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No, being himself is all he can do. It's the only honest advice to give despite being himself won't make him more lovable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:27 AM
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Indeed, he really had to trust you. Normally, I don't like people touching me in any way. I think I am damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:43 PM
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I’m a high-trust kind of person because I live in a high-trust community. You are very very lucky. I am very glad for you. You made my day. I wish that the world was like this. Also, your father is one-of-a-kind: the truly loving kind. However, there are men that killed themselves when they found out that their children of 10+ years are not theirs. It's truly devastating but "preventable" with paternity tests at childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:40 PM
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There's nothing that can be done, those people will just suffer, most often through no fault of their own. Damn, you truly understand. Life is very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:31 PM
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I am very glad that you have a loving father. What I mean is that men have greater tolerance for cheating wives than non-biological children. It isn't that men will no longer care about the wellbeing of their partners after they have children. It's just common that loving parents put their children before themselves and their partners. Women also give different levels of care to non-biological children as in the case of adopted children. Finally, I am already against enforcing paternity tests by…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:16 PM
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Having a cheating wife is nothing compared to raising someone else's baby. When men have children, the single most important thing that they care about is whether the children are his. The wife always come second. Most single father can raise their children better than single moms. So funny you brought up chastity belts. You really don't understand men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:56 AM
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I address my personal problem like an adult, i.e., trust the evidence. It's most immature to give unwarranted trust. Having a paternity test is the first serious step to trusting the wife. You speak like you don't understand reality at all. Insecurity, confidence, and the naive notion of "love" that people talk about are really misguided. I hope you grow up some day to see reality as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:53 AM
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If the woman refuses, the man should divorce her. I'm a man. I will test my children, but I am against legislation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 06:48 AM
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It shouldn't be mandatory, but men should make it as common a practice as having a wedding. Men should be honest with their suspicions and base trust on evidence as in all other aspects of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:31 AM
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You are clueless. Everything changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:30 AM
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There is absolutely no need to mandate paternity tests by law. Please stop legislations. Men should simply make paternity tests a common practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:28 AM
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Paternity tests are at the very end of the cheating pipeline. The only thing that a men cannot accept is raising another person's child. It's about protecting the bottom line, i.e., leaving their spouse before the child grows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:26 AM
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Creating your database is stupid. A single test at childbirth is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:22 AM
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Some suspicions come too late. Paternity tests are never too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:21 AM
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Trust is based on evidence. If the wife wants to file a divorce, let it be. 90% of paternity tests show an otherwise biological father. Most doubts are correct. Men should make paternity tests a common practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:19 AM
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Paternity tests should be done before signing the birth certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:14 AM
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Not in France, lol. Paternity tests are illegal in France. Fingers crossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:11 AM
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True, men should always do a paternity test and encourage other men to do so. It shouldn't be enforced by the law, but should be as common a practice as having a wedding. Spread the suspicions so that we can have a more honest society for marriage to work. Men must remember that trust is based on evidence, nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:10 AM
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Esther Vilar told us the truth
/r/MensRights24/12/24 09:34 AM
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Stupid. Schopenhauer isn't shallow but he knew the whole world to be shallow. The same goes for Buddha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:53 PM
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I just realized that I posted under your previous comment which was a mistake. Also, it's not a diatribe but a deep respect towards human nature, as I didn't blame the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:17 AM
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I'm not talking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:11 AM
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When the short and plain woman locked down the tall and good-looking husband with all her effort while despising short and plain men, she becomes very disappointed if she has a son that turned out to be short and plain. That is human nature to blame, not her. She is simply living her life unconsciously like 99% of the people on Earth. She is just an instrument for human nature to express itself, and she has no hope of even realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:46 AM
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You also don't want drug abusers to self report on their medical use. Clueless leftist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:58 PM
