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I can only speak for myself but I love when men show emotion. My boyfriend cries if he's sad and is open if he's having a bad day, I'll take that any day over a guy who represses his emotions and/or only expresses them via anger.
/r/MensRights03/03/22 02:40 PM
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I've had sex when I'm not in the mood. It's honestly not a big deal as long as he's not coercing me into it or if it would be a problem for him if I said no. I think it's just nice to do. My partner does a ton for me so I do stuff for him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:10 AM
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A guy thought I was in college when I was 28 so the idea women don't look good at that age is hilarious. There's a 31yo playing a teenager on Euphoria right now, if you want to claim she's "past her prime" you're full of shit. They've also found men may rate women 18-23 most highly but not actually want to date them, which tracks with most guys I know. When you marry someone it's about forming a lifelong friendship; no one remains young forever, so focusing on the fact that she's not 23 anymore …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:06 AM
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Too many muscles IS unattractive to some women. Not all guys like the same thing, why do you think women who don't like muscles are lying? I've always liked thin fit dudes, can't stand a lot of muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:01 AM
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We couldn't vote until a century ago. We were treated like the property of our husband. And somehow you made this about your hurt feelings you're being lumped in with other men when women were the ones who didn't have rights until recently. This subreddit is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:59 AM
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This. Whenever I make this point to men - why is it cheating to make sexual content but not to watch sexual content? - they stare at me blankly and/or start sputtering it's not the same thing. It is. You're participating in something sexual outside of your relationship either way. It's just one benefits the guy so she has to be okay with it and one bugs the guy so she'd better not. They'll often say they're "just watching" and it doesn't matter. Watching is participating. Zero people would produ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:52 AM
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Doesn't work for everyone. Though I agree, more women should lift, it does work for many!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 01:29 AM
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Lmfao women initiate 69% of divorces. And I know women who have dumped men for expecting her to be his maid/cook when he seemed just fine doing that shit on his own while single. And widows statistically do better than widowers, but sure, dude, a man is everything to women, that's why marriage rates are down as women make their own money! The longest lasting marriages I know are friendships. My grandma was bossy was hell and married to her husband til he died. Her sister was a tomboy. My aunt is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:24 AM
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I've known too women who experienced it to think mommy bangmaid is overblown. The "top men" thing is weird to me cuz I know plenty of women who are with short guys or guys who make less money than they do or whatever. I genuinely think most women just want a partner and since men are only recently socialized to be partners rather than providers, a lot of men are clueless on what modern women want. I check my disbelief at some Red Pill/Purple Pill stuff with guys I know irl and they're always baf…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:13 AM
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Co-pilot? Not keeping the bed warm? I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:50 AM
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THIS. The only men I respect who loves big boobs and butts are the ones who appreciate the entire package that comes with it. They're reasonable and not porn addicts. I'll never forget a guy flirting with me at a bar. I mentioned a friend of mine was super beautiful (off-hand comment, she just was). He said she had nice tits but complained she had "mom butt." Because she was...naturally thin with fake tits and a small butt. Brazilian butt lifts are becoming the norm to the point I hear 18yos say…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:46 AM
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A lot of guys still think having a full-time job makes them an adult but can't be bothered with cooking or cleaning. Most women work now, why on earth would anyone want to come home from a long day at work to cook and clean for someone?! I had a guy say out loud deep down all women want to cook and clean for men. My head exploded. We're in this weird place where women have stepped up to make their own money but men still want the housewife, only now she needs to work 40+ hours a week too. Pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:42 AM
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Meanwhile I've seen a lot of relationships that fail because one partner stops trying. Like a woman who stops maintaining her appearance or a guy who stops bothering to ever take his girlfriend out on dates cuz hey, he has her now, he doesn't need to bother, right? A lot of people get lazy and complacent in LTRs and act all Pikachu faced when their partners leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:29 AM
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Most men can't even tell when women wear makeup, cuz they usually go for a minimal natural look. Hardly a complete transformation. And if she's wearing winged eyeliner and heavy contour, you know damn well that's not what she really looks like. Appreciate it as the art it is and stop whining. You're literally pointing out women do more to be attractive and your point is...? Those women still need to be in good shape to be considered attractive, which this guy is refusing to do. Btw men can wear …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:48 AM
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Also, I'm sorry if I sounded dismissive. It's actually a huge concern to me that decent, conscientious men are becoming terrified of approaching women because of #metoo while assholes stay assholes. I work retail, some men seem absolutely terrified of being taken the wrong way. I had a customer refuse to feel a MANNEQUIN'S sweatpants because he "didn't want to #metoo her." Also refused to feel those sweatpants in his WIFE who REQUESTED it for the same reasons. This could actually make a decent p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:32 AM
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I'm dying 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:30 AM
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A big population-level trend is both sexes staying in more due to technology but you claimed men are out there trying while women aren't with zero proof or studies to back you up. I've known a lot of men who don't really try to look attractive yet whine they can't dates. That's not an uncommon thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:29 AM
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Thanks for that! It was a good question 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:19 AM
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There's this regular at my store who lives in sweatsuits and has a gut. He's constantly whining he can't get any dates, meanwhile he says Instagram models are 7s and he'd at most settle for a 5. I don't know how to tell him...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:19 AM
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They do have to actively try though. No one found me attractive in high school. I was the first person in my family with curls so my hair was shit and I didn't care much anyway, dressed like a tomboy and focused on books. The amount of time and money it costs to look traditionally feminine is ridiculous and probably invisible to women who do it on a regular basis, but man was it jarring when I started. But it got me attention from men, so I continue to remove all body hair every 2-3 days, mainta…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:17 AM
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How? I had a guy lick my ear in broad daylight before whispering I was very sexy and running away. He's fine. Had a guy recently follow me down the street at night screaming KISS ME I'M IRISH, zero repercussions for him. But do tell me how it's dangerous for men to approach women!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:13 AM
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I can agree to an extent. A lot of women prefer being single to being in a relationship these days. Men always think they're competing against other men; they don't get they're competing against the woman's life she has on her own. The reasons vary. Some women don't want kids, some women have lived with guys and felt like all they did was clean up after them, some women find LTRs stifling. Women usually have an easier time finding sex while not in a relationship, which I think factors in too - I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:11 AM
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I'm not hot, but I sometimes attract guys who are above me looks-wise. I think it's mostly confidence (but not cockiness or disagreeableness), intelligence, being a character, and not caring what others think. Most people don't stand out in a crowd. If you can develop wit, a strong personality (like you said, Tilda Swinton), and a genuine (not try-hard) uniqueness, some people will find you deeply appealing. The key is to not expect universal popularity; you're a sour ale, not a Bud Light. I'm r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:01 AM
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Women see men lose their shit and kill people, attack people, scream at people, and punch walls when upset. So can I say men are weaker mentally? No, because not all men. Just like not all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:41 AM
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Never listened to Future. Big talk for a guy who misses visitations with his own kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:31 AM
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I gave a reasonable response and you...did this. Thanks. I'm nothing like what you described, I'm genuinely concerned the # of young men not having sex is going up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:30 AM
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I actually know a decent # of guys who won't date women below a certain income. Things are changing slowly. Guys who make good money often want someone who makes good money too so he doesn't have to support her financially and they can have a fairly easy life together. People tend to marry within their own socioeconomic class so I know a lot of doctors married to doctors/nurses and retail managers married to retail managers. I also know some SAHDs and guys making less than their wives. These guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:26 AM
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Yep. Men are incredibly easy to please tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:20 AM
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Because "top dogs" are seriously annoying af. No one cares you dominate a certain social circle. Hell, many times "top dogs" in businesses are seen as idiots by their own employees. The fact that narcissists and psychopaths are often the most successful at leading other people says a lot about both leaders AND the people who care who the leaders are. Give me the people who don't care, all day every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:05 AM
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My outgoing grandma was married to my shy grandpa until he died. I'm an introvert constantly mistaken for an extrovert cuz I know how to project confidence, and my boyfriend is very shy. I adore the hell out of him. Always had a thing for shy men. I strongly prefer them to more social people cuz I dunno, they're often the most interesting to talk to once you get them to open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:00 AM
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Women are expected to change for men's benefit. (And I don't completely mind it tbh, but I date good men so I get back when I give.) Don't let body positivity movements fool you - most women are well aware we need to spend a lot of time on our appearances to attract men. Growing up every magazine targeted at women was dieting and workout and makeup and hair tips, how to be amazing in bed, how to mold yourself into what men find attractive. I do agree the women who refuse to be nice, maintain a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:49 PM
