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There's a reason why marriage is called TRP on Hardcore mode.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 05:23 PM
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Listen, my best friend is Asian and he's never had a problem dating and I'll tell you why (We talk about random shit like this every once in a while). He knows it's in the mind and he chats up girls and doesn't burden himself thinking about what they may or may not feel about Asian people, etc... cause he really doesn't give a fuck. Women pick up on if you're confident or insecure and if you're not confident that shit is a real turn off. That's why I suggested that you read some of the side bar …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:39 PM
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Actually, what happened was that you failed a shit test and got flustered showing that you aren't truly confident in yourself. If you had irrational confidence and an unshakable belief in yourself it wouldn't matter what they said cause you'd know you're there to ply your game from your frame and not be drawn into someone else's frame. You're sabotaging yourself because you have self-sabotaging beliefs in the back of your mind. I know plenty of people from different backgrounds, builds, etc who …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 05:22 PM
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I had one interesting experience in the 90's which really exposed for a moment how the power of a woman's beauty is only how susceptible people are to it. I was working in a construction firm in a medium sized town and they hired this real hot assistant, easily an 8 or 9. One of the well liked guys in the firm tried to kick it to her and she shut him down quickly and dissed him. Everyone was pissed off so we all agreed to not sweat her at all, don't give her the satisfaction since she knew she w…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 04:39 PM
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You're right. Some people will cry about the hand they are dealt whereas someone else with that same hand would work wonders out of it. It comes down to attitude, beliefs and knowledge which is freely available if someone is willing to put the time and energy into it.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 05:14 PM
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That's a classic game that is played out over and over in the Caribbean with island girls playing coy to seduce dumb asses on vacation. I've known of a few schmucks who went to the Dominican Republic and Jamaica and married island girls who played all traditional for years until the citizenship is done. Then they divorce and the ex-husbands find out that these women have been draining their account for years and often times had a man back home who they've been supporting on the ex's money. They …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 08:47 PM
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He was humiliated and doesn't want to be the butt of people's jokes though that's how he built his career. If he was an alpha personality then cancelling is like throwing a tantrum and losing frame. However when your career is all about you being a fat loser and using self-deprecating humor then this is about what you'd expect from him.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 02:05 PM
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This man would like to have a word with the OP. Hmmm
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:34 PM
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It would have been better for him to have fought tooth and nail with every ounce of strength in his body even if it cost him his life. Instead he will spend the rest of his life dying every day not only remembering what happened to him but also the cowardice his showed throughout his rape and how he responded afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 01:51 PM
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Anything is more honorable than everything that he did. Even if he was overwhelmed, subdued and raped as soon as he had the chance he should have killed his rapist.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:46 PM
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He will not be welcome in Valhalla and his ancestor's are forever shamed by his existence.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 03:30 PM
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Sometimes people like to make up stories or embellish somewhat real stories to fit whatever narrative they're trying to tell. There are people who put up pretty useless posts to join in the circle jerk.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 03:37 PM
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Belief in racism originates in tribalism and the human tendency to form definitions of us and them. The post above is someone's idea or agenda that they're trying to push by wrapping other concepts and ideas around it. Yes, we get it. Liberal leaning politics have pushed Europeans in recent years to accept migrants from other countries which are having a detrimental effect on the host nations. That's not exactly a revelation.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 03:39 PM
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I cannot emphasize enough how powerful it is to be able to dance and even more so to dance like you know what you're doing. I was fortunate to be raised in a culture where dancing is integral to us and there is nothing more powerful and seductive to a woman than a man who can dance. It is like game and frame made manifest in physical form. If anyone is interested they should take up the trifecta of Latin dance: Salsa, Merengue and Bachata.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:41 PM
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A lot of people go around with a facade of confidence and well being but inside are pretty freaking insecure. The moment you provide them with something that stirs it up you'll see their ugly side. It doesn't matter if it's lifelong friends, family - some people under the right circumstances give way to weakness and you'll see the worst of them.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 07:20 PM
