EilidhLiban Archive

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14	The fertility rate is inextricably linked to women’s level of “knowledge” do women procreate by fission or budding in your understanding? This thought process you just exhibited is one of the core reasons for modern demographic problems. When I was growing up, I heard multiple times that "women are future wives and mothers", but I haven't heard a single time that "men are future husbands and fathers". However, one cannot become a mother unless someone else simultaneously at this very moment becomes a father. The mindset that children are "women's business" and have no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 02:50 PM
21	The fertility rate is inextricably linked to women’s level of “knowledge” Iran had a two-child policy campaign for decades, starting from 70s. They did not enshrine it in law like in China (China has since reversed), but they deliberately pushed for families to have fewer children with banners saying “Two children are enough” and other means of social propaganda. Their goal at the start of the programme was to drop the fertility rate from 6.5 to 2.2, by 2012 they achieved 1.6. In nearly all other countries there were some kind of government coordinated pushes in the w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 02:41 PM
1	Women Have it Easier in Dating Than Men. Why can't you vet a man after you approach him? You can, of course. But if you made the initial mistake of approaching a dangerous man, you may not have a chance to reconsider anymore. Nobody is beating the shit out of a woman for asking him on a date. Come on. It does not happen every time, but it can happen. Girls are introduced to the possibility of this at very young age, and it remains at the background of your mind throughout your life. You didn't answer the question of what do you know ab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 05:20 PM
–	Women Have it Easier in Dating Than Men. Yes, this one of the reasons women generally don't do cold approaching. With warm approaching you can at least have some idea of how the man in question perceives the world and people in it. But I think the point is that the worst cost of the unsuccessful approaching for a man is being rejected, laughed at, mocked, perhaps the video of it uploaded on TikTok. The worst cost of an unsuccessful approaching for a woman is being beaten, r*ped, killed, and then the video of it uploaded on some corn we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 04:45 PM
–	Women Have it Easier in Dating Than Men. I think the_1st_inductionist meant that it's easier for men to approach because they usually do not need to be very concerned that if they approach a stranger woman she would take that as invitation to physically harm them in some way. If a woman approach a stranger man who expose some toxic ideas, he may see the approaching woman as "easy", "low value", and therefore "deserving" of physical and/or sexualised violence. The probability of this happening other way around is much much lower.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/25 04:26 PM
0	Q4Women: What is worse selling sex or buying sex? Buying sex is worse of course. The buyer is usually the one with money and power, the driver of the whole dynamic. The buyer's disordered perverted desires is the cause of the existence of trafficking of children, women, and men. The buyer is the one who can't wait to have sex with a person who doesn't want to have sex. The buyer is the one who actively harms the health of the people he buys sex from. Very few things are worse than buying sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 08:18 PM
5	If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs. It's along the lines of "If you didn't want me grabbing your ass, then why were you wearing shorts?" For these kind of men, it's more like: "If you didn't want me grabbing your ass, then why do you have an ass?" because they grab people who are wearing not only shorts, but also long loose trousers, maxi skirts, burqas, and even pampers. The existence of ass in the physical reality is for their enjoyment only in their self-centred mind. Basically, the specific men being complained about feel that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/25 09:09 AM
1	QFW When you hear people make jokes or belittle men for "compensating", having "small dick energy", or otherwise belittle people with smaller dicks, do you speak up? Yes, I try to speak up when hear body shaming or expressions of lookism against anyone. If the people I am talking to are Christians, I would also remind them that "But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”"	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 01:24 PM
8	Red pill misinterprets western historical dating and marriage patterns for non western ones Yes, in Europe, with the rise of influence of Christianity, consent of bride and groom started to matter more and more. It was more of a Roman thing to marry teenagers. For example, Pope Nicholas the Great (c. 800 – 867) in his letter to Boris of Bulgaria in the year 866 wrote about marriage: "according to the laws, the consent alone of those whose union is at issue, is enough [to make a marriage]. Yet if this consent alone is perchance lacking in the wedding, all the rest, even if it isconsumma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 10:38 AM
1	''Women aren't subjected to the draft therefor they shouldn't be able to vote'' is astoundingly bad logic I did not compare periods to being in war zone, I compared it to being in draftable age. You have to register in the US for the draft, but without the need to do anything else. I compared having periods to being signed up for the draft register, as it is in the modern US (I have never been there though). You are not forced to have a child, but you are forced to have periods. I did compare dying in war to dying in childbirth though, and gave examples of cultures who saw it similarly. A man can di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 05:14 PM