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That backfires a lot though. I know multiple women who have walked right out of the store when salesmen do that. Or if it's a commissioned job, they give the sale to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:34 PM
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Nah, I'm considered extremely confident by my work peers and my male boss seems annoyed and threatened by it. That's been a thing my entire life, a lot of men do NOT like when a woman is outspoken, whereas a guy who's like that gets praised. They've studied this to death, assertive women are punished for being assertive in ways assertive men are not. Would look up the links but I'm omw to work, not hard to look up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:04 PM
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If it's playful (Big Sean) or venting (Eminem), I don't mind. Same with jokes - sometimes a joke is seriously just a joke, and everyone needs to calm TF down. But super misogynistic lyrics? Nah. No thanks. I've never been big on Dr. Dre or Snoop Dogg tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:24 AM
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Like men never grow bored with monogamy after decades? Happiest long-term couples I've met are swingers or open.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:16 AM
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Meeting swingers who have been for married for decades with children kinda blows up your whole point here tbh. Some people can admit they hate monogamy yet still form stable long-term bonds. The people I met said they were bored after a decade together. Most couples they knew featured the guy cheating with his secretary while she flirted with the tennis coach or the pool boy. They owned how boring monogamy is together, and slept with others together. Honest, downright wholesome tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 06:14 AM
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I hate negging because teasing - at least in my opinion - is a form of intimacy. We tease friends & family & partners, because we can. We know them. The people who can take us down the hardest with a joke are the people who know us best. Negging is a cheap attempt to fake that intimacy with dumbass goals. My 20s were women getting irritated dudes they just met in a bar tried to neg them. Most people see through it. A guy I've talked with an hour cracking a joke about me is funny; a guy I just me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:29 AM
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Yes!! I love old school pick-up artistry from like a decade ago. Men helping men be better with women in a fun, light-hearted, sometimes crass (but who cares?) awesome way. Now we've got these depressing echo chambers of men telling other men there's no hope. I hate it. I've been making some content giving men advice and honestly want to help men way more but I lack self-confidence tbh, especially since men discredit women's advice. Every guy I know who's good with women agrees with my advice th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:12 AM
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Needed to add that talking astrology works even with people who don't believe in astrology, simply because they're forced to talk about themselves while distracted from the actual topic. Most people don't respond to "describe your personality to me," but you ask their sign and they're like "ew astrology is dumb cuz sure I'm opinionated and independent and love to travel as a Sagittarius but I am NOT ambitious!" Thanks for finally being so real with me, distracted person 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:54 AM
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Smart af man, your post here was so refreshing! Love good advice that actually helps men. Always trying to help guys I know be better with women. Cancer sun, Scorpio moon. I relate pretty strongly to my Cancer sun tbh, I care too much about everyone and hate jerks. My Scorpio moon gives me that angsty edge though, I love the extremism represented by Scorpio. Sex, death, and don't fuck with me vibes 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:49 AM
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Same metric, 1/3 is a lot of people is all I'm pointing out. Most men might prefer certain things but I'm not doing something that's not "me" cuz honestly being me attracts the kind of men I want. I just don't want guys getting tattooed if it's seriously not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:34 AM
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Maybe try volunteering (way more women than men), a co-ed sports league, or any social group that works on skills? Or group fitness classes? Bars are very hit or miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:28 AM
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Not surprised I had such a pleasant non-combative conversation with a fellow Pisces Mars ;) Congrats on the Scorpio sun, y'all got the sexiest rep 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:26 AM
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I love to bang and I'm not into tattoos on men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 03:25 AM
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I'm one of the women I'm describing. I've met some guys who are attractive to me but my god are they not long-term material. They could've offered any time and I would've said no. You really think women never meet people who are attractive but who don't have their shit together or are super incompatible overall? Sexual chemistry isn't enough for an LTR, anyone with a brain knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:57 AM
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We...clearly have different social groups. I've rarely known women who want relationships with guys they're fucking and I feel sorry for them and try to tell them to have more self-worth. A lot of women I know might find a guy attractive but are like "oh god he's a sports/The Office fan and I'm more intellectual" or "he's cute but his job/life is BORING" so they relegate the guy to casual while still seeking men compatible for LTRs. I don't doubt some women are like you describe but some women j…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:51 AM
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If that's the goal, sure! If a guy wants an LTR, he might want to think about it. I don't think anyone should tattoo themselves just to attract women though. It should be self-expression. And no, women can find a guy hot for a fling but not want him long-term, just like men can want to fuck a woman but not want to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:39 AM
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Only 2/3 of women are attracted to tattoos, they perceive men with tattoos as better for flings than LTRs, and there's a definite class thing going on there - upper middle class people tend to not respect visible tattoos cuz most upper middle class jobs don't allow them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:35 AM
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Smart. Only 2/3 of women are attracted to tattoos, they perceive men with tattoos as better for flings than LTRs, and there's a definite class thing going on there - upper middle class people tend to not respect visible tattoos cuz most upper middle class jobs don't allow them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:34 AM
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Great advice! I want to point out though - only two thirds of women are attracted to tattoos. I've also read women think of guys with tattoos as better for flings than long-term material, so approach with caution based on your goals. And there's a bit of a class difference as well, many upper middle class people still kinda look down on visible tattoos. The astrology thing is brilliant, I'm constantly trying to explain to men that simply knowing what the signs mean and picking your sexiest signs…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:32 AM
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How are you meeting women currently?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:21 AM
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Do they...? I always took "let women come to you" to mean what I meant. I agree if you decide to literally have no social life, you won't meet women, cuz duh...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:56 AM
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Right and there's a whole other way of thinking where not every damn time you talk to someone is an "approach." Women tend to prefer vibing, men tend to think in extremely goal-oriented ways. The point is some guys hit on a woman and immediately expect a response and it's irritating to some women. A slower approach, I guess to put it in your terms, can be better. Doing social stuff and not expecting immediate interest from women is start, cuz women have a slower timeline and the mere exposure ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:55 AM
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This!! Guys who genuinely don't seem to care about the outcome of an interaction are far more attractive than guys who seem to need an immediate response of yes or no to ONE convo. It's a giant turn-off when a guy latches on because we spoke briefly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:52 AM
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In the context of a group event where everyone's talking, and everyone's talking to each other, it's not in fact an approach. And some of the guys I mentioned wait for women to make the initial conversational move.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:51 AM
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More estrogen in a woman whose estrogen levels are already stable doesn't increase breast size. Estrogen only causes breast growth in women with low estrogen - like trans women for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 01:48 AM
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Studies also show a higher risk of divorce for very attractive people; most people wouldn't dodge marrying a hottie cuz of that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:44 PM
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I dunno, the people I know don't seem to care and will date regardless of that. I have a high body count, as does my boyfriend. Meanwhile my ex had a low body count. I genuinely don't give af how many women a man's been with. I do sometimes think opposites attract though - I have a thing for shy/reserved/introverted men, who tend to have lower body counts. They say nice girls go for bad boys, it's also true nice guys can find bad girls fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:42 PM
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You...can't encourage bigger boobs during puberty. Milk doesn't make breasts grow. I'm astonished you genuinely think this because if it were true the Kardashians would have been chugging milk fed by Kris since toddlerhood. Diet doesn't impact breast size. You get what you get with breasts, even with weight gain some women gain fat in their breasts and others in other body areas. Who told you otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:33 PM
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Nah, this approach just takes more game and patience. Guys I know who do this do it in social settings where they see the same women repeatedly - they become regulars at neighborhood bars, or they join casual sports leagues with both sexes, or they're in class or at work with the same women repeatedly. Then they just...don't approach. Guys don't get that women get hit on so much it gets boring, we rarely get the space to breathe and develop interest in a guy because he's all up on us immediately…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:37 AM
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Ah, thank you. I'm guilty of not always double checking sample size & methodology so I appreciate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:38 AM
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I'm sorry but if the primary reason you want a girlfriend is so people think you're normal, I don't really buy your notion of self-esteem. I can't imagine basically faking a relationship to get others to approve of me. (And I've heard horror stories of marriages in non-western cultures where both parties are miserable but won't divorce cuz social disapproval, how is that a positive?)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:33 AM
