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My dad got child support from my mom back in the 90s-2000s. 3 kids but they topped off at a low amount because my mom worked at a grocer, I think it was $200 a month (about 10-15% gross pay at the time).
/r/MensRights12/03/25 01:07 AM
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I think this is one of the few areas I am kind of pro something for women being talked about on here. I live in Japan, I'm a bit pear shaped. If I'm on a regular crowded train during rush hour, there is a about 1 in 20 chance someone will sneakily reach and grab my butt, and in the crowd I can't tell who it was. I wear a suit to work because I have to, but I hate how suits make my butt look bigger even. So I ride the women's only car when I can. This is overall a small percentage of men, but it …
/r/MensRights01/03/25 09:46 PM
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The only reasons my husband and I are married is 1) health insurance, 2) it helped us move abroad (I got a good job and was able to bring him over as a dependent since he's my legal spouse-- yes, I'm the provider rn lol), and 3) his mom is severely Catholic and would have disowned him had he not married me once I was pregnant. These are all little things, and if 1 or 2 were not a factor/were updated (honestly if we have a child together and the same address on our documents it should be enough t…
/r/MensRights13/02/25 07:18 PM
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Yes, this is true. I haven't let my grandma (who survived breast cancer twice as a senior and is now healthy at 82, thank goodness) be bothered about my melanoma because it is ALM in my foot, and based on the studies I read, considering the stage/depth and my stats (age, sex race), I have about a 30% chance of not making it 10 years from diagnosis. (Which is also why I'm doing what I enjoy when not working and my spouse is supportive and not caring what the rest of our family thinks.) There are …
/r/MensRights10/02/25 05:05 AM
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I didn't see it, and based on the comments I'm hoping my grandma didn't see it. She survived breast cancer twice...
/r/MensRights10/02/25 04:55 AM
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Yep, I think I was a DEI hire for my current job, and despite not doing great at it, I'm not fired. I'm quitting soon at 14 months in to move abroad and work in my field again. But I think I was hired as a woman and a mom to check some boxes. It was a great job to do in the first year postpartum to be home with my baby, so that's cool, so I hope the next person who gets my spot is a POC parent, to restore some balance. Heck, they'd probably be better at the job than me!
/r/MensRights09/02/25 03:22 AM
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My husband is 5'5, but he is an actual provider, is a devoted partner, snuggles me good and makes me feel safe, and he's strong; he goes to the gym and lifts. Real man is about what the man does in his day to day, not his height. This lady makes me laugh.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 09:28 AM
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I think both men aren't allowed to express themselves about this, and women are on the opposite end of the TMI train on this topic. Like, it's ok to have feelings and express them appropriately.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 01:19 PM
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I didn't say I was on here or a supporter for a long time but my husband got the gist as we were getting to know each other and we would talk about various things happening in the news, or one time he got to talking to me about something personal and was vulnerable with me, and I didn't judge him for it. We've grown a lot closer, and I think he is glad I am a MRA supporter. I really think people should be reasonable with each other, and that includes the treatment of men, of course!
/r/MensRights03/12/23 04:54 PM
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Good thing I'm happily married. I just worry about my son having to grow up in this world. I do feel bad for y'all and usually 100% side with what I read here, but this one... I feel bad for both sides. No trust left at all.
/r/MensRights02/12/23 12:39 PM
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Mm...yeah, if I were single, I would not consent to being filmed like that (regardless man or woman). Could be used for blackmail, could be sold off/uploaded on an adult site for clicks/money, etc. Idk how people are supposed to date if they can't trust each other to this extreme level, tbh. :(
/r/MensRights01/12/23 06:47 PM
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Video recordings saying they consent? Idk, I think they could argue they were coerced to say yes or to sign a form, so I don't think either would work in court. Man...I'm so glad to be out of the dating game these days.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 03:12 PM
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That is not just a feminist, but a scammer. I imagine we are going to see more and more of this in dating, sadly. Please report this and do what you can to fight it.
/r/MensRights01/12/23 12:31 PM
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Double standards are annoying (and I say that as a woman).