–	''Women aren't subjected to the draft therefor they shouldn't be able to vote'' is astoundingly bad logic Because one is a choice and the other is forced upon you - It is kinda forced. Even if you choose not to give birth, women still have a reproductive system much more demanding on their bodies. From ages 10-14 to 45-60 nearly every woman loses blood and iron every month, many women experience pain, some very debilitating severe pain, sickness, hormonal headaches, mood swings, dizziness, increased fatigue. In this state you are expected to continue going on with studies and work still. It's kinda …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/25 02:28 PM
1	The Most Important Key for Men's Happiness is to Not Let Their Sexual Desire Expose Them to Manipulative and Scournful Women Some very good insights you have there - your sexual desire is for you, not you for your sexual desire. People should use their sexual desires to enrich and better their lives, not be used by their sexual desires to ruin their own well-being. "Are you legitimately horny or is your body just a semen making machine and you need to release it out? Are you horny or are you really just lonely and need to go visit some friends? Are you horny or are you really just bored because you don't fill your tim…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 09:30 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? Wow, I did not expect that :D If you mean it, you have a great ability to change your opinion. It's honestly one of the best qualities, I think. Thank you for exemplifying it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/25 09:21 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? Privilege is something that helps you to get what you want and protects you from what you don't want. Being desired and lusted over because of your beauty by men could help you if what you want is casual sex with strangers. Most women don't want that. Most women want sex within a context of committed relationships, where partners actually like and appreciate each other. The knowledge that some men desire sex with everything that moves informs women that just because he desires to have sex with y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:59 PM
2	The average woman has a lower libido than the average man When it comes to sexuality is experienced, there are catalysts and inhibitors. I think that men and women have roughly the same "amount" of catalysts on average but women have much more inhibitors, and that results in the generally different behaviours observed. I am not a man, so please correct me if I am wrong, but it seems to me that to vast majority of men sexuality is associated with: pleasure, joy, satisfaction, comfort, self-esteem, appreciation, excitement. For many women, on the other h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/25 12:01 PM
–	Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens' I agree with this point: Pretty sure the gender that has 300x more options, is significantly more likely to get that 1% relationship they want. But isn't it because many dating apps have a significantly bigger male audience compared to female audience? The thing you are either missing or ignoring, is that some women also want money, time, attention, a effort, and commitment from men they have absolutely no interest in being in a relationship with. That part was in response too a line from the OP…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 04:40 PM
1	Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens' Your hypothetical is not very hypothetical. On this sub people say men don't receive any propositions at all and many of them think that receiving many propositions you don't want is better than receiving no propositions. This is why I made this hypothetical. But in my opinions, whether you do not receive any propositions at all or only receive the propositions you do not want and that are harmful to you, the result is the same - you do not get what you want. Not sure what kind of women you thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 04:32 PM
15	Mens' online dating experience is strictly worse than womens' I myself have been subject to several women who try to lead me on with a platonic relationship even when we met on a dating app, wasting months of time. So do I understand correctly that purely platonic LTR (commitment without sex) is not what you want, right? Now imagine that you have 100s of women swiping on you, or DMing you, or propositioning in any other way, but all of them only want purely platonic LTR (commitment without sex) from you. Would you be happy? In this hypothetical scenario yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/25 01:42 PM
1	Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ? I don't think women are less attracted to men per se then en are to women, but the attraction is experienced very differently. When it comes to sexuality is experienced, there are catalysts and inhibitors. I think that men and women have roughly the same "amount" of catalysts on average but women have much more inhibitors, and that results in the generally different behaviours observed. I am not a man, so please correct me if I am wrong, but it seems to me that to vast majority of men sexuality …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 03:02 PM
5	What's opinion on women's getting a man's last name nowadays? I think from the point of view of women's symbolic independence it makes no difference. You original surname is also a man's surname - your father's. And that surname was his father's before that, and his father's before that, and so on. So if someone really wants to make a point about independence, inventing your own surname and legally changing it would be the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 09:30 AM
1	What is your honest opinion on an emotional man? Depends on what you understand by emotional. Beating your wife because she didn't put enough salt in the soup is being emotional. My opinion of a man with violent outbursts is very negative, especially if he reserves these outbursts for those he consider to be not capable of answering with violence. Being controlled by lust is being emotional too, to me that is extremely pathetic. If you are talking about a man who can control his impulses in general, but experiences sadness, anxiety, phobias, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 08:21 PM
