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It's because of her emotions and hormones Girls when they get their period change how they feel, they are more moody, sad, emotional so sometimes they get away from things
/r/seduction25/10/25 10:33 PM
2

All I'm saying is that you will desire to live like you used to because you're used to it and will be a struggle most likely
/r/seduction25/10/25 10:31 PM
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I don't have any intentions. I plain and simply don't eat pussy and I think no man should be eating pussy
/r/seduction25/10/25 08:38 PM
1

Miami is awful for dating. Every girl is a goldigger
/r/seduction25/10/25 08:32 PM
-21

I never eat pussy. Not for any girl.
/r/seduction25/10/25 08:19 PM
1

That's the case for many men. What would be the effect on your children and potential wife?
/r/seduction25/10/25 08:04 PM
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Pretty much, on the opposite side there are men that never experienced more than 1 woman wondering what it's like to be with many No matter what you'll feel regret
/r/seduction25/10/25 05:27 PM
2

Right because men get old too and eventually want families and of course they want it with 1 woman so suddenly they find a barrier that they didn't have before, having to deal with one woman for the rest of their lives.
/r/seduction25/10/25 04:30 PM
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Yeah no shit. Because you're meeting every girls demands in that 5 type list. All of them want some of investment so of course they will be happy when you give them something you probably even give them money.
/r/seduction25/10/25 04:28 PM
3

I wouldn't be friends with such a piece of shit woman. Fuck that.
/r/seduction25/10/25 04:25 PM
1

She can be fully interested in you but have feminist ideologies and demand shit from you.
/r/seduction25/10/25 04:25 PM
5

Yup it's like saying to a woman "be masculine, raise your voice and show him you don't need him!" it may sound good to the women but it's awful advice Same thing with crying to women, it's a feminine behavior thats inherently repulsive and weak to them
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 06:39 PM
6

It's a good thing brother. You found a genuine connection, marry that girl and get to making babies now, dont waste time.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 06:36 PM
-2

You pussied out she was giving you the opportunity to open her but you acted weird and rejected her by ignoring her so naturally she got mad
/r/seduction07/10/25 01:12 AM
19

large breasts and a slim waist are a rarity and everything looks good
/r/seduction04/10/25 03:27 PM
1

So you approach them thinking of filtering for girls that would fuck in a few hours and if she proves she's not gonna fuck in a few hours you skip her
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:54 PM
30

salesmen are the best seducers, I've seen it
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:53 PM
1

good to see new meetups keep it up
/r/seduction15/09/25 10:33 PM
6

Just because she's texting you doesnt mean anything. Try to actually fuck her and you'll see if you got her or not, I bet you wont
/r/seduction13/09/25 12:27 PM
-17

just saying that few men approached luckly most men arent brave but yeah it comes with the fact that you had a super hot gf, why did you break up? at least get her pregnant
/r/seduction11/09/25 12:30 AM
144

for every one that approached, hundreds thought about it but never did
/r/seduction11/09/25 12:13 AM
1

Move to ghana or nigeria, those places will be great for you
/r/seduction06/09/25 09:48 PM
1

"How long should I wait until I send a message to start another conversation" Dont be afraid, just contact her right away and see how fast she responds. Maybe she takes a couple hours, give it 30 minutes after each responde of hers or so and get used to her pace to respond calmly
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:53 PM
7

Young men that have no programming have the same fear, so it's natural to have that anxiety around approaching girls
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:47 PM
9

that's a good point, make it casual as if "it just happened"
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:46 PM
21

There's a difference between regular friends and those that want to do daygame and have an improvement mentality For most people thats not easy to find
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:45 PM
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Btw those are people in the same skill level as you. Literally in any city.
/r/seduction31/08/25 01:11 PM
1

Get a wingman. Tell me what city you are and I'll get you friends that will not only give you confidence but make the whole process so enjoyable you wont want it to stop. You'll get the hottest girl and you'll feel extremely confident after it.
/r/seduction31/08/25 12:57 PM
1

So do you stay in the set? How would you manage it
/r/seduction29/08/25 10:17 PM
10

The ONLY thing that helped me was to go out with other dudes to do daygame. You lose all fear when you got your buddy with you
/r/seduction27/08/25 01:27 AM
0

