EitherIndication4502 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
60	Hopeful there's a light in this darkness	EitherIndication4502	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/25 03:59 AM
26	Found a way to be abandoned twice in equally sh$t ways.	EitherIndication4502	/r/Divorce_Men	07/11/25 07:55 AM
12	Mad that Halloween was hard.	EitherIndication4502	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/25 02:21 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I feel like I'm drowning Man, I feel for you. As someone who is still battling the grief, it's a dark unfun place. Couple of things that have helped me are therapy causing uncomfortable self growth and my son saying this needed to happen dad. Also expressed that now you both have a chance to be happy and that he still loves me.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/25 08:04 PM
2	First Christmas I agreed to it as first Xmas divorced and 3 weeks ago the ex blow it up because of new glow up boyfriend. Lost 1k in reservation I couldn't get full credit back. My advice is don't.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/25 01:52 AM
3	People asking why my wife left me. Sounds like you're a people pleaser like me. I want to kick my ass for hoping that if I bend over backwards for them the nightmare would end.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/25 02:02 AM
8	People asking why my wife left me. Yeah we co habitat for a year. It was brutal. Finalized Jun/25 and moved 4800mi away to reduce any chance I further embarrassed myself by trying to reconcile with someone I've come to realize was emotionally abuse our entire relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/25 09:59 PM
14	People asking why my wife left me. You just described my situation. 25yr married 28 together. Just said "I don't love you anymore and want a divorce" while getting ready to do something. Looking back I now realize they were preparing themselves for this over a couple of years and processed their grief as mine just started. They went from healthy body weight to athletic/ changed their wardrobe/high maintenance beauty routine/friend group/dead bedroom etc. She waited for optimal timing. The way my ex said it I knew we were done and…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/25 08:48 PM
5	Finally part of the "It Gets Better" club. Thank you for sharing. I've hit what I hope is rock bottom, but I'm working on embracing that the only direction is up now. Hearing your story helps remind me there is a light at the end of this hell whole. The fight to keep the darkness at bay is exhausting but is forging us into better men.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/25 06:09 PM
2	How to cope? Thank for this thoughtful response. Reading this helped remind me of the long goal and to forgive myself.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/25 07:04 PM
4	Hopeful there's a light in this darkness She made sure to keep me completely separated from them while we were separated but still living together and in her glowing up phase. But sounds plausible. The realization that I'm still on the struggle bus and she was done 2yrs ago sucks. Not a fan of feeling played.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/25 06:20 PM
5	Hopeful there's a light in this darkness Great question. She reset her friend group during the separation before the divorce of "like-minded" "motivated" ppl. She just stopped communicating with decade plus friends.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/25 02:25 PM