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Okay, so one item out of the way which is the orbiting which you believe was just a one time thing. As for the negging, yeah that is disrespectful in it's own right and her lack of desire in your relationship may be a sign that she doesn't value you. I've been there before and since you're in a situation where nexting is not an option then either figure a way into counseling or focus on improving yourself and raising your value. I know the mantra around here is to lift, dress better, maintain yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/16 05:05 PM
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I think that night has to been examined in the whole context of your relationship. Is it part of a pattern of her behavior or is it a one time thing which you've never seen before? Also, you'd have to look at your relationship and the level of respect, courtesy and communication you have going on. If it's a one time thing then maybe it's not a big deal and just hormones, alcohol, biology running it's course and may not be an indicator of anything else. My wife and I were on vacation one time and…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/16 03:47 PM
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I completely agree. When I was a kid I had one bad ass uncle who took to me and had a lot of influence in my development. Now in my family, I am the AMOG and it's interesting how whenever something comes up outside of the comfort zone of any of the parents they send their kids to me. I had one cousin who was down after his high school girlfriend played him and dumped him for his friend who was clearly more alpha. My cousin was very beta when he came to me and over the course of several weeks I w…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 06:28 PM
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Heavy is the head that wears the crown. If you are to be the leader, the rock and foundation then you need to be emotionally sound and stable which is something you may have to work on your own. I think a part of dread is improving yourself and also knowing that you yourself are whole and could be happy alone. If your wife values you then she will double her efforts to remain a relevant part of your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 08:46 PM
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I'm married and think that a Latin background certainly helps as we have some clearly identified roles outlined according to culture. The man is the king of the castle and as long as he fulfills his role and responsibilities then he is entitled to the respect and dignity of his station. However, none of that has anything to do with whatever financial liabilities you may face if there is a divorce.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 03:26 PM
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I guess he bought into the narrative that some people have been spinning about a good guy with a gun being able to prevent a bad guy with a gun from doing harm. It's been shown time and time again that it never works out that way and often the "good" guy gets hurt instead for no reason as in this story.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 05:02 PM
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NYC is great if you have something interesting going on in your life besides money. Yeah, there are tons of trust fund babies here having $140+ brunches on Tuesday at Cipriani's, summers in the Hamptons and there are certainly women looking for that but there are tons of women who've come here for work or school and are mostly just looking to have fun and meet people. As I said If you are part of some kind of interesting social scene you will have no problem with women. A lot of them watched too…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 02:23 PM
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The world is in a sad state - the culture is so fucked it is rare to see a real dude and not one of these white knights, supplicants or worst people whose value is so low they try to compete by bringing other people's value down to their own.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 04:52 PM
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I think from his behavior you really can't expect much out of him. He pretty much tried to cock block or overshadow you during your conversation when you were chatting someone up which shows a lack of character on his part. I've known guys like this and in their insecurity are just as likely to throw salt on other people's game because their game is shit. If he was a real dude he would have read the vibe and either played wingman or stepped out of the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 03:15 PM
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I think in that scenario that she doesn't really value you that much, dread hasn't set in yet or she's not emotionally invested in the relationship. If she did care and value you then she would want to raise herself up as you raise yourself up. Women know that other women are trifling and have no problem snatching up a desirable guy even if he's married or in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 08:06 PM
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Great suggestions but I'd also like to add traveling as something men in their 20's should be doing. It will open your eyes to different perspectives, ways of thinking, alternate ways of life, etc... It's easier to travel when you're younger and have less responsibilities.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 04:40 PM
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There are few things in life that are worthwhile that are not also difficult to obtain or achieve. You likely have personal obstacles that you have to move pass and overcome before you can achieve a higher level of your life's potential. You need to focus on pushing yourself towards your own development and growth. Set out some short term and long term goals, track your progress, think of where you want to be in a few years, what you'd like to see and do. Start small and then keep raising the ba…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 06:27 PM
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Although he's kind of a shitty comedian, Dane Cook gave a funny analogy about being single and being in a relationship. When you're single you feel like you're walking past a house where there is a big party going on and it seems like everyone inside is happy and having a great time and you wish you were at that party. When you're in a relationship it feels like you're at that party and have been there for too long. The drinks, food, conversation and music have gotten boring and you wish you wer…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 03:07 PM