/r/MensRights25/11/23 03:07 PM
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Agreed. I am a woman, but I am shocked at how accepted it is now, and how quickly it became so. I lived abroad for 5.5 years and came back to so much cultural change... most of which I am not a fan of. People look at me crazy when I call OF and related work prostitution. I refuse to glorify it.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 02:59 PM
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Honestly, yes, unfortunately. As someone who was probably in the 4-6 range when I lived abroad but was a solid 7-8 dating here just because I am not overweight, know how to dress modest yet pretty, can cook and clean, didn't have any kids before I got with my husband, always looked for LTRs not hookups so my count isn't ridiculous...like I don't even have to be HOT hot in the US. I'm just the average cute type, but literally being healthy and doing the minimum put me near the top of the pile. ..…
/r/MensRights25/11/23 02:55 PM
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I've watched a few videos about trans men and detransitioners where this is a valid point. They experience life as a man and realize it is more difficult than imagined.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 04:18 PM
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Nah, I married a man who was a virgin until he hit 30, and I'm only his second partner ever. The first few times he had put himself in a vulnerable position because of how people view men that are late bloomers, but I've been only supportive and loving, and he has gained a lot of confidence, and our bond is now quite strong. Man or woman, I think too many partners is not a good thing.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 01:07 PM
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Jfc. My husband is 5'5". He's still taller than me, he's strong, we can kiss without anyone craning their necks. Idk I love it. The vitrol is so undeserved.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 02:09 AM
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Great, because most people are looking for the absolute wrong things! I lucked out!
/r/MensRights01/11/23 08:49 PM
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I ended up marrying a very good man because nobody wanted him in an entire year of him being on the dating apps. The main issue I suspect was his height, listed on his profile. The height thing is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 11:45 AM
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The one parent my sisters and I were mentally and physically abused by was our stepmom. Not dad (he was strict, but not abusive), not stepdad (super chill dude), stepmom. A woman.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 11:14 AM
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I do not tell my husband to express emotions, but if he expresses then in front of me at home, I do not belittle him for it. I would rather he be comfortable at home than show weakness to anyone outside. He doesn't show negative emotion often, so I feel he has pretty good self control, and it would have to be something really big if he say, cried.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 11:04 AM
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I'm about to have a son and I am so worried about this. My husband is a great dad and role model for him, but the education system, and the way culture is leaning at large, has been turning against men.
/r/MensRights31/10/23 02:23 AM
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What. The worst covid case in my family was my dad. He couldn't work for five weeks, and when he went back to work, he was coughing with bronchitis.
/r/MensRights29/10/23 04:40 PM
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I'm happily married and about to have a son (due any day now!) and I am 100% ok with paternity testing becoming mandatory. I watched so much paternity court I told my husband if he wants to test since I'm not offended and have nothing to hide, we can. He's the only partner I have had in a couple of years, since before we met. He said no because he was worried it would "hurt our trust" (but again since I brought it up and he hasn't expressed any concern, it's no problem! Why would I be mad?), but…
/r/MensRights20/10/23 03:48 AM
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I'm 38w along rn, considering my husband has had a lot of strong hormonal reactions during my pregnancy (weight gain despite keeping up on his gym routine, even more caretaking urges than usual-- he takes great care of me, extra snuggly, seems to be getting more migraines than usual), I will have to keep an eye on his moods as well as mine after the birth. I will read this and keep this in mind. Thank you!
/r/MensRights15/10/23 09:43 PM
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I admit that I was in the other 25% of working women, but as a woman, I have the option of having kids and moving my work schedule to part time and focusing on the home instead of the grind. So since I don't fit whatever image of girlboss these employers seem to have stereotyped and I was just a worker bee, I stepped away from having work be my main thing. I do feel bad though that most men do not get this same choice if they are not prized in the workplace. I understand it is a privilege.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 08:23 PM
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I just wanted to say that I used to suffer from AN and still struggle with bad food habits from time to time and used to linger in a lot of the old forums. There were always a handful of males in the community, and I think it's always harder for yall because you have way less support. I hope you are doing well these days!
