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Effective_Elk_4719/r/seduction02/06/22 03:25 PM
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Lol. Where was I angry? I simply disagreed with the OP's claims. You can cite all the studies you want because I can tell you don't have experience with women. Pro tip: women lie...just like men. They're just better at it and better at emotional manipulation. They have to be as a result of evolution. They care just as much about looks as men, they just don't admit it because it would make them look shallow. They start to care more about resources as they get older. Don't believe me? Go create a …
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 01:50 AM
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It's more than just attention. Attractive guys get more sex too and which goes against what this dude said cuz men typically date down in terms of looks unless they're loaded.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 12:13 AM
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Have you ever created a dating profile of a Chad vs a normal average dude? If not, do that and report back. Use some pics from some fitness influencer's IG.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/24 07:40 PM
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Hypergamy
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 07:23 PM
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Because that's how the world works. Evolve or die. You're not entitled to a woman just for existing. It's not that difficult... It's called self improvement.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/24 07:48 PM
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Get his testosterone levels checked and ask if he watches porn. These two could be the culprits assuming you aren't.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 12:25 AM
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So working out & putting on muscle, maximizing your looks, increasing your social circle & influence and increasing your social skills hasn't yielded you any success in your dating life? If so, what was your FFMI in the beginning of the three years vs the end? What about your income? How about your social status - how has that improved? You're saying you crushed these areas of your life and nothing improved in your dating life?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/23 06:18 PM
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At the end of the day, you are competing against all other men for the same pool women. What have you done to improve yourself where a woman would want to date you?
/r/ExRedPill25/09/23 06:08 PM
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Yes, big surprise. Men don't want to date fatties and to take care of another man's kids or date a old ass women that can't reproduce or one that is going to give us a geriatric pregnancy. Shocking. That doesn't mean dating is just as hard for woman as it is for men. You clearly chose to listen to one part of what I wrote. Also, I never said men would find these overweight women unattractive. Majority of men are overweight too and these guys are still matching with women at or below their level …
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 10:31 PM
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When did I say women had all the options all the time? In the typical dating age, women do have all the options. Once they get to 30-35, the roles reverse assuming the man has continued to self improve in his 20s.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 07:38 PM
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She's just delusional like the majority of women doesn't know shit about dating as a man.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 07:22 PM
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It doesn't have anything to do with me personally but good attempt with the ad hominem. I'm just providing you data and countering your silly illogical posts for the OP and anyone else that wants to think about this logically. That's perfectly fine women for women to fuck whoever they want to fuck, but don't go and tell men that they're delusional when women are just out here looking for someone out of their league. Don't go and say that dating is just as hard for women as it is for men when you…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 07:16 PM
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It's not just the depressed and angry men. Women date up and across in terms of social status, income and looks whereas men typically date down in those areas unless they are abundant in any/all those areas...i.e. Hypergamy. That means a woman that's a 5 can go bang a 7 or 8 and maybe even become FWB with him. She then becomes acustomed and thinks she deserves to date this level of a man and thinks she can eventually get one in a relationship. These women will continue to do this because dating …
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 05:09 PM
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Most men don't have options. Only the top 10% of men have options. Dating app swipe stats proves this data. Go create two different dating profiles and find out. One of an average guy and another of a jacked successful dude. Whereas even average women get hundreds if not thousands of swipes. I have a friend that is in her late thirties and very average looking tell me she got 700 likes on bumble on her first day. Most dudes barely get any likes in a year.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 11:00 AM
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No, I didn't. Women date up and across in terms social status and income. This leads to them getting used for sex. A woman that is a 5 in looks & status can go sleep with a guy that is a 7 or 8 and delude herself to think that the guy is into him because they have regular sex. She'll keep doing this with different guys thinking she'll secure a long term relationship with one of em. That 7 or 8 becomes her new standard of what she expects. When in reality, she should just lock down a guy that is …
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 10:46 AM
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Women can't hide their promiscuity? Are you kidding me? Men marry loose women all the time and women lie about their body count all the time. In a small town maybe they can't hide it but most people live in a large metro area. What I said about average women isn't delusion. Go create a dating profile of a top 5% guy that is jacked and successful. Fat, obese, average, married and all sorts of women will throw themselves at that guy and say things to that guy that guy that they wouldn't for a guy …
/r/ExRedPill11/09/23 10:27 AM
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Women absolutely have more quality options too. It's because of this paradox of choice that many average looking women ends up thinking they are 10s and deserve a top 10% guy when in reality that guy was just using them for sex. Having more sexual options is absolutely a privilege for women and many of the consequences can easily be avoided.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/23 05:27 PM
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Legalize prostitution. Commoditize the price of coochie. Swiping on apps would go down. Women would start acting right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:18 PM
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Chads are disciplined? Haha. Interesting. Some guys are born with better looks and in families with more wealth. You don't think that helps in dating?
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 09:37 PM