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This is the plain and simple truth. It requires Olympic level mental gymnastics to not believe in this totally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:57 PM
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That's because there are costs associated with maintaining the United States. Too much went to waste. It's seriously out of proportions, and then we have the feds. We should be angry. Setting up a Department of Governmental Efficiency is the most bureaucratic thing one can imagine. You should go see The Substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:43 PM
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Lol, keep living with your 1% fantasy. You can only hope that you don't find out that your children aren't yours one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:21 AM
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Lol, this is also happening to chads. It's easy to write harsh truths off as incel idiocy. Keep coping your life away. I always tell people to sign a prenup and test their children's DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:03 AM
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Putting monopolies aside, this is what infuriates me, "we as consumers pay tariffs." Consumers were promised choices but then tariffs artificially took them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:00 AM
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Lol, delusional as hell. There is something the community have yet to address: the prevalence of unknowingly raising children that aren't of your descent but was given birth by your wife who like you just for how you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:22 AM
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I sympathise with your last paragraph so would Milton Friedman and Thomas Sowell. Here's the culprit: we as consumers pay tariffs. What was originally cheaper imports now become more expensive because foreign producers will raise prices to remain profitable. Furthermore, if we as consumers are afraid of domestic monopoly, we should call for abandoning tariffs so that we can weaken the monopoly by choosing cheap foreign products. If prices were artificially increased by the state, we would have l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:13 AM
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The new administration won't give us more freedom. The fact that Trump is pushing for higher tariffs and people concurring is a great example of people forfeiting their freedom, not saying that Harris is any better. 🤡 World
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:04 AM
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People always say the media. It's almost never about the media. Nowadays, it's safer to dress provocatively than in the old days, and women know that when they look hot, they are treated much better, have higher status, and attract hot guys. Women are trying to get the hottest guy they can get because it's a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. I'll be doing the same if I were a young woman. Women are more honest with their desires and have created a safer world for them to express their desires. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:00 PM
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Perfect answer. The human condition is sexless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:58 PM
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When it comes to parenting, most parents are forever clueless and base their decisions on what others think. When it comes to picking a job, most job seekers are forever clueless and base their decisions on what others think. This is the general human condition. All important aspects of life are often like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:54 PM
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Less gaslighting, more honesty, i.e., everyone should take the blackpill to understand the human condition. Go through your past traumas so that you can raise your children with psychological safety. Don't damage your children because you haven't sorted yourselves out. Carefully blackpill your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:04 AM
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People can be underprivileged in many ways. Being poor is obvious, so is having physical disabilities. Not looking attractive is more subtle. However, the real struggle of being poor and physically disabled are already hard for people to grasp. Then, it's almost impossible to explain the real struggle of not being attractive. People are too closed-minded when it comes to being underprivileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:27 AM
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People have already done this, yet it just doesn't work. You also have a wrong assumption on how most men are viewed as unattractive by women. There are research showing that looks dominate all other traits that people CLAIM to hold highly of. It is the inability for people to fathom the incredible influence of looks that people have on judging other people's personality, competence, leadership, etc. You should open your mind by reading "Survival of the Prettiest" and stop gaslighting. You are u…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:41 PM
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No, what you are saying is absolutely misguided. It took a very long time till a TED talk finally explained that "poverty is not lack of character but lack of cash". The most prominent example is Christopher Reeve. He finally understood reality and became genuinely empathetic when he broke his spinal cord. He confessed in his book "still me".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:36 PM
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I have always wanted to say this. Great post. The slogan is: attraction cannot be negotiated. However, I want to warn against mainstream redpill, as they are also wrong. The only truth is the blackpill and the solution is to looksmaxx. Everything else is pure cope. The only self improvement that would work in regards to attraction is completely physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:29 PM
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Spot on. Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:24 PM
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No, the rules OP mentioned are not made up but reflect reality. The problem is people like you that can't grasp the nuance of how they manifest yet claim incel's self-diagnoses as incorrect. One has to be actually unprivileged to understand their point. It's hard for a normal person to understand hunger if not being refused of food for three days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:23 PM