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I couldn't help but notice happy coupled people never felt the need to ask when I was gonna get married (usually, there were exceptions). The most miserably paired people seemed almost obsessed with asking, I assume because they didn't have much else making them feel good about their own lives so they had to project their own shit onto single people. It is honestly not that hard to find someone to pair with you if all you want is the validation, cuz tons of insecure people exist. It is far more …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:16 AM
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This is a genuinely sad reason to want a partner, and I don't buy such a partnership would last. It's all about self-esteem, which comes from within. If you're doing things simply for the external validation, you're never gonna be happy with yourself. You'll now just have the token girlfriend on your arm to get people off your back. I was single for 5 years in my 20s, I didn't care what others thought and learned to be snarky with people who asked in a rude way why I was single. It's really not …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:08 AM
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Yep. I love giving others advice; people give me way more cred now that I'm in an LTR vs. when I was single, even though I'm the same person and it's the same advice. I watched a very attractive guy I knew get very upset because he was single while everyone else he knew got married. I don't really do social pressure (I'm an introvert and don't really give a fuck what most people think, I only trust the opinions of people close to me), so I was horrified his primary motivation to get married was …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:02 AM
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Meh. STDs are rampant in Hollywood. Scarlett Johansson did an interview years ago where she admitted monogamy was really hard for her. I've known ridiculously hot women are complete sluts and mutiple ugly women who waited until marriage. This is just another attempt to degrade women who sleep around because men of this subreddit are obsessed with the topic. I could buy an average/underwoman might be more likely to take sex she can get from a guy above her level she's attracted to, but that again…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:37 AM
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It's actually sociosexual orientation, and it's a fixed trait throughout one's lifetime according to most studies. Yes, the way one is raised can make an impact, but in my experience even people raised in super conservative households end up behaving how they naturally are and give versa. https://www.psypost.org/2019/11/new-psychology-research-indicates-your-sociosexual-orientation-could-make-your-marriage-more-difficult-54765
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:29 AM
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You said men assume women who have slept with a lot of guys are obviously being rejected by them for something serious. I'm saying that's not true. And if you don't like people who have casual sex, that's fine. Plenty of other people don't think casual sex is a red flag. Date what's good for you. Just don't freak out at only women having casual sex, because that's odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:08 AM
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Are you encountering this irl? Or is it just something you see online? I don't have social media, my boyfriend doesn't have social media, and I've never heard of someone being upset someone's not on social media irl. I'm sure it happens but I also know people who thinks it's a plus if a person doesn't have social media. If someone asks, just tell them it's not your thing. It's not a big deal. And the kind of person who would judge you for not having social media isn't someone you'd want to date,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:54 AM
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The average woman has 7 kids in 1850. So even if a guy did marry a promiscuous woman, and even if she did have kids that weren't his, he still got a lot of kids out of the deal, and his genes didn't die off. You're not making much sense on this thread and being weirdly emotional about this topic. Stop insulting everyone who replies to you when YOU asked for replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:28 AM
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A lot of guys I know wouldn't want to be with a virgin. We've all discussed this. Now, sure, I'm guessing those guys would prefer fewer past partners than a ton, but plenty of guys also don't care. And more experienced/older men seem to care the least, probably because they have a more realistic picture in their head of what hook-ups are like and don't worry incessantly that a woman's past partners were amazing in bed compared to them, which seems to be the #1 of concern of guys who worry about …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:24 AM
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But women reject men for relationships too. This subreddit never fails to be wild to me because y'all genuinely think every time a woman has sex she wants a relationship out of it, while irl I've barely met any men who believe that, and the ones who did were dumb AF. The show Date Night has an amazing sketch where this moron of a man keeps telling his hook-up not to fall for him when he's clearly not someone she would date; it was an excellent parody of guys who think the way you do. New Girl ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 01:19 AM
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I know dudes making jack shit who get women who would laugh at this assessment. Aww, boo hoo, you have to do "feminine" chores on top of doing masculine ones? Here in a city that means no one's mowing the lawn and everyone has to bother with dishes and cooking and laundry. So sorry when you share a household with someone who also makes a living you have chores to do, wahhhhh. Women nowadays marry at their own level (it's in a previous comment of mine, I'm sick of sharing links with people who do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:05 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 05:00 PM
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Oh ok, then we agree 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:10 PM
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I agree, though I'm not sure I buy the hypergamy thing. Studies show far fewer women marry up than they did decades ago; most women marry someone in their own income range now. I know 3 different women with men who make less than they do. It's more boredom with one sexual partner for me. Plus a lot of guys get complacent once they feel like they've "won" a woman and are past the courtship phase. (I'm sure some women get complacent too, keeping LTRs fun requires work a lot don't bother to do.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:03 PM
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Yeah, but the problem is a lot of men get complacent when they're super satisfied. I've always made sure my partners are sexually satisfied, done the submissive thing, kept peace at home, etc., and it seems to inspire less effort on their part. The idea if a man is satisfied he'll do anything for his woman is really only true during the courtship phase imo. And the whole "submit to him completely" thing is absurd anyway, literally every happy long-term couple I know is a friendship/partnership w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:55 PM
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I don't know many men who like bimbos, and the ones who do always seem pretty insecure about their own intelligence (cuz they're not that smart), so they need someone to look down at as a rule. Most HVM men I know want intelligent partners. There's a whole world in between "annoying feminist woke loudmouth who thinks she's never wrong" and "bimbo who looks up to men by default because she's that stupid." And a lot of women play bimbo but are not in fact stupid, they just use the role to manipula…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:29 PM
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Male sexuality doesn't disgust me. If anything I admire men for putting up with their own biology; it sounds rough to me as a woman. The only men who disgust me are men who demand all of the sympathy in the world for male sexuality but hate female sexuality. It's a denial of reality and an anger that female sexuality doesn't neatly fit in with what male sexuality wants. Getting angry the sex that gets pregnant has different standards than the sex that impregnates is just...silly. Men and women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:37 PM
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So if I don't sleep around, I can land a manwhore who basically thinks of marriage as a compromise and views his own fiancee as dumb as fuck and views women who enjoy casual sex as free prostitutes? Were you trying to make your own argument as unappealing as possible? Because well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:45 AM
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As a high sociosexuality person, I think swinging or polyamorous relationships are the way to go. Why torment someone who wants monogamy into attempting to make me stay? That's horrid. Self-awareness is pretty key here, I know too many cheaters and while I get social dynamics make it hard to find the relationships they should be in, that doesn't excuse lying to and hurting their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:21 PM
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Yeah, I've never really cared. Usually went well. I don't hit on men unless we've made eye contact or I can tell he's checking me out first. One guy was a complete dick about it, which cracked me up - he was checking me out constantly at a bar and slowly moving closer with his buddy but wasn't making a move, so to be nice I went up to him & introduced myself. Me: hi, my name is x! Him: "hi, my name is x?" Really? THAT'S your opening line?! Ok, dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:17 PM
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So I think it's changing. There was a plotline on the show Younger with a woman making bank dating a plumber and wondering if he was a good fit or not. She decided yes. No brainer for a guy to date a good woman who makes less (supposedly, I know plenty of men who won't date down by much financially). I think dating down is new for women, though I personally know a lot of couples where the woman makes more, including 2 featuring stay-at-home dads. My cousin has a Master's and an MBA and works in …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:56 PM
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They don't. Most men I've dated knew my number and gave zero fucks. Many have expressed bafflement people are mad women like sex before they find the right partner, cuz they liked it too. A lot of adults, men and women, don't ask for a # because it's assumed the other person has a past. I asked a guy his # once and he was shocked I cared. According to your logic, he was deeply ashamed of his # or something, when in reality he just didn't think it mattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:48 PM
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If a guy wants a woman with a low body count because he has a low body count and values sex as an intimate act within the context of a relationship, sure, not insecure. Meanwhile I've had men say out loud to me that they want a woman who hasn't slept with more people than he has because one of those men is probably better in bed than he is and he needs to be the best she ever had. Which is such a misunderstanding of chemistry & sex I don't know how to reply, but yeah, that's massive & misguided …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:47 PM
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Agreed! All some men did in my 20s was warn me I shouldn't be promiscuous, yet I've never had a problem getting men to call me back or commit. It's almost like young people of both sexes enjoy sleeping around until they find a good match or something! And it's hilarious men assume I'm only fucking Chads when in reality sense of humor and kindness are my biggest turn-ons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:35 PM
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"Of people born in 1958, just over a third of women had a partner from the same class as themselves: 38% married up, while 23% married down. For those born in 1970, 45% married into the same class; of those born between 1976 and 1981, 56% married into the same class, with a far smaller proportion (16%) marrying up." The numbers are here. Women are marrying up less than ever yet you're convinced that's not true why exactly? https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2012/oct/19/class-divide-relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:29 PM