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A lot of women don't know how to act when they're around a male alpha abundant environment.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 02:00 PM
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Those gyms favor people who want to dip their toes lightly and/or engage in a social activity to meet other people. New York has a lot of transient population so people are always looking for stuff like that especially women.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 08:38 PM
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I mentioned that it is generally a male dominated sport because the OP wanted to find activities to meet other guys and make friends. I do agree that in some gyms the women don't make a difference in terms of how things are run and the overall vibe. That's why it's good to do research - Sherdog isn't the best but if your gym is shit there will be a lot of trash talking about it. I'm more of a Muay Thai guy myself and we have a few girl power gyms in NYC but I've been to some solid ones where guy…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:26 PM
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You should take up Brazilian Ju Jitsu which is a very male dominated activity. The bonus is that martial arts is a great way for guys to form deep friendships and bonds. Note: Research your schools first, read reviews, check on sherdog for people's impressions so you don't waste your time.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 04:57 PM
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I was thinking about this post last night and wanted to throw in my two bits and how you can and should take a different approach to the game when you're in a city environment. I've been in New York for nearly my entire life and have lived 35 years here. I completely agree about how toxic Sex and the City was and how delusional it made women thinking they could move here and live lavishly on a modest income. It's not just about having $60,000 worth of shoes (as the unrealistic lead character pro…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 02:23 PM
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Thank you and you're welcome. I was kind of looking for an opportunity to share how TRP can be for someone a bit older and who is married.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 06:28 PM
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You're welcome. Unfortunately, we were not strangers to cancer as we've had family members and friends who have gone through it as well. Nearly everyone we knew who had cancer survived except for one aunt whose cancer metastasized and traveled to her brain and kidney. Cancer is not the death sentence it once was and though the surgery and chemo and/or radiation afterwards is rough too it's something you know that'll keep you alive. Some people have it harder than others and my wife didn't really…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:58 PM
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Married guy here, been with my wife for 11 years and married for 8 of those. We got married in our early 30's and saw a lot of people with failed relationships and talked a lot about mistakes we thought people made. We both understood that marriage is a job which requires effort, commitment and maintenance. My wife didn't really change too much. We were together for 3 years beforehand and since we married in our 30's we already knew ourselves. Also, she didn't have to do the bait-and-switch of b…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:27 PM
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This is why some people are serial monogamists because the beginning of a relationship is the best as everything is new, exciting and interesting. It's much more in-depth and enjoyable than simply plating or having ONS. However, once things plateau and the highs are no longer there then they move on and find someone else.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 02:47 PM
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We're both older so it makes more sense especially if you have been involved with women older than 27. In our days I think women talked about who was good in bed and you'd get a reputation about being a shitty lover. Nowadays, 20 something chicks are it just about hooking up and riding the carousel and they're just looking for someone hot who gives them the tingles.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 05:09 PM
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It's probably that guys around her age that have been fucking her just don't give a shit enough about her to even care if she came or if she enjoyed herself. A guy I know who is in his 40's started fucking his 20 something secretary and though she already had already been with two dozen men she was very sexually inexperienced. He said that according to her sex was basically making out, getting fingered, sucking dick, getting fucked and the guy getting off when he came and going home.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 04:19 PM
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If you're that dead set on having children then you're going to have to accept the shit that usually goes along with it. First, if you want to be a decent parent then that means your own needs and interests take second or maybe even third place. That will be the norm for a long time and honestly I don't know how one would really maintain frame with a woman in that situation. That is why a lot of people here advocate not getting married and not having children if you want to be about TRP all the …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 02:38 AM
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The first rule about anything online is take it with a grain of salt or take it as it may or may not apply to your situation. Second, your mileage may vary. There are no absolutes to anything.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 11:23 PM
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I'm not much of a fan of Merengue except at every dance party it's part of the rotation. Reggaeton is definitely dirty and grinding like any Dance Hall music but it's not sensual and as you said it's a trashy dance. Bachata is sensual and it's infinitely more seductive. Not all women will want some dude grinding their nuts on their ass like in Reggaeton but I've never known a woman who didn't want to dance up close in sensual Bachata. Agreed, that it is all about leading.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 04:43 PM
