her real-life self? I’m not familiar with her life, just the film - which is a great movie!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/19 04:17 PM
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I’m reading the Anne of Green Gables books right now. What a wonderful series!
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/19 04:12 PM
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Michelle Malkin. Love her take-no-shit attitude.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/19 03:28 AM
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Truth! And yes, it’s definitely easier said than done.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/19 01:52 PM
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I love your “saucy” tip, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/19 11:30 PM
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Definitely worth discussing your communication styles, if he’s open to it! I think if you let him know you appreciate his advice, it could go a long way and make him feel valued. As long as the advice is genuinely helpful and coming from a place of care :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/19 09:50 PM
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Stay curious. Keep learning. You’ll never get your innocence back. (And you shouldn’t. You should appreciate the things you’ve learned.) But you can cultivate a fascination for the world around you. Take more walks. Go on trips. Read new books. Learn a new skill. Make new art. Challenge yourself to explore more and find joy in the things you are learning. That’s why childhood is so wonderful.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/19 09:35 PM
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Women definitely do this to each other. She wants to establish a pecking order out of jealousy and insecurities. Don’t play that game. Your next step will really depend on the company you work for. If you work at a large company and/or have a big HR department or other resources for conflict resolution, your best bet may be to seek those out. A lot of companies would prefer you stick to their established guidelines to solve work problems. They want to avoid escalation. And it looks good for you …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/19 04:29 PM
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A lot of men express their love through acts of service - sounds like your guy is like this. My man is like this, and it took me a while to see our emotional bond was very much there, but he expressed it differently. He expresses it by fixing things around the house, making dinner when I’m sick or had a bad day, pouring me a drink when I get home from work. His general philosophy is, why waste too much time talking about how we feel when we can show each other - and make our life together better…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/19 04:01 PM
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It’s interesting how religions reflect this idea! I’ve spent time with sailors (that’s sounds a bit dirty, but I promise it’s not haha) and they tell me ships (and other vehicles) are always referred to as women because they take pride in caring for these things, and a real man takes care of his woman. When he does, she’ll take care of him in return - giving him a home, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 06:17 PM
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This seems to make sense! I’m curious if this is an estrogen/testosterone thing. Anyone know the science behind this?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 02:17 PM
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I don’t like how social media gives people an excuse for things they might not normally do in real life. If this were the 90’s and my boyfriend had half naked photos of his stripper friends hanging in his locker or collected in his wallet, I would feel really disrespected.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 07:46 PM
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Oh nice! I’ve heard of Unique Vintage, but not Top Vintage.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 07:54 PM
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This is super helpful, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 07:53 PM
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I’ve really been trying to channel the 70’s vibe lately! I’m curious, where do you shop?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 05:21 PM
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I don’t think it’s unreasonable if that’s a value that matters to you. There are men who hold those same values and will really appreciate that yours align with theirs. I personally don’t care too much about the number itself, but I do care if the amount of sexual partners he’s had will affect my health or affect the way he treats a woman. That said, the more partners anyone has, the more likely they are to have diseases or treat their partners callously. So for me the vetting process involves o…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 11:54 PM
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For us, it started any time he paid for something I made a point to say how much I appreciated it. It wasn't stuffy or serious - more like, "ooh, I love a man who takes me out!!" and that sort of thing ;) In turn, he loved being appreciated. And then when I paid for something, he would do the same. That established things, and then from there he knew if he took the lead on a date that we both knew was more "serious," I would appreciate and enjoy all his efforts. He and I more or less fell into t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 11:59 PM
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Ultimately, it’s really up to the values that every couple has how they choose to approach this. For what it’s worth, here’s what captain and I do. We split equally most of the time time since we are both financially independent. If he or I offers to pay, the other sees it as a gift - a gesture and reminder that we’re here to take care of each other. We rarely go on lavish dates (not our style) but when we do, my captain pays. It’s part of the experience for both of us. He likes the feeling of t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 09:25 PM
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Get a pre-nup.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 03:55 PM
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Get your Alexapure Water Filtration System TODAY, people! ;)
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/19 02:03 PM
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Unfortunately, I think passing the buck is all too common.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/19 12:25 PM
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What's that?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/19 02:20 AM
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Adding to your anecdotal list: my parents were in a marriage with non-traditional gender roles and are now divorced.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 10:13 PM