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I mean...the male body will never be intrinsically appealing to me like that as a woman. A guy once asked me to name a male celeb whose dick pic I'd pay to see and I stared at him blankly. I would literally never pay for a dick pic. He was shocked, but why? What turns me on is mostly mental. How a guy treats me, how a guy treats himself (men worry about not being simps or betas but honestly self-respect and self-love is all you need), thinking about what he'll do to me later. There are specific …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:22 PM
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What part of "I know couples not making much raising kids together" did you not get? Most people marry within their own socioeconomic class. So the retail workers I know are typically with men making about their level, which is in the $31K range.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:07 PM
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Yet I see dual-income households raising kids together, even when neither is making amazing money. The median income is $31K, which I agree is ridiculously low, but that doesn't change my point that when women are financially independent, they no longer go for the old-school trade of her youth and looks for his money; they want equal partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:08 PM
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I mean, my ex-boss was stunning, and her boyfriend/father of her kid made less than she did, wasn't tall, and was meh on looks. He did it for her. I don't think the future for men is as bad as they think. Women are picking more based on personality than anything else now. Same with my current male boss - his wife makes more than he does, is better-looking than he is imo, and is pregnant with his kid. If anyone stays home with the kid eventually, it'll be him. And I get it. He's kind, considerate…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:27 AM
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Men swipe right on every profile for sex and because it's a numbers game, not because they want every single woman on there for a serious thing. Women are aware. I know guys who swipe right on everyone and still have strict looks and age standards for anything serious. Men have indeed paid money for attractive young women since forever. What do you think happens when those attractive young women make their own money and no longer need a guy for that? The successful 35yo is no longer a catch to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:17 AM
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This. I sadly know multiple successful men in their 30s and 40s who can't get dates. Their main criteria seems to be "younger than I am and at least a 5/6/7." They're shocked because "I own my place!" or "I make good money!" yet none of the women they want want them. Most younger women make their own money now, and want a guy in their own age & attractiveness range. So while looks aren't everything, a thinning hair/balding or out of shape 30/40something guy who's never once considered his own lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:15 AM
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The study you're citing found women message below average men the most, and attractive men steadily less in a downward slope. Men message the most attractive women the most, and less attractive women less in a steady downward slope. Look at the graphs. They're mind-blowing given how many men repeat what you just did. Men rate more fairly but message unfairly, women rate unfairly yet message more fairly. https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:04 AM
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This is wildly different from what I've seen irl tbh. STEM guys are usually in demand. Women respect people who can do what they can't, so a guy who can fix a computer or design important shit is attractive. Now, to be fair, a STEM guy with literally zero social skills who dressed poorly wouldn't fare well, but a STEM guy with decent social skills who dresses nicely? Never known one who isn't getting women. Also depends on which area of STEM, I say would tech & engineering are for whatever reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:54 AM
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Wish more people were like you. Monogamy is so unrealistic to me and yet even people who agree with me on an intellectual level still demand monogamy in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:18 AM
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Swinging. Ever since I met some swingers couples that had been together decades (kids and all), I thought that was obviously the best way to maintain a stable marriage while getting sexual variety. They all said the same thing, they'd been together 5-10 years monogamously, admitted they were bored rather than cheat, and started seeing other couples together. Open relationships usually suck for the guy because it's harder for men to get sex; swingers meet up with other couples, so the guy gets fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:23 PM
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Among my friend groups and family it's pretty much all couples, both with careers and splitting household responsibilities. Whenever I hear about all of these lazy women I have to wonder why the hell I haven't seemed to meet any when they're supposedly the norm.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:07 PM
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If you clean your butt, zero poop remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:51 PM
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Or we exist in the real world, where most people pair up with someone of their own attractiveness level. I've seen the men women go home with, it's not always the hottest guy in the room, and women also have different preferences on looks for men, so this idea all women want the same "top" guys isn't remotely true irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:41 PM
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So men are projecting how many partners they would have if they had no barriers. And are...upset at the idea of women doing exactly what they would do if they could. So irrational it's mind-boggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:35 PM
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So what? Do you get angry at male celebs who sleep around? Are you pissed hot guys get girls? Women sleep around because they can. It makes logical sense. But men get emotional about it and claim they're being logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:34 PM
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You could not jizz inside of a woman unless you know what she'd do if she gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:27 PM
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Of course when you were claiming men didn't need women and could opt out of relationships easily, you claimed men were less agreeable individualists like it was a good thing. But once I provided data that showed it's women who usually fare better alone, it's just "women love less fiercely." We get it, dude, you hate women and think men are amazing. The same behaviors you praise in men are bad if women do them, shocker on PPD. My grandmas loved my grandpas an insane amount, btw. They just did oka…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:01 PM
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This is unusually wise for this subreddit and completely true. Most single men I know would be fine dating a 30something woman who's kept herself attractive. And you're absolutely correct that men and women can choose to either let themselves go or stay in shape. I've seen men in their 40s struggling to date and women in their 40s with active dating lives, and vice versa. People who don't take care of themselves physically and don't maintain active social lives tend to struggle, while people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:43 PM
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Y'all worship 666 a little too hard here. A guy being tall and making good money certainly helps, but he still has to put effort into meeting women like anyone else. The biggest players I've met weren't over 6' or rich in a lot of cases. Things like charm, personality, sense of humor, and facial looks/fit body make a way bigger difference in how often a man gets women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:34 PM
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Women initiate 69% of divorces. In relationships that aren't marriage, men and women are equally likely to walk away. The idea men are the gatekeepers of relationships has always amused me because I've known plenty of women who are telling the guy she doesn't want anything serious when he does. It goes both ways. https://harrlawfirm.com/news/why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/ Women also handle break-ups better than men do and women whose husbands die fare better than men whose wives…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:18 PM
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Agreed. Men aren't into group shit like sports or Marvel movies or owning the latest Nikes or video games. I've never walked into a room full of men all wearing the same team's jersey or Polo or Lascoste shirt, they all made their own clothing and never ever buy the same things as their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:09 PM
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I never once thought it meant they got laid regularly. I'm aware most guys get laid maybe once or twice a year. Yes, I'm aware women can get laid way more (while young). Women aren't lying to you those hook-ups often suck. It's like men can't imagine they have a bodily hole that wouldn't experience pleasure without proper warm-up or even with. Guys are thrilled when they get laid. Try having unpleasant, unwanted, or painful sex, and that's you getting laid. The sexes balance more than men want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:33 AM
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I've known guys making jack shit in their 30s who get laid, so I don't really know what to tell you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:48 AM
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Dude I appreciate this reply so much I don't have words. I come on to this forum in an attempt to understand, and you just gave me a ton of food for thought that will help me understand men better. Your line about only women getting to define masculinity now hit me hard here. I'm sleepy but am going to give your reply the read it deserves tomorrow, thank you for writing so much, it's often so hard for the sexes to properly communicate because we have crazy different experiences. And I hate that.…
/r/MensRights30/01/22 05:40 AM
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"Well kept" is absolutely gendered. At a minimum, I need to remove all body hair and maintain long hair to be considered attractive. As Chris Hemsworth said when he chopped off his Thor hair, maintaining long hair isn't practical for daily life. It's movie star hair. So for most women to be considered average, we spend ridiculous amounts of time & money just on being hairless & having long hair. I did a boy look for awhile, so easy it's hard to be feminine now and not hate it. Men have no idea. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:32 AM
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It just proves she likes sex, my dude. We knew a guy who said out loud he wanted the hottest woman available with the least sexual partners possible. He was SHOCKED when they married and she didn't turn into a pornstar; she still didn't like sex much. They divorced fairly quickly. It's fine you're rightfully annoyed how hard sex is to attain for you, but being mad women take advantage of easy sex while young and at their hottest (it won't be like that when they're older) is like being mad at a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:23 AM
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Nah, a lot of men don't care if you sleep around while younger, even in LTRs. Most sluts get married, as much as men want to tell us that's not true. My boyfriend (who had his share of dry spells while young) cracks up at the idea men are mad women at the height of their desirability sleep around. It's like being pissed Leo DiCaprio does his thing, super pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:19 AM
