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| 1 | What can these Tinder gender ratio charts tell us about the male/female dynamics per country?Sure please break it down for me, how does one accurately measure womens “general trust with men in their community” and why would it be more accurate than just analyzing greater levels of social conservatism ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 10:49 AM |
| 0 | What can these Tinder gender ratio charts tell us about the male/female dynamics per country?I’ve heard a lot of both. But also even if you haven’t, it would stand to reason that a more progressive part of the world would have men less likely to insult someone for being a “hoe”. And the reverse is vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:37 PM |
| – | What can these Tinder gender ratio charts tell us about the male/female dynamics per country?The fact that you genuinely believe the “red pill’ nonsense is having any noticeable impact on whether people are using dating apps en masse tells me I’m a whole lot more qualified than you hahaha. The fact that you say “women networks” is even more telling. That gives me the same vibe as a man who uses incel forums. The same way that guy isn’t very representative of the male population, same likely goes for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:57 PM |
| 0 | The dynamic of age gap relationships is multilayered...Yup this. I don’t think it’s “jealousy”, like redpillers seem to imagine, perhaps because that narrative is more empowering. Just bitter, pathetic misandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:52 PM |
| 2 | The dynamic of age gap relationships is multilayered...I think it’s a mix of two incentives. They are legit worried about the younger woman, but they also hyperfocus on problems that might arise from said woman’s relation to men because they’re bitter about something a man did to them in the past. They’ll ignore issues unrelated to gendered conflict because that doesn’t quite provide the same stimulation. But it doesn’t mean they’re being completely fake either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | The dynamic of age gap relationships is multilayered...And ironically, the same way many white supremacists now seem to be into interracial porn, those same zoomers almost always have a biiig time fetish for older men and have sneaky links in their 30’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | What can these Tinder gender ratio charts tell us about the male/female dynamics per country?Sorry but if you think the average woman is being impacted by something as niche as that, you’re as much of a hyper online weirdo as any redpill guy LMAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:41 PM |
| 1 | What can these Tinder gender ratio charts tell us about the male/female dynamics per country?Even if it did, it’s still balanced out heavily by western /Southern Europe. Also the narrative about whether men are more “sexist” there or in Korea is a huge red herring being pushed by OP(for obvious reasons). Its actually just about social conservatism. It may very well be that Eastern European men are more comfortable with open casual sexism and performative displays of machismo, but ultimately dont take religion or strict social codes as serious. Speaking as an American you have a lot of g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:37 PM |
| 2 | What can these Tinder gender ratio charts tell us about the male/female dynamics per country?I mean.. yes ? Not sure why you think it cute to phrase that incredulously. The stats actually make perfect sense through those lens Korean and Indian women are DEFINITELY prudish. If you know people from either of these cultures, you know they’re raised in extremely socially conservative households. American women aren’t, except when compared to the most socially progressive countries on earth (Europe). At the end of the day though, they’re closer to the rest of the west than somewhere like Ind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:30 PM |
| 2 | What can these Tinder gender ratio charts tell us about the male/female dynamics per country?Ehm nah I’m sorry but I think the OP comment is hitting on something closer to the truth than your explanation, albeit I disagree with the idea of Tinder as just a hookup app. I think it’s simply a marker for greater social conservatism/religiosity. This makes sense, as america is definitely higher in those than europe overall(excluding east), but miles lower than somewhere like India. Someone imbued with less conservative values/religious shame is just gonna be more open to casual dating and oc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent dataBut also, let’s not play coy dear. Don’t be a coward. You saying “u-uhm my comment wasn’t an attempt to invalidate his study!! It was an attempt to show his fallacy!” is nonsense. Like yeah.. Which you would do.. by introducing a factor he hadn’t considered that might invalidate his study. That is essentially what you were trying to do. You’ve just rephrased it. Which btw is okay. If you think a study might be flawed because it didn’t factor in X thing, you SHOULD be trying to invalidate it! Jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent dataIt’s very telling that you invoked the “black swan fallacy”, without realizing you are the perfect example of it. You bring up that stat about depressed ’moral’people (your use of the word moral there is already a huge red flag), but yourself then ignore the other well documented phenomena that might indeed nullify your claim, such as the “Women are Wonderful” effect. It may very well be that women are more likely to be depressed, and experience self loathing which might make them interpret thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:16 AM |
| – | Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent dataLMFAO Tell that to the people who have been harping on the slogan “coercion is not consent!!” For YEARS. Sorry, but you don’t get to change the narrative when ur doesn’t benefit yours. Coercion is not consent. If you have to pester and manipulate a man for sex guess what? He doesn’t wanna actually have sex with you. You’re like one degree removed from being a rapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:05 AM |
| – | Young women today may be perpetrating sexual assault at similar rates as young men, according to recent dataSame here, but that’s because I was a fat kid lol. After I left HS and lost weight I’ve been sexually harassed, particularly by older women, at just about every job I’ve worked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:03 AM |
| 5 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.I’d also like to add to this, with this observation: It may very well be that people who are more attractive genuinely are more often nicer and friendlier, with the inverse of that being true as well. Because growing up good looking means that you also grew up with people generally being nice and friendly with you, thus socializing you to act that way towards others in return. We tend to characterize the so called “Halo Effect”, as some sort of purely irrational, and objectively incorrect impuls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 12:30 PM |
| – | The whole “so you want women to date men they’re not attracted to“ is a deflection. Attraction is not static, but rather fluid and relative, and is directly proportionate to your options/abundance.I think you guys often overstate the whole “women’s inflated ego” thing, or often take it at too surface level. In reality, a woman might be experiencing feelings of overstimulation when presented with so many choices in online dating. She might not be matching with/replying to you because her standards are now ‘inflated’, it’s just that there’s so many options that she’s overwhelmed and it makes her freeze up and not make any choice. To add on to that, women who publicly broadcast these super h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do women go after older men?I think fantasies themselves are relevant here, like with my “racist who watches interracial” example. No ? I’m referring to both when I say that. I’m not sure where you’re pulling the separation here from, I’m saying they did go hand in hand. What you need is something that can’t be given without seriously violating someone’s trust and boundaries. This goes for a lot of discussions we have about sex and dating though. Sex is a private thing for most. I agree social pressure is probably the culp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 08:46 PM |
| 0 | Why do women go after older men?Can’t link it, auto mod apparently removes it. Just look through my comments. Why on gods earth would I publicly expose a former lover like that to a stranger on Reddit ?? I’m not sure you caught what I was putting down with my post my friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do women go after older men?Can’t link it, auto mod removes it. Just look through my comments. Why on gods earth would I publicly expose a former lover like that to a stranger on Reddit ?? I’m not sure you caught what I was putting down with my post my friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Why do women go after older men?I’m sure those are all common reasons, but I’ve encountered a lot of women with this preference/kink, whom none of those apply to. As in not seeking money, in fact super uncomfortable when you even offer to buy them something. No daddy issues, really wholesome and strong relationship with their father. And thirdly, actually being the one hyperfocused on the age gap, more so than I ever was. Sometimes to an uncomfortable extent. I’ve literally had a girl hmu first on a dating app with “You look l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do women go after older men?Uhm no, I have had experiences with this sort of thing, and this is just not always the case sorry to say. You’d assume so but in my experience many of the same girls who would publicly post about how gross and ‘problematic’ age gaps were, are also secretly super into that stuff. I made another post about it on this thread if you want context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Why do women go after older men?I’ll repost a comment I made in another thread because it fits. For context I’m a somewhat attractive guy who looks a little older than he really is (thanks to a full beard I’ve had since I was a teenager). “Young girls might not always be geniuses, but they certainly aren’t stupid. They know the objective downsides of settling down with an older guy. They also know it’s a big social taboo (especially nowadays). So it makes me chuckle when women here say things like “uhm well none of my friends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 08:27 AM |
