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You literally stated, “A miscarriage that is completed is not an abortion”. I was simply stating that miscarriages are considered spontaneous abortions by definition, therefore, your original statement is wrong, unless you edit it to say “a miscarriage that is completed is not a surgical abortion”. Also, there have been many women that have died when denied an abortion when it was medically necessary, so I don’t know why you’re saying otherwise. There’s medical conditions where an abortion must …
/r/MensRights25/06/22 03:53 AM
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Technically, miscarriages are also called spontaneous abortions.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 03:16 AM
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I think it’s a great idea, not just in these situations, but in any situation since you never know what can happen. That way, if someone accuses you of something or if someone says or does something and then lies about it, you have proof. The only issue is that some states have two-party consent laws and you usually can’t record in non-public areas. You could technically still record anyway for your own personal record and you can show your friends/family (which I’ve done when getting bullied/ha…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 03:20 PM
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That’s basically Mulan. It’s one of the reasons I love that movie (the 1998 animated version). She was the worst soldier and then worked super hard to be the best. It reminds me of when I started working as a cook in a restaurant as a teen with no experience (I didn’t even know how to properly use a chef knife) and then became better than many of the other cooks who were much older and had years of experience. While it didn’t happen right away, I felt very proud the day the manager and my cowork…
/r/MensRights14/05/22 10:34 PM
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Besides male and female, there’s also intersex, so that would be at least 3 sexes. DNA is very complex, so who knows if scientists in the future might discover even more sexes. I just recently read that there were findings mainly about women who have female anatomy and were considered female at birth, and identified as women growing up. However, they then found out that they were actually males and produced more testosterone, but the testosterone receptor wasn’t working properly, so they never d…
/r/MensRights12/04/22 07:27 PM
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Besides that, short haircuts for women during the Roaring 20s period was super common, so OP’s mom, grandmom, and/or other female family members may have had short hair at some point. My great grandmom had short hair almost her entire life, going by old pictures, and she was born in the 1920s.
/r/MensRights05/02/22 06:00 PM
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Ephebophilia actually, which would be the sexual attraction towards someone that’s 15-19yr old and Hebephilia would be the sexual attraction to those that are 11-14yr old. Most people don’t know that there’s different definitions for the range of age groups and lump it all under one word.
/r/PussyPass23/08/21 09:47 AM
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Just in case anyone thinks this is real (I’m really glad it isn’t): https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/are-feminists-complaining-telepathic-rape/
/r/MensRights15/08/21 05:32 PM
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I honestly hate how normalized circumcised penises are in porn here in the US. I get that most men in the US are circumcised, but there still has to be some that aren’t and yet it’s hardly talked about on the majority of porn sites. It’s probably another of the reasons parents choose to get their sons circumcised without consent, I guess so that they “look better,” according to them, like the actors in porn.
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:15 AM
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The way it was worded was confusing, so I didn’t know you meant it that way. Still, it’s a good thing that as an Egalitarian, I do take every groups’ specific needs into consideration while fighting for their rights. I fight for the rights of all groups without a focus on just one, because I do not consider one group to be more important than the rest.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 01:12 AM
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In the US, because a man is deemed strong and a woman is deemed weak by some people, a man faces not only different societal hurdles, but legal hurdles in trying to not have to sign up for the draft, since women can’t get drafted at all and men are forced to once they turn 18. If they don’t, they can’t get certain jobs, can’t easily go to college, can go to jail, and more all because they are considered by society to be stronger, and therefore, are considered protectors that always need to give …
/r/MensRights12/07/21 12:54 AM
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I completely agree. I’m an Egalitarian, because I believe in equality for everyone regardless of race, gender, sex, sexual orientation, religion, etc. While I am a woman and care about women being treated equally too, I would never call myself a feminist or any word that is geared towards one group of people, because I like to be inclusive of everyone and don’t focus primarily on the inequalities of one group, but all groups. Someone calling themselves a feminist let’s others know that their mai…
/r/MensRights11/07/21 03:40 PM
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I understand. I think maybe it does depend on where you live. My school’s reasoning was that girls were supposed to have long hair and wear a specific type of white shirt (I honestly can’t remember what it’s called, but it’s not a regular polo shirt like the boys had) with black, yet see-through stockings in the winter and black socks in the summer, while boys were supposed to have short hair, a black polo shirt, and tan khakis. The boys also couldn’t have a beard or mustache for some reason, wh…
/r/MensRights19/04/21 09:49 PM
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Most kids and teens I’ve seen kept their hair brushed. But still, girls are allowed to have their hair long even if they don’t brush it. Therefore, it doesn’t make much sense for that the be their logic.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 08:43 PM
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I understand. That’s the same reason my school had that policy. It was a Catholic school and I never understood how they thought long hair on men was a bad thing if the depictions they had of Jesus always portrayed him with long hair. It’s essentially saying that they believe Jesus wasn’t presentable. It was funny whenever we mentioned that and the teachers obviously had no answers. Either way, whatever reason, it’s still sexist standards in my opinion. To say that men aren’t appropriately dress…
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:19 PM
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Yes. I’m not sure about other countries though.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 04:44 PM
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Besides being expected, some schools make it mandatory for boys to have short hair. Very sexist in my opinion.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 04:23 PM