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You're incorrect in assuming if you ask a woman out that it wouldn't go well. Women won't straight up approach typically but they will give you indicators of interest or choosing signals if they are interested in you. If they do approach and they are interested it will typically be some indirect approach where they won't explicitly show interest to have plausible deniability. Cold approach is the best way to get women apart from actually having some status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:02 PM
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It is a thing and it's directly correlated to divorce rates, STDs, pair bonding, happiness levels in marriage and more.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/22 04:34 PM
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Indeed haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 04:48 AM
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Do athletes and celebrities have more women than you or the average guy? Of course it's real.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/22 09:43 PM
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Hit the gym bro and gain some muscle and learn to dress your best and work on your grooming. Figure out the fastest way to get the highest fat free mass index. Guaranteed you will get more female sexual attention. Yes, women are attracted to men's physiques and looks. They just get so much attention from guys that they have way more options so the average guy becomes less appealing. What women say and do are often totally separate things. They don't want to appear shallow or vain so they say the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:28 PM
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Very simple. Less options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:18 AM
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Legalize prostitution to commoditize the price of coochie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:29 PM
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In general and biologically speaking, men are attracted to younger women. In practicality, it depends on the attractiveness of the guy and what he can actually get. We might also just hook up with a younger woman 18-25 but probably wouldn't consider her for something long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:13 PM
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We need to work together to legalize prostitution so men aren't so thirsty on these dating apps and the price of coochie is commoditized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:06 PM
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Lol. You definitely sound like a treat. I feel sorry for any man that has to deal with you. I've been with plenty of good women and with good women now. Take care cunt.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 08:54 PM
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Hahaha. My point doesn't have anything to do with online dating. You're making a lot BS assumptions too.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 03:36 PM
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Placed on a pedestal... Hahaha. Never placing a woman a pedestal. Any high value male wouldn't. He prioritizes himself first which he why women chase after them.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 03:49 AM
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I've fucked plenty of girls that 18-22 during my early to mid thirties...not because I had my shit together but because we both found each other attractive. Guy's in this age range aren't necessarily looking to "date" women 18-22. They are looking for hook ups and FWBs 90% of the time. 5% the time they know the girls are into them because of their money or status. Don't hate the player, hate the game. Also disagree on sharing common interests. I'm into EDM and most of the girls that go to raves …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:12 PM
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Why do you think the red pill is cult? There might be some content creators that express the concepts in a way that is difficult to digest for the average person but that doesn't mean those concepts are any less true. I don't necessarily agree with everything eahh content creator says but there some core concepts that are very important to understand. Two of the most important concepts that TRP talks about is sexual marketplace value (smv) and hypergamy. In order to maximize your dating options …
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 03:09 PM
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I get all that but I'm just telling you the dynamics of modern day dating and women. Women typically date men at or above their level in looks, money and status. It is what it is what it is. Aka Hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:56 PM
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Well you should be close having your shit together if you're a 30 yr old guy. Stable job and apartment probably at the bare minimum for most women to take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:13 PM
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Men don't care about all that if you're an attractive female and they make enough money. It's just a bonus. Being stable and having a car, apartment, a pleasant personality and some goals is probably the bare minimum for most guys if they have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:53 PM
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If he's approaching or past his 30s he's probably looking to settle down assuming he's got his shit together and wants a relationship & kids. If he's an 8 in attractiveness, he'll probably hook up with a 6 or someone that's about 2 points lower than him in attractiveness but probably wouldn't want them as a long-term partner. Since guys are usually the ones that settle, he'll probably settle with a 7 and up but ideally we wants someone on his level or above. He probably won't get an 8-10 though …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:08 PM
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Quantity doesn't mean quality but it does mean the opportunity for more quality matches. I can tell you he received likes from all sorts of women. Women that the average guy just wouldn't have access to. You're making assumptions on whether they were quality matches. And if you ask most guys, they'd be happy to be used for sex. Guys can also generally tell when the woman is only into them for their money. You're foolish to think girls won't cheat. They do so more frequently and are better at hid…
/r/ExRedPill15/09/22 01:41 AM
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Yes, most men need to work on their looks but women are also swiping on guys way out of their league. They are becoming delusional because they are equating sexual attention from attractive guys for long-term relationship potential when they are likely just there to fuck them and string them along.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:42 PM
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It depends on how you define normal people why you think that guys who get lots of girls aren't normal. Of course every guy is going to get more girls if they hit the gym and have a solid career. So sure, it's for normal people.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 03:28 PM
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There is no normal people game. You have to maximize your looks, money, status and game. Hitting the the gym and getting an education are the top things you need to focus on at your age.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 03:24 PM
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It's not really a fantasy though. Swipe stats clearly show that the top 5-10% of guys get the majority of swipes and dates. I created a fake dating profile with an attractive 38 y/o jacked white guy that owned a construction company and got 150 likes in a day. Women engaged within minutes of matching and wanting to meet and fuck the guy on the same day. Some even wanting to cheat on their husband's and others considering paying him as an escort for services. Women ranged in age, income, size, lo…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 03:18 PM