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Learn the Latin Trifecta of Salsa, Merengue and Bachata and if you can do it passably well you will have no problems getting women. I'm a pretty decent dancer but a friend of mine is a God on the dance floor and in terms of looks he's like a Puerto Rican Ron Jeremy but he's always being invited out by women to dance and when he's out there are a line of women waiting for their turn. He also regularly gets gorgeous women - seeing women pining for him (even if it's just to dance) is pre-selection …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 03:32 PM
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Some family trees don't branch.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 08:42 PM
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Unless you have Liam Neesen in your family.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 03:09 PM
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You could still have your cake and eat it too. A friend of mine is a serial monogamist who stays in relationship for about 2-3 years. That is of course the phase when everything is sweet, new and everyone is on their best behavior. The second things stagnate or bullshit starts popping up he bounces.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 06:09 PM
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I agree that this was a good worthwhile post. There are entirely too many walls of text posts here with little to no value.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 08:40 PM
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The whole thing was a kind of shit test to see where he stood. He really shouldn't have cared at all since she was supposed to be just a plate. It wasn't his gut that told him she went to fuck that guy. It was more of his underlying feeling of jealousy and insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 05:20 PM
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I can't knock beta's though because I wouldn't really be here as my mom was a single divorcee mother when she met my dad and she's always been the boss in the relationship. I'm the second of his kids though and I love the hell out of that man but have modeled myself more opposite of him than after him. I'm glad that I had my uncle around but I'm also glad I didn't follow him in every way. He didn't know how to balance his strength and he became an angry alcoholic loner but that could also be fro…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 04:11 PM
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I guess it depends upon your background. I grew up in a Latin somewhat machismo background and was influenced heavily by my Marine Corp uncle who is a man's man throwback kind of character. I remember when I was a kid he saw me watching a National Geographic show of wolves and he pointed out the pack leader and said, "Do you see that wolf. The first and strongest? That's who you should always be." Its a shame there aren't more people like him out there helping influence younger generations.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 03:46 PM
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That reminds me of the old Eddie Murphy skit about meeting some naked jungle chick Oom-Fu-Fu on a leopard but after five years in the States and making some American girlfriends she's talking about taking half and him not taking care of her needs.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 03:08 PM
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It's just like we talk about here, hold your frame and don't fall for oneitis and remember AWALT (especially once they get comfortable outside of the shitty situation they've come from). It's not easy though because you could find yourself looking at a 19 year old woman who looks like a little like Jessica Alba with a perfectly tone, tan and firm body with a tight pussy who acts like she will live to comfort and serve you. It'll be good for a while but a lot of time it's just part of the game an…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 03:05 PM
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For those of you thinking about going to Brazil or pretty much any Caribbean or Central/South American country looking for pussy I just want to remind you to keep your wits about you and don't fall for the traps. Yeah, there are a lot of women who want to marry a foreigner and move the fuck away but there are also women who are running a long con. They get guys hooked and might even marry him and have a kid or two but all the while still supporting their man back home with the bux's money. Then …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 05:02 PM
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I completely agree. As an American growing up bilingual I discovered that it wasn't that much harder to learn a few more languages and am fluent in five of them. I also travel a good deal and every woman that I used to meet would get the tingles imagining herself at my side touring the world and becoming the next instagram travel writer/photographer.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:39 PM
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One of his biggest mistakes was after he fucked her in his hotel room he told her bluntly to get the fuck out. She left in tears which people in the lobby of the hotel witnessed and testified to later on which made it easier for her and the prosecution to paint their version of events. I think the lesson to be learned is to try and leave on good terms if you can even if it's a ONS. Men really don't get the benefit of the doubt with these kinds of accusations and a lot of burden falls upon you to…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 05:46 PM
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She alleged to her friends that you were rough and possibly a little coercive to absolve herself of the guilt and shame of giving her V up casually. I'm glad you thought of mitigating the situation and also not jumping on it the first chance you had. Beta move or whatever is sure lot better than accusation, arrest, possible imprisonment, life time as a registered sex offender, etc...
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 08:37 PM
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