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False. Don't we educate our children for more than a decade so that they overcome their natural ignorance and despite how likely such an endeavor would fail in sort of ways (life is unpredictable you say). Overcome the "shallow" label of focusing on looks. Fully understand the undeniable importance of looks. Then, help your children looksmaxx from puberty to adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:19 PM
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Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:13 PM
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the girl you like will reject you cause you’re an ugly beta, the data shows it, and she will always go for chad, the data proves it This is absolutely correct. therefore the predictable and understandable outcome is i do nothing No, the conclusion is to improve one's looks even if it calls for surgery, as long as one thinks through the risk. Also, to know how to correctly improve one's looks when you can't trust almost the verbal feedback from any other person is an extremely hard task, as it re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:10 PM
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I dislike people like you talking shit about "tragic backstory." OP just need more nuance. At least he reveals himself to see what comes. Your gaslighting is very vulgar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:56 PM
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the same patterns repeat themself so many times across multiple generations to realise the nuance doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:44 PM
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You actually have nuance. OP's nuance hasn't caught up with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:38 PM
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You actually have nuance. OP's nuance hasn't caught up with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:36 PM
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I used to appreciate the nuance in these delicate matters and firmly rejected any kind of categorical opinion. However, the more I observed how people acted when it comes to these delicate matters the more I realized how predictably people behave. Most people are just unaware of how they behave, and their education or occupations have little to no effect on how they would behave when it comes these matters. Even in the rare cases when they are aware, they still can't act any other way. Their beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:23 PM
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I have only one account. It also doesn't hurt to be open-minded. I have experienced some of the erotic fantasies personally and witnessed them happen to a very handsome friend of mine all the time. Maybe "looks" are the true barrier to sexual experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:37 AM
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Reliably getting uncontrollably horny by a "very handsome" guy. I've only seen this happen to my very handsome friend. All the while I met my girlfriend the "conventional" way, and it wouldn't be any other way. You people are so impossibly small minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:58 AM
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Your considerations are well-founded. Ignore the deniers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:45 AM
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I am starting to believe that the people denying OP's considerations are unaware cucks. They have to experience this first hand to believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:43 AM
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Truth being told, high value only comes from a man's face, height, and frame. Being rich has almost no effect except giving you even more time to meet women. A tall, buff, handsome highschooler is much more high value than your local retail owner that looks plain. Age doesn't matter. If you're hot, women of all ages will hit on you, even your cousins or teachers. Porn IS reality. The redpill hustling is just cringe. Save money for plastic surgery, and workout to lose weight. Then, you'll see the…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 12:58 AM
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See my comment https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/17o9o0c/comment/k7x4qtz/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 02:04 AM
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Now you see the fun side of blackpill. Seriously speaking, they are substitutes for the real thing.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 02:45 PM
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Blackpill frees us from the redpill futile statusmaxxing/moneymaxxing hamster wheel. Blackpill reveals that only looksmaxxing is effective. This is a crucial fact to know. Too many men are sidetracked by redpill. The situation is a bit like in school, but just more brutal. I enclose the blackpill equivalents in parentheses in the next paragraph. In school, many find it close to impossible to get good grades (looks), to go to Ivys (date Stacys), etc. Those people learn a trade (betabuxx), take th…
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:48 PM
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I would like to hear your take on this. I seem to have the wrong impression about Scandinavian women.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:12 PM
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Yes, the Scandinavian countries are, once again, the first to reach this point. Swedish women mostly just want Swedish men because Swedish men are just better looking, and Swedish women put more emphasis on other qualities of Swedish men because many are good looking enough.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:06 PM
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When enough men are good looking enough, the goalpost could finally switch to personality which is the final frontier.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 12:01 PM
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They are not awful nor stupid. They are just acting out their preferences honestly. It is amazing that in the 21st century, women are finally able to do that. Before that, men are just living in delusion thinking that women are not like they currently are, whereas, in fact, women were just severely oppressed. Nowadays, women see how powerful they are. They really get to be with the men they want even if it means sharing. Men can't get the women they want even if they are open to sharing. I am ge…
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 10:53 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:33 PM
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I never understood the concept of offering commitment to attract a women. Why are people brought up with this concept?