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Wasn't ugly but he wasn't like a GQ model. Slightly above average. Point being is that you don't have to have the best looking face if you got the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:54 PM
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No, I put that he was looking for a relationship. Many women wanted relationships as well. It proves that looks, money and status are the primary things that women want and that the top guys in those categories get the majority of swipes and attention from the majority of women. Also, his face wasn't all that attractive but he was pretty jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:14 PM
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Never said all attractive guys are cheaters or don't want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:14 PM
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I wouldn't say no chance. It's just far slimmer. Speaking from experience as a fairly attractive brown dude myself at 6' 225 lbs and ~15% body fat with a six figure income at almost the same age. I got about 30 likes in about a year on the same app in the same area. I don't have nearly the same of engagement from women as this Chad did. Another app I got about 80-100 likes myself over a year or so and not nearly much engagement as Chad. It's difficult to to even get a date with some of my matche…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:34 AM
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Vast majority of women. The likes were from a wide age range, never married and divorced, with and without kids, diverse set of races/ethnicities, diverse set of professions and incomes, accross the political spectrum, and ranging in attractiveness from 1-10s. You're bored because you know I'm right and I have the data to prove it. Again, these likes were from a single day of being active. You do realize that most men are lucky to get 1-2 likes over a 6 month period, correct? Don't believe me? G…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:14 AM
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I literally created a dating profile for an attractive, successful 38 y/o white man that was jacked. Within one day I had 150 likes from women ranging in age from 18-55 and about 30-40 conversations started within an hour of matching with the person. I got away with saying some of the crudest shit that no average man would get away with and women asking for dick picks, wanting to consider paying me to be an escort for $200/hr. and even one 40 y/o woman wanting to cheat on her husband. Please tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:02 AM
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Yes, absolutely true. The tables turned right around 30 when I got my first house and my making decent money & was in peak physical shape. Just hit the gym, get your money up in your 20s and max your looks/personality. Went from dating 5-6s to 7-8s. Need some status and more money to get the 9-10s and to keep em.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:05 PM
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They want all the attractive qualities of a Chad without the hoe tendencies that a Chad would develop due to his options. In short they want a man who has it all and doesn't exist or is very rare. Or they've already divorced a rich husband and want to settle down with an attractive man that doesn't necessarily have to take care of her kids because she has her ex for that along with his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:59 PM
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Not a woman but 95% of my lays (including multiple GFs) have been through cold approach and I have well above average results. It's an essential skill in any guys dating life, even if he's a Chad and can get results from OLD because it helps with conversation skills, navigating social situations and reading body language. Start with improv classes or get some sort of sales job if you're too scared to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:09 PM
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There should be a point system where you're penalized for matching with someone without engaging in a conversation. So annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:35 AM
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What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:01 PM
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You need to watch what women do instead of listening to what women say. Just like a dude can say he values health and exercise but he'll never be in the gym. Women say a lot of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 03:21 AM
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I was getting laid living at home. Vast majority of young dudes aren't and it's getting worse is the point. Sorry, I misquoted. Here is a better breakdown. https://youtu.be/ybDdsxvJqxg
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:01 PM
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I'm talking about single men. Men with kids are typically older. Men under 30 are having less sex than ever before. https://youtu.be/M9KYPqtXwGU
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:24 PM
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I don't disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:44 PM
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Exception is not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:14 PM
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Um... Most men don't get laid. It's like the top 10% of men having sex with 90% of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:31 PM
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Scroll this thread. You'll find some good take aways from another response of mine. What we understand :you're lazy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:14 PM
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It's 5 books that are hundreds of pages each. So no, I'm going sum it up for your lazy ass. Put down the barbell and pick up a book once in a while dude. Holy shit, I thought I was a meathead but you just take that shit to another level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:46 PM
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Bro, I don't have to fucking spoonfeed you. I'm not your mom. Learn what tf you're talking about before you speak on a subject and make yourself look like a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:37 PM
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Since you're a meathead, go watch More Plates More Dates appearance on Fresh and Fit YT. Hit might be able to drop a few nuggets of info for you. You can stop trolling now. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:29 PM
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Fucking egg you're lazy and dumb. You'd rather spend hours going back and forth with me than watch a 15 min video. Fuck off bro and do some basic research.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:15 PM
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Sexual marketplace value for men and women, divorce stats and fact that divorces are filed by women the majority of the time, hypergamy, biological influences on men and women in modern dating, how society programs men to be beta through pop culture (ex. Disney movies, men being portrayed as dumb bumbling idiots on TV shows such as Everybody Loves Raymond), stats on sex, pair bonding, influence of religion on modern day social dynamics, mating data in other species and how it relates to humans, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:14 PM
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https://youtu.be/MIulSbSwGmE There you go. There's a good start for you. Since you like free content and don't seem to have any argument besides that it costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:03 PM