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I read some studies, but the numbers vary greatly with each one and at the end of the day, it still happens to both men and women in the military. If you separate men and women, then that just means that men will be r@ped more by men than by women and the women r@ped more by women than by men. When it comes to r@pists, many don’t seem care who their victim is. Besides, that’s still not the main reason for the draft being male only. Even if it were though, then that’d still be a problem, since it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 04:06 AM
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If you believe that men shouldn’t be informed that anything bad can just as easily happen to them, then let’s just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 03:57 AM
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Yeah, that happens quite a lot to men too, mostly in prison, but out of prison too. Tons of men have been r@ped and murdered in regular prison by strangers, as a prisoner of war by strangers, on the regular street by strangers, at work by strangers, in a public venue by strangers, in their own home by strangers, etc. It happens whether provoked or not. Did you ever hear of John Wayne Gacy? Or Jeffrey Dahmer? They would kidnap, r@pe, and murder men. There’s tons of serial killers that targeted me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:50 PM
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Men get and have always been constantly r@ped during war too though, so I don’t think that’s the real reason. Women aren’t drafted, mainly because the US government deems them physically weaker than men and more valuable to a family unit, while also believing that a man’s sole purpose is to serve as a disposable pawn. It’s all just based on completely sexist ideals for everyone, but men suffer the most, since it’s their life on the line. Also, I don’t know about other, but I personally wouldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:29 PM
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Any statistics you’re referring to are apparently not from more accurate studies. Recent studies have shown that men are r@ped about the same or even more than women, whether by a stranger or known perpetrator. The issue is that not all men understand that what happened to them was r@pe, so when directly asked, “Where you ever r@ped,” they’d say no. But when asked if someone ever forced them to do sexual things and all that, they’d say yes and still would not understand that it was r@pe. That, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:21 PM
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I’m confused by your comment. You said that you’re sure they would if there weren’t rapist in the military, but who and what exactly are you referring to in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:02 PM
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I see what you mean in a sense. While technically racism isn’t an issue only certain races face, since anyone can be racist to anyone, it does make more sense to call certain things a specific race issue when there are those that are committing crimes against people only due to their race. For example, when there were legal lynchings in the US, mainly by the KKK, focused only on Black Americans (mostly men), then that would make sense to call it a specific race and even specific gender issue. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:59 PM
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Well, no, because statistically, men are more likely than women to get hurt. But I don’t really care about the numbers themselves in these matters, since there’s no way to be 100% accurate and the only thing that truly matters is that bad things happen to anyone regardless of gender. I don’t care if 1 out of 1,000 men get killed while walking alone in comparison to 1 out of 10 women or vice versa. The point is that it’s not a gendered issue, but a people issue since it can happen and has happene…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:34 PM
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Yes, ignoring the reality that men can be hurt just as likely as women is definitely a way for people to get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:24 PM
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Meh, I get when there’s literally no other way and a war must be had (like World War 2), but I still don’t think that forcing those into it is humane nor logical. I just don’t understand how someone who literally doesn’t want anything to do with it, is super scared, doesn’t believe in killing, etc. going to be a good solider anyway. With that logic, they might as well draft children if it’s not about skill and just about numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 07:10 PM
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So essentially, you’re suggesting that we must be savages first in order to make sure that others aren’t savages to us. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 06:59 PM
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You do realize that being drafted literally would mean that you’d be forced to leave your family and friends and they would have no choice but to fend for themselves while you’re away, right? I don’t get how you think a person deciding to stay with their family is equivalent to them running away and being a coward. After all, the best way to protect them and make sure that they stay out of harm’s way is to be near them. Also, there have been soldiers that found out that their family was slaughte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 06:57 PM
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I think there’s a misunderstanding. Are you saying men as in mankind or just plain men? If the latter, then I’m not sure where you’re getting that from. All I meant was that men and women should equally feel scared of random people, because anyone can be killed by anyone, regardless of their gender or the assailants gender. I mean, I’m not saying that people MUST be afraid of others, it would just be wise to always be cautious in a sense and prepare for the worst instead of thinking no one is ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 05:41 PM
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The way I see it, anyone can be hurt or killed by anyone. Many men have been killed by strangers on the street for no real reason. Regardless, it doesn’t matter what the statistics are. Even if there’s a 1% chance, then it’s still possible. Thinking it can never happen to someone or that they don’t have to worry simply based on gender is not wise. In my personal experience and reality, my husband has been approached many times in a threatening manner, by men and women wanting to fight or rob him…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 04:24 PM
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I grew up and lived the majority of my life in a city where violent crimes like robberies, shootings, r@pe, and murder happened daily and right on my street sometimes too. To not be prepared and take safety precautions meant you’d be dead. All I can say is that I’ve survived so far and my safety measurements haven’t been a hindrance to me in the slightest. Family members of mine that weren’t so careful, however....well, they’re no longer living. If you or others prefer to take risks, then that’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 03:54 PM
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Of course, no one needs to, but it is best to be prepared for the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 02:46 PM