"with real women you won’t need all this" you seem to think women are only either 10 perfect or 0 useless. It's not that black or white
/r/TheRedPill26/08/25 03:58 PM
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yeah annoying your girl into obedience works, I've done it. But it's not optimal nobody wants to deal with that shit
/r/TheRedPill26/08/25 09:05 AM
4

If I'm paying her to clean, she must be paying me to work
/r/TheRedPill26/08/25 09:04 AM
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Well it depends on how she means it. To me everything that is insulting me is disrespectful. She could be playful and make fun of one of your attributes but that's just mean and disrespectful and if you take it as a joke you may pass the test, but at the same time you may not want to deal with that bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/25 10:50 PM
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Don't deal with rebellious women. Half the battle is solved right there, some women are not gonna make you fight at every decision. And it's not the man's fault for her acting wrong when she's been corrected that's such a bullshit statement. Do better.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/25 07:57 PM
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Bonus: how to daygame women with a boss-employee dynamic When daygaming a girl you start the approach with a normal opener, as long as it's calibrated and calm it will work. "Hey I saw you walking around, you look interesting what brings you to this place?" Here's how the correct dynamic looks like: - She laughs at your jokes - She gets closer to you to hear you better - She grabs your hand when you offer it And here's the wrong dynamic: - You tell he she's perfect, she tell you "do you meet man…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/25 06:59 PM
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You are on point brother
/r/TheRedPill24/08/25 06:53 PM
1

Just do a double date, walk around the park and then play board games at home and fuck your girl
/r/seduction24/08/25 05:24 PM
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Awful frame by the guy "You're too hot you're amazing" he's putting her so above him she can't even look at him with respect Women wont fuck with men beneath them
/r/seduction24/08/25 03:03 PM
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Be chill, invite them to your place, play games where you can escalate like truth or dare. That's it.
/r/seduction23/08/25 10:22 PM
1

you start conversations, then you ask them out it's that simple
/r/seduction20/08/25 08:30 PM
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"about a guy, that is basically dangling a carrot right in front of her face" brother that's the KEY of game. Get girls to chase you, dangle your attention, your approval in front of them and give them some when they behave
/r/seduction20/08/25 05:38 PM
1

You don't need more reading you need more doing. Wake up
/r/seduction19/08/25 01:43 PM
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okay? so what's the point of your post if you have it figured it out? The dude is saying that just talk to people literally that's all it takes
/r/seduction19/08/25 10:41 AM
2

The more time you spend being yourself and dressing properly, the more comfortable you'll feel Also hang around dudes that also dress classy and you'll both laugh at how bad people dress looking like shit
/r/seduction18/08/25 12:19 PM
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why not both?
/r/seduction17/08/25 01:19 PM
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Being preselected by women is one of the strongest ways to attract more women. When a woman sees you with a girl she will be 100 times more likely to like you.
/r/seduction16/08/25 09:17 PM
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the law is extremely anti-men because of feminists
/r/seduction14/08/25 07:58 AM
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Its okay we all go through it. Next time just say "hi how are you doing" as an automatic default opener
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:15 AM
0

that doesn't mean you should let her do whatever and not watch her, pay attention to her social media
/r/TheRedPill13/08/25 08:45 AM
0

was she alone? or was she 100% of the time with her family, you'd never know. I'd start watching her new followers on ig
/r/TheRedPill13/08/25 07:50 AM
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"she was going on a trip" yeah bro good luck with that she's getting it from someone else she was messed up from the beginning and you didn't see it
/r/TheRedPill13/08/25 07:42 AM
1

Why are you asking? You are afraid of doing it but you know it in fact works very well Just grab your balls, realize you're a man and you make shit happen and talk to that girl passing by you
/r/seduction09/08/25 11:40 PM
1

you're right
/r/seduction07/08/25 09:39 PM
2

I found something that works to connect with other wingmen and groups: Start a daygame group on meetup dot com. I got like 10 people messaging me ready to approach
/r/seduction07/08/25 02:49 PM
2

