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| 1 | How Much Does Height Have An Impact On Dating Success? (For Straight Men)This is what I think Above 6’5”: can’t use your height as a flex, will probably start to be too tall for a good amount of girls(unless professional athlete or with girls who are 6’ or taller) 6’-6’5”: ideal height for most girls, as long as you don’t look like 2 nfl olineman put together or you don’t have a below 4/10 face, you’ll have a decent amount of girls wanting you 5’8”-5’11”: you won’t get brownie points for your height, but as long as you don’t look like a gremlin and put in work, you’l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV:women are not more attractive than men, by defaultI agree with that, but the problem comes from being in a horny mindset. If you’re horny only for certain women, then that’s totally fine. But if you’re horny to the point where any woman is good, then you have a problem. And 99% of the problems discussed on this sub would be erased if men were to just stop being in a horny mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:11 PM |
| 3 | CMV:women are not more attractive than men, by defaultWell fake it till you make it then. And don’t let your validation come from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 5 | CMV:women are not more attractive than men, by defaultWell yes. If you go to a party or a club/bar looking to score, you’ve automatically lost. You won’t be in a masculine frame, because you’re already desperate and horny and your only reason to go is to score. You go to this to have a good time and get lit, and if you happen to get something with a girl, then great. But your primary goal is to have a good time, not get with a woman. I’ve literally been doing this. When I go to a party/club/bar, I do so to have a good time with my friends, and if s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:56 PM |
| 4 | CMV:women are not more attractive than men, by defaultThe pig woman experiment just further proves my point. In OLD, we are all just super horny and try to play a numbers game by shooting our shot with as many women as possible. None of those guys were actually into her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:51 PM |
| 2 | How did the genders get to this point?Primarily because of the major boom of social media, Hollywood, and porn. This has caused people to increase their standards to unrealistic levels because they only see models who are chosen for their looks on all of their platforms. Social media(primarily Instagram and tiktok) heavily shows only the top 13% of people, so both genders think that the average person of the opposite sex is a low level model, however, people have a completely accurate image of what the average person of their own se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 10:18 PM |
| 10 | Men tend to be delusional about their sexual attractivenessWhile this is kinda true, there are a couple of flaws with it. The first study can be summed up in one sentence: most people think they are a 6 or a 7, therefore the unattractive people are overestimating and the attractive people are underestimating. And this applies to both men and women. As for the second study, most women who say that are mostly looking for compliments and male validation, so that can’t be taken seriously. A lot of both men and women overestimate their attractiveness for dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 10:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Despite what studies say, it’s women who overestimate their attractiveness, not men.Well then they’re delusional lol. Many men do overestimate their looks and truly believe it, but I think that it’s not as much as it is said to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 02:04 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Despite what studies say, it’s women who overestimate their attractiveness, not men.Which is why I said it MIGHT not be true, not that it is not true. It isn’t a fact, you’re right, but I’m just saying that there’s another possibility. While it is mostly other men who discourage us from being emotional, plenty of women do. Hell, both my grandmothers do that to me too. They’ve both literally said to my face,”Stop crying, boys aren’t supposed to cry.” I’ve seen plenty of women and girls say,”he’s too emotional, so weak!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 01:47 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Despite what studies say, it’s women who overestimate their attractiveness, not men.Fair enough, I didn’t read that part. But you have to admit that it might not really be true that women have a lower self esteem than men because men don’t show it, and they don’t really have anyone to talk to about it. I’m not trying to say that women don’t have low self esteem, I know that a good amount do. And I really am not a woman hater, and I can see how it’s coming across like that. But I think you’re understimating how much the fact that men are not supposed to be emotional plays a huge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 01:33 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Despite what studies say, it’s women who overestimate their attractiveness, not men.I literally can not count how many times I’ve seen girls crying and self pitying over guys that cheated on them, abused them, or treated them badly or broke up with them. Whenever either I or a friend of mine has suggested to them that they maybe give an average or even an above average looking guy a chance, they’re all like “eeeww, I would never date him!” And what was the common factor between the guys they were crying over? They were very good looking. https://www.verywellmind.com/men-and-sui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 01:22 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Despite what studies say, it’s women who overestimate their attractiveness, not men.Well that may be, but you’d have to consider that maybe they know that they’re not good looking, and they’re only saying that so they can be confident and happy. Any guy who’s not at either extreme generally doesn’t have any idea of how attractive he is. Good looking men have enough experience to know that they’re attractive, so they don’t need to mention it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Despite what studies say, it’s women who overestimate their attractiveness, not men.Yea I meant to respond to the main comment lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 01:08 AM |
| -4 | CMV: Despite what studies say, it’s women who overestimate their attractiveness, not men.Women only have a lower self esteem because they can’t find a guy that fills 100% of their requirements that’s loyal to them only. A lot of women fake the low self esteem to get validation. Sure, a lot of women do have a lot of low self esteem, but for the most part, it’s self-inflicted. Plus it’s supposed to be “womanly” to not have a very high self esteem. Also, men commit suicide at higher rates than women. If anything, a lot of men have a low self esteem too, but just don’t show it because i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 01:06 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Despite what studies say, it’s women who overestimate their attractiveness, not men.Lol that study doesn’t really prove anything very groundbreaking. Most people rate themselves as a 6 or a 7, above average. The ones who are actually unattractive are overestimating, the ones who are attractive are underestimating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 12:58 AM |
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