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| 1 | Killing the egoAll women have the capability of being submissive. The question is, “Are you the right man to bring it out in them?”. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/03/18 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Testosterone Cypionate OptionsWhat he injects isn’t added to his previous levels as once he starts exogenous Test his body will shut down production. He’ll level out at however he responds to his dosing. Some people like myself are high responders. 150/wk will put me at 11-1200 at my trough reading. | /r/askMRP | 03/03/18 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Fighting Off the GorillaSubscribe to Bas Rutten’s Street Defense for real world applications of fighting. At a bar you won’t have Big John McCarthy standing you both back up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/18 07:40 AM |
| 10 | Quick positive FR that speaks RP truthsHe lied about being the refinery manager to try to scare the guy. I’m in the oil industry for 30 years, for the last few at the Corporate level. Met dozens of refinery managers. All of them, and I mean every single one, are narcissistic as fuck and wouldn’t be worried to the point of posting about this here. He was gaming the guy. | /r/askMRP | 31/01/18 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Wife Taking Husband's Last NameShe’s either proud to be in your clan or isn’t. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/01/18 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Kind of FR, I guessAll I get out of this post and the linked post is that your woman fucked and sucked Chad for an undetermined length of time (admit it, she was giving you trickle truth that you didn’t pursue) and now you seem angry and domineering. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/17 06:17 AM |
| 1 | How would you convince your wife to be a stay at home mother?Getting a woman to SAHM is easy. The hard part will be getting her back to work when the kids are in school. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/17 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Bachelor party strip clubsIn the morning have a couple suitcases set out if she wants to discuss it more. The choice is hers whether she wants to continue, not yours. You can’t decide for her. You’ve made your decision, now she can make hers. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/17 08:03 AM |
| 2 | "FR" about congruencyBC? Or some other province? Didn’t know you started so much later than the U.S. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 06:31 AM |
| 3 | So what are the thoughts surrounding infidelity and MRP?3 words for this, and it isn’t “I love you.” It’s “Dump that bitch.” Only then will you see where you stand. Tell her you’re done where things are and see how she responds. That is the difference on how you proceed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 06:29 AM |
| 2 | "FR" about congruencyWhere do you live that your kids start school at 10 or 11am? If we’re not out the door by 7:30am we’re running late. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 06:09 AM |
| 3 | She’s Mad Because She’s LosingIt reeks of “My best days are behind me” rather than a continual improvement of his lot. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/17 02:58 AM |
| 9 | Help with anger phase"Marcia! Marcia! Marcia!" You sound like Jan Brady. Focusing on someone other than yourself. Work the sidebar. Do the work. Breathe. Breathe. What is the absolute worst that can happen? She leaves and you start over? You leave and start over? Breathe and relax. Work the sidebar. Relax. Breathe. You come across as someone panicked. Stop. Read the sidebar, and slowly, SLOWLY, put it in play. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/09/17 07:18 AM |
| 6 | Got my Chinese ex pregYou're only getting divorce raped if you successfully get her to the U.S. Don't want to get raped? Just walk away now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/09/17 07:07 AM |
| 1 | husband[49] looks at bikini models/ima[43] a shit show/looking to reformat my idealsWhat's your weight and height, just so you're not fooling yourself or us? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/17 08:27 AM |
| 1 | She Blows Me Twice A Week Max - I Want Four TimesMy wife gives me what I want, when I want, so I'm not able to empathize, Maybe try being a guy she wants to blow? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/09/17 08:53 AM |
| 1 | FR: 1 Year from the artist formally known as prarrottA husband is to the wife, as Jesus is to the Church. In other words, the Leader. The Shepherd. The Captain. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/17 04:20 AM |
| 3 | FR: 1 Year from the artist formally known as prarrottIt sounds like this marriage is definitely being reframed: "If you just go back to Beta behaviors look how good the sex can be." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/09/17 03:31 AM |
| 1 | If Anger Is Problematic - Here is A ViewpointYour post is almost getting there, and actually refers to the crux of it at times: Anger is not an emotion. It is a mask for the true emotion, which is most of the time fear. One needs to know not only what is making them angry, but why it is. Once you've determined what the true emotion is only then can you deal with it and find a way around it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/17 07:47 AM |
| 10 | LTR Relationship Standard: VirginityJust what you his sub needs, a woman moralizing to men trying to better themselves. /s | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/17 10:36 AM |
| 3 | LTR Relationship Standard: VirginityA woman is like a used car: you're never going to be positive of it real history. Best you can do is a good test drive and make the best decision you can based on its performance. Even with a new car there is a chance you'll get a lemon. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/08/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | LTR Relationship Standard: VirginityWould you buy a used car? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/08/17 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Wife feels "insecure and inadequate"Give us some more background: how long have you been married, etc. I can see this possibly happening if it's a fairly new marriage with an insecure wife, but without more info I'm kind of skeptical. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/08/17 06:48 AM |