1	Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men? I wonder if this magnetic attraction that man feels towards a sexy women is a gender privilege of being female. It's not a privilege . Is it true that only the women can be so desired and lusted over because of her beauty by men? It's not good to be "loved" because you are beautiful. It's good to be seen as beautiful because you are loved - that it is the true goal. Can a man ever have well developed masculine traits that makes him as hot as a women are? Let's reverse it a bit: have you ever see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 08:01 PM
2	Do you lose respect for men who eat female genitalia? Wut??? Of course not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/25 08:34 PM
1	WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before? As we have very different values, you are right that there is no point in arguing, but I would just like to point out something I noticed in your comment. In my opinion, the following is about pragmatism, not about values. Not for an argument, but just for reflection: for virginity, for me it was never about pleasing others vs when I was virgin due to my own hormones and society making such a huge deal out of it Are you sure it is entirely not about pleasing others? Of course there is biological…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 09:41 AM
–	WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before? Because willingness to pay for sex indicates a view on sex and life in general that is incompatible with mine. Willingness to pay for sex means the person has a very extreme transactional view of relationships, sees sex as nothing special, not as an act of spousal unity which has the potential to create a new life (even if you don't want it or plan for it - yes it can, the only 100% contraception is abstinence). Such a person is also absolutely fine with having sex with a person who very likely …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/25 01:24 PM
–	What role do accountability and growth play in your relationships with men Can a man who's exhibited toxic or misogynistic behavior become someone you'd consider trustworthy, safe, or even "good"? Theoretically, it's possible, but it's rare and I would not advice anyone to count on it. Generally speaking, the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. Also, it's guaranteed that there would be no attraction from my side towards a man who's exhibited toxic or misogynistic behaviour. I think the most reasonable course of action for those who want a happy family…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 08:17 AM
1	What is toxic masculinity to you? In my understanding, the essence of toxic masculinity is regarding people physically weaker than you, in need of help or in a state of "weakness" as subhuman, unworthy, and deserving humiliation. When such mindframe is at work, usually women, other men who are perceived to be less strong, and children fall into this category. "The strong do they want, the weak suffer what they must" kinda thinking. Another aspect of toxic masculinity in my understanding is distorted view of sex, where it is seen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/25 09:32 AM
7	Motherhood is disrespected from both the left and the right — no wonder women are having fewer kids I heard from multiple women in my native country that this is a very common phrase to hear from your doctor when you are giving birth in a hospital. Sometimes they say it in even ruder manner. "Oh, painful? Well, it wasn't painful for you to f***, was it?".	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 09:01 AM
3	Female bodies are respected more than male bodies I am just curios why do you think the usage of the word 'vulva' is gross? Isn't it a respectful neutral medical term? What is a better word to refer to female genitalia then? I am not a native English speaker, but I had an impression that 'vulva' is the most neutral word available for the 'girl parts'.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/25 11:24 AM
–	Q4M- Why don’t men believe the women who express that the fit and strong photo on the left is sexy, sensuous, sensual, broad, masculine, and generally better looking and more arousing to her than the photo on the right? more attractive based on assumptions about his personality But isn't it somewhat like this with all appearance-based attraction? People subcounsly equate certain appearance features with character qualities, and that results in attraction. For example, a thin dainty woman is presumed to have soft mild kind and gentle personality, a broad-shouldered man is thought to be tough. Being tall is erroneously equated with being brave protector or smth and big breasts in women are associated with being m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/25 09:21 AM
1	Are you actually sex-negative or positive? And you should feel comfortable admitting that you do not like sex, but only like mastrubation. It's ok. Just admit it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 06:49 PM
1	Are you actually sex-negative or positive? From your comments on this thread you seem to think that being sex-positive means wanting sex all the time anywhere and with anyone. This is not the case with any other human liking, so why should it be the case with sex? Let's say you really like, I dunno, wagyu steak. You can eat lots of it. You really enjoy the aroma and the texture. Now, would you also enjoy this yummy wagyu steak after consuming 20kg of it? Does it mean you would also be over the moon to eat a rotten steak with mold on it f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 08:22 PM
3	Are you actually sex-negative or positive? "we'all" are "scared" by porn not because of sexual shame, but because: 1) When you watch porn, there is no way for you to be sure that all participants in the video are there willingly, including the men, which mean you may indirectly support human trafficking. You could mastrubating while watching someone's torture, and that someone could be a male actor too (in case it's easier for you to relate to other men). 2) It is not safe for the actors, any other job involving contact with bodily fluid…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 08:17 PM