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Yep. Please don't give me shit for agreeing with you, but I've been the girl who goes home with a guy who couldn't land the chick he wanted that night. As a guy I dated said, "the plus of being a woman is even if your crush doesn't want to date you, you still get to fuck him." Some women whine endlessly that a guy they liked only wanted sex. Me, I get my level of attractiveness, and have never really cared, cuz the sex was awesome, and I'm aware guys don't get that experience. They get nothing f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:17 AM
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As a woman, you're not wrong. Like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:12 AM
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Agreed. I'm not a hottie but I've never had a problem finding men. I'm fit, I try to look as cute as I can, that's enough in my experience (that and being kind to and respecting the men I'm dating. It's insane how much showing respect means the world to men because they don't typically experience that.) Meanwhile average dudes I know struggle to find a girlfriend and one said out loud to me recently he would happily take a 5 who was sane and wanted kids. Modern women bite themselves in the ass t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:11 AM
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1) Women wait to settle down because having kids means permanent changes to her body and the end of a carefree life. Men complain women wait until near their 30s to settle down, but it's a logical choice. 2) I get that bothers you, but it evens out. Women past fertility aren't considered as attractive, so it evens out imo. Men get dry spells in youth; by the time a woman's an elder there's way more women than men, so she gets to have dry spells. Hell even past 35/40 shit is harder for her. She's…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:05 AM
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I mean, most guys I knew in college screwed around while single. It was honestly rare for a guy to never get hook-ups. Even some of the more unattractive men I knew got laid occasionally. 28% of men younger than 30 haven't had sex in the last year.* So that means most young men have, which is very contrary to men claiming most guys don't get sex while most women do. The reality is, most young guys get laid sometimes, so guys who try to claim that's not true (and only online dudes claim this in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:52 AM
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I've never had a problem with PUAs as a woman. I agree a lot of their strategies work. I dated a guy who helped men meet women by teaching PUA techniques and I loved that he helped his fellow dudes. What's toxic to me is these guys who sell $80 or ridiculously expensive classes to teach the world's most basic shit. I also don't love the hatred against women some PUAs spew, which is increasing nowadays. I love the ones who help men improve themselves, but certain ones basically preach women are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:42 AM
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/r/MensRights30/01/22 02:02 AM
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This was an amazing explanation, thank you! I had a guy explain male stoicism to me before so I can get what you're saying now, and yes, I agree there is value to checking one's emotions until a problem can be resolved and one can handle them privately. I do think guys are shamed for emotions in weird ways that women are not though. I've seen both women and men online claim a guy being emotional is a turn-off, which sucks. My dad growing up told my brother to suck it up and not cry when he hurt …
/r/MensRights30/01/22 01:58 AM
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Ok, that clicked for me, thanks for the explanation. I used my brother as an example because he's a fellow dude who really worries about what's going on with young men as well. I figured pointing out a guy agreed with me would give me some credit, but it came off wrong, so my bad. I don't think there's anything wrong with looking to fictional characters for examples of positive masculinity or femininity, but that's just me. I think Mean Girls for example is an excellent demonstration of toxic fe…
/r/MensRights30/01/22 01:52 AM
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Not what I said. It's downright bizarre to me I expressed concern about men and got shit all over for it. Sorry I want guys to be able to...ask for help.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 01:47 AM
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A guy explained to me the value of stoicism for men once and it really opened my eyes. I agree with you on that. Thank you so much for the kind reply, I got downvoted and a lot of nasty comments saying I don't bother to try to relate to men, which sucked because I spend a lot of time worrying about young men these days (and opened my comment with that, but fuck me I guess).
/r/MensRights30/01/22 01:45 AM
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Are you kidding? Hemingway himself once wrote women win with men because they obsessively study them. Half of my conversations with women are us trying to understand men. Most of the show Sex and the City is the women analyzing the men they're dating. I grew up with the magazine Cosmopolitan, which was all about being attractive to men and understanding men. There are countless dating books for women on how to get men and understand their needs, for men the only real popular one was The Game, wh…
/r/MensRights30/01/22 01:43 AM
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Ok! He gets girls so easily it's insane, probably because he can relate to them, but I'll be sure to care a random Redditor called him a pussy. And so sorry I said things like "I wish men were allowed to ask for help," guess I'm a big ol' pussy too!
/r/MensRights30/01/22 01:40 AM
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I'm bi, I have seen women's dating profiles. They usually describe themselves and what they want...much like men. My comment said I'd like society to stop expecting men to be a certain way. It was supportive of men. I never once mentioned mansplaining or manspreading (and have defended manspreading before because I don't know what it's like to have balls). Bizarre I said I'd like men to be allowed to be able to ask for help and show feelings without being made fun of and got downvoted so hard. S…
/r/MensRights30/01/22 01:37 AM
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We went to different schools I guess. Boys and girls played together all the time. I guess the only exception was soccer cuz I was the only girl allowed to play soccer (and yeah, puberty sucked cuz suddenly I couldn't compete with male peers at sports anymore, so we can agree there.) But video games? Pokemon? Tag? Biking? Discussing the latest big pop songs? Chilling with pets? The idea boys & girls don't have any similar interests is bizarre to me. Even in adulthood men & women have plenty of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:31 AM
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I'm submissive in the bedroom and honestly a giant part of why I like it is it makes the guy do more work in bed. And most people agree subs have all the power, so I dunno. I don't really subscribe to any particular philosophy but I'm in a semi-traditional relationship and don't hate everything the Red Pill believes. It's more the part where they sound like robots trying to describe people that annoys me; life isn't nearly as simple as they want to make it sound, and people are individuals. So f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:27 PM
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A Google image search found 3 different websites with this chart and none of them actually have a link to their supposed source material that goes to anything real. https://swano.org/average-days-couples-have-sex.php https://wholeparentbook.com/everybody-seems-sex/ https://iconicmen.wordpress.com/2013/10/24/smv-is-it-real/ When I tried to Google the chart, and search the Kinsey Institute for this chart, nothing came up. If you have a legit source, post it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:45 PM
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"About half of sexually experienced single women aged 40–44 are sexually active." https://www.guttmacher.org/journals/psrh/2008/sexual-behavior-single-adult-american-women#:~:text=About%20half%20of%20sexually%20experienced,six%20months%20of%20the%20year.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:31 PM
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"Why can't you just do my chores for me?! They're so easy when YOU do them but obviously I can't do them! Lmao be single if you don't want to be my maid!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:10 PM
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The happiest couples I know are best friends. My boyfriend is my best friend. The idea men and women don't like each other for anything besides sex is downright bizarre to me and makes me think antisocial/disagreeable people project their own shit onto everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:58 PM
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True on the extreme side, not denying that. But most people end up with someone in their own socioeconomic class. And often of similar attractiveness. Makes sense a rich guy with poor looks will attract an extreme in other ways, but doesn't explain why whomever I was replying to thinks women always reach up while men don't get to when most hot male doctors I know are married to fellow hot female doctors. Most mid-looks professionals are married to fellow mid-looks professionals. Most average wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 05:21 AM
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I agree the story you shared is horrifying. I also hated what people did to poor Florence Pugh & Zach Braff about their relationship, fwiw. It's still human to care about others, and there's nothing wrong with a concerned parent, friend, or sibling noting a young person in a relationship with a much older person and making sure it's cool. I actually 100% agree strangers should mind their own damn business though. Funnily enough, I'm 33 with a 52yo boyfriend, and my MALE boss won't shut the fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:25 AM
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As a woman who simply cares about all children, it bugs me young boys and men are growing up hearing "all men are trash" and the like. (EDIT: thanks for the downvotes, guys, really sorry I care about young boys and men.) I've gotta say though, my little brother is 25, I'm 33, and he thinks men are exaggerating this point. He's getting his Master's in Psychology & feels toxic masculinity (defined as expecting men to be manly, not show feelings, not be vulnerable, etc.) is the biggest problem for …
/r/MensRights29/01/22 04:21 AM
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Women care. Men don't. And you're claiming the women are the problem 😂 Again, I've seen more women stick up for MEN who are assaulted or groomed than men. I'm not sorry we give a fuck. It's not "crazy" to give a fuck about people who aren't me and I find your selfish attitude abhorrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:57 AM
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Can't really argue with this level of self-pity.
/r/MensRights29/01/22 02:53 AM
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Do you not know couples where the woman is hotter?! Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:40 AM
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Most men tell me they swipe right on everyone. Women know this, so no, a guy swiping right on us isn't validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:23 AM
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Oh wow. This is eye-opening and extremely informative. Thank you for this.
/r/MensRights28/01/22 04:23 AM
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Women get upset by it when it's a younger man too though. It's like that South Park episode where Ike is with an older female teacher and the men all go "nice" - it's not nice. A female teacher having sex with a male student is not okay. I think women generally lean more maternal and have an understanding of maturity differences. Guys lean more "whatever, they're both legal." I don't automatically judge age gaps. When a 25yo guy friend dated a 20yo woman, I just wanted to meet her to form an opi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:17 AM
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Right, this doesn't disagree with what I said. It's absolutely horrifying to know as a woman you are less safe around people you're close to.