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Dude just read fucking book and stop arguing with me. Annoying as shit. Better yet, listen to it on audible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:50 PM
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I didn't need a book to tell me that, no. But there are a ton of dudes on dating advice threads that that routinely ask for dating profile reviews when they obviously look like shit and don't even know basic hygiene. Not to mention the fact that they dress like shit and have never stepped foot in a gym. Same with a lot of dudes that get into pick up without working on their looks. So there are a bunch of dudes that need this advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:48 PM
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Jesus you still thinking TRP is about hooking up. 😂 Greek life 😂 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:35 PM
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Solid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:58 PM
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Oh, my bad. I misread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:57 PM
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You're in a frat. Makes a lot of sense. You just think TRP is about getting laid which it isn't. You are obviously broke and can't afford a $12 book because you're obviously startled with college loan debt. Got it. Anyways, you obviously don't know what tf you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:56 PM
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It's not about hooking up... More so about becoming a high value attractive man and understanding social dynamics from more of a theoretical perspective. TRP is just one part of the manosphere. The manosphere also has pick up content from the likes of content creators such as Honest Signalz. That's more practical/tactical advice. Whereas TRP has content creators like Rollo Tomassi who talks very little about cold approach and pick up but more about becoming a HV man by focusing on looks, money, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:49 PM
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How did it change your life forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:33 PM
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Well if you have such a deep understanding of dating and women then why don't you write a book and start charging for it? I mean it should apply to lots of men and help them out, right? You would make so much money based on your own logic. You have no argument on the content so let's just leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:31 PM
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He doesn't so he tries to sum it up based on his limited understanding. He's too broke to buy a $12 book and read it to make an actual legitimate point. Or even go to the library to borrow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:22 PM
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Lol. Good one. No you're just confusing all the different types of content. I've slayed more pussy in the past five years than you'll get in your life. ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:17 PM
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How do you know what works and what doesn't if you haven't read anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:16 PM
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You obviously don't know what tf you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:52 PM
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All you're doing is looking for reddit posts. Try reading The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi and argue some of his points. That would be impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:50 PM
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Tell that to the millions of men that get divorce raped and the many who end up killing themselves because they don't understand women. Tell that to all the simps getting used for their money. No one is blaming women. Whether you like it or not, most modern women don't just like you for you. Especially the hotter they get. Sorry but that's just the truth. Most relationships are somewhat transactional and not some Disney movie BS as we're lead to believe. You think most women are just going to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:47 PM
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Yeah it's actually not blaming women. It's understanding biology and so you don't get divorce raped and make better decisions with women overall, whether in dating, your social life or your career. But keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:41 PM
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Lol. "Omg, someone wrote a book that took years along with all the painstaking amount of research that went into it and it'll vastly improve my life but the only caveat is it's $12. It's all about the money. I couldn't ever invest in myself and my own education. That would mean I support this scamming author." What's your next argument? That car companies are scammers even though getting a car would help you getting to work to make more money? You're so clueless. Good luck bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:39 PM
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Jfc. A $12 book to prevent you from potentially getting divorce raped for half your assets, improve your dating life and have more success in your career.... You're right dude, you hit the nail on the head. A total scam. 🙄 Not to mention all the free content available on YouTube... That's a total scam too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:53 PM
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Yeah, sorry but your friend is the exception not the rule. Divorce largely favors women which is why lots of men off themselves afterwards since they're forced to start over. It's not about hooking up. Read The Rational Male series by Rollo Tomassi and you'll get a better understanding of TRP. The average guy doesn't doesn't know anything about hypergamy, female nature, divorce rape, gynocentrism, game, or intersexual social dynamics until its too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:46 PM
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TRP isn't about blaming women. It's about understanding women's hypergamous nature and how western society is gynocentric & favors women. Once you understand that you have no other option than self improvement to become a high value man by improving on your looks, money, status and game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:20 PM
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You don't have any idea what you're talking about. TRP is largely about understanding intersexual social dynamics and achieving the best outcomes in your dating/sex life through self improvement and understanding how society is gynocentric & favors women. You probably won't understand until you get divorce raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:15 PM
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Why is he a weirdo for talking about divorce rape? It happens all the time. Stfu if you don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:11 PM
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The kind where he is able set himself apart in his career to a get a $200k+ salary so he can fund her lifestyle and desire for luxury goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:12 PM
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It makes you more attractive as long as you are still feminine and maintain your looks.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 02:32 PM
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Not finding anything for your sub 30% claim. First time marriages result in divorce 41% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:56 PM