| 2 | On the idea of "icks" and being repulsed by a partnerThe problem is I’ve heard RP guys use ‘frame’ OUTSIDE of the context of flirting too! Which implies at least one of two things: It’s connotation is not exclusively related to flirting The man using it has tied so much of his identity and self-worth to success with women that terms he once exclusively used in relation to flirting, have now also sweeped into every day interactions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 08:25 AM |
| 1 | On the idea of "icks" and being repulsed by a partnerNothing intellectual about what imma say rn but goddamn dude, I find it so cringe when someone says “frame”. It sounds so LARPy and cringe. I say that as someone who doesn’t even always disagree with RP guys, I’m generally ’purple’ but they sometimes make good points but.. jeez why do they talk like getting pussy is a military operation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 08:22 AM |
| 6 | Are most women not interested in casual relationships?This is the actual answer lol. Shit, a significant factor in the decrease in people having sex is probably literally just that more people have switched from “I go out on the weekends with my friends and drink at the club” to “my mainly male friends just come over to my house and we continually hit a weed pen while we game”. One is a social environment in which people are loose, sociable and more likely to act on spur of the moment emotions. The other is uh.. ya know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Are most women not interested in casual relationships?Honest to god my man, you should just stop doing what you’re doing. Stop being so direct and robotically up front with your intentions and ultimate goals when you meet women. I know, it’s what all the redditors say works the best. They’re redditors (I type from Reddit lol), they represent a certain niche demographic. But in the real world? Even if a woman is secretly down for some casual fun, usually she doesn’t want it directly stated to her. That feels weird, stiff and shameful to her. She jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Women with promiscuous pasts who are sexually reserved/borderline asexual with their LTRsSee this whole discussion is baffling to me, because I’ve always had the opposite experience guys here tend to portray. I find that showing a girl I’m really into her, displaying myself as relationship material and making her know I’m open minded and not judgmental has almost ALWAYS made her show off her freak side. Like if anything my experience teaches me if you’re a scumbag and have loose morals, and wanna be the manipulative ‘Machiavelli’ type redpillers larp as and get kinky sex from women,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Most women can't seem to handle sexual rejection at all, eitherOof I can relate to this with something that happened to me recently. I was hanging out with a female friend of mine(who’s in a relationship btw), and we had both been drinking a little. Anyways I noticed she seemed like she was a little too touchy and feely, so I politely told her we should probably call it a night, and called her a ride and started walking home. She starts blowing up my phone telling me how hot I looked, that she wants me to ‘force myself’ on her, etc. all this freaky shit. I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Women's high standards are mostly talkNo my friend you misread my post, I didn’t say any of the guys I mentioned were overweight. They’re in good shape and decently good looking. I’m saying even your hottest idea of a ‘Chad’ player type, if he is actually pulling new girls on a consistent basis ? He’s not being that picky. Hooking up just isn’t as common as we picture it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 04:51 AM |
| 5 | I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date.From my experience as an attractive mid 20’s guy who gets told he looks older than he really is, this is so spot on. Young girls might not always be geniuses, but they certainly aren’t stupid. They know the objective downsides of settling down with an older guy. They also know it’s a big social taboo (especially nowadays). So it makes me chuckle when women here say things like “uhm well none of my friends do this!”. Like yeah most probably don’t, but that doesn’t mean that some don’t secretly fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.I’ve literally never had this happen tbh, and I feel like it’s not actually a huge issue if you have some backbone. When I do meet a girl like that J sniff this out early and always let them know “I’ve got my own life and interests” and most the time it stops the issue from growing. Only in the minority of cases do they decide it’s a dealbreaker, and for me it’s not much of a loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Women's high standards are mostly talkPeople don’t realize how common this is haha. The biggest ‘playas’ I know are regularly getting with women who are very overweight. Hooking up irl is not that common, and even a very attractive guy has to really lower his physical standards to pull it off consistently. And funnily enough, these guys will then go on to mock ‘fat b*tches’ to their boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 12:39 AM |
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