| 6 | How do I explain to my wife that I need her to make her body amazing?I get it, and to be honest I've got my own obsessions too. I've been where you're at, and I really don't have an answer for you. I have made some headway by owning my shit more and displaying better leadership, but still have a ways to go. From your reply it's a little more obvious that you're at least aware of it and that while it is an obsession you still do understand what your real priorities are. I wish you luck in figuring this one out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 07:10 AM |
| 6 | How do I explain to my wife that I need her to make her body amazing?And I agree with your statement that he needs to help her. I just get the feeling from his post that he's trying to do it by control and not leadership, though. Look at all the ways he describes her: insanely hot, good in all areas, pleased with her. But incensed about not being able to force her to finally lose a little flab. Leads me to think he's got a little more work to do for himself first. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 06:16 AM |
| 9 | How do I explain to my wife that I need her to make her body amazing?I agree that time isn't necessarily the problem, but if he wants her to make it her top priority as he said, then that means before everything else. But I still think it unrealistic to project his obsessions onto someone else in such a controlling manner. That's just unhealthy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 06:05 AM |
| 31 | How do I explain to my wife that I need her to make her body amazing?She in her 30's with 2 kids. Works full time. Does the cooking and cleaning. Still works out and is not fat or chubby. He doesn't want to neg her like a 19 year old, but wants her to have the body of one. If he wants her to be like the fitness chicks then he needs to get her on low dose Test or anavar, and let her make her fitness her full time job instead of working. That would show his commitment to it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 05:50 AM |
| 46 | How do I explain to my wife that I need her to make her body amazing?It sounds like you have unrealistic expectations when it comes to others. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/08/17 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Watch out for your wife's friends.Exactly. These women are seeing an opportunity to climb the ladder and escape their Beta husbands to improve their lot, nothing else. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/08/17 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Watch out for your wife's friends.The first time it happened I was thinking "Does she know what she just said?", then I realized she knew exactly what she said. After that I just played off those offers as if I didn't catch the meaning. There's no win and I don't want the drama. Never said anything to my wife about it, and never will. The thing that really got me was these are all her friends from her church. Kinda crazy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/08/17 01:31 AM |
| 6 | Learn to speak womanese or STFUYour whole OP has absolutely nothing in common with his post or follow-up comments. It's as if you've taken the friends side as how it played out and are white knighting for the hamplanet. WTF? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/08/17 12:21 AM |
| 8 | Learn to speak womanese or STFUIt wasn't his wife who was offended, it was her hamplanet friend. His wife agrees with him. And he shouldn't have to worry about what he says in his own home. The friend doesn't like it? There's the fucking door. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/08/17 12:10 AM |
| 7 | Watch out for your wife's friends.Yeah there is. My wife has a terminal illness. One time when her friends were delivering meals many of them offered to take care of me in any ways my wife was not "able to", and to please call them directly. Always watch out for gold diggers. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/17 09:31 AM |
| 10 | Rejecting appreciation ... weird concept, but it works for me.Whenever my wife gives me praise or thanks I always reply with "It's what I do", the context being "There's nothing I can't do, or need your help with. You need me and my help." I disagree with your thought that it removes pressure from her shoulders. I think it increases the pressure for her to perform and please me. Why do I need her to do anything I can do for myself? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/07/17 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Alpha Icons - a theoretical questionI agree with what you've written, but there is a difference between icons of masculinity, like the OP was asking about, and personal role models of the same, or in other words becoming yourself. There's no doubt that guys like John Wayne, Steve McQueen, Robert Mitchum (I'm dating myself here), or Arnold (pre-marriage; he got soft afterwards) would be considered icons of classic masculinity. But do they influence my own masculinity? Sure, somewhat. They've set a public standard. But in reality mo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/17 10:17 AM |
| 3 | Alpha Icons - a theoretical questionSteve McQueen. A man of few words, but those words carry meaning. A man of action, yet also intelligent. A sprinkling of Beta to show an appropriate level of sensitivity, but always in charge. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/17 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Should we get married?I'm approaching it from a different view from a wife, vs. a potential wife. A woman who is already married and invested will have a different view than one who is negotiating. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/07/17 10:17 AM |
| 3 | Should we get married?I'd advise against having her read the subreddit. Why? Because most women are going to feel they have to say they find it offensive or repulsive, regardless of how they actually FEEL. Society, especially the feminine agenda, tells them they have to at least appear to to believe women are equal. I'd base it on how she actually acts or responds to what he does and says, not on how she says she feels about what is written and discussed here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/07/17 07:50 AM |
