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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmCnYPJfPaM&t=290s Watch this. Even small things like footsie or touching her hand can help break the touch barrier. I usually try to get a kiss on the first date too. It's usually a sign the date is going well
/r/ExRedPill30/12/23 06:22 AM
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Say "hey you're really cool we should get drinks some time". touch her hand, make eye contact, be alittle more physical. You have to show you have more intentions than just friendship. Bc it is really easy to fall into the friendzone I feel you
/r/ExRedPill30/12/23 03:10 AM
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All of this is rooted in rising income inequality. When people are broke they’re more likely to look for someone to place their blame on. And instead of placing the blame oj the corporations and politicians that created this problem the red pill focuses on women
/r/ExRedPill19/12/23 12:05 AM
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Man I’ve been in your shoes before that’s why I know the exact frustrations you’re going thru. Intentionality, confidence and practice is what you need
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 02:02 PM
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Exactly you need specific help and for you think just gotta keep exploring and going out there. Keep approaching women and learn thru trial and error
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 02:01 PM
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No bc most of the red pill guys are liars.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 01:18 AM
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Dont believe everything you see on the internet man. there's no proof of the million dollar properties and when it comes to the cars he could be leasing them
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 12:50 AM
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Huh? There aren’t that many lesbians
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 07:18 PM
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Why leave your bed every morning if you could get hit by a car or get struck by lightning
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:42 PM
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Is the woman a lesbian? The guy is most likely going to fresh and fit for dating advice
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 06:33 PM
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There isn’t one. Gotta find a mix of more moderate guys like listening to Patrice O’Neals old clips. Unfortunately like I’ve said countless times men’s lib and many of the former red pill people love to sit down and talk about the flaws of red pill but don’t provide actual solutions for guys who have issues with dating.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 01:56 PM
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That’s not good advice
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 01:39 PM
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Giving free attention to women and not being a simp aren’t red pill advice. Guys have been saying this forever. The red pill simply stole stuff from pickup artists and made them 100x worse
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 06:16 PM
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The only solution to this is stop teaching guys to simp. Simps are the only reason they have overinflated egos
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:20 PM
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There's definitely truth to this bc we do live in a patriarchal society. But I will say there are many people born with income and power who dont work for it and get a step up and many people who were attractive and then didnt take care of their weight and became less attractive. World isnt fair but I dont think using that as a universal judgement is really fair nowadays outside of night clubs and sex industry related things
/r/ExRedPill14/12/23 07:35 PM
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I think there's a missing stage in your emotional development if you think it's ok to tell this to anyone you're in a relationship with. You can believe it but keep it in your head. It's just like I have the belief that whatever woman I date I wouldnt lose a step if she left me bc Im confident enough in myself not to care enough. That doesnt mean i'll run around telling her b*t3h you're replaceable. Not everything needs to be verablized
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 07:33 PM
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I didn’t say they were easier. I’d argue that they’re harder. I’m not red pill immaturity is a massive turnoff for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:10 PM
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Most men date within a 3-4 yr age gap bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:03 PM
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Yeah I’d leave
/r/ExRedPill14/12/23 01:53 PM
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That’s fair but it’s to each his own. For me I’m in my late 20s almost 30s and immaturity is a bigger red flag. Everyone has baggage it’s how you manage it that matters and if you have enough emotional maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:39 AM
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Most men do not think this way. As long as you’re attractive to us we will want to be with you. Also from my personal experience I will say women 18-24 are very immature and many carry too much red flags to be in a long term relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:22 AM
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I have no idea what you’re talking about both women and men have used numeric rankings to rate attractiveness forever. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:19 AM
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Yeah but that’s all about relativity tho. If you think you’re a 10 you’ll want 10s. If you think you’re a 5 you’ll usually be ok with 5s. When society lies to you and says you’re a 10 even tho most ppl of the opposite gender disagree then you’re living a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:27 AM
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That’s pretty much the same for men tho. Look at how many guys will hookup with some sleazy 304 and risk an expensive divorce and/or ruin their families. You gotta be strong enough to avoid the animalistic drive inside of you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:26 AM
