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One-night stands are red pill. How about getting to know a girl, dating, finding out if you have mutual interests and values, and then having sex later on?
/r/ExRedPill28/01/26 05:10 PM
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Their masculinity is all performative. The cars, the money, the women (often abuse victims and/or sex workers), the preening, the flexing, the fast talk, the boasting. All theater. Men who spend that much time trying to prove they are men are typically insecure about their masculinity. Interesting note: When it comes to transgender people, the haters often rail that you can't change your gender or sex because it is biologically fixed through your chromosomes. That entire argument gets dropped wh…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/26 05:02 PM
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Decisionplastic9740. I should have said "some guys" don't want to hear this. I changed the text to make it more accurate, "believers in the mythology." To your question, men who are open-minded in reality-based do want to hear aboutthe truth and complexity of male-female relationships. Some men however are too narrow-minded, brainwashed, or vested in the red pill to get out of the matrix. People, male and female, conservative and liberal, often don't want to hear information that challenges thei…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 07:59 PM
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There's a fine line between effort and stalking, between chasing and creeping out a girl, between effort and being a pest. If she's not interested, move on. Interest on her part =smiling in your presence, not looking scared or frightened or annoyed, remaining engaged in conversations with you and mixed settings versus not responding or quickly ending interactions and walking away, returning your phone calls promptly, texting you on her own, suggesting and planning dates, doing special little thi…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 02:36 PM
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Because there is no red pill equivalent on the female side. It's not like there's a red pill equivalent of females committing mass shootings and voting in large numbers for communists (versus fascists on the male side). From what I have seen, toxic man hating comes from several sources --females that are just horrible people in general and treat everyone including men terribly (no ideology attached), a few lesbians that hate men and have no use for them (not the majority of lesbians by any means…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 05:45 AM
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Here's a solution: start hanging out in the workplace or some other non-sexual environment where you meet smart, independent, kind women.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 12:55 AM
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The opposite. You are intelligent. Like many young people, you try on various ideas and test their validity. You tested this one, and you found that it did not work. That's called intelligence. Unintelligent people continue in the incel pipeline for the rest of their lives. Men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s still hating women, still thinking they're stupid and only belong in the kitchen and bedroom, and wondering why they're divorced and their relationships with women keep failing. You found your w…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 12:52 AM
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But you missed the main outcome. You don't have a relationship. Cold approach gets you lots of short-lived relationships and interactions. Nothing of depth. And now you have set that pattern up subconsciously into your muscle memory and approach. And considering that none of these women decided to start a relationship with you, in the end they all passed on you. Cold approach is a gimmick. Not to mention all the women you went up to who were just creeped out by you from the outset and left a bad…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 12:46 AM
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Excellent point. Recovery is typically two steps forward, one step back, three steps forward, One step back, another step back, another step back. Two steps forward. Etc
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 12:32 AM
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Yes. I know plenty of men who are sensitive and so-called betas who are in long-term, healthy relationships with women and quite satisfied. And some of the women are quite attractive.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 12:30 AM
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Of course it's addictive. The content on the Internet is well produced and entertaining. It's also good to hear that you're not the problem. That you're just fine. That you don't need to change. It's those damn women. The content is purposely meant to stroke your ego. It's a great fantasy to have a female slave do your bidding. What's more difficult to hear, for men and for women, for people of all political stripes, is that good communication and relationship-building involve learning and growt…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 12:28 AM
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JP surrounds small kernels of psychological truth and advice your parents could give you with a bunch of non-science-and-non-research-based mumbo jumbo. His popularity is mainly due to his strong oratory style, self-confidence, striking facial features, and his conservative political talking points. Last year he hosted some conference funded by big oil companies where he got a fat kickback check pushing that climate change is not real. Huh? He's a psychologist. What does he know about climate sc…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 12:19 AM
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Brutal take: there is no such thing as the feminine mind. That's your first mistake. What you have before you is the mind of one woman. Only one. Her mind is different than the mind of Every other woman. If you want to know what's on her mind, ask her. That's the only way you will begin to find out, assuming she will be honest with you. You may want to be honest with her and just tell her what you're noticing and how you find it to be disrespectful. Her reaction and subsequent actions will tell …
/r/ExRedPill21/01/26 02:36 AM
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Google " different types of loneliness." There are at least four types of loneliness. Figure out which one or which ones you have. The solution to each one is different. Turn off the computer and start having in person relationships with people. Social networks in the internet are not a substitute for real relationships unless you are having a deep one-on-one conversation with someone through FaceTime or zoom. A few years ago I read about a guy who literally had over 500 friends on Facebook and …
/r/ExRedPill21/01/26 02:31 AM
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I think men in general like history and/ or politics. And sports. I don't think it's necessarily just socially awkward dudes.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/26 02:21 AM
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For fun, listen to the Speech Professor on tik tok. He offers funny rebuttals to the manosphere.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/26 02:18 AM
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I second the comment about cognitive behavioral therapy. The Feeling Good handbook by David Burns is excellent. The book is used to treat depression but it can also be used to start thinking rationally about relationships and people. I would take one step back and say that your problem isn't learning or finding out how you can trust women, your problem is finding out how you can trust people, considering the two people who led you down the wrong path were both men. A famous feminist once said th…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/26 02:14 AM
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