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Have anything that supports that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:35 PM
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Any data on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:53 PM
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Have you ever dated a woman? Lol Have you ever been in love? Holy shit I thought I was dark and nihilistic. If you're just looking to hook up with women, then yes it's probably cheaper in the long run to hire hookers or escorts. Most people are looking for more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:58 PM
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Despite the OPs jaded take on things, he's still right about all women being hypergamous. More than half those middle class men will get divorced at some point. Financial reasons (aka a man losing his job or business) will be cited as the reason for the divorce more often than not. That man is the best she could attract at that point in time. But what about when she gets that divorce settlement and gets a new set of tits and a nose job and botox? 1/2 those happily married women also have a backu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:48 PM
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I didn't paint a picture as if I'm some insane catch. It was just a reference point dummy. I slayed when I lived in the city and there were actually opportunities to do cold approach. I also got banned from tinder for no reason so that doesn't help, not that it helped me before since my results were actually from cold approach. If you're getting laid as a bigger guy, you're probably doing cold approach and you probably live in the city or area that is more densely populated or have a big social …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:01 PM
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No, it wasn't like this in the past. With the proliferation of OLD, women get an obscene amount of likes from men which they now equivicate to potential long-term partners when it is really just sexual attention and men are just looking to get laid. Even girls that are overweight or not that attractive will have Chads liking them so they now have a higher standard of what they think they can attract. This didn't exist in the past. A Chad wouldn't have approached an overweight girl at a bar back …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:47 PM
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I can tell you that it's probably much harder than you think it is. I'm a relatively attractive guy, workout 6x per week, make six figures and it is still hard. I've literally gotten 2-3 dates on hinge after about 70 matches in 6 months or so. Dating was a lot easier when I lived in the city and there were actually opportunities to do cold approach. Living in the suburbs and using OLD is significantly harder. I can only imagine how hard it is for average dudes and dudes that are socially awkward…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:10 PM
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It doesn't just happen. Men need to escalate physically 99% of the time.
/r/seduction31/05/22 05:56 PM
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Hit the gym and put on muscle. Weight training is one of the best investments a guy can make on himself. Don't lose focus on your career. Money, career and status become a huge differentiating factor in attracting women starting in your late twenties. Online dating sucks for most guys. You need to learn cold approach, build a social circle and learn game.
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:50 PM
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The second paragraph was for the OP
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:21 PM
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He should still be able to fuck em if he's hot. Girls are looking for money in a long-term relationship typically. Just create a tinder account with some professional photos. If you get lots of swipes you're probably attractive.
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:16 PM
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Instead of just acknowledging what I said and going to test it yourself or acknowledging that you might lack in the areas I mentioned, you just keep taking shots at me and keep being argumentative which obviously answers my third question. I think I've identified why you're having problems with dating. 😂 Maybe you'll do some self reflection instead of feeling attacked by something I said or calling something mysogynistic because it goes against your worldview. Unlikely though. Here's the Chris R…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:26 PM
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It's not just the benefit of the man but men generally have 10x-20x the testosterone so our sex drives are way higher. Go get your testosterone level measured by a doc and then inject your self with 20x that amount. That's really the only way to get some sort of understanding on what it's like to be a man. Never said anyone was entitled to it. Men have a higher caloric intake requirement. We like to eat and it's an easy way to satisfy men. The power of the pot by Chris Rock...look it up on YouTu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:47 PM
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Because men have it infinitely more difficult in dating. Women literally just have to put out once in a while, make a decent dish once or twice a week, not be in a caloric surplus over an extended period of time and have a mildly tolerable personality to keep a man. For the majority of men, some of these requirements aren't even necessary for their lady. Women literally need to ask a few questions to keep a man around... 1. How often do I drain his balls? 2. How often do I fill his stomach? 3. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:59 PM
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Look into a raw food diet. It's supposed to reverse diabetes. Also, his testosterone levels are probably starting to decline. Go have him get bloodwork done and look into his T levels along with a complete hormone assessment including his thyroid function. If his T levels are low he can look at TRT.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 05:47 PM
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https://igotstandardsbro.com/
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:09 PM
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No. Just above average depending on your age.
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:24 PM
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Rich guys also get hot girls more often than not.
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:56 AM
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Thanks wetBot!
/r/seduction15/05/22 10:59 AM
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In other news, water is wet.
/r/seduction15/05/22 10:58 AM
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Men have to work more cuz women want a certain level of lifestyle. They want to keep up with the Jones. Financial issues are often cited as of the primary reasons for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:12 PM
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He's being honest with his feelings and you don't have to take offense to what he said. Just acknowledge what you need to work on and talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel about what he said. As someone with adhd myself, I know that I can do things that annoy my partner and others around me. If you don't already, try to exercise and mediate early in morning. This has helped me tremendously by making me more present and way less chaotic and spacy in my thoughts. Try journaling as well to ge…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/22 09:09 PM
1