You spent literal decades being afraid of people (from the day you were born) and just 8 months where you made an effort to change that Give yourself time. You were raised to avoid human contact which is terrible in so many ways. Now you're in a place where you can finally connect with other people without those barriers Keep it going as your new personality and realize that you choose who you want to be.
/r/seduction07/08/25 02:47 PM
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Bro all you gotta do it approach, talk and escalate. Many women simple won't talk at all but they will follow your lead, those are shy women. Simply continue to escalate and move to your place if that's what you want
/r/seduction07/08/25 12:42 PM
2

post-menopause women
/r/seduction07/08/25 12:40 PM
3

yeah those girls are usually aggressively pursuing men so they are way easier than a younger one
/r/seduction07/08/25 12:40 PM
3

she basically chose him and all he had to do was approach, tho it takes balls and attention to notice it
/r/seduction07/08/25 12:39 PM
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you should say be your BEST self. Meaning a person can be lazy or put in the work to go out and train and become better. That person is being himself, but he actively chooses to be better, to become his BEST self
/r/seduction07/08/25 12:38 PM
1

chicago is dangerous that´s why
/r/seduction04/08/25 12:25 PM
2

I say keep doing it until you grow a thicker skin and can deal with that, it requires personal growth to not care what others think
/r/seduction03/08/25 10:50 PM
1

Madrid is excellent, you'll love it
/r/seduction19/07/25 05:26 PM
0

keep dreaming, it does NOT happen like that anywhere in the world
/r/seduction19/07/25 05:25 PM
1

i'm not even american
/r/seduction19/07/25 01:37 AM
1

keep lying to yourself, the best way is to setup some kind of event where 90% are hot women and they are having fun with only 10% men, that creates real competition and makes them easy as drinking water
/r/seduction18/07/25 08:45 PM
5

See, it's a massive personal growth to come out of the inner shell that keeps humans isolated It's all about connecting with other people that make you more accepting of what other people believe, and it's the best way to create real connections For me tho I find it hard still because I gotta warm up significantly and practice lots of times until it starts working, I guess its like that for everybody
/r/seduction13/07/25 02:32 PM
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They are polite but reserved They will smile and talk to you at first, but you'll have a very hard time getting them on a date, to open up or to develop a relationship since it takes months
/r/seduction12/07/25 12:21 PM
1

They would love it until they realize how messed up it is, and how much neediness it shows
/r/seduction10/07/25 02:26 AM
8

Escalate as soon as possible. Get touchy hug them, grab them by the hand in a playful way. If they reject your advances, do not continue. But you gotta escalate physically, no need to have sexual talk at all.
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:07 AM
6

true, letting them wonder about who you are, trying to unwrap the gift of your person is an amazing feeling as if they "get you" once they discover who you are
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:03 AM
50

Well imagine this: a girl is showing intense desire to go out with you, she's texting you 3 messages every 1 message you send, she's inviting you over at every conversation you have and she's responding instantly to every message and wont stop trying to see you all the time, at every second You'd be turned off by that. Too much intensity, it doesn't feel comfortable like someone is showing themselves to your life. I had a gf that texted me constantly in an extremely needy way, you can feel it an…
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:02 AM
8

models also says be honest and true aka show interest and intention
/r/seduction08/07/25 11:52 PM
1

Exactly I had so many times where girls match with me but they start giving all sorts of excuses. Like 3, 4, 5 times and even more. Girls don't really care unless you're the best match she ever had (unlikely). So now I don't waste my time, because I know that asking them over and over and over feels like shit to me, and it goes nowhere.
/r/seduction08/07/25 07:31 PM
6

That's right. Get fit, show off with revealing clothes
/r/seduction08/07/25 06:41 PM
12

IF you go slow with a woman, you'll miss her. You're just one match out of millions they have. If you "take things slow" and don't push for a date in person in 1 week she will completely forget you and she wont ever remember your name. By that point the connection is dead. So push for the date, don't spend time building any comfort just logistics and ask her out twice. If she gives you shit then drop her. I'd say 80% of women are headaches nowadays and they aren't worth your time. Would you make…
/r/seduction08/07/25 06:13 PM
19

Thats right women are attracted to muscles. When you have them, show em.
/r/seduction06/07/25 07:03 PM
3

Create curiosity. Tell her things without being clear on what you're doing. For instance: "I'm working on such an interesting project I can't wait to show you when it's done" "You won't believe what I discovered about you yesterday" Or straight up assume things about her: "I bet you love the squid game series" if you're right she will be surprised and ask herself "how does he know?" if you're wrong she will be curious "why is he asking me this, did he see my netflix account, does he know someone…
/r/seduction30/06/25 05:56 PM
2

Cord approach is not easy, nor efficient. Yet it gets results. That's guaranteed. For some it may take 10 approaches to find a girl that likes them, for others it may take 100 or 200. It all develops are you grow used to talk to new people.
/r/seduction30/06/25 03:49 PM
3

Just start asking her questions, assume things about her. Literally anything you'd say to your friends or family "do you go here often", "I love it how your hair looks today", "I think you look awesome I'd love to meet you for a date" Just basic conversation and ask her out for a date right there or another day if her availability won't allow. So it goes: - Hey what's up - Figure out basic information about her, like her name, job or hobbies - See if she's available for a date now or later and s…
/r/seduction29/06/25 05:20 PM
4

Gotta have thick skin, let things slide, let the emotions cool down and not let them interfiere That's key to cold approach
/r/seduction29/06/25 03:18 PM
101

Walk outside. See pretty girl. Think to yourself "This is the last time I'll see her". And say "Hi what's up". Let the conversation go from there. Repeat 5 times per day.
/r/seduction29/06/25 11:34 AM
11

Meet women with good intentions. Don't go at it expecting something. Your expectations should be limited to "she seems interesting let's see who she is" and then talk to girls you see on the street until you find the one. You'll know.
/r/seduction29/06/25 10:10 AM
0

Set your focus on what the Lord has brought you here for. He doesn't want you endlessly chase an impossible goal. Find what's your true purpose by asking God.
/r/seduction29/06/25 10:09 AM
1

brother you're 37, it's time to settle. And I'm 30 and I feel old
/r/seduction28/06/25 06:31 PM
20

I don't think so. Unless she's influenced by the wrong people on social media
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:38 PM
134

Dude you got a super conservative girl, you got extremely lucky because she'll be loyal and family minded. This is your chance to build a family and stop the bullshit games
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:11 PM
3

Travelling videos showing the place
/r/seduction24/06/25 09:29 PM
1

Ig is kinda hit or miss. Some girls respond to the messages, specially if they have low followers but in Spain its next to impossible for a girl to respond to an instagram Dm and they go nowhere
/r/seduction24/06/25 07:37 PM
10

Best methods. One thing that worked unbelievably good for me was making tiktoks. Some of them got quite some views and got a ton of numbers just from that
/r/seduction24/06/25 07:22 PM
26

How are you dating them, what's your lead source
/r/seduction24/06/25 07:19 PM
6

girls would dm him, that's the key, I'd say most men dont get dmd first
/r/seduction22/06/25 01:38 AM
1

Well brother start by walking slower. Then practice looking at the girls you see. Then just keep your eyes on her and walk up to her. There's no secret, you have to actually walk and talk that's ALL.
/r/seduction19/06/25 08:43 PM
-13

Don't deal with feminists. They are fucked up in their heads. Too many of them in Spain
/r/seduction19/06/25 08:04 PM
1

congrats
/r/seduction15/06/25 10:16 PM
1

Never ever ever ask for a kiss, much less on the cheek You know you made that mistake so you won't repeat it. The right way is this: - You turn your face to her - You slowly use your hand to rotate her face (very gently without force) to get her ready for the kiss - Then you get your lips closer to her and kiss her slowly and without any pressure KEYS: - Don't lean in, you will be likely pushing your entire body on her, be mindful of that and let her come to you, all you do is move your face clo…
/r/seduction14/06/25 08:47 PM
2

If anything I fucked with 4 virgins and they turned amazing in bed. It’s about the girl. One of them was bad because she had some trauma around it but the others were amazing
/r/TheRedPill25/08/24 06:26 AM
3

Well fucking said
/r/TheRedPill25/08/24 06:15 AM
1

EVERY girl I’ve been with has felt bad when I didn’t cum. That is a good way to get her crazy over you
/r/TheRedPill25/08/24 05:54 AM
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