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I heard of it some years ago and saw it online. I know that some people use them, but I personally wouldn’t. For one, I don’t have anywhere to put it, since I never carry purses or anything (only use pockets) and for another, it would be gross and embarrassing to have to wash it all the time in the sinks in front of everyone. I would just find it really inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 02:02 PM
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Why would that make someone a coward for not wanting to kill others? Besides, there’s still thousands that are voluntarily serving, so there’s no point in a draft, especially one that’s sexist against men and considers them to be nothing more than disposable pawns.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:25 PM
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True, but I believe that this thinking is also harmful towards men. Meaning, just like not all women hate sex and some would even like it constantly, not all men want sex constantly or some don’t want it at all and there doesn’t need to be a specific reason why. Sure, it hurts to be rejected, but what matters most is to respect them saying no. Maybe they might not be attracted to the person asking or they’re asexual. Maybe they just feel sick or tired or have a low libido. Or maybe they find sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:22 PM
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I have always put toilet paper down when using a public toilet. I usually have to clean it first too, since many women decide to leave a huge mess all over and not flush.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 01:04 PM
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That depends on the person. Men should feel just as scared/worried of someone hurting them, regardless of gender, as women do. My husband and I are equally cautious of those that we don’t know and even those that we do know. Knowing that even family members kill each other, there’s always that worry we have when around anyone. Also, we both don’t feel comfortable walking alone at night or day even and go everywhere together if possible to protect each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 12:55 PM
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Women aren’t required by law to sign up for the draft. I think they should greatly appreciate this advantage, but it should also be dismantled. No one should be required to sign up for the draft. Fighting in wars should be voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 12:49 PM
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What they should do to make it equal is not require men to sign up for the draft. No one should be forced to fight and either kill others or be killed themselves. If someone wants to do that willingly, then that’s one thing. I find it disgusting to force/blackmail someone into it with threats of imprisonment or other consequences, but especially when it’s a sexist reason like this.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 08:42 AM
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I’m not sure what the medical condition you’re referring to is, though in most cases (even those concerning certain medical conditions) it’s much safer for them to be adults when having that done for a number of reasons (whether medically necessary or if they choose to do it for cosmetic purposes). One reason is because the foreskin doesn’t start developing until around puberty and usually finishes fully developing around 18yr old, which is why when done on infants and children, surgeons have to…
/r/MensRights31/03/21 06:11 PM
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I think another really good (hypothetical) example is if someone’s parents had a cosmetic procedure done on them right after they were born to change their eye color (just because the parents thought it’d look better), which resulted in them being permanently colorblind. When they grow up they may say that they’re fine and happy it was done since those around them complement their eyes. Sure, they can still see, but they’ll never know what they’re missing and all for the sake of being cosmetical…
/r/MensRights31/03/21 03:54 PM
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Oh, actually I did some more research. If you go to this link, then you will find a comment from a Jewish man that had it done and how he claims it’s sexual abuse. It showed as comment 19 when I found it. There were also soother articles I read when researching just now with men saying that they believe it’s rape to do that. So yes, I can now say with 100% certainty that there are men that feel that this is rape and Jewish men that feel that what was done to them was rape. It's child abuse
/r/MensRights17/12/20 09:44 PM
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Honestly, I don’t know anyone that personally had a bris such as the one I described done and expressed it. But I could easily ask any man how they would feel about that. For example, my husband said that he would consider it rape. So yes, I’m mostly assuming, but it’s an assumption that’s based on common sense. Also, at the same time, you are assuming that out of billions of men, none would consider it rape. In the end, I take into consideration this: It is not against the law in most countries…
/r/MensRights17/12/20 09:27 PM
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Maybe it’s a misunderstanding then. But whether we agree on the matter or not and whether it’s considered rape by law, there are plenty of men that feel that they were raped when a person non-consensually sucked the blood off of their newly mutilated penis or even did all that and gave them herpes as well as a result.
/r/MensRights17/12/20 09:10 PM
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Did I ever state that I was? Also, neither are you.
/r/MensRights17/12/20 08:58 PM
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No, not once did I say that I am the goddess of Men’s Rights. I never said that it’s my job to approve nor do I even believe that I must approve anything that you nor anyone else has said nor wish to say. All I was saying is that your comments indicate to myself and potentially others that you have ideas that oppose Men’s Rights. This whole post is about how forced infant circumcision against men is wrong and it’s a breach of trust. It should only be done with consent and your comments seem to s…
/r/MensRights17/12/20 08:56 PM
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Also, is there a reason why you’re on a r/MensRights post if you’re clearly not for Men’s Rights given what you’ve said in your comments to me?
/r/MensRights17/12/20 08:39 PM
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I’m honestly not sure about what you’re trying to say with the majority of your comment, so I’m just going to answer the part about rape: Yes, I understand that legally it’s not considered rape just how it’s not legally considered rape when men are made to penetrate and raped by woman. I’m not even speaking about the legal part of what happens during the bris, but that it morally is rape. It’s not illegal just like there’s countries where it’s not considered rape if you force yourself on your sp…
/r/MensRights17/12/20 08:37 PM
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I’m not a man, so I don’t know the specifics, but I have heard from uncircumcised men that sex with women usually doesn’t require lubrication (except the natural lubrication that’s produced) due to the foreskin. It’s the lack of the foreskin that causes too much friction and prevents the penis from being able to easily slide in and out.