So everyone that approaches you is desperate? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:27 PM
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Why don't you get approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 07:24 PM
1

Check your testosterone levels
/r/seduction11/05/22 09:42 PM
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Because women are incentivized to divorce men and take half their shit. Especially if they have a better backup which is the case the majority of the time. If a man cheats, usually it's because the woman stopped putting out or started using sex to get what she wants (control) so men start looking for intimacy elsewhere. Marriage and divorce favors women and there is very little reason for a man to get married besides kids and consistent sex. Most men are simps these days and don't ever consider …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 06:06 PM
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I think they understand. They just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:15 PM
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Just take a couple of shots before engaging with the girl physically. It will get you out of your head a bit. Don't get wasted though. After you start making out and feeling her body just start kissing her neck and work your way down to her breasts and remove her shirt and bra. Lick those titties and keep kissing her up and down from her stomach to her lips for 10-15 minutes. If she doesn't remove her pants after that then it's up to you. Slide off both her pants and undies in a single swoop. St…
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:46 PM
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Only solution is to come to my gym and start looking at me 😜
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:52 AM
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https://youtu.be/jPuQ1Wjd2Rk There is a good starting point but I'm sure you can do some research.
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:38 AM
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It's not even 80/20 though. It's literally like 95/5 based on swiping stats.
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:25 AM
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Because it's not really men's fault and there is only so much a man can do. Unless he's in the top 5% of men, online dating probably isn't working for him. Men need to stop swiping on every chick and gassing up their ego.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:13 PM
0