4	Do women generally experience shame about sex and their sexuality? So you do think non conceptual scenarios are bad. If doing them is bad, does it mean one should be ashamed to do them? They are also natural. Should a natural desire to engage in a non conceptual scenario be shamed? When you are in public, you do not know whether you natural desire to catcall or something is welcomed by another person or not. You say: I’m not talking about the non consensual scenarios. How do you know whether it is conceptual before you confirm it? Desire to engage in something …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 10:00 AM
2	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? Many women would let those men simp for them though, while still considering them unworthy of dating, which is the gender flipped version. I agree, making deliberate steps towards causing someone to simp or lust after you when you have no interest in him, is very bad, when it is indeed deliberate. Vain, foolish, and dangerous. Men are similarly disturbed by women's ability to be sexually attracted to dangerous jerks simply because they're masculine or assertive or something. At least men are mor…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/25 09:21 AM
16	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? women not wanting to date low value men is just preferences and criticizing it is entitlement. These women would not still mastrubate to the images of these men though, while at the same time talking how bad for dating they are. If someone does not watch porn and does not want to date porn actors - nothing wrong with it. If someone claims someone is not likable and then proceeds to mastrubate to the image of that person, I see some kind of psychological problem here. This apparent ability of som…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 10:12 AM
2	What part of a man's personality are women attracted to? I have no standards beyond attraction. If I am attracted to someone I want to date them. So what made you attracted to the people you have been attracted before? Try to think about it. I have never been with a woman who I was attracted to before whom I did not love every second I spent with her. What exactly made the time so pleasant? Was she thoughtful of you? Speaking with soft voice? Talked about an interesting topic? I am just giving some examples of what it could be, your point may be entir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 09:56 AM
2	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? as if they really have a choice Saying as someone who was addicted to porn from the age of 9 to 17, you absolutely do have a choice. Ask yourself, how do you know that all the actors involved are there willingly? There is no way for you to know. And if you do not care about women (although I of course think that you should), think of the men. Men just like you, with thoughts, feelings, inner experiences, can be forced into some of the acts as well, through substances and coercion. And you may be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 09:35 AM
15	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? Men don't want to date those women lol. Yeah that' s the problem. You feel disgust and contempt to a porn actress, you think she is subhuman, but you are still have sex with her in your mind. This signifies that sex for you is an expression of hatred, aggression, and contempt, not love and connection. Many women see this as a problem, especially in someone they consider a relationship with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 09:22 AM
5	What’s going on with the ‘older men mainly want younger women to manipulate them’ claim? It is quite possible that signs of having given birth (loose or stretch-marked skin, sagging breasts, etc.) are not attractive to men because they may indicate the woman is currently invested in the raising of a child that is not theirs But the kind of men I was talking about feel this way about a woman who gave birth to their child, not someone else's. And even if they know it's someone else's, it is a sure sign that a woman is fertile and is able to make babies, so if fertility is indeed the m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 09:19 PM
22	What’s going on with the ‘older men mainly want younger women to manipulate them’ claim? I'd like to question your idea that men are visually attracted to late teens - early twenties women because of their fertility. 1) Body hair are a sign of fertility, and I am not talking only about pubic hair, but also leg and armpits, and other. They appear in both men and women when a person becomes fertile. Men like that are usually disgusted and repelled by this biological sign of fertility. 2) Menstrual blood is a sign of fertility. Yes, at the moment od the menstruation a woman is not fert…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 06:28 PM
2	What part of a man's personality are women attracted to? Hi, OP! they are looking for or what part of me they want to see I think you need to firstly understand who are THEY? If you want a relationship, what kind of partner would you like to see next to you? What qualities does she have? And what character drawbacks would you be willing to overlook, and what are the non-negotiables? After having a clear understanding of this, you would be able to theorise what qualities women like that are likely to want in you, and where you could meet a woman like t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 04:38 PM
1	How do women in relationships react when they meet a man significantly more attractive and more successful than their current partner? For me, there is no such thing as more attractive than my husband, and there cannot be, will never be - in my eyes. In my opinion, you have some very questionable assumptions baked into your question: 1) "You have a decent relationship but it's nothing special" - is there love, respect, commitment and firm decision to cherish each other in this relationships? If there is, then this is the special thing. You overlook the essential ingredient, the very thing that makes relationship. 2) The descrip…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 08:42 AM