/r/MensRights17/12/20 05:53 PM
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I was hoping this was sarcasm, but I feel like it’s not. While it’s legally not considered rape, if it’s not medically necessary and it’s without consent (infants can never consent), then it’s rape. It doesn’t matter if the person doing it intended for the baby to “be calm” or whatever. In the same regard, people could rape/sexually assault people and say that it was to “make them feel good” or to “teach them how to have sex”. If anything like that happened to me, I definitely would consider it …
/r/MensRights17/12/20 05:45 PM
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Well, every part of your body has some form of purpose, otherwise, it wouldn’t be there. But let’s say as an example: Your parents had parts of your ears surgically removed so that only the parts completely necessary for hearing are there (so basically the bottom flappy lobe is gone) and they also have surgery to remove your belly button as that also is considered unnecessary. Now while these parts appear to be useless, do you think it’d be okay for these to be removed and would you yourself be …
/r/MensRights17/12/20 05:16 PM
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Actually, during circumcision (the bris) for babies born to Jewish families (not all I believe, but some) have their penis sucked to remove blood from the wound after being cut and this usually leads many to get STDs, such as herpes and some have died. So not only are their sexual organs being permanently mutilated, they’re also being orally raped in front of their families as an infant and since it’s considered for a religious reason, it’s completely legal. Here’s an article of one of the death…
/r/MensRights17/12/20 04:52 PM
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Well, I just found out that a jury found her not guilty of any wrong-doing, so a child rapist just got away with no consequences.
/r/MensRights07/12/20 10:00 AM
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In the same regard, I could say that the fact that boys are told since birth that they can’t be raped, while girls are usually told all the different ways to protect themselves or the fact that boys get made fun of or congratulated when raped by a girl makes boys even more vulnerable. Though I will say that women are more vulnerable around women sort of the same way as boys are when you consider how they’re told that only men can rape, which does lead them more open to being raped by another wom…
/r/MensRights02/12/20 05:20 AM
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That’s essentially how it is in most countries unfortunately. That’s why the “official” number of woman rape victims is higher than men. I’m not an expert on this at all, but going by some studies I’ve read about, if the law considered things like made to penetrate as rape, then the number of rape victims that are men would be either the same or more than the number of rape victims that are women (especially when you count those that are raped during wars who don’t report). Some of the studies a…
/r/MensRights02/12/20 05:09 AM
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For a second, I thought you were saying that this wasn’t rape. But I understand what you mean. It’s definitely rape in my opinion, but if it will mean a heavier and just punishment to call it Child Sexual Abuse in place of rape, then I guess I’m fine with that. I really hate that we have to label these things differently though just so people can understand how wrong this is.
/r/MensRights02/12/20 12:35 AM
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Another article that still fails to call it rape, because the rapist was a woman and the victim was a boy.
/r/MensRights01/12/20 11:41 PM
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I think I understand parts of what you’re trying to say, but you’re going about it the wrong way. I get that on average men are born physically stronger than women and put themselves at risk more in so many situations (even at work), but it’s a generalization and not true in every situation. The way this is worded sounds like you’re insinuating that men are superior to women and that women need to accept that they are inferior. Also, this may make many men feel bad about themselves if they can’t…
/r/MensRights13/10/20 06:48 PM
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Thank you for that translation. In case anyone wants to know, I wanted to add that the sign on the person to the left says, “I was told it wasn't rape because he was my boyfriend,” according to Google translate.
/r/MensRights19/09/20 09:40 PM
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If you mean that in the eyes of the law they’re married due to common law, then that does make sense. However, I think that because they were never officially married with a marriage certificate and ceremony, then maybe they consider it divorce when they agreed to break up. Either way, spousal support doesn’t seem fair in most cases, especially this one. I think the only thing that should qualify for spousal support is when a divorce occurs because of cheating/abuse and the culprit pays (women i…
/r/MensRights12/09/20 01:44 AM
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I’m not agreeing or disagreeing with either of you and I think that you both have valid points in some ways. I’m going to say that, yes, there are those that hate being catcalled and being a man doesn’t suddenly make you enjoy being catcalled, because gender doesn’t determine your feelings and whatnot. I really dislike the idea that “all men love the attention and only care about sex”, which is not true at all. I will say, however, that in my personal experience as someone who was around those t…
/r/MensRights10/09/20 04:58 PM
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I’m a girl and I’ve walked around at midnight plenty of times almost daily even when I was 13 and I grew up in Philadelphia (not such a safe place). I mean, it was and is still a dangerous place to walk at night (with certain areas being much worse), but it’s dangerous for everyone and not just women. Men would be robbed, shot/stabbed and killed so often there that, unfortunately, most people just stopped caring and see it as a normal event like a rainy day.
/r/MensRights10/09/20 04:26 PM
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Unfortunately, the original post got removed for not being considered a meme.