Legalize prostitution
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:10 PM
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Not true. Women only swipe on 5% of guys. They're literally just chasing same select pool of guys. I'm in the top 15% in terms of looks and income and while I do get a decent amount of matches, most of those end up going nowhere. I've had way more success with cold approach. Online dating is trash for most men.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:02 PM
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It's happening but the only thing that can be down is to better ourselves and work to legalize prostitution to level the playing field.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:55 PM
1

Old approach is the only way to get any real success unless you're in the top 5% of men on dating apps.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:52 PM
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Dating apps suck for men unless you're in the 5% that women are actually swiping on. I've had way more success with cold approach. Not much we can do other than get our money and looks up as much as possible.
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:51 PM
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Which was addressed further in the thread. Get a life. Done with your lame ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 07:02 PM
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You apparently know know the stats better than me so quit beating around the bush, genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:56 PM
1

Wtf are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:51 PM
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As a man if you're not getting as much or more sex than when you were single then you should question why you're in relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:46 PM
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Kind of assumed when the conversation was about men getting enough sex. Of course men with an SO would have more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:03 PM
1

It's like 10-20% if I recall correctly. Single males on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:52 PM
0

Disagree. Stats say that only about 10% of men are getting sex. After sex, most guys just want silence. Don't get me wrong, cuddling and pillow talk are great with someone you love and care about but I think most guys could do without it if they just got laid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:24 PM
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It's only creepy in your head. I've hooked up with girls within 15-30 minutes of meeting them in broad daylight. You need to build rapport with the girl and chat her up before you just ask her for her number. Even better would be an instadate with the girl.
/r/seduction05/05/22 05:19 PM
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Fuck IG unless you have a baller lifestyle which isn't the majority of men. You become a follower aka beta simp orbiter by definition if you follow her on IG. No need to wait around and "chat her up" first. She knows you're interested in her so you shouldn't beat around the bush and then be like "surprise, I have a dick and I want to put it inside you."
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:13 PM
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Legalize prostitution. This would commodditize sex and thus drive the price down. Men looking for just sex could get it fairly easily and wouldn't swipe right on every single woman on dating apps which would thus deflate women's exorbitant egos and they wouldn't have to filter through the hoards of men that liked them on an each app. Only men seeking a relationship and a genuine connection would be on dating apps. This would level the playing field dramatically. Give men the option to not provid…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:54 PM
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I've had decent success with day game including hooking up with girls within 30 minutes of meeting them. Time of day and location are key along with doing instadates and proximity to your place. If you're doing it during office work hours or when girls are on lunch or in a rush to be somewhere then you'll have less success. Find locations where girls aren't in a rush to be somewhere. Ex. Taking a walk around a popular lake in the evening during the work week or a brewery in the afternoons on wee…
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:51 PM
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Not true. It's just not your turn or you're not hot enough or don't have enough money.
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:47 AM
1

You're 18 and have performance issues? Go see a specialist man. That doesn't sound normal for your age.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:19 PM
1

They're Chad's in terms of looks but maybe they don't have as much money or status as the next guy.
/r/seduction27/04/22 10:33 PM
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Even Chad's swipe right on girls that aren't up to their level in looks just to get laid. This is why women have such an ego these days. They are confusing sexual attention with something more.
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:42 PM
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You forgot money. Making more money never hurts. Looks, game, money and status. Guys need to focus on improving in these categories in that order.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:31 PM
1