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Yes! The research with rats and playing is so interesting! Kids need to wrestle a bit. Our school system blows my mind with how inefficient it is. If you’re inclined to read more about the damage school does to children, I recommend John Taylor Gato’s “Dumbing Us Down.” He was an NYC public school teacher for 30+ years and consistently advocated against public schooling.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 09:42 PM
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I wonder why this is!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 09:15 PM
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If a woman wants a feminine man, that’s totally fine. Feminine men exist naturally, and I’m glad there are women out there who love them. The problems arise when there is an attempt to reprogram the natural, masculine impulses of young boys instead of teaching them how to embrace masculinity fully and responsibly. There are some theories that suggest the increased desire for feminine men is caused by hormonal birth control. I’m inclined to believe that, but I think the research is pretty sparse …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 08:55 PM
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Love this tip! I’m all about comfy clothes around the house, and switching from lounging in baggy sweatpants to lounging in leggings has been an easy upgrade ;)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 07:07 PM
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Interesting perspective on the church! I’ve recently returned to faith and haven’t been to church regularly since I was a kid. Why/how do you think Christian men are feminized? And amen to the school observation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 06:14 PM
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Men are absolutely being feminized. While I personally agree with the video’s encouragement towards Christian values, I don’t think that guy does a great job citing examples of why he believes men are being feminized. It all starts in schools. Public schools are structured in a way that caters to female strength, not male. Boys are constantly being told to behave “better” - behave like the girls. Boys are told not to play physical games with each other, wrestle, or play fight - important games t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 06:00 PM
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You definitely should! She gives really comprehensive tips for dressing for different body types. I like your leather jacket approach. I’ve never been a leather jacket person, but they are such a classic piece to have. Might steal a page from your book down the road.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 03:58 PM
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Yes!! High-waisted doesn’t have to mean “mom jeans.” Ladies in the 50’s and 60’s looked fabulous in their high-waisted pants.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 03:32 PM
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I’m such a jeans and t-shirt gal, but I’ve been trying to make my daily look more feminine. To elevate my uniform I look for high-waisted skinny jeans (lengthens my legs, makes me look curvier) and v-neck t-shirts (show off the collar bone! Sexy without being too over the top). For dressing up I’ll put on a blazer. Dressing a little more casual, a cardigan. Definitely look up Justine Leconte on YouTube for fashion tips. Really practical advice with a focus on individuality, quality, and feminini…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 01:30 PM
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If you truly believe in red pill values, than it shouldn’t matter who you live near. Values are very personal, and no one can take them away from you. If you think that being around more blue pill people will “sway” you or make you “back track” on your red pill journey, you need to examine why you are so easily swayed by other people’s opinions and work on personal strength. (This may not be the case for you, though.) It may be difficult to date or find friends, but I don’t know what your social…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 08:38 PM
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Everyone is an individual at the end of the day, and I don’t think it’s wise to “type” people 100%. It may be that women have similar types of ways they approach unique situations, and patterns they fall into - like the party example you gave. But each individual will have their own reasons for doing so, and may behave very differently in a different scenario. You can never know what’s going on in someone’s head unless you ask.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 06:28 PM
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Brittany Pettibone is great!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 11:46 PM
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A good bit of the media I consume is political or has a "stereotypically masculine" sense of humor. But they are all red pill, fringe, or simply not playing by blue pill rules! I included some of my more feminine favorites as well. ​ Podcast The FemSplainers Podcast Love this one! Found it through Christina Hoff Sommers. Definitely more feminine, and also socio-political. When I want to learn something while feeling like I'm "hanging with the girls" I listen to this. The Simple Sophisticate TBH,…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 11:43 PM
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Feminists gave up being devoted to a man in favor of being devoted to the government.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 12:57 AM
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Yes, this is a big part of it. Feminists hate themselves for their own faults. And instead of embracing self-improvement, they blame others (men) for their problems. It’s pretty classic behavior, actually. Individuals do this kind of thing all the time. Feminists have just started a club for it. Edit: I should specify, modern feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 10:04 PM
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Yes, there are some options! A lot of moisturizers with SPF are lightweight and good for everyday, average days in the sun. Many are for oily skin. I’ve had good luck with Asian sunscreens, which are much more lightweight. It’s hard to say what will and won’t break you out though - all skin is different!
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 04:41 AM
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Wear sunscreen every day! It’s the best anti-aging product you could ever use. Ever. You must use broad spectrum sunscreen to protect against UVA rays - the rays that cause wrinkles. Visit r/skincareaddiction for great sunscreen recommendations.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 10:27 PM
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Lol musicals are definitely a thing you either love or hate, so no worries if they aren’t your thing. Do you like folk music? A lot of those folk ladies in the 70s have gorgeous voices. Joni Mitchell, Emmylou Harris, The Roche sisters. Modern singers with the same vibe would be The Wailin Jennys. I’m realizing I have a bit of an old soul when it comes to my music taste!