/r/MensRights08/10/23 04:48 PM
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I read this post aloud to me husband. He goes to the gym for 2 reasons: 1) it allows him to have a higher TDEE so he can eat more food (he is strong but doesn't have the low bf% of many gymbros) and 2) it seems to help him with a few of his health issues-- adhd and preventing migraines. My husband always says if he hadn't met me he'd probably have become a volcel by now, as he was on OLD for a year and he had only had 4 matches total in that year, and 1 other first date (which did not go well, a…
/r/MensRights08/10/23 04:41 PM
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What's wrong with that? 4 people is perfectly fine.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 06:01 AM
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I've lived abroad and also grew up with different ways of doing things due to divorced parents, so as long as task is complete in some way and there is no risk of danger, I do not care how things are done. My husband and I do almost everything differently, but it still reduces my mental load to not have to do the dishes, even if he organizes them in the cupboard differently. They all fit? Ok cool. Past that, I don't care. There's more than one correct way to do most things, and life is too short…
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:58 PM
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???? What. My husband is a smart man. We have different spheres of knowledge, so we're about 50 50 on who is right.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:48 PM
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I stopped watching years ago, but in my teens and early to mid 20s I did watch for a while because my drive was much higher back then, and ... I've never understood women wanting to watch rough stuff. I'm scared of being harmed or abused in any form and do not fantasize about it. I am a woman, but I always preferred the stuff that, regardless of what they are doing, seemed affectionate, like a couple, especially if they click well and both seem to be honestly enjoying it. Why do more women like …
/r/MensRights19/09/23 12:34 PM
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I see what you mean. While it is important to talk about the role modern feminism plays in men's rights, it would be nice to see some posts focused on other areas of men's rights, too. Another subreddit I like to follow is daddit. Specific to dads, but it's nice seeing men support each other (there are some women like me that bounce in and give support to dads too) and it is nice to read about some healthy happy families. Of course, I would like to see more positive posts from non-dads as well. …
/r/MensRights19/09/23 01:41 AM
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I think if OPs sister wants a program like that for her daughters within the family, she or another female family member should consider starting one. I like the idea of keeping the boys and girls separate here so that they can do different community projects, discuss issues pertaining to their own perspectives with less judgement, etc. Definitely there are many female only mentorship programs, so I think it's fair to have male only programs, too.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 12:34 PM
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I am pretty sure my husband doesn't meet any of the criteria (though the one he is farthest off from would be height, at 5'5"). He's amazing though, and I am happy. What percent of men meet all of those numbers in the US? Like 2%? And of those, you then need to find a man you get along with, you find attractive, etc. Seems impossible.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 04:34 AM
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As someone who has been in and out of the online eating disorder community for 15 years now, there are anorexic men, definitely! Eating disorders affect men less often, but the number is far from zero. I think this is another arena where men are underdiagnosed and overlooked, but the last numbers I heard for the west is one in ten eating disorder sufferers are male (whether that's AN, bulimia, ortho, BED, EDNOS, etc). Not having a support network must certainly make help and recovery harder. The…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 11:47 AM
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I'm not a huge gamer or anything, but I play some casual games with my husband, and we started a D&D campaign over the summer with my older sis and her bf. I feel like a lot of current adults use gaming as a social hobby, and as long as it keeps people connected, I don't see it as childish. I don't play SF6, but watching some of the big tournaments has been fun. I know Snakeyez is my husband's current favorite competitor.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 04:35 PM
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I don't align myself with the current wave of feminism though. I think I operate more like my parents' gen?