| 4 | Advice on how to handleOr he could calculate how much he is going to do over his lifetime and just do it all at once to get it over with. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/06/17 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Men, Woman, Children, and Dogs - Why I Treat My Wife Like Man's Best Friend - Part 1Always have a sausage in your pocket ready for your woman. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/06/17 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Where have you guys been all my miserable lifeYour lifehack is in the sidebar. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/06/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Where have you guys been all my miserable lifeFamiliarity breeds contempt, and it sounds like you're both too familiar to each other. Maybe if you were lively enough to attract her to want to fuck you, you might actually start feeling the same way. Right now it sounds like complete avoidance of the marriage issues you've created. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/06/17 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Really really fucked up. Shit test or comfort test?You're living in a country with a culture that expects women to be subservient to men and you still can't lead? She doesn't see you as a Beta. She sees you as a girlfriend that she's comfortable bitching at, and that means a whole lot of faggotry going on. She's not fucking you because she's not a lesbian. You say Level 1 or 2 dread would probably fix things, yet as simple as those are look at what you've written and all your replies. Displaying even the most basic of manly traits should straigh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/06/17 05:58 AM |
| 1 | FR: Showing weakness/emotion from time to time(RARELY) is amazing in an LTRI won't necessarily disagree with you about showing a tender side occasionally , but crying for an hour? That's a little excessive for me, ymmv. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/06/17 09:50 PM |
| 10 | FR: This has changed my life20 years of Dungeons and Dragons followed by 3 months of lifting. It's a start. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to find the angerOne parent usually gets custody of the child until the divorce proceedings are finalized and the judge rules who gets primary custody. The other parent (usually) gets visitation rights during this period also, so it's not like the kid never sees the other parent during this time. You are just the primary custodian. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/17 07:16 AM |
| 2 | I can't seem to find the angerGet a lawyer, have them file for temporary custody right away so you have control of the child through the divorce proceedings. That will at least put things in your frame temporarily. Then STFU and use the lawyers frame in the meantime by letting them do all your talking. Work on yourself while all this is going on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/17 06:27 AM |
| 12 | I can't seem to find the angerThe kid is gonna be way worse off with a fucking cuckold for a father figure. Way more guaranteed to fuck them up than manning up and dumping the bitch. EDIT: Which do you think is better for your kid: A divorced dad who eventually gets his shit together, or living with a slut mom and a dad who's okay with that? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/17 05:41 AM |
| 9 | I can't seem to find the angerSo here's the part I never understand: You're okay with this in hopes of what? That you'll win her back so you can taste some other guys load in her mouth and pussy? If my wife said any of that to me I'd be helping her pack her bags and saying "Me and the kid will be fine without you. See ya." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/17 05:24 AM |
| 1 | FR: Testosterone and RighteousnessLooking back I was feeling the effects when I was approaching 400. It got a lot worse when I dropped under that. Hopped on when I was at 260, now I'm never under 1000 and feel awesome. Got everything dialed in and labs are outstanding. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/17 12:18 AM |
| 2 | FR: Testosterone and Righteousness$100-200/month, generally. Depends on what all is included. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/17 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Dark Triad: MachiavellianThe only way you can probably get a really good idea of your score is to have 4-5 trusted friends take the test and rate you, then average it out. Not many people are introspective enough to give themselves a true answer. It's going to be tainted with personal desire, truth be told. Hence why everyone wants to say how Mach they are. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/06/17 07:57 AM |
| 0 | A video Warning about the dangers of modern women Beware of CUCKOlDING!Thunk! Look at all my little miracles! Thunk! https://youtu.be/gzyG49LX7GM | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/06/17 06:59 AM |
| 5 | I'm the guy from x-post and ashe's husbandWho cares? Even if you've got shit on your balls, let her clean them up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/06/17 05:18 AM |
| 2 | I'm the guy from x-post and ashe's husbandYou say you've got one foot out the door. If it were me and there were no kids, the other foot would be picking up speed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/06/17 02:38 AM |
| 8 | My know-how of handling wife's bitchinWhen my wife starts complaining about something I'll straight up ask, " "Are you wanting me to fix this, or just listen?" And I'll answer if she wants a fix, or say nothing if she doesn't. And if she does the 'You don't want to hear me complain ' routine, I'll just say " If I didn't want to, I wouldn't listen." Straight up truth talk usually puts her in my frame of mind. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/06/17 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Finding your "Internal Truth"Absolutely, but I also want a new truck, a boat, more guns, etc. that aren't ego driven, but solely pleasure/hobby driven. They wouldn't be my internal truth, though, and by your criteria wouldn't get crossed off either. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/17 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Finding your "Internal Truth"Sounds like more of a "Pursuit of Happiness " list than Internal Truth. I look at Internal Truth as what I want to be more than just what I want. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/17 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Newbie who needs really quick advice!It all just boils down to you're not fucking her right. Damn near all (there are exceptions) women enjoy sex, and if they're not it's because you haven't found what it is they like. Maybe it's rough; maybe they need a finger up their ass. When you find out what it is, the rest will open up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/17 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Transmuting sexual energy - tantra/taoismYep, been on it a couple years. It's not that hard to get dialed in if you're just looking for T levels in the 800-1200 range. Just do everything with small changes, wait a bit, then get blood work. Made a world of difference for me, at home, work, and play. Confidence shot way back up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/17 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Sexual references and IntimacyI'd just tell her the truth, if it was me: "I can make this stop for good if that's what you'd like. It will make no difference to me." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/17 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Transmuting sexual energy - tantra/taoismIf you're low T then get on the juice. It'll do more for you than anything. More energy. Constant erections. Fat loss. Increased confidence. The list goes on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/17 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Sex issues with wife - need advice for confrontingNever accept shaming. I've told my wife before, "I will not be shamed into giving up my needs and desires as a man". That's always pretty much ended it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/05/17 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Wow...I just totally lost my shit.Anger is a secondary emotion, so you need to find out what the primary, underlying emotion is so you can work on bettering yourself. Anger is normal, but lose your shit rage isn't. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/05/17 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Playing the long game, would appreciate advice..And make sure they offer free return shipping. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/17 05:34 PM |
| 5 | FR: First success and trouble swallowingYep. Admitting about the co-worker is only admitting to who she was most serious about. She omitted all the random loads she's swallowed in the meantime. If she's admitted this much she's most likely been on the carousel the whole time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/05/17 05:11 AM |
| 4 | About to get marriedBased on what you've posted, say goodbye to life as how you've known it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/05/17 05:07 AM |
| 5 | An email from the wifeMy reply would be "What are you making for dinner?". | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/04/17 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Rebuilding a relationship - critique my approachTaking off the ring is her non-verbally telling you how she feels about you at the time. She's also giving herself a chance to feel halfway to being single. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/17 07:30 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with the urge to fuck other women?Lol. I told my wife when we were dating that I would let her know twice that she was getting fat: First time I would tell her, the second time would be with divorce papers. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/04/17 12:02 AM |
| 11 | How to deal with the urge to fuck other women?I just have my wife do whatever I would want/expect to get from someone else. If she's not good at it I just have her keep doing it until she meets my expectations. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/17 04:28 PM |
| 1 | FR: Fuck With Your WifeI get it, but I don't think you're getting me: It's telling her if she doesn't want to fuck she can suck it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/04/17 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Dread Level 11: Advice for when this actually works?This. I don't contribute here much, but isn't it obvious that she either responds how you want or doesn't, thereby giving you your exact plan forward? What is the question if the answer isn't this obvious? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/04/17 01:12 AM |
| 1 | FR: Fuck With Your WifeThe only thing I would have added would be, "This hotdog doesn't need a bun. You can eat it raw.". | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/04/17 12:50 AM |
| 1 | FR: Leading your WomanAs someone whose wife has a terminal illness, this rings pretty much spot-on. As much as they want to feel in control, and as much as you have to turn on the 'supportive' role, when it comes down to the really serious, critical decisions you have to lead. It's what they want and need. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/17 07:20 PM |
| 2 | FR: Be fluent in "womanese", but communicate in "manglish"She allowed herself to get fat. He put up with it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/17 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Moving to a new city and main place wants to comeYour post is equal parts doubt and desire. You need to decide which it is. For me, if there was any doubt, well....,, | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/17 05:40 AM |
| 7 | Two concepts that have helped meAll men are competitive? Not so much. All men are blinded by pussy? Too many of them. I work for a Fortune 100 company and most of my success has been from turning men into competitive beings. And doing that has been akin to herding cats or pulling teeth. Today's man (in general) wants predictably and low expectations. That's not on my menu and I don't serve that. Far too many guys I work with and try to mentor are more concerned with their wife's expectations of them doing household chores and … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/01/17 05:58 AM |
| 1 | A few things RP recommends that I didn't think I had to do. Did them. Am doing them. Turns out I really needed to.http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/289058.About_Face Autobiography of the man John Wayne & Steve McQueen wish they were. Adapt & overcome. Learn from your enemies and use their tactics to eliminate them. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/14 07:13 AM |
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