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| 2 | How are average looking men supposed to meet women?Good, actionable advice that actually breaks things down in a manner that doesn’t come off as robotic and try hard. Good post! | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How are average looking men supposed to meet women?Not the person you were talking to but my question to you is, if you’ve been going to the gym for that long I assume you’re in decent shape. Are you sitting around waiting for women to initiate with you or give you hard signals that they want you to approach? Because when I was in the best shape of my life, I thought women would flock to me and it did not happen. Now I will be one to tout how important physical attractiveness in regards to things you can control but, at the end of the day, you s… | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How are average looking men supposed to meet women?Couldn’t agree more with your post. Realistically, there’s things in your control and things not in your control. To whine and bitch and moan and complain about the things not in your control (dick size, hairline, facial features, height, bone structure, etc) and believe that you’re destined to die alone is a loser mindset that will keep guys stuck because there is no getting out of there own way because those things cannot be changed. The solution is to work on the things within your control an… | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 03:09 AM |
| 2 | How are average looking men supposed to meet women?Now this is something I can get behind which is different than what the other guy said. I think the solution like you said is to be above average in appearance which is something that anyone can do. Just like with the things you described, you doing those things made you attractive enough to the women that you were shooting your shot with and surrounding yourself with. This makes perfect sense. It’s less reliant on the viewpoint that you can look like shit but game beautiful women and make women… | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How are average looking men supposed to meet women?I think it’s wishful thinking on your part and kind of a cope no offense. But hey whatever works for you my friend. I’m fact, if you doing it your way allows you to succeed who am I to tell you otherwise? There’s more than one way to peel the proverbial potato. Just cause I think differently than you doesn’t make me right. Just sharing my opinion is all. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How are average looking men supposed to meet women?Ehhh that’s debatable about the specific character traits that we can embody. People in the PUA world get rejected substantially more than they succeed. If personality was everything, then we would have substantially more control over the outcome than we do. But we don’t. Now does that mean improving yourself won’t improve your odds? Of course not. But at the end of the day, I guess where my mind goes on this subject is that there is a subset of men out there who suck with women and hearing that… | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 09:40 PM |
| 3 | How do you become "that guy"?The solution is to stop worrying about trying to become “that guy” and to just shut up and try. Seriously, crawl before you walk padawan. The reality is most dudes who are truly that skillful with women don’t even think twice about it. They are just being themselves. But they all also started from ground zero as well and they learned over time what worked for them and what didn’t. At the end of the day, you need to start just putting yourself out there and say fuck it. Give it your best shot. If… | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 08:50 PM |
| 2 | How are average looking men supposed to meet women?Ehhhh this is kind of shit advice not gonna lie. It’s runs too far in the other direction. That it’s all about personality. Idk why this is the go to advice on this subreddit. I feel like all that advice will do is cause people to get stuck in their heads walking on eggshells being overly critical of fucking things up when they didn’t do anything wrong. It’ll make guys feel like they need to put on a dance or a performance to convince a chick to give him a chance when in reality, the girl just w… | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 08:45 PM |
| 3 | How are average looking men supposed to meet women?You’re being too hard on yourself right from the first paragraph. At the end of the day, you’re just rejecting yourself before any woman could. With that mentality you’re never going to bother trying cause you’re going to look at it from the view of exactly what you said. “What’s the point?” The point is it’s the woman’s job to determine whether or not you’re attractive and interesting enough for her. Also, ask yourself this. Are you only attracted to the top 1% of women? Probably not. So to thi… | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 08:41 PM |
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