/r/MensRights03/09/23 03:55 PM
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TLDR: I think many men are straight-forward; if women are reasonable and rational, men will be, too. I think women need to consider that a lot of people grow into careers. Even me; I'm now expecting and just part time exam proctoring for now, but in the years before my marriage, I built a career and got an education. (I do not see this as a waste, since even though I plan to keep part time and focus on my family, we have my career as a backup if something goes awry with my husband's. I have an a…
/r/MensRights03/09/23 09:06 AM
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I paid for both people on a date once. As the woman, I did it because he was really nice and I felt bad for not being into him. So when he went to the bathroom, I quickly requested the receipt and paid, then waited for him to return. Usually I offered to split the bill, and the man only paid the whole thing if he insisted. I am happily married now, but yeah, I think splitting is the best way to go, especially if you're not a couple yet.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 02:01 PM
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My family must be an exception. I'm almost 2 years older than my husband, but there are bigger gaps. My older sis is 6 years older than her bf, my mom was 3 years older than my dad, and then 15 years older than my stepdad (and they remained together 27 years, until my mom passed, RIP). I think even my grandma is older than my grandpa, my female cousin is older than her husband, maybe only by a year for each of those. I think there's more of this dynamic or same age than older man/younger woman i…
/r/MensRights02/09/23 12:43 PM
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34F of an AMWF couple here. My husband wants to be the only worker in our home, but the economy sucks. I work part time rn (currently 8 months along with our first) and plan to wfh and/or part time around his schedule so that we don't have to send the baby to daycare. I can tell sometimes my husband feels disappointed that he can't provide as much as he wants to (I think he thinks we should own a house instead of renting by now, he wants to make like 150% of his current pay and let me focus on m…
/r/MensRights02/09/23 11:57 AM
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Ugh, I'm a woman, and I wish there was a tinge more modesty in how women dress in the US. I lived abroad for a while, and I miss how pretty but classy most women looked. I don't want to happen to notice women's....everything while out in public. Decency, please!
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:29 AM
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I just block. I'm a woman, but tbh I was raised by a single dad and I sometimes wonder if a lot of women learn the drama from their moms...
/r/MensRights26/08/23 02:27 PM
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Idk. I don't like fighting or being aggressive. When the other one is correct or we decide to reconsider our stance, my husband and I are both good about backing down. We've literally never yelled at each other, and the two times I was most mad, I was aware my hormones were part of it (I'm currently pregnant) and we both agreed to cool down in separate spaces. Reunite, snuggle, resolve by discussion, eat food (in fact last time was order a pizza and watch a SF6 tournament). I don't like drama, a…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 10:08 PM
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Boring is great. Boring means stability. Boring means morning cuddles every day before he goes to work. Boring means having a sense of warmth and home when the outside world is not kind. Boring means intimacy where I am being respected. Boring means not being on the roller-coaster of love bombing and abuse. More women should like boring. I love boring. If you're actually raising kids properly and committing to your partner properly, there is plenty to do. How are they bored?
/r/MensRights25/08/23 12:40 PM
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Yep. My husband and I even keep our friend circles to same sex only, which might sound old fashioned or conservative, but because of this, I've found we are not as anxious/not checking on each other when one of us is out as much as I have experienced in past relationships. It's not that I don't trust him, it's just I see how women are these days, and even if she were just flirting being cutsey with him, a girl doing that toward my husband would make me mad. My husband honestly is less experience…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 12:33 PM
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Not an excuse. I was abused in my first marriage (no kids thank god) and I made a plan for myself to get re-setup back home because it was an international marriage and I was living abroad. I did not use another man to get out of that situation; in fact, I was scared of men for a short time afterward. It took a bit to heal. But I'm fine now, happily married to someone kind, and I read Men's Rights because I get that people are people, so there are good men who are also being mistreated out there…
/r/MensRights25/08/23 12:25 PM
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Idk why women think it's cool to cheat. I am a woman but I look down on cheating by either sex, and I wouldn't knowingly stay friends with a woman who cheats on her man. My husband is fantastic, and if I ever had a problem that caused my mind to wander, I'd look instead at the actual reason why instead of escaping it through an affair, which is what I think most people do. My husband is my best friend, and I plan to stay with him always, even when we are old and wrinkly. If I want more money, I …
/r/MensRights25/08/23 12:20 PM
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My husband is 5'5", but apparently that's about 1.5 inches taller than average for his country. I bagged a tall boi. 🥰 I myself am 5'3½", so I just wear cute flats or tennis shoes out with him. Nbd.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 12:00 AM
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Good. Those poor babies
/r/MensRights21/08/23 11:53 PM
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Keanu looks great! He's literally only 3 years younger than my dad, so like... yeah, he looks fantastic!
