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How can you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:14 PM
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I mean half the women in this thread are disagreeing with you and saying it’s a dealbreaker to be a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:38 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:08 AM
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Good for you! Does your partner meet everything on your list? Most of what you listed is normal but I feel like some are very particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:27 PM
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What did you start doing differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:07 PM
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Same boat, 30 yr old, never been in a relationship, virgin ect. Its taken me a long, long time to actually internalize but our value doesnt come from women or anyone else validating us. I wont lie and say it hasnt been difficult though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:54 PM
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I’m just more attracted to tall women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:08 PM
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I would prefer it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:34 PM
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It just depends on how well you take care of yourself and how feminine you are. I’m a nurse, I work with a large group of women between 18 and 60, the woman I’m most attracted to is 38. She looks her age as well but is still beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:02 PM
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I’m 29 and in the same boat. I’ve found a small amount of comfort in some hobbies; weight lifting, drawing, archery, reading, camping. I understand better than the other commenters why you’re thinking of dying and I’m not going to lie and tell you it doesn’t make sense, but maybe live a little before you die
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:33 PM
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Respectfully disagree. Being rejected by the opposite sex is the ultimate rejection, it’s saying your genes are not worth passing on. Something is wrong with people who completely fail at dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:30 PM
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Not really, this is the end result of being an unwanted man. I’ve found better ways to distract myself (so far) from being unwanted, but I’d be lying to say I hadn’t considered killing myself, it’s a logical outcome to come to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:22 PM
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Most of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:19 PM
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I prefer tall women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:37 PM
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God those videos are sad. I also don’t understand how people like the first guy in the first video can be such unapologetic assholes on camera. How are you not embarrassed doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:35 PM
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I believe you and I’m not saying women don’t get less attractive as they age because everybody does, I’m just pointing out that the only reason some men get really gleeful about “the wall” is because they’re angry at women. Why else would you really care about older women getting rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:13 PM
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Speaking from a male perspective, the men who are obsessed with the wall have been rejected by women and need to believe that eventually those women who rejected them will be as unhappy as they are now. Men in fulfilling relationships are not obsessed with the “wall”, because they never end up on redpill or Mgtow sites in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:21 PM
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Not really? If a really overweight woman started getting attention after she lost weight and learned to apply makeup, should she take it personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:30 PM
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Damn 20 kg is a lot of weight, I don’t what else you’ve done to improve your dating life but if you have will to lose that and get through med school and residency I feel like it shouldn’t be impossible to get a woman, even if it is later in life, good luck man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:04 PM
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Do you plan to completely give up on dating? I assume you must make good money but not have very much time. Sorry if I'm being nosy, I'm just curious about other people like myself, I guess its just hard to imagine a surgeon who's maxed out his looks and social life being unable to get a relationship. But as an older virgin I also understand just getting discouraged by failure and giving up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:45 PM
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Yeah I understand that actually. I’m just curious because I’m on the fence about giving up on dating, do you feel like you’ve tried everything you can to get a woman? I always assumed that on online dating being a doctor/surgeon would get a little more attention than normal guys, but I don’t really know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:12 PM
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I’m in the same boat as you, 29 yr old virgin and also in healthcare, so I’m not judging at all, but doesn’t being a surgeon give you a little bit of a leg up in dating? Surely you must get a confidence boost from it, becoming a surgeon is a huge accomplishment, I burned out on pre med in college and went the nursing route eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:31 PM
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Also a single RN, same plan
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:23 AM
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I feel like most of the people here genuinely don’t talk to people in real life and learn everything they now about human interaction from redpill podcasts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:59 AM
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Anecdotally women at work have been nicer to me since another woman was willing to set me up with her sister, I don’t know if this the pre selection thing or not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:28 PM
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Slightly imperfect teeth, also height in women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:42 AM
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I need to move to Netherlands, I love tall women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:37 PM
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Honestly man good for you. I think a lot of people on this sub give themselves a sort of brain rot reading too much of this “pill theory”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:23 AM
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I wish men would stop harassing women in public, murdering their wives/gf’s, raping women, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:58 PM
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Harsh but true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:26 AM
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I discovered it for a little bit in 2016 when “return of kings” was in the news. The tough love, self improvement stuff was appealing but I was never impressed with it or felt like it was revealing any secret truths about women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:52 PM
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I’m 27, about to be 28. I guess it was always just intense social anxiety and a vicious cycle of low self esteem when I was younger, even though there were women interested in me. At this point in time I’m just struggling to meet single women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:34 PM
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Obviously Ghenghis Khan
/r/seduction12/10/22 09:35 PM
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I got hugged when I was young but my dad and male family stopped hugging me after I was around 10 and my mom and I stopped hugging when I was a teenager, so hugs are very memorable to me, I can recall all the ones I got in the last year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:48 PM
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Sure we can talk, I’m always wanting to talk to people who improved their social skills or life. How did you become “less depressed” or socially awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:48 PM
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I am a little depressed, but this sub is mostly just Jerry springer style entertainment. I’m a very socially awkward man so I don’t judge anybody else very harshly, but I’m really curious if then people who post here interact with others in real life at all because they’re descriptions of people make it seem like they only know about other people from what they’ve read on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:44 PM
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I’m the same age as you but I’m struggling to let go completely and go my own way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:30 PM
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It’s mostly low self esteem, fear of rejection, fear of getting in some kind of hr trouble at work because all the women I know are from work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 02:14 PM
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I just have a very antisocial lifestyle and I’m not photogenic enough to succeed with online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:01 PM
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That’s really interesting do you know where I can read this research?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:37 PM
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I’m in the same boat, I think it’s just hard for normal people with normal social lives to comprehend how someone can go through life without dating at all. We are technically outliers, so we are “weird” in that sense
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:28 AM
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Thank you, I need actual, actionable advice. I feel like most of the stuff here is about building confidence, which is good but I’m not sure it’s enough
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:22 PM
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Thank you for answering
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:17 PM
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Oh ok, was it hard to move on emotionally from one boyfriend to another so quickly though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:51 PM
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That’s pretty interesting to me, do you literally mean you haven’t spent a single day single, or do you mean you spent a few weeks between relationships? I’m sorry if that’s a stupid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:53 AM
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I had the same experience, it came so easy and naturally to my dad, uncles, and brother they just assumed I must be avoiding women by choice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:57 PM
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Any overly broad generalization about women that are loosely based on truth. I.E. anything about hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:14 AM
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I don’t follow, what are you trying to imply here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:24 PM
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Yes, I’m not attracted to most of the women I meet anyways. I’m about to start a job in nursing and so I’ll mostly make new friends with women hopefully
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:22 PM
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Well I’m a 27 yr old virgin so I’ve already failed so far, it doesn’t really look like much is going to change in the future. I just finished nursing school so maybe I’ll meet more women at work or something but most of the women I meat are taken. My plan is just to focus on my hobbies, save up money, and travel as much as I can. I hope I can just distract myself and keep myself as busy as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:39 AM
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That’s fair. That would be ideal for me to I’ve just given up trying to find a virgin at my age
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:33 PM
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Is it for religious reasons or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:24 PM
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I think that’s a large part of it, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:38 PM
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I’ve never had a manicure before and it’s been a while since I’ve pet an animal. I remember a year ago I had a massage expecting a relief from skin hunger and not feeling relieved after. Then a few days later I had a medical exam where the np briefly touched my shoulder in a friendly way and it lifted the cloud of depression for a few days when I thought about it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:52 PM
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They’re not bad suggestions, but unfortunately the massages never really helped me feel less skin hunger for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:42 PM
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I’ve been making a lot of friends with girls going to nursing school. Have you thought about nursing school?
/r/seduction03/11/21 02:31 PM
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I’ll thank you for the advice, I’ll probably go back to dance classes again someday, I’ve done a little ballroom but I’d like to try Tango and salsa
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:18 AM
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Thank you, your the only person who gave me advice I haven’t heard before, everyone else basically said “just have sex”. I have danced and done martial arts and I work out daily, maybe I just need to remind myself that I’m better than my shitty internal monologue. Your also the 10th person this week to recommend CBT, so I’m going to try to find some books and videos to help me out
/r/seduction29/09/21 12:29 AM
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Do you mind elaborating on how telling her you had a pain in your groin led to sex?
/r/seduction28/09/21 11:16 PM
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I’m in nursing school so yes I have a a lot of normal conversations with women
/r/seduction25/09/21 08:44 PM
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Thanks again for the advice, when you say fundamentals are you referring to the stuff in the side bar of the sub?
/r/seduction17/06/21 05:17 PM
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Thanks a lot for taking time to answer, I’m currently working as hard as I can on self improvement but that only takes you so far. Do you mind if I ask what kind of social settings you met women and how you approached them? I get so much conflicting advice on when/how to approach women and it usually amounts to “women don’t want to be bothered by men anywhere”
/r/seduction17/06/21 12:04 PM
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Do you mind if I ask how old you were, and how you got a partner in the first place?
/r/seduction17/06/21 11:31 AM
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Male, I wouldn’t be in this position if I was a woman
/r/seduction17/06/21 11:30 AM
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Most of the women I meet in school are all really friendly, at worst they’re a little aloof. I’ve only ever met one woman who matched red pills description of “all women” and she had serious issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:17 PM
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Honestly I’ve embraced this thinking to, to a slightly lesser extent and I’m much, much happier
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 08:06 PM
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One of the best memes I’ve seen here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:49 PM
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I’ve never gotten into porn, so I guess I don’t have any weird preconceptions of what sex should be. I work out a lot and do cardio for my endurance, I try to be as empathetic as I can I guess and understand basic female anatomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:10 AM
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0 25 male 0 and 0 4 introvert 0. I wish I had any experience with women casual sex or whatever else, but I’d prefer a long term relationship I think I’m higher in openness
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:05 PM
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Honestly no, I never felt lied to. Going back to middle school, I constantly heard girls gushing over conventionally attractive celebrities and boys at school. The logical conclusion was that women are as shallow as men and that seemed fair to me, boys were attracted to conventionally attractive girls. That’s why I don’t get the red pill, it’s selling common sense stuff to extremely naive men as some kind of conspiracy theory where most well adjusted men already know women are attracted to heigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:45 PM
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I personally don’t want any pity, I find it condescending. I just don’t want to be shamed or judged for my lack of experience and it cuts deeper when it comes from a women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 01:23 AM
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I’m a straight 25m, even when I was in the middle of puberty I was not attracted to 90-95% of girls I saw. And at this point in time I would not have sex with a girl I was not attracted to the way some people on this thread claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 01:11 PM
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Getting over my general anxiety around asking out a woman/ dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:37 PM
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