/r/MensRights28/01/22 04:09 AM
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No, the kid is 50% his and 50% mine, and I'm doing 100% of the body sacrifice/labor. So he can contribute in other ways or not have a kid with me, which most men I know agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:04 AM
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This!! I dated a gym rat once and his unwillingness to split yummy appetizers with me got old immediately. I'm in decent shape (thin, fit, but could do more lifting), & I'm not out here trying to not enjoy my life. He was also very vain, which isn't attractive to me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:59 AM
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I just had this convo with a female co-worker at work - we both agreed dad bod is better than a perfectly chiseled body. Our male co-worker didn't believe us but a big part of it is that guys with amazing bodies usually a) are limited in what they're willing to eat, which is annoying and b) spend too much time in the gym. I like guys who work out to be healthy but guys with gym bodies don't have personalities I find attractive. I'll take a guy with a little tummy over a guy with a 6-pack pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:56 AM
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I've never dated a guy who minded I've had sex with people who aren't him. If anything, he likes that I like sex. Of course, I usually date men who have had plenty of past sexual partners as well, so I don't think they view my past as being "pumped and dumped," which is such a ridiculously inaccurate male RP viewpoint it's unbelievable. Sex is enjoyable for men and women. So a lot of men and women have sex while single. You guys seem to genuinely believe there were these amazing unattainable alp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:05 AM
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This. Both of my grandmas have thrived after their husbands died. This idea women aren't okay without men is bizarre because studies have typically shown women fare better after their spouses die than men do. The single women I know live full, rich lives, with big social groups, and are getting laid. I don't get how I'm supposed to feel sorry for them. Only the Red Pill seems to believe this weird notion that single women are miserable. If anything single dudes I know seem to struggle more with …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:55 AM
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Plus men tend to *like" paying more for sex. It makes sense - do you want a hooker who's fucked 20 others dudes this week or one who charges so much you're one of a select few? Considering STIs alone, a smart man knows it's better to pay more. This guy has a fantasy of cheap easy sex which is fine but it's also not going to happen for him, and if it does he'll whine he caught Chlamydia from an ugly hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:05 AM
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No, his title doesn't match his post. He's asking why men (according to the study he posted) prefer women who look like they will sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:39 AM
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This is fascinating, thanks for posting. I have no idea why, but in my experience this is very true. Men claim to hate promiscuous women but in reality they often want them for both short-term and long-term relationships. I would guess at least part of it is unrestricted women like sex. Men like sex. It adds up pretty nicely. Meanwhile an unrestricted man might knock up another woman and now his resources aren't 100% directed at her kids. A woman's odds of getting pregnant by another man are pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:38 AM
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Doesn't like to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:29 AM
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Backpage was shut down because of the government not liking prostitution and you're here claiming prostitution is gonna be legal some time soon? Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:24 AM
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That "lone wolf" psychology is probably part of the reason more men kill themselves. Women are incredibly supportive of each other and tend to have bigger social networks than men do, which helps mental health. The weird part is that the woman in the misunderstood post here was saying that part of the reason more men commit suicide is sexism - men are expected to be able to take care of themselves. They're seen as stronger than women, which means they aren't given or don't know how to ask for th…
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:15 AM
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Men are given less social support because it's assumed and expected men can take care of themselves. Women get custody more (although I've read data that suggests this isn't really true, most custody decisions are made by the parents, not in court) because women are seen as nurturers. Men are given longer jail sentences because women are seen as less harmful than men. The idea is that sexist assumptions about men and women hurt both men and women. Women are seen as weaker, which ends up helping …
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:09 AM
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Do you have a source for claiming women attempting suicide more often is false? Would appreciate it, thanks.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:05 AM
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Not the same as anti-gay. Women have observed that younger women are generally more pliable than older women, so they worry about younger women being taken advantage of. They've also observed that men who are immature for their age will date younger just to find someone who puts up with their shit. The AITA subreddit is a flaming example of this, so many young women on there are dating a complete loser of a guy who treats them like garbage it's astonishing. Genuine concern isn't the same thing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:45 AM
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At my high school the hottest girls were dating men around their own age. I don't think anecdotes really prove anything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:41 AM
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Yes, but younger people are the easiest prey for emotional abusers. That's the point women keep making that men are for reasons I don't get desperate to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:38 AM
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When studies show women consistently do more household labor and childcare, it's no longer an individual issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:30 AM
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Pointing out I'm old enough to call out this shit isn't an insult, cupcake. Happy age gap relationships do exist, but the risk of divorce in big age gap marriages is 39% higher for a reason. And young women feeling flattered an older guy notices them and then being mistreated is a tale as old as time, and I'm not jealous, I'm sad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:28 AM
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If you're treating her with respect and she has a backbone/is good at asserting her boundaries, I have zero issues with your relationship. Bonus points for her being the one to signal interest first.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:25 AM
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"Men, but not women, are much more likely to die within several years after the death of a spouse than are people who are still married." https://www.nytimes.com/1981/07/31/us/married-people-and-widows-found-to-outlive-widowers.html "Unmarried and childless women are the happiest subgroup in the population." https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:12 PM
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Modern men demand femininity from women (feminine looks, household chores, cook, raise the kids) yet give absolutely jack shit in return. Men want to feel like The Man the way their forefathers did yet don't provide the way their forefathers did; women make their own money now. We're not withdrawing because we don't have power, we're withdrawing because being single is literally less work than playing Mommy to some guy who thinks foreplay is optional. And no matter how much men whine about it (w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:03 PM
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The complaints against people dating younger people include the 25-yo home-schooled virgin. Pretty much all people who agree dating much younger is a problem point out that a lot of people who date younger do so because they're psychologically immature for their own age. So dating younger means dating a person who misses all of their red flags and immaturity. 23yo me put up with shit 33yo me would never; that's why a terrifying # of people want to date 23yos. Go to therapy and deal with your shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:55 PM
1

I've always said I like an alpha in the sheets and a beta in the streets so at least I'm honest? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:09 PM
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Most men I've dated adore lingerie. If you don't, that's fine. I wasn't saying any of the other stuff we do is foreplay, like you said, it's literally just a basic requirement yet it's a lot of work. Foreplay is also mental. I do that too. What is foreplay to you and why are you claiming it's so difficult it's not comparable to what I'm talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 05:06 PM
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You're making foreplay sound more difficult than it is. If getting a woman warmed up before having sex with her is a problem, you don't have any business having sex. Maintaining a feminine appearance is so much work I hate it. I would love your average man to memorize multiple skincare products, learn makeup, shave off all of his body hair every 2-3 days, and use multiple products while spending forever brushing one's hair again every 2-3 days just to be considered decent. Then spend $ on linger…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:57 PM
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...yes... How the fuck is foreplay a problem?! Don't have sex with people if needing to turn them on before fucking them bothers you, jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:47 PM
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You get it, and I love that. Please inform the other men. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:45 PM
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I was trying to agree with you, because you think men don't need excitement. I disagree tbh. I think humans like excitement, both men & women. The long-term couples I know agree with this. You don't; you claimed men don't need excitement. And I get a lot of guys just want a regular girlfriend, so I get your point, but I personally disagree, because I think men like excitement too. I'm just saying when I'm in a relationship, I like to give the guy what he needs, even if it's not what I need, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:34 AM
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Oh based on what I've seen of the Red Pill I can agree Happy LTRs are just 2 people who listen to each other and try to please each other and respect each other, the Red Pill can help guys who are a bit too passive but I would never want a guy to take what they say as gospel
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:30 AM