2	As a man, "decentering" women is one of the best things you can do for yourself I don't want to name the country, because it would make it theoretically possible for someone to identify me from other comments, and I am not comfortable with that. But it is on the East from you. If you are comfortable sharing, how did the culture you grow up in instilled the message that men have to chase women into you? Was it coming from your peers or from adults? Or from everywhere at once? How did you feel the pressure? Was the pressure to just chase women with no goal at the end or chase…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 05:26 PM
1	As a man, "decentering" women is one of the best things you can do for yourself Encountering this sentiment in this and other subs made me wonder if this is a Western thing? Growing up in a non-Western country I don't think there was such an emphasis on dating in relationships in teenage years (I am 25 now). Granted, I am a woman so I experienced growing up as a girl, but it seems to me back then boys my age were not as hyper focused on dating either. I had male friends and they at least appeared to have other areas of focus. I just asked my husband about his experience and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 10:47 AM
2	Would a stigma-free, normalised sex work industry reduce how many men participate in dating? Sex work you describe involves contact with bodily fluids, so this kind of sex work would require wearing protective equipment in order to be physically safe, like other types of work involving contact with bodily fluids - masks, gloves, goggles, may be even a hazmat suit, in addition to condoms of course, and perhaps a regular STI and other medical testing for you too. Are male prostitutors in for that? Not even mentioning social implications of such a thing, as other commenters on this thread …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/25 10:27 AM
5	Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading? "You know that men can respect you and appreciate you as a whole person, while also finding you sexually attractive, right" - of course, but it is only possible after we have known each other. In the context of already established relationships absolutely it is possible, and very much appreciated. What does a man know about a woman as a whole person when he just saw her for the first time? "If a woman expresses sexual interest in a guy, no guy will claim to feel objectified or degraded, ever." -…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 06:38 PM
1	Q4W: Would it be a red flag for a man to remain single because he couldn’t find any woman who met his standards? Two points: 1) Yes 2) At the same time, if someone has a standard "I prefer blondes" I would see it as a negative, but it would not get me into "lmao no" because this is not a standard virtually no one can meet. I don't really get it, but it's a realistic standard. Having a preference for a woman with 110cm 50cm 110cm figure in my example is plain laughable because such figure does not exist. Female equivalent would be wanting a 200cm tall boyfriend who can lift I dunno 500kg with one hand and s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 11:37 AM
1	Q4W: Would it be a red flag for a man to remain single because he couldn’t find any woman who met his standards? Generally, I would see high standards and unwillingness to just go with whatever as a green flag. But only if the standards are about his mate's character and their compatibility with each other, for example, worldview, life goals, vision of the family life. If that's the case, I think a man with good understanding of what he wants in partner and with the willpower and self-respect to stick to it is great. But if the standards are about something like 110cm 50cm 110cm figure and willing to be FW…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 08:29 AM
–	How Does Height Play Into Dating? No, in all my romantic experiences, I never considered height an important thing. I am aware ofcourse that for a lot of people height is an important consideration, but I could never really get why so many are so hanged up about it. Looking back at all the boys (when I was a girl myself) and men who provoked my interest, only one was much taller than me. Others were similar height, one was shorter. I have to say I am short myself though. For the second question, I am already married, so I would …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 09:59 AM
2	Sex Isn’t Special—You Just Think It Is "Under my framework they are morally the same" - yes, exactly. This is what MyLastBestChance said and you called it a strawman. I find your view abhorrent and inconsistent. "sex like some activity that has inherent meaning and that having sex means something." - it's like this with literally everything and not just by red pill. You treat words as if they have meaning, but actually, they don't. It's just a social convention. Also, why consent matter, under your worldview? It's also "just a conven…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 09:43 AM
3	Sex Isn’t Special—You Just Think It Is But do you really think that unconsentual elbow rubbing on a train is the same as rape? Again, under your framework, if one is to remain consistent, they are no different. But do you really feel they are the same?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 10:34 PM
5	Sex Isn’t Special—You Just Think It Is It's not a strawmen, you literally said: "sex is just another activity". This means, according to you, sex is the same as things like rubbing elbows, cooking together, playing chess. Under your view, it really is impossible to view rape as any different from someone rubbing your elbow on the street without your consent, or joining you for a cooking workshop you participate in without asking you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 05:38 PM