/r/MensRights09/09/20 06:39 PM
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Wow, I didn’t know that. I knew that Michigan was the only state (from what I researched) to still have a law against adultery where you technically can’t even have an open marriage with the consent of everyone involved. But I never knew that it specified that only men would get into legal trouble. I don’t know how sexist laws like that get passed or even still exist.
/r/MensRights07/09/20 10:28 PM
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I took a look at the comments on this post in that sub and it was horrible. How can so many people have such horrible opinions? I wondered how not even 1 person said anything about it. Since I know that it’s against the rules to comment and upvote/downvote on both this post and the one it mentioned, I decided to only comment on that one, however, it wouldn’t even allow me to. I guess because I follow this sub. However, I have a friend who used her account to comment a differing opinion like I wa…
/r/MensRights04/09/20 12:19 AM
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Yes, if someone wants to do so voluntarily, then even though I disagree with war, I’m not completely against that if that’s what they want. It’s just that I will never agree with anyone being forced into something such as this.
/r/MensRights13/08/20 09:50 PM
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Did this happen in Austria or the US? Also, I understand the inequality of only men being forced to register for the draft, but shouldn’t everyone instead be fighting for there to be no draft for anyone, regardless of sex? I just hate the idea of people being forced to fight when it goes against their beliefs. If the leaders of countries can’t agree and want a war, then they should fight amongst themselves instead of using everyone else as disposable pawns.
/r/MensRights12/08/20 04:34 PM
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I’m normally shorter than most people I’m around as I’m 5ft 2in, so I always choose to sit in the middle as it’s easier than making someone bigger sit in there. It can get awkward when you’re surrounded by strangers, but still I think it’s the right thing to do if you’re the smallest (unless someone else specifically requests to sit in the middle).
/r/MensRights19/01/20 09:46 PM
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I believe it depends on how someone pressures someone. If someone keeps bothering someone for sex when they keep saying no, then that’s at least some form of harassment. In certain situations, even saying yes can still be rape. For example: If a person threatened to kill you or your loved ones if you don’t have sex with them, then that’s a form of being pressured into having sex and ultimately rape as it wasn’t true consent. Anyone blackmailing you at all in order to have sex is rape. Some peopl…
/r/MensRights07/11/19 04:45 PM
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People need to start not caring about someone’s gender, race, religion, sexual orientation, etc unless it’s actually important to the situation. I know others are sexist and would comment differently based on gender, but I would comment the same on both the guy’s and girl’s post. While this particular story is fake in order to show sexism, if it were real I would think both OP’s are NTA going by the information given. Nowhere in the post did they say that they called their friend ugly nor that t…
/r/MensRights06/11/19 09:25 PM
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I think the majority of your points are valid. The only one that they could definitely argue on is the part about abortion and reproductive rights. It’s true that they could order a female condom online, but it’s only 79% effective, so 21 out of 100 people can get pregnant and that’s a lot. I know that there’s plenty of other contraceptives, but they can get expensive, have side-effects that are too much for some (bloodclots, stroke, depression, suicidal thoughts, death, etc.) and aren’t 100% ef…
/r/MensRights01/11/19 01:29 AM
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Anytime someone says something sexist like “mansplaining” or “manspreading” and whatever else, I just don’t even take them seriously anymore. You can say condescending when appropriate, but not just because someone says something that you don’t agree with and they happen to be a man. I know of one video where a guy stood up for himself and said how would the woman feel if he said that she was womansplaining. I would love to see more videos where the man or someone else stands up for him in order…
/r/MensRights01/11/19 01:12 AM
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Yeah. They said that this is a hate subreddit and referred me to r/MensLib. I was subscribed to that too for a year, but the majority of posts I kept seeing seemed feministic. I finally had enough and unsubscribed once I saw a post that said it was 2 years after the MeToo movement and had a huge list for men to remember. While it seemed to understand that men could be victims too, it went on to basically insinuate that only men could rape or assault someone. I mean, you could say that maybe it w…
/r/MensRights30/10/19 02:26 AM
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I was banned from commenting in r/rape and giving helpful advice to survivors due to “supporting MensRights” according to the mod. I can only direct message those asking for advice instead of it being shown publicly to help anyone that comes across it. At least I can still post in r/MenGetRapedToo.
/r/MensRights30/10/19 02:14 AM
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Once a year, I would go to Planned Parenthood from 2014-2018 for birth control as they would give a prescription for a full year and without an exam. The bad thing was that they never allowed my husband to be in the room with me, despite me asking (I have really bad anxiety and don’t like going to appointments myself). Maybe not all are like that, but that one at least is. Anyway, besides that, they would always ask me each time if he abused me and go over so many pointless things involving it a…
/r/MensRights30/10/19 02:04 AM
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True, but maybe it would finally teach them that it’s wrong and that there’s consequences to it. Of course not everyone is going to learn nor care, but it would help to eventually lower the amount of people who do this. It’s the same reason as why murder, rape, theft, etc. is illegal. They’re all obviously wrong, but making it illegal and giving consequences help lower the rates of them happening.