Lmao. I guess it's all relative. Not having standards will just leave you & her unhappy and likely get you taken advantage of. I'll hit a thick chick and get some dome but I'm not going to entertain any sort of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:19 PM
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It shouldn't really be a fear at all. Of course men want sex and this isn't going to change. Women literally to do the bare minimum to get and keep a man. Put out for 25 minutes a month, learn to cook a few decent meals, hit the gym a couple times a week and not go into a caloric surplus, be faithful, and maintain a positive attitude/personality. Why is that so difficult? If a woman is between a 5-10 in looks and single after 30, there are some red flags there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:13 PM
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Money makes the ugliest men attractive and turns fuckboys to boyfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:16 PM
1

There is literally no point for a man to get married in the west these days except for kids and even then it's still risky. Women initiate divorce about 78% of the time and it's usually triggered by a financial situation change such as a man losing his job or business or the woman getting a promotion and making more than the man. Men are finally starting to see women's nature and the fact that marriage doesn't benefit them, especially if they have a decent amount of financial resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:56 PM
1

You know why men wear jewelry? Because it signals resources and status which is something women chase. We wouldn't wear it if it didn't just like women wouldn't wear makeup or have revealing pics on their IG if it didn't get the attention of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:34 PM
1

You're talking about simps. Not a man with options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:29 PM
1

Sex appeal doesn't increase for guy's after their thirties
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 06:45 PM
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It's usually when they'll see their testosterone decline and looks will slowly decline. In terms of earnings and status, generally that will continue to go up as they get older of course but in terms of the complete package of looks, money and status (I.e. Overall attractiveness to women) that is around the age that they'll peak. What makes you think otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:28 PM
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Source for the autism/ds? I've heard stats like that based on women's age but not men's. Porn induced ED can probably be resolved with no fap I'd guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:09 PM
1

It's way less gradual than egg quality deterioration. Majority of the time it's not even an issue for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:05 PM
1

Interested
/r/RedPillBooks12/04/22 03:05 PM
1

Because of alcohol, partying, not hitting the gym, demanding/stressful jobs and a decrease in testosterone. But those that have been hitting the gym constantly are generally going to look better than a guy in his twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:54 PM
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Yes, men peak around 36 in terms of sexual market place value and women peak around 22. So a man in his early to mid thirties that has maximized his looks, money and status has access and higher likelihood of dating women in their prime than a man that is 40 even though he may have more financial resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:48 PM
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Can't we get prostitution legalized to lower the price of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:46 AM
1

Look up Andrew Tate on YouTube and watch some of his videos
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:53 PM
1

I understand the BS that women have to go through with dating but if you were to ask the majority of women if they would rather be a guy, the vast majority of them would say no. Why? Because they know how to weaponize sex and get what they want. Even they do get what they want, it's not going to be enough. If the richest guys in the world are getting divorce raped then what chance does the average guy have to be in a happy successful marriage/relationship long-term? This is why prostitution shou…
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:25 PM
6

Right? I couldn't imagine the pressure I'd be in in his position with two kids already and supporting her at the same time.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 08:42 PM
3

Women say a lot of shit. Watch what they do, not what they say. They just don't want to seem vain or superficial if they say they don't want a dude that's jacked. Or they don't have a healthy lifestyle themselves and don't want to put in the work and change their shitty lifestyle. I.e. Eating healthy, less partying and reducing their alcohol consumption, working out, etc. Remember, some of these creatures are shaving their eyebrows and drawing it back on. Don't expect most of them to be logical …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:14 PM
2

Depression and lack of motivation may be a result of low testosterone. Have you noticed less libido since you started dating him? Go have him get bloodwork done and look into TRT. SSRIs often make things worse. Higher testosterone has been shown to correlated to more alpha behaviors. Even doctors don't bother to check your hormone levels if you tell them that you are depressed. They'll just give you a SSRI. After you get bloodwork done, you need to have him talk to a specialist/endocrinologist w…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 02:23 AM
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