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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 32 | Divorce after sobriety | Efficient_Leg4483 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/24 03:44 PM | |
| 6 | Future stepdad | Efficient_Leg4483 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/24 03:21 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Divorce after sobrietyGood job on 2 months! Being in the community is key! I am so glad that I’ve found my people now. I was out of place in my friend groups before, but now I feel like I fit in and can relate, at least in some ways with all the people from my group. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/24 02:27 AM |
| 1 | How to Live an Exciting LifeAh, I’ve always wanted to go! 2025 it’s going to happen! | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/24 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Divorce after sobrietyThanks! That sucks that she did that. I’ve always had a naïve thought about people in general, and especially women. I thought they would treat you how they would want to be treated, but I’m realizing that people are very manipulative and I’ve got to take responsibility for my relationships. Take out the people that are not helping me move forward or are not cheering for me. Boundaries. I don’t know how that all works yet though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How to Live an Exciting LifeWow, that hits the nail on the head. Validation is a requirement to function in society, I think, but I would be validated no matter what I actually do. So, we might as well figure out what is actually exciting. I’ve started a list. Skydiving Adventure parks Watching movies and shows that interest me Dating/sex life Hiking Mountain biking Exercise Travel Some are hobbies and some are kinda bucket list things, but all are interests that I’ve always had and never pursued. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/24 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Divorce after sobrietyDang, that’s exactly what it is. I was vocal about my issues in marriage but it always got turned back around on me. Once I sobered up she didn’t have anything to get at me with and I realized how uneven our relationship had been the whole time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/24 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Divorce after sobrietyYou are Not alone. The AA community is huge. I got lucky, the second group I went to has become my rock. The first one was a bunch of old guys that had been sober for 10-40 years. I couldn’t connect with them so I tried a different one. Halloween night I took my kids out trick or treating and my STBX told me to my face that she didn’t want to see me in person anymore. That hurt. We have been mostly cordial so far. That was the first real urge I’ve had to go drink. Instead I went to a meeting and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/24 04:19 PM |
| 8 | How to Live an Exciting LifeI’m there with you. I’m 34 and have been married for 14 years. I was 20 when we got married and have based my whole life around trying to be a good husband/dad. I moved to the basement 7 months ago and moved into a new apartment 1 months ago. I don’t know what to do now. I met with a friend (40M) yesterday who has been divorced for 4 years. I reached out to him because he seems to be doing really good in life now. He told me that the biggest thing I need to do is find hobbies that excite me. I’m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/24 03:33 PM |
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