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Go back and read the comments I literally explained to you. You’re just being a troll atp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:11 PM
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It’s ridiculous that we can’t talk about male romantic desires without someone claiming it’s related to SA or DV
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:42 PM
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Def understand where you’re coming from man. I was in the same boat. You gotta find some friends who are good at picking up women watch what they do and listen to some old school pickup guys like Patrice O’Neal. Unfortunately there isn’t much guidance outside of scammers when it comes to dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:23 PM
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Are you even reading anything I’m telling you or are you just responding?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:19 PM
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Strategies and methods to approach and meet women. Simply saying “oh just go out and meet more people” doesn’t help. Show them or tell them how to be engage with a woman romantically in a way that respects her boundaries etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:18 PM
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It’s a logical fallacy bc you’re conflating two topics. Someone who’s lonely and but also wants a romantic relationship requires two pathways. Loneliness can be cured by increasing the social circles you’re in and garnering more friendships. However just bc this cures your loneliness doesn’t mean that it can also solve your issues in romance. Also idk why you keep trying to make the debate personal but grow up and stay away from the ad hominem attacks especially when what you’re claiming can be …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:19 PM
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ATP you’re just arguing to argue. Bc now you’ve shifted the conversation over to debating the efficacy of switching from platonic to romantic relationships which ironically hurts your core argument. Back to the original topic. To attract a woman is a skill and you need to learn how to attract women. It’s not as simple as expand your social circle. Like you really have no idea what you’re talking about if you can’t grasp that simple concept
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:57 PM
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That’s the friend zone you’re just debating semantics. The friend zone is just giving a definition to that situation. Millions of people have been in it. That’s why what I say is to be intentional and approach and go after what you want. Sitting around pretending to be her friend is a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:47 PM
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What are you even arguing? I’m not blaming the woman for anything. I’m blaming people such as yourself who give that advice that leads to guys sitting in the friend zone. If you’re just a casual acquaintance 6 degrees separation in a social group and then you make your move sure. If you become actual friends with the girl like has been suggested above and by others then you’re setting ppl up for failure. Be honest and intentional. If you want a woman approach her and ask her out. If you want a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:44 PM
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Huh? You just defined what the friend zone is. Your advice again doesn’t help to get guys into romantic relationships. All it does it place them into social circles without any direction which more than often leads to the friend zone when you try to be platonic with someone who you have a romantic interest in initially. Form friends bc you like those people but when it comes to dating date someone you’re attracted to them and want a deeper bond
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:27 PM
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Again that’s a logical fallacy. The question posted above is specifically about romantic relationships. This is exactly why guys keep flocking to the red pill. Bc everytime they ask for sound dating advice it’s the same vague and vapid bs. “Oh go and make more friends”, “just talk to more women”. Not actual strategies that help them accomplish what they want. Yes you need to expand your social circle for reasons beyond dating. But inside of that you need to know how to engage in a romantic relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:17 PM
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That’s too vague of an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:53 PM
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Where did he say that? What an ignorant thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:22 PM
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You’re using a logical fallacy. Larger social circle does not equate to getting laid. There’s tons of guys who have friends who struggle with getting women. You still need to learn how to attract a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:17 PM
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It does help but it only helps in a miniscule way. If you’re lonely you do need to learn how to form social bonds with people better. But I completely get where you’re coming from and alotnof the people who are anti red pill or former red pill use this “join more social groups” as a solution to getting women and it’s honestly terrible advice. There’s an art of seduction that’s a present reality and exists for both men and women when pursing a partner. Lonely guys need to learn how to seduce and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:15 PM
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No. And if women are telling you they they’re lying they’re just simply not into you specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:32 AM
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No I agree and it’s not like this was the norm in the past either. Most women have mothers who were ok with an average guy taking them to a simple place to get coffee for a first date. Social media has blown expectations out the water
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:30 AM
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I mean that’s kind of a fact of life tho. People only complain about money when times are hard. You don’t often see rich people complaining about not being able to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:28 AM
