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I have seen something similar before. She has a secret. Be it boredom, unhappy in herself, financial or some fantasy of greener grass, she has a secret. Because of her pride and the issue of faith she cannot reveal the secret. She must therefore make you out to be the bad guy. This is most important if she is living with her parents. They would want to know why she isn’t living with you. No truth would make her look good so she must convince others that you are bad. She will paint you as the vil…
/r/RPChristians15/11/24 02:06 AM
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Thank you for your efforts in introspection and effort to support your man. It seems rare to find anyone taking accountability for their own behavior. If I were you, I would approach him with a slow and quiet voice. Maybe even kneel in front of him so you are literally looking up to him. Tell him how attracted you were to him during your courtship. Explain how deeply satisfied you were to be with a man that was happy with himself and confident in his approach. Then explain that he seems to be no…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/24 07:44 PM
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Look to your Father in Heaven. Pray for help. Talking won’t help. Only He, through His Son, can help. I had to forgive my own mother for her actions. Only God help heal a hurt like that.
/r/RPChristians19/05/24 05:45 PM
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Seek greater faith in Christ. Do you believe as Isaiah says about scarlet sins becoming as white as snow? If you can repent and feel that truth in yourself then you can believe its truth in others. Like some of the evil spirits in the New Testament, this will require fasting and prayer. From experience, this is difficult but worth it. Be patient with yourself, your wife and with His timing.
/r/RPChristians25/11/23 04:33 PM
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In the process of turning it around. Not ready to OYS. Still processing and discovering what I really want. It is getting my full attention. Started exercising. Started shedding my validation-seeking behaviors. I’m getting passionate about the goals and desires that I have uncovered. I have gone monk-mode for a month so far—not instigating sex. I am first pondering what I actually want in the bedroom What little I have accomplished has made me more centered. I am more confident and a little more…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 04:30 PM
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I’m one of those guys. I have heard every word you said.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 03:15 PM
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Take it to God. He will direct your path.
/r/RPChristians24/10/23 03:11 AM
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Perhaps you can point out how silly she is when she raises her voice by lowering yours. She is forced to listen harder and you maintain control over yourself. It illustrates how she is behaving like a child and you, as a parent, are calm. She needs to take control of herself. If she continues then you ignore her like you would a tantrum.
/r/askMRP20/10/23 02:41 PM
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Honestly, there is some good in doing this ritual. It seems like the “the bury the hatchet” ritual. If it bothers her then let her bring it up. Listen without judgement and let her get it out. STFU. She will feel better and you can bury the hatchet again. If you grumble or argue then the resentment will continue. Being the alpha means you put what is right and needed over what you want. Be the oak who is strong in the storm but still gives shelter and shade. A nightly ritual you can start is swa…
/r/askMRP30/08/23 02:50 AM
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Thanks for this explanation. I have been lurking here and trying to grasp these principals. Much appreciated.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/23 07:30 PM
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Have you asked her what sex she does want and what she doesn’t want? It could be that she wants more of something and less of something else. It is a good conversation and negotiation. She may have ambivalence. She is feeling stressed which puts the brakes on her desire. She still wants connection and will touch you to get it—read physical touch love language. She does the touch and gets turned on by it because it is connection and sexual. She has both the gas and the brakes going. In order to t…
/r/askMRP18/08/23 02:55 AM
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You do realize that Mormons or the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints are Christian’s because they believe in and follow Christ, right? It’s in the name. Nothing written is in any way in-Christian. It was calculated to lead people to God and Christ. But, your rules. Whatever.
/r/RPChristians13/08/23 04:14 AM
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How am I taking people away from Christian faith?
/r/RPChristians12/08/23 01:36 PM
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That’s the name of her channel. I typed it exactly as it appears in YouTube.
/r/RPChristians09/08/23 01:39 AM
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Dr Trish Leigh Porn Brain Rewire is a great channel on YouTube. She can help you understand the addiction and has practical and doable actions. For my part, remember Romans 8. Paul teaches that your understanding of the commandments will make you convinced of your own inadequacy. Leaving it there, you will ultimately succumb to discouragement. You must not leave out Christ. Your failures and weakness are part of the gospel. Reliance on Christ isn’t the backup plan. IT IS THE PLAN. You were never…
/r/RPChristians08/08/23 11:34 PM
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Good idea.
/r/RPChristians25/07/23 02:27 AM
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Worthiness is not flawlessness. Hypocrites deny their sins. Sincere followers of Christ acknowledge their sins and weaknesses. Your journey to recovery will not be a straight slope but with valleys and dips. Christ is quick to forgive if you confess and do your best to forsake. He sees weakness differently than rebellion. Trust in that. Trust is your worth to him and that this is supposed to be fight. A hard fight but a fight you can win. Get someone who loves you to help you. Know that you are …
/r/RPChristians24/07/23 02:21 AM
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