/r/MensRights01/10/19 02:13 AM
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It was right to charge with rape as she consented to sex with him without protection on the grounds that he had a vasectomy. As he lied, then it’s rape as it wasn’t the agreement they had had. The same thing should be charged to women as well when they lie about being on birth control. One of my sisters did that to someone she had just met on a blind date and immediately became pregnant and did it all to trap him. Years later, he’s now her fiancé only due to the kid. I feel disgusted with her ev…
/r/MensRights01/10/19 02:07 AM
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I personally think that if someone decided to sterilize themselves, then it should be discussed with their partner as they should be informed that they will not be able to have children with them. In the end though, it is ultimately the choice of the person getting the surgery as it is their body. A man should be able to get a vasectomy if he wants regardless of what his partner wants and vice versa. Again, the only thing they should have to do is inform their partner since it does affect the ab…
/r/MensRights06/09/19 11:53 PM
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I literally got the same message when I first signed up and followed both. I now have to personally message the poster when giving advice.
/r/MensRights04/09/19 06:04 PM
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This can definitely happen. There’s so many times that my husband describes me fully talking to him with my eyes open and even getting up to shut the door or something like that, yet I remember none of it and was asleep the whole time. Other people have said the same thing when I was little and living with my parents or at sleepovers. While I would be okay if my husband had sex with me when I’m sleeping, I understand not everyone else is okay with that sort of thing and having a condition like t…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 10:28 PM
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Not every school couple. My husband and I started dating in high school and never sent each other nudes and not because we were too afraid to ask.
/r/MensRights07/07/19 03:24 AM
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Yeah, I definitely didn’t like that scene. If it were a grown man demanding a 16 year old girl to strip, then there definitely would be a problem. But of course it’s considered comedy when the same thing happens to a 16 year old boy if that person is a grown woman. Also, it’s true that the part with MJ trying to sneakily look at Peter while he was changing wasn’t right. I guess it wasn’t as bad as the other situation as at least she’s also just a teenager and they both like each other, but still…
/r/MensRights07/07/19 01:58 AM
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That’s my problem with it. I keep having mixed feelings. I’m attracted to him and feel wrong for it as he’s depicted as a 16 year old, but then Tom Holland is 23 and only slightly younger than me. It just confuses me.
/r/MensRights07/07/19 01:49 AM
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Not only is it true that he could just be a grower as that’s more common than a shower, but even if his penis was smaller than average what does it matter? Why do people have to say such hateful things like this? The guy is really beautiful and yet they can’t get past the size they think his penis might be. It’s disgusting to see behavior like this.
/r/MensRights27/06/19 02:18 PM
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Sounds like it to me. Sexism, racism or any other prejudice shouldn’t be taught no matter what. I don’t care if all but one person of a specific race, religion, sex, sexuality, etc. is a certain way. If there’s at least one person that’s not that way, then you should never assume all are a specific way. People need to start getting to know a person by their actions and not what they were born as.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 10:44 PM
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Who’s idea was it to do something like this? That’s not funny.
/r/MensRights31/05/19 10:37 PM
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They seriously have this in places???
/r/MensRights31/05/19 10:37 PM
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It depends on the woman, but usually it does hurt if it gets hit too hard or if it’s not ready.
/r/MensRights26/05/19 02:06 AM
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I understand. My point was that 5in is the perfect size for many women going by the average vagina depth. Though according to studies, the average size of penises and vaginas vary depending on race so around 5in is average for white men and women specifically. Anyway, having the extra inches would mainly be for show if a man were 7+ inches, while the woman is only 5in deep. But what you said is true. People really do have problems if they care that much about penis size and not the personality a…
/r/MensRights26/05/19 01:51 AM
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It’s posts like these that are disgusting. Men can’t control the penis size they were born with. Also, every vagina is different and while some can handle 5in+, others can’t. My vagina is only 5in deep, so nothing longer can even fit.
/r/MensRights26/05/19 12:09 AM
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I’m a woman and I don’t believe that way. I believe that a guy should be able to choose if he wants to be a father just like a woman should also have that choice. Just like how a woman should have a certain time to decide (up until the fetus is developed enough like around 20 weeks or if there is a major risk or something serious like that), it should be that he has a certain time (after he’s notified of the child or children) to let them know he wishes to give up parental rights and won’t be re…
/r/MensRights19/05/19 08:44 PM
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When I saw the original post just about the domestic abuse against men hotline being shared on Facebook it made me mad to see how many laugh emojis there were as well as how many people shared it to make fun of it. You would never see tons of people making fun of a post sharing a hotline for domestic abuse against women.
/r/MensRights09/05/19 04:02 AM
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Well, usually a server asks if the bill will be split. If they ever forget to, you can always ask them if they can split it instead and it will be split according to what you specifically ate unless you say otherwise. Shareables can be tricky and that’s the only time I can think of that you would need to specify how it gets split. If you’re saying what if the person objects, then I think that’s just their problem. As far as the restaurant is concerned, after you have the bill split and pay your …
/r/MensRights27/04/19 03:53 AM
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Technically, everyone who goes on a date if it’s with someone they don’t know well is supposed to let someone they trust know the details of who they’re with and where it’s at and when to check in. More men should really start doing this instead of just women as anyone can get kidnapped, raped and murdered regardless of the gender of their date. For the part about payment: If it wasn’t already established how the bill would be paid like if it’s someone’s treat, then it should be assumed to be sp…
/r/MensRights27/04/19 03:15 AM
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When I tell people I believe in true equality for all I immediately have to mention that I’m an Egalitarian and not a Feminist as that favors women. It’s unfortunate though that many people need me to explain what an Egalitarian is.