/r/MensRights21/08/23 11:34 PM
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There are definitely feminists in Japan, just probably they wouldn't express such feelings in front of a man, just when they're talking amongst "the girls". It is a common idea of widowed women to feel free and be happier than ever after their husbands pass and the wives get everything. https://japantoday.com/category/features/kuchikomi/for-some-women-husbands-death-like-a-breath-of-fresh-air I am a woman, btw, and I will say Japanese women just want whatever option will get them the most money …
/r/MensRights21/08/23 08:07 PM
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What the heck is this quote at the end? I mean they were trying to make excuses throughout, but this is the craziest: "Women might be more likely to get frustrated because men are not taught how to be active listeners and women feel like they are not being heard,” she said. “Often women are more emotional because the relationship matters a lot to them, and while that may come out in a push or a shove or a grab, all of which are considered dating violence, it doesn’t have the effect of intimidati…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 09:43 AM
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I married a man with very little experience. I don't mind him feeling vulnerable in this area and I am patient with him. He's had to deal with my insecurities as well, we have taken care of each other when we are sick, etc etc. Regadless of bio sex, I don't see why a low body count is bad. I'm guessing other women like to fight over the same few men? But why? I don't get it.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 09:07 AM
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Wokeism is spreading among younger women's circles thanks to the internet. Also, Idk if you can read this, but women cheating on their husbands is on the rise, and now 20% of paternity tests are coming back as negative: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://mikata-ins.co.jp/lab/rikon/060520&ved=2ahUKEwi1z8Km3uyAAxUGSzABHW-3DskQFnoECC8QAQ&usg=AOvVaw2snsqzfwOHRsgEka9WNbC5 Also, dads almost never get custody or any rights to children in divorce, and women don't n…
/r/MensRights21/08/23 02:56 AM
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I actually dealt with financial abuse (as well as other forms of abuse) in my last serious relationship. I was living abroad and it was an international relationship, and he held a lot of power over me. I even became quite underweight at that time because I could not afford to eat during my work day. That being said, I know that my husband is not my ex, and I know how bad it felt to be treated that way, so I could not do such things to him. Tbh some people who experience abuse turn around and be…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 05:08 PM
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Even while mostly staying home and raising kids, I plan to at least wfh or work part time around hubby's schedule. We have separate bank accounts. As long as our bills are paid and we are making some savings each month, we don't question each other further for if we want something. This pay period, my husband bought a trial pack of different jerkys to try and a PS5 controller charger. I also believe there are some things he should not pay for, like maintenance of my car (we could live with one c…
/r/MensRights15/08/23 10:52 AM
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My mom also passed 2 years ago, and all I have to say is that this person is insensitive. I still grieve, especially because I am expecting my first child now, and my mom will never get to meet him. :( Moms are a special figure in most people's lives, and I think it's fair to post about your mom!
/r/MensRights14/08/23 05:53 PM
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...My ex husband mentioned when he was young he was molested by an older man. SA and rape of men (whether by other men or by women) is a thing and needs to be taken more seriously. He told his mom and his mom didn't believe him. :(
/r/MensRights14/07/23 04:20 PM
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Well, when I was younger and didn't know better, I would initiate outside of a relationship, but I always wanted a relationship, and naively thought one would follow the other even in reverse. It does not. Hookup culture and ONS are not for me, so in my case, it is a matter of simply not wanting/having sex outside of a relationship. I have no idea what other women are thinking about though! 😅
/r/MensRights23/06/23 01:53 PM
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I want to sit with my family
/r/MensRights22/06/23 08:10 PM
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Yo, I'm a woman who lived in Japan for 5 years and became pretty fluent in Japanese. Honestly, I learned a lot about how to be a better wife and mom from teaching baby and preschool English Classes and hanging around Japanese moms. I also learned how to be more feminine overall while embracing the good parts of it. I'm back in the US and married, expecting my first (it's a boy!). So learning Japanese was good for me. :) But ofc they should also have taught boys Japanese; learning another languag…
/r/MensRights22/06/23 07:46 PM
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'She believes that the reporting on or talk around real-life cases often diminishes the serious nature of what's happened. "Instead of talking about what she did, we talk about theories as to why she did it, or reasoning that she is not fully responsible for her behaviour. Or that the boy is 'lucky'". "Here," she says to readers. "Read it in extreme graphic detail and see if you still feel that way."'