7	at which point misandry starts? Do you call out misogyny in men though, which is much more rampant? There are entire subs on reddit alone where large groups of men get off images of perceived or real torture of women (and they have no way of knowing which one os which) - for example the face of pain sub (not gonna link it here). If there would be similar subs where women enjoy photos of men in pain and ask for more, I would agree the problem is equal. Misandry is very often reactive, in response to things like the sub I mentio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/25 03:28 PM
1	Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ? I used to think it was a mistake I was born a girl when I was a child and thought life as a man is much better. But I don't think so anymore. Both being a man and being a woman come with its own difficulties. Now as an adult I enjoy being a woman. Wouldn't want to be a man and I don't think my quality of life would be better if I were a male equivalent of myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/25 11:21 AM
–	There is a double standard with how society tolerates women talking about men's bodies vs how society tolerates men talking about women's bodies As far as I know (I am not a Westerner), male baby genital mutilation is done routinely only in the US, not in Europe. So, talking about US - some of the things I listed done to female genitals are done routinely in the US (again, as far as I know, more knowledgeable people please correct me), namely: - episiotomies (in case someone reading doesn't know what's an episiotomy, it's when the vaginal opening is cut with scissors to make it larger, in the process muscle tissue and potentially interna…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/25 12:30 PM
1	There is a double standard with how society tolerates women talking about men's bodies vs how society tolerates men talking about women's bodies women's genitals are seen as something private and worthy of respect and protection, whereas male genitals are not. If women have the right to say "penis", I have the right to say "vagina", "vulva", "clitoris", and "labia". You seem to be arguing that male genitals are disrespected and that women's are respected, and therefore you would like both to be disrespected. I think there is flaw here - how about we go the other direction and respect everyone and treat everyone's genitals with respect? T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/25 04:56 PM
1	Do conservative men prefer liberal women? You are right here, I think! This point about legality is a good one. I believe a hundred years ago in some jurisdictions lying to get into a woman's pants was a crime. Today molestation is referring to crimes against children, but it used to include women too. Today it's not the case, so your analogy is better. However, I still think that the best way to avoid false rape allegations for a man who is concerned about it is to not sleep with stranger women, especially drunk stranger women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 01:17 PM
1	Do conservative men prefer liberal women? Well, it turns around really nicely too: If the vetting process is garbage he is not a victim of false rape accusations, he is a victim of lack of due diligence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 09:29 PM
1	Do conservative men prefer liberal women? Getting laid with a stranger woman you actively dislike? Oh, so conservative, so traditional! An example of true family values and manly virtues. A great future/current husband and father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/24 09:24 PM
1	Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin? I agree! Inexperienced people don't like the idea of being last in someone's list because an inexperienced person is likely to view sex as special, and someone with a long list who plans on continuing expanding the said list clearly demonstrate that for him/her sex is not special. But I think we should say what matters a lot for us in relationships openly. Not only it inspires more respect when you have strong values, stick by them, and hold yourself accountable to them, openly standing by them …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 07:59 PM
2	Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin? A very good point! I briefly mentioned that people do change and a man (and I should have also said a woman too) can reconsider. If it's a true change of heart, then now such a person is in another 'worldview camp' and thus would be aligning with someone who believes sex is special. I would say perhaps another person with a similar story would be the best match in this case - they can understand and support each other better. However, when two people truly love each other, and when they are in g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/24 07:38 PM
2	Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin? So sorry about your experience of heartbreak! It must have been very painful. I wish you find a woman whom you will love and she will love you back and appreciate you the way you deserve. I have seen in your other comments just slightly above that you are a bit confused about women's preferences. May be a I am cap here, but the preferences really do cary from person to person. Just as you can't say all men want A and hate B, you cannot say all women want X and hate Y. I don't know any woman amon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 08:14 PM
3	Have you or any woman you know ever rejected someone for being a virgin? Sorry, I am not the one whom you asked the question, but I can explain why for some women virgin men are preferable. Worldviews alignment is very important for building a successful relationship. If in a particular woman's worldview sex is not something to easily given, but a manifestation of a deeper bond and one of the important elements that bind a marriage together, and she herself is looking for a deep marital bond, then for such a woman a man who has given that thing which she considers sp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 01:08 PM