/r/MensRights27/04/19 02:50 AM
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I assume at this point you’re not being serious on the matter.
/r/MensRights24/04/19 12:55 AM
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Or maybe another reason why it should be illegal for women to do this. But again, even if a guy chose not to masturbate, what about in the cases of rape? There’s no way to fully prevent it.
/r/MensRights24/04/19 12:12 AM
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I remember seeing a website that advertised how they have helped mothers to give their children up in adoption without the father’s consent even when the father objected and didn’t do anything wrong like being abusive and was able to care for the child. It had an entire outline for how they were going to help you do so. It’s been some times since I saw that, so I can’t remember the website name. Maybe I’m wrong with how common it is, but it can happen. This is what I’ve found when looking now. h…
/r/MensRights23/04/19 03:41 PM
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Yes, I understand and agree. It’s one thing to do so as a character and another to do it for real.
/r/MensRights23/04/19 04:37 AM
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In today’s time in the USA, that’s not a good thing to like shaming men just because they are men. But I think that for the character herself in the time period she’s in it’s a good thing to shame sexist men. She doesn’t act like a typical girl of that time period and she wants to fight along side her army instead of hiding somewhere in safety, so she’s respectable. Many of the male characters in the show are sexist (not exactly the major ones, but the minor ones), so it’s cool when a female sho…
/r/MensRights23/04/19 02:48 AM
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I really think you’re just a sexist troll or are so ignorant that you can’t understand the stupidity coming from your comments. No amount of facts will stop you from thinking women hold no responsibility from their actions nor from thinking they are superior to men and should have more rights.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 07:29 PM
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But a mother leaving the father with full responsibility of the child that is hers and that she should be equally responsible for is not the same as adoption. Again, I’m saying your double standard thinking. That it’s okay if the mom does it, but not the father.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 07:25 PM
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So then if it were reversed and the father left the child in the care of its mom, then what’s the difference? I’m just stating that you said that was wrong, but not the other way around. You said the dad was abandoning the child even if they left it in the care of the mom.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 07:20 PM
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Not even that. A guy would have to never even masturbate for fear of the woman stealing sperm from the trash. A guy would also have to have 24/7 security to prevent rape as well so that their rapist doesn’t get pregnant.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 07:06 PM
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There have been men that went to court for child support from the woman, but were denied by the judge as they don’t believe women should pay or if they were awarded it was such a small amount in comparison even if the woman makes a lot. I would also rather a child be left with responsible care than thrown out in a dumpster, but it’s still the same as abandoning your child. You kept saying a man shouldn’t abandon his child, but that a woman can do the same thing and it’s not abandonment for some …
/r/MensRights22/04/19 06:59 PM
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I’m confused. What exactly is illegal about a man leaving the relationship with the woman or the child? All of it is legal, it’s just that the law makes him still responsible but doesn’t make the woman responsible if the situation were reversed. If the mom has the kid, leaves it with the dad and never returns, she isn’t responsible for child support. Women don’t even need to go through adoption either. They can literally just dump their kid at a fire station or any designated place with no quest…
/r/MensRights22/04/19 06:47 PM
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That still doesn’t stop a guy from having an unwanted child. Being married doesn’t mean you consent to have kids nor for your wife to steal your sperm from a condom nor stop taking birth control behind your back.
/r/MensRights22/04/19 07:15 AM
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Abandon definition: Cease to support or look after (someone); desert. So when a mom gives up her child in the adoption or fostering process, she is literally abandoning her child. She leaves the child in the care of someone else (most of the time complete strangers) and hopes that person will always be financially responsible as she no longer has to financially provide for the child. When a father gives up his child, he usually leaves it in the care of the mother. It’s the exact same concept, bu…
/r/MensRights22/04/19 07:07 AM
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That’s if the kid gets fully adoptive. If they’re in a foster home, then the foster parents get money from the state funded by taxpayers. For the other scenario, again the father has no choice to put an end to the child’s existence as it’s all on the mother. If the mother is allowed to decide to no longer want maternal rights nor any financial responsibility, she can easily do so but the father can’t. It’s just not right to only give the woman a choice and the father is screwed. It’s not even al…
/r/MensRights20/04/19 02:58 AM
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Many women have taken the sperm from used condoms and impregnated themselves and the men had to pay. Another one gave the guy a blowjob and didn’t swallow only to then later impregnate herself and the judge ruled it as a gift and he was responsible.