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:38 PM
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Fuck, you are the epitome of masculinity, i.e., having the ability to do it, yet decides not to and keep to your decision. You are the kind of person I wanted to be, but I am sub-5. I was forced to not even think about it.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:33 PM
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Many (not all, not most, but a significant amount of) wives don't resent. They just feel indifferent towards their husbands sexually, but enjoy their husbands' company. Many ACTUALLY settle, in every sense of the word. This is another blackpill truth. The truth is always nuanced and multifaceted. Common redpill is too off the mark, as the appearance halo overrides all the time, e.g., Meeks. Despite common blackpill being mostly true, it is not the FULL picture, e.g., all the non-Meeks.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:15 PM
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The only people that can build a social circle from zero are the very attractive people. They just have to go on IG, twitter, and Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:35 AM
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Women feed the incels bluepills by complaining how hurt she is pumped-and-dumped by Chad. In reality, she merely wishes that the Chad could keep pumping her. Make no mistake, she enjoyed it a lot and doesn't regret a bit because only a Chad can turn her on.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 03:24 AM
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Local chads they meet on Tinder. As a fairly attractive women, traveling with Tinder costs one next to nothing. Furthermore, so many fantasies to be fulfilled being a stranger.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 04:57 AM
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Lol, there is currently no way to lengthen soft tissues only.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:32 AM
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It can also be done on the upper arms, lower arms, and the clavicles. However, the procedures for the legs are the most mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:05 AM
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Don't gaslight. Let people make their decisions. People have different priorities, and some things might be doable for some but not for others. I am just here to better inform people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:03 AM
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I have a very smart friend that entered the software industry 5 years ago. He job hopped several times to bump his salary. He is now making 250k a year. He did the surgery and continued working remotely while in rehab. It's doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:41 AM
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Height is the most important thing for a men's physical appearance even outside dating, unless you are at a math seminar. Many men that get limb lengthening surgery are married and have kids! To be able to afford the surgery and work out the logistics, one ideally should be a remote software engineer. One can change one's course of life by sheer will if they value getting the surgery done. Not that everyone will find this worthwhile though, but most people have never even entertained such a thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:08 AM
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An extremely significant amount of girls do. They don't rely on them solely, but mostly. The truth is that almost all men women encounter in real life are just too far from hot for them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:59 AM
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On the apps. That's where women shop them. In real life, almost all men they encounter are just too far from hot for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:57 AM
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It's not about being shallow. Too many women have all their non-appearance-needs satisfied elsewhere. The only thing left that they need from a guy is the "turn on". If a man can't provide that, they don't want to be imitate with that guy. It's simple and rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:55 AM
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Said surgery has improved so much. Look up "quadrilateral precise nails". A few notable limb lengthening centers have whole teams of rehab specialists that can guide one through one's recovery, and their patients return to playing basketball etc. after 18 months. The only difficulties lie in finding those institutions, making time for full recovery, and having enough money to go through the process. All these take hard work but still doable. It depends on the person to aim one's life towards suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:48 AM
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One shouldn't blame anyone for anything, including oneself. One should (1) take things as they are, (2) analyze the situation, and (3) implement counter-measures to elicit desirable results. Most people, regardless of men or women, are very poorly equipped for any of the three steps. See how most people fail their education spectacularly. They can't even handle schoolwork, which is very forgiving and straightforward compared to the real world, properly with these 3 steps. Most people are just we…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:53 AM
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I can never wrap my head around where this "women have lower libido" came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:51 PM
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False. Hot guys are just so rare. Women will do everything to stay with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:49 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:46 PM
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Your competition are the 8+/10 on the apps. They are very real and accessible due to technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:44 PM
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Women care so much because they want to get into Chads' rotations. Chad can only do 5 per rotation. Most Beckys will have to wait a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:29 PM
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You have the correct perspective. These naive guys are not blackpilled enough to understand sub5s and normies have nothing to do their insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:24 PM
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