Eheroduelist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Dating but not officially divorced This	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/24 07:08 PM
10	Signs you're ex is not over you (or you're not over them) The hardest part for me is that I broke it off with her after years of being gaslit, verbally and physically abused, and subsequently cheated on. The person I fell in love with, despite her flaws, being angry and mean, was a sweet girl who just wanted to help people- a mask, a facade meant to delude me into thinking there was healing past trauma that would bring that person out of her. In truth, she's a selfish monster who preyed on my weakness, and left me broke and utterly humiliated in front …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/24 08:44 PM
1	6 months separated God I could have written the same thing almost verbatim, except the state and I only have one son with her	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/24 12:58 AM
2	What am I entitled to… Lawyer can help, depends on state but iirc it’s based on income & calculated out. You won’t know for sure until you 1) ask your lawyer 2) get to court	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 03:34 AM
4	Why isn’t this more well known? Describes my situation perfectly	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/24 06:11 PM
1	Home Security Document everything, talk to your lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/24 02:37 PM
4	If she was drowning… I don’t see anyone drowning…?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/24 12:31 AM
4	Why am I numb and paralyzed with inaction? How do I gain momentum to make a change? All I can say is that if she’s entertaining the thought of an affair (texts), then she’s more than happy to commit to the bit. Get out.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/02/24 05:19 PM
2	What do you miss most? (serious) I guess the question to ask is whether or not it’s worth it- I can’t speak to your situation because I don’t know what’s prompting you to flirt with the idea, but its not an easy path either way. I just pulled the trigger to start separation in March and I did it because even though she made things easy at times, most of the time she didn’t. Sure, a home cooked meal is awesome, but not worth the price of admission.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/24 05:05 PM