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 02:31 PM
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Old musicals! Rodgers + Hammerstein, Lerner + Loewe, etc. This certainly isn’t everyone’s taste, but the classic vocals make me feel old-school feminine. And I love singing along :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 02:13 PM
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A small, early sign he was a gem: when we were scheduling our first date via text, I made a location suggestion, and he replied very simply, “That sounds nice.” My initial reaction was to worry about his lack of enthusiasm. I had previously dated “men” who used lots of exclamation points, emojis, etc. when communicating. I quickly checked myself, realizing that I was dealing with a real man who says exactly what he means. Nothing more, nothing less. He still continues to impress me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 01:28 AM
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I love watching the Great British Baking show while doing chores! It’s easy to tune in and out of and it’s super benign. And you might learn something about baking!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 05:39 PM
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Home Improvement from the 90s is awesome, if you like Tim Allen. Patricia Richardson who plays his wife is hilarious. Stay at home mom, working Dad. Mom goes back to work later when the kids are all in school. Dad is the head of household but mom has a lot of strength in her role. Fun couple dynamic. It’s great if you want that 50s vibe in a more modern setting.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 01:37 AM
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You may have answered your own question here. I don’t know everything about you, but your body dysmorphia might come across as anxiety, make other people anxious, and therefore make you unapproachable. It sounds like you need to stop worrying about what other people think of you and focus on bettering yourself. As you said, attracting a man shouldn’t be important right now since you have a boyfriend. If it’s an unhappy relationship, that’s a separate issue. Practice self confidence and things ma…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/18 08:19 PM
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This is really helpful, thank you! Planning to talk to my doc soon, so I'll mention chasteberry supplements to her.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/18 11:55 AM
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Thanks, I'm definitely planning to talk to my primary care doctor about this as soon as I can. I'll see what she thinks of this option.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/18 11:49 AM
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Thanks again for taking the time to respond. I have a feeling we won't see eye to eye, since I believe people with medical issues can learn to manage those issues and still be in healthy relationships. Good luck to you as well.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/18 03:51 AM
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Hadn't considered this, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 11:54 PM
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Thanks for your response. I do know that I can choose to control it, but as you said - controlling it is difficult. As I mentioned, I "control" it around other people through avoidance - which isn't really control at all. It's simply avoiding the problem. When I fail to avoid others, I snap just as I do with my SO. I've posted here because I'm choosing to learn to control it, which may be a slow process. No matter how slow the process is, I am committed to making this change for myself and for m…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 11:37 PM
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I've always been very hesitant to take hormonal birth control. Used it for a few months and felt like I was moody all the time. Could have been the wrong pill for me though. After many of these suggestions, I'm planning to discuss it with my primary care doctor and see what she says, while also working on improving diet and exercise. Maybe my doctor will recommend hormones, maybe not. Worth discussing either way!
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 09:57 PM
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Even so, your ideas are helpful! Sometimes it's good to hear the same solutions suggested multiple times. It means there's a good chance they work. That "Dr. Oz" explanation sounds reasonable enough. Another commenter suggested B vitamins, which is often found in high-protein foods (meat.) So maybe I should be on an all-steak diet the week before my period, haha. But joking aside, more protein would be a good thing - especially if I add exercise as another solution to my PMS.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 01:55 PM
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Haha yes he definitely would. I'll try getting more B vitamins and dark chocolate in my life. I don't think I could ever go full vegan, but adding more vegetables to my diet could certainly be a positive thing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 01:27 PM
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Developing some alone time hobbies is a great idea. I think that would be good for me anyway. I love the Clue app! My SO and I both use it to warn us about when my symptoms are coming up. It definitely helps, at least to keep things in perspective if I'm having mood swings.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 01:25 PM
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Thanks for the thorough response! 1) No hormonal bc. I have a copper IUD. 2) Potentially, but I hadn't given it much thought until you brought it up. Do you have examples of what you mean by this? 3) I had a suspicion that more protein would help, but had never heard it stated. I could certainly stand to do all of the above health suggestions. This would be a positive change regardless. 4) He actually suggests walks, haha. But we aren't always great about having the discussions when I'm calm, so…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 01:23 PM
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I'll echo some other posters and say that it's definitely more about his attitude than anything. I've often been turned off by short men not because of their height by itself, but because they act as though they need to overcompensate. They'll be boastful, risk taking, loud mouths all too often. That said, there are many shorter men that exhibit none of this behaviors, and are classy, confident, and masculine. It's also important that you still feel feminine around him, which is in part both of …
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 05:55 PM
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Both travel books. Sunburned Country is Australia and In the Woods is about the Appalachian trail. Both very funny. It's been at least 10 years since I read them though. I remember especially liking what I read of Woods since I used to go camping a lot with my family. Very relatable!
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 04:12 PM
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Oh that's great, I really like Bill Bryson! I read In a Sunburned Country and parts of A Walk in the Woods years ago, but have since forgotten about him. Thanks for the reminder! That sounds like a great place to start.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 03:13 PM
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I've always enjoyed fantasy, but I'd really like to start reading more American history books. It's a subject I (and probably everyone) could stand to know more about. If you have recs, I'd love that! And thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 02:03 PM
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I love the book goals you've set for yourself! I think I'll be incorporating that into my own goals. Thanks for the inspiration.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 11:26 AM
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Check out Bettina Arndt. She's a sex therapist and author of the book "What Men Want." I'm actually not 100% sure she has her own YouTube channel, but I've found some great interviews of hers on YouTube. She talks to lots of other interesting people which could get you on a solid path to finding more good channels.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 01:57 PM
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