/r/MensRights22/06/23 06:41 PM
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Daycare costs my entire pay for one child (I'm the mom) so when my child is born I plan to stay home. I would like to add a part time remote job to pay for my own costs (my car's expenses, my student loans, some expenses of the baby) if I can fandangle one. I lived in Japan for 5+ years (I taught young learners) and saw how much moms being home helped kids thrive, so I think in my case it's the best move. My husband works hybrid, so he can manage more time with us than people who work in-office …
/r/MensRights22/06/23 06:36 PM
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I'm a woman who was raised by my dad, and I would do the same. My mom wasn't outwardly abusive, but she had some issues and was neglectful, so in hindsight, I'm glad my dad did his best. It is right of you to spend time with your dad as much as you can!
/r/MensRights22/06/23 06:08 PM
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Living abroad for 5 years as a woman in my 20s turned out to be good for me. I taught baby and preschool classes and got in circles with more traditional women abroad. I got more in shape as well living the lifestyle there. I am back in the US and married now, but I've brought back what I've learned!
/r/MensRights22/06/23 06:05 PM
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My husband and I have bands that are not one of the traditional metal, no gems. I'm fine with that! They're black with purple and blue shimmer, and they match, so his is arguably prettier than mine since it's a wider band and has more shimmer! (The whole set was $200) I do have my ring from my first marriage, but I asked him if he wanted it back, and he said no. He also kept his. I still have mine tucked away somewhere. I do feel awkward keeping it, but I would feel weird selling it. It's a silv…
/r/MensRights22/06/23 04:07 PM
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Guilty! I have a Master's but only make 15/hr at my job.
/r/MensRights22/06/23 03:51 PM
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I have a higher drive than my husband and I often initiate. I don't mind if he says no, we'll just snuggle instead (though he's for it probably 19 times out of 20). I think it's important for men to feel safe to express bodily autonomy. I'm having a son soon, and I really worry about protecting him from some of the things y'all go through. My husband is not conventionally attractive, but I am attracted to him. He makes a middle class income for our area, so he's not rich, either. But we became c…
/r/MensRights22/06/23 03:47 PM
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"I believe women are indeed doing what men have done in the past and basically said if men can do it we can to." I'm a happily married woman, but I think this is what is going on with a lot of women, for sure. I'm expecting rn with a son, and I hope women do not treat him like many of you have been treated... :(
/r/MensRights22/06/23 03:31 PM
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I'm not a man, but I'm currently 20w pregnant and am leaving the decision up to my husband. I grew up in the US but lived for a few years abroad in a country where circumcision is not the norm, so I have no qualms with my son being left intact.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 03:54 PM
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"Variable: Attitude towards housewives Sweden is penalised with 42 discrimination points for Attitude towards housewives. This is measured as percentage of population thinking that “being a housewife is just as fulfilling as working for pay”. Yes, this is the discrimination that SIGI measures." ??? Idk, I wasn't feeling fulfilled making $15/hr teaching ESL at a college with my Master's, and it's expected that I keep working and send my child to daycare, where I don't see them all day and daycare…
/r/MensRights12/06/23 03:47 PM
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Yeah, I feel people are happiest if they have at least 2/3 of this list going on.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 10:19 AM
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I kind of get why more women were at least thinking about it. I was actually considering doing it before I met my husband, tbh. I have my Master's, used to work abroad before the pandemic, have been trying to transition out of education for my mental health, but the job market has been rough in my area. I understand the "career man" pressure to constantly perform and move up at work a lot better now, and it's not easy. I felt worthless because I didn't have stable work for a while and since I on…
/r/MensRights06/06/23 10:11 AM
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I used to think I wanted to be a career woman and I worked for over a decade and have an advanced degree and everything. But now, I want to be a mom and stay mostly home. I want to try to find part time online work to supplement his income and so I can pay for some of my own things, but mostly I want to focus on a family. I would rather be devoted to my husband and my child (whom is on the way) than be devoted to a company.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 08:11 PM
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Of course this affects all parents. The backlash you received makes no sense...?
/r/MensRights16/06/21 10:20 AM
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