/r/MensRights20/04/19 02:47 AM
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Yes, it’s wrong for them to block men out of the child’s life, but it’s also wrong for the father to be forced to pay without them having a choice. For one, women (usually) have the option to get an abortion if they don’t want their baby when men can’t. For another, women can also give their baby up for adoption without the father being allowed to adopt it in many cases. Those two things alone should allow the father the right to choose to relinquish their rights and ultimately their financial r…
/r/MensRights20/04/19 02:44 AM
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How is it legal for a father to not automatically get custody when the mom doesn’t want their child as long as the dad wants them and isn’t abusive? It’s not right to tear away a child or children from their father just because their mom doesn’t want them.
/r/MensRights10/04/19 07:12 PM
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What I don’t get is why they think you’re supposed to be getting naked in front of other people like that to begin with. But yeah, parents do stupid things to make their kids look and be just like them. It seems like a vanity thing.
/r/MensRights27/03/19 06:18 PM
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The 100% definite adverse effect is deforming and causing excruciating pain for a tiny, defenseless, non-consenting baby that had just been born and never felt pain their entire lives and now had to feel that all of a sudden. Then, many times it leads to infection; it can also lead to a permanently deformed penis (meaning deformed in a way that’s not socially acceptable); create problems urinating or complete loss of function; the worst is that it can lead to death. There have also been studies …
/r/MensRights21/01/19 05:26 PM
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I don’t think anyone should be drafted regardless of gender. If the world leaders can’t come to a peaceful understanding and want to fight, then let them. Don’t let innocent people die fighting their battles for them, while they sit comfortably in their office or at home not caring about those that die. I’m already upset that my husband had to sign up for the draft, because even though it’s not around it could come back.
/r/MensRights20/01/19 05:32 AM
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It might just depend on where you live. The city I used to live in had them, but when I moved to where I’m at now I did find one that didn’t base prices by male/female.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 08:45 PM
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I’ve never been to a barber, but the hair salons I’ve been to have a list of prices and have different prices for men and women for the same services. My husband paid $10 to get his hair washed, blow dried, cut and styled and it took over an hour for him, when I paid $30 to have the same services and ended up taking 20 minutes less than him. His also ended up requiring more work due to him not taking care of his hair, but they only base the price on gender and not how much work it is.
/r/MensRights17/01/19 05:06 AM
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For me specifically, I have long hair that is down to my waist. I get my hair cut maybe once a year or less. I went around 4 years without going anywhere for my hair as I mostly just keep it natural. When I get my hair cut I usually don’t talk more than necessary unless the hair stylist strikes up a conversation first. My hair doesn’t take long to cut as I normally only have dead ends cut. It takes maybe a minute at the most to explain what I want done. I had only once shown a picture of what I …
/r/MensRights17/01/19 02:16 AM
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I always believed charging more or less based on gender is wrong. I hate how they have lady’s nights, but never men’s nights at least where I’m at. This kind of thing happens with women too with hair cuts and I get that women on average have long hair and men have short hair, but why is it that even if a woman have very short hair and a man has very long hair they still charge the woman more and the man less? It should just be illegal to do this as it is discriminatory.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 11:20 PM
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I saw this some years ago and it still makes me cry.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 10:33 PM
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There are literally so many different websites with articles stating the myth of looseness from sex that it can easily be googled. Here’s some right at the top: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201109/the-rare-truth-about-tight-and-loose-women%3famp https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/loose-vagina http://helloflo.com/10-common-vagina-myths-debunked/ https://www.bustle.com/p/how-does-sex-affect-your-vagina-its-time-to-debunk-that-loose-myth-27…
/r/MensRights31/12/18 04:24 AM
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It’s already been proven that it’s a myth for the vagina to lose its tightness through sex. The only way is through childbirth (or some really huge object) and even that isn’t permanent. The time it takes varies with different factors, but women will go back to the size they were when they’ve fully healed.
/r/MensRights30/12/18 09:27 PM
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Yes, most use that as an excuse, but there are some that actually don’t understand how bad it really is. They get told it’s not that painful and they believe in all the unproven benefits. What it does prove though is that they’re not mature enough to have children if they don’t even have common sense to know that this is a horrendous procedure. You’re literally causing your child unnecessary pain and subjecting them to so many risks, besides the fact that you’ve now permanently mutated their pen…
/r/MensRights14/12/18 11:07 PM
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I already got banned from being able to comment on r/rape where I would provide helpful advice to those that were sexually assaulted all because I am subscribed to r/MensRights. The reason given to me was that this is a hateful subreddit against women and I would be given commenting privileges back if I no longer support r/MensRights. Obviously, I didn’t do that though. I don’t think this is hateful. I’ve seen many great posts from here.
/r/MensRights04/11/18 11:22 PM
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Technically, no one is legally able to give consent to sex or most things in general while drunk regardless of gender. It’s just one of those cases where you know it wasn’t legitimate rape though as she’s not indicating at all she didn’t want to have sex. She’s just indicating that for some reason she’s not capable of having sex while sober. It obviously does sound like it is some kind of mental trauma though if she was sexually abused in the past, so it’s her only way to cope.
/r/MensRights01/11/18 10:44 PM
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The comments on the article make me sick! This is why male rape and sexual assault is underreported. I hate double standards so much.
/r/MensRights05/04/18 04:22 PM
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