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I don't know a single man married a long time who doesn't agree with me. If your wife cares whether or not you bring excitement, you bring excitement. And whatever the man needs, the wife brings. Happy couples please each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 06:26 AM
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The number of women I've known who are upset because they suck his dick every time, buy new lingerie, dye their hair the color he likes, maintain a hairless body, and are stuck with a partner who stops thinking foreplay is necessary is ridiculous. Looking fuckable as a woman is already a ton of effort. It's not just sex, it's shaving off all body hair, it's putting on makeup, it's maintaining long hair which is a pain in the ass, it's watching what one eats and/or working out. I'm sure there are…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:11 AM
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Oh, agreed 100%! Unrealistic people exist. But I've watched people (men and women) completely stop trying in their relationships and whine the other person dumped them. Like...yeah. It's important to communicate and never stop trying, that's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:56 AM
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Right, it's almost like couples have to please each other or something 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:49 AM
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This! My parents taught me you owe it to your partner to stay attractive. My dad worked out 3-4 times a week, as did my mom. Mom never stopped maintaining her femininity, Dad never stopped taking her out on fun date nights. Win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:48 AM
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It's not unreasonable to expect long-term effort. I don't know a single long-term couple that doesn't have to work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:45 AM
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Well said, but I would also argue loving "idealistically" is literally just expecting not to have to put any effort in. Women want someone who can provide for her and her kids. We can't afford to be idealistic in the dating game, because that means we end up with a guy who's not a good father. We can't afford to make a poor choice. The men I know who have happy relationships decades in aren't idealistic, they're realistic. They work hard to keep the spark. Everyone feels excited at the beginning…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:45 AM
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If you're too lazy to put effort into a relationship, you have no business being in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:40 AM
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You maintain hedonism in the relationship. This is what everyone I know in a successful LTR does. Be her stable husband in real life, but get WEIRD in the bedroom. Think of unique exciting date ideas. Keep her on her toes by having a life outside of her rather than turning into the guy who's home all the time doing nothing but watching TV in sweatpants. Maintain your attractiveness so she knows other women want you. Etc. I'm also a huge fan of swingers tbh, because they seem crazy happy to me. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:37 AM
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Oh wow, you nailed it. I've never had a long-term partner get bored with me, because I'm aware you need to keep switching things up to make things exciting. I suck at plenty of things in life, but I bring the excitement always, so my worse qualities get overlooked, like you said. Meanwhile I've yet to live with a man who doesn't stop trying. And it's so incredibly unfair to stop taking your girl out, stop switching it up in bed, etc., while she's still buying new lingerie, doing makeup she knows…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:31 AM
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Great question. It's a pretty human thing, tbh - comfort & familiarity are the death of attraction for many people. I assume it's so our species has more genetic variety in kids, tbh. I read once we wouldn't be here as a species if some women didn't have kids by more than one father because there wouldn't have been enough genetic variety for us to survive. Women apparently get bored with monogamy sooner - I think this is because men, since sex is generally less accessible to them, will take what…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:15 AM
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I love how many men hurry to hold doors for me or help me lift heavy stuff. I love how many men whose wives stay at home with their kids say she has the harder job. I love the male gaze when it's not predatory. I put work into looking cute, so a guy who lets me know he appreciates the view in a kind way without expecting anything in return is awesome. I love that men do things like install my electricity, build the homes I live in, catch the fish I eat, fix my elevators, etc. Women do those thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 02:08 AM
1

As a woman I completely agree with you. I've had drunk sex many times, I frankly like my lowered inhibitions and have had a lot of fun times. The only time it's creepy imo is if a guy purposely gives women extra strong drinks without telling her (aka many frat parties I've been to, my guy friends & I would switch drinks after being served because women got MUCH heavier pours) or pushes more liquor on her when she's drunk hoping she'll be easier to fuck. If she chooses to drink as much as she did…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:59 AM
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Do you not know people irl? My single friends hook up with dudes because they're horny. That's it. Sometimes they're the ones turning the guys down for commitment. Red Pillers sound like aliens attempting to understand humans and failing miserably.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 11:25 PM
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"I don't have a lot of empathy for women" Yeah, you made that crystal fucking clear. Good for you 👍 "lol women have painful sex and get raped and often don't enjoy sex, life is so easy for them" And it's harder because biologically, you have an orgasm to have kids. We have to be pregnant for almost a year and then rip ourselves open to have them and generally do most of the childcare. But women have it soooooo easy! Do you wake up every day and just choose only to think about you and your perspe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:42 PM
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Do you not know many couples? Women get with average men all the time lmfao 🤣 I'm still confused what you want in a marriage vs. what most men seem to value? If you only want an ego affirmation from women, I'd agree don't be around them. I agree men should be happy with themselves and not seek ego affirmation from women, that's healthy. And I'm sad you think most men don't want a lifelong bond with women, I know so many men thrilled they have a lifelong partner. If that's not you, that's fine, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:40 AM
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First of all, the study you cited found while women may rate 80% of men as "less than average," they messaged all guys about equally, and in fact hit up "less than medium" guys the most. Meanwhile it was men who directed most of their messages at the most attractive women, and ignored many of the women they'd deemed at least reasonably attractive. https://techcrunch.com/2009/11/18/okcupid-inbox-attractive/ Second of all, you literally just said marriage used to be having an unpaid maid for men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:25 AM
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"Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them." - Margaret Atwood "Women have very little idea of how much men hate them." - Germaine Greer "While gossip among women is universally ridiculed as low and trivial, gossip among men, especially if it is about women, is called theory, or idea, or fact." - Andrea Dworkin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 04:03 AM
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Sorry but I know plenty of women who have been rejected. Men make most DIRECT first moves, sure, but women often initiate convo or try to hint they like a guy and get rejected. They also get rejected after first or whatever date like anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:56 AM
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Agreed as a woman. Love your comment, explained it well. I'll add the female view though, just to be fair. We are told from birth our entire worth is our looks and we will age out of attractiveness sooner rather than later. We won't be getting those amazingly attractive men past 35 or so, and are judged if we take advantage of getting them while young. We spend God knows how many hours shaving and plucking and dying our hair and putting on makeup and picking attractive outfits just so men can ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:54 AM
2

It's an amazing book. As a woman it completely changed my outlook on men. Honestly not because of her struggles with dating (I don't even remember that part tbh, didn't seem to be the focus of the book), but the ways men aren't allowed to show emotions in their own social groups, it made her break down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:45 AM
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What would the alternative be, sexually speaking? Genuine question. I immediately thought of Jordan Peterson pointing out socially enforced monogamy was perhaps better in that it produced fewer angry violent men, curious what your thoughts are on an alternative to sexual liberalism, and if you think the alternative has any equally dark spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:43 AM
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This applies to women too though. The person who invented the term incel was a woman. I've known women who are unattractive and have a very hard time getting men. They exist too. So the pauperization of sex applies to women as well, as much as some men don't want to hear it. You've also got women who get fucked, sure, but that's all they're getting. I had a friend who wasn't very attractive with no luck in a bar, I literally had to tell a guy she was DTF to get her a reluctant partner. Then you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:41 AM
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It's weird you don't think this applies to women too though. One dating app found the bottom 50% of men got like 4.5% likes and the bottom 50% of women got like 7.5% of likes. I've known women who aren't getting laid. Then there's many women, getting laid, not necessarily getting anything out of it, then there's women getting laid getting something out of it, and then there's women so hot they get paid to exist for showing up. There's a hierarchy for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:37 AM
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The alternative is sexual conservatism, which benefits men by directly controlling women, no? Women being coerced by society into sex they don't want vs. men not getting sex they want. Reminds me of Jordan Peterson (correctly) pointing out socially enforced monogamy means fewer angry, potentially violent men. Yet that comes at the cost of sad women socially chained to men they may not even want...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:34 AM
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Jesus. To the info, not you helpfully correcting me. I didn't know much about this topic so I appreciate the education here. That's fucking horrid. Do you happen to know how many male domestic violence shelters there are in the US rn? Having trouble finding the info beyond a second one opening in 2017, which is already depressing AF.
/r/MensRights22/01/22 02:47 AM
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Well said. I feel for working class guys with physically difficult jobs who are barely noticed by society. Love that you called out both lazy SAHMs and lazy white collar workers faking work, cuz yeah, they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 05:53 AM
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This is fair, but I've seen this happen a lot - the guy works more hours, sure, but his # of hours worked outside the home doesn't justify expecting the woman to do all/most of the household and/or childcare work. She ends up working more, basically. Link included cuz I'm all for picking apart data. https://www.americanprogress.org/article/unequal-division-labor/ I've also seen guys who aren't the breadwinners whine they have to do any childcare, which is obviously appalling. One study also foun…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:55 AM
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How do we know her accusations of abusiveness were false? I went on 2 dates with a guy my freshman year of college. Our second date, he blew his nose at the table, and didn't get all of it. I was young, inexperienced in dating, & awkward. I didn't know what to say. He walked me home, kissed me, & said he was excited for our third date cuz it was Valentine's Day. I ghosted him after that. Am I proud? No. Was I 18 & new to dating? Yes. My senior year, I walked into a frat party & found out he was …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:45 AM
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Exactly. It's horrifying. I know a guy determined to circumcise his son and no amount of statistics like this change his mind.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:49 AM
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Thanks for this. Annoyingly hard to get to the truth of the topic for the reasons you stated. I can't assume men who have had bad experiences are lying, the 60% statistic at least seemed to include them. I'll have to actually do a deep dive on this topic at some point.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:43 AM
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I love that book!! I think it should be required reading for people tbh, especially women who think women have it easier. The other night a guy thought I was following him (he took my exact path from work to a local bookstore) and I thought damn, I bet men feel this way all the time. In college I loved sitting at our preschool's playground and watching the kids, one day I asked my boyfriend to sit with me, he pointed out he couldn't do that without me without being seen as a predator. I admit I'…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:20 AM
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The United States military has been all-volunteer since 1973. They COULD implement a draft, and I would 100% be against that. But zero men are forced to serve right now. The disgusting thing right now is that mostly low-income people are targeted to serve so they have some kind of future, at least imo.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:16 AM
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Holy shit. I buy this because I read about a blind trans man who said people were SO eager to help him in public when he was perceived as female but no one helped him as a blind man. :( And I'm guilty there, mainly because I'm scared of men I don't know because they're stronger than I am. I still try to help though when lots of people are around. My boyfriend once asked me to slap him HARD in public. I was horrified, like no dude, why?! He said no one cares if guys get hit, do it. I did. Slapped…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 02:04 AM
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Yeah, whenever I point out to fellow women us calling men trash means boys and young men see that shit, the point seems lost on some. Not lost on all though, so that's hopeful.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 01:50 AM
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Preach. I'm a woman against male circimcision because I had the nerve to watch the videos of it. It's a fucking horror show. Leave babies' genitals alone. Doesn't help how many men I've met who say it's okay because they were circumcised & they're fine!
/r/MensRights19/01/22 01:49 AM
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God that's disgusting. As a woman, that's just pathetic some women still behave like that. I quite like men who can cry. I still remember when my little brother was a toddler and my dad told him to suck it up & not cry when he hurt himself; I had a long talk with my dad after that (I was 11) & to this day I love & respect my dad for listening to me. He stopped doing that after I said it was perfectly okay for toddlers to cry, even if they're boys.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 01:47 AM
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A lot of modern feminism is very selfish. As a woman, I'm so sorry. I think it's in the nature of people to care mostly about their own "groups," sadly. Some positive points: The first shelter for male victims of domestic violence in the United States was started by a woman. "Duncan told Arkansas Online her intention was not to create gender-specific facilities solely for the sake of separation. 'My perspective on that was we try to offer peer support, and I don’t want to necessarily segregate m…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 01:44 AM
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I appreciate you giving me a thoughtful reply back. I really do aim to learn here, and I'm sorry if I got a bit defensive. You make some excellent points. I'm actually terrified of choking, riding bicycles, & my shower irl, because the statistics are horrifying. 😂 So your point on risk rates is valid. I really am against the draft. And I get your point if men have to do it, women should do too, because it's an infringement on freedom. I was using the old-time explanation of men do war, women do …
/r/MensRights17/01/22 03:20 AM
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700 US women a year die of childbirth of pregnancy. 18 US overseas military members died in the last year. https://www.militarytimes.com/news/your-military/2021/05/31/a-year-without-combat-deaths-this-memorial-day-military-fatalities-overseas-were-the-fewest-since-911/ And there is no draft, so you're literally taking an imaginary topic and arguing with me over an actual topic.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 03:01 AM
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700 women a year. Far fewer than the number of people in the armed forces dying rn. https://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/maternalinfanthealth/pregnancy-relatedmortality.htm How is a factual statement like "to make more of you" hostile to you?!
/r/MensRights17/01/22 02:52 AM
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700 American women a year die of childbirth or pregnancy. From what I've read, 18 overseas people serving our country died. The original post is irrational, because there is no draft. It's an imaginary topic. But it's amazing to me y'all expect women to risk death via pregnancy/childbirth & also fight overseas. Amazing to me y'all don't buy women actually die from reproducing. https://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/maternalinfanthealth/pregnancy-relatedmortality.htm#:~:text=The%20death%20of%20a%…
/r/MensRights17/01/22 02:38 AM
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Are men forced to join the draft nowadays? Lmao, no...
/r/MensRights17/01/22 02:34 AM
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It's crazier because it's a woman why?
/r/MensRights17/01/22 02:33 AM
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Yes. She died at 6 months pregnant. 700 American women do every year. Google the # of people in the armed forces who died this year and then talk to me. It's seriously horrifying you don't get this a thing.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 02:32 AM
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Your topic doesn't exist. There is no draft. I do feel incredibly sorry low-income men in our country get coerced into fighting. You think women are cool with dying for a wanted pregnancy? That's why pregnancy is so terrifying for us, we might die. Many women choose to do it anyway and your logic is basically "she chose this so women can fuck off complaining women die, HOW EMOTIONAL." Jfc. Amazing how the original post isn't an outburst but my simple statement of statistics is.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 02:30 AM
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700 American women die a year from pregnancy or childbirth. There have been 18 total overseas combat deaths in the last year. https://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/maternalinfanthealth/pregnancy-relatedmortality.htm#:~:text=The%20death%20of%20a%20woman,of%20pregnancy%20or%20delivery%20complications. https://www.militarytimes.com/news/your-military/2021/05/31/a-year-without-combat-deaths-this-memorial-day-military-fatalities-overseas-were-the-fewest-since-911/ I'm not an expert, if there are dif…
/r/MensRights17/01/22 02:23 AM
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I bring this up all the time and get shit on by women for it. I actually do care about everyone. So sorry I pointed out pregnancy & childbirth are dangerous. Sorry you don't care about the women who die bringing life into this world. I do care about the men who work dangerous jobs.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 02:19 AM
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I know plenty of women who are horrified by the idea of pregnancy and childbirth. I know a woman who died from pregnancy, 700 women a year do, so sorry?! I'm against the draft, fwiw. It's disgusting. We don't currently have a draft right now, so I'm not sure why your imaginary topic is more important in your head than my statement that comes from actual reality.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 02:17 AM
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My most recent post was trying to boost up men who aren't 6 feet/6 inches/6 figures, but ok! Love getting shit on by women for defending men and by men for defending women! 700 American women die a year from pregnancy or childbirth. There have been 18 total overseas combat deaths in the last year. https://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/maternalinfanthealth/pregnancy-relatedmortality.htm#:~:text=The%20death%20of%20a%20woman,of%20pregnancy%20or%20delivery%20complications. https://www.militarytimes…
/r/MensRights17/01/22 02:11 AM
2

Circumcision is disgusting. I decided that at 8 years old when my mom was talking about my brother's circimcision and casually explained they cut part of his penis off. WTF?! Sadly, most circumcised men I know say it's fine. As a woman I have to disagree, circumcised men need a crazy amount of pressure/force during head & sex compared to uncircumcised men, which makes sense because their exposed glans is less sensitive & they're missing a bunch of nerve endings.
/r/MensRights15/01/22 11:50 PM
3

You feel sorry for your friend and not the woman he's cheating on and lying to? The blackmail isn't cool and they both sound like trash but you're managing to make her the bad guy simply because she's less physically attractive when her partner is an asshole. Wow.
/r/MensRights15/01/22 11:43 PM
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Do you know any men who died during pregnancy or childbirth? Women already get sent to their deaths trying to make more of you.
/r/MensRights15/01/22 11:38 PM
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Where did you get the 62% statistic? Can't find it anywhere.
/r/MensRights15/01/22 11:36 PM
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Probably because 7 out of 10 people killed by an intimate partner are women? I agree it matters just as much when men get killed. It's always tragic. It's just statistically less likely to happen to men. Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mind-games/201909/the-number-women-murdered-partner-is-rising
/r/MensRights15/01/22 11:26 PM
1

Are you really this painfully unaware of the differences in gendered violence? I've been screamed at for not wanting to talk to strange men. Had a guy shove me hard in a bar when I didn't want to dance with him. Been sexually touched by strangers more than once. I highly doubt you walk around in public afraid random women are going to assault you. And bonus points, you claim women are the ones who lack empathy when you called the story you linked to made up. How the hell do you read about women …
/r/MensRights15/01/22 11:10 PM
1

Why? Plenty of married men go to bars alone. What's wrong with a woman wanting a drink by herself? She might want some space or to chat with the bartender or other people. Or she just wants a drink after work is finished...
/r/MensRights15/01/22 11:05 PM
1

Sorry, genuinely thought the projection theory was valid, didn't mean to rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:10 PM
1

I'm not a wolf, just a human who feels sad when I see a large online community that seems toxic for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:08 PM
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