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That's just simply not true. The social skills you use to interact with your friends is different than engaging with someone romantically. You keep saying "meeting women" as if his problem is finding them. His issue is engaging with them sexually. Your argument is "meet more people" and then "just ask her on a date". That's the most vauge and vapid advice ive ever heard. That's like when your parents tell you to "just be yourself" or your grandparents call you "handsome" when you dress like a ho…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 11:52 PM
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That's not what he's saying. His friend is saying dont make it like an interview. Make it more like a conversation where both sides are bouncing back and forth
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:15 PM
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There are little to none which is why alot of these guys end up slipping back into the red pill. EVerything the red pill says isnt a lie, they stole most of it from the pickup community. But I think you need to understand these fundamental things when it comes to dating at least in the US The man has to ask the woman out almost 99% of the time The man has to pay for everything (initially) The man has to make all the moves (initially) The man is going to face way more rejection. No matter its a j…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:14 PM
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Im sorry but that's terrible advice. If you want to get better at approaching women you need to find other guys who are good at getting women and learn from them. You need to also improve your life and get somewhat of your isht together. But ultimately it's about losing the fear of rejection. You as a guy have to learn to be able to approach women and get the rejections and move on. It's not just a basic "be better with people" because for the most part women arent approaching men like that and …
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:03 PM
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Fr like wtf are some of these comments. If someone pays for a hooker who cares as long as it's a consensual situation
/r/ExRedPill11/12/23 01:20 AM
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You're literally just making a ton of wild assumptions. Prostitution is the oldest trade in human history this isnt something new. You're also extrapolating out things that have nothing to do with this scenario. In this instance the guy got blue balled and hit up and escort. There's nothing else in this that indicates he degraded her or disrespected her. She had an ad and he responded to it. I dont get yall, you continue to move the fence on what's acceptable and then somehow everything is mens …
/r/ExRedPill10/12/23 01:17 AM
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These comments are ridiculous why is it that guys leave the red pill and go to the other polar extreme where everything is suddenly a part of the patriarchy? He wanted to hookup with a girl and she agreed and he paid her. It's not that deep. He's not exploiting her either. The majority of escorts nowadays are also not involved in human trafficking
/r/ExRedPill10/12/23 01:13 AM
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Bruh the majority of escorts are not trafficked nowadays. Most of them are basically just like only fans girls. Also how did you takeaway from this that he doesnt view women as humans? I swear some of yall swing too far to the other side with this ex red pill stuff. The red pill in itself is toxic but that doesnt mean some of things they say are wrong. Most escorts know what theyre doing. They are mostly not being exploited they're trying to make a quick buck. He feels disgusted after because tr…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/23 12:02 AM
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Dont listen to them
/r/ExRedPill09/11/23 02:58 PM
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I think as a generation we've gone so far to the point where being intimacy and bonding are almost getting demonized or looked down upon. Bc this is starting to get ridiculous now
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 06:40 PM
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Go to therapy. I’m the same way and still breaking out of it. It’s this excessive need to prove yourself and show to everyone that you’re a winner and can be on top. But the reality is if your validation in life comes from superficial things and from external validation you’ll never be happy.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/23 12:31 PM
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fresh and fit
/r/ExRedPill24/09/23 01:46 PM
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You're 21 yrs old and only have 1 female friend. As a 28 M I'll say 1. Get more female friends 2. Do some research on the reality of the world 3. Socialize more with women in general. The red pill is pretty toxic and full of misinformation that is intended to profit off of confused young men.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/23 05:02 PM
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Okcupid said that survey was pretty inaccurate idk why yall continue to push their stats
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 03:51 PM
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breakup
/r/ExRedPill29/08/23 06:47 PM
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No but Im sorry I have to disagree with your conclusion. Yes there's more to life than dating but bonding with a partner is something we've evolved over millions of years to desire. Video games, travel and writing cannot fill the void. Some ppl are ok with being alone but the reason why so many guys are frustrated is that we have evolved to desire that intimate partner. We are after all social beings. As human beings we'd be even happier if we were poor and had to work the land to sustain oursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:54 PM
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I've gotten the sense that the combination of the student loan crises, income inequality, extreme cost of housing, rising depression during the pandemic, coupled with ridiculous expectations set off by social media and the gender imbalance on dating apps (most apps are like 80% male and 20% female) alot of guys have either become apathetic or totally checked out of dating. It just seems like dating isnt attainable. You go out to bars and clubs and people dont socialize